Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Craft Your 5-Year Plan

Introduction:

Goal for 2024: I will - ___

How to Craft Your 5-Year Plan (James 4:13-17)

  1. You need to know what you Don't Know . (Jas 4:13-14)
    1. You don't know what is going to Happen tomorrow. (Jas 4:14a)

      Proverbs 27:1 - Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.

    2. You don't know if you will Have a tomorrow. (Jas 4:14b)
  2. You need to stop the Self-Confidence . (Jas 4:15-16)

    Numbers 20:10-12 - Then Moses and Aaron gathered the assembly together before the rock, and he said to them, "Hear now, you rebels: shall we bring water for you out of this rock?" And Moses lifted up his hand and struck the rock with his staff twice, and water came out abundantly, and the congregation drank, and their livestock. And the LORD said to Moses and Aaron, "Because you did not believe in me, to uphold me as holy in the eyes of the people of Israel, therefore you shall not bring this assembly into the land that I have given them."

  3. You need to do whatever God says - ASAP . (Jas 4:17)
  4. You need to acknowledge God has the Final Say . (Jas 4:15)

    Acts 18:21 - I will return to you again if God wills.

    1 Corinthians 4:19 - I will come to you soon, if the Lord wills.

    1 Corinthians 16:5-7 - I will visit you after passing through Macedonia, for I intend to pass through Macedonia, and perhaps I will stay with you or even spend the winter, so that you may help me on my journey, wherever I go. For I do not want to see you now just in passing. I hope to spend some time with you, if the Lord permits.

    Philippians 1:20 - as it is my eager expectation and hope that I will not be at all ashamed, but that with full courage now as always Christ will be honored in my body, whether by life or by death.

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    It's New Year's Eve and it's the magical time of year where we're making New Year's resolutions.

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    And I actually before we look at that I want us to look at some statistics regarding making New Year's resolutions.

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    All right. So I thought we could do it the boring way and I just read you the statistics.

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    Or we could do it the fun way.

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    Let's make it a game.

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    All right?

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    We're going to make it a game.

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    It's going to be a guessing game.

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    And everybody's going to participate.

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    All right?

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    If you're watching at home, you can participate too.

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    You're just going to have to speak extra loud.

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    All right?

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    So you're going to have to guess the percentage.

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    All right?

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    What percentage of US adults set New Year's resolutions every year?

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    Now, I'm gonna give you an opportunity in a second.

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    I want you to shout out an answer and whatever answer I hear the most clearly, which who knows what that'll be since my hearing is so bad, but whatever answer, I'll take it from there.

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    So percentage of US adults that set New Year's resolutions every year, shout out your guess.

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    I heard 68.

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    We're gonna go with that one.

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    All right, now we're gonna play card sharks, higher or lower.

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    Remember card sharks?

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    Some of you do.

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    Higher or lower?

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    Okay, how many people, show of hands, think that it's higher than 68% that set New Year's resolutions every year?

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    How many people think it's lower?

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    And you are correct, it is 38.5%.

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    And look, if you wanna argue these statistics, Erin actually found these and sent them to me, so you can talk to her about that.

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    Okay, percentage of young adults that make New Year's resolutions.

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    By the way, the biggest demographic that makes resolutions is the 18 to 34 bracket.

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    If you're in that bracket, you are in the group that has the highest percentage of people that make New Year's resolutions.

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    So do you want to guess the percentage of that demographic that makes New Year's resolutions every year?

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    guess? I heard 50. That's a safe one there. We can go either way, can't we, Bethany?

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    All right, so how many people think more than 50% of people 18 to 34 make New Year's resolutions? Who thinks it's higher? Okay, who thinks it's lower than 50%?

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    It is higher. It is 59%. Okay, what percentage of New Year's resolutions are are about exercising more.

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    The people that make the resolutions, what's the percentage of people that say, "I wanna exercise more in the new year." Shout out a guess.

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    I heard 65, we're gonna go with 65.

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    How many people think it's higher than 65?

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    How many people think it's lower than 65?

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    It is lower, it's 48%.

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    That's about half.

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    That's about half.

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    The rest of us are like, I'm just gonna sit on the couch and wait for Jesus to return.

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    Okay, percentage of people that quit in the first week.

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    In the first week.

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    Oh, how I admire your perseverance.

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    Percentage of people that quit in the first week.

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    Shout out a guess.

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    You have to do that again, I didn't hear anything.

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    I heard 80.

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    Okay, percentage of people that quit in the first week.

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    How many people think it's more than 80?

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    A few of you, how many people think it's less than 80?

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    There is hope for humanity, there's less than 80.

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    It is 23%.

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    But even then, come on, that's pretty bad.

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    One out of four made it the first week.

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    Okay, what's the percentage of people that make it past the first month?

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    Making it past the first month, shout out a guess.

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    10, I heard 10, first and clear, whoever that was.

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    That was perfect.

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    Okay, percentage of people that make it past the first month, who thinks it's more than 10%?

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    How many people think it's less than 10%?

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    It is 36%.

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    All right, here's the last one.

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    It's a big one.

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    I don't mean like the percentage is big, or is it?

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    I'm not leading you.

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    It's just a very interesting statistic to me.

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    It's percentage of people that successfully keep their New Year's resolutions.

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    That they keep them all year.

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    Percentage of people, they made it, and then at the end of the year, they're standing tall.

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    Shout out a guess.

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    I heard 12, did you say 12?

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    Okay, 12.

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    How many people think it's more than 12?

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    How many people think it's less than 12?

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    Yeah, you would be correct.

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    It is 9%.

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    That's actually a lot higher than I thought it was gonna be.

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    All right, on the top of your outline, goal for 2024, I want you to take a moment and write something down.

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    As you look forward to the new year, it's New Year's Eve, we're turning the calendar.

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    As you look forward to the new year, what goal do you have for this coming year?

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    And if you're like, I have more than one, just write down your biggest one, okay?

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    Or the one that came to your mind immediately.

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    Just write down a goal that you had, or have, excuse me, for 2024.

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    Now we all got plans.

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    and there's nothing wrong with making plans, but you can make plans in the wrong way.

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    And that's where we're going in the next section of James.

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    This is how to make your plans in a way that not only honors God, but acknowledges God in all things.

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    All right, so at the top of your outline, how to craft your five-year plan.

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    And I checked in the first service that the young people are still making their five-year plans.

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    I wasn't sure when I put this together if that was still a thing.

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    I remember when it was a thing, but I've been told it's still a thing, people making their five-year plans.

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    So if you're like, hey, I'm one of these hip youngsters making my five-year plan, well, you're in the right place because today we're going to let God's word show you how to make your five-year plan.

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    Number one, you need to know what you don't know.

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    You need to know what you don't know.

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    Look at verse 13.

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    He says, "Come now, you who say today or tomorrow "we will go into such and such town "and spend a year there and trade make a profit, stop there.

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    This phrasing would have been very familiar to the Jews in that day, because a lot of the Jews were businessmen who would travel and they would find strategic locations and they'd set up a business.

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    And in those days, it could take a year or more of executing.

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    So it was a long process.

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    And I know that's hard for us to understand because we live in a day, I mean, it happens to me all the time.

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    I'll be driving somewhere and it's like a field and I'll drive by that exact same address, like a week later, $5 generals right there.

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    I'm like, next to each other?

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    Yeah, next to each other.

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    But this business plan that we see here in verse 13 He's actually pretty good.

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    I mean, he has everything figured out.

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    Well, almost everything.

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    I mean, if you look at the business plan in verse 13, we have the when, today or tomorrow.

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    We have where, such and such town.

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    How, we'll spend a year there.

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    What, we're gonna trade, right?

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    And why, we have that figured out.

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    to make a profit, no problem with what's there at all.

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    The problem is what's missing.

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    It's the who.

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    You're gonna see this as we go through the text.

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    The problem with this business plan is God is nowhere mentioned in the plan.

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    You see, their sin was not engaging in business.

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    but their sin was they were counting on the future without any acknowledgement of God whatsoever.

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    And listen, planning is great.

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    I don't want anybody leaving here this morning going, "Okay, what I learned in church today "is it's a sin to make plans, so I'm not ever making plans." That is not the message at all.

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    Planning is great.

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    But, Making plans without acknowledging the sovereignty of God is presumptuous.

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    That's the message that James is driving home.

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    So first thing James tells us is you need to know what you don't know.

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    Like, wait a second, how can I know something that I don't know?

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    And I would say, right.

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    That's correct.

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    You're like, "Well, what don't I know?" You see, there's some things that you are unaware of that you need to realize that you are unaware of.

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    You need to know what you don't know.

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    The first thing you don't know is this, letter A, you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow.

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    Look at verse 14.

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    He says, "Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring." That's the first thing you need to know that you don't know is you don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow.

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    And his whole passage here, you have to think that James was thinking about Proverbs 27 one.

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    When he wrote this section, Proverbs 27 one says, do we have that one or did I not put that one on?

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    Oh, there we go, there.

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    It says, "Do not boast about tomorrow, "for you do not know what a day may bring." You see, the first problem with trying to plan without thinking of the Lord, you don't know what's going to happen tomorrow.

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    Life changes in an instant, doesn't it?

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    Think about that.

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    Whether it's more positive sounding things, life changes in an instant.

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    You know, your wife calls and says, "Hey, I was at the doctor and he confirmed I am pregnant." Life changes in an instant.

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    Or you get that call, "Hey, that promotion you put in for, "you're getting it and you're being transferred.

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    "You're gonna be working in Texas." What, why?

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    Life changes in an instant, doesn't it?

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    Also for the not so positive things, positive sounding things, you know, maybe it's, hey, I did have that doctor's appointment and they said it is cancer and it's fast spreading and they have to start treatment immediately.

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    Life changes in an instant.

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    Or, "Honey, I got a memo at work today.

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    "They're downsizing, they're eliminating my position.

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    "And I'm done." Life changes in an instant.

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    Or you get that phone call, "I'm so sorry to tell you, "there's been a terrible accident." Life changes in an instant.

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    James here has us stop and reflect on how well we are doing in the sovereignty department.

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    How's your sovereignty been?

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    My sovereignty has been lousy.

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    My sovereignty has been horrible.

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    There's so much in my life that I thought was gonna turn out one way, and it didn't, and I thought I could control it.

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    and I couldn't, and I look at the health of my son.

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    I look at even the life of this church.

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    I think back to winter of 2019, around the spring of 2020.

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    I remember the elders had all these plans.

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    We sat down, we had all these plans for the church, and then COVID hit, you remember COVID?

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    And that just completely changed everything.

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    My sovereignty hasn't been great.

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    And if you're honest, yours probably hasn't been either.

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    You don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow.

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    Another thing that you need to know that you don't know, the letter B, you don't know if you'll have it tomorrow.

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    How about that?

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    You don't know if you'll have it tomorrow.

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    Look at the rest of verse 14.

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    He says, "What is your life?

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    For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes." You don't know if you'll have it tomorrow.

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    Mist, right?

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    Like a cold day, you go outside and (blows) You see the vapor and it's gone.

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    And James reminds us that's our lives.

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    We are here and gone.

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    I had a funeral on Friday, two days ago, for a lady from my old church.

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    Her name was Marian, and 91 years old.

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    And they said she was extremely active all the way to the end.

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    She has an amazing family, great life.

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    She loved the Lord, had a strong faith.

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    Despite the hardship she faced, she was such an incredible testimony.

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    And I thought, you know, that's like storybook, honestly.

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    Lived to be in my 90s, active all the way up to the very end, surrounded by family.

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    But that's not the usual.

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    It's just not.

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    And James's point here is, hey, you can make plans for tomorrow and you don't know if you have it tomorrow.

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    So as you're putting your five-year plan together, you might wanna take note of that.

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    And you know, truthfully, it's a huge blessing to not know what's gonna happen, right?

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    Sometimes I think, boy, I'd really like to know what's gonna happen in my life or my family's life for the life of this church.

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    I just said that to Pastor Taylor a week or two ago.

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    I said, I'm so curious what God's gonna provide for this church, you know, facilities wise, as we're on that track.

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    And boy, there's sometimes I think I'd love to know.

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    But it's such a blessing that we don't.

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    Because think about it.

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    If you knew that in April, You are gonna land the dream job, the job that you've always wanted.

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    You would be discontent every day until then.

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    You'd be thinking, can't wait till April, can't wait till April, can't, and there's nothing wrong looking forward to stuff, but you would never enjoy the present.

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    You would never be like, what does God have for me here and now?

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    You'd be so fixated on that that you'd miss the blessing of today.

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    It's good that we don't know what's gonna happen.

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    Another, what if it's something not so good?

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    What if you knew for sure in April that one of your kids was gonna be in a terrible accident?

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    You would be so consumed with stress and worry and the anxiety every single day.

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    So we don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow, God does.

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    I think that's a blessing.

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    James says, "Hey, when you craft your five-year plan, "first of all, you need to know what you don't know.

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    "Secondly, you need to stop the self-confidence." Stop with the self-confidence.

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    Look at verses 15 and 16.

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    He says, "Instead, you ought to say, "If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that." We're gonna get back to that verse.

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    But I want us to look at for a couple of minutes here.

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    Look at verse 16.

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    James says, "As it is, you boast in your arrogance.

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    All such boasting is evil." Stop there.

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    Verse 16, that's the other side of the coin from the previous point.

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    You see, on one hand, thinking you're sovereign, making your plans without God, on one hand, you're ignoring God's plans for your life, but on the other, you're bragging about your own.

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    Now, this Greek phrasing here where he says, "Boast in your arrogance," it's literally this, "A loud mouth bragging about something he's not able to do." That's what that means.

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    A loud mouth bragging about something he's not able to do.

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    And I think back to the best illustration of this is like the old snake oil salesman.

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    You remember the snake oil salesman?

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    Be like, "Ladies and gentlemen, step right up here.

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    "Step right up here.

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    "We've got this magic tonic.

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    "You drink this, your hair will grow three feet "by the end of the week, guaranteed." You're like, "That can't possibly be true, but he sounds so sure of himself.

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    He's a loud mouth.

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    He's boasting about something that he can't do.

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    And that's exactly what James is saying here.

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    When you're like, well, I'm gonna do this, and I'm gonna do that, and I'm gonna do this.

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    He goes, you're no better than the snake oil guy.

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    You're boasting about something that you can't do.

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    You're self-confidently making your plans, and you never give this a thought.

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    What if God has a different plan for me?

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    You know, think about that.

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    What if I wanna do this, but what if God in his sovereignty says, "No, no, no, I have something different I want you to do." That thought just isn't even in your head.

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    And you're planning, here's the problem, you can't miss this, you're planning as if you're in charge.

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    And you have to see here, he says, all such boasting is, what does it say in verse 16?

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    Evil, all such boasting is evil.

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    I'm speaking of Greek.

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    That's the same word that's used to describe Satan.

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    It's exalting yourself above God.

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    All such boasting is exalting yourself above God.

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    Just stop here for a second.

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    Because I know right now, there are people here that are like, Pastor Jeff, I think you're laying it on a little thick.

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    I mean, is it really that bad?

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    Okay, so I make plans, and I don't always really stop and consider what the Lord might want for, is it really that big of a deal?

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    And I would say, first of all, God says it's a big deal.

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    Right?

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    You're like arrogant and evil.

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    Isn't that overstating the thing?

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    Like, it sounds pretty intense.

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    And I mean, when I think of sin, I think of like murder or like, you know, stealing from someone or like committing adultery.

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    Like those are the serious sins.

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    This seems like pretty minor leagues, doesn't it?

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    I mean, doesn't this seem kind of like what you're so fired up about?

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    And I'll be honest with you, I've been working on this sermon and studying this for a couple of weeks.

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    And that was one of the things that I kind of got fixated on.

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    Like arrogant and evil to do this.

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    Like this sounds like this is such a serious thing to God.

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    I'm like, why?

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    I mean, I see that it is, but why?

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    I spent a lot of time thinking about that.

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    And I was reminded of Numbers chapter 20.

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    A little quick flashback here.

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    Numbers chapter 20, Old Testament, Moses leading the Israelites out of Egypt to the land that God promised Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.

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    And you get to Numbers chapter 20, they end up at this place called Meribah, and there's no water.

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    And you know what Israel did whenever there was any kind of adversity.

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    Oh, you brought us out here to die, and there's no water, and we don't have any figs.

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    And I'm just like, what do the figs have to do with anything?

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    But that's what they said.

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    And so they start like losing it, right?

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    And the Bible says that Moses goes before the Lord and God says, okay, Moses, I'm paraphrasing this part.

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    We're gonna actually read the text here in a second.

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    But God says, all right, Moses, I want you to speak to the rock and it's gonna yield water.

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    All right, now pick up in verse 10 through 12.

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    It says, "Then Moses and Aaron gathered the assembly "together before the rock.

