Living in Exile

Introduction:

Daniel 1

5 Responsibilities While We Are Away From Home:

  1. Maintain Perspective. (Dan 1:1-4)
    1. Heaven is our Home. (Dan 1:1)
    2. God is in Control. (Dan 1:2)
  2. Live as Undefiled. (Dan 1:5-8)

    Colossians 3:5-10

  3. Pray . (Dan 1:9, 2:17-18, 6:10)
    1. Pray for Wisdom
    2. Pray for Provision
    3. Pray for Leaders

Jeremiah 29:7 - But seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare.

  1. Test your Faith . (Dan 1:10-16)
  2. Do your Job . (Dan 1:17-21)

    Micah 6:8 | 1 Timothy 5:8 | Titus 3:1-2

Guest Speaker - Living in Exile
Dan Thompson

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Small Group Discussion
Read Daniel 1:1-21

  1. Do you ever feel as though you are in exile? How so?

  2. Of the responsibilities listed, which one encouraged you the most? Which one convicted you the most?

  3. What job are you neglecting? How do you plan to fix this?

Breakout
In what ways are you “defiling" yourself? Pray for repentance there and for the proposed actions above.

Dare to [Not] Compare!

Introduction:

Genesis 3:1-7

1 John 2:16 - For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world.

  1. Comparison breeds Discontent . (Gen 3:1)
  2. Comparison encourages Compromise . (Gen 3:2-5)
  3. Comparison causes Disaster . (Gen 3:6-7)

Dare to NOT Compare!

  1. Know the Word . (Gen 3:1)

    Philippians 2:3 | Hebrews 13:5 | Ephesians 5:8 | Galatians 3:26, 4:6 | Ephesians 2:4-6

  2. Take your eyes off the World .

    1 John 2:15-17

  3. Fix your eyes on Jesus .

    2 Peter 1:3

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Dare to [Not] Compare
Guest Speaker - Rich Sprunk

Small Group Discussion
Read Genesis 3:1-7

  1. What are your big takeaways from the text and/or the message?

  2. Why do you think we are so prone to compare ourselves with others?

  3. Can you think of a time when you compared yourself to another person (besides Jesus) and it produced constructive thoughts and a holy outcome?

  4. Why is knowing Scripture essential to overcoming the urge to compare?

  5. What are some practical ways we can “put off” the world and “put on” Christ?

Breakout
Pray that God will enable you more and more to fix your eyes on Jesus, and to refuse to compare yourself and your circumstances to others.

I Love an Addict… But He Doesn't Want to Change

Introduction:

See: Luke 15:11-32

2 Timothy 2:24-26 - And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil, after being captured by him to do his will.

How Can We Best Love an Addict?

  1. We let them Go .

    Proverbs 22:10 - Drive out a scoffer, and strife will go out...

  2. We Wait .
  3. We Pray .

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Done with Addiction - But He Doesn't Want to Change
Jeff Miller

Small Group Discussion
Read any of the passages from this week’s message

  1. What was your big “take-away” from the message?

  2. How do you know when an addict truly repents? What are some signs?

  3. When an addict is unrepentant, what specifically do YOU do while you wait?

  4. How do you know what course of “treatment” is best for an addict (residential, group therapy, living with a believer, etc)?

Breakout
Pray for an addicted loved one, by name, that God would grant them repentance, spare their life, and use you and others to minister the Word to them.

I Love an Addict.

Introduction:

Galatians 6:1 - Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.

How to Truly (and Lovingly) Help an Addict:

  1. Get the Facts .
  2. Biblical Confront .

See Proverbs 24:11  |   Matthew 18:15-17

When Confronting the Addict...

DO NOT:

  1. Allow blame-shifting.
  2. Allow a victim mentality.
  3. Put the blame on yourself.
  4. Get emotional.
  5. Be an enabler.
  6. Look for instant change.

Hebrews 3:13 - But exhort one another every day, as long as it is called "today," that none of you may be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin.

DO:

  1. Cry out to the Lord – for the addict and yourself.
  2. Get coaching - from a pastor and the police.
  3. Agree on the terms for helping - and the consequences for the addict not complying.
  4. Look for genuine repentance.

2 Corinthians 7:10 - For godly grief produces a repentance that leads to salvation without regret, whereas worldly grief produces death.

  1. Follow through with "Treatment".

    What should the "treatment" include?

    1. Biblical counseling.
    2. Church and Small Group involvement. - not just attending – but being involved
    3. Constant accountability.

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Done with Addiction - I Love an Addict
Jeff Miller

Small Group Discussion
Read any of the passages from this week’s message

  1. What was your big “take-away” from the message?

  2. Specifically, what are some clues that someone has an addiction?

  3. How do you know if an addict truly wants to repent? Read 2 Corinthians 7:10. What’s the difference between “godly grief / sorrow” and “worldly grief / sorrow”?

  4. What are some ways that people (unwittingly) enable addicts? Why is that such an easy trap to fall into?

  5. How do you know what course of “treatment” is best for an addict (residential, group therapy, living with a believer, etc)?

Breakout
Pray for one another to be able to recognize, and truly help, an addict that may be in your lives.