2 Peter

Did God Really Say… His Word Can Be Trusted?

Introduction:

I Can Trust the Bible Because... (2 Peter 1:16-21)

  1. It is not a myth but Historical Fact (2 Peter 1:16)

    The Bible is Verified by...

    1. Eyewitness Testimony
    2. Archaeological Evidence
    3. Scientific Accuracy
  2. It is not an incomplete guide but The Only Source of Light in a Dark World . (2 Peter 1:17-19)
  3. It is not the opinion of man but An Inspired Message from God . (2 Peter 1:20-21)

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  • 01:28-01:33

    All right, so you can turn your Bibles to 2 Peter 1, verses 16 through 21.

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    And as you're turning there, I want you to join me in exploring an annoying experience that happens to me on almost a weekly basis.

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    You know, Kate and my kids are out of the house, I'm getting ready to leave, I grab my keys, grab my wallet, head to the car, and I head out.

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    But then a few minutes into the drive, a question pops up into my mind.

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    Did I close the garage door?

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    Does that happen to anybody else besides me like every single day?

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    And I answer that question by saying, yeah, of course I did.

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    But then another question burrows its way into my mind that I hate with my entire being.

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    Are you sure about that?

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    You sure about that?

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    It's like, ah, and I turn around, I go back, and of course the garage door is never actually opened, it's always closed.

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    But time after time, I still turn around because of that question, are you sure about that?

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    It's not even just my garage door.

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    It's things like, oh, I made lunch, I used the oven.

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    I'm like, wait, did I turn the oven off?

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    Is the house gonna explode?

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    Did I turn around and do a 180?

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    Or even, oh, I left a window open.

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    I think it might rain later.

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    I had to turn around and do it once again.

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    That question, are you sure about that, time and time again, stirs up this hornet's nest of doubt in my mind.

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    And to be honest with you, One of the most embarrassing things I do when we go on vacation, I'll actually take a picture of our closed garage door to knock down that question of are you sure about that?

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    As much as you may be laughing at my expense right now, I think we can all admit that we deal with this question to a certain extent when it comes to more serious matters and issues of our faith.

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    We believe that God is real.

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    We believe that he has made a way of salvation for us, but at times that question rears its ugly head.

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    Are you sure about that?

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    Are you sure about that?

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    And we go through seasons of discouragement and doubt.

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    We know that the Lord loves us and cares about every single aspect of our lives, but again, that question nags us.

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    Are you sure about that?

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    Do you really think that God cares about little insignificant you?

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    We know what the Bible says about marriage, sexuality, and gender, but our society keeps yelling that question of, are you sure about that?

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    Did God really say that?

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    As we saw in the introduction video a few moments ago, dealing with this question isn't a new development, as Satan has been asking it since the very beginning.

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    Adam and Eve are set up in a beautiful garden, are given an awesome mission of taking care of God's creation and filling the earth.

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    But they're told that there is one thing they're not to do.

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    And what is that?

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    Do not eat of this one tree in the garden.

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    That's it.

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    But Satan weasels his way into the garden in the form of a serpent and asks that question, are you sure about that?

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    Did God really say that you should not eat of any tree in the garden?

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    You see what Satan does there?

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    He twists what God actually said.

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    God said, "Don't eat of this one tree." And Satan asked, "Did God really say "you can't eat of any tree in the garden?" He sows that seed of doubt in Eve's mind.

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    A seed of doubt in the goodness and trustworthiness of God.

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    As I already said, Satan has been using this tactic for thousands of years, and we have to prepare to fight against it, No matter how mature and theologically secure we think that we are.

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    So this morning, we're taking a bit of a break from Hebrews to start a four-week series called Did God Really Say?

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    And we're gonna unpack important doctrines and scriptural realities that our enemy constantly tries to attack and undermine.

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    And sadly, he's been extremely successful in this endeavor, as many churches have caved and compromised on a variety of key issues because of societal pressure, because of a desire to be liked by everyone, and in general, because of a lack of confidence in the good news of Jesus Christ.

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    But at Harvest Bible Chapel, let us refuse to become this kind of statistic.

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    Let us refuse to follow our hearts, trust in our own opinions, and let our feelings dictate our choices.

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    Let us stand firm on what God has definitively said instead of falling prey to Satan's pathetic question of, did God really say?

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    So before we dive into our specific passage and topic of study this morning, let's go to the Lord and ask for His help.

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    Father, we thank you so much for this time.

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    We can come together as your people to study your word.

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    Lord, I pray that you would speak in and through me, Lord, and as I preach, Lord, you'd be preaching a much better message in people's hearts and minds, Lord.

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    I pray that you would challenge us, you would convict us, you would encourage us, you would build us up, but at the same time, you would tear things down in our lives that need to be torn down.

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    I pray that we'd submit ourselves to you.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

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    So the best way to kick off this series is to focus our time and attention on the thing that Satan tries to challenge to undercut the most, and that is the word of God itself.

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    Our enemy knows that this book contains the message of eternal life and salvation.

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    He knows that followers of Christ can't grow, mature, and become who God wants them to be apart from spending time within its pages.

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    So he'll do whatever he can to keep this book out of people's hands.

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    He'll do whatever it takes to distract us that this book gathers dust on our nightstands at home.

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    Even worse than that, he loves to deceive people into misinterpreting the Bible, into reading their own meaning into a text, and taking a certain passage out of context, where he loves to use people to use this book as a religious weight upon people that they can never hope to lift on their own.

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    The Bible can either be an effective weapon used by your enemy against you, or it can be a powerful weapon used by you against your enemy.

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    The choice is yours.