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    "And he said to them, 'Here now, you rebels, "'shall we bring water for you out of this rock?' "And Moses lifted up his hand "and struck the rock with his staff twice.

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    "And water came out abundantly.

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    "And the congregation drank and their livestock." Like the end, it says, "And the Lord said to Moses and Aaron, 'Because you did not believe in me, to uphold me as holy in the eyes of the people of Israel, therefore you shall not bring this assembly into the land that I've given them.'" So why did God disqualify Moses and Aaron from entering the promised land?

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    Now you see, there's some scholars that say it was purely over the method.

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    God said to speak and Moses struck the rock.

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    He didn't do it the way God said, and that's a fact.

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    Moses did not do it the way that God said.

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    I don't think that's the main issue.

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    And some people say, "Moses lost his temper.

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    "You know, he hit the rock twice." And I think that's part of it, but I don't even think that's the main issue.

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    Can we put those verses back up, please, for a second?

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    Thank you very much.

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    I think the text shows us what the issue is.

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    Look down, like third line up, what God says to Moses.

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    He says, oh, fourth line up, "Because you do not believe in me, "to uphold me as holy." Like, what was he talking about?

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    I want you to look again at what Moses said.

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    Look really close and see if you see a problem.

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    Moses said, "Here now, you rebels, "shall we bring water for you out of this rock?" Somebody tell me, what's the problem with that question?

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    You caught that right away, didn't you?

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    Problem, we, we, we.

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    What's this we stuff?

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    Moses says, "I have to keep giving you water?" And God's like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa.

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    Moses, you never did.

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    That was all God's power." But Moses did something that if we're honest, we tread there sometimes.

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    Moses put himself in the place of God.

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    That's why God said, "You didn't uphold me as only.

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    "You were supposed to say, 'Israel, God has all the power.

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    "'God gets all the glory.

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    "'All praise goes to God.' "And Moses, you stepped in that place "and said, 'Look what I'm doing for you.'" God says, "I won't have that." Who do you think you are taking credit for what only God can do?

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    Like, okay, what does that have to do with James and making plans?

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    I think it has everything to do with it, because there's the same principle at play here.

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    When you make plans without regarding God, you're acting just like Moses, trying to take the place of the sovereign.

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    And in essence, God is saying to you, when you make your plans without Him, God is saying to you, "Who do you think you are?

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    Oh, you're making your plans.

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    Oh, oh, are you sovereign?" asking in essence, you mean you can make and fulfill all your plans regardless of what I want?

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    The sovereign of the universe in charge of every second that passes, in charge of every molecule that exists, you're gonna make your plans and you're gonna fulfill them and I'm not gonna have any say over that?

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    Now do you see why James uses the word arrogant?

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    And I would suggest to you, church, That if God wasn't keen on Moses talking like he's God, then God's not going to be on board with you talking like you're God either.

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    So stop the self-confidence.

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    All right, crafting your five-year plan number three, you need to do whatever God says ASAP.

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    ASAP.

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    A-S-A-P, that's a hip new term.

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    It means as soon as possible.

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    New, it's new.

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    I heard it in a sermon I was listening to on my eight track.

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    You need to do whatever God says ASAP.

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    Look at verse 17.

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    So whatever, excuse me.

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    So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.

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    See, when we say sin, we think of doing the wrong thing, like lying and stealing, like that.

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    But sin is more than that.

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    Sin is also knowing what you need to do and just not doing it.

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    That's called a sin of omission.

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    Doing the wrong thing, that's a sin of commission.

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    Not doing the right thing is a sin of omission.

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    You're like, "Why is it in this context?" James is talking to people who know today what God wants them to do, and they presume on the future.

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    I'll do it later.

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    That's what he's talking about.

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    You know today exactly what God wants you to do.

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    I'll do it later.

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    I'll get to it.

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    And I think this is the type of sin that is so prevalent in the church.

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    Knowing what you need to do and just not doing it.

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    You know, there are people sitting in church, they're saying, "You know, I'm gonna repent.

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    "I realized I shouldn't be doing this, "and I'm gonna repent.

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    "Repentance is the right thing, "and I'm gonna do it tomorrow." Or, "You know, I'm involved in this relationship.

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    "I shouldn't be in this relationship.

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    "I know it's wrong.

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    "It's wrong for me, it's wrong for the other person.

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    "It's a wrong relationship that I'm in, "and I'm gonna break it off tomorrow." I need to stop wasting time.

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    So much of my time is just spent with meaningless time-wasting activities, and I'm gonna be more intentional about glorifying God with the way I spend my time, "I'm gonna get to that tomorrow." Or you say, "I'm gonna get more serious "about my walk with the Lord.

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    "I realize prayer is important "and I haven't been praying like I need to, "and I'm gonna carve out time, make prayer a priority, "and I'm gonna make time in the Word a priority, "and you know what, starting tomorrow, It's gonna be a whole new way of living for me.

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    Tomorrow, new leaf and all that.

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    I'm gonna start giving to the church.

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    I really haven't been, but you know what?

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    It's all God's and God promised to bless it and it's an act of obedience.

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    I'm gonna, tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow I'm gonna start giving.

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    Wait, I don't get paid tomorrow.

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    paycheck I'm gonna start giving.

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    Or, you know, I know as the church is growing and there are so many kids back there and needs on the worship team and security and hospitality and facility, there's just so many areas.

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    I'm gonna step up tomorrow.

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    See, that's a sin.

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    to sin when you know exactly what God wants you to do, and you know exactly what God wants you to do, and you say, "I'll get to it tomorrow.

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    "You know, when I start my diet, I'm gonna get to it." Putting off what God wants you to do is sin, and when God brings some point of obedience to your mind, you need to get on that.

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    ASAP.

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    Right, ASAP.

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    You know, we pray in the Lord's prayer, our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come.

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    What's the next part?

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    They will be done.

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    Okay, they will be done.

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    And then what's the next phrase?

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    How's that go?

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    On earth as it is in heaven.

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    How do you think God's will is done in heaven?

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    How do you think it's done?

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    Do you think God ever says to an angel, "Hey, assignment, this is exactly what I need you to do." And the angel's like, "Yeah, sorry, Almighty.

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    "I have a lunch appointment "and I'm gonna book the rest of the day.

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    "Actually, this whole week's not good.

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    "How about next Thursday?" Do you think that happens ever?

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    Do you?

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    Of course not.

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    When God says, "Hey, this needs done," the angel's like, "Poof, gone." Do you realize that's what we're praying for when we say your will be done on earth as it is in heaven?

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    That when God tells you to do something, you should be on it like the angel.

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    Okay, now, I'll get on it right now.

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    I read a few years ago, I read this sermon from Charles Spurgeon.

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    And this just always stuck with me.

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    He was speaking of a recently deceased friend of his.

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    He had a friend, his name was William Olney, O-L-N-E-Y.

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    But listen to what Charles Spurgeon said about his friend who had just passed.

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    Spurgeon said, "His life cannot be said to be unfinished.

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    All is finished as if he knew he was going to die.

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    Spurgeon said, this man died as if he knew he was gonna die right then.

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    So he made sure he finished everything in his life.

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    Everything was done.

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    And I gotta tell you, the first place I looked was at myself to say, could that be said about me?

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    Now it's your turn.

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    Could that be said about you?

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    If this was your last day on earth, and it could be, if this was your last day on earth, would we look at your life and say, you know what?

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    She lived like she knew this was coming and everything is finished.

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    Or are there going to be a lot of loose ends?

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    Like, wow, wow.

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    She so is not ready for this.

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    Are there any broken relationships in your life that you need to reach out to?

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    Maybe you need to send a text, give a call.

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    Don't leave it unfinished.

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    Is there someone maybe that you took advantage of that you need to make restitution to.

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    Don't leave anything unfinished.

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    Is there some kind of addiction that you just need to like, no, it's over, done.

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    Bottle of something that needs to be dumped down the drain.

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    Do you need to cry out to Jesus for the salvation that he gives.

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    There's people that are sitting here and there's people I'm sure watching this stream that are church goers but not Christ believers, not born again Jesus disciples.

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    And listen, we talk about making plans.

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    It doesn't, nothing you do matters until you do that.

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    You realize that.

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    The most important thing you will ever do is bow your knee to Jesus Christ, to believe that he died to take away your sin.

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    He rose from the dead to give you eternal life.

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    That's the most important thing that needs to happen.

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    Like, yeah, I'm gonna get serious about him.

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    You gotta do that today.

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    Because James says you put it off, that's sin.

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    It's sin.

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    So we're sitting here today talking about the five-year plan.

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    You know what, forget the five-year plan.

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    Maybe we need to think about our five-minute plan.

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    What do I need to do in the next five minutes?

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    And whatever you know that God wants you to do, get on that ASAP, right?

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    And number four, finally, you need to acknowledge God has the final say.

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    We're gonna go back to verse 15.

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    Because really this is the whole thing, right?

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    This is the crux of the matter here.

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    Verse 15, look at it again.

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    Instead, here it is.

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    Instead, you ought to say, "If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that." So that your plans for 2024, the thing you wrote on the top of your outline here, your plans.

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    When you wrote that down, how much did you stop and consider, what does God want me to do?

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    Did you think about that when you wrote that down?

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    Like, what does God want?

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    Because the believer, the Christ follower lives by this.

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    God is at the center of all my plans.

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    And we have to live with a constant commitment to the contingency of the will of God.

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    We have to live church like, hey, we're making plans, but if God changes the plans or God has a different idea than I did, we're going with his, because God has the final say.

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    Paul got this, real quick, real quick.

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    Paul got this, you see this, Acts 18, 21, as he was leaving Ephesus, he says, "I will return to you again if God wills." 1 Corinthians 4, 19, "I will come to you soon if the Lord wills." 1 Corinthians 16, verses five through seven, look at how he talks about his travel plans.

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    He definitely wrote in pencil, not pen.

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    But he says, "I will visit you after passing through Macedonia, for I intend to pass through Macedonia and perhaps will stay with you or even spend the winter, so that you may help me on my journey wherever I go.

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    For I do not wanna see you now just in passing, I hope to spend some time with you, if the Lord permits.

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    See that?

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    That we should be a people of conviction that my life is in God's hands.

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    And I can say, you know what, I hope to do this, and I plan to do this, but if God and his providence and his sovereignty changes the plan, I'm doing that instead, because God has the final say.

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    And really any plans that we make should be about God's glory, right?

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    Anything we do should be about God's glory.

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    And if our lives take a detour from what we planned, well, then that must be from God, and our goal's still the same, to give God the glory.

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    So, if our worship team would make their way forward, we gotta watch the expectations, my friends.

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    We gotta watch the expectations because we get so flustered.

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    Say, yeah, I was planning on doing this and I wanted to do that and I'm frustrated because I was expecting this.

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    But you realize, biblically, we should only have one expectation.

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    One expectation, it's Philippians 1.20.

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    You need to carry this expectation with you.

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    Like, what are you expecting today?

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    Like Paul, as it is, my eager expectation and hope that I will not be at all ashamed, but with full courage, now as always, Christ will be honored in my body, whether by life or by death.

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    Like, what are you expecting, Paul?

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    What are you expecting?

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    He's like, I'm not gonna be ashamed.

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    But whether I live or whether I die, whatever happens, may Jesus Christ be honored through me.

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    So your 2024 plans, whatever you wrote here, it's bad planning.

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    Whatever you wrote.

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    And you're like, "Jeff, that was kind of jerky.

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    "Like you told us to write that, "then you tell us that we did it wrong." True, you're right.

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    But it was to teach you a lesson.

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    And here's the lesson.

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    What you got to do now is write right underneath that, if the Lord wills.

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    Now it's correct.

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    and you live by that conviction.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, I guess I'm guilty.

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    I don't think of this as being such a big deal, but you do.

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    And how many times, Father, have I said thoughtlessly what about my plans without considering what do you want me to do?

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    Whether it's just the agenda for the day or ministry plans or vacation plans or whatever.

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    I think it's so flustered when it doesn't happen the way I want.

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    This is a big deal.

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    God, thank you for all the reminders that I'm not sovereign, but you are.

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    And God, I pray for my brothers and sisters here, that as we draw near to you, we would grow in our trust.

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    Whatever you want, whatever you want us to do, or more accurately, I guess, whatever you wanna do through us, may we approach every aspect of our lives, in our homes, in our workplaces, in our church, let us approach all of it, all of our planning.

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    by saying, "If the Lord wills, this is what we'll do." We pray in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read James 4:13-17

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Did you make a 2024 New Year’s Resolution? What are some resolutions you made in the past?

  3. Is James saying it is wrong to make plans? Why or why not?

  4. Explain why making plans apart from God is “arrogant” and “evil” (Jas 4:16). Why is this such a serious sin?

  5. Is there anything you know God wants you to do, but you’ve been putting it off? What is keeping you from obeying God today?

Breakout
Pray for one another to make your 2024 plans in the way that acknowledges God in all things.

Jesus' Christmas Presence: An Example - He Gives a New Attitude

Introduction:

4 Things the Incarnation Teaches Us About Selflessness (Philippians 2:5-11):

  1. Selflessness starts in the Mind . (Phil 2:6)
  2. Selflessness is a matter of Identity . (Phil 2:7)
  3. Selflessness shows up in Action . (Phil 2:8)
  4. Selflessness leads to Glory . (Phil 2:9-11)

    Matthew 23:12 - Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.

    Luke 14:11 - For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.

    Luke 18:14 - For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.

    1 Peter 5:6 - Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you,

    James 4:10 - Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.

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    Open up your Bibles with me, please, to Philippians chapter 2.

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    And if you don't have a Bible with you, you can use one in the seat back.

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    If you don't have a Bible at home, you can keep that one.

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    And if the print's too small in that one, which I think it is, we have larger print Bibles on that shelf in the back.

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    You can have one of those, consider that our present to you.

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    Romans chapter 2.

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    It is Christmas time.

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    It's a magical time of year, isn't it?

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    It's a time when we really, maybe more than any other time in the year, we think of others over ourselves, right?

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    Don't we do that at Christmas especially?

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    We think of others over ourselves?

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    I mean, except when you're like at the mall and you're about to pull into that parking spot, right?

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    And that jerk pulls in ahead of you, you know what I'm talking about?

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    And you're like, I was sitting here with my turn signal on.

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    You didn't see me, but you went right in there.

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    Other than that, we're pretty good about being selfless, aren't we?

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    I mean, except when the church doesn't play the right songs that we think they should.

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    I have a pastor friend who served at a church up in Canada that every year for generations, they closed their service with that song, Feliz Navidad.

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    You know the one I'm talking about?

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    You know that horrible, horrible, horrible song?

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    ♪ I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas ♪ You know that song?

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    Well, one year the pastor was like, you know what, let's do something a little different so we don't get stuck in like some traditional rite.

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    There was like rioting in the aisles and there were tears and sackcloth and ashes and threats and like really over that song?

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    But I mean, other than that, we're pretty selfless this time of year, right?

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    Well, except when we give somebody a gift and we don't quite get the thank you that we were expecting.

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    Has that happened to anybody else?

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    You make this big presentation, you wrapped it all nice, and you're expecting, it doesn't have to be a ticker tape parade, but come on, something, and you give the gift and they just kind of take it and they're like, oh, thanks, that's nice.

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    You're like, no, it's more than nice.

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    But I mean, other than that, we're pretty selfless and we think of others over ourselves, right?

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    Well, I guess also, except for when we put the decorations away, for some of us, it'll be tomorrow we put them away.

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    And for some of us, it'll be June when you get your Christmas decorations away And you feel like, well, maybe Christmas wasn't what I wanted it to be.

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    Maybe it was a bit of a letdown.

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    And I think if we're all going to be honest with ourselves, we should confess that really, by nature, even this time a year, we still get stuck being pretty self-centered.

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    my way, my rights.

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    Or as we had one adopted grandma, her saying was always, I don't prefer that.

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    Or we say that offends me, right?

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    Well, self-centeredness is a miserable way to live.

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    in the home, it's miserable in the workplace.

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    And self-centeredness causes all kinds of problems in the church.

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    We talked about that, we're going through the book of James and we saw this in James chapter four.

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    There's fights, there's quarrels, there's even murder that takes place because people are selfish and insist on getting what they want, how they want it, when they want it.

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    They're like, "Well, how do I fix that?

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    How can I stop being so self-absorbed?" Well, look at Philippians chapter two.

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    Looking at, we'll pick up in verse two.

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    He says, "Complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord, excuse me, and of one mind." Here it is, verse three, he says, "Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.

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    Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." There's your solution.

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    If you struggle sometimes as I do with being self-centered, there's your answer right there.

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    What you need to do is just simply consider other people as being more important than you.

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    That's it.

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    That's a sermon, you can go.

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    Merry Christmas.

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    If you're like, "Hang on, hang on, hang on." That's a nice thought.

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    But how in the world do I live that out?

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    How can I, it's easier said than done.

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    You know, I've tried that and it lasts like, you know, 15 seconds.

