All In On Truth

Introduction:

Hebrews 10:24-25

Acts 10:42, 1 Tim 4:1-2

1 Tim 4:13

1 Tim 2:1,8 , Col 4:2

Eph 5:19, Col 3:16

John 4:23-24

All In On Truth (1 Chronicles 13:3-14)

  1. Good intentions and enthusiasm != TRUE WORSHIP.

  2. It is PERILOUS to worship God CARELESSLY .

  3. We worship God WHO IS WITH US.

    John 14:16–18

    1 Cor 3:16

    1 Cor 6:19-20

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Small Group Discussion
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1 Chronicles 13:3-14

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. What is at stake in God’s command to worship Him in truth? See, for example, another account of careless and irreverent worship in Leviticus 10:1-3.

  3. Why are good intentions and enthusiasm insufficient for worshiping God in truth? Are they better, about the same, or worse than dead, emotionless, and unresponsive “worship?”

  4. Before this message, what was your understanding of verses describing Christ

    abiding in you? (John 14:16-18, 1 Corinthians 3:16, 6:19-20)

  5. How should the fact that Christ abides in us inspire or change the way we

    worship?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

  • Good morning, Harvest, and Happy New Year. Open your Bibles, please, to 1 Chronicles,

    chapter 13. It will be in the Old Testament, 1 Chronicles, chapter 13. If you want, you

    can put a little bookmark at chapter 15, because we're going to be looking there briefly as

    well. This morning, we're beginning a three-week series on worship. Of course, there are many

    ways that we worship, prayer, preaching, proclaiming the gospel. I think it's fair to say that

    for everyone who is a believer in Christ, whatever we do is worship. Everything we do should

    be for the glory of God. There are right ways, and there are wrong ways to worship God. At

    Harvest, we follow something known as the regulative principle. That simply means that

    if a type of worship is not permitted in Scripture, we don't do it. We don't get to worship God

    however we want to. We must worship Him in the way that He commands. You may wonder,

    "Why do we do the things we do here in worship every Sunday? Who makes that up?" Well, it's

    not made up. We do what God's word says to. You'll notice that every Sunday, we meet

    together. We preach God's word. We read God's word. We pray and we sing. Now, while those

    are ways in which we are commanded to worship, this three-week series is going to focus particularly

    on worshiping through music and singing. Our starting point for all three of these messages

    is John 4 verses 23 and 24. "But the hour is coming and is now here, when the true worshipers

    will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship

    Him. God is spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth." So

    we see that from these verses, the right way to worship God is spirit and truth. In two

    weeks, Pastor Taylor is going to cover why worshiping in spirit and truth through music

    and song is so important. Next week, Pastor Jeff will take us through what it means to

    worship in spirit. And then this morning's message is about worshiping God in truth.

    So here's the point of this week's sermon. "The Lord God Almighty delights to be with

    us, but we must have regard for His holiness and worship Him according to His commands."

    You see, when we worship God that way, when we worship God in truth, it means the words

    we sing to and about Him are true. By singing true words about God, we're able to remember

    later what is true. And we learn sound doctrine. If you've ever memorized Scripture through

    singing or you've sung the old hymns that are just chock full of biblical truth, you

    know what I mean. When we worship God in truth, the truth fills us with awe. We are

    moved emotionally. We're moved physically by the truth that we sing. Now at Harvest,

    we don't use, you know, strobe lights, flashing lights, fog machines, loud music, and other

    tactics to manipulate you into thinking that you're worshiping just because you're experiencing

    one sensory overload after another. But if what we sing is true, then truth will fill

    us and flow out of us. When we worship God in truth, we recognize that singing His praises

    is of the utmost importance to Him. He's worthy of our praises. He's worthy of all our songs

    about Him. He commands our praises. He expects it. The Book of Psalms is proof of that. And

    we should therefore make every effort to worship Him the right way because that pleases and

    glorifies Him. Let's pray. Oh, most gracious God, sovereign of the universe, God most high,

    you are awesome and mighty, and you are worthy of all praise. You are worthy of all of our

    attention. You are worthy of every thought. You are worthy of every song we can sing.

    Because Lord, you are holy and you dwell in the praises of your people. I pray this morning

    that we would overflow in worshipful song because we know the truth. We know the trite

    truth of who Jesus Christ is and what He has done for us and that He is in us. And it's

    in His great name. We ask it. Amen.

    Now this morning's passage recounts when David wanted to bring the Ark of the Covenant,

    the Ark of God, to Jerusalem to be near him. The passage contrasts the wrong way to worship

    God with the right expression of awe and reverence for God Almighty. Before we dive into this

    message, I need to give you some background. We need to do a brief history lesson. So you

    probably all know God chose and called the people of Israel out of Egypt so that he could

    be with them. And the primary way that he demonstrated his presence with the people

    of Israel was through a movable tabernacle. That's simply a large tent and it was surrounded

    by a big fabric courtyard and poles. But inside the tent there were two separate places. There

    was the holy place and that was furnished with the Ark of Incense and a table in which bread

    was placed every week and a lamp, a gold lamp to give light. And then on the eastern side

    of this tent was basically a cube-shaped area. It was about 15 by 15 by 15. It was a perfect

    cube and that was the most holy place, the Holy of Holies. And it contained the Ark

    of the Covenant. In other places in Scripture it's called the Ark of God or the Ark of

    Testimony. Now in Exodus 25 God gave some very specific directions for the Ark's construction

    and its significance. It was a wooden box. It was about 45 inches long, 27 inches high,

    27 inches wide. Not that big. And then the wood was overlaid with gold and then on top

    was a solid gold lid. It was all hammered out of one piece of gold and there were two

    cherubim on the top. So this is just a very simple example of what it might look like.

    We can't really speak in detail now about what the Ark looked like but we have the description

    in Scripture. Now this lid with the cherubim was also called the Mercy Seat and it was

    significant for several reasons. One, the Lord was said to be enthroned above the cherubim.

    And two, the Lord spoke to Moses from between the cherubim. And then a third reason is on

    the annual day of atonement the high priest would enter the Holy of Holies and he would

    sprinkle blood on the lid to atone for the people's sins. And it's in this way that the

    Lord tabernacled or dwelled between the two cherubim on the lid of the Ark. In this way

    the Lord was present with his people and the people knew God was with them because in the

    daytime there was a pillar of cloud over the tabernacle and at night it became a pillar

    of fire and whenever that pillar moved up and forward it was safe for the Levites, the

    priests to go in, pack up the Ark, pack up the tabernacle and move it to wherever God

    was leading them. He took them wherever he wanted them to go. Now God also gave very

    specific instructions about how the Ark was to be moved and by whom. Only the Levites

    and of the Levites a clan called the Coethites were allowed to carry the holy things including

    the Ark. Now this Ark was meant to be portable. It was carried on poles, passed through gold

    rings that those rings were attached to the feet of the Ark and in that way the Ark was

    lifted up over the priests heads when they carried it so all the people could see the

    Ark was with them. Now these poles were never supposed to be removed from the Ark and before

    the Ark was moved it was supposed to be hidden. They put a big goat skin over it and then

    they covered it with a blue cloth and then that's they would pick it up and they would

    move it. Now let's move ahead in time about 400 years to the end of the period of the

    judges in 1 Samuel. At that time there was a man named Eli. He was the high priest and

    during this time the Israelites fought a battle against their arch enemies the Philistines

    and they were defeated. The Philistines walloped the Israelites and they were like, "Oh what

    are we going to do? What are we going to do? Wait no, let's go bring the Ark of the testimony

    to us. Let's bring it into the camp with us thinking this will bring us victory." And

    they were instead defeated in a very great slaughter. And Eli's two sons they were killed

    and the Ark was captured by the Philistines and taken away. When Eli heard his sons were

    dead and the Ark was captured he fell backwards over on his chair and broke his neck and he

    died. This had to be a terribly bleak time for Israel. Their God, their God was captured.

    They had no priests, they had no prophets and as yet they had no king. Their whole identity

    as a people has been overthrown in a day. Now the Philistines they took the Ark to the

    city of Ashtad and they put it in the temple of their God named Dagon. And the statue of

    Dagon fell face down in front of the Ark. So they picked him back up and set him up

    again. They come in the next day and this time the God Dagon has fallen over again but this

    time his head is busted off and his hands are broken off. And something else happens.

    The Lord begins terrifying the people of Ashtad with plague and tumors and death. So the Philistines

    and Ashtad they take the Ark to Gath, another Philistine city. And the people there also

    suffered from plague and tumors and death. So they pick it up and they move it again

    to the city of Ekron and guess what happens? The people there experience plague, sickness,

    death. And they go, "Okay, enough of this. Enough of this." They decide to return the

    Ark to Israel after seven months of being afflicted by God. So the Philistines, they

    say, "What do we do with this?" They put the Ark on a brand new cart and they hitch it to

    two milking cows. And the cows, instead of trying to go back to be with their calves,

    their babies, they instead they go straight up to a place in Israel called Beth Shemesh.

    The Israelites at Beth Shemesh, they rejoiced to see the Ark returned. But when some of

    the men of Beth Shemesh apparently looked into the Ark, the Lord struck down 70 of them.

    So the people of Beth Shemesh asked the people in another town called Keryth Jerem,

    "Come and get the Ark from us." Which they did. So the men of Keryth Jerem brought the Ark to the

    house of a man named Abinadab. They consecrated his son Eliezer to oversee it. And the Ark

    remained there, the Bible says, for some 20 years. Now after David becomes king, you know,

    this is a period of time Saul was king, he is dead, Jonathan is dead, David has become king,

    he is now established in Jerusalem as his capital. And David's got this idea, he wants to bring the

    Ark of God from Keryth Jerem to Jerusalem. So David gets all the commanders, all the priests,

    and the Levites together to get their concurrence with his idea. And now we pick up at our account

    in Chronicles chapter 13. "Then let us bring again the Ark of our God to us," David says.

    "For we did not seek it in the days of Saul. All the people agreed to do so, for the thing was

    right in the eyes of all the people." So David assembled all Israel from the Nile of Egypt to

    Lebohamed to bring the Ark of God from Keryth Jerem. And David and all Israel went up to Bala,

    that is Keryth Jerem, that belongs to Judah, to bring up from there the Ark of God, which is

    called by the name of the Lord who sits enthroned above the cherubim. And they carried the Ark of

    God on a new cart from the house of Abinadab. And Uzzah and Ohio were driving the cart. And David

    and all Israel were celebrating before God with all their might, with song and liars and harps

    and tambourines and symbols and trumpets. So this is quite a procession, quite a big celebration.

    It brings us to our first point. Good intentions and enthusiasm don't equal true worship.

    There are some huge red flags in this account. As king, actually David's a prince really,

    because the Lord is still the true king. You know the Bible calls David King David?

    He's really a prince of the true king. But as King David wants God's presence near him.

    The Lord has established David and Jerusalem over Israel and to have the Ark of the Covenant

    nearby would really cement the relationship between God and the house of David.

    It was a shrewd religious and political move on David's part.

    But notice in this account David doesn't seek God's counsel about moving the Ark.

    David knew what he wanted. And he apparently expected God to bless this plan. It's a good

    thing, right? Bring the Ark up to Jerusalem. I mean, after all God had blessed David up to this point.

    So David just gathers counselors around him to agree with him and they go off and they do just

    whatever it is they want to do. And you notice the phrase, "The thing was right in the eyes of all

    the people." If you're familiar with the book of Judges, you know there's flashing red lights and

    warning sirens going off all over the place. The leaders of Israel may have all agreed,

    but if something is wrong, widespread agreement doesn't make it right.

    Not one of the priests, Sir Levite, seemed to have suggested consulting the Lord

    or the Law of Moses before doing this thing. And then to move the Ark, what do they do?

    They put it on a cart. "Oh, but it was a new cart," you say. "Well, let's should please the Lord,

    right? Look, Lord, Lord, Lord, look at this fancy set of wheels we got for you. Aren't you impressed?

    Finest Cedar from Lebanon. The problem is they're copying the Philistines

    rather than consulting God or the Law of Moses." So they got the Ark all loaded up.

    They got a big procession, almost 30,000 people. Can you imagine? 30,000 people. That's 12,000 more

    people than fit in PPG Paints Arena, just for perspective. 30,000 people with David,

    and they're celebrating with all their might, and they're singing and praising with lots of

    instruments, the liars, the harps, castanets, cymbals, trumpets. They have every intention

    of worshiping the Lord, and they're super enthused. And this is just all quite a spectacle. It looks

    impressive. It sounds good, but they're more interested in putting it on a show than worshiping

    God. It was more about their worship experience. It was more about what David wanted than worshiping

    the Lord. It was more about what they perceived God would approve without confirming than it was

    about worshiping God as he commanded. And that's the core problem here. They're not worshiping the

    Lord the way he commanded. They're not worshiping in truth. They don't even seem to have the slightest

    interest in truth. Where? Where was the counsel of the high priest in the Levites? Where was prayer

    in the simple request, Lord, what do you want? Where are the coethites and the poles to carry the

    ark above the heads of the people? Where is the reverence and the awe due to the Lord?

    Now, you can manufacture enthusiasm while singing. You know, that's why so many churches, they use

    the lights and the fog and the beautiful moving images and the sonic walls of ear-popping sounds

    and drums and squealing singers gesturing wildly. It looks worshipy. It sounds worshipy. It probably

    even feels worshipy. Therefore, I must be worshiping God. Have you ever heard people say, "Oh, worship

    today was great." I had a great worship experience. Have you ever said that? Who was it that made it

    the worship great? The sonic boom or the truth of God? Did you sing songs about yourself or songs

    that praise God's character, mercy, grace, and love? Were you pleased with yourself or did you

    please your God by worshiping Him in truth? Now, some of you hearing this are probably congratulating

    yourself right now. That's right, Sprunk. That's right. I agree with everything you've said.

    All that exuberance, it's all fake. It's all performance. I just don't see what all the fuss

    is about. Why? That's why when they're singing going on, I just keep my cool. I keep my reserve.

    Well, good. If you're thinking along those lines, that's good because this next point is just for you

    because just as good intentions and enthusiasm don't equal true worship, it is perilous to worship

    God carelessly. Look at verse 9. "And when they came to the threshing floor of Chaitan, Azza put out

    his hand to take hold of the ark for the oxen stumbled, and the anger of the Lord was kindled

    against Azza, and he struck him down because he put his hand to the ark, and he died there before God.

    And David was angry because the Lord had broken out against Azza, and that place is called Paris

    Azza to this day. And David was afraid of God that day, and he said, 'How can I bring the ark of God

    home to me?' So David did not take the ark home into the city of David, but took it aside to the

    house of Obed Edom the Getite. And the ark of God remained with the household of Obed Edom in his

    house three months, and the Lord blessed the household of Obed Edom and all that he had.

    And we may be shocked that God struck down Azza for touching the ark.

    I mean, can you imagine this procession of 30,000 people and boom, Azza's dead?

    Well, that would take the wind out of the celebration, wouldn't it?

    Try to think what that might have looked like. Well, if you were in Butler on July 18, 2024,

    and there was an assassination attempt, you probably know what it felt like.

    If you saw Charlie Kirk murdered, that's what it was like.

    But God struck Azza down, and you may think, 'Well, what's the big deal? Why did he do that?

    They were worshiping.' Well, we've seen there were multiple things wrong with the way David

    and the Israelites treated the ark of God. Number one, they copied the Philistines.

    They're worshiping like pagans, and pagans don't know the truth. They treated the Holy Lord, God

    Most High, the Holy Lord of Israel, shabbily. They treated God like baggage in a wooden cart.

    They were careless and unconcerned whether their worship obeyed the truth or expressed the truth.

    And we know Israel had a history of careless, half-hearted worship.

    We saw that in the Book of Judges, the people after they were settled in the land,

    they became idolatrous and careless in their worship. They served other gods, and they treated the ark

    as if it was some sort of good luck charm, a lucky rabbit's foot.

    They had no qualms about taking the ark from the Holy of Holies and carrying it around wherever

    they liked. 'Take it down to the battle,' they said. 'God will fight for us,' they said.

    'You've got another thing coming,' God said. And everything was lost because of their insolence.