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    So please open your Bibles to 2 Peter 1:16-21, and we're gonna unpack why the Bible is worthy of our time, attention, and full assurance.

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    Let's begin by reading verse 16.

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    Peter writes this.

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    "For we did not follow cleverly devised myths "We made known to you the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ, but we were eyewitnesses of his majesty." So we're outlined this morning, I can trust the Bible because, number one, it is not a myth, but historical fact.

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    It is not a myth, but historical fact.

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    So throughout this letter, Peter calls out and debunks false teachers who are trying to oppose the gospel of Jesus Christ and the reality of his second coming.

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    Like Satan in the Garden of Eden, these false teachers are sowing seeds of doubt, disunity, and destruction.

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    And some of these people are passing around the lie that the story of Jesus' divine ministry, his miraculous resurrection, his death on the cross is just that, it's just a story.

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    It's a story with no basis in reality.

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    It's just another legend.

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    It's just another collection of myths.

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    Christianity is just a bunch of imaginative fables that teach us important lessons about life.

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    In their minds, Jesus isn't God, but he was a man made out to be God.

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    But Peter makes it crystal clear in the passage we just read that he and the other apostles aren't peddling myths, fables, legends.

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    They aren't writing a fictional fantasy novel like Lord of the Rings or Harry Potter.

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    He says that he is making known the power and coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

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    And he says they were eyewitnesses of his majesty.

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    Eyewitnesses of his majesty.

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    What's he talking about there?

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    Well, he's talking about the historical account of Jesus' transfiguration in which he took Peter, James, and John to the top of the mountain to unveil his glory to them.

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    He popped the hood, so to speak, on his humanity to display the engine of his divinity.

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    We read this account in Matthew, Mark, Luke, and we'll discuss it in greater detail in a few minutes.

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    But Peter points to this firsthand witnessing of the transfiguration to prove that he is a reliable witness who should be listened to.

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    He's denying the claims of his opponents that Jesus isn't God, and he's not really coming back someday.

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    He's saying, listen, it's all true.

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    Every single word of it.

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    Jesus first came in humility to suffer and die to save sinners, but he will come back one day in glorious power, and I know this is gonna happen because I saw him unveil his majesty on that mountain years ago.

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    Peter is making a point here you don't want to hammer into your brain so that it will stick there forever.

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    And that point is, the word of God is historical fact.

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    The word of God is historical fact.

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    I love what Jesus says in John 10, 35.

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    "Scripture cannot be broken." The word of God is 100% true and reliable.

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    It is not a flimsy glass vase that will easily shatter, a strong diamond that will bear up under any pressure.

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    No one and nothing can disprove this book.

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    No one can pull on a thread to unravel it, even though many have tried, and many think they have succeeded, but they have not.

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    You know, two men spring to mind who sought to disprove the Bible and the claims of Jesus, but their mission actually backfired on them in the process and they became Christians.

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    The first is Josh McDowell, who was agnostic in college, he tried to write a paper that disproved Christianity.

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    As he examined the evidence, he realized that Jesus is real.

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    He realized that he is savior, he is Lord, and he gave his life to Christ.

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    And he wrote extremely famous books like "More Than a Carpenter" and "Evidence That Demands a Verdict." Another well-known man is Lee Strobel, an investigative journalist who sought to debunk the claims of Christ, but actually debunked his own atheism in the process.

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    And he has written a ton of books like "The Case for Christ," "The Case for a Creator," "The Case for Faith." You know, sadly, this isn't the case for every single person who tries to poke holes in the Bible, because many people choose to harden their hearts and close their eyes to the reality before them.

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    Listen, if you're a Christian, you're going to face opposition and disagreement about your faith and the book that you base your life upon.

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    And I want you to listen to me here, please pay attention.

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    That's okay, it's okay.

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    The Bible is not gonna be proven wrong someday.

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    Jesus will not be discovered as a fraud.

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    As I already told you, people have been trying for thousands of years and they'll keep trying and failing until the end of time.

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    But maybe you're sitting here and you're unconvinced about the reliability of the Bible.

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    Maybe you're here today and you would like to have some evidence to lean back on or point others to.

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    So let's spend a few minutes unpacking some of the evidence that backs up the Bible.

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    Because I want us to be confident that this book has an unbreakable spine that we can build our lives, that we can build our families upon.

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    All right, letter A, the Bible is verified by eyewitness testimony.

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    The Bible is verified by eyewitness testimony.

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    As you already mentioned, Peter is emphatic that he witnessed the transfiguration of Jesus with his own two eyes, and he also had a front row seat to his entire ministry.

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    His two letters are backed up by this firsthand knowledge of Christ and the birth of the early church.

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    But beyond the apostle Peter, so much of the Bible is written by men who were actually there, or is based off the firsthand accounts of those who were actually there.

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    Luke makes this abundantly clear in the first several verses of his gospel.

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    He writes this, "In so much as many have undertaken "to compile a narrative of the things "that has been accomplished among us, "just as those who were from the beginning "were eyewitnesses and ministers of the word "have delivered them to us, "It seemed good to me, having followed all things closely "for some time, to write an orderly account for you, "most excellent Theophilus, that you may have certainty "concerning the things that you have been taught." That you may have certainty considering the things that you have been taught.

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    Luke is saying that we can have certainty that his gospel is based on the first-hand account of disciples and other men and women who saw Jesus heal, who saw him teach, who saw him suffer, die, rise again and ascend back into heaven.

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    Mark's gospel was based off Peter's firsthand account and Matthew and John written by those apostles themselves.

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    The Bible was backed up by eyewitness testimony.

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    Letter B, the Bible is verified by archeological evidence.