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    How do I consider other people more important than me?

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    How can I truly live a selfless lifestyle?

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    Well, you know, the very next thing that Paul talks about here is the incarnation.

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    He talks about the truth that God Almighty became a man.

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    And in our vernacular today, we would say that Paul goes right into the Christmas story.

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    You see, it's a story of promise.

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    The Christmas story is a story of miracle.

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    It's a story of hope.

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    Ultimately, as Pastor Taylor preached last week, it's a story of salvation.

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    But this Christmas, I want you to see that there's something more for us.

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    That the story of Christmas, the story of God becoming a man, is also the example of selflessness.

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    Look at verse five.

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    He says, "Have this mind among yourselves." This mind, we're like, what mind?

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    We already talked about that, considering others more important than yourselves, looking over the interests of others.

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    You're like, man, where do I get that mind?

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    Where do I get that mindset?

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    Well, look at verse five.

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    He says, "Which is yours in Christ Jesus." If you are a follower of Jesus Christ, if you are a born again believer, I have great news for you.

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    You already have this mind.

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    You have the mind of Christ because you have the Holy Spirit.

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    And Paul here is calling us to imitate the selflessness of Christ that was on display in the incarnation.

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    So if you're taking notes, which I always encourage you to do, four things the incarnation teaches us about selflessness.

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    I was originally gonna call this, have yourself a selfless little Christmas.

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    And I'm like, they're never gonna go for that.

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    Gonna be dignified.

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    So we're going to say, four things the incarnation teaches us about selflessness.

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    Number one, write this down.

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    You wanna be selfless like Jesus?

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    Selflessness starts in the mind.

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    I want you to look at this verse six.

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    He says, talking about Jesus, who though he was in the form of God did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped.

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    Stop there.

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    It says he was in the form of God.

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    That's not something lesser.

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    That's not saying that Jesus resembled God.

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    The literal Greek here means that Jesus had the very essence of God.

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    Jesus is by nature God.

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    That's what the original language means.

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    And this speaks to from where Jesus' humiliation began as God.

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    You see, Jesus being God went from the throne of heaven to baby in a manger.

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    And I'm not sure we can fully wrap our brains around that experience.

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    I was trying to think of some examples to illustrate this.

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    And to be honest with you, I really, I couldn't think of anything of this magnitude.

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    I thought, well, like for ladies, what if you're like the queen of England and then you become a street urchin?

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    I'm sorry, that doesn't offend anybody, does it?

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    Like, Pastor Jeff, my aunt is a street urchin and quite frankly, she doesn't prefer that term.

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    Or like, okay, that didn't work.

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    Or I was thinking like for guys, like what if you went from starting pitcher for the New York Yankees to third string pitching coach for the Pine Richland Little League Peewee team.

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    And I just couldn't think of a good example to really embrace this concept that God Almighty became a baby.

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    And then I started thinking, how could he be okay with this?

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    To go from such an exalted position, such a lofty position to being a baby.

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    How could he be okay with that?

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    Well, here we have our answer.

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    It started in his mind.

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    Notice it says, he did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped.

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    You see, Jesus would have had every right to demand that people treat Him as God, because He is.

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    But Jesus said, "You know, if letting go of that privilege is going to help people, And that's not something that I need to hold on to.

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    In Jesus' mind, he didn't feel the need to tightly cling to all of the privileges that come with being God.

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    And my friends, if you're going to humble yourself, if you're truly going to be selfless like you want to think you are, like Jesus, it has to start in your mind.

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    You have to get to the place where you have made up in your mind that you do not have to insist on your rights.

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    You have to get to the place in your mind like Jesus that you're not too important to stoop down and help somebody in need.

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    And that's so counter to our flesh where we're constantly worried about my rights and what do I deserve?

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    And I can't believe you asked me to do that.

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    You asked me to scrub the bathroom here?

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    Do you realize who I am?

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    I'm the pastor of the church.

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    And you know who I am?

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    That mindset needs to change.

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    To, well, you know, if God was willing to become a man there's no title that I could ever have that puts me above helping people, right?

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    So selflessness starts in the mind.

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    You gotta reconsider some things.

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    Number two, selflessness is a matter of identity.

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    Look at verse seven.

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    Again, you can barely wrap your brain around this.

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    It says, "But Jesus God made himself nothing, "taking the form of a servant, "being born in the likeness of men." So you see this train of thought here.

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    The way Jesus thought determined the way Jesus saw himself.

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    You see that?

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    It says he made himself nothing or he emptied himself.

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    That's not subtraction, okay?

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    It's not like Jesus stopped being God for a while.

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    That's not what that means.

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    It does mean that he saw himself in a new identity.

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    Notice it says, "Taking the form of a servant or a slave." You see the change of identity?

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    Jesus said, "I am the King of heaven." And in the incarnation, he says, "I am a servant." Like, well, how far did he take that?

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    It says he was born in the likeness of men.

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    Jesus Christ in the incarnation totally identified with us as human beings.

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    People thought of Jesus in form no different than a regular man.

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    And see, that's the mystery of Christmas.

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    That somehow Jesus is fully God and fully man at the same time.

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    That God emptied himself of his glory to be confined to a human body.

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    So you see the way Jesus thought determined the way Jesus saw himself.

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    First a negative and then a positive.

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    He says, "I don't need to demand my rights and privileges.

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    I do see myself as a slave." And again, the point in writing this is an example for us, that we need to see ourselves as servants.

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    You know, it's a tough sell to the world because the way the kingdom works, the way God works is always opposite of the way the world works.

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    It's always opposite.

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    Like if I said to you, like who's the, like who has the most glory on earth?

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    Who is the most important person on earth?

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    Who's the greatest person on earth?

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    Well, the world would start to think in terms of who has the most people serving him, right?

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    Who has the biggest payroll, the biggest staff employees, like who is that?

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    And that's how we determine greatness.

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    But Jesus said, "The greatest among you, will be the servant of all.

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    And I heard one preacher say this, and I love this.

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    He said, "You won't know if you're a servant "until you're treated like one." And I thought about that this week, and I thought, you know, what if we had our ushers, our hospitality team, what if that we gave them a stack of those stickers that say, hello, my name is, and what if they took one of them stickers and just wrote slave on it?

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    Hello, I'm a slave.

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    And when you came in here, they lovingly and good Christian love, they slapped that sticker on your chest and you walked around indicating to everybody that you are a slave.

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    And then people started treating you that way.

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    They see your name tag.

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    Oh, okay, hey, would you give me some coffee?

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    Oh, hey, I left something in the car.

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    Here, go fetch it for me.

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    And then have her washed and waxed.

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    How would you feel if somebody was treating you like a slave?

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    And you see there's something in us that's like, whoa, whoa, whoa, no, no, no, no.

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    I'm not a slave, I'm nobody's slave.

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    That's beneath me.

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    And here we see in this passage that that wasn't how Jesus saw himself.

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    Jesus saw himself as, you know, I'm going to step off the throne of heaven to wash the feet of my disciples.

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    And if Jesus was so willing, what job is beneath you?

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    What job is beneath me?

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    because a servant only thinks about one thing, and that's serving the master.

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    Do you see yourself as a servant of God?

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    Four things the incarnation teaches us about selflessness.

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    Number three, selflessness shows up in action.

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    Look at verse eight.

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    It says, "The being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient point of death, even death on a cross.

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    Again, follow this way of thinking because we're told to model that, we're told to follow this example that Jesus modeled for us rather.

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    But you see this line of thinking, Jesus' way of thinking determined the way Jesus saw himself and that determined what Jesus actually did.

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    Did you see that? He humbled himself and did what? He became obedient to the Father. Well, how far did he take that? All the way to death. Oh, and by the way, it's not just death. We're reminded here that He died the worst possible way to die. That's death on a cross. That's what Jesus humbled Himself and was willing to do.

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    You see, the cross was designed for execution, yes, but it was also designed to prolong the torture for as long as possible.

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    And it was also designed to humiliate the people who were crucified.

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    That's the death that Jesus was willing to endure.

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    See, Jesus went all the way, and he did everything else along the way, all the way.

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    Everything Jesus did was to obey the Father and selflessly serve others.

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    It's astounding.

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    This is God that we're talking about.

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    And read your Bibles.

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    And I challenge you to find me anything that Jesus did for himself.

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    I don't see that.

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    I never see Jesus saying, "Hey, I've been preaching for like a month.

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    "I'm taking three weeks off." Or, "Enough of the miracles for a while.

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    "I just need a break." Over and over and over, Jesus' whole life was about giving and pouring himself out.

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    And you see, church, we've been talking about changing your thinking and changing the way that you see yourself.

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    That doesn't mean anything if it doesn't change the way we act.

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    And when we look at Jesus' example in the incarnation, I have to ask myself, and I have to ask you, how far are you willing to take your service to God and to others?

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    Or let me ask you, how much is too much?

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    You know, if you're like, all right, all right, Jeff, all right, fine.

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    I'll help out in the church, but only once a month.

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    And even then, only when it's convenient for me.

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    I would say, well, that's not really thinking like a servant, right?

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    Or if you're like, okay, I'll give.

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    Oh, you, okay, we're supposed to give money.

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    Okay, all right, look, I'll give, but I'm only gonna give a little.

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    You know, like when you tip the waiter at Cracker Barrel, some people view giving to God as that.

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    Just gonna, here's a tip.

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    That's not biblical giving.

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    If you're like, "I'll give, but only what I won't miss." I would say, "Well, that's not thinking like a servant." And if that describes you, if you're like reluctant to serve and reluctant to give, if that describes you, then you haven't changed your thinking, you're still holding onto your rights.

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    You haven't changed how you see yourself because you're not seeing yourself as a servant, And you certainly haven't followed Christ's example because you're not willing to give all that you got.

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    So how far are you willing to go to serve God and to serve others?

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    We see that God in the flesh was willing to be selfless all the way to the cross.

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    And finally, number four, selflessness leads to glory.

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    Look at verses nine through 11.

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    It says, "Therefore," okay, he was obedient to the point of death, even death on the cross.

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    "Therefore God has highly exalted him "and bestowed on him the name that is above every name "so that at the name of Jesus, "every knee should bow in heaven and on earth "and under the earth and every tongue confess Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father.

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    And now here you're expecting me to say, "Okay, listen, you need to make Jesus Lord.

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    "You need to make Jesus Lord." And I'm certainly not gonna say that.

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    Jesus is Lord.

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    You're not making him anything.

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    And whether you acknowledge him or you don't acknowledge him, He is still the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords.

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    You can bow now, or you can bow later, but someday you are going to bow.

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    But there's a difference.

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    Right now you have a choice.

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    But if you need more motivation for selflessness, we have several already, right?

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    we have several motives to be selfless.

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    I can say you need to be selfless because then you're like Jesus.

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    Or I can say you need to be selfless because then you'll be used of God.

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    Or you need to be selfless so that there's unity in the church like we talked about a couple of weeks ago.

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    Here's another reason to be selfless.

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    It's exaltation.

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    It's glory.

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    See that first word in the verse, verse nine.

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    Therefore, therefore, what he's saying is because Jesus Christ faced the ultimate humiliation, he experienced the ultimate exaltation.

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    Like, well, how did Jesus get there?

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    Well, it certainly wasn't through manipulating people, using people, stepping on the little guy, stepping over the little guy.

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    Jesus took the path that, quite frankly, does not make human sense.

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    He emptied himself.

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    He saw himself as a servant, and he was obedient to God, putting everybody else's needs ahead of his own.

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    Like, well, why would Paul, in talking about the example of selflessness, why would he mention this exaltation of Christ?

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    You know, what's his point?

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    Well, we're gonna play a quick game.

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    You wanna play a game?

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    It's an easy one.

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    We're gonna play, see if you can find the theme.

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    We're gonna put some verses on the screen.

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    Do we have those verses ready?

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    We're gonna put some verses on the screen and I want you to see if you can find the theme.

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    You ready?

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    Let me go through these quickly.

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    Matthew 23, 12.

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    Whoever exalts himself will be humbled and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.

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    Luke 14, 11, "For everyone who exalts himself "will be humbled and he who humbles himself "will be exalted." Luke 18, 14, "For everyone who exalts himself "will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself "will be exalted." First Peter 5, 6, "Humble yourselves therefore "under the mighty hand of God, so that at the proper time "he may exalt you." James 4, 10, "Humble yourselves before the Lord "and he will exalt you." Do you see a theme?

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    I can do it again.

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    Actually, I probably can't.

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    I'm a little winded from that.

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    Well, here's motivation to follow the selfless example of Jesus Christ.

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    Because the Bible says, "If you're willing to humble yourself before God now, "the day's going to come when God will exalt you." You know, Our worship team would make their way forward and our ushers.

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    We're going to be closing in worship here in a minute and having candlelight.

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    But you know, every Christmas, amidst all the festivities and traditions and all of that, I think even in our culture, you hear a lot of sentiment around, don't forget Jesus.

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    You know what I mean?

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    Like don't forget Jesus is the reason for the season and it's more than about the tree.

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    And I think in the church, we get that, right?

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    Like we don't wanna forget about Jesus on his birthday.

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    Right?

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    And then we see the nativity scenes, right?

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    Maybe you have one of these in your house.

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    You certainly see them as you drive around.

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    But I think sometimes, look, even in the church, I think sometimes we reduce the nativity scene to some Hallmark movie.

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    You know what I'm talking about?

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    That we look at this scene and we conjure up this, This is what Christmas is about.

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    Oh, poor pregnant lady had to give birth in the stable.

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    And then they were like angels singing.

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    And it's like this, it's this story of overcoming adversity and bless their triumphant Rocky Balboa hearts.

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    They made it and they had the baby.

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    And that's sort of what we reduce that to.

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    But I want you to look again and see that this is so much more than that.

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    It's the astonishing beginning of the story of how God put our needs first in the ultimate display of selflessness.

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    Yeah, Jesus was born to an obscure woman.

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    He was laid in a manger, that's a feeding trough.

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    And he was born in a relatively obscure town.

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    He was raised in another obscure town.

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    And Jesus said when he was an adult, that he has no place to lay his head.

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    He also said that he came as one who serves, and he was willing to die a painful and humiliating death, not for anything that he did, but for the sins that you and I committed.

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    So when you see the nativity scene, here's really how you need to think about it.

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    You need to say, if God so humbled himself, what kind of example is that for me?

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven.

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    I can't, if I had an infinite amount of time, I don't think I could explain this to the degree that would bring us to the place of awe where maybe we should be.

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    But to consider the creator of everything became a servant.

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    to live among us, to die for our sins.

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    Father, your word tells us that we're to have the same mindset that Jesus had.

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    And it's so lacking in the church across the board today.

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    My God, I pray the gift that we all open and receive this year is the gift of truly embracing this concept of humbling ourselves and being the servant of all in the way that Jesus modeled for us.

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    We pray these things, Father, in his glorious and incomparable name, the name above all names.

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    Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Philippians 2:5-11

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Have you ever felt like some job at the church was “beneath you”? What does God becoming man teach you about how we view any job at the church?

  3. Have you ever felt like you have served too much or given too much? What does the incarnation teach us about how far we should be willing to serve and give?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Jesus' Christmas Presence: A Savior - He Gives Forgiveness

Introduction:

A Savior: He Gives Forgiveness (Colossians 2:8-15):

    In Christ...

  1. I have been gifted with the Truth . (Col 2:8)

    Colossians 2:2-3 - To reach all the riches of full assurance of understanding and the knowledge of God’s mystery, which is Christ, in whom are hidden ALL the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.

  2. I have been gifted with All That I Truly Need . (Col 2:9-10)
  3. I have been gifted with New and Everlasting Life . (Col 2:11-12)
  4. I have been gifted with Total Forgiven . (Col 2:13-14)
  5. I have been gifted with Victory Over My Spiritual Enemies . (Col 2:15)

    1 Peter 5:8-9 - Be sober minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith.

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    Well, if you have your Bibles, you can turn to Colossians chapter 2.

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    And as you turn, I want to tell you a quick story.

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    Several years ago, my wife Kate and I were eating outside the Five Guys in Cranberry.

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    And this was before we had kids, so it was actually nice, quiet, and peaceful.

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    I can barely remember what that feels like, right?

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    And right next to the Five Guys is Mathnasium, which specializes in tutoring kids in any level of math who are struggling.

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    And in the window of Mathnasium is a poster of problems by grade that you should be able to solve without issue.

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    You're all kind of getting ahead of me, you all know where this is going.

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    From first grade all the way through 12th grade.

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    And Kate and I think, hey, wanna feel good about ourselves?

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    Let's go through this list and see if we can get a 100% success rate.

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    They get through the first problem, fine.

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    Second grade, third grade, fourth grade, fifth grade, sixth grade, and I tell her I don't want to do this anymore.

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    And I just throw in the towel.

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    Can I be honest with you this morning?