    The Philistines, they thought they had completely defeated the Israelites.

    'We've captured Israel's God,' they said.

    'We'll put him in the temple of our God, Dagon, and he'll worship our God,' they said.

    'You've got another thing coming,' God said. For their insolence, God busted up Dagon and

    afflicted the Philistines with sickness and death until they sent the ark back to Israelite territory.

    And after the ark returned to Israel's territory, the people of Beth Shemesh

    wanted to get a look at the most holy thing in the nation.

    They treated the ark like a curiosity, as something that they were consecrated and qualified

    to look at. 'Oh, God has returned to us,' they said. 'Let's sacrifice the cows and worship,' they said.

    'Let's look inside,' they said. 'You've got another thing coming,' God said.

    And seventy men of Beth Shemesh were struck down for their insolence.

    And then twenty years after the ark was moved to Curious Gerum, David proposes to bring the ark

    to Jerusalem. 'God's established me as king over Israel,' he said. 'It's right in our own eyes to

    bring the ark to Jerusalem,' they said. 'Let's put it on a new cart,' like the Philistines did,

    they said. 'Let's worship and celebrate with all our might and loud instruments,' they said.

    'You've got another thing coming,' God said. And as it was struck down for the people's insolence,

    you see, David and the priests and the Israelites treated God with contempt, and God said, 'Enough.'

    And David was rightly afraid of God, but no, he was also angry. But it was a self-pitying

    anger. David was angry because he didn't get his way. He was angry like Cain when God rejected

    Cain's act of self-centered worship. Angry like someone who knows he hasn't done his best,

    he hasn't done something right, but he wants approval anyway. But God is not mocked. God was

    not going to allow David and the priests to disobey his commands and still claim that they were

    worshiping him properly. We should see that it is perilous to worship God carelessly.

    David had to learn, and although the text doesn't say, perhaps he repented of his irreverent worship.

    He was, after all, a man after God's own heart. And when he heard that Obed Edom was blessed

    by God, he realized it was possible to bring the ark to Jerusalem. But he had to do it the right way.

    So turn your head to 1 Chronicles 15. We're going to look at verses 11 through 15.

    Then David summoned the priests Zadok and Abayathar and the Levites, Uriel, Asiah, Joel,

    Shamiah, Eliel and Abinadab, and said to them, "You are the heads of the Father's houses of the Levites.

    Consecrate yourselves, you and your brothers, so that you may bring up the ark of the Lord,

    the God of Israel, to the place I have prepared for it. Because you did not carry it the first time

    the Lord our God broke out against us, because we did not seek him according to the rule."

    So the priests and the Levites consecrated themselves to bring up the ark of the Lord,

    the God of Israel. And the Levites carried the ark of God on their shoulders with the poles,

    as Moses had commanded according to the word of the Lord.

    This time David does it the right way. The priests consecrate themselves. They prepare

    through sacrifice and washing and abstaining from anything that would make them ritually unclean.

    Each one got himself ready for worship. They follow the Lord's command when they carry the ark.

    They lift up the ark and they revere the Lord as holy in the sight of all the people.

    In short, they now worship according to the word of the Lord. And the Lord showed he was pleased

    with their reverence by allowing David to finally bring the ark to Jerusalem.

    Likewise, when we worship the Lord in truth and according to his command, he is pleased.

    All right, so you've been listening intently to all of this. You've been maybe taking some notes

    and you understand good intentions and enthusiasm don't necessarily equal true worship.

    You recognize it's perilous to worship God carelessly. You may even be persuaded that you need

    to worship the Lord in truth. But how? How do we do this? And what does that even look like?

    Well, we worship in truth when we worship God who is with us.

    When I was preparing this sermon, I recall seeing a series of memes a few years ago that

    contrasted an event or thing that was brutal with another thing or event that was epic.

    So I asked some folks familiar with cutting edge technology, cutting edge social media,

    you know, like MySpace and Vine and Friendster. Did you guys remember those memes?

    And they're like, no, we I don't remember that at all. And I'm like, well, aren't you people on

    parlor? Well, anyway, anyway, I know, I know I did not imagine those memes that juxtapose brutal

    and epic themes. Now, have you have you ever encountered a brutal or brute fact

    that has set or altered your plans, perhaps altered the trajectory of your life?

    You know, brute facts are hard, unalterable truths and incurable illness being laid off

    and debilitating injury. Now, not all brute facts are so dramatic, but we have to reckon

    with them. We must adapt and come to terms with them.

    When I was in 10th grade, I had the ambition to row in college. And one day, the University of

    Washington's head coach visited our school. The University of Washington has one of the premier

    rowing programs, collegiate programs in the country. And their head coach came to our school after

    our men's heavyweight four won the American Schoolboy Championship. Now, I wasn't in that boat,

    but I was pretty excited about this coach's visit. And I was standing in the hallway and he shook my

    hand and they nice to meet you. And the brute fact was brought home to me that his interest was in

    Orsman, who were five foot 10 and taller. I had to face the brute fact that I was too short to row

    for any college program. I still am. Now, now that might seem like a silly example, but our lives

    are filled with inalterable facts. They are the truths we must face. Our intellectual and physical

    characteristics can only be changed so much. Some of our earlier poor choices in life may have had

    consequences for the rest of our life. Choices or decisions made by others may affect our careers,

    our health, our relationships. All of us must face a variety of inconsequential to life altering

    brutal facts. But there is one glorious fact so enormous in its scope, so epic in its immeasurable

    proportions that all the brute facts of our lives pale in comparison. There is an epic truth that

    ought to completely transform how we think, how we live, and yes, how we worship. It is quite simply

    this. If you have trusted Jesus Christ for salvation, he abides in you. Christ in you is your hope of

    glory. It is very simple. I repent, I believe in Jesus, and now I possess Jesus. Now, recall from

    the introduction of this message that when God wanted to dwell with his chosen people, he did so

    through the Ark of the Covenant. That simple box containing two tablets of the law and placed in

    the most holy place was how God chose to tabernacle with and dwell with and be with his people.

    John chapter one verse 14 tells us the word became flesh and dwelt among us.

    The word translated dwelt there is literally tabernacle. Jesus tabernacled among us. Jesus

    was the most holy place, the holy of holies in the flesh walking among his people.

    The world's religious systems have nothing like this. We understand God is absolute power,

    but yet he's personal. Islam has an absolute God in Allah, but he is in no way personal to his people.

    Zeus and the variety of Greek and Roman gods, they were personal. They looked very human,

    but not a single one of them had absolute power.

    Christianity is unique in the fact that the absolute sovereign of the universe

    humbly dwells with us in a personal way. There is no other religion, no other system

    that compares with, comes close to the way of Christ.

    Now you might say, well, he's not tabernacling or dwelling with us now, is he?

    I mean, even the most ardent followers of Christ can get a bit muddled in their thinking about

    Jesus' present location. I mean, I thought he ascended to heaven. He's at the right hand of

    God the Father. Well, he did. He is there. But if you stop there, you may tend to think that Jesus

    is far away from us. You might think he's like a regional supervisor in a big corporation.

    He's given us a list of commands to follow. We got to check off our list to make sure we're good.

    And, you know, he checks in occasionally to see how we're doing. And, you know, he approves or

    critiques our performance. We have weekly meetings, right? Every Sunday we have weekly meetings.

    We get a message from headquarters. We have a musical pep rally. And then we get on with our week.

    Well, if you think in any way like that about Jesus, you are mistaken. Jesus is not limited

    by time or space or location. When you think that way about worshiping Jesus, you neglect this great

    truth from John chapter 14 verses 16 through 18. Jesus told his disciples, "I will ask the Father,

    and he will give you another helper to be with you forever, even the spirit of truth whom the world

    cannot receive because it neither sees him nor knows him. You know him, for he dwells with you

    and will be in you. I will not leave you as orphans. I will come to you."

    So, where is Jesus? Yes, at the right hand of the Father and present in everyone who believes in

    him through the Holy Spirit. First Corinthians reinforces this truth. Look at verse 16 in

    chapter 3. "Do you not know that you are God's temple and that God's spirit dwells in you?"

    And then chapter 6 verses 19 and 20. "Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit

    within you whom you have from God? You are not your own. You were bought with a price,

    so glorify God in your body." The Greek word translated as temple in these verses is naos,

    and AOS, naos. And it refers to the most holy place, the holy of holies, where the ark was kept.

    You see, beloved, we are living, breathing portable tabernacles, holy places in whom Christ

    abides. And the law is now written on our hearts instead of stone tablets. We must embrace this

    truth and worship in it and out of it and through it. The Spirit of Christ in you

    ought to be calling out to the Father and worshiping him in truth. This awesome, glorious,

    almighty, inipotent Creator and Master of the heavens and earth humbly dwells with you

    and makes you his friend. Jesus promises to abide in us and he calls us to come and abide in him.

    What is your response? Maybe you're hearing this truth for the first time and you're overjoyed

    by this jaw-dropping reality and you're ready to praise him in song right now.

    Or maybe you've just considered this in passing, but you think that holy spirit stuff,

    isn't that for the charismatic? And I don't feel, I don't feel the Spirit of God dwelling in me.

    It's not about feeling. The Spirit of God in dwelling all believers is presented as a statement

    of fact. It is true of all believers. Look again at 1 Corinthians chapter 6, 19 and 20.

    Do you not know your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, not outside of you?

    We don't have to ask him to come and visit us in this place. We don't have to ask him to fall on

    us or anything like that. He is always with us in us. You're not your own. You were bought with a price.

    So glorify God in your body. This is not some charismatic mumbo jumbo. You don't need a second

    baptism. You don't need an infilling of the Holy Spirit because when you heard the word of truth,

    the gospel of your salvation and you believed in Jesus, you were sealed with the promised Holy

    Spirit. You have all the fullness of Christ in you right now. You have all of him that you could

    ever need. All of us together being built up into a holy temple have all the fullness of Christ in us.

    Everything that is his, his ours already, you don't need more of him. He simply wants more of you.

    Every day he calls you to abide more deeply in him. Here's the problem.

    Some, maybe many of you don't live in this truth and you don't worship out of it.

    Maybe it's because you're just learning about it. Maybe it's because you don't understand the scope

    of this epic truth yet. But it would be really, really bad if you understood this truth.

    And up to this point in time, you've been careless about it.

    You know, it's okay if I'm habitually late to worship. I don't feel like singing anyway, you say.

    You hang out in the kitchen area and you chit chat with friends because fellowship is more important

    than singing, you say. When you are present, your hands are in your pockets, your arms are crossed,

    you won't open your mouth to sing. God knows I can't sing. He doesn't expect it, you say.

    It's my choice whether I sing, even if the Lord commands it, you say.

    You, you may have another thing coming. You treat God shabbily and carelessly. You don't

    value or appreciate the truth that he dwells in you. Instead, you act like he's remote and

    disinterested. Instead of deep calling out to deep, you quench the spirit and you instantly

    behave in a way that's right in your own eyes with such worship. God is not pleased and you are

    testing his patience. Repent, repent right now and every day this week for treating the Lord Jesus

    Christ with contempt, repent and earnestly seek his face. Here is your assignment this week. Read

    and reread John 14 verses 15 through 23 and then get flat on your face and ask him to reveal both

    in your heart and your mind the truth that he dwells with you. Ask him to help you to live

    and praise out of the truth that you are his tabernacle. He delights to dwell with you

    and he delights to hear you sing his praises. Now the worship team is going to come back up

    and help us to worship the Lord in truth. Singing his praise is of the utmost importance to him.

    Right now, you have the opportunity to praise the Lord in truth. Right now, make every effort to

    get yourself to the throne of grace with your brothers and sisters and glorify your father and

    your savior in truth. Because if you didn't know it before today, you do now. You were redeemed

    to worship and glorify him. It is your purpose and privilege to worship God who is with us.

    Our closing prayer this morning is from Psalm 98. Oh, sing to the Lord a new song for he has done

    marvelous things. His right hand and his holy arm have worked salvation for him. The Lord has made

    known his salvation. He has revealed his righteousness in the sight of the nations. He has remembered

    his steadfast love and faithfulness to the house of Israel. All the ends of the earth have seen

    the salvation of our God. Make a joyful noise to the Lord all the earth. Break forth into joy

    a song and sing praises. Sing praises to the Lord with the lyre, with the lyre and the sound of melody,

    with trumpets and the sound of the horn. Make a joyful noise before the King, the Lord. Amen.

I Want to Be Like God

Introduction:

Psalm 115:8 – Those who make them become like them; so do all who trust in them.

Ephesians 5:1 – Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children.

Hebrews 10:28 - Anyone who has set aside the law of Moses dies without mercy on the evidence of two or three witnesses.

John 8:1-11

I Want to Be Like God (John 1:14–18)

  1. Grace without TRUTH = Not like Jesus.

  2. Truth without GRACE = Not like Jesus.

  3. GRACE and TRUTH = Like Jesus.

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Small Group Discussion
Read
John 1:14-18

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Define “glory” (John 1:14). What did John actually see when he says “we have seen His glory”?

  3. Do you tend to lean more towards “grace” or “truth” when dealing with someone’s sin? Why? What do you need to do to be “full of grace and truth” like Jesus?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

  • Turn in your Bibles to John chapter 1.

    While you're turning there,

    just going to ask,

    we pause for a second and I would ask that you would

    please pray for me to be faithful to communicate God's word.

    I will pray for you to have a heart open to receive

    what it is God is telling us here tonight in this passage.

    All right? Let's pray.

    Father, we thank you for your word.

    It's easy tonight to get so caught up in,

    I guess the decorations and the sentimentality and all of that.

    But God, this is really no different to what we normally do.

    We come to worship you, come to know you,

    come to hear from your word.

    I just ask Father that your spirit be at work with your word today.

    In a profound way,

    make us into the people that you've called us to be.

    We pray in Jesus' name.

    And all of God's people said,

    "Amen, you become like that which you worship."

    It's a true statement.

    "You become like that which you worship."

    You know, it's really obvious in children.

    I mean, just looking back at my life,

    if you would have found me in the late 70s, early 80s,

    I would have been walking around with torn pants

    and a torn shirt because I was the Incredible Hulk.

    Remember that show, "Lufa Rigno"?

    That was me.

    "Aah!"

    Oh, then you go forward just a couple of years

    and I would have been running around the house

    with a sword fighting Skeletor.

    By the power of Grayskull, I was he-man.

    Right?

    And then you go forward a few more years,

    early 90s, grunge.

    Ironically, I once again had ripped pants on

    and the flannel shirt, the mop hair.

    And you can laugh and make fun of me all you want,

    but I know some of you got hammered pants in your closet.

    Some of you ladies back then had a Debbie Gibson haircut

    because you become like that which you worship.

    It wasn't even my idea, actually.

    The Bible says this.

    Psalm 115 verse 8 says, "Regarding idols,

    it says those who make them become like them.

    So to all who trust in them,

    you become like that which you worship."

    And then we come to church.

    We come to church and the truth is still the same

    because Ephesians 5:1 says, "Therefore,

    we imitators of God as beloved children."

    Like, well, how do we imitate God?

    By worshiping Him.

    That's how.

    It starts with worshiping Him.

    You're like, "Okay, all right, but how in the world,

    even worshiping Him, how can I imitate God?"

    And you know, I think that's one of the most awesome things

    about the incarnation of Jesus Christ.

    What we're celebrating at Christmas, God became a man.

    And I think that's one of the most awesome things.

    One of the most glorious things is that we get to see

    what God's holiness and love looks like in a human

    on this planet interacting with other humans.

    It's not conceptual. We've seen it.

    Yeah, the Christmas story. It's a familiar story, right?

    You know, you've got the manger and the shepherds and the light.

    But that's Matthew and Luke's version.

    Matthew and Luke in your Bible give the historical version.

    But we're looking at John this year.

    And John gives the theological version.

    That God became something He's never been without ceasing to be

    what He's always been.

    It's the miracle of Christmas.

    God entered the world through childbirth,

    becoming a real human being while remaining God.

    So, what do you want for Christmas?

    When we started this series, we said, "I want to know God."

    The only way you can know God is through Jesus.

    Jesus is the revelation of God.

    He is the living Word of God, right?