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    Archeological evidence.

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    You know, I can give a really long lecture on how archeology backs up the claims of the Bible, but don't worry, I'm not gonna do that this morning.

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    Let me just give you some of the highlights.

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    In 1993, a stone tablet was found that dates back to the ninth century BC.

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    And it has an inscription that references the house of David.

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    This tablet backs up the reality that David wasn't a made up king of myth, but a historical figure.

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    Before we had this, we couldn't definitively prove that David was a real person, but now we can.

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    In 1947, the shepherds made the biggest archeological discovery of the 20th century when they came across a cave by the Dead Sea that is filled with Old Testament scrolls and fragments that have been sitting there for 2000 years, and some dated back to 300 BC.

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    Over the next several years, they checked all the other caves and they found more documents, 800 fragments from 190 biblical scrolls and an entire scroll of Isaiah was found.

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    You may be asking, Taylor, why is this a big deal?

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    Because this goes a long way in us being able to show, to prove that the 39 books of the Old Testament were written before the New Testament and that the prophecies made about Jesus weren't written after the fact.

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    They were written before he came to this earth.

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    And speaking of manuscripts, we have more fragments and complete copies of the New Testament than any other ancient document by far.

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    We have over 5,800 fragments or completed manuscripts of the New Testament.

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    Do you wanna know who comes in second place?

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    That's Homer's "The Iliad," and it comes in with 643 complete or fragmented manuscripts.

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    That's not even kind of close.

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    5,800, 643.

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    No archeological finds or digs have been able to disprove the Bible.

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    With each passing year, more and more evidence continues to pile up for the historical authenticity of God's word.

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    All right, finally, the Bible is verified by scientific accuracy.

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    Scientific accuracy.

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    Who has ever heard someone say, "Oh, well, faith and science don't mix.

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    You can't trust in the Bible and science at the same time." Who's ever heard someone say something like that?

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    We've all heard different variations of that.

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    Maybe you don't know how to respond.

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    You don't know what to say when someone makes that kind of claim.

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    Well, I want you to be assured that science and the Bible are not enemies, but friends.

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    The Bible isn't a science textbook, but does make correct scientific claims.

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    In Genesis, we're told that God created animals after their own kind.

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    And no matter what evolutionists say, they can never prove from the fossil record that one species completely morphs into a different species over time.

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    It's just not possible.

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    There's no evidence that we come from primates or single-celled organisms.

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    Geology proves the flood actually happened in that fossils and bones were catastrophically deposited over a matter of minutes.

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    The Old Testament speaks to such things as the water cycle, sea currents, the predictable pattern of the stars, and the reality that the earth hangs on nothing.

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    The Bible was way ahead of the curve on these scientific claims because it is written by the creator himself.

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    You know, I really don't even have to defend the Bible because the Bible defends itself.

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    Its reliability, its accuracy is abundantly clear with those with the eyes to see and the ears to hear.

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    My favorite preacher of all time, Charles Spurgeon, once urged his congregation not to view scripture as a defenseless animal that we have to help, but as a roaring lion.

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    He writes this, "Pardon me if I offer a quiet suggestion.

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    "Open the door and let the lion out.

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    "He will take care of himself.

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    "He no sooner goes forth in his strength "than his assailants flee.

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    "The way to meet infidelity, unbelief, "is to spread the Bible.

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    "The answer to objections against the Bible is the Bible." The Bible defends itself.

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    Secondly, I can trust the Bible because it is not an incomplete guide, but the only source of light in a dark world.

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    It is not an incomplete guide, but the only source of light in a dark world.

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    So let's read verses 17 through 18, which unpacks Peter's take on the transfiguration in even greater detail.

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    He says this, "For when Jesus received honor and glory "from God the Father, and the voice was born to him "by the majestic glory, this is my beloved Son "with whom I am well pleased, "we ourselves heard this very voice born from heaven, "for we were with him on that holy mountain." Just imagine what this must have been like to see, hear, and experience.

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    Seeing Jesus Christ unveil his glory, to hear the voice of God the Father speak out of heaven, affirming who Jesus is, This is my beloved son.

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    And we're told in the gospels that two Old Testament rock stars show up on the scene and stand next to Jesus.

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    And who are these men?

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    Moses and Elijah, who Peter has heard about on an endless loop since he was a kid, from his parents, from his family, from his rabbis.

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    This must have been one of the highlights of Peter's life.

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    I don't know about you, but I wish I could have experienced something like this.

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    All of us do, right?

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    But Peter goes on to say something astounding in verse 19.

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    As Pastor Jeff often says, this is game-changing stuff.

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    He writes this, "And we have something more sure, the prophetic word." What's he saying there?

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    He's saying, hey, this encounter was fantastic and I'll never forget it about it as long as I live, but we have something better.

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    We have something more sure, the word of God.

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    Isn't that amazing?

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    But some of you may be thinking, how can that possibly be true?

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    How can Peter write that and mean that?

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    You know, if I offered you a free and inclusive trip to Hawaii or a typed up description of the trip, what would you pick?

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    You'd pick the actual trip, right?

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    What if I offered you the best steak that you could possibly imagine grilled by the greatest chef in the world or a typed up review of how the steak tasted?

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    What would you pick?

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    You would pick the experience of actually eating the steak.

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    So how can this book that we read possibly be better and more sure than this kind of physical and tangible experience that Peter had?

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    How is that possible?

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    Well, as great, as important, as impactful as experiences are, they are here one minute, but quickly fade to memory the next.

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    Experiences in this life come and go, but we're told in Isaiah chapter 40 that the word of the Lord endures forever.

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    It's unchanging and it's not going anywhere.