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    If you put a long division problem before me and say I can't use the calculator on my phone, I don't think I could do it anymore.

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    Oh, that feels so good to get that confession off my chest.

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    Some of you are judging me severely, I know that others of you are just like really feeling that in your hearts.

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    You know, someday my kids are gonna be really disappointed when they ask me to help them with their math homework.

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    There's gonna be a lot of blank stares and awkward stretches of silence.

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    You know, many of the mathematical basics that I learned over 20 years ago have slowly but surely faded over time.

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    when it comes to math or any other subject, skill, and activity, you have to constantly reinforce and remind yourself of the basics, or you will slip into a state of forgetfulness.

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    As December 25th quickly approaches, we can't afford to slip into this foggy state of forgetfulness and lose sight of what Christmas is actually about.

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    we're taking a short break from the book of James to focus on the meaning of Christmas.

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    To remind ourselves of why Jesus truly came 2,000 years ago.

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    Instead of getting wrapped up in the physical presence, let us instead focus on the presence of our Lord and Savior.

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    So this morning we're gonna study Colossians chapter two, verses eight through 15 in which the Apostle Paul lays out the many gifts and blessings that belong to us in Christ.

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    And these gifts are way better than anything we will unwrap next week.

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    Everything on our wish list will lose their luster very quickly and end up in a garbage dump someday.

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    But what God offers us, what God gives us truly lasts and satisfies for all of eternity.

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    So before we continue any further, I want you to take a moment to go to the Lord and ask him to push aside all of the distractions that are calling out for your attention right now.

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    Hectic schedule, shopping lists, travel plans, anxiety about being with that specific side of the family.

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    Bring these things to the Lord Ask Him for an attentive mind, open ears, and a willing heart.

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    Go to the Lord.

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    Father, You are truly great.

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    And You alone are worthy of our praise, our honor, our devotion.

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    Lord, this time of year, it's so easy to lose sight of what Christmas is all about.

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    Lord, this morning, I pray that You would hone in our attention upon Christ and what he has done for us.

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    For those of us who do know you, may you restore to us the joy of your salvation.

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    And for those of us in this room who don't know you and who mean to not know you, maybe for those who think they know you but actually don't, what I pray to use the preaching of your word to draw many to yourself, that many would look unto Jesus and be saved.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

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    So as I already said, this sermon is all about who we are in Christ and what has been given to us in Christ.

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    Let's start off with the first gift and blessing that Paul lays out in Colossians chapter two, verses eight through 15.

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    So firstly, in Christ, I have been gifted with the truth.

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    I have been gifted with the truth.

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    Let's read verse eight.

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    Paul writes this.

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    "See to it that no one takes you captive "by philosophy and empty deceit, "according to the human tradition, "according to the elemental spirits of the world, "and not according to Christ." So Paul warns the Colossians, not be taken captive or held hostage by lies and deceitful doctrine that will hurt, that will enslave them.

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    At the time Paul wrote this letter, There is a false teaching circulating around the Colossian church.

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    We aren't given a lot of details about what this false teaching is.

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    It looks to be a mixture, a hybrid of Jewish legalism and pagan philosophy, but I don't want to spend any time speculating because Paul doesn't tell us.

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    What he does tell us is that this false teaching is empty and deceitful.

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    Have you ever been hungry and went to your pantry and you grab the new bag of chips, and then you pop the seal and you look inside, and half the bag is filled with chips, and the other half is just filled with artificial air.

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    I hate when that happens.

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    This false teaching, making the rounds of Colossae, is very similar to a disappointing bag of chips.

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    On the outside, it looks so good, it looks so full of goodness, but on the inside, it is a hollow disappointment, with no substance, with no spiritual nourishment.

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    Paul says that this teaching isn't divine in origin, but instead comes from the mind of sinful men who have no idea what they are talking about.

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    He says it is according to the elemental spirits of the world, which could refer to its demonic roots, but Paul is most likely saying that this teaching is childish and immature.

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    It is stupid, and any thinking Christian should be able to spot it from a mile away and steer clear.

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    And I love how he says, "See to it "that no one takes you captive." Don't be gullible, don't let this false teaching just wash over you passively.

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    Be active in defending yourselves.

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    You know the truth, don't be deceived.

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    In Christ, you have been gifted with the truth.

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    And I'm not talking about a subjective truth, what's true for you isn't true for other people.

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    I am saying that you have become a person of the truth which is found in Jesus Christ and him alone.

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    No other philosophy, no other worldview, no other religion has the answers that Christ offers.

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    Paul tells the Colossians earlier in this chapter that it is his hope for them that they will reach all the riches of full assurance of understanding and the knowledge of God's mystery, which is Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.

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    All the treasures of wisdom and knowledge are found in Christ.

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    Not some, not many, not most, all.

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    In Christ, your spiritual eyes have been opened to the truths of this book.

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    You no longer need to be deceived because you can now be discerning.

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    You can spot truth from error.

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    What is unbiblical from what is biblical.

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    What is wise from what is unwise.

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    What is godly from that which is demonic.

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    But like the Colossians, you must constantly see to it that no one takes you captive.

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    You must see to it that no one pulls the wool over your eyes.

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    You must filter every single idea and teaching through the word of God.

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    Not the filter of your own wants and preferences, not the filter of your feelings and emotions, not the filter of what's popular right now.

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    All of those filters are subjective and prone to error, while the filter of God's word is objective and perfect in every single way.

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    When you hear someone say that God told them to do something and that you need to wait on a word from God before you do anything, remind yourself that you don't need to wait on a word from God because you've already been gifted with the word of God.

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    God has perfectly revealed himself in this book.

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    You don't need to look for new revelation.

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    As our culture and many within the church seek to attack and pick apart the first three chapters of Genesis, don't fall prey to their faulty arguments that sound spiritual, scientific, and intellectual.

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    Hold fast to the realities that our God created this world in the time frame that he clearly lays out in his word, and he made us male and female in his image.

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    When someone tries to recommend you the latest Christian book, that is climbing the New York Times bestseller list with a self-help title and the author's picture on the cover, that's always a warning sign, by the way, your spiritual antenna should spring into action, and you should remind yourself that calling something Christian doesn't make it Christian.

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    I was texting Pastor Jeff yesterday.

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    I was looking through a Christian Instagram page and watching reel after reel of churches doing the most foolish things.

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    A pastor bringing a pornographic magazine on stage and laughing about it.

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    Setting up a baptismal and having people jump in and just swim and laugh hysterically.

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    There are so many lies that our enemy wants to feed to us right now.

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    See to it that no one takes you captive.

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    Guard the gift of the truth that has been given to you in Christ.

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    Do not sacrifice the treasures of wisdom and knowledge that are found in Christ.

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    Do not sacrifice these things for the trinkets and foolish lies of this world.

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    Secondly, in Christ, I have been gifted with all that I truly need.

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    I have been gifted with all that I truly need.

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    Let's read verses nine through 10.

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    Paul writes, "For in him, in Christ, "the whole fullness of deity dwells bodily, "and you have been filled in him "who is the head of all rule and authority." So according to Paul, all the fullness of deity dwells bodily in Christ, which is just a complex way of communicating a very simple truth.

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    Jesus is God in the flesh.

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    He isn't just God-like.

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    He isn't just God's favorite in all creation.

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    Jesus is God.

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    Paul says that he is the head of all rule and authority.

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    He owns everything that you can see and everything that you cannot see.

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    Nothing and no one escapes his divine sight and oversight.

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    And Paul just lays an awesome truth before us in verse 10 that should blow us away.

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    And you, he's talking about believers, have been filled in him.

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    "The one who is full of all divine power and authority "has filled you with himself." Isn't that awesome?

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    You may be thinking, Taylor, that does sound awesome, but what in the world does that actually mean?

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    Well, another way to translate this verse is, "And you are complete in him." You're no longer defined by your brokenness.

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    You are no longer a lost soul, but a found friend of God.

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    You are a whole and complete person in Christ.

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    I've already said the phrase in Christ several times in this message, and the similar phrases of in him and with him are used seven times in this passage.

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    This phrase in Christ is the most important phrase in the entire New Testament when it comes to your salvation, your relationship with Christ, and who you are as a person.

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    Yes, we can say we're Christians.

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    We can say that we are believers.

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    But the best description of who we are is that we are in Christ.

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    And the best way to explain being filled and complete in Christ is to point you back to the best day of my entire life.

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    On July 26, 2014, I married my wife and her life was joined together with mine.

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    On that day, we became one flesh.

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    After the wedding, we moved into the same house.

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    She took my last name.

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    We share the same bank account and assets.

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    All that she has is now mine, and all that I have is now hers.

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    I am united to her, and she is united to me.

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    Marriage is a God-given relationship that points us to a greater and more long-lasting union, our union with Christ.

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    To be in Christ is to be united to him, an unbreakable fellowship for all of eternity.

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    I am one with Christ.

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    He will never leave or forsake me, and nothing can separate me from him.

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    I now share in all of his saving benefits, and I enjoy every spiritual blessing.

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    I share in his perfect righteousness.

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    I have been given unlimited access to God the Father in prayer.

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    I bear his name to a watching world.

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    I have been given the mission of spreading the gospel across the face of this planet.

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    While my marriage to my wife will end the second one of us passes on, my union with Christ will never ever come to an end.

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    I am united to Christ both now and forever.

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    And the same is true for you, if you have placed your faith and trust in Him.

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    In Christ, you have been filled to the brim with all that you could ever possibly need.

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    In Christ, you have been shown unbelievable grace and mercy that you do not deserve.

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    In Christ, you are guaranteed a place in heaven.

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    In Christ, you are given all these awesome blessings that are beyond comprehension.

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    In Christ, you are no longer like that empty bag of chips that I talked about earlier.

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    In Christ, you are full, you are complete, you are lacking in nothing.

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    Sounds great, doesn't it?

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    But do you actually believe that?

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    Do you actually believe that this morning?

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    Are you focusing on all that you've been given in Christ?

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    Are you obsessing over all the things that you do not have?

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    As I said earlier, we all have Christmas wish lists on our mind right now.

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    Maybe for others or for ourselves.

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    Maybe this year you want a new iPad, AirPods, golf clubs, Hoka tennis shoes, I heard those are popular, a Lululemon crossbody, and yes, I know what that is.

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    It's okay to want these things as gifts, but you have to realize you don't need any of these things.

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    They won't make your life even a tiny bit better.

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    What's exciting on Christmas Day isn't that exciting on Christmas night.

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    Ask yourself an important question this Christmas season.

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    What do I actually need that has not already been provided for me in Christ?

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    You may not feel it to be true right now, but the answer is nothing.

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    Nothing.

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    Nothing that Christ gives to you can be stripped away.

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    Nothing that Christ gives to you can be outmatched by the things of this world.

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    Jesus Christ is a one-stop shop for all that you truly need in this life and the next.

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    Thirdly, in Christ, I have been gifted with new and everlasting life.

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    and have been gifted with new and everlasting life.

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    And Paul goes in a somewhat unexpected direction in verse 11.

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    In Christ also you were circumcised with a circumcision made without hands by putting off the body of flesh by the circumcision of Christ.

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    I know what some of you are thinking.

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    Taylor, this is a lot of talk of circumcision for a Christmas time message.

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    And I get it, but it's what the text says, so we're going to talk about it.

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    If you don't know what circumcision is, just turn to your neighbor, and I'm sure they'd love to explain it to you.

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    I don't wanna talk about the biology of circumcision today, but I do wanna talk about the symbolism of circumcision.

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    In the Old Testament, every Jewish boy was expected to be circumcised on the eighth day following his birth, to stand apart from the pagan nations around Israel and to communicate physically a deep spiritual reality that we are horribly sinful and we need cleansing at the deepest level of who we are.

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    Sadly, many Jews went the legalistic route with circumcision and viewed it as a part of salvation.

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    The Pharisees and religious leaders in Jesus' day believed that a man cannot possibly be right with God apart from physical circumcision.

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    But physical circumcision cannot change a man's heart.

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    it cannot change his deepest problem, which is his inner brokenness and slavery to sin.

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    So Paul delivers this awesome news that everyone who is in Christ, male or female, has been circumcised with a circumcision made without hands.

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    In other words, this is a spiritual circumcision.

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    This is a spiritual change and transformation.

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    Instead of cutting our physical bodies, Christ has cut us loose from slavery to our fallen and sinful flesh.

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    We used to be dominated and controlled by our sinful wants and desires, but we have been set free in Christ, who is our masterful spiritual surgeon.

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    Other parts of scripture say that we have been given new hearts, hearts that desire to obey and please the Lord.

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    In Christ, you can say no to sin and yes to righteousness.

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    You no longer have to be controlled by your sinful flesh, those desires that you have.

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    And Paul keeps on rolling with the good news in verse 12.

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    He writes, "And having been buried with him, "with Christ in baptism, in which you were also raised "with him through faith in the powerful working of God who raised him from the dead.

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    In Christ, our old and sinful selves are dead and buried.

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    The old you is in the tomb, and a new you has been raised with Christ.

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    And this reality is pictured in baptism.

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    Baptism is the ultimate symbol of our union with Christ.

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    It displays that you identify with and share in the life, death, and resurrection of Christ.

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    As you were lowered into the water, that is a symbol of your death and burial.

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    That's the old you.

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    As you were raised out of the water, that is a symbol of your new, resurrected life in Christ.

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    Baptism does not lead to salvation, but it is an awesome reminder of our salvation and the transformation that God has made happen within us.

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    In Christ, you are a new creation, and you are expected and commanded to act like one.

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    Going back to your old ways and habits cannot be an option, because that's not who you are anymore.

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    Using and abusing the grace of God as a hall pass to do whatever you want should be unthinkable, because that's not what you do anymore.

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    Covering up your sin and justifying it It can't be your knee-jerk reaction any longer because that's not what Christ set you free to do.

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    Live into who you already are in Christ instead of backsliding into who you used to be.

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    Fourthly, in Christ, I have been gifted with total forgiveness.

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    In Christ, I have been gifted with total forgiveness.

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    So after talking about our resurrection to new life, Paul rewinds the tape a bit to remind us yet again of our desperate situation before Christ.

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    He writes at the beginning of verse 13, "And you who were dead in your trespasses "in the uncircumcision of your flesh." All right, let's stop there for a second.

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    As a reminder, before Christ, what were you?

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    That was pretty dead.

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    Let's yell it out.

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    You were what?

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    Dead.

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    You weren't just a bad person.

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    You weren't just a spiritually sick person.

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    You were a dead person.

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    You were a spiritual corpse with no pulse and no hope.

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    You know, as a pastor, I hear so many people say, you know, I've always been a Christian.

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    I get what they mean, but I want to lovingly say, no, you haven't.

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    There was a point in your personal history when you were dead, you had no spiritual life, but God made you alive together with Christ.

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    How did he do this?

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    Well, Paul tells us.

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    God made us alive together with him, having forgiven us all of our trespasses by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands.

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    This he set aside, nailing it to the cross.

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    There is so much to unpack here that kind of fries my preacher brain a little bit.

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    I could do a whole sermon series on this, but don't worry, I won't.

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    We'll do it very quickly.

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    First and foremost, if you are in Christ, all of your sins have been forgiven.

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    Past, present, and future.

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    From those things that seem small but actually aren't, all the way to the thing that you regret the most in life, All of these things have been covered by the blood of Christ.

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    Secondly, your debt to God has been completely taken care of.

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    The picture that came to my mind when I studied this verse was the US National Debt Clock in New York.

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    Who's ever seen that in person?

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    In real time, this clock is being updated with how deep in the hole we are as a country.

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    And you may be looking at that and thinking it's not that bad.

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    It's actually much worse.

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    This is an old, outdated picture.

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    I think it's more than double that at this point.

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    With each passing second, our nation's debt is ticking up higher and higher and higher.

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    In a much worse way, with every sinful thought, word, action, reaction, and inaction, your sinful debt to God was getting larger and larger and larger, ticking up and up and up.

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    But God, in a generous act of mercy and grace, decided to cancel the debt that stood against you.

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    Another way to translate this is wiped away.

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    It's like God took his divine hand and wiped the existence of your sin off the heavenly record.

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    He took the eraser and cleared the chalkboard.

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    To add even more finality to this, Paul adds that our record of debt has been nailed to the cross.

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    Three nails have been driven into the coffin that holds the power and penalty of our sin.

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    Even though we know this truth in our minds, it is so hard to actually feel it in our hearts.

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    It is so hard to live in light of it.

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    As forgiven people, we can struggle with thinking that God is still mad at us over something we did years ago.

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    When we give in to temptation now and do something that we know we shouldn't do, we often run away from God instead of to God because we think he wants nothing to do with us.

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    We think that he is disgusted with us.

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    We can still feel like our record of debt is alive and well instead of dead and buried.

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    You know, during my early years of seminary, I shared that I worked as a debt collector for libraries.