    Then on Sunday, Pastor Taylor gave a message,

    "I want to belong to God."

    The only way you belong to God also is through Jesus Christ.

    It's through Jesus, through His death and His resurrection,

    that our sins can be forgiven,

    that we can have the promise of eternal life,

    that we can be adopted children of God.

    Tonight, I want to be like God.

    What do you want for Christmas?

    Really, all I want is to be like God.

    This section we're looking at talks about the glory of Jesus Christ.

    Those who received Him get to know how glorious our God is.

    And when we worship Him, we do become like Him.

    Look at verse 14 in John chapter 1.

    It says, "The Word became flesh and dwelt among us,

    and we have seen His glory,

    glory as of the only Son from the Father,

    full of grace and truth."

    Mark that.

    Grace and truth.

    Full of grace and truth.

    Verse 15.

    "John bore witness about Him and cried out,

    'This was He of whom I said,

    'He who comes after Me ranks before Me,

    because He was before Me.'"

    And from His fullness,

    we have all received grace upon grace.

    I love that last phrase, "Grace upon grace."

    It's just waves and waves and waves of grace.

    That's Jesus.

    He's not stingy with His grace.

    And He tells us in verse 16 that

    we've received from His fullness.

    We've received from the fullness of grace.

    You know what that means?

    We're always in,

    if you belong to Jesus,

    you're always in the waves and waves of His grace.

    Meaning, I can't say,

    "Well, I came to Christ in 1995.

    Boy, you should have seen me back then.

    I really needed His grace back then.

    I need His grace just as much today

    as I did then.

    And if I live tomorrow,

    I'm going to need His grace just as much tomorrow

    as I do today and as I did then."

    But that's the good news.

    He says, "Grace upon grace upon grace,

    that if you're in Christ,

    you're always in it."

    He just keeps on giving it to us.

    "On your best day, you're in His grace.

    On your worst day, you're in His grace."

    Look at verse 17.

    He says, "For the law was given through Moses.

    Grace and truth came through Jesus Christ."

    There it is again.

    Grace and truth.

    Grace and truth.

    The law though, he mentions the law.

    The law came through Moses.

    There was no grace in the law.

    Like you read your Old Testaments.

    There's only judgment.

    You break the law.

    You're guilty.

    In fact, the New Testament talks about that

    in Hebrews chapter 10.

    Anyone who has set aside the law of Moses

    dies without mercy in the evidence

    of two or three witnesses.

    There's no mercy.

    Just guilt.

    That's what the law does.

    The law kills.

    The law only shows you that you are a sinner.

    Yet, through Jesus comes...

    Did you see it again?

    Grace and truth.

    What's showing us is that there's a stark contrast

    to the law with what came in Jesus Christ.

    Verse 18 kind of sums up the whole passage.

    It really sums up everything

    that we're celebrating at Christmas.

    Here it is.

    No one has ever seen God.

    The only God who is at the Father's side,

    He has made Him known.

    God the Son has made God known.

    One is saying, "We saw everything that is God.

    We saw that in Jesus Christ."

    So what's He like?

    What has God shown us

    of His character in Jesus Christ?

    I mean, what's He like?

    Well, you notice in this passage,

    He said it in verse 14,

    and He said it in verse 17.

    If you were to say,

    "Describe God in two words."

    He does.

    He says, "Here's what God is like."

    Two words.

    Grace and truth.

    Those two words exemplified

    who Jesus Christ is,

    who is the perfect expression

    of who God is.

    Grace and truth.

    I want to talk about grace and truth

    for a few minutes.

    What is grace?

    Well, grace is compassion.

    It's mercy.

    Grace is kindness and patience.

    Grace is forgiveness.

    Read your Bibles.

    Jesus always manifests

    just a tender, loving grace.

    So He's full of grace,

    but it also says He's full of truth.

    Truth.

    Jesus always spoke the truth.

    Read your Bibles.

    Jesus always upheld the authority

    of God's Word.

    Jesus never told half truths.

    Jesus never minimized the truth.

    Jesus never downplayed Scripture,

    contradicted the Old Testament.

    Jesus never sugar-coated it.

    He never watered it down.

    And He never, not once, ever did He

    apologize for what the Bible says.

    I want to be like God.

    And when we look at this character of Jesus,

    it is astounding, full of grace and truth,

    simultaneously, full.

    And we could have this temptation

    to just kind of step back

    and admire that like, "Wow, isn't that awesome?

    Isn't that an awesome representation of God?"

    But you know, and we should do that, yes.

    But the Bible doesn't tell us

    that we should just admire the character of Jesus.

    The Bible tells us that Jesus' character

    isn't something just to impress us.

    The Bible says that we should imitate His character.

    I mean, so many times, right,

    we are called to imitate Jesus.

    Matthew 11, Jesus says, "Learn from Me."

    John 13, He was washing the disciples' grimy feet.

    And Jesus said, "I'm doing this to show you an example

    that you should do the same."

    Philippians 2, Paul says, "Have this mind,

    which is yours in Christ Jesus."

    1 Peter 2, 21 that Pastor Rich just read,

    says that Jesus is an example,

    and we should follow in His steps.

    And then we turn to John 1 here,

    and it says, verse 16, "From His fullness

    we have all received

    that we don't worship a distant God.

    We worship a God according to this

    who is to be received."

    You see, I can stand up here,

    and I can talk for hours about Grace and Truth.

    Don't worry, I know it's Christmas, I'm not going to.

    But I could.

    But unless you've received Jesus Christ,

    this isn't going to matter.

    Because the Bible tells us that when we truly receive Him,

    God puts His Spirit in us

    so that we are able to imitate His character.

    So that we can truly be His image-bearers.

    That Jesus was full of Grace and Truth,

    perfectly full of both 100% Grace and 100% Truth.

    And this is the profound thing.

    Jesus was never one or the other.

    Never lopsided, never compromising one over the other,

    never wanted the expense of another.

    John makes it clear, he says,

    "This is what God is like, Jesus Christ."

    And if there are two words that sum up

    the kind of God we worship, it's Grace and Truth.

    And we have to get that,

    because if we're to worship God

    and therefore imitate God,

    if we're to represent God to the world,

    we have to imitate Grace and Truth

    as displayed by Jesus.

    So you know what our problem is.

    Our problem is we are not perfectly full of Grace and Truth.

    And the reality is each of us have a tendency to lean

    more towards one than the other.

    Some of you are more Grace people.

    And some of you are more Truth people.

    And I just want to show you tonight that

    you can't be content to lean in one direction or the other,

    because that's not like Jesus at all.

    Like, well, can you give me an example?

    Yeah, there is an example I want to show you.

    Look at John 8.

    He just turned over in your Bibles a few pages.

    I want you to see.

    We're just going to read this and reference this.

    But if there's one story from Jesus' life

    that demonstrates this full of Grace and full of Truth

    at the same time, character,

    if there's one story that would show that, it's this one.

    John 8 says,

    "They want each to his own house,

    but Jesus went to the Mount of Olives.

    Early in the morning, he came again to the temple.

    All the people came to him and he sat down and taught them,

    the scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman

    who had been caught in adultery.

    And placing her in the midst, they said to him,

    'Teacher, this woman has been caught in the act of adultery.'

    Now, in the law, Moses commanded us

    to stone such women.

    What do you say?'

    This they said to test him

    that they might have some charge to bring against him.

    Jesus bent down and wrote with His finger on the ground.

    And as they continued to ask Him, He stood up and said to them,

    'Let him who is without sin among you

    be the first to throw a stone at her.'

    And once more He bent down and wrote on the ground.

    But when they heard it, they went away one by one,

    beginning with the older ones,

    and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before Him.

    Jesus stood up and said to her,

    'Woman, where are they?

    Has no one condemned you?'

    She said, 'No, Lord.'

    And Jesus said,

    Look at this.

    Jesus said, 'Neither do I condemn you.'

    'Go, and from now on sin no more.'

    So if you have an outline,

    and you're taking notes which we always encourage you to do,

    I want you to jot a couple of things down here.

    I want to be like God.

    Number one, grace without truth is not like Jesus.

    Grace without truth?

    That's not like Jesus.

    Grace without truth is weak enabling.

    Never holding people accountable.

    You ignore the transformation power of the Holy Spirit.

    You disregard the truth that God says in His Word

    that we are called to righteousness and holy living.

    People who lean more towards grace

    care more about being liked than they care about what's right and wrong.

    But I want you to see in this account in John 8,

    Jesus wasn't just grace.

    He didn't say to the woman,

    'I affirm you.

    You do you, ma'am.'

    And look, don't worry about what the Bible says.

    I mean, they're quoting the Law of Moses.

    That was a long time ago.

    That's not really for us.

    'I affirm you, ma'am.'

    He didn't say that.

    He wasn't just grace.

    You see, Jesus brought truth into it.

    Jesus says, 'Go, and from now on sin no more.'

    What Jesus said was,

    'Adultry dishonors God.'

    Hey, stop living like that.

    Okay?

    Stop living like that.

    And church, when we are content to overlook sin,

    when we're content to avoid the hard conversations,

    when we're ready to affirm people in their sin,

    that's not like Jesus.

    And now the truth people are like,

    'Yeah, give it to Him.

    Give it to the grace people.

    Hang on, truth people,

    because truth without grace is not like Jesus either.'

    Now look, I know the truth people.

    We've been around some truth people, haven't we, Aaron?

    Right now the truth people are like,

    'Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.'

    How in the world could it be?

    Like, I thought Harvest Bible Chapter,

    I thought Bible was your middle name.

    Like truth is all that matters, right?

    Truth.

    It's truth that matters.

    How in the world could you have truth without grace?

    We realize in John 1.17 he told us.

    He told us again, John 1.17,

    'For the law was given through Moses.'

    Do you know what that is?

    Do you know what the law is?

    It's truth without grace.

    So let me ask you, was the law truth?

    This is a shouted out verbal reply question.

    Was the law truth?

    Yes, it was.

    It is.

    No, it was, it is.

    The law is truth.

    100% every letter of God's law in the Old Testament is truth.

    But there was no grace in the law.

    We referenced this earlier.

    This is how the law works.

    Oh, you broke the law.

    You're guilty.

    Now it's time for your punishment.

    Next, that's how the law worked.

    And truth without grace leads to cold, detached transactions with other people.

    That's truth without grace.

    You messed up.

    You're done.

    You're done.

    It leads to harsh judgment.

    Truth without grace leaves no room for mistakes.

    There's no second chances.

    There's no invitation to repent.

    There's no encouragement to turn it around.

    Listen, people who lean more towards truth than grace usually care more about their convictions

    than they care about actual people.

    And that is a problem.

    But you see in this John 8 account with the woman caught in adultery, do you notice Jesus

    wasn't just truth with her?

    Do you notice that?

    I mean Jesus didn't say to the woman, they bring the woman before Him, Jesus didn't say,

    "Hey lady, you know what the law says.

    You're guilty.

    There's nothing to discuss."

    He showed her grace when He says, "Neither do I condemn you."

    No good lived differently.

    That's grace.

    In church when we condemn people, when we are one striking you out, when we refuse to

    allow people the opportunity to change, that's not like Jesus.

    So we imperfect people tend to fall on one side or the other.

    So now that you've heard, I just want to ask you just for fun, which way do you lean?

    Show of hands.

    Many of you would say that you're more grace people.

    Put your hands up if you're more of a grace person.

    All right?

    Now raise your hand if you're more of a truth person.

    I have a note written from the first service.

    When I asked you the truth people were, they were a lot more bold to put their hands up

    than the grace people.

    I think there's something to that.

    That'll be a sermon for Easter.

    Anyways, grace people, look, I love you, but you typically care more about the relationship

    than any sin issue.

    And that's not good.

    And truth people, you care more about upholding God's Word than loving someone in the relationship.

    And that's not complete either.

    And you know, I've been thinking about this a lot the last couple of weeks.

    While you do what you do at work, this is what I do at work, I was thinking so much,

    like what is it that causes people to lean one way or the other?

    And I was thinking about that, like whether you sit down with a grace person or you sit

    down with a truth person, either way.

    But I was just thinking, like, if you set them down and said, what makes you lean in

    the direction that you lean, what would they say?

    And then it hit me.

    Do you know what it is?

    And I'm sure of this.

    They think they're being loving.

    I mean, think about it.

    You sit down with the grace person.

    Why do you lean more towards grace?

    Because it's love.

    I'm loving.

    That's why my heart is so full of love.

    I'm so full of love.

    That's why, and you can't just discard the relationship just because of something the

    Bible says, I'm just so full of love deep in my heart of heart of hearts.

    I'm so full of love.

    That's why I'm more of a grace person.

    But then, you know, if you sat down with the truth person and said, why do you lean more

    towards the truth?

    Do you know what they'd say?

    It's love.

    Because what is more loving than giving people the word of our Lord?

    I mean, come on, Pastor Jeff, you're a pastor.

    You know this.

    The most loving thing you can do is tell somebody the truth, right?

    So that's what I do.

    I don't mince words.

    I tell them the truth.

    That's how I show love.

    That's how I love them.

    That's nothing more loving than that.

    I'm more true because that's the loving thing to do.

    There's a huge mistake in that line of thinking, isn't there?

    It's a mistake to think that grace is love because it's not.

    And it's a mistake to think that truth is love because it's not.

    You know what is love?

    God is love.

    And as a man, Jesus Christ, God in the flesh, showed true love by being full of grace and

    truth both.

    Well, that's number three.

    What do you want for Christmas?

    I want to be like God.

    Well, grace and truth is like Jesus.

    And see, that's the point of the story of the woman caught in adultery.

    Jesus showed her grace and truth at the same time.

    Grace, he forgave her.

    He says, "Neither do I condemn you."

    That's grace.

    Truth at the same time.

    Jesus said, "Your lifestyle is wrong.

    Go and sin no more."

    Jesus gave both.

    He says, "I forgive you.

    Now let's do better."

    In church, we need to learn this.

    We need to be people who represent Jesus accurately, full of grace and truth.

    Not a group of people that enable in the name of love, not a group of people who condemn

    in the name of upholding the Word.

    We need to be a people who demonstrate acceptance and accountability at the same time.

    Whereas John Piper put it, people who say, "I love you, but this is wrong."

    Parents, you're going to get that with your kids.

    Some of you parents need to sit down with your kids and say, "Look, I love you.

    I accept you, and nothing will ever change that.

    But this habit you have is wrong, and you need to stop this, and I'm going to help you stop

    this because I love you."

    Do you see that?

    That's grace and truth both.

    Some of you have family or friends that are stuck in a sinful lifestyle.

    Maybe it's an addiction.

    Maybe they're in an unbiblical relationship regarding marriage and sexuality.

    You need to sit down and say, "Look, I care about you, but what you're doing is dishonoring

    the Lord.

    Come on, let's get on a better path here.

    Let's get on track."

    For some of you, maybe it's even in church.

    Maybe it's in your small group.

    Maybe flagrantly in sin, and you're like, "I don't know what to do here.

    I don't know how to handle them.

    Here's how you handle them."

    You pull them aside, and you sit down with them, and you say, "Look, what you're doing

    is wrong, but I'm going to do everything that I can to help you get on track because I care

    about you so much."

    You see, it's grace that refuses to beat people down, but it's truth that refuses to overlook

    sin.

    But what do you want for Christmas?

    I want to imitate God.

    The only way to imitate God, to demonstrate a love for God's Word and a love for God's

    people is being like Jesus.

    And according to the Bible, it's full of grace and truth.

    Our worship team would make their way back up, and our candlelighters would come forward.

    We're going to close our service by singing to candlelight.

    Why on Christmas Eve do we sing by candlelight?

    Because it's pretty, right?

    It's so pretty.

    And it's a tradition, but this year, there's another reason that we're doing this.

    This year, thank you, Ashley, this year, it's also an illustration.

    In anticipation of this service, you know, I was looking at the order of service and

    thinking about this moment actually right now.

    And I was thinking about this flame.

    I thought, you know what is that flame?

    But two things perfectly.

    The flame is light and heat.

    Right?

    You can see the light.

    You'll just have to trust me on the heat.

    You can try it out if you like, but it's hot.