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    Jesus said, "Heaven and earth will pass away, "but my words will never pass away." This book has a supernatural power that we should not underestimate or we cannot possibly overestimate.

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    No matter what our society says, this book is relevant and it is life-changing.

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    You know, over the years, I've had a lot of people ask me, "Taylor, how can you possibly believe "a book that was written over 2,000 years ago "is true and relevant to your life?" And I have a lot of responses to that question but I always say something similar to this.

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    Because it is the only thing that possibly makes sense of this crazy world that we live in.

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    It tells the truth about why things are so broken, why people act the way that they do, and it points to the only way to truly change.

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    When I try to step outside of my biblical worldview and look at life, it is hopeless, it is meaningless, it is confusing, it is chaotic.

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    But when I look at this world, when I look at this life, the lens of scripture, I see the hand of God at work.

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    I see that he is in control.

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    And Peter says something similar at the end of verse 19.

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    And we have something more short, the prophetic word, to which you will do well to pay attention as to a lamp shining in a dark place until the day dawns and the morning star rises in your hearts.

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    According to Peter, we should pay attention to the Bible because it is a bright light that pierces the darkness of this world.

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    It is our only hope of seeing Jesus Christ in this life until the day we finally see him face to face and become fully like him.

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    It is a complete and definitive guide that tells us where to go and where not to go.

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    Why would we put this lamp down and just sit in the blackness.

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    Why would we put this map away and just try to forge our own paths?

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    But we do it all the time, don't we?

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    We feel the nudging of the Holy Spirit to spend time in his word, and we think, I'm just too tired, I'll do it tomorrow.

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    I'm just so busy right now, I can't do that.

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    Reading scripture should be as important to us as drinking water and eating food.

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    Jesus said, and Deuteronomy tells us, man does not live by bread alone, but every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God.

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    Imagine saying to yourself, you know what, I know I should eat this week, but I'm just too busy.

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    I'm just too, everything's just too hectic.

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    Maybe when things slow down next week, I'll finally eat.

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    Your stomach would go insane, not leave you alone until you fed it.

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    May our spiritual stomachs not even let us go one day without eating the meat of God's word and drinking from the fountain of life-giving truth.

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    Finally, the Bible can be trusted because it is not the opinion of man, but an inspired message from God.

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    It is not the opinion of man, but an inspired message from God.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    You'll often hear people say, you can't trust the Bible because it was written by a bunch of dudes with their own opinions and agendas.

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    Let me ask you two really important questions.

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    Was this book written by God, yes or no?

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    All right.

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    Was this book written by men, yes or no?

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    Both are true at the same exact time.

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    And Peter explains this process more in verses 20 through 21.

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    And he proves to us that this book isn't just a man-made document.

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    He says, "Knowing this first of all, that no prophecy of scripture comes from someone's own interpretation, for no prophecy was ever produced by the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit." So God didn't just take over these men's bodies and use them as mindless pens to take down dictation.

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    We're told they were carried along by the Holy Spirit.

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    And this word in the Greek is pharaoh, and it brings to mind the picture of a ship being driven by the wind.

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    I'll give you another example of the word pharaoh and what it tries to communicate.

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    You know, it took me a lot longer than it should have to learn how to ride a bike.

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    And I'm too embarrassed to even admit how long it took me and at what age I learned, but if you corner my dad and my sister after service, I'm sure they'll happily tell you all the gory details.

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    So an undisclosed number of years ago, my dad would teach me how to ride a bike by grabbing onto the handles, and as I pedaled, he would point me in the right direction, right?

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    He was holding me the entire time.

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    And whenever he felt like I had my balance, he would let go and let me go by myself.

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    And this led to a lot of me falling over and literally jumping in the grass.

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    Eventually I got it.

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    I don't wanna tell you when, but eventually.

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    But in those moments when my dad was holding on to the handlebars, I was in a sense still riding my bike.

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    I was pedaling, I was doing the work, but my dad was carrying me along.

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    He was pointing me in the right direction to the right destination.

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    And the Bible was written in a very similar way.

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    The biblical authors didn't just have their eyes go into the back of their heads and go into a trance and then wake up whenever God was done writing a book of the Bible.

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    These men put in the time, they put in effort to write, but every single word was guided by the Holy Spirit.

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    God used these men's different personalities, backgrounds, and styles to create unique but in the end, all the honor, all the glory, all the credit goes to God and God alone.

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    How this whole process worked out is a mystery, but we can have confidence that every single word of this book is there because of the guidance of the Holy Spirit.

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    So if God himself is ultimately the author of this book, then we need to dedicate ourselves to being faithful to what he has definitively said and submitting to his authority.

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    You know, English classes across this country will teach, you know, the intent of the author really doesn't matter.

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    What matters is the meaning that you bring to a book or a poem.

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    It means what you says that it means.

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    It means what you want it to mean.

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    And people try to take that and apply it to the Bible.

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    We can bring our own meaning to a text.

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    We can bring our own experiences to it, and it changes based on who reads it.

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    What do we think about that, thumbs up or thumbs down?

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    That's complete and utter garbage.

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    Either the Bible means what it says that it means, or it means nothing at all.

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    You know, as a preacher, I refuse to put words into God's mouth or take words out of his mouth.

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    We have a wide bench of preachers at this church who are dedicated to telling you what God wants you to hear instead of just telling you what your flesh wants you to hear.

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    We do this because we want to be found as faithful handlers of the word of God.

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    We have to give an account to God someday for the sermons that we preach.

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    We want to deliver God's unfiltered truth instead of watering it down like a batch of McDonald's orange juice.

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    You know what I'm talking about, right?