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    And yes, it was as glamorous as it sounds.

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    It's awesome being the worst call of someone's month and being verbally berated night after night after night after night.

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    But over the course of my time as a debt collector, I looked at hundreds, maybe thousands of records of debt that stood against men and women across this country.

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    And I never thought I would be on the receiving end of one of these debt collection notices until in 2015 my wife was sent one from our alma mater, Geneva College.

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    And I say, did you want me to read it to you?

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    Warning, your time has run out!

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    With two exclamation points 'cause one apparently wasn't enough.

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    We have asked you to call if there was a problem.

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    You have not done so.

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    We never were told about this debt or told to call.

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    We have asked you to pay the amount due.

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    You have not done so.

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    I didn't know there was an amount due.

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    We gave you the opportunity to file for either a student or hardship deferment.

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    You have not done so.

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    We wrote you attempting to reach a satisfactory settlement for your account.

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    We fully expected your cooperation.

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    Since we've had no response from you, we have no choice but to initiate serious action to collect your account.

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    Whether we transfer your account to an outside collection agency or attorney for immediate litigation is entirely up to you.

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    That just sounds jerky, doesn't it?

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    I assume that's how it was written.

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    We were just so confused.

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    We didn't know there was a record of debt against us.

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    We didn't know that we owed anything.

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    So we called Geneva, but actually before that, look at the bottom of this.

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    Go to the next slide, please.

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    You'll see the total that was actually due.

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    What does that say?

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    Zero dollars and zero cents.

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    Wow, should I pay it off in a lump sum or do that monthly?

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    That's quite the bill.

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    We call Geneva and they apologize profusely and said, don't worry about it.

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    This bill has obviously been taken care of in the past.

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    And every single time I read this passage in Colossians, I think about my record of debt to Geneva being $0.00.

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    And even better than that, in Christ, Your record of debt is now and forever $0.00.

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    There is nothing you can do to get yourself into further debt, and there is no need to try to pay off what has already been fully taken care of.

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    When you sin, you can honestly bring it to the Lord, confess it, repent of it, and move forward.

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    To be clear, I'm not saying that you shouldn't feel any negative emotions about your sin.

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    As Pastor Jeff taught us last week, you need to mourn over your sin if you want to move forward.

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    A sense of godly guilt is essential because that leads to repentance and change.

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    But just sitting in your shame, refusing to do anything about it and feeling sorry for yourself only leads to cover up in isolation.

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    Forgiven people deal with their sin in a healthy and biblical way because they know their sinful bill has already been settled at the cross.

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    You know, some of you in this room are not believers in Christ, and you don't really sense a need for that.

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    You feel like you're a good person.

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    You don't sense the need that you owe the Lord anything.

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    Others of you know how sinful you are.

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    And you're thinking, Taylor, you just don't get it.

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    You don't know all the things that I've done.

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    You don't know the people that I've hurt.

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    I've crossed the line too many times.

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    God could never love and forgive someone like me.

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    You just don't know what I've done.

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    And you're right, I don't know what you've done.

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    But I know the one who does, God does.

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    And he offers you forgiveness anyway.

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    You could take me aside for service today and list out all your deepest, darkest sins and I would have the same exact response no matter what you share with me.

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    The blood of Christ is more than enough to cover that.

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    As a pastor from several hundred years ago once said, there is more mercy in Christ than sin in you.

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    It doesn't matter who you are or what you've done, you will be fully forgiven today if you place your faith and trust in Jesus Christ alone for salvation.

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    It's that simple, but this requires humility.

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    You must humbly acknowledge that you are hopeless and helpless apart from Christ.

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    That you were unable to pay this massive debt, but Jesus is infinitely able to pay it off in an instant.

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    The gift of forgiveness is offered to you right now, but you must reach out by faith to accept it or you will never actually receive it.

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    Will you accept this gift of forgiveness or will you once again push it away?

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    Will you just wallow in your sin and your shame or will you turn to Christ for salvation and eternal life?

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    I so wish I could make that choice for you, but I can't.

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    The choice is yours.

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    Finally this morning, in Christ, I have been gifted with victory over my spiritual enemies.

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    I have been gifted with victory over my spiritual enemies.

    33:31-33:42

    So Paul ends this section of Colossians with an amazing victory lap that highlights the utter inability and weakness of our enemy in comparison to our Savior.

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    He writes this, "God disarmed the rulers and the authorities "and put them to open shame by triumphing over them "in Him, in Christ." You know, on top of not being a great mathlete, I'm also a pretty lousy athlete.

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    From sixth through 12th grade, I played basketball for Eden Christian Academy, and during that time, I experienced a decent number of wins, but a lot of losses.

    34:15-34:17

    I didn't really care that much.

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    I didn't take it that much to heart because I wasn't that great.

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    A lot of my friends were devastated and I'm like, I wonder what's for dinner.

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    I just never really took it to heart that much.

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    But there was one particular game during my sophomore year that I'll never forget as long as I live because it was so embarrassing.

    34:33-34:38

    I wish I could say that we played well during this game of shame and that we left it all out on the court.

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    But I'm pretty sure the only thing we left on the court was our dignity.

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    The other team out hustled and outplayed us the entire game.

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    And I'll never forget the scoreboard at the end of the game 'cause those red numbers are burned into my brain.

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    87 to 20.

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    We lost by over 60 points.

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    There was no question of who was the dominant team that night.

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    No one walked away from that game thinking, Yeah, sure, Eden lost, but the rest really robbed them of that victory and they really deserved to win.

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    No one thought, you know, that game was so back and forth, it could have gone either way.

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    Nah, this was a total open and shut case of annihilating victory.

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    The other team totally triumphed over us and we were put to open shame for all of our friends and family to witness.

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    In a much greater way, The devil and his demons were completely smacked down at the cross of Christ and delivered a killing blow for all of eternity.

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    Paul said that they were disarmed, which also can be translated as stripped.

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    Satan and his demonic goons were publicly stripped of their power and totally humiliated.

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    Now they're just trying to cause as much damage as possible until Jesus Christ returns to finalize the victory that he has already purchased on our behalf.

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    If you are in Christ, Satan has no power over you.

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    His accusations of you before God are pointless and fall on deaf ears.

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    His threat of death holds no sway over you because Christ has had victory over the grave and you have been given eternal life.

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    Satan can't make you do anything.

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    Yes, you should wisely be wary of him and his schemes, but you should not obsess over him.

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    So many Christians live in bondage of fear of the devil.

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    Do not live in fear of him any longer.

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    You don't have to follow his lead.

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    You don't have to take the temptations that he throws before you.

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    When he casts that shameful accusation before you, you don't have to bite the hook.

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    All Satan can do now is wave a bill for zero dollars and zero cents in your face.

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    That's all he can do.

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    In those moments of doubt and fear, preach the truth of the word of God to yourself instead of listening to the horrible advice of Satan, your flesh, and this world.

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    Again, be active instead of passive.

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    Be proactive instead of reactive.

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    Peter talks about this in his first epistle.

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    Be sober-minded, be watchful.

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    Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.

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    Resist him, firm in your faith.

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    Does that sound familiar?

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    It really should because Pastor Jeff talked about it last week.

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    We don't rebuke the devil.

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    I can't say it in the voice you did it last week.

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    We can't rebuke the devil, but we must resist the devil.

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    Is that pretty good?

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    We resist him and we stand firm.

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    View Satan for what he really is, a wounded and cornered animal who's taking desperate swipes until he is put down for good.

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    His ultimate destination is the lake of fire, while yours is the presence of God.

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    He is the biggest loser imaginable, while you serve the greatest winner imaginable.

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    You share in the victory of your savior, and don't let your enemy rob you of any of the joy that has been given to you in Christ.

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    You know, this has been less of a, you need to do this kind of sermon, and more of a Christ has done all of this for you kind of message.

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    This time of year, we are so busy hustling and bustling that we need to be sat down and reminded of who we are and whose we are.

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    You'll often hear people telling you at this time of year, Get into the Christmas spirit.

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    Who has said that or heard someone say that?

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    Okay, come on, it has to be way more than that.

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    We've all heard it or said it, right?

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    If by get into the Christmas spirit, you mean I need to watch all those old claymation movies, deck out my house like Christmas Vacation, or blast Jingle Bell Rock on my way to work, I'm pretty confident I should not be expected to do any of those things.

    39:25-39:39

    But if I get into the Christmas spirit, you mean that I need to wholly focus my mind, my attention, my heart, my affections upon the incarnation of my Savior, who came to this earth, took on a human form to die for me.

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    Then I wholeheartedly agree with you.

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    Let's get in the Christmas spirit.

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    The flashy ornaments that we hang on this holiday are fun, yet not essential.

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    Let us never lose sight of what this holiday is actually about, which is Christ and Christ alone.

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    You must never lose sight of who you are in him.

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    In Christ, you no longer need to be deceived because you've been gifted with the truth.

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    In Christ, you no longer need to feel empty because you are full in him.

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    In Christ, you no longer need to go back to who you used to be because you've been gifted with new and everlasting life.

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    In Christ, you don't need to wallow in your sin and your shame any longer because you have been gifted with the full weight of God's forgiveness in Christ.

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    You don't need to live in fear because you have been gifted with victory over your spiritual enemies.

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    Hallelujah, what a Savior.

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    What a friend we have in Jesus.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father, I pray that we would never be able to hear this gospel news and sit back and yawn and be bored by it.

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    Lord, this is inexhaustibly good news.

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    Lord, this is news that we need to hear even if we've believed it for decades.

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    Father, for those of us in this room who know and love you, but that love has grown cold as of late, I pray that your Holy Spirit would stoke the affections, stoke the fire in our hearts for you.

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    That we would be restored with the joy of our salvation.

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    and we would remember how awesome Christ truly is.

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    And Lord, for those of us who do not know you, Lord, may you use the preaching of your word to pierce them to the heart, to convict them of their sin, but to point them to the solution, which is Christ, and what he accomplished on the cross.

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    Lord, I pray this message wouldn't just stay here in this room, but it would go with us this week and into Christmas.

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    And we would tell everyone that we know and love what this season is actually about.

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    That we would focus on Christ and lift him up in every single way.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Colossians 2:8-15

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. When it comes to this time of year, why is it so easy to slip into a state of forgetfulness regarding the true focus and meaning of Christmas?

  3. What does it mean to be “in Christ” and “complete in Him”? What blessings and gifts do we receive in Him?

  4. What specific errors and false teachings do we need to be on guard against right now? How can we prepare to stand against false teaching and “see to it that no one takes you captive”?

  5. How does the forgiveness of Christ change how you view your sin? How should it fuel your fight against sin?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Play Well With Others

Introduction:

How to Play Well With Others (James 4:1-12):

  1. Stop being so Self-centered . (Jas 4:1-3)
  2. Get Right with God. (Jas 4:4-10)

    4 Things I Must Do to Humble Myself:

    1. I must Submit to God. (Jas 4:7a-8a)
    2. I must Repent from my sin. (Jas 4:8b)
    3. I must Mourn over my sinfulness. (Jas 4:9)
    4. I must receive God's Grace . (Jas 4:10)
  3. Stop Slandering . (Jas 4:11-12)

    3 Things You Also Say When You Slander:

    1. "I Hate that person." (Jas 4:11a)
    2. "God's word means Nothing to me." (Jas 4:11bc)

      Galatians 5:14 - For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself."

    3. "I should be God ." (Jas 4:12)

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  • 00:40-00:47

    Father, we've already studied in this part of your Word that we're not just to hear the Word, but we're to do the Word.

    00:48-01:02

    And I pray, Father, you would give us the faith, you would give us the power to do what your Word says.

    01:05-01:07

    Glorify your name above all things.

    01:08-01:11

    We pray in Jesus' name, amen.

    01:12-01:14

    James chapter four, are you there?

    01:17-01:21

    Well, several months ago, I had two little boys come into my office.

    01:22-01:25

    They were at the church with their mom, and I'm not gonna say their names.

    01:26-01:27

    A lot of you probably know who they are.

    01:28-01:31

    But one is seven and one is four.

    01:31-01:33

    So I'm just gonna refer to them by their ages.

    01:33-01:34

    Is that all right?

    01:35-02:10

    So they come into my office and they point to the chairs in front of my desk and they say, "What are these chairs for?" And I said, "Well, those are for counseling." And they're like, "Well, what's that?" I said, "Well, sometimes people have problems with something and they come to me and I tell them what the Bible says about how to fix their problems." And the one little boy said, "Well, we need counseling." I said, "All right, hop on up." So the seven-year-old sat here, the four-year-old sat here.

    02:12-02:25

    And I said to the seven-year-old, I said, "All right, what seems to be the problem?" And he said, "Well, he hits me and he calls me names." Like, all right.

    02:26-02:33

    And I turned to the four-year-old and I said, "Then what do you think the problem is?" And he got real sheepish, kind of slumped back in his seat.

    02:33-02:48

    and he got this little grin on his face, and he goes, "Well, he hits me, "and he calls me names." And as soon as he said that, the seven-year-old goes, "You're a liar!"

    02:50-02:50

    (congregation laughing)

    02:51-02:52

    Well, he was more intense than that.

    02:52-03:02

    And I said, "All right, all right." So I shared with him, "What does the Bible say?" And we talked about that for a while.

    03:02-03:06

    And I said, "Now, do you think Jesus would want us "to be kind to one another?

    03:06-03:11

    "Or do you think Jesus would want us "to be mean to one another?" And they agreed, Jesus would want us to be kind to one another.

    03:12-03:15

    And I said, "Okay, let's pray." And we prayed.

    03:16-03:26

    And after we got done praying, amen, I got up and walked around my desk and they get up off their chairs and the seven-year-old was walking out and the four-year-old walked up behind him.

    03:27-03:36

    And he kind of twisted his torso He punched him in the spine, and I mean so hard.

    03:37-03:43

    I mean, I never could have imagined a four-year-old could hit that hard.

    03:44-03:49

    He hit him so hard, and the seven-year-old went face down on the ground.

    03:49-03:58

    And you know in those moments how time kind of stands still, all I could think of was, "How am I going to explain this to Mom?" Right?

    03:59-04:16

    "What were you guys doing in there?" the seven-year-old rolled over and he goes, "Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!" And I'm like, "All right, out, out, go, go!" Because that's how counseling goes a lot.

    04:17-04:28

    We all agree while we're sitting in the chair and then we get our backside off the chair and we go right back to doing the thing that we shouldn't be doing.

    04:30-04:34

    Can't we all just get along?

    04:36-04:38

    No, no, we cannot.

    04:41-04:49

    That's all mankind has been doing since the second generation from Cain and Abel until today.

    04:50-04:52

    All we do is fight.

    04:53-04:57

    I mean, you name it, we fight about it, right?

    04:58-04:59

    We fight about land.

    05:01-05:05

    We fight about the right to murder babies before they're born.

    05:07-05:09

    We fight about skin color.

    05:11-05:14

    We fight about Tickle Me Elmo.

    05:16-05:19

    I worked retail the year that thing came out.

    05:19-05:27

    I kid you not, there were people fist fighting in the aisle on Black Friday over Tickle Me Elmo.

    05:28-05:29

    (congregation laughing)

    05:33-05:35

    And when we fight, we say, "Yeah, you know what?

    05:35-05:37

    "Yeah, we shouldn't be fighting, but you know what?

    05:37-05:42

    "I'm in the right, and that person's wrong, "and that's why we're fighting.

    05:42-05:45

    "He's wrong!" And it's always the other guy's fault, right?

    05:46-05:51

    Every fight that you're in, it's always the other guy's fault, isn't it?

    05:52-05:52

    Isn't it?

    05:56-05:56

    Isn't it?

    05:57-06:03

    James chapter four, he says in verse one, "What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you?

    06:03-06:12

    "Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?" It's always the other guy's fault, right?

    06:12-06:16

    Well, James says, "No, it's your fault.

    06:19-06:28

    "You're the problem." You're like, "All right, so if I'm the problem," which that's what God said, okay, I'm the problem.

    06:28-06:34

    If I am the problem, how do I play nice with the people that I'm sharing this space with?

    06:35-06:38

    I'm so glad you asked, because that's where James takes us.

    06:38-06:41

    On your outline, I want you to write some things down, how to play well with others.

    06:44-06:45

    How to play well with others.

    06:47-06:49

    Number one, write this down.

    06:50-06:52

    Stop being so self-centered.

    06:53-06:55

    Stop being so self-centered.

    06:57-06:59

    Like, why do we fight?

    07:00-07:02

    Why are we constantly fighting?

    07:03-07:05

    Well, James tells us again, look at verse one.

    07:05-07:13

    He says, "Is it not this, "that your passions are at war within you?" The problem is you.

    07:14-07:18

    The problem specifically is your heart, according to James.

    07:19-07:28

    He's saying we're at war without because we are at war within.

    07:30-07:31

    What does that mean?

    07:32-07:34

    Well, he explains, look at verse two.