    But you see that flame?

    It's not one or the other.

    It's light and heat.

    It can't be one or the other.

    If you're going to have the flame, you're going to have light and heat both.

    You could say it is full of both aspects, light and heat.

    And as we sing, I just want you to look down at that flame and recognize how perfectly

    full it is of both light and heat.

    Then as you sing, I want you to think about grace and truth.

    It's like the flame imitating Jesus.

    You are to be full of both at the same time.

    We want to thank you for coming out and worshiping our Lord.

    And it is my prayer that your worship is genuine because then your imitation of Him will also

    be genuine.

I Want to Belong to God

Introduction:

I Want to Belong to Jesus… (John 1:4–13)

  1. Because He gives me an UNBEATABLE HOPE. (John 1:4–5)

  2. Because He gives me a MEANINGFUL MISSION. (John 1:6–8)

    Isaiah 40:3A voice cries: “In the wilderness prepare the way of the LORD; make straight in the desert a highway for our God.”

    John 3:30He must increase, but I must decrease.

  3. Because He gives me a SPOT IN HIS FAMILY THAT I CANNOT EARN. (John 1:9–13)

    John 3:19–20And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed.

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Small Group Discussion
Read
John 1:4-13

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Who or what do you often set your hopes on? Why can’t these people and things satisfy you as Jesus can?

  3. What excuses are holding you back from bearing witness to the light? How will you bear witness to the light this week and next?

  4. How does Jesus give us the right to become children of God? Why can’t this right be deserved or earned?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

  • Well, as you turn to John chapter one, I want to ask you the same exact question that you

    just heard in the video.

    I want to ask you a question that Pastor Jeff brought to your attention last week in his

    message.

    It's probably a question that you're tired of hearing and asking this holiday season.

    What do you want for Christmas?

    With Christmas being so close, you have asked and heard the answer to that question many

    times over the past several weeks.

    The questions you've, the answers you've heard and the answers you've given include an O'Wallah

    water bottle.

    Isn't that popular?

    That's still popular.

    I don't really know.

    A red light therapy mask.

    Anybody want that?

    That's popular on Instagram, isn't it?

    A massive Lego set, a Nintendo switch to new AirPods, a smart ring, which I guess is kind

    of like an Apple Watch, but a ring on your finger.

    I don't really know.

    Or fancy golf clubs.

    But there are many things that you want for Christmas that you cannot write down on a wish

    list.

    There are many things you want for Christmas that cannot be bought or wrapped.

    Maybe you want that big promotion.

    Maybe you want that bonus this year that you aren't sure is coming.

    Maybe you want healing in your own body or in the body of a loved one.

    Or here's a big one.

    Maybe you want to feel like you belong.

    You want to not be rejected.

    That is a desire that every single person in this room shares.

    It's a desire that starts when you're young and it continues on for the rest of your life.

    As a kid and then a teenager, every single one of us was desperate to fit in and have

    a group of friends to belong to.

    Rejection is painful.

    It leaves lasting memories, especially when you're a kid.

    You know, growing up, my friends and I used to have a sleepover almost every single Friday

    night.

    And during 11th grade, there was a month-long stretch where there was no sleepovers.

    And I was really confused.

    I didn't know why this routine had been broken.

    So one day at the lunch table, I said to my friends, "Hey, guys, we haven't had a sleepover

    in a while.

    Do you guys want to come to my house this Sunday?"

    And whenever I said that, everyone at the table erupted in uncontrollable laughter.

    And I was, again, just very, very confused.

    After they were all done and calmed down, I said, "What's so funny?"

    They then proceeded to tell me that they thought it would be hilarious to not invite me to

    sleepovers for a while to see how long it would take me to notice and say something.

    I missed a whole month of sleepovers with my friends.

    And to be honest, in that moment, externally, I tried to laugh it off.

    I tried to act like it wasn't a big deal.

    But internally, I felt rejected.

    I felt like I didn't belong.

    You ever felt that way before?

    A friend stopped talking to you.

    A family member cut off communication for seemingly no reason.

    A boyfriend or girlfriend ended the relationship without warning.

    Your spouse chose to give up on the marriage and leave.

    You have felt rejected before.

    You have felt like you don't belong.

    You feel that way right now?

    Maybe you couldn't care less about what gifts you're going to get under the Christmas tree

    this year.

    Maybe you don't want anything from Amazon or the mall.

    More than anything this year, you just want to experience that sense of belonging.

    You want to know that there are people who love you, who care about you, and will never

    let go of you no matter what you do.

    I can't guarantee you that sense of belonging with your family and with your friends this

    Christmas.

    I wish I could, but I can't.

    But I can guarantee there is someone infinitely greater who will give you that sense of belonging.

    I can guarantee there is someone who will not reject you, who will not turn away from

    you if you truly turn to him.

    That person is Jesus Christ.

    There is no one better to belong to.

    There is no one better to be loved by.

    There is no one with a tighter grip in all of existence than him.

    I want you to walk out of this service this morning if you're a believer with a greater

    sense of confidence that you were loved by Jesus Christ.

    That you are safe and secure in his steady hands.

    There is no better gift than that.

    And if you're not a Christian this morning, I want you to know that the invitation has

    been extended to belong to Christ.

    He commands you to follow him.

    He invites you to enjoy his acceptance and not fear others' rejection.

    More than anything, I want all of you in this room to want to belong to Jesus this Christmas.

    So before we continue any further, let's go to the Lord and ask for His help.

    Please pray for me that I will faithfully represent God's Word and I will pray for you

    that you will faithfully receive it.

    Father, we come to you and we bring all of our pain to you.

    All of our fears are all of our deepest, darkest worries that we're afraid to admit to other

    people.

    Lord in this room, I'm sure there's many, many stories of rejection.

    Many, many stories of feeling like we don't belong and I'm sure if we brought everybody

    up on stage to share how they feel that there wouldn't be a dry eye in the house today.

    Lord, we ask that you bring the comfort that only you can.

    That you would challenge us, you would tear us down so that you can build us back up again.

    Lord, I do ask for myself, Lord, your Word is perfect, but I am not.

    I do not feel up to the task of proclaiming such a glorious passage, but Lord, give me

    your strength, give me your wisdom.

    I pray for everyone in this room that you would give them the faith to receive your Word

    today.

    I pray that you would seek and save the lost.

    Thanks for the rest of us, Lord.

    We would walk out of this room with a greater sense of confidence in who we belong to.

    We ask all this in Jesus' mighty name.

    Amen.

    Was a quick refresher.

    Let's reread the verses that Pastor Jeff covered last week.

    This will set the table and help us to understand the context of our passage this morning.

    So John chapter one, verses one through three.

    In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

    He was in the beginning with God.

    All things were made through Him, and without Him was not anything made that was made.

    These verses are all about who Jesus is.

    He is the Word of God who created all things.

    Without Jesus, this universe would not exist.

    This world would not exist.

    You would not exist.

    Jesus is the source and sustainer of everything that you can see and everything that you cannot

    see.

    Jesus isn't just the Word of God.

    John says that He is God Himself.

    Verses one through three focus on who Jesus is, while verses four through thirteen focus

    on what Jesus gives.

    If you properly understand who Jesus is and what Jesus gives, you will want to belong

    to Him.

    You will want to belong to Him because no one can compare to who Jesus is, and nothing

    can compare to what Jesus gives.

    So outline for this morning, I want to belong to Jesus.

    I want to belong to Jesus, first reason, because He gives me an unbeatable hope.

    Because He gives me an unbeatable hope.

    Let's read chapter one, verse four.

    In Him, in Jesus was life, and the life was the light of men.

    Life was and is found in Jesus and Him alone.

    As we already discussed, Jesus made all things.

    He is the source of all life on earth.

    He is the cause of everything.

    But He's not just the cause of physical life.

    He is the only supplier of eternal life as well.

    There is no other viable option to turn to or to search for besides Jesus.

    But that doesn't stop us from trying, does it?

    Millions have tried, and billions have failed in trying to find true life apart from Jesus.

    And you and I have tried our hand at this pointless search as well.

    Trying to find life in our jobs, in our finances, in our status, our stuff, and even our families.

    Life cannot be found in your job.

    You realize that one day you will have to retire.

    You may let go from that job.

    One day that job will belong to someone else.

    Your life is not found in how much money you have.

    Let me ask you a question.

    How much of the money in your various accounts will you be able to take with you when you

    die?

    Do we not know the answer?

    Not a single dime.

    Life is not found in your status and popularity.

    There will always be someone bigger and better than you.

    In 150 or 200 years, how many people on this planet will be thinking about you?

    The most likely answer is not a single soul.

    Life is not even found in your family.

    As great as your spouse, your kids, your relatives might be, they cannot meet the deepest needs

    of your soul.

    Can your spouse forgive you of your sins?

    Can your kids give you that unbeatable hope that you're looking for?

    No.

    Can your family guarantee your eternity?

    No.

    All of those needs can only be met by Jesus Christ, who is the only source of life.

    And John goes on to say that this life was the light of men.

    That sounds pretty cool, right?

    But what does that actually mean?

    The life was the light of men.

    I'm no scientist, but let me give you a quick pop quiz in astronomy.

    What do all the plants in this solar system orbit around?

    You're all really tired this morning.

    What is it again?

    All right, very, very good.

    Could we survive without the sun?

    What does the sun do for us?

    Is the major source of life because it is the major source of light and heat on this

    planet without the sun shining as it does, we would all freeze to death without the sun

    shining as it does.

    We would not be able to see anything.

    We would be lost in the darkness without the light of Christ shining as it does.

    We would not be able to see and understand the truth without the light of Christ shining

    as it does.

    We would not know how to be saved.

    We would not know how to have a relationship, a friendship with God without the light of

    Christ shining as it does.

    We would be hopeless and lost in the darkness of our sin without the light of Christ shining

    as it does.

    None of us would have any spiritual life.

    Who is the light of the sun offered to?

    The 8.3 billion people on this planet.

    Who is the light of the sun of God offered to?

    Same exact answer, the 8.3 billion people on this planet.

    As we'll see in a few minutes, many choose to hide from this light and by doing so, they

    miss out on the life that he offers.

    But that does not stop Jesus from shining his light, which we see in verse 5.

    Read that with me.

    "The light shines in the darkness and the darkness has not overcome it."

    The word "overcome" in this verse can also be translated as "comprehended" or "understood."

    And many scholars believe that John picked this word for a very specific reason.

    He chose this word because it has a double meaning.

    Each of these words makes sense in context or flip sides of one another.

    Let's cover one side of the coin first.

    Let's cover the light, shines in the darkness and the darkness has not overcome it.

    I walk my dog Murdoch almost every single night at 10 p.m. after the family is asleep.

    And my wife hates this plan because she thinks I'm going to get pan-kicked by a car.

    It hasn't happened yet, so please just pray for me that this trend continues and I'm able

    to be safe.

    But there is this one house in my neighborhood that fascinates me.

    This house has a lamppost in the front yard that shines brightly for about 10 to 20 seconds,

    then it just shuts off.

    And it comes back on a few seconds later and it happens every single night for the past

    year.

    And this may sound strange to you, but I think about that lamppost almost every single day.

    Every single time I exit the house to go take Murdoch on this walk, I wonder, is tonight

    going to be the night when that light is extinguished?

    Is tonight the night when darkness will overcome that person's yard?

    Because there's something wrong with that lamppost.

    There's something wrong with the bulb.

    There's something wrong with the wiring.

    It's just a matter of time.

    I don't have much faith in that lamppost.

    I don't think you would have much faith in that lamppost if you took a field trip to

    my neighborhood and drove past it.

    But do you know who you should have total and complete faith in?

    Do you know whose light you should never wonder or worry about being extinguished?

    Jesus Christ.

    The light of His glory never flickers.

    The light of His gracious love never turns off.

    He is the same yesterday, today, and forever.

    No matter how dark this world gets, no matter how bleak your life looks, Jesus Christ is

    shining just as brightly as He always has.

    Sin, injustice, and evil cannot lower the intensity of who He is and what He has done.

    Nothing and no one can turn the dimmer switch down on the light of the world.

    Let's flip over to the other side of the coin.

    The light shines in the darkness and the darkness has not understood it.

    You know, Satan and his demons are crafty.

    I'll give them that.

    They are intelligent.

    But at the same time, these evil forces are complete morons in comparison to the all-knowing

    all-wise God of the universe.

    The devil and his demons are fighting a losing battle because they cannot figure out a way

    to extinguish the light of Christ.

    They're like a bunch of roided-up bodybuilders trying to push over a mountain with their

    bare hands.

    It's just not going to happen.

    Their attempts to snuff out the light only fan it into flame even more.

    The harder they try, the harder they fail.

    No matter what they do, Jesus keeps forgiving more and more people.

    No matter what they try, the church keeps getting built up.

    No matter what scheme they hatch, the kingdom of God keeps advancing.

    Satan and his workers have already been defeated by the life, death, and resurrection of Christ.

    They know that eternal judgment awaits them.

    Are they going to go quietly without a fight until Jesus returns?

    No, they are kicking and screaming like bratty children.

    And I know that they're kicking and screaming causes a lot of pain and hardship to every

    single person in this room.

    But they cannot change the ending that God has already written.

    The light will win because the darkness cannot overcome it or understand it.

    That is certain.

    That is a fact.

    Maybe you've been a believer for months, for years, and maybe even for decades.

    And you know the truths of verses four and five intellectually.

    You have a very hard time believing these truths emotionally and experientially.

    You're in a tough season right now and you feel like the darkness is winning.

    You feel like the light is losing.

    You feel like the darkness understands how to overcome the light just fine.

    You feel like you cannot have victory over that sin pattern in your life.

    You feel like there is more sin in you than there is mercy in Christ.

    You feel helpless.

    You feel hopeless.

    If that's how you feel right now, my heart goes out to you because I've been there before.

    And I'm sure I'll be there again.

    If that's how you feel, I want to challenge you to stop looking at you.

    Stop looking at your circumstances.

    Fix your eyes on Jesus.

    Focus your attention on what He has given to you.

    Root your confidence in the new and everlasting life that has been given to you.

    Ask the Holy Spirit to re-energize you with the light you see when you open up the pages

    of this book during your daily quiet time.

    You understand your hope is not found in you.

    You understand that your hope is not even found in your circumstances changing.

    Your hope is found in belonging to Christ.

    When you belong to Christ, you are given an unbeatable hope from an unbeatable Savior.

    I want to belong to Jesus because He gives me an unbeatable hope.

    I want to belong to Jesus because He gives me a meaningful mission.

    That's the second reason on your outline, because He gives me a meaningful mission.

    In verses 4 through 5, John talks about the message of the light.

    In verses 6 through 8, John talks about the messenger of the light.

    Let's read these verses together.

    There is a man sent from God whose name was John.

    He came as a witness to bear witness about the light that all might believe through Him.

    He was not the light that came to bear witness about the light.

    To be clear, John is referencing a totally different John here.

    It's kind of confusing.

    What John is he talking about?

    John the Baptist.

    Why couldn't they have had a different name?

    Why couldn't it have been like Bill the Baptist or Baron the Baptist or whatever?

    Why did it have to be John?

    Well, don't worry.

    We'll make it work.

    We'll deal with it.

    John the Baptist was sent by God as a messenger to prepare the way for the promised Messiah

    and Savior who was prophesied about all throughout the Old Testament.

    John was prophesied of in the Old Testament as well.

    Isaiah 40 verse 3, "A voice cries in the wilderness, 'Prepare the way of the Lord,

    make straight in the desert a highway for our God.'

    Malachi 3, 1, 'Behold, I send my messenger, and he will prepare the way before me.'"

    John the Baptist came to roll out the red carpet for the coming king.

    He didn't come so that others would believe in him and believe in his greatness.

    He came so that others might believe in Christ through him.

    John the Baptist's followers once came to him to give him the news that a lot of people

    were following Jesus.

    He was getting more popular and his disciples were even baptizing people, which is kind

    of like John's main thing.

    It's his name, right?

    John the Baptist.

    Like, John, don't you realize that all this is happening?

    Jesus is getting more popular than you.

    Is this frustrate John?

    Was he jealous?

    Not at all.