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    Their orange juice is terrible.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    Even though we're not perfect preachers by any stretch of the imagination, and a few weeks ago we actually spent time talking about all the ways we wanna grow and improve and get better, Pastor Jeff, myself, and men such as Rich Sprunk, Justin Cady, Mike Wolski, Matt Cole, Dan Thompson, James Austin, Brian Krause, and on on the list goes, we are committed to getting it right when we stand behind this pulpit.

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    Again, we're not perfect, but that is always our aim and our goal when we preach.

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    So let me ask you, are you also committed to getting it right when you sit down to read and study the word of God?

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    Do you put in the hard work to study so that you won't take passage of scripture out of context?

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    Do you read slowly and prayerfully?

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    Do you take the time to highlight verses, write questions in the margins, and use a solid study Bible when you're lost?

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    Are you willing to humble yourself and ask others for help and guidance when you know what a certain passage means?

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    Are you committed to only listening to reputable preachers who won't pull any punches?

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    Listen, there are so many preachers out there under the name of Christian that preach sermons that are anything but.

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    You have to be discerning.

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    You have to filter everything through the word of God.

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    Do you seek to not just know the Bible, but live it out and apply it?

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    The New Testament has nothing good to say about the man or woman who has a fat theological head, but does nothing with the knowledge that they possess.

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    These things should affect everything about you, your thought life, what you say, how you treat other people, and how you react to tough situations.

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    You know, growing up, my dad would teach me to ask yourself two questions Whenever you read the Bible, these two questions are, what does this teach me about God?

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    And what does this teach me about myself?

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    What does this teach me about who God is, who he's called me to be, and what he's calling me to do?

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    Head, heart, hands.

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    Maybe you're sitting here this morning and you wanna become a better student of God's word, but you don't know where to start.

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    and you're embarrassed to even ask for help.

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    Listen, you aren't expected to know everything.

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    That's something that only God can do.

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    But you are expected to be faithful with what you do know and pursue after more knowledge and wisdom.

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    If you need help or don't know where to start, please talk to Pastor Jeff or myself after service.

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    We would love to come alongside you and equip you to become a student of God's word.

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    I can think of very little in this life that I enjoy more than sitting down with a person one-on-one to unpack the word and teach them how to read the Bible for themselves.

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    And there are so many other people besides Pastor Jeff and I who would love to do that with you in this church.

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    If you're already a part of one, I would love to connect you with a small group this fall where you can study and unpack the word and community with other believers in Christ.

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    Ladies, you can sign up to be one of our precept studies with First Samuel or Philippians.

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    Guys, you can sign up to be a part of a fisherman group where guys meet up weekly to unpack the word, to keep each other accountable, and do life together.

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    We have a Fundamentals of the Faith class that we're gonna continue to run throughout the next several years.

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    Sign up for that whenever it is available.

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    There are so many opportunities for diving deeper in discipleship at Harvest.

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    Please grab ahold of these things and study the word with other believers.

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    We can't do it without each other.

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    We need each other if we're gonna become faithful readers, messengers, and appliers of God's word.

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    So as we close, let's evaluate our question for this morning one final time.

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    Did God really say that his word can be trusted?

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    What's the answer, church?

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    Yes.

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    We can't say yes loud enough to that question.

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    This book is a historically accurate account of what God has done in the past, which means that we can trust him in the present and we can trust him with our future.

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    It is a sure and complete source of light and guidance, which means that we don't have to be lost in the darkness of this world.

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    It is the authoritative and inspired word of God, which means that we don't have to fall prey to the opinions of our culture or the deceptive lies of our enemy.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father, we thank you for your word.

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    We thank you that you have revealed yourself to us in this book and through the person and work of your son.

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    And Lord, we admit that we so often don't value it in the way that we should.

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    We have a ton of copies laying around at home, but some days we don't even open it.

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    And whenever we do read it, Lord, sometimes we just speed through it, then check it off our list and move on.

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    Lord, may that never be so, Lord.

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    May we view this time in your word as more important than eating or drinking, Lord.

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    This is the time where we connect with you.

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    We hear from you.

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    We grow closer to you.

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    And Lord, if there's someone in this room who doesn't know and love you, and they're unsure about this book, Lord, I pray that you'd open up their hearts to the truth and show them the beauty and the glory and the truthfulness of your word.

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    They would submit to you both now and forever.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read 2 Peter 1:16-21

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. What does it mean that the Bible defends itself? Why can it be trusted?

  3. Why do we delay/put off Bible reading and study at times? How can you take steps to grow in your ability as a student of the Bible over the next several days and weeks?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Life after Salvation: Where's the Effort?

Introduction:

Three Parts to Salvation (2 Peter 1:3-10)

  • Justification: Past
  • Sanctification: Present
  • Glorification: Future

Results When Every Effort is Made:

  1. Making every effort results in Spiritual Maturity. (2 Pet 1:8)
  2. Jeremiah 29:13 - "You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart."

  3. Making every effort keeps us from Habitual Sin. (2 Pet 1:9)
  4. Making every effort produces Confidence in our salvation. (2 Pet 1:10)

Ryan Stroupe - Harvest Bible Chapel Pittsburgh North Small Groups Ministry Leader

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    All right, welcome.

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    And that was a funny joke.

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    I laughed for a long time about that.

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    And it was my uncle, so I'll admit who it was.

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    Most of that was true.

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    It wasn't the next day, but it was several hours.

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    And I actually did feel a little bit bad.

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    I did feel a little bit bad after it, but I did laugh for a long time.

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    You should have just asked Erin.

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    She saw right through it from the beginning.

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    All right. Before I get started, I just want to say I am humbled to be here.