    07:35-07:39

    He says, "You desire and do not have, so you murder.

    07:40-07:48

    You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel." James says, "You want something.

    07:49-07:53

    You will stoop to any level to get what you want.

    07:55-07:57

    And you're like, murder, wow.

    07:58-08:01

    Talk about coming out of the gate hot, murder.

    08:02-08:02

    Like, really?

    08:04-08:05

    Yeah, murder.

    08:08-08:21

    Do you think anyone has ever killed someone because they wanted something that they had or because they wanted someone that they had?

    08:25-08:30

    He's there again, fight and quarrel, fight and quarrel.

    08:30-08:32

    James says it's selfishness.

    08:33-08:35

    You can go back to Harvest Academy right now.

    08:36-08:38

    And I bet you there are two toddlers fighting over a toy.

    08:41-08:45

    And you know what church, if we're honest, We don't grow out of that.

    08:51-08:52

    Look at the rest of verse two.

    08:53-08:55

    One of the most convicting verses in the whole Bible.

    08:56-09:07

    He says, "You do not have because you do not ask." So let me ask you, who has promised to supply everything you need?

    09:07-09:08

    If you know the answer, shout it out.

    09:09-09:11

    Who has promised to supply everything you need?

    09:12-09:13

    God, right?

    09:13-09:14

    God has.

    09:17-09:22

    So, why don't we go to him?

    09:27-09:39

    "We don't have what we want," James says, "because we don't go to God." And I have to ask you a question that I've had to ask myself many times.

    09:42-09:50

    How many blessings have you forfeited in your life simply because you haven't asked God for it?

    09:54-09:56

    And you're like, "Hang on." You're like, "Hang on there, preacher boy.

    09:57-09:57

    "I have asked.

    09:59-09:59

    "I have asked.

    10:00-10:02

    "And why didn't God give me what I wanted?

    10:03-10:07

    "Because I've asked." Well, look at verse three.

    10:08-10:18

    He says, "You ask and do not receive "because you ask wrongly to spend it on your passions." Ouch.

    10:18-10:31

    James says, "You've asked wrongly." You're like, "Well, how can you ask wrongly?" He says, "You ask wrongly because you just wanna spend it on your passions." In other words, you're praying with a selfish motive.

    10:35-10:37

    Now, listen, I don't want anybody to misunderstand me.

    10:39-10:42

    Jesus said, "Ask and seek and knock," right?

    10:42-10:52

    Jesus said, "Ask and you shall receive." Jesus said, John 15, "Abide in him "and ask whatever you wish and you'll receive." All of that is true.

    10:55-11:04

    But if you're asking for something purely for selfish reasons, God is not listening.

    11:06-11:07

    (congregation laughing)

    11:09-11:10

    Have you ever done that?

    11:12-11:13

    I mean, let's be honest.

    11:14-11:21

    That you're like, God, God, please give me that promotion so that people are gonna start respecting me.

    11:24-11:25

    That's a selfish motive.

    11:27-11:34

    If you're like, God, I wanna be with this person, I wanna be with that girl, God, make it happen.

    11:36-11:38

    Maybe you're asking for a selfish motive.

    11:40-11:51

    Or what if I said, "God, I want you to grow this church "so that I can be the pastor of the biggest church "in the neighborhood." Wouldn't you say that's a selfish motive?

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    If you're like, "God, please, please, please, please, "God, let me win the lottery.

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    "I don't play the lottery, but somehow, God."

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    (congregation laughing)

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    You do miracles and let me win the lottery.

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    Why, why, why?

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    It's a selfish motive, isn't it?

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    The bottom line, James says, you aren't playing well with others because of your selfish heart.

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    That's what he's saying.

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    When all you care about is what you want, you will do whatever you think is necessary to get what you want and you will fight whoever is in the way of what you want.

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    Self-centered living destroys.

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    It destroys you, it destroys others, and it destroys your relationship with others.

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    Like, man, what's the solution to that?

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    There's only one solution.

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    There's only one solution and that's number two.

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    Get right with God.

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    "right with God." Look at verse four.

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    He says, "You adulterous people, "do you not know that friendship with the world "is enmity with God?

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    "Therefore, whoever wishes to be a friend of the world "makes himself an enemy of God." James says, "Listen, you got a problem with your heart "because you got a problem with God." Now, primarily, he is addressing unbelievers.

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    That's clear from the language he's using, but there's stuff here for all of us in this passage.

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    We've talked about last week, me first, wisdom.

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    We talked about selfish ambition and the thoughts continuing here.

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    He's calling it friendship with the world.

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    It's called worldliness.

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    And that is when you love the things of this world more than you love God.

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    That's worldliness.

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    And James says, "When you do that, you are making yourself an enemy of God." Now look at verse five.

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    This is an interesting verse.

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    It says, "Or do you suppose it is to no purpose that the scripture says, 'He yearns jealously over the Spirit that he has made to dwell in us." Now that is not a direct Old Testament quote.

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    What James is doing here, he's paraphrasing.

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    What he's doing is he's saying, "Hey, have you read the scriptures?" Do you know if you read the scriptures, they say that God is jealous for you.

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    In the Old Testament, forsaking God was compared to spiritual adultery.

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    You see, Israel belonged to God.

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    So when Israel would forsake God for idols, God compared that to a wife being unfaithful to her husband by being with another man.

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    That's what the whole book of Hosea is about in the Old Testament, by the way, but it comes up a lot in the Old Testament, that God says he is jealous.

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    Jealousy is a right to ownership.

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    It's the way a husband feels when another man is after his wife.

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    And that kind of jealousy is appropriate, by the way.

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    But notice James here says, "Look, you're adulterous.

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    "You're adulterous.

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    "You're unfaithful to God "because you love the things of the world "more than you love God.

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    "That's a problem." And in verse five, James is saying, "This is serious.

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    "Don't you remember that the Old Testament says "God is jealous for his people?

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    "Do you really wanna fire up that emotion in God?

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    "Do you wanna do that?" You know, if I were to see a man flirting with my wife, sending her provocative or suggestive messages, sending your gifts, we are going to have a serious problem.

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    You don't want to fire up jealousy in a man.

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    God says he is jealous for his people.

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    And James is saying, do you really want to fire that up?

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    Really?

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    Is that what you want to do?

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    You want to fire up the jealousy of God?

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    Not smart.

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    So wake up call.

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    James says you need to get real in your walk with God through Christ.

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    That's what he's doing here.

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    Wake up, wake up.

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    Look at verse six.

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    This is a direct quote, where he says, "But he gives more grace.

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    "Therefore it says," here's the quote, "God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble." That's quoting Proverbs 3:34.

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    Listen, the only way you get to God is through God's grace.

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    And the only way that you receive God's grace is through humility.

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    And I have to ask you, church, have you humbled yourself?

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    Have you humbled yourself?

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    Humility is one of them terms that we use a lot, but do we really understand what it means?

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    Like, does that mean I just walk around and like think bad things about myself?

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    No.

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    You're like, well, I'm not really sure what it means.

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    Well, according to this, God gives grace to the humble, so you better be sure what it means.

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    And fortunately for us, James tells us what it means to humble yourself.

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    So on your outline, under number two, four things I must do to humble myself.

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    I can't overstate how important this is.

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    These are four things you must do, four things I must do to humble myself.

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    Letter A, I must submit to God.

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    Look at verse seven.

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    He says, "Submit yourselves therefore to God.

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    "Resist the devil and he will flee from you.

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    "Draw near to God and he will draw near to you." Like, man, I hear that last verse.

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    You're like, wow, I wanna draw near.

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    I wanna draw near to God.

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    Well, he says, "Then you have to submit.

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    "You have to." You know, so often in the church, Jesus Christ is presented simply as Savior.

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    And people want to receive Jesus as Savior, but not as Lord.

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    Can he be my ticket out of hell, please?

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    Can he be my ticket to heaven, please?

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    But I don't really want him telling me how to live.

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    And that deal's not on the table.

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    He is Savior and he is Lord.

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    That's why he says submit.

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    By nature, we submit to the devil.

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    And coming to Christ means changing who's Lord of your life. Like, "Oh, what about the devil?" Look at this again. It says, "Resist the devil and he will flee from you." Resist the devil. Notice it doesn't say, "Rebuke the devil." You hear that a lot, right? "You're gonna rebuke the devil! You know, I just rebuke the devil and like I'm sorry where did you get that I hear people say you're gonna we're gonna rebuke the devil what are you rebuke the devil do you realize who he is the Bible never tells you to rebuke the devil Bible says to resist the devil. He resists the devil, right? I think some people give the devil more attention than they give God. That's another sermon. It says resist him, ignore him, shut him out, pay no attention to him. Right? You know how it works with people, right? If somebody's trying to bother you and you keep giving them attention, and they're gonna keep bothering you because they realize they're under your skin and they have your attention and they're just gonna...

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    But if somebody's trying to annoy you and you just completely ignore them, eventually they get to the place where they're like, I'm wasting my time.

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    He ain't even listening to me.

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    This isn't even any fun.

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    And they go annoy someone else.

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    And the Bible says, that's what the devil does.

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    You resist him, he flees from you.

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    I love this where it says, I'm drawn near to God.

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    Do you see that?

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    Drawn near.

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    Drawn near to God.

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    Like, how do I do that?

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    Time in his word.

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    Fasting.

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    Prayer.

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    I think one of the biggest ways that we are to draw near to God that I think often gets downplayed is worship.

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    You know, we come together to sing these songs.

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    It's not like we're auditioning for some choir.

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    Why do we do that?

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    Because when you get a peek of what's happening in heaven in Revelation, what, four and five, when you get a curtain opened, you get a peek into heaven, what do you see?

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    You see everyone around the throne worshiping.

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    God.

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    You know, that's what I love to do here during worship.

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    I love to just sort of close my eyes and imagine myself in that scene.

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    Because I'm gonna be in that scene someday.

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    So I imagine like, I'm like rehearsing for that, in a sense.

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    But I'm around his throne, and I'm telling God exactly what I think about him.

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    That is a way that we draw near to God.

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    And attached to that is a beautiful promise.

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    It says, "Draw near to God and he will draw near to you." Love that promise.

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    Because it's risky to draw near to someone, isn't it?

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    It's risky.

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    Because what if they reject you?

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    What if I want to draw near to someone and they don't want anything to do with me.

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    That's a horrible feeling.

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    And here James gives the promise, sort of like the prodigal son's dad, right?

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    Soon as that kid was on the way home, dad was running to meet him.

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    Same promise here.

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    Listen, you take the first step to God and he'll meet you there.

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    Are you willing to take the first step?

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    Four things I must do to humble myself.

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    Letter B, I must repent from my sin.

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    Not only do you have to submit, look at verse eight, you have to repent.

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    He says, second part of verse eight, "Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded." He says, "Cleanse your hands." What are you doing right now in your life that you know dishonors God?

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    You know what it is.

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    Don't shout it out.

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    But what is that thing right now in your life?

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    You're like, I've been involved in this, I've been doing this, and I know that that's not right.

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    Well, stop it.

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    Replace it with doing what does honor God.

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    Right?

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    Like our Thai missionary Barnabas.

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    I love this.

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    Barnabas told me one time, one of the men in one of the villages was having a relationship with a woman that is, how shall we say, inappropriate.

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    And Barnabas goes to the man and he says, "You need to stop this relationship right now." And the man said, "You know, I'm gonna pray about that." And Barnabas said, "No, there is nothing to pray about.

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    Repent.

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    No, this is not a pray thing.

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    This is a repent thing." He's right.

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    "Cleanse your hands." He also says, "Purify your hearts." Purify your hearts.

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    Your favorite sin, what's your favorite sin?

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    That sin that you just love the most, you need to hate it.

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    You need to see it for what it is.

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    And that takes us to the letter C.

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    Four things I must do to humble myself.

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    I must mourn over my sinfulness.

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    Look at verse nine, dial in here.

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    Verse nine, he says, "Be wretched and mourn and weep.

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    "Let your laughter be turned to mourning "and your joy to gloom."

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    (congregation laughing)

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    No one ever talks about this.

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    Like when's the last time you heard anybody talk about mourning over your sin?

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    Nobody talks about that.

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    It's like, get over it, move on, shed that burden.

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    Listen, this is a key element in coming to Christ.

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    It's mourning over your sin.

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    It's realizing how ugly and disgusting your sin is.

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    Seeing it for what it is.

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    He says your laughter, turn it to mourning, your joy, turn it to gloom, laughter and joy.

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    That's how sinners view sin.

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    It's laughter and joy, right?

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    Ha ha ha, hee hee, high five, so funny.

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    Who I slept with, who I ripped off, who I humiliated, hee hee hee.

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    The things that I've watched.

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    Heaven help me, the things that I've laughed at.

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    James says the sin that you used to brag about, the sin that you used to celebrate.

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    You gotta see it for what it is.

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    And when you do, it'll crush you.

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    Have you mourned over your sin?

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    I mean, have you ever done that?

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    Have you ever just sat down and looked at your own selfish sinfulness and just mourned.

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    Have you done that?

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    If you ever sat down and considered, who has my sin hurt?

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    People that I've been intimate with and discarded because I got what I wanted.

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    people who have trusted me and I've lied to them and I've ripped them off.

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    My life, my life has been about me.

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    Making myself happy, doing whatever it takes to get what I want.

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    Using people.

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    What kind of legacy is that?

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    Maybe it's not just mourning the sins that you've committed, but mourning the sins that result from what you didn't do.

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    You know, I look at my wife and I think how often I've failed to be the husband that she's needed me to be.

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    And I look at my kids, I look at my two sons and I'm like, I haven't been the dad that you've always needed me to be.

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    Because I make some pathetic excuse, I'm too tired, I'm too distracted, I'm too annoyed, I'm too selfish, and sinful is my problem.

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    That's my problem.

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    Have you mourned over your sin?

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    And I just flip through life, and I do whatever the heck I wanna do, and I disregard my creator, oh, until I need something, and then I pretend to be real religious.

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    And I think of Jesus Christ, innocent of any wrongdoing.

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    But he came and was willing to die in my place, and not just die, to suffer the most horrible, painful, humiliating death known to man.

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    spit on and mocked and beaten and nailed to a cross and hung to die slowly so people could still mock him.

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    Not for anything that he did.

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    He did all that because of what I've done.

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    While Jesus was on the cross, he literally experienced the pain of hell as he bore the wrath of God that I deserve.

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    Can you really take such an inventory and not mourn?

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    Have you done that?

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    What are the things I must do to humble myself?

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    Letter D, I must receive God's grace.

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    I must receive God's grace.

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    Look at verse 10.

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    All in favor of some good news right now?

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    Oh, nobody.

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    Well, you're in the wrong place because here it comes.

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    Humble yourselves before the Lord and he will exalt you.

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    I must receive God's grace.

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    I'm not trying to earn God's favor by works or behavior.

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    I realize because of my sin and my selfishness, how hopeless I am.

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    Like the passage Taylor read earlier from Isaiah six, I'm a horrible, gross garbage person and I live among garbage people.

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    And that humbles me.

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    And I cry out for His mercy that He has shown me through Jesus Christ.

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    And here's the good news.

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    When you truly humble yourself, when you really humble yourself, God doesn't pile on.

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    Isn't that awesome?

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    That it's not like you say, "God, God, I am such a miserable person "and I realize how sinful I am "and I realize all the people that I've hurt "and I realize, God, how I've just completely "blasphemed your name." It's not like God's like, "That's right, that's right.

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    "You are trash, you are worthless." That's not what it says.

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    It says, "He will exalt you." When you humble yourself, God is in the business of lifting up.

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    He wants to lift you up.

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    But you're not gonna be lifted up until you get down.

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    So you wanna play well with others?

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    Well, there's one person you better make sure that you're getting along with.

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    The very top of the list, and that's God himself.

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    because it's only when you're right with Him that you can be right with others.

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    Finally, how to play well with others.

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    Number three, stop slandering.

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    I really wish the sermon was done here.

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    So I feel done.

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    But this is part of it.

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    So I really wish that I could, this could be like its own sermon.

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    Maybe it will someday.

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    Number three, stop slandering.

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    Stop slandering, look at verse 11.

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    He says, "Do not speak evil against one another, brothers." Oh, more of that watching your mouth, right?

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    Taylor just, what was that, two weeks ago?

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    That was a good sermon.

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    Watching your mouth, right?

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    Matthew 12, 34, out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.

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    Every time you speak, you're just showing what's in your heart.

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    Then James goes back to the mouth again, and here he's talking about slander.

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    Speaking evil against one another, that's slander.

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    So much destruction in God's church just comes from slander.

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    Like, well, what is it?

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    Slander is when you talk about people in a way that makes the person that you're talking to think badly about the person you're talking about.

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    That's what slander is.

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    It's hurting someone's reputation.

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    It's talking about someone in a way that drags them down in the eyes of someone else and making somebody think less of another person by the way that you're talking about them.

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    That's slander.

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    Like, hey, can you believe what a jerk he is?

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    Let me tell you the stuff that he did.

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    Can you believe the stuff that she said?

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    She's such a nasty person.

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    Can you believe?

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    Can you believe?

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    You can't trust her.

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    All these things that we say tear somebody down in the eyes of another.

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    It's slander.

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    You're like, is it really that big of a deal?

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    Well, there is nothing that you can do that's more satanic than slander.

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    Because you go to Revelation 12, Satan is called an accuser and a deceiver.

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    As an accuser, he goes before God and says, man's no good, man's no good.

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    Man's no good.

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    That's the accuser.

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    And then as deceiver, he goes before man and says, "God's no good, God's no good." You see what Satan does?

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    That's his thing.

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    He's just constantly going around telling everybody how bad other people are.

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    So you wanna be satanic, go ahead.

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    Talk about other people in a negative way.

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    I don't recommend it though, because James says, "Here's three things you also say when you slander." I'm gonna go through these quickly.

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    But when you slander someone, when you're tearing someone down, these are three other things that you're saying.

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    And maybe you're not mouthing these words, but James is saying, "Here's what you're really saying when you slander." The first thing, when you slander, when you're talking about someone in a negative way, what you're really saying is, "I hate that person." Right?

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    He says, "You don't speak evil against one another.

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    Brothers, brothers, he's talking about, specifically in the context of church, specifically we're talking about speaking evil against someone that Jesus died for.

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    Wanna explain that one to him?

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    This person that you are commanded to love.

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    Like, well, how do I know if it's slander?

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    We've got an easy test for you.

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    Whenever you're talking about somebody, as soon as you say their name, As soon as you say the person's name, I just want you to imagine that person standing right outside the room and listening to every word you say.

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    Would they say, "Wow, it sounds like "they really care about me." Or would they say, "Wow, I thought he liked me.

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    "Wow, wow, that hurts." Just imagine that person's listening.

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    Because when you slander, you're saying, "I hate that person, let her be." When you slander, you know what else you say?

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    You say, "God's word means nothing to me." Who wants to sign up for that?

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    He says, "The one who speaks," verse 11, "The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law." But if you judge the law, you're not a doer of the law, but a judge.

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    He says, "When you slander someone, you're judging the law." Now, what is God's law about?

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    Well, according to Galatians 5.14, it says for the whole law is fulfilled in one word.

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    You shall love your neighbor as yourself.

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    So when you slander, what you're saying is, you know, God says I should love.

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    Eh, I can do that.

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    I think I'm gonna slander instead.

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    Because God's word means nothing to me.

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    And that's how a lot of people treat God's word, by the way, they treat God's word like it's the Chinese buffet, right?

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    Oh, I'll take the general so's, I'll take the hot and sour soup.

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    I don't know, I'm not gonna eat the lemon fish wedges or whatever that is.

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    Oh, but I will take some, I'll take a Chinese donut or five.

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    That's how some people treat the word of God.

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    Like, oh yeah, I wouldn't physically murder someone.

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    I don't steal.

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    Slander, I'm okay doing that.

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    You're judging God's word.

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    Really?

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    Pretty arrogant and foolish to treat God's word with such contempt.

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    And finally, letter C, when you slander, what you're saying is, I should be God.

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    James doesn't turn it down at all, does he?

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    Just, he just keeps turning it up.

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    Look at verse 12.

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    He says, "There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy." Now, who is that?

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    Shout it out if you know.

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    Who is that?

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    It's got, that was a shout?

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    Come on, if you know, shout it out.

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    Yes!

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    Wait.

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    It's not you?

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    It's not, oh, huh, according to this, it's not you.

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    He says, but who are you to judge your neighbor?

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    James says, who do you think you are?

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    When you slander, you're putting yourself in the place of God.

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    You're saying, God, hey, hey, God, off the throne.

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    You're sitting in my chair.

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    Didn't we just talk about humility?

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    I mean, if the person that you're slandering is really as bad as you're making them out to be, God will deal with them.

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    But on the other hand, if you're lying about someone or passing on a delicious story about how horrible someone is, or you're embellishing, or you're laying it on thick because you really wanna drag that person down in the eyes of another, what does that say about your heart?

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    It says you're hateful.

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    That's what it says.

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    And look, you can't play well with others if you hate them.

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    And you prove that you hate people when you slander them.

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    So, if our worship team would make their way forward.

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    James says, "Can't get along with others?

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    "It's a heart problem, your heart." Take a hard look in the mirror, it's your heart.

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    You're selfish, you haven't submitted to God, and you're hateful.

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    The question is, what are you gonna do about that?

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    Bow your heads with me, please.

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    Our Father in heaven, your word certainly crushes us so that you can build us up.

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    Your word takes us down so that you can exalt us.

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    And Father, I pray today that your word would take us down.

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    Face first in the dirt, take us down.

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    Father, we confess to you that we are people of unclean lips and we dwell among a people of unclean lips.

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    And we gaze at your holiness and we are crushed.

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    But so often God, we just wanna get around that part And we want to celebrate the exaltation, but we're not willing to go through the humiliation.

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    Father, I pray today, through the power of your Spirit, through the hammer that is your Word, you'd break us down.

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    And as you lift us up, Father, Let us be people in the church, in the workplace, in the home, in the wherever, God.

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    Let us be people who play well with others.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read James 4:1-12

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Why do you think people would rather fight for what they want than ask God for it (Jas 4:2)?

  3. In Jas 4:3, James says when we ask God for something with selfish motives, He will not answer. How can you tell if what you are asking for comes from a selfish motive or a God-glorifying motive? If you realize you are being selfish in what you are asking for, what should you do? How does this change how you pray?

  4. What does it mean to “humble yourself”? How do you know when you have done that? In what area of “humbling yourself” do you find the most difficult? Why? See Jas 4:7-10.

  5. Why does James talk about slander here? How is slander destructive? What should you do if someone is slandering someone else to you?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Be Wise

Introduction:

James 1:5 - If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

How to be Wise (James 3:13-18)

  1. Understand what wisdom is. (Jas 3:13)
  2. Know the difference between Me-first wisdom and Godly wisdom. (Jas 3:14-18)

    Three questions to ask yourself that will determine what kind of wisdom you live by:

    1. Where does my wisdom come from?
    2. Who is my wisdom meant to benefit?
    3. What is my wisdom producing?
  3. Apply liberally.

    Proverbs 15:1 - A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

    1 Corinthians 1:30 - ...you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God...

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  • 00:40-00:42

    Let's turn to God's word together, James chapter three.

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    Let's bow our heads, I want you to pray for me and I'll pray for you as we approach God's word together.

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    All of God's people said, amen, amen.

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    James chapter three, are you there?

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    We're gonna be picking up in verse 13.

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    When my family lived in Chicago, we were broke.

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    We were training with the fellowship, the church planting training, and we tried to sell our house before we moved, but the house didn't sell.

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    So all of the money we got from the fellowship went right to paying our mortgage back here.

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    So we had, that season of our lives, we just had no money.

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    And to tell you how bad, it wasn't funny then, it's kind of funny now, but to tell you how bad it was, I needed a haircut so bad, but we couldn't afford it.

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    And I was a wreck.

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    I really looked bad.

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    I mean, really bad.

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    And I was driving the one day and I saw there was this place there was a neon sign in the window.

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    It said $5 haircuts.

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    I'm like $5 haircuts.

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    So we scrimped and we saved and we tightened the belt.

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    And we came up with that $5.

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    And I went to this place to get my hair cut.

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    And I sit down in the chair and I said to the lady, "You know, I want it really short around the sides and back, you can leave a little on top, but quite a bit needs taken off the top.

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    But just, you know, leave some on top." And she pulls out the electric clipper.

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    She's like, "Eh." And she was like, "Brrr." And I was like, "No, no, no, no, no, no." And then I realized she didn't speak English.

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    But she did kind of burp in my face the whole time.

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    And that was a whole different story.

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    I'll tell you that one later.

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    But she got done with me.

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    And look, some people can pull off the shaved head thing.

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    I am not one of those people.

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    I looked like Curly from the Three Stooges.

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    So I was like one part so like frustrated after this ordeal and one part so just dejected I guess is the word.

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    And I went up to the counter to pay and there was nobody standing there.

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    I just went up there and like, I was defeated.

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    I pulled out, you know, the only $5 we had to our family name And this man comes around from behind the corner.

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    I don't know if he's the manager or the owner or what.

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    He just comes from around the corner and he goes, "Ha ha, senority!" I'm like, "Just take my $5." I'm outta here.

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    You're like, "What's the point of this story?" Well, I learned a valuable lesson.

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    When it comes to haircuts, it matters where you get it.

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    Right?

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    It matters where you get it.

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    Now hold that thought for a second.

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    Look at James chapter three, verse 13.

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    James says, "Who is wise and understanding among you?" Stop there.

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    He asked the question.

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    Sort of like show of hands.

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    We're not gonna do this now, but James says, "Okay, who here is wise?

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    Who is understanding?

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    And the problem with asking that question and just kind of leaving it there is everyone thinks they're wise.

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    But obviously everyone is not wise.

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    Do I have to sell you on that?

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    That everyone is not wise?

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    I really don't need to sell you on that, do I?

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    Okay, we'll just move on then.

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    with wisdom, just like haircuts.

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    It matters where you get it.

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    And that's what we're gonna talk about today.

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    We're gonna talk about wisdom.

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    And write down on your outline, it matters where you get it.

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    Just write that down at the top.

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    It matters where you get it.

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    Because if you miss that, you've missed everything, according to God's word.

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    But what is wisdom?

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    I like this definition.

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    I was looking up definitions this week and this definition was, wisdom is the capacity of the mind that allows us to understand life from God's perspective.

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    I like that.

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    It's taking his word, the commands and the principles in his word and understanding them in such a way that we are completely bought in.

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    That's wisdom.

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    But I can tell you something about wisdom, right?

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    Okay, 'cause right now, I know some people might be tuning out, be like, "Oh, another sermon about wisdom, "and didn't we talk about this before?" And it comes up a lot in James.

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    I cannot overstate enough how important wisdom is.

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    Listen, wisdom is the most important thing there is on this earth.

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    Because if you get wisdom, you'll get everything else.

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    It's the most important thing.

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    Do you remember back in 1 Kings 3, the Lord appeared to Solomon and said, "I'll give you whatever you want." What a blank check.

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    The God of the universe says, "I'll give you whatever you want." Do you remember what Solomon asked for?

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    What did he ask for?

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    Shout it out if you know.

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    Wisdom, right?

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    and with wisdom, Solomon got everything else.

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    And we already learned in James that, we learned like Solomon that God is the source of wisdom.

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    James 1.5 says, "If any of you lacks wisdom, "let him ask God, who gives generously to all "without reproach, and it will be given him." See, everyone thinks they're wise, but obviously everyone is not wise.

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    And James says, "Who is wise and understanding among you?" It matters where you get it.

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    So on your outline today, how to be wise.

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    How to be wise.

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    A, you have to, before we could get wisdom, we better understand what wisdom is, right?

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    Otherwise we might be trying to chase down something that isn't wisdom.

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    So letter A, understand what wisdom is.

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    So he asked the question, who is wise and understanding among you?

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    Another way of saying this is, it's like Solomon is saying, hey, who here is the master of knowing how to live?

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    Who's the specialist here?

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    Who gets it?

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    Like who's really nailed it down?

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    Like what it means to live a successful life?

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    And you ask that question and right now, I'm sure there are people sitting here, there are people watching this stream, and I say, "Who here is wise?" I'm sure there are people here that are like, "I'm too shy to holler out, but I am." You know, I have this degree, I went to the school of hard knocks or what I'm, but I'm really wise.

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    Well, look at verse 13.

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    He says, "By his good conduct, "let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom." James says, "You got godly wisdom and understanding?" He goes, "It's up to you to show it." And see, this is a command in the Greek.

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    He's like, "You wise?" He's like, "Show me, show it, demonstrate it.

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    "Don't just tell me you're wise.

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    "You have to prove that you're wise by your action." And see, this is where we get wisdom and knowledge mixed up.

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    Wisdom and knowledge are two different things.

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    And I say, church, we live in a day that the difference between wisdom and knowledge is more obvious than it's ever been in history.

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    Here's what I mean by that.

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    Knowledge is just information.

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    That's all knowledge is, right?

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    And we have access now to all the knowledge in the world.

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    Right now, if I said to you, "Hey, who played Clark Griswold's mother "in Christmas Vacation?

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    "What was that actress's name?" You could tell me in like 15 seconds, couldn't you?

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    Or if I said, "Hey, what are the lyrics to Dancing Queen?" Some of you probably know them by heart.

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    And I applaud you for that, I guess.

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    But you could, if you didn't, you could tell me in a few seconds, right?

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    That's knowledge.

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    We all have that.

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    But do you know what I don't see?

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    And I'm seeing, or maybe I should say it this way.

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    I am seeing it less and less and less and less and less as the years go on, as I'm seeing real wisdom.

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    I'm just not seeing it.

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    Like for example, in relationships, when it comes to conflict resolution, we don't know how to do that.

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    Like, can I just text an apology?

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    To sit down and have a hard conversation with someone, that takes wisdom and we've lost that.

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    Or managing money, right?

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    That is an aspect of wisdom, and we don't know how to do that.

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    We don't know how to manage God's stuff.

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    We're controlling your temper.

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    We don't know how to do that.

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    You see, movie actors and song titles and all that secular stuff, that's trivial.

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    But you know, when it comes to relationships and money and self-control, those are things that the Bible addresses.

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    So you see, wisdom isn't just the knowledge.

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    Wisdom is taking the knowledge from God's word and knowing how to apply it.

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    But it's not just knowing how to apply it, it's actually applying it, it's doing it.

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    It's as simple as this, you know, knowledge is knowing that if I eat a better diet, I will be healthier, that's knowledge.

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    Wisdom is what?

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    Actually eating a better diet.

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    So you have to start here.

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    James is telling us that wisdom isn't just a knowing thing.

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    He says it's a doing thing.

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    He's like, "Hey, hey, who here is wise?

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    "Who here has wisdom?

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    "Show me.

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    "Don't talk about it, live it.

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    "Who is wise and understanding among you "will know it when you show it, right?" All right, with that stated, the rest of the passage here, James is going to show us two kinds of wisdom.

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    Spoiler alert here.

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    He's going to show us there's a false kind of wisdom.

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    And then there's God's wisdom.

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    That's the rest of the passage.

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    He's comparing false wisdom and true wisdom.

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    And on your outline, we kept these on here because I want you to have these.

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    I have, there's three questions to ask yourself that determines what kind of wisdom you live by.

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    Because in the false wisdom and the true wisdom, James tells us three things.

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    He says, you gotta know where they come from, you gotta know who they benefit, and you gotta know what they produce.

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    And when you figure out those things, then you'll know if you're living by false wisdom or God's wisdom, right?

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    And this is gonna help you apply it.

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    In any situation you face in life, You need to ask yourself, okay, where is this wisdom coming from?

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    Who is my wisdom meant to benefit?

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    And what is my wisdom producing?

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    Those are the three things James walks us through with false and with true wisdom, all right?

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    So it's up to us, by God's word, to know the difference.

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    And that's letter B.

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    Know the difference between, I'm calling false wisdom, I'm calling it me first wisdom.

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    Know the difference between me first wisdom Godly wisdom.

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    Look at verse 14.

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    He says, "But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth." So first up is the wisdom.

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    It's pretty obvious why I call it me first wisdom.

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    Me first wisdom, James tells us right out of the gate, it resides in a heart full of bitter jealousy and selfish ambition.

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    What is that?

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    What's bitter jealousy?

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    You know what that is?

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    That's when you can't be happy for someone else who's blessed.

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    You see somebody else receiving some kind of blessing or good fortune or prosperity or however you wanna frame it, but you see somebody else is having a good day and that bothers you.

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    Why does he deserve?

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    He doesn't deserve it.

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    I should be the one getting it.

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    And we're like, we're ticked off that somebody else is being blessed.

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    That's what he's talking about here with bitter jealousy and selfish ambition.

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    I think we know what that is, right?

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    All you care about is what's good for you.

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    I don't really care about other people.

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    I just, you know, what's best for me.

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    And James says, hey, hey, don't brag about being wise This describes you because you're lying to yourself.

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    And we've talked about this before because wisdom has come up several times through James, but this me first wisdom is the basis of all worldly wisdom.

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    And I gotta tell you, I cringe because I hear this garbage all the time.

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    People say, you know what?

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    You know, Pastor Jeff, I went to see my therapist or my secular counselor, and he told me, I have to do what's best for me.

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    You know, he told me that I deserve to be happy, and that really, I need to learn how to love myself.

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    So with the decisions that I need to make, Pastor Jeff, I need to learn how to, I just, I need to trust my gut.

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    That's what I really need.

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    I have to trust my gut.

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    That's me first wisdom.

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    Where does that come from?

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    Right, that's our first question, right?

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    Where does that come from?

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    Well, look at verse 15, he tells us where it comes from.

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    He says, "This is not the wisdom "that comes down from above." Like, where does it come from?

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    Not from God.

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    That me first thing, that selfish ambition, that bitter jealousy, that me, me, me thing, Where's that from?

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    He's like, that ain't from God.

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    First, he goes, that's not from above.

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    All right?

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    Look at the rest of verse 15.

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    He says, "But is earthly, unspiritual, demonic." Earthly, unspiritual, demonic.

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    Do you realize that's just another way of saying the three enemies of God.

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    Other places in scripture, I believe it's the world, the flesh and the devil, right?

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    It's the same thing.

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    It's the same unholy trinity, right?

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    It's the same thing.

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    World and flesh, that's the earthly, that's the unspiritual.

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    What that means is just simply this.

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    This kind of wisdom, this me first wisdom, this false wisdom, it's just thinking about here and now.

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    There's no thought towards God.

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    There's no thought towards anything spiritual.

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    There's no thought towards what does the Bible say?

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    It's just about here and now.

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    What's gonna feel best for me?

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    What's gonna serve me?

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    That's the world of flesh.

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    But I gotta tell you though, the thing that kind of jumps out to me is demonic.

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    Listen, worldly wisdom, E-first wisdom, isn't just bad advice.

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    It is from hell, according to James.

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    It's demonic.

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    It's straight from Satan's trash mouth.

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    But here's the thing, this false wisdom, this me first wisdom, here's the problem with the church.

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    Listen, the problem with me first wisdom is it sounds good.

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    It sounds good.

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    Here's what I mean.

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    Remember the Garden of Eden, Genesis chapter three, do you remember Satan showed up to deceive Eve and Adam was with her, remember that story?

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    Did Satan show up and say, "Eve, hey, listen, I got an idea.

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    Let's spit in your creator's face.

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    Let's just flagrantly rebel against God." Is that what he did?

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    No, no, no, no, no.

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    He used what James has got, this demonic, me first.

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    And he convinced Eve to sin by telling her that she needed to have her best interest in mind, right?

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    He says, "Oh, no, no, no." He goes, "You should eat off this tree." Not this tree, don't eat off this tree.

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    It was a different tree, but makes a nice illustration.

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    But I don't think the tree in the garden looked like this But anyways, Satan was like, "Eat off this tree because," and I'm paraphrasing, he goes, "Hey, hey, "you'll be like God.

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    "And listen, if you eat off this tree, "you will know things that you have never known before.

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    "Doesn't that sound great?" And you see how that would appeal.

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    Like, yeah, yeah, I wanna be like God.

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    I wanna know some things.

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    And we have completely disregarded what God actually said.

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    That's me first wisdom.

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    It's good for you, it benefits you.

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    So the first question we ask is, where does this wisdom come from?

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    Well, he says, not from God.

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    Look at verse 16.

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    He says, "For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist." Oh, that sounds familiar.

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    Jealousy and selfish ambition, there it is again.

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    And that answers question number two, right?

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    Who is my wisdom meant to benefit?

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    Worldly wisdom, me first wisdom, false wisdom, whatever you wanna call it.

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    It's always meant to benefit me.

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    What's best for me, what's good for me, you gotta look out for number one, I gotta take care of myself.

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    That's that worldly wisdom always has myself in view first, always.

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    James doubles down on that.

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    There it is again.

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    Where jealousy and selfish ambition exists.

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    Our third question is what is my wisdom producing?

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    So we know where it comes from, right?

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    It's not from God, it's meant to benefit me.

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    What is it producing?

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    Well, I think when you have this kind of wisdom, it's pretty obvious, but look at verse 16.

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    He says, "Where jealousy and selfish ambition exists," Here it is, there will be disorder in every vile practice.

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    Disorder in every vile practice.

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    That's just what you get when everybody insists on getting what they want.

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    Disorder, chaos, right?

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    Fighting, what causes fighting?

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    What causes grudges?

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    We're gonna talk about that next week.

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    But here's a preview.

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    James tells us this discord comes from this me first wisdom.

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    What causes lawsuits?

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    What causes divorce?

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    It's me first wisdom, discord, every vile practice.

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    All right, now let's talk about something good because James moves on to godly wisdom in verses 17 and 18.

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    And the first question is, where does this wisdom come from?

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    In this contrast that he's making, look at verse 17.

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    He says, "But the wisdom from above." Okay, first of all, we see where it comes from.

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    This wisdom is from above, it's from God.

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    God wrote it down in his word.

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    You wanna know God's wisdom?

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    He has blessed us by writing it down.

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    Number one bestseller, right?

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    So that's where it came from.

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    But look at the rest of verse 17.

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    He says, "Is first pure, then peaceable, "gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, "impartial and sincere." All right, look, he gives a list here.

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    And I could do what a lot of preachers do here.

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    And I could go through the list and I could explain these glossary terms.

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    I'm not gonna do that, right?

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    Like, you know, when it says here, full of mercy, like in the Greek, that means like lots of mercy.

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    And when it says sincere, that means without hypocrisy.

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    That's what that means.

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    And you're like, yeah, I could have guessed that.

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    There's nothing really challenging here.

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    What I wanna do instead of dissecting the definition of these pretty obvious words, and I did study them by the way, I can show you my notes, and they basically mean in the English exactly what they meant in the Greek, okay?

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    There's no curve balls here, all right?

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    What I want you to do instead is to take a giant step back and ask question number two, who is godly wisdom meant to benefit?

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    And when you look at this list, peaceable, gentle, open to reason, mercy and good fruits, impartial, sincere.

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    Who's it meant to benefit?

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    The answer is everyone.

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    That's the answer.

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    Imagine a church, just imagine a church where instead of everyone demanding what they want, every single member of the church aims to make decisions that benefit everybody in the church.

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    I'd like to go to a church like that because this kind of wisdom benefits everyone, right?

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    Then the third question, what is this kind of wisdom producing, right?

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    We see where it came from.

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    It came from God.

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    It benefits everyone.

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    What does it produce?

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    Verse 18, he says, "And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace." It results in a harvest of righteousness.

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    This is actually a very tough verse to translate, but it's, we get it, we get it.

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    He's saying peacemakers sow peace and a righteous environment just grows and grows and grows because peacemakers aren't concerned with getting their own way.

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    That's what he's saying.

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    All right, we get it, right?

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    It's an easy passage.

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    James is like, okay, who's wise?

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    And there's two kinds of wisdom.

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    There's like the me first wisdom that comes from the devil and it's all about me and it produces discord, right?

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    But then on the other hand, there's godly wisdom and that comes from God and that's focused on what's good for everyone and that produces peace and righteousness.

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    And that's the text.

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    And I suppose we could leave now, and you would say, I learned some things, except the definitions of all those words in verse 17, I didn't learn that, I'll have to look that one up.

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    But I think we would really be doing a disservice if we didn't just take another, just a little, another little step forward here, because James told us that wisdom isn't just about knowing things, right?

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    And I can't just have you leaving here today like, well, now I know some new things, because the issue is what are you gonna do with it?

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    That's the issue.

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    Are you gonna do something with it?

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    Are you gonna go back to the same old thing Monday through Saturday and then come back in here next Sunday and maybe make another half-hearted commitment that things are gonna be different?

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    James says, "Who is wise in understanding?

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    Show me." Right?

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    So let's take another step.

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    That's why the letter C, apply liberally.

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    Apply liberally, right?

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    Like shampoo.

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    But you need to take this, you need to apply it liberally.

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    'Cause here's the thing, Every scenario that you face in life, every scenario, you have a choice.

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    Are you going to go with the me first wisdom?

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    Or are you gonna go with God's wisdom?

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    So in these scenarios, that's why we wrote these questions down.

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    You have to ask yourself, where's this wisdom coming from?

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    And who's it meant to benefit?

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    And what's it producing?

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    So let's run it up the pole here and give a couple examples.

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    Let's imagine you work with a guy who's just not always easy to get along with.

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    Is that the nice way to say it?

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    And he said something that really ticked you off.

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    Okay?

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    You got, okay, at this point you have options.

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    And maybe, you're like, here's the option that I'm taking.

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    I'm gonna march into his office first thing on Monday, and I'm gonna give him a piece of my mind.

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    I'm gonna tell him off, I'm gonna annihilate, I'm gonna tell him exactly what I think about him.

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    That's an option that you have, right?

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    You with me?

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    You have that option.

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    So here's the question.

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    What kind of wisdom is that?

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    You're like, God is a God of vengeance.

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    So that's godly wisdom.

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    Yeah.

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    Let's back up here for a second.

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    What kind of wisdom is that?

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    Well, where does it come from, first of all?

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    This, I'm gonna give him a piece of my mind.

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    I'm gonna tell him off.

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    Does that come from the Bible?

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    Okay, so if it's not from God, it's from, it's from the enemy, isn't it?

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    And if you do that, if you go in and tell him off and give him a piece of your mind, question two, who does that benefit?

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    Right, benefits me, doesn't it?

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    It's gonna make me feel better to put this piece of trash in its place.

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    It's gonna make me feel better.

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    Okay, the third question is what does it produce?

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    Do you think that's going to bring a more peaceful environment at work?

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    Or would that produce more discord?

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    Right?

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    So what kind of wisdom is that?

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    Is that me first wisdom?

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    Or is that godly wisdom?

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    Which one is it?

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    Shout it out.

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    That's me first, isn't it?

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    And that's from hell.

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    It's demonic.

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    Okay, so here's another option that you have.

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    Another option you have is just, well, this guy really ticked me off and (groans) but Proverbs 15, one, says a soft answer turns away wrath and a harsh word stirs up anger.

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    So instead of retaliating, you know what?

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    I'm gonna be kind to him instead.

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    And I'm gonna look for a way to bless him.

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    As hard as that is.

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    That's another option you have, right?

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    Okay, so the first question is where did that come from?

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    Where did that wisdom come from?

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    Was that from God?

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    Yeah, it was, it was literally from Proverbs 15.

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    And who does that benefit?

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    If you're walking into work, looking to be kind and bless people, who benefits from that?

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    Everybody does, right?

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    If you're fostering that kind of work environment.

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    And the third question is, what is my wisdom producing?

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    Produces peace, right?

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    It produces peace.

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    That was an easy one, let's do another one.

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    Evaluating what kind of wisdom we're using.

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    Let's do another scenario.

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    Like I, let's pretend that you're like, I really like this girl.

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    I really wanna be with this girl.

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    I really think she's the one.

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    Okay, you have options.

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    One option is we'll just move in together.

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    We're not gonna get married, we'll just move in together.

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    That's an option that you have.

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    And you can say, you know what?

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    It makes a lot of sense, doesn't it?

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    Because we're saving money, we're sharing utilities and here's the thing, we can sort of see if we're compatible, right?

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    You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it, right?

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    So we can see how compatible we are.

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    By the way, and if the thing goes south and we break up, there's no divorce or any of that legal stuff.

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    I just take my stuff and go.

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    Or she takes her stuff.

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    That's an option that you have, right?

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    But what kind of wisdom is that?

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    Well, first of all, number one, where's it come from?

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    Does that come from God's word?

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    Does God's word tell you to move in with somebody and try them out to see if you wanna get married?

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    Is that, no, well, that's not from God's word.

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    So where's it from, tell me?

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    That's demonic, that's from the devil, all right?

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    And who benefits from this kind of wisdom?

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    I do.

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    I'm only thinking about what's best for me.

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    And the third question is, what does it produce?

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    Well, I've been counseling people for a long time, so I can tell you from personal anecdotes, and I can tell you from the statistics of people that live together without getting married, it most often doesn't end well.

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    So, is that me first wisdom or is that godly wisdom?

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    That's me first, isn't it?

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    Or, on the other hand, what if I'm like, you know what?

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    I love this person so much.

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    I do want to spend the rest of my life with this person and the Bible doesn't present living together outside of marriage as a good option.

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    So, if I really love the person, I'm going to marry them.

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    I'm gonna do the right thing.

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    Where does that wisdom come from?

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    That's from God, isn't it?

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    That's the first question, it comes from God.

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    Second question is, who does that benefit?

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    That benefits the other person, right?

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    It's not saying, I wanna try you out and see if you're good for me.

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    It's saying, I love you so much that I'm willing to enter a forever covenant with you till death do us part.

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    That's how much I love you.

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    It's about benefiting others, right?

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    And what's that producing?

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    Well, when you have a godly marriage, a godly home, it produces peace.

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    You know, at this point I thought, well, you know what would be fun is you shout out scenarios and we'll keep doing this, but we don't have time.

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    Do we, Ashley, we don't have time for that.

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    Okay, Ashley says we don't have time for that.

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    But you can apply this to anything and determine what kind of wisdom am I living by?

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    Me first or God's?

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    So my friends, what are you facing right now?

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    In your home, at work, in your church, you have a choice you need to make.

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    And you realize I need wisdom in order to make this choice And like haircuts, it matters where you get it.

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    As the worship team comes forward, you know, I wanna do a quick callback.

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    I said near the beginning that wisdom is the most important thing.

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    Do you remember that?

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    Like that was so long ago.

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    Wisdom is the most important thing.

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    It wasn't that long ago, so I don't know.

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    Wisdom is the most important thing.

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    And that's true.

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    but I can't step off this platform without saying this.

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    In order to get wisdom, you have to get Christ.

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    Because listen, church, all of these things that we've been discussing in James, we've talked about trials and temptations, how to handle those things.

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    We talked about being impartial.

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    Last week, Pastor Taylor talked about watching your mouth.

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    All of these things that we've discussed.

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    Listen, you can't go after these things.

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    You can't grow in wisdom and you can't do it if you don't know Jesus Christ.

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    Because you're just trying to go after them in your flesh.

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    Without God's Holy Spirit, listen, you don't have the ability.

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    So you can hear a message like this and say, yeah, you know what?

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    I probably need to grow in wisdom.

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    Listen, you want wisdom?

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    It starts with knowing Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior.

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    Because Paul says in 1 Corinthians 1.30 to the believers in Corinth, he says, "You are in Christ Jesus, "who became to us," what?

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    See that?

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    What is Christ to us?

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    He is wisdom from God.

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    The Bible says that we're all born with a bent toward sin because of Adam and Eve's sin that we talked about a few minutes ago.

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    The Bible says that we're all guilty before a holy God.

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    And there's nothing you can do to take that guilt away.

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    You can say, you know what, I'm going to work in the soup kitchen or I'm gonna try to be the best neighbor that I can.

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    And somehow we think our good works are going to make God overlook the fact that we have rebelled against him.

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    But our good works won't do it.

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    Any more than if you commit a crime here and show up in court and you tell the judge, you're gonna try to be a nice person, the judge is gonna say, well, good for you, but that doesn't take away the fact that you have committed a crime.

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    God in his grace, you see, that's what we're celebrating with Christmas.

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    You notice the trees, all the lovely decorations.

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    And we celebrate this every week, but especially at this time of year, our hearts get like ultra tuned in to this glorious truth that God became a man.

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    And he did that so that he could die on the cross to pay the penalty for sin that you and I deserve.

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    and He rose from the dead to give us eternal life.

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    So please hear me.

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    You can go after all the wisdom in the world, but if you don't know Jesus Christ, you're just going to be the smartest person in hell.

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    First and foremost, if you're gonna get wisdom, You've got to get Jesus.

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    Would you bow your heads with me, please?

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    And maybe there's somebody here this morning or somebody watching this stream that's like, man, I need more than wisdom, I need forgiveness of sin.

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    I just want to encourage you now to take a moment and cry out to God.

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    God, I want to know you.

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    I wanna know the salvation that you purchased for me through your son.

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    But Father, right now I wanna believe, and I choose to receive Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior.

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    Father, I am turning from my sin, and I am embracing everything that you have provided through the death of your son and through his resurrection.

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    If you're praying that now, or if that's something that you want to pray, or you need more information, listen, you need to see me today.

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    You need to see Pastor Taylor or one of our elders today.

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    Father, we commit this time to you, and ask that your name is greatly glorified as our hearts turn to you.

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    Father, we are so insistent on this demonic, self-centered wisdom that James talks about.

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    Father, I pray today that there would be repentance for all of us, that we would go after the wisdom from above.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read James 3:13-18

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. How can you tell where your wisdom comes from - whether it’s demonic (Jas 3:15) or from above (Jas 3:17)?

  3. In what area do you need God’s wisdom right now? How does this passage encourage you in both what to do and what NOT to do?

  4. Have you ever held non-Christians to Biblical standards? (For example: telling your non-Christian coworker he shouldn’t swear because of what the Bible says about our speech.) Why doesn’t that work? How should you address them instead?

Breakout
Pray for one another to grow in godly wisdom.