    He was actually really, really excited because he was successfully carrying out the meaningful

    mission that God had entrusted to him.

    Here's the response he gives his disciples.

    He says, "He, Jesus, must increase, but I must decrease."

    That was the slogan of John's life in ministry.

    That should be the slogan of your life in ministry as well.

    He must increase, but I must decrease.

    You realize you're not the point of anything.

    Jesus is.

    John the Baptist wasn't the point of anything either.

    Jesus was.

    His mission was to point everyone to Christ, to bear witness to his light.

    I know what some of you serious students of the Bible may be thinking right now.

    You're internally objecting a bit.

    Hold on a minute, Pastor Taylor.

    You're saying that Jesus is the light and John the Baptist wasn't.

    But later on in this gospel, didn't Jesus say that John was like a lamp that was shining?

    And doesn't Jesus tell us that all Christians are the light of the world?

    How does this all make sense?

    Yeah, Jesus does say that in Matthew 5, 14, and then John 5, 35.

    To help answer those great questions, let me slip on my lab coat again and give you another

    pop quiz in astronomy.

    When you look up in the night sky and you see the moon shining bright.

    Does that moon actually have any light of its own?

    Where does its light come from?

    The sun, the light of the moon is shared and reflected.

    It's the same for John and it's the same for you and me.

    We have a shared and reflected light that is given to us by Jesus Christ.

    All throughout John chapter one, verses four through 13, the Greek word "phos" is used

    in reference to Christ and "phos" is the essence of light.

    In John 5, 35, the Greek word "looknos" is used to describe John.

    A looknos is a portable lamp.

    Jesus is the light while John is the lamp that displays the light.

    A candle cannot shine on its own.

    It needs to be given the light of a flame.

    A lamp in your house cannot shine on its own.

    It needs to be given the light of a bulb.

    Jesus Christ is the sun and you are the moon.

    Jesus Christ is the flame, you are the candle.

    Jesus Christ is the bulb and you are the lamp.

    You are here on this earth to display His light to everyone, to shine His light in the

    darkness, to bear witness about His light because you have none of your own.

    And I know what some of you were thinking at this point.

    Okay, Taylor, I know I need to buckle down and share the gospel.

    I need to make disciples.

    I need to shine His light everywhere.

    I'll do that as soon as the holidays are over.

    Whatever Christmas is in the rear view mirror, I'll get right on that.

    No, you won't.

    And you're thinking, where is your Christmas cheer, Pastor Taylor?

    What do you mean, no, I won't.

    I mean, you won't.

    If you will not bear witness the light of Christ today, what makes you think you'll

    do it tomorrow?

    If you were unwilling to bear witness the light of Christ at the end of 2025, what makes

    you think you'll be willing to do it at the start of 2026?

    Do you understand that Christmas is the perfect time to bear witness to the light of Christ?

    This is the time when you're around people, you're not usually around.

    This time of season is all about joy, but most people are miserable.

    Most people are looking for something that they cannot find because they're looking in

    the wrong place.

    Right now is the perfect time to bear witness to the light.

    Grab a bunch of the Christmas Eve invite cards at the back table and hand them out as if

    you were given $100 for each one you handed out.

    I'm not going to give you $100, but the rewards you get in heaven for that will be infinitely

    greater.

    Grab one of those invites, put it in an envelope, put money in that envelope, put a personal

    note in that envelope and give it to your mailman tomorrow.

    Take it upon yourself to read scripture, your family get together this week and talk about

    why you're even celebrating Christmas, why Jesus came in the first place.

    Stop putting off that gospel conversation with that unsafe family member at Christmas.

    Finally do it.

    Invite that unbeliever who has no family in the area to your Christmas dinner.

    Buy them a Bible.

    Write a note in that Bible and give it to them.

    I keep going and going and going.

    There are so many ways to bear witness to the light of Christ this week.

    Don't make excuses for why you can't.

    Don't point to your calendar and say you're too busy.

    This is the reason why you're here, isn't it?

    To bear witness to the light.

    If anything, there's other things getting the way of the most important thing on your calendar.

    Don't justify your fear and laziness by saying you don't want to stir the pot this Christmas.

    You just want to have a calm Christmas.

    Shouldn't you care more about sharing the peace of Christ with your family and friends?

    When you belong to Christ, you recognize that you've been given a meaningful mission.

    When you belong to Christ, you value your calling way more than your comfort.

    When you belong to Christ, you make disciples, you don't make excuses.

    When you belong to Christ, you bear witness to his light because the darkness is everywhere

    that you go.

    I want to belong to Jesus because he gives me an unbeatable hope.

    I want to belong to Jesus because he gives me a meaningful mission.

    I want to belong to Jesus, final reason, because he gives me a spot in his family that I cannot

    earn.

    Because he gives me a spot in his family that I cannot earn.

    We talked about the message of the light and the messenger of the light.

    Now we're going to wrap up by talking about the two responses to the message of the light.

    The first response is in verses 9 through 11.

    The true light which gives light to everyone was coming into the world.

    He was in the world and the world was made through him, yet the world did not know him.

    He came to his own and his own people did not receive him.

    As I said earlier, the light of the Son of God is offered to everyone.

    Anyone is welcome to step into the light.

    Anyone is welcome to receive the life of Christ and be forever changed.

    But most choose to step out of the light rather than do it.

    Most choose to reject the life of Christ that is offered.

    And this is proven by verse 11.

    He came to his own people and his own people did not receive him.

    And this verse has two different focuses.

    When you zoom out, John is talking about mankind.

    Statistically and biblically, there are way more non-Christians than Christians.

    There are way more people who reject Christ than receive him.

    We all agree on that basic fact of life.

    But if you zoom in, John is talking about Israel.

    Many of Jesus' fellow Jews rejected him, hated him, called for his crucifixion.

    Many of the Jews rejected the message of Christ when it was shared by the apostles.

    Even to this day, many Jewish people refuse to accept that Jesus is the light.

    That's not always going to be the case.

    All does say in Romans that one day all Israel will be saved.

    Do you have time to talk about that right now?

    As Pastor Jeff often says, "Buy me some Pantera bread or Chick-fil-A."

    We'll talk about it across the street sometime.

    Here's an important question.

    Why do most people reject Jesus?

    Why do most people not receive the light of Christ?

    John gives us a very simple yet sad answer.

    Later on in this Gospel in chapter 3 verses 19 through 20, he writes, "And this is the

    judgment.

    The light is coming to the world, and people love the darkness rather than the light, because

    their works were evil.

    For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light,

    lest his works should be exposed."

    Have you ever been sleeping or laying in a dark room and suddenly someone turns the

    lights on?

    Are you overjoyed by this?

    Are you really excited by this?

    What's your natural human response?

    What do you do?

    You close your eyes, you cover your face with your hands and your blanket, you yell, "Turn

    that light out!"

    That is the natural human response, physically and spiritually.

    It is far more comfortable to lay in the darkness than be in the light.

    It's simpler to be oblivious and not see yourself for who you really are.

    It's effortless to do nothing about your greatest problem, which is your sinful nature.

    It's easy to lash out at those who try to pull you into the light.

    That is why most people do not receive Jesus.

    They'd rather lay in the darkness.

    They love their sin more than Him.

    That's the first response to the message of the light.

    John says there's only one other response, and that's in verses 12 to 13, the best part

    of this entire passage.

    But to all who did receive Him, who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children

    of God, who were born not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of

    man, but of God.

    The first and wrong way to respond to Jesus is rejection.

    The second and right way to respond to Jesus is receiving and believing.

    You reach out to receive the gift of eternal life by believing in the name of Jesus Christ.

    We say that all the time, but what does it mean to believe in the name of Jesus?

    Well a name represents all of who a person is and all that a person does.

    When you believe in the name of Jesus Christ, you are believing that He is who the Bible

    says that He is.

    That He has done all the Bible says He has done.

    You wholeheartedly believe that He is the Word of God who created all things.

    You have faith that He is the light of the world.

    He is your only source of hope.

    You trust that He is the Savior who died on the cross for your sins, who took the punishment

    that you deserve.

    You submit to the reality that He is the Lord of your life, who has the divine right to

    tell you what to think, say, and do.

    When you receive Jesus and believe in His name, John says that you are given the right

    to become a child of God.

    There are only two children in this entire world who have the right to claim that they

    are my kids.

    I love all the kids in this church, but I love two of those kids the most.

    Only two of those kids have a legal right to say that I am their father.

    Only Samuel and Emmy Brown have that legal right.

    What's the evidence of this?

    Well, Kate and I have their birth certificates at home as proof that those kids belong to

    us.

    When you belong to Christ, your spiritual birth certificate is signed and sealed by His own

    blood.

    You are given the right to claim God as your father and Jesus as your big brother.

    You have given the right to declare that you belong to the greatest family imaginable.

    Can you earn this right?

    Can you work your way into the family of God?

    Not according to John at the end of verse 13, he says, "Who were born not of blood nor

    the will of flesh, nor the will of man, but of God."

    You are not given the right to become a child of God because you're a good person who does

    nice things for other people.

    You are not given the right to become a child of God because your parents are great Christians

    and raised you in the church.

    You are not given the right to become a child of God because you come to church every once

    in a while.

    You pray regularly and do community service projects.

    You are not given the right to become a child of God because of your track record and your

    good works.

    You are given the right to become a child of God because of the gracious work of God in

    Christ.

    That's it.

    That's the only source.

    How do you respond to Jesus?

    Do you reject Him or do you receive Him?

    Do you believe in His name, His work, and His reputation, or do you believe in your name,

    your works, and your reputation?

    One response leads to eternal destruction while the other leads to eternal life.

    One response leads to everything being taken away from you and the other leads to everything

    being given to you.

    Please don't leave this room without considering who Jesus is and what He is offering you.

    Everything hinges on your response to Him.

    What do you want for Christmas?

    Do you want to belong to the world or do you want to belong to Jesus?

    Do you want to settle for the flickering hopes of this sinful culture or do you want the

    unbeatable hope of an unbeatable Savior?

    Do you want to lead a meaningless existence or do you want to carry out the meaningful

    mission of pointing others to the point of life?

    Do you want to be a child of the devil who absolutely hates you or do you want to be

    a child of God who unconditionally loves you?

    If you have not yet believed and received Jesus, now is your chance.

    Now is your opportunity.

    You don't know if you're getting another opportunity past this one, so don't waste it.

    The life of Christ is being offered to you right now.

    Don't slap the gift away.

    The light of Christ is shining in this moment.

    Do not step back into the darkness once again.

    Now is your time.

    Now is your chance.

    You're alive right now.

    You're not guaranteed tomorrow.

    Life is hard.

    Discouragements and disappointments are all around us.

    It's so easy to lose track of what's important in the darkness.

    And we need the light of biblical reminders to let us know what is true, what is real,

    and what is right.

    This ring I wear on my left hand is a symbol that I belong to my wife.

    I'm taken.

    I'm out looking for anybody else to give me that feeling right to belong to.

    The Lord's Supper is a powerful symbol that you belong to Christ and no one else.

    You're spoken for by the Son of God and you're not looking for anyone else to give your life meaning.

    You're not looking to anything else to give your life meaning.

I Want to Know God

Introduction:

John 17:3 – And this is eternal life, that they may know you the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.

John 1:18 – No one has ever seen God; the only God, who is at the Father's side, he has made him known.

I Want to Know God (John 1:1–3):

  1. The REALITY: Jesus is GOD.

    Colossians 2:9For in him the whole fullness of deity dwells bodily.

    Zechariah 12:10And I will pour out on the house of David and the inhabitants of Jerusalem a spirit of grace and pleas for mercy, so that, when they look on me, on him whom they have pierced…

    Acts 20:28Pay careful attention to yourselves... to care for the church of God, which he obtained with his own blood.

    Hebrews 1:2But in these last days he has spoken to us by his Son, whom he appointed the heir of all things, through whom also he created the world.

  2. The RESPONSE: FAITH in Jesus.

    Hebrews 11:6And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.

    How Can I Grow in Knowing Jesus?

    1. CONFESS with your mouth.

      Romans 10:9If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.

    2. HEAR the Word.

      Romans 10:17So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.

    3. KEEP His commandments.

      John 15:10If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love.

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Small Group Discussion
Read
John 1:1-3

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Why do you think the deity of Jesus is denied by so many cults? Why is that such a common point of contention?

  3. How would you explain the Trinity to a 7 year old?

  4. Define “faith”. Why do you think faith is the God-ordained way of knowing Him?

  5. What’s your favorite dinosaur?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

  • Stegosaurus.

    Nobody asks, so I'm just going to tell you.

    Game show host.

    And gray.

    Oh, oh, and what I want for Christmas.

    I just want to know God.

    Did you ever ask for something, like for Christmas or whatever, and somebody got you the generic

    version?

    Has that ever happened to anybody else?

    Show of hands.

    You wanted something and you got the generic version?

    That happened to me when I was a kid.

    When I was a kid, they came out with this wacky thing.

    It was called a pogo ball.

    How many people show of hands remember the pogo balls?

    Okay, a few of you.

    One person in the first service did.

    Or about half of the first service's attendance.

    Remember what a pogo ball was?

    If you don't know, just imagine like a snowman with the head cut off.

    It was that kind of shape, right?

    And it had this hard plastic ring that went in between these two balls that were kind

    of fused together.

    And you were supposed to like stand on the plastic disc and squeeze your feet on that

    top ball and then you would bounce on the pogo ball.

    And the pogo ball would let you jump almost as high as you could jump if you weren't on

    a pogo ball.

    But it was the hot item the one year.

    And I wanted a pogo ball.

    You know what my parents got me?

    The Saturn ball.

    Pogo balls, generic cousin.

    The Saturn ball.

    And not only was it actually not fun to use, but my family was making fun of me when I

    did use it.

    So if I would jump on it, they'd be like, "Here we go on our Saturn ball, our Saturn

    ball, our Saturn ball."

    And that really hurt my feelings.

    So the Saturn ball got thrown into a closet and it's probably still there until today.

    But look, I know we've had this conversation before.

    But there's just some things you can't go generic, right?

    Like ketchup.

    Altars.

    Oreos.

    The generic's not the same.

    Don't try to tell me that it is because you're just lying to yourself.

    But nothing has been made more generic than God.

    We live in a culture that is okay with the generic concept of God.

    But when you get specific, people get squirrely about that.

    You're like, when people say, "God bless America."

    "God bless America."

    You know, you can ask, "Well, which God?"

    Do you mean the God of the Bible, the one who created us, the one who judges sin, the

    one who commands us to repent and believe, the one who calls us to live our lives according

    to his wisdom?

    And it's like, oh no, not that God.

    But we're just okay with the generic concept.

    But you see, the problem with that line of thinking is God isn't a generic concept.

    In fact, God's not a concept at all.

    God is a person.

    God is a specific person.

    And as we enter into the Christmas season, you know, we know the Christmas story from

    Matthew and from Luke, right?

    We know that version of the Christmas story well with the census, and Bethlehem and Mary

    and Joseph and angels and shepherds and manger and the star and the magi.

    Right?

    Well, Matthew and Luke sort of tell the story of the incarnation like looking over people's

    shoulders, right?

    But we're going to be looking at the Gospel of John because his Christmas story is a little

    different.

    In John's Christmas story, we are looking over God's shoulder.

    That's really the theme of the whole book of John.

    And we studied this some years back.

    But the theme of John is this, "The God of the universe has revealed himself by coming

    into this world as a man to not just save you, but to have a relationship with you."

    That God wants you to know Him.

    In fact, this is what Jesus Christ was praying.

    John 17.3, Jesus said, "And this is eternal life that they may know you."

    The only true God in Jesus Christ, whom you have sent, eternal life.

    Nothing's more important than eternal life because you are either going to live forever

    with God or you're going to die forever apart from God.

    So what do you want for Christmas?

    The top of your list should be eternal life.

    And according to Jesus, that comes from knowing Him, from knowing God.

    And I do have to remind you that knowing about God is not the same as actually knowing God.

    You realize those are two completely different concepts.

    Knowing about God and knowing God.

    Not the same.

    Think of it this way.

    Imagine a young man comes to church, a single man.

    And he's been coming here for a while when all of a sudden one day he notices there is

    a beautiful young single woman.

    And he's like, "I don't think I met her, but who is that?"

    But he gets his friend.

    He's like, "He found out who that girl is."

    And his friend comes back with the information.

    And he says, "Oh, you asked about that girl.

    Here's what I know.

    She loves missions."

    She loves working with children.

    She enjoys traveling.

    And get this, she's a big Steelers fan.

    But she also loves rom-coms.

    Now if this friend goes back to the dude and gives this report on what this woman is like,

    do you think this man would be like, "All right, now that I have the information about

    her, I am satisfied.

    Thank you.

    That is all."

    Is that the end of the story?

    No, you see, now that he knows about her, that makes him all the more want to know her

    personally.

    You see, that's how it is with God.

    That's how it is with Jesus Christ.

    The more you know about Him, the more you want to know Him personally.

    The fact should lead you to the relationship.

    How do I know God personally?

    Well John 1.18 tells us that no one has ever seen God, the only God who has at the Father's

    side.

    He has made Him known.

    And folks, this is a fundamental truth.

    That the only way that we can know God is He has to make Himself known.

    And that's what we celebrate every Christmas that God has made Himself known because He

    did it in the most personal way possible.

    He showed up and introduced Himself.

    So look at John 1.

    Picking up in verse 1.

    We're just going to get the first three verses today.

    This might feel more like a Bible study than a sermon.

    But these are important truths that we're going to wrestle down here.

    John 1 says, "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was

    God.

    He was in the beginning with God.

    All things were made through Him, and without Him was not anything made that was made."

    Notice that John in introducing our Lord, He's using this word, "Word" a lot.

    Why does He use the word "Word"?

    Well He doesn't really explain that.

    But I promise you that the audience that He wrote to in the first century would have known

    exactly what He was talking about.

    Because John primarily would have been writing to the Greeks and the Jews.

    The word "Word" in the Greek is "Logos."

    And to the Greeks, the Logos was like this impersonal force, this impersonal energy source.

    Because the Greek philosophers were like, "Look, all of this had to come from somewhere.

    The world didn't happen by accident.

    There has to be some force out there that's behind the structure of the earth.

    All logic and reason."

    They had this idea, it was an impersonal force, and they called it the Word, the Logos.

    So John is writing to the Greeks, and he goes, "Hey, you guys talk about the Logos, right?

    Did you know the Logos is a person?"

    It's not a thing, it's a person.

    It's a person that was with God.

    It's a person that was God, and it's a person according to John 1.14 that became flesh

    and dwelt among us.

    So that's how the Greeks would have heard this.

    Do you know how the Jews would have heard this?

    And we probably don't have to guess, right?

    When the Jews would have heard the Word Word, what would they have thought of?

    They immediately would have thought of the Law and the Prophets, what we call the Old

    Testament.

    You see, you go through the Old Testament over and over and over.

    The Word of the Lord came too.

    The Word of the Lord came too.

    The Word of the Lord came too.

    And all of the Law and the Prophets, it's known as the Word of God.

    So the Jews would have picked up on this concept immediately.

    You know what the purpose of words is?

    Words are to communicate something.

    Words are to be deliberately chosen and used to convey information to another person.

    That's what John's saying to the Jews.

    The Word became flesh.

    Jesus Christ is God's communication to man.

    A living, breathing Word.

    So God isn't some impersonal force.

    God's not a generic concept.

    According to God's Word, He is a person.

    And He has revealed who exactly He is in Jesus Christ.

    Let's just pause for a second and ask that you would pray for me as we do this little

    study together that I would accurately represent God's Word.

    Let me pray for you to have a heart open to receive this absolutely essential truth that

    God is teaching us today.

    So let's pray.

    Father in heaven, we live in a culture that is fine to think of you in general terms.

    But to call you a person, a father, the sovereign of the universe, it's tough for some people

    to grasp.

    And I just pray Father today, especially over these next few minutes, that we would really

    have our hearts and minds open to what it is that your Word wants to teach us about

    the way that you've revealed yourself through your Son.

    It's in Jesus' name that we pray.

    Amen.

    So on your outline, I want you to write some things down.

    I want to know God.

    Here's where it starts.

    Number one, the reality.

    This is the reality.

    Jesus is God.

    Let's look at these verses here.

    Look at verse one again.

    He says, "In the beginning was the Word, the Word was with God, and the Word was God."

    In the beginning.

    Is that something familiar at all?

    That phrase, "In the beginning."

    Where have we heard that?

    Genesis 1-1, right?

    That's how the whole Bible starts.

    And John is starting in the same place.

    John is saying, by saying in the beginning, John is saying, "Before anything was created,

    the Word existed."

    The Word.

    And notice he says two things about the Word.

    First of all, the Word was with God.

    And secondly, the Word was God.

    First of all, let's talk about the Word was God.

    This claim is nothing less than Jesus Christ is Almighty God.

    This is all through the New Testament.

    If we were to just do a Bible study today looking at the verses of the New Testament

    to talk about Jesus being God, we would be here long after the snow melted.

    But the New Testament is so full of this truth.

    For example, Colossians 2-9 says, "For in Him, in Jesus, the whole fullness of Deity

    dwells bodily."

    Most concise statement of Jesus' Deity is probably right here in John 1-14.

    It says, "And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen His glory, glory

    as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth."

    The Word became flesh and dwelt.

    That Word dwelt in the Greek is the word tabernacled.

    The Word became flesh and tabernacled among us.

    You heard the tabernacle?

    In the Old Testament, it was this portable structure that as Moses was leading the Israelites

    out of Egypt, God told Moses to build this structure and it had this tent with the Holy

    Place and the Holy of Holies.

    And this was the place where God's unique presence dwelt among His people.

    So when John says, "The Word became flesh and tabernacled among us," you know, if you

    were in the Old Testament times, if you lived with Old Testament Israel and somebody said,

    "Hey, can you point to the place where God's unique presence lives on the earth?"

    You would point to the building, the tabernacle.

    You would say, "Yeah, God's unique presence on earth is right there."

    Fast forward to 2025 right now.

    If I were to say, "Can you point to the place where God's unique presence dwells on earth?"

    Where would you point?

    It's right here, right?

    Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.

    The temple was just the permanent version of the tabernacle.

    This is where God lives.

    This is God's unique presence here.

    So what John is saying in John 1.14 is for about 33 years of earth's history, when you

    would ask, "Where is God's unique presence on the earth?"

    You'd point to a man.

    That man's name is Jesus Christ.

    You would point to him and say, "Right there.

    That man is the unique presence of God on the earth.

    This is where he is."

    All right?

    Jesus is not an exalted angel.

    Jesus is not some special enlightened human.

    According to this verse, Jesus is the God.

    And every false religion denies this, by the way.

    And I can just tell you personally, you would be shocked at how many times I've had to have

    this conversation with people over the course of my ministry, that people who actually say,

    Jesus never said He was God.

    You heard that argument?

    Jesus never said it.

    What the argument is this, that's something the church kind of came up with.

    We kind of, like some religions like us, we sort of hitched that idea onto Jesus.

    Did Jesus Himself, they say, "Oh, if you study the words of Jesus, He never said He was God."

    Well, do you remember back in Exodus chapter 3, God called Moses through the burning bush.

    You know, you're going to lead my people out of Egypt.

    You're going to lead them to the promised land.

    Do you remember Moses says to God, "Well, what if Israel asks who sent me?"

    What if Israel is like, "What is His name?"

    Do you remember in that moment, God told Moses what His name is?

    You remember?

    God told Moses His name is, "I am who I am."

    That's God's name.

    His name is, "I am."

    I love that.

    God didn't say to Moses, "My name is I was."

    Like Moses, like what's your name?

    And God's like, "Moses, I was.

    Oh Moses, you should have seen me back in high school.

    Oh Moses, I was so good looking and I was such a good athlete.

    Back in the day Moses, back in the day I was really something.

    No, he's not the I was.

    But nor did God tell Moses that he's the I will be."

    Right?

    Like Moses is like, "What's your name?"

    And God's like, "Well Moses, you tell the Israelites, I might not be nothing special

    now but I'm taking my vitamins and I'm drinking my milk and I'm doing my palates and I'm jumping

    on my pogo ball and someday, someday I'm going to be something great.

    I will be."

    God's not the I was and he's not the I will be.

    God is, "He is I am."

    From eternity past, He is infinite, majestic holiness.

    He is the I am.

    And in eternity future, He will still be infinite, majestic holiness.

    He is the I am.

    You're like, "Well what does that have to do with Jesus?"

    Because Jesus repeatedly claimed that He is the I am.

    It's all through the gospel of John, what, like seven times.

    I am the bread of life.

    I am the light of the world.

    I am the way and the truth and the life.

    I am the good shepherd.

    I am the door.

    All through Jesus made this claim.

    John chapter 8, Jesus said before Abraham was, "I am."

    John chapter 10, Jesus said, "I and the Father are one."

    And in that moment the Jews picked up stones, they were going to kill them for saying that.

    Jesus says, "I did a lot of good works for which of them are you going to stone me?"

    And they said, "Oh no, you're making yourself out to be God the way you're talking."

    And you see, they knew exactly what He was saying.

    They knew exactly what He meant when He said, "I and the Father are one."

    Oh, and by the way, not only does the Bible say that Jesus is God, did you know that the Bible also says that God is Jesus?

    Here's what I mean.

    Look at Zechariah 12/10.

    This is before the incarnation, the Christmas story.

    This is before the baby in the manger story.

    This is Old Testament.

    Look at what God says.

    God says, "And I will pour out on the house of David and the inhabitants of Jerusalem, a spirit of grace and please, for mercy, so that when they look on Me on Him whom they have pierced."

    Do you see how God identifies Himself?

    He identifies Himself as the one who was pierced and who was the one that was pierced.

    It's Jesus Christ on the cross.

    Do you see that?

    Do a little word study there.

    That's exactly what He's saying.

    They will look on the one whom they've stabbed.

    Right?

    It's also in the New Testament.

    God is Jesus.

    Look at Acts 20, for example.

    Paul says, "The Ephesians elders pay careful attention to yourselves to care for the church of God, which He obtained with His own blood."

    Who bought the church with His blood?

    He says God.

    You're like, "I thought it was Jesus that shed His blood."

    Well, Paul's saying that as Jesus shed His blood, that was God obtaining the church with His own blood.

    So Jesus is God, yes, and the Bible also says that God is Jesus.

    The word was God, but the Bible also says here that the word was with God.

    The word was with God.

    And in case you missed it, in case you didn't quite catch it in verse 1, verse 2, he just says the exact same thing.

    He was in the beginning with God.

    So somehow, Jesus is God, but being with God, somehow He is distinct from the Father.

    Like if I said to you yesterday, I was with my buddy Nathaniel, and I was my buddy Nathaniel.

    You would say, "Were you and Nathaniel smoking something? Like what was going on there?"

    That doesn't make sense, does it?

    How can you be with somebody and be somebody at the same time?

    But that's exactly what the Bible says about Jesus and His relationship with God.

    He's not only God, but He's also with God.

    And people want that explained all the time.

    Pastor Taylor had a couple of weeks ago, the little children back there had a Q&A thing with him.

    And one of the questions they were asking about, the trinity.

    And look, do you want to know about the trinity? Here's the reality.

    Nobody can figure that out. That's the truth.

    You can't do it.

    Because from the moment you were born, you've only ever known two things in your life.

    Your whole life, you've only ever known two things.

    And that's time and space.

    You can't fathom an existence outside of time and space.

    This is where we are.

    And now we have a God who lives and exists in rules outside of time and space.

    God is not bound by time and space.

    And somehow we think that we're going to be able to explain everything about Him.

    Here's what I know.

    The Word was with God and the Word was God.

    The Bible says God exists.

    He's one God, but He exists as three persons.

    Father, Son, Holy Spirit, Jesus is eternal, but distinct.

    And you don't have to explain it to believe it.

    I can't explain to you how my car works, but I believe that it does when I get in and drive it.

    Look at verse 3.

    He says, "All things were made through Him, and without Him was not anything made that was made."

    Okay, this is just theology 101. It's all through the Old Testament.

    God is Creator.

    And John here is saying Jesus is God, He's with God.

    And then John takes another step and says, "Jesus is Creator. He made all things."

    And somehow, again, the Trinity, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are all involved in creation at the same time.

    You're like, "Can you explain that?"

    I just told you I could not explain that.

    But somehow God, the Father created through God the Son, and the Genesis tells us that the Spirit of God hovered above the waters.

    All three members of the Trinity were involved.

    And somehow Jesus is the agent of creation.

    The Bible says in Hebrews chapter 1 and verse 2 that in these last days, God has spoken to us by His Son,

    whom He appointed the heir of all things through whom also He created the world.

    Through whom He created the world.

    That's all John's saying here in verse 3.

    "Every living thing gets life from something else.

    A tree, a dog, a woodpecker, you. You got life from something else.

    The only person who has never received life from someone else is God Himself."

    That's what John's saying, since Jesus already existed before creation,

    and because Jesus didn't get His life from something else, then He must be God.

    Those are the biblical facts about Jesus.

    And listen, even if you're sitting here today or listening to the podcast later or whatever,

    even if you don't agree with that, can we take an honest look at what the Bible says and stop trying to twist it?

    Oh, it doesn't really say that.

    The Bible overwhelmingly says that Jesus Christ is God in the flesh.

    That's the truth that you have to reckon with.

    He is God.

    So if you want to know God, number two, the response.

    The response. You want to know God? The response is faith in Jesus.

    The reality is Jesus is God. The response is we have to have faith in Jesus.

    You see, God took the initiative.

    God did His part in revealing Himself as Jesus, so the question is, what's my part in knowing Him?

    It's faith.

    Faith is the only way to know God.

    Oh, and speaking of generic,

    not only do people use the name of God in a generic sense,

    but you'll find that people use the concept of faith in a generic sense.

    There is a true biblical sense and definition of faith,

    but we live in a culture that just throws that word faith around all the time and uses it in all kinds of ways.

    Here's what I mean.

    Some people use faith like it means a wishful thinking.

    Faith is just wishful thinking.

    Like, well, I just kind of have faith that everything's going to work out.

    Like, what does that even mean?

    For some people, they think faith is just the way of the ignorant.

    Like, well, you believe in science.

    Or you believe in faith, rather. I believe in science.

    And they're condescending. You're just some, you know, backwoods, redneck, you're ignorant.

    I believe in science, but you have your little fairy tale faith.

    And still other people look at faith as some kind of ambiguous spirituality.

    You hear people say, I'm a person of faith.

    Do you know who else is a person of faith?

    Literally everybody.

    Everybody believes in something.

    What is your faith in?

    Because you can have faith in the wrong thing.

    So listen, my friends, God is not a generic concept and neither is faith.

    Faith is a specific disposition towards a specific person.

    That's why Hebrews 11.6 says without faith,

    it is impossible to please Him for whoever would draw near to God.

    That's the knowing God piece.

    Whoever would draw near to God must believe that He exists

    and that He rewards those who seek Him.

    It starts with obviously an acknowledgement of His existence,

    but it doesn't stop there. You have to seek Him.

    You have a responsibility.

    God took the initiative. He revealed Himself in Jesus.

    What is my responsibility in this relationship?

    Or how can I grow in knowing Jesus?

    I want you to draw these three things down.

    How can I grow in knowing Jesus?

    Letter A, you have to confess with your mouth.

    Romans 10.9 says, "If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord

    and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.

    And you are not going to grow in your relationship with Him

    if you don't have one to begin with."

    So have you made that confession?

    Do you believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross

    to pay the penalty for your sins, that He rose from the dead

    to give you eternal life? Do you believe that?

    Because people have this idea that, well, we're all children of God

    and a creative sense, yes, but not in the adoptive sense.

    Yes, we do all have a relationship with Jesus.

    The question is, do you have a good relationship with Him

    or a bad relationship with Him?

    You have to confess with your mouth.

    Ask to start there, letter B, you have to hear the Word.

    You have to hear the Word.

    Romans 10.17 says, "So faith comes from hearing

    and hearing through the Word of Christ."

    The only way your faith grows is through the Word of God.

    Because this is the only truly reliable source of information

    about Jesus, because this is the source of information

    that was given to us by God.

    You have to be in the Word

    if you're going to know Jesus.

    Any relationship involves time and communication.

    And some people, they spend no time in His Word,

    no time praying His Word and reading and studying and meditating.

    And they spend no time at all in the Word.

    And then they wonder why they feel so distant.

    Relationships grow when time is spent together.

    You need to prioritize spending time and praying the Word of God.

    Finally, letter C, keep His commandments.

    Jesus says in John 15.10, "If you keep My commandments,

    you will abide in My love just as I have kept My Father's commandments

    and abide in His love."

    That's how you abide. It's through obedience.

    Now listen, if you're a Christian and you're in sin,

    sin is not going to end your relationship with Jesus.

    But you're obviously going to feel distant from God

    if you have unrepentant sin.

    Any area of disobedience in your life that you refuse to deal with,

    you're going to feel distant.

    And that's not on God. That's on you.

    God hasn't gone anywhere. You have.

    So what is it in your life right now that you're like,

    "I know that this is what God wants me to stop doing,

    or maybe something God wants you to start doing,

    but you know exactly what it is.

    You need to turn from that sin.

    You need to obey whatever Jesus is calling you to.

    And you're going to enjoy the freedom

    that repentance brings in your walk with Christ."

    This is what keeps people from coming to Christ

    in the first place, by the way.

    Jesus will take you just as you are,

    but He won't leave you that way.

    Jesus wants to transform you.

    He wants to change you.

    Some people just don't want to be changed.

    Keep His commandments.

    The Word became flesh.

    God became a man.

    Our worship team would come back up.

    You know, I came to Christ when I was 20.

    And it's an amazing thing to grow up in a church

    as a kid.

    All those days, all those years

    sitting in the church, how little I really understood.

    But when I was led to Christ, it was this whole new

    world, right?

    And I remember I was trying to understand.

    And I had this Bible that my parents got me.

    You know, some Bibles have the little story inserts,

    little devotional things that kind of build into the Bible.

    Well, this Bible had this story in it.

    And the story goes something like this.

    There was this farmer and his wife, it was Chris Paseeb,

    and the farmer's wife was going to church.

    And she asked her husband if he wanted to go with her.

    He goes, "No, I don't get that church stuff.

    It doesn't, that makes no sense to me.

    You know, I'm not interested at all, but you go have fun."

    Well, she went to church.

    And while he was home, he saw that there were birds trying to get

    into his barn.

    This really bad deep freeze came over, kind of like,

    "What happened here?"

    And these birds were trying to get into the barn,

    seeking shelter from the cold.

    The farmer says, "Well, I can help those birds."

    So he goes, "I'll just go out and open the door

    and let them in the barn."

    And when he went out, you know what birds do, right?

    They just kind of scattered everywhere.

    The farmer's like, "Well, that sure didn't help anything."

    So he thought, "Well, maybe if I just leave breadcrumbs,

    I can like guide them in there somehow."

    Didn't work.

    No matter what the farmer did, he couldn't get the birds

    into the barn to get shelter.

    And as the story goes, I don't think it's a true story,

    but as the story goes, he stood and looked

    out the kitchen window, and he saw the birds back flying

    around the outside of the barn not able to get in.

    And the farmer thought to himself,

    "Those birds are going to die."

    And as badly as I want to save them,

    I don't know how I can get them into the barn.

    But then the farmer had a thought.

    The farmer thought, "You know, if I could become a bird

    for like five minutes, I could approach them,

    they wouldn't be scared of me, I could speak their language,

    and I could show them the way that they could be saved."

    And right when he had the thought, the story goes,

    "Off in the distance, he heard the church's bells ringing."

    And that's when it connected.

    It's a dumb story.

    Admittedly, what I'm going to tell you as a young Christian,

    when I read that, that's what made everything click for me.

    Yes, that's the purpose of the incarnation,

    that God became one of us to save us.

    So what do you want for Christmas?

    I want to know God, not the generic knockoff,

    but the real person.

    Because knowing God is eternal life.

    We're going to have our elders and members of our prayer team

    up front here.

    And in just a moment, Ashley's going to sing a song over you.

    And we're going to have a good old-fashioned altar call.

    You can stay in your seat, you can pray right where you are.

    But I want you to know there's people that are up here that would love to pray with you

    and for you.

    So as Ashley sings over you, we're going to invite you

    to come. Maybe there's somebody here

    that today you're like, "You know what? I don't really know God. I know about Him.

    But I don't really have a relationship with Him.

    Today's the day. Today's the day that you can go from knowing about

    God to knowing God. So please come.

    Our Father in Heaven, we thank You

    for the way that You have demonstrated Your holiness and love

    by taking on flesh and blood.

    Father, I pray against all of the distractions. It's that time of year

    that there's more to do than we have time to do.

    And there's so many things buying for our attention.

    Father, I pray that we would take a real

    close examination at the person of Jesus Christ and examine our own hearts.

    Are we truly walking with Him? Do we truly

    have a relationship with Him that we're spending time

    together and knowing and growing?

    Or are we just churchgoers?

    Father, I thank You. You've revealed Your heart. You want us to know You.

    You've done everything and have just simply called us to receive

    what You have accomplished.

    Father, thank You. We praise You and ask that You would continue to manifest

    Your goodness and presence in us by the power of Your Spirit through the wisdom

    of Your Word. We praise You in the name of Jesus

    Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Be Worth Imitating

Introduction:

Pastor Bob Huber

Are You Worth Imitating? 4 Areas to Evaluate (1 Corinthians 4:14–21)

  1. Your LOVE for PEOPLE: Worth Imitating. (1 Cor 4:14)

    2 Corinthians 12:15 – I will most gladly spend and be spent for your souls.

  2. Your HEART for EVANGELISM: Worth Imitating. (1 Cor 4:15)

  3. Your CONSISTENCY of FAITH: Worth Imitating. (1 Cor 4:17)

  4. Your HANDLING of SINNERS: Worth Imitating. (1 Cor 4:14, 18–21)

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Small Group Discussion
Read
1 Corinthians 4:14-21

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Who has been a “spiritual father” to you? What do you imitate about them?

  3. Who have you tried to be a “spiritual father” to (led to Christ, discipled)?

  4. What kind of change, specifically, do you think Paul was hoping for from the “arrogant” (1 Cor 4:18-21)?

  5. How do you know when to admonish someone (v14), and when to rebuke them (1 Cor 4:19)?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

  • Open up those Bibles to 1 Corinthians chapter 4.

    What kind of a church is this?

    We are a church that proclaims the authority of God's Word without apology.

    What kind of a church is this?

    We are a church that lifts high the name of Jesus in worship.

    What kind of a church is this?

    This is a church that believes firmly in the power of prayer.

    This is a church that shares the good news of Jesus with boldness.

    So let's bow our heads and I'm going to ask that you would please pray for me to be faithful

    to communicate God's Word and I will pray for you to have a heart open to receive what

    it is that the Lord wants to teach us today.

    All right?

    Let's just take a moment and pray.

    Father in heaven, as we turn to your Word, we ask that you would speak to us through

    this.

    Your Word even calls this the foolishness of preaching.

    But somehow your spirit is at work with your Word when it is proclaimed and we believe

    that.

    And that's why we don't shrink away from what anything that your Word says, but we

    go after it.

    Father, we want to know you and you have revealed your character through your Word.

    So Father, I pray for all of us today.

    This would be a day of self-examination.

    This would be a day where your spirit grabs us in a fresh way.

    Thank you ahead of time for everything you're going to do.

    We pray in Jesus' name.

    And all of God's people said, "Amen, amen."

    We've had, in harvest Bible Chapel over the years, we've had some pretty spectacular guest

    speakers and other pastors come and preach.

    And by far, this one's my favorite here.

    This is Pastor Bob Huber.

    This is back when we were meeting in Marshall Middle School actually.

    But Pastor Bob Huber was my pastor and he is in heaven now.

    Or as he would have said, he graduated and he's having a good day.

    You know, I moved to Chicago for a while to learn how to plan a church.

    But it was this man who taught me how to be a pastor.

    And I had the privilege of working with him for many years.

    But probably the profoundest lesson I ever learned from him was in year one.

    I was helping with a day camp up in Slippery Rock at Deep Valley Camp.

    I'm going to tell you this story and I know some of you are going to hit you and some

    of you are going to be like, "What in the world is he talking about?"

    But that's just the way these things go sometimes.

    But we were at day camp and this was year one of like, I just became a Christian and just

    started serving Christ and was learning.

    And we were walking across the camp.

    It was free time for the kids.

    They were just running around kind of doing their thing.

    Second graders, alright?

    So Pastor Bob and I were walking by and there was this little boy just sitting and just

    playing in the dirt.

    And as we walked by, Pastor Bob stopped and he said to the little boy, "Hey, get up.

    You're getting all dirty."

    So the little kid got up and kind of brushed himself off and just kind of stood there and

    Pastor Bob and I kept walking and all of a sudden Pastor Bob stopped.

    And he turned around and he went back to the little boy and he said, "Get back down in

    the dirt."

    There was so much I learned from that whole thing.

    So much that I learned about ministry.

    And I could spend hours just talking about the lessons I learned from that little thing.

    Here's the big one.

    Kids got to be kids, right?

    That's why at Harvest we say it all the time, we don't care if your kids are running around

    or making messes or making noise.

    Like kids got to be kids.

    But you know in that incident at camp, and I saw that attitude from Pastor Bob, I said,

    "You know, that's worth imitating."

    That attitude towards kids.

    That's worth imitating.

    And you know we're going through 1 Corinthians here and Paul has used many images to talk

    about his connection with them.

    He's talking about being a farmer, being a builder, being a servant, being a steward.

    And in this passage we're looking at today, here's the image on the table.

    A father.

    The 1 Corinthians.

    Paul's addressing Christians who weren't acting like Christians.

    That's been this whole stretch, the whole 1st 4 chapters.

    There was division.

    There were little teams being made and there was disdain for people that weren't on your

    team.

    Like I follow Paul.

    You're one of those appallished people.

    Blame.

    And there was so much division in the church.

    Christians who weren't acting like Christians.

    Paul was pretty direct with them.

    I think we saw that especially last week.

    He was pretty direct in the way that he addressed them.

    And you know if you're going to be that direct with someone you better have a good relationship

    with them.

    Look at verse 14.

    Let's pick up in verse 14.

    Paul says, "I do not write these things to make you ashamed, but to admonish you as my

    beloved children.

    For though you have countless gods in Christ, you do not have many fathers.

    For I have become your father in Christ Jesus through the gospel.

    I urge you then, be imitators of me."

    That is why I sent you Timothy, my beloved and faithful child in the Lord, to remind

    you of my ways in Christ as they teach them everywhere in every church.

    Some are arrogant as though I were not coming to you.

    But I will come to you soon if the Lord wills.

    And I will find out not the talk of those arrogant people, but their power for the kingdom

    of God does not consist in talk but in power.

    What do you wish?

    Shall I come to you with a rod?

    Or with love and a spirit of gentleness?

    In that chunk of text, did you pick up a dad tone in there?

    This is why Paul was so stern with them because he saw himself as their father, their spiritual

    dad.

    And parenthood, whether it's having kids of your own or adopting kids or having spiritual

    children, listen, parenthood is about two things really.

    It's about love and it's about responsibility.

    So this passage here is for everyone who is a spiritual parent.

    Everyone who leads someone spiritually, everyone who is making disciples, listen, whether you're

    a small group leader or you're leading the youth group or Harvest Academy, you're teaching

    precepts, you're involved in our ministry team or serving as an elder, if you're one

    of our conference speakers, some of you are involved in addiction recovery ministry.

    This is for you.

    Some of you are leading Bible studies at work.

    This is for you.

    Some of you, your primary discipleship opportunity is the children in your home.

    That's who this passage is for.

    Those of you who are making disciples.

    Look at verse 16 again, because this is the verse that really jumped out to me.

    Also as I urge you then, the imitators of me.

    That verse leads me to two questions.

    And the first question is, have I been faithful to follow my spiritual parent?

    I mean I talked about Pastor Bob.

    I'm not 1% of the pastor that he was.

    But am I being faithful to follow my spiritual father?

    How about you?

    Are you being faithful to follow your spiritual parent?

    That's a question that I wrestled with this past week, but not as much as another question.

    Here's the second question, this is the one that really hit me.

    Am I worth imitating?

    What about me?

    Am I worth imitating?

    What about you?

    Do you consider yourself worth imitating?

    Did you say what Paul said here?

    Hey, follow my example, could you say that?

    If the people that you disciple, if the people that look up to you as their spiritual father,

    their spiritual parents, if the people that look up to you act like you, would they be

    effective for the kingdom of Jesus Christ?

    If the people that looked up to you imitated you, would they be honoring God in His Word?

    Would they?

    Would you want people to imitate you?

    Or would there just be too many areas of your life where you would just end up saying, "Yeah,

    don't do what I do."

    Are you worth imitating?

    I want you to consider this sustained illustration through the rest of the message.

    But I want you to imagine that I brought you a brand new Christian.

    Okay?

    Imagine that this young man came to Christ, he just came to Christ yesterday, and we brought

    him to church, and he was baptized today, and I brought him to you, and I said, "Okay,

    this young man is going to live with you for a month so that he can learn what it looks

    like to follow Jesus Christ."

    How would that go for the next month?

    I mean, assuming that you weren't going to put on a show, assuming that you were just

    going to be your authentic self for the month, okay, we're assuming that.

    How's that going to go?

    Would you find yourself over the course of the month with this brand new Christian?

    Would you find yourself constantly saying, "Yeah, don't do that."

    Right?

    You use some salty, non-sermony language, and then you turn to this young man looking

    at you and you're like, "Yeah, don't talk like that."

    Are you telling some perverted anatomy joke?

    Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you know what, you shouldn't tell jokes like that.

    You shouldn't talk like that.

    You shouldn't think like that.

    This new Christian that's following you around for the month sees you losing your temper,

    you're kicking the lamp, you're kicking the dog, and then you turn to him and you say,

    "Yeah, don't do that."

    You shouldn't lose your temper like that.

    You're neglecting time in God's Word, you're neglecting time in prayer, and you're like,

    "Yeah, you know what, I'm really busy and don't have the time to spend in God's Word

    in prayer, but you shouldn't be like me.

    You really should make time for that."

    Would it be a rough month for you?

    Or after that month, this new Christian comes back to me and says, "You know, I am really

    growing with the Lord following that person's example.

    This past month has been huge for me watching how the life of Christ has manifest in a person's

    life throughout the week."

    Is that what they say?

    This is the sermon that we all have to take a hard look at ourselves.

    I mean, let's be honest with ourselves.

    Are you worth imitating?

    There are probably hundreds of categories we could get into.

    Let's just stick to this particular text here.

    Four areas to evaluate.

    Are you worth imitating?

    Here's four areas to evaluate that we see from the Apostle Paul.

    Number one, write this down.

    Your love for people.

    Your love for people.

    Worth imitating?

    Let me give you verse 14 again.

    He says, "I do not write these things to make you ashamed but to admonish you as..."

    Look at this.

    "My beloved children."

    My beloved children.

    I love that so much because if you've been with us through 1 Corinthians in this journey,

    you can see that Paul would have a lot of reasons to call them something else.

    Let's put it that way.

    But this is how he viewed them.

    Your beloved children.

    You're not commodities to be used.

    You're not customers to satisfy.

    You're not annoyances that are draining the life out of me.

    He says, "You're spiritual children that I love."

    Love.

    That's what parents are wired to do.

    It's a love.

    It's meeting needs, yes.

    It's helping when there's hurt.

    It's protecting.

    And ultimately, love is sacrifice.

    You go to 2 Corinthians in chapter 12.

    This is what Paul addresses the same church.

    I love this verse because this is the heart of a parent.

    Paul says, "I will most gladly spend and be spent for your souls."

    That's the heart of a parent.

    Parents sacrifice for their children.

    Parents give of themselves.

    So when you genuinely love people, you're going to do the same.

    Easier said than done because I don't know if you noticed,

    but some people are hard to love.

    Have you noticed that?

    I mean, we already talked about these Corinthians.

    They had so many problems.

    Like, man, how do you love unlikable people?

    How do I conjure up the love to love unlikable people?

    You don't have to turn there, but just jot down John chapter 21.

    It's one of my favorite scenes in the Bible.

    But in John chapter 21, we see the resurrected Jesus restoring Peter.

    Do you remember the question that Jesus asked Peter three times?

    Do you remember?

    He says, "Peter, do you love sheep than feed them?"

    Is that what he said?

    No?

    Watch that one, didn't I?

    What did he say?

    He says, "Do you love me?"

    Do you love me?

    And when Peter answered, Jesus...

    Oh, then he talked about the sheep, right?

    Feed my sheep.

    Do you love me?

    He didn't ask Peter if he loves sheep.

    He asked Peter, "Peter, do you love me?"

    Because when you love someone, you love what they love.

    Right?

    See, if I put all of my effort into just loving you and not the Lord,

    it's going to fizzle out.

    But when the effort is in loving Jesus Christ,

    He changes my heart to love the things that He loves.

    I love you because Jesus loves you.

    You have value to me because you have value to Jesus, you see.

    Jesus loves the church.

    You know, He died for you.

    He's preparing a place in heaven for you.

    And He does His work on earth through you.

    And if Jesus so loves you and He knows you a lot better than I do,

    how could I not love you?

    So think of that new believer following you around for a month.

    What he see in love for people that's worth imitating.

    And area we need to evaluate your heart for evangelism.

    Is it worth imitating?

    Look at verse 15 again.

    He says, "For though you have countless guides in Christ,

    you do not have many fathers,

    for I became your father in Christ Jesus through the gospel."

    Countless guides.

    What's a guide?

    Well, in the Greek, it's pedagogos.

    Now wealthy families in those days would have a pedagogos.

    A guide, some translation is tutor.

    It was a slave whose job it was to take boys back and forth to school

    and to help them mature.

    Or as the kids would say today,

    they would help them learn how to adult.

    That's what a pedagogos did, preparation for adulting.

    That's what they did.

    And Paul here says, "You have," literally in the Greek,

    "you will always constantly have countless people teaching you."

    And that is more true now than it's ever been.

    You're constantly going to have countless people giving you information

    on TV, radio, podcasts.

    Bible teaching is out there.

    But there is no one who has the relationship with you

    like the one who led you to Christ.

    The one who discipled you.

    Your spiritual father, your spiritual parent.

    Everybody has that relationship like that.

    This is a tough sell right here.

    Because some Christians aren't spiritual parents.

    Because you've never led anyone to Christ.

    You've never discipled a new believer.

    Because if you have, you know that it's a unique relationship.

    It's a special kind of love and responsibility that comes.

    And the sad thing is too many people in the church miss out on the blessing.

    Because honestly sharing the gospel just isn't in -

    just it's never a thought to share the gospel with anyone.

    You know, there's a pastor that I listen to,

    speaking of countless teachers.

    There's a pastor that I listen to often.

    Ron Dunn.

    He used this illustration one time.

    And I really had to chew on it for a while.

    But he said the gospel of Jesus Christ

    is a train that runs on two tracks.

    And one rail of the track is the work of Jesus Christ.

    There's death on the cross and His resurrection.

    But the other rail of the track is someone to deliver that message.

    And he used this illustration.

    He said imagine there's a man on death row

    about to be executed and the governor pardons him.

    The governor has the pardon in paper form and gives it to a courier.

    And says here's the pardon.

    I need you to deliver this to the prison

    where the man is about to be executed here.

    Take this pardon.

    You realize it does that man on death row no good

    if that courier doesn't deliver the pardon.

    Could you imagine?

    Could you imagine the governor saying,

    "Look, this is going to save this man's life.

    Make sure the prison gets it and the courier forgets."

    Or he just doesn't think it's that important.

    Right?

    If the courier doesn't deliver the pardon,

    it's not going to take the effect.

    And do you understand?

    You are God's courier.

    In Jesus Christ, God has pardoned sin

    and the people you know who don't know the Lord are on death row.

    And God has given you the pardon to say deliver this.

    Tell them that they don't have to die.

    And so often we're just like, "Eh, not that important."

    You're the courier.

    Are you getting the message out?

    That's so amazing to me that God has the ability

    to do whatever He wants to do.

    And what He wants to do is use you to reach people with the gospel.

    He wants you to disciple the lost.

    So how often, during the course of your week,

    do you engage people in spiritual conversations at work,

    at the barber shop, with your unsafe family?

    How often do you say to someone,

    "Hey, can I pray for you?"

    How often do you invite somebody to church?

    So think of that new believer

    that's following you around for a month.

    What would they see from you?

    Would they see a heart for evangelism that's worth imitating?

    Number 3, are you worth imitating?

    How about your love for people?

    How about your heart for evangelism?

    Worth imitating?

    Number 3, quickly, what about your consistency of faith?

    Consistency of faith.

    Is it worth imitating?

    Look at verse 17 again.

    He says, "That is why I sent you Timothy,

    my beloved and faithful child in the Lord,

    to remind you of my ways in Christ

    as I teach them everywhere in every church."

    He says, "That is why I sent you Timothy."

    Wait, wait, wait.

    What is why you sent me Timothy?

    Verse 16, he said, "Are you going to get the flow here?"

    He goes, "Hey, be imitators of me.

    That's why I sent you Timothy."

    You see his point?

    You see his point?

    Timothy is the perfect example of discipleship.

    Timothy is what you want in a spiritual child.

    Paul's like, "Hey, him coming is as good as me coming."

    That's what you want.

    That's when you know that you have discipled someone.

    You can send them and they can perfectly represent you.

    And you have no worries.

    I have that with Pastor Taylor.

    Whether it's going somewhere to speak

    or dealing with a crisis or counseling someone,

    I know that if he's going, it's just the same as if I go.

    I know he's going to handle it.

    And I know he's going to honor Jesus doing it.

    Paul says, "Tim's going to represent Tim."

    I call him Tim.

    We went to high school together.

    Tim will represent.

    He'll do what I do.

    What do you do, Paul?

    He says, "Teach the same thing everywhere."

    Right? You see that?

    Teach the same thing everywhere.

    Teach what?

    My ways in Christ.

    My ways in Christ.

    Consistency is not about the lesson of Bible principles.

    That's not what he's saying here.

    I printed out a workbook

    and we made a million copies and we're passing it out.

    That's not what he's saying.

    The consistency is in my ways in Christ.

    It's the way that I live out these principles.

    My ways everywhere.

    Do you see that?

    What Paul's talking about here

    is integrity.

    Integrity.

    By the way, men,

    you want to sign up for the men's conference.

    Brian Beehe gives a message on integrity.

    We were working through rehearsals and such

    and he gave his rehearsal recently

    and every man that was in the room

    was just crushed.

    Justin, integrity.

    That's what he's talking about here.

    Integrity. I'm the same follower of Jesus everywhere.

    Not just Sunday, not just a church,

    not just a small group.

    It's integrity.

    Because nothing dishonors the Lord

    or kills your witness like hypocrisy.

    Do you have any areas of hypocrisy in your life

    that you need to repent?

    If a new believer followed you around,

    would they see a consistency of faith worth imitating?

    And then finally, number 4,

    your handling of sinners.

    Worth imitating?

    I want you to notice the different tones

    that Paul uses here

    because he's addressing really two different groups

    in this passage.

    Did you notice that?

    Look at verse 14 again.

    He says, "I do not rate these things to make you a shame

    but to admonish you as my beloved children."

    Admonish means to lovingly confront

    in order to change.

    There's a gentleness in admonishing

    because spiritual children

    are a lot like regular children.

    They mature slowly.

    They mess up a lot.

    They frustrate you like crazy.

    And that's why Paul says,

    "I'm not trying to make you feel bad."

    All the stuff that we've been talking about, Paul's like,

    "I'm not just trying to bust your chops.

    I'm not trying to kick you when you're done.

    I'm not trying to hurt your feelings."

    He says, "Here's my end game. Do better."

    That's all I'm saying. Do better.

    Sometimes I get a little emotional and fired up

    whether it's in preaching or counseling.

    Why?

    Because look, my job up here is not to just give you

    Bible information.

    Like here's what the Bible says.

    You should do this.

    If you don't, it doesn't matter to me.

    It matters to me that you embrace this.

    It matters to me that you are taking God's Word

    and reflecting its truths in your life.

    It matters to me that you get it.

    And that's why there's times that we have to admonish

    our spiritual kids when they sin.

    We have an obligation to do that, by the way.

    An obligation.

    That's part of parenting.

    So that's one group. Look at the other group.

    Look at verses 18 through 21 again.

    He says, "Some are arrogant as though we're not coming to you.

    But I will come to you soon if the Lord wills,

    and I will find out not the talk of these arrogant people,

    but their power.

    For the kingdom of God does not consist in talk,

    but in power.

    How do you wish?

    Should I come to you with a rod?

    Or with love and a spirit of gentleness?"

    Did you notice the change of tone?

    Some people need a little loving admonishment.

    Like, hey, we're going to do better.

    All right, we're going to do better.

    Other people need a rebuke.

    Like, hey, you need knock down a peg.

    He's addressing the arrogant.

    Do you notice that the arrogant?

    Some of you are arrogant.

    They're like kids when mom and dad aren't there.

    I don't care what they say.

    That's what these arrogant Corinthians, they were like.

    I don't care what Paul says. He's not here.

    What's he going to do about it?

    Oh, he's going to come.

    Paul's not going to come. That's why he sent Timothy.

    He's afraid to come here.

    Paul ain't going to do nothing.

    All right?

    I don't know why you guys are so concerned about Paul.

    He ain't here and he ain't coming.

    So arrogant.

    And I love that Paul's like, oh, I'm coming.

    He's as if the Lord wills.

    And Paul says, then we'll find out.

    We'll find out who's all talk and no game.

    We'll find out when I get there.

    Put your helmet on.

    Years ago in prison ministry, we had an elderly man

    who went in. His name was Joe.

    And sometimes in prison ministry,

    you would get guys come to Bible study,

    not because they wanted to learn the Scriptures,

    but because they wanted to cause problems.

    We get that a lot. People would come just to pick fights.

    And there's one guy in particular this one night,

    everything that was said, it was just like,

    oh, you're telling me that?

    And he was just like, he was protesting everything.

    He was mocking everybody.

    He would not shut up the entire time.

    And just obnoxious.

    And finally, Joe spoke up.

    And Joe said to the man, he goes, have you ever

    seen a semi truck driving down the road?

    And the guy's like, yeah?

    And Joe goes, well, you know, it's the empty trucks that

    make the most noise.

    Guy didn't say much after that.

    And that's kind of what Paul's saying here.

    He goes, some of you people are just talk.

    He goes, we'll find out when I get there.

    Because the kingdom of heaven is not just like talking.

    The kingdom of heaven is the power of the Holy Spirit

    in your life.

    So Paul says in verse 21, you make the choice.

    You make the choice.

    Do you want me to come with the rod?

    You're with gentleness.

    How many parents have said something like that to their kids?

    I know I have.

    Like, hey, look, this can go one of two ways.

    Make a better choice.

    It's up to you.

    So love disciplines.

    Look, you're going to deal with sinning people.

    But even in this one passage here,

    we see that you can't deal with all sinning people

    the same way.

    Because the people in verse 14, they were caught up

    in the divisiveness.

    And yeah, they needed corrected.

    But the arrogant in verse 18, the arrogant needed knocked down.

    A peg.

    That's why we see two different tones in the same passage.

    And parents, you need to get this.

    Parents, when your kids are sinning, spiritual parents,

    when those of your disciples are sinning,

    you have to ask yourself, is this a matter of immaturity

    or is this a matter of rebellion?

    Because immaturity or rebellion, I

    need to figure that out because that determines my response

    to the kids.

    I've seen this a thousand times.

    Some parents completely freak out when their kid drops a dish.

    But then that same kid will be flagrantly disobedient.

    And the parents just like, eh, well, what can you do?

    Like, no, no, that's where you've got to lay the hammer down.

    On the rebellion.

    Paul got that.

    That's why you see the different tones.

    So you're going to model this.

    You have to address sin.

    And sin has to be addressed appropriately.

    Is this a situation where I admonish?

    Or is this a situation where I rebuke?

    Am I dealing with immaturity?

    Or am I dealing with rebellion?

    So what about that Christian--

    that baby Christian that's following you around all month?

    Would they see the way you handle sinners to be worth imitating?

    I talked about ministry year one.

    Kind of a defining moment.

    And we talk about marriage year one.

    First year of our marriage--

    I was on the phone.

    I was on the phone.

    It wasn't this nice.

    It was an old school.

    We've been married a long time.

    It was a bigger, clunkier phone.

    But it was a cell phone.

    And I was just as technologically stupid

    then as I am now.

    But I was on the phone with someone

    and hung up the phone and set the phone down

    on the kitchen table.

    And Aaron and I were sitting at the kitchen table.

    And we started talking and reminiscing.

    We both went to Shakora Elementary School.

    There go gremlins.

    And we started talking about the music class.

    The music teacher had come in once a week.

    We were just wheeling in the keyboard on the cart.

    And we would sing these ridiculous songs.

    Aaron and I were reminiscing.

    And we started singing the songs together.

    I asked her if she would come up today

    and join me for a duet.

    She's leaning towards no.

    But we were like, oh, do you remember that song?

    The song about--

    this is a story about Sammy.

    Do you guys remember this one?

    His father said in the mouth to buy bread.

    So Aaron and I are belting it out.

    But Sammy didn't feel like walking.

    He wished he could fly in.

    And we're like belting it out.

    And we're laughing.

    And then it's like, oh, do you remember little Tommy Tinker?

    Do you remember-- no, I didn't go to school with him.

    That was one of the songs.

    Anybody remember little Tommy Tinker?

    Nobody, nobody at all.

    Little Tommy Tinker-- we were singing it.

    We were just little Tommy Tinker, sad and a clinker.

    And he began to cry, ma, ma, poor little innocent guy.

    But it's around.

    So when I say, he began to cry, then you

    would come in at the beginning.

    I keep going.

    And it's around.

    And it was a real hoot.

    So Aaron and I were sitting there like, little Tommy Tinker.

    And we were like, we did the round.

    And it was awesome.

    And I'm like, do you remember--

    another song that I liked was the Jelly Bean Jump.

    Jump to the Jelly Bean Jump, jump, jump.

    So we started singing that one.

    Jump to the Jelly Bean Jump, jump, jump.

    Folks in Mexico City, big, small, andy, dee, dee, dee,

    all joined in this pretty ditty.

    Jumped them every way.

    Nobody.

    Well, Aaron remembered.

    And we sat there for, what, 30, 45 minutes

    belting out these songs and laughing hysterically.

    Well, I accidentally did not hang up the phone.

    And in a way that I still don't understand,

    the whole thing got recorded.

    And it was re-listened to.

    And we were reminded of it for a very long time.

    You're like, why did you tell us that horrible story?

    Well, one reason is I wanted to float those songs as options

    for coming onto the worship set.

    But the other one is this.

    I learned a very valuable lesson that day.

    Whether you realize it or not, someone's always listening to you.

    Whether you realize it or not, somebody's watching you.

    And oh, it's over.

    Much more serious matters than the songs that we sang in Mexico City.

    Much more serious than the songs that we sang in elementary school.

    Somebody is watching how you follow Jesus Christ.

    So the question is, are you worth imitating?

    Let's pray.

    Our Father in Heaven, this is a passage that kind of hits us all between the eyes.

    Because we are all well aware of the gap between who we are and who we should be sometimes.

    Father, we thank you for your grace.

    Father, we thank you that our salvation is in performance based by us.

    It's based on the performance of Jesus.

    But at the same time, Father, you have called us to be worth imitating.

    You have called us to take the doctrine from the pages of your Word

    and show people what that looks like applied in the life of a dad, of a mom, of a friend, of a worker.

    We are to be an example.

    I just pray, Father, by the power of your Spirit, that we can in a sense sort of stand beside Paul

    and encourage others to follow our example in seeking you.

    We pray in Jesus' name. Amen.