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    I do not take it lightly to bring the gospel. This is something I've never done before.

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    And most people are always, "Hey, you give the announcements, it's great." That's a lot different giving the announcements than it is getting up here and telling you what the Bible says.

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    The announcements I can get wrong, and nobody cares.

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    So this is a little bit more important, and I want to, on behalf of Mike, Rich, and Justin, I want to say thank you to Jeff for the past six months, for putting your faith in us to bring the message, and I hope we've brought honor to you and honor to God.

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    And I want to say thank you very much for the training that we've had.

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    And church, trust me, after seeing what Jeff does behind the scenes, the passion and the commitment that he puts into preaching, we can all rest assured that he's putting everything he has into this church and into the gospel, into each and every person here.

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    So Jeff, thank you.

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    All right, before we get started, let's pray.

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    Heavenly Father, I want to thank you for this day.

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    I want to ask you to please speak through me.

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    Don't allow my words to come out, but allow your words.

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    Father, if there's somebody here that has not received you as their Savior, please do not let them leave this building today without getting that taken care of.

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    I ask you to bless this day and bless this sermon.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

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    Like Jeff said, my wife and I are the small group coordinators at the church, and that's something that we never had at our other churches.

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    And so coming here was kind of a new thing.

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    It was something that we kind of got asked to do.

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    We weren't really expecting to ever be in this position.

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    And it's been such a blessing to us.

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    And if you're not in a small group, please come see me afterwards, because I can go on and on about the blessings of what small group will do for you personally.

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    But that's what I do under the name Harvest Bible Chapel.

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    That's what we do inside the church for the church.

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    Some of you may not know what I do outside of the church.

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    I work for my father, who's here today.

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    I'm gonna talk about you, Dad.

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    But I've now gotten to a position in our company that my dad has given up, my brothers and I also, or my brothers work for my dad as well, and we all have a part ownership in the company, and we have a vice president position, which means nothing because my mom runs everything.

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    (Laughter)

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    That is not where I started at all.

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    That is not where I started.

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    I have to take you back 13 years ago to when I started.

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    I was 18 years old, coming out of high school, no idea what I wanted to do in life.

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    And my dad was not going to pay for me to go to college to major in Undecided.

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    If that's you today, I'm sorry, but my dad was not paying for that.

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    So, he told me, "Hey, come to work for me until you know what you want to do." I'm still waiting to figure out what I want to do.

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    But it's been pretty good so far.

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    So I came to work for him, and I thought in my mind, I was going to spend the summer goofing around, all my buddies weren't going to college till September, I thought this was going to be great, going to be the summer of awesome.

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    It was not, because my dad gave me a week off from school and I had to go to work, and rent was due at the end of June.

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    (Laughs)

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    But then I thought, "Okay, this will be great, because by the end of summer, I'm going to have this cool car, I'm going to have all this cool stuff, and all my buddies are going to be jealous of me." Again, I was wrong, because it's really hard to make a car payment on $9 an hour.

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    (Laughter)

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    And again, rent was due.

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    So you see, what my dad did was my dad gave me an entry-level position.

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    I was the bottom of the barrel.

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    Everybody told me what to do.

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    I was the youngest brother, I was the youngest guy in the company, I was the new guy in the company.

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    I had to start at the bottom.

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    But you could not deny that I was an employee of my company.

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    So my dad gave me a job, and that was it.

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    But beyond that, it was up to me to take the tools that my dad had given me and learn how to use them.

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    Follow the path that my dad had put down for me.

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    Follow the path that my dad had laid out for me to become successful in the company.

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    My dad could not force me to work hard.

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    My dad could not force me to become very good with the tools that we use.

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    Now he'll tell this story differently that I still don't work quite hard enough, but he's not up here preaching today, I am.

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    So I get to say what I want.

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    No, but I don't say it publicly enough, "Dad, thank you for what you've done for us.

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    And thank you for laying out that path for us and making our lives successful that way." So like I said, it was up to me to take those steps.

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    It was up to me to follow that path that was laid out before me.

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    And even still to this day, 13 years later, I still go to my dad and ask for advice, ask for questions.

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    My dad is still leading us along as we try to become more successful.

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    But again, my dad could not force that.

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    I could have, "Hey, I'm an employee.

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    I like $9 an hour.

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    I'm going to live like that forever." I probably would have gotten my beautiful wife that I have now, but that's okay.

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    I could have stayed there, and I could have been just a mediocre employee, but I was an employee and you couldn't deny me of that.

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    But I wanted more than that.

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    I wanted to become successful in the company.

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    When I tell that story, in my mind it's going to relate to what we're going to speak about today because God too gave us a free gift and all we had to do was accept that. But then we had to put out an effort as to whether we were going to be successful in our Christian walk. And you might say, "Ryan, whoa, that sounds like legalism. That sounds like works-based salvation." No, legalism and works-based salvation tells you you have to do that before you're saved. You see, Christ died on the cross for us and in that moment when we accept that gift we are saved.

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    Nothing we have to do on our own. Why we are here on earth. We have work to do. We have to prove our salvation. We have to make every effort to have a successful walk with God and a successful Christian life and a Christian relationship with God. It's up to us to start taking those steps and just as my dad laid out the path for my brothers and I to become successful in our company. Christ too has laid out the path for us. But God cannot make us start walking that path.

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    We have to decide whether we are going to take the steps and we're going to follow Christ and we're going to keep our eyes on Christ. God can't force us to do that.

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    He wants us to. He's already done the work. It's up to us now to prove our salvation and do our work for Christ.

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    Because you see, if all the gospel is to you is punching your ticket to heaven and avoiding hell, then you are not understanding the gospel.

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    You see, there's three parts of salvation.

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    You see, there's justification, there's sanctification, and there's glorification.

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    Justification is what God did for us on the cross.

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    That was the past, that's been done.

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    Our sins were paid on the cross.

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    When we become saved, that's what God did on the cross.

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    That's the past, it's been done.

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    And a lot of times what we want to do is we want to skip from justification down to glorification.

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    And that's the future, that's the ultimate prize.

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    That's when we get to heaven, that's when we get to spend eternity with Christ.

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    'Cause that is the ultimate goal, is that we do want to go to heaven.

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    We want to escape the death of hell, and the pain of hell.

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    But you see, what we so often want to do, and what so many Christians want to do, and so many churches today wanna do, we wanna skip sanctification.

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    And that is us in a process becoming more Christ-like.

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    That is what we are doing right here and right now.

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    We have to make the effort to become sanctified.

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    And that's what our passage is gonna talk about today.

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    So everybody, if you turn in your Bibles or if you have something with your Bible on it, Turn to 2 Peter 1, verses 3 through 10.

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    And as you're turning there, I want you to understand that when Peter wrote this, God had revealed to him that he was about to die.

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    His life was about to end.

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    So this was the last letter that Peter got to write to the church at the time, Church of Asia Minor.

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    So I want you to kind of picture that.

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    If somebody, if there was a way that somebody had reeled to you, hey, next Tuesday, you're out.

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    You're going to heaven.

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    Life is done for you next Tuesday.

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    So you have to picture yourself, what am I gonna tell my children?

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    What am I gonna tell my wife?

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    What am I gonna tell my parents?

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    What am I going to leave on this earth?

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    What are the most important things that if you get nothing out of my life, this is what I want you to understand.

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    And so that is how Peter was writing this letter.

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    He's going, listen, my time is short.

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    I don't have a lot of time left, so please understand these truths before I leave.

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    If there's nothing that you get out of this, please understand these truths.

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    So have that in your mind as we read this.

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    All right, picking up in verse number three.

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    His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence, by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in this world of a sinful desire. So we pause there for a minute. So Peter's talking to people that are already saved. They understand, they have access to the divine power that we have through God. Because we've accepted the free gift of salvation, we now have this access to a power that God may at times use through us. We have the power to defeat sin. We have the power that we've escaped death because of Christ. So that's what he's talking about in those verses. Picking up back in verse This next phrase is where I want to focus our sermon today.

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    "For this reason, because you were saved, make every effort." And I talked to Jeff about this, and he told me that the Greek, if you translate it in the Greek, it literally means, "Make every effort." That translates perfectly.

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    Not make a little effort, not make some effort, make every effort.

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    Make every effort to supplement or add to your faith with virtue, that's moral excellence, and virtue with knowledge, that's a spiritual discernment, and knowledge with self-control, this is a hard one, that's a spirit-empowered ability to say no to sin, and self-control with steadfastness.

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    Steadfastness is perseverance in our walk with Christ.

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    And steadfastness with godliness, becoming Christlike, In godliness with brotherly affection.

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    That's the same love you would have for your own kin, but extending that to your brother or sister in Christ.

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    In brotherly affection with love.

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    That's agape love, that's unconditional love.

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    That's the love that Christ has for us.

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    There's nothing we do that makes God love us more.

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    He already ultimately loves us.

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    He paid the price for us on the cross.

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    It's unconditional.

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    But man, those are some powerful tools, are they not?

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    Those are hard tools.

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    Characteristics of Christ.

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    That's who Christ is.

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    And we are to make every effort to become like that.

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    And I don't want to spend a lot of time just on those characteristics alone because I want to see what the results are of those characteristics.

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    But I urge each and every person here, go home, study those, make those your bucket of tools.

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    go home, master them, become students of those.

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    Because I promise you they're gonna come up every day and you're gonna need them every day.

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    And you might say, "Hey, I'm good at some of these." Are you?

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    Are you a virtuous person when somebody cuts you off in traffic?

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    'Cause I don't know if I always am.

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    Are you always able to say no to sin?

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    Are you persevering in your walk with Christ?

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    being steadfast? At times, yes. But what happens when somebody makes fun of you at work about being a Christian? Or what happens when somebody wants to take your life because you're a Christian?

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    And sometimes we don't experience that in Wexford here. But the day may come when you have to stand up when somebody's pointing a gun at you and say, "Denounce Christ or or you're gonna die, are you able to persevere through that?

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    These are the tools that God gave us if we wanna have a successful walk and a successful relationship with God.

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    And that should be our desire.

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    Every person's desire is to be as successful as we can be in our walk with Christ.

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    Effort is defined by Webster as a vigorous and determined attempt.

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    A vigorous, determined, I'm determined to make every single one of these characteristics who I am.

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    Those characteristics are going to start defining who I am.

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    Because I'm a child of God and these characteristics are who God is.

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    So I want to be more Christ-like.

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    I want to be like God.

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    And you should never stop trying.

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    You have to constantly make that attempt, constantly make the effort.

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    If we want to do more than just punch our ticket to heaven like I said earlier, then you must continually be growing in these qualities.

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    You must make these qualities everything.

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    And again, I encourage you, go home, study these.

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    Figure out where they are.

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    I'm telling you, they are all through the Bible.

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    All of these are everywhere through the Bible.

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    What's the Strong's Concordance?

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    It's like five Bibles put together.

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    Open that up and just look up virtue.

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    See how many verses are under there.

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    Look up all those and see how many verses the Bible talks about.

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    And I'm telling you, you're going to grow if you start studying those and practicing those and not just becoming knowledgeable, but putting them in practice, using them.

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    You're going to grow in Christ.

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    That was all my intro.

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    Now, what I really wanna discuss and what I really wanna get into is what are the results when every effort is applied in our salvation?

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    Number one, making every effort results in spiritual maturity.

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    Let's look at verse eight.

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    For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of God.

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    You know, when I first met my wife, I think we were 18 years old.

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    We dated for a couple years.

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    I don't even know if it was that long.

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    A couple years, maybe.

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    We were married at 20 years old.

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    And we've now been married 11 years.

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    Very proud and thankful to be married to my wife.

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    You know, but I look back at year one, it makes us chuckle and sometimes we talk about this and how, you know, I know a lot of you in here are newly married, and I know a lot of you have been married longer than I have, and so I get that, but when I look at year 1 and I look at year 11, year 1 was such an infatuation.

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    You know, you thought the world could be conquered with love.

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    Love does not pay the heat bill, okay?

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    Money does.

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    Love doesn't always solve the problem.

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    You know, it's an infatuation that we had with each other, and I love my wife, but when I look back at it, it was much more immature of a marriage than what it is now at year 11.

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    You know, and why is that?

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    Because we grew with each other.

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    We got to know each other.

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    We put time into our marriage because there was this desire for us to get to know each other, to have a strong relationship that we could conquer anything as long as we were together.

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    And we went through hard times, we went through good times, we had children, the hardest thing of all.

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    That'll turn your life upside down.

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    But I love my children, and I love my wife, and our marriage would not have been what it is today if we had not put the time and the effort into our marriage, to get to know each other.

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    And that's exactly what God is telling us to do.

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    Get to know Him, spend time with Him.

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    So many times we want to do as Christians is just go, hey, I'm like, I'm not good at reading my Bible.

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    I'm not good at praying, you know, but I, but hey, I want to be spiritually mature.

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    And you always want to be like, how much time have you put into it?

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    What do you do?

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    Do you sit down and read your Bible?

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    And you just go, okay.

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    But if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective and unfruitful in the knowledge of God.

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    All right, good set.

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    And you go on with your day.

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    But do you study that?

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    Do you look into what does that mean?

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    How is that affecting my daily life?

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    You know, one of the best answers I got was actually from Rich Sprunk, who preached a couple weeks ago, and it was so simple, and I always kind of had this idea in my head that's like, oh man, I'm not that educated of a guy.

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    I didn't go to college.

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    I don't always understand the Bible.

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    Sometimes it's hard for me to read, and I said to Rich, hey, how do you do that?

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    Like, Rich is a smart guy.

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    If you've ever talked to Rich, Rich is super smart and he knows the Bible and I love Rich and I love his knowledge.

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    And he said to me, he's like, "Ryan, you're being dumb." I was like, "Wow, that's hard."

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    (audience laughing)

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    He's like, "The Bible was written by simple men.

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    "Not always was it educated men.

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    "They were average men that wrote the Bible." He said, "Start on page one and read it "and you'd be surprised what you learn." And it was like, man, that's so simple.

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    Just read it.

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    Just open it and want to learn.

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    Actually read it.

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    Don't just read it because that's what you have to do.

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    Hey, I got my check mark.

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    I read my Bible today.

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    No, pour yourself into it.

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    Jeremiah 29, 13 tells us this.

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    "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all of your heart." When you make every effort, God will reveal himself to you.

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    When you come after God, when you get down on your knees and cry out to God and spend the time in the Bible, God will reveal himself to you.

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    He will give you the mind to interpret what he is saying.

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    And in today's world, there is no excuse for us to go, "Hey, I don't know what this means." Just in this church alone, the elders and Jeff that we have, you can go to them anytime.

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    I'll send you all of their numbers if you want it.

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    And you can text them at any time.

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    (audience laughing)

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    And Google, and I know like Mike said a couple weeks ago, not always does Google have the best answers, but so what?

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    Read it, figure out if it's right or wrong, and then read something, ask somebody.

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    There's no excuse for us not knowing the Bible, and I've been guilty of this myself, and I've had to put this into practice, especially if I was gonna get up here and tell you you had to do it, I had to do it too.

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    And I'm telling you, just in the past couple years of me getting into the Word and studying and pouring myself into it, it's changed my life.

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    And I understand a lot more than I thought I was going.

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    So making every effort results in spiritual maturity.

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    Point number two, making every effort keeps us from living in habitual sin.

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    Notice I said habitual sin, and I'll explain that more in a minute.

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    Let's look at verse nine.

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    Whoever lacks these qualities, he is so nearsighted that he is blind, having forgotten that he is cleansed from his former sins.

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    When I say habitual sin, I'm not talking about a stumble.

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    As humans, we are always going to stumble.

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    We're gonna have moments where we go, oh man, I messed up there, I messed up there.

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    I'm talking about a sin that controls your life.

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    It's a stronghold.

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    Satan's got his foot on your throat and he's not letting up.

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    and your own flesh is taking over.

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    Your own flesh is controlling you.

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    And that sin controls every aspect of your life.

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    It controls your relationships, your work, your marriage, your relationship with your children, your relationship with friends, everything.

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    It borderline defines who you are.

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    It's a stronghold, it's something you can't get out from under.

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    And by the way, you thinking that that sin defines you is a lie of the devil.

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    Because if you're a born again believer in Christ, that is what defines you.

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    That sin will never define you.

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    Even though Satan will tell you over and over and over again, no, that's who you are.

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    Don't you forget, that's who you are.

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    No, you're not, you're a child of God.

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    You know, in an illustration that I was trying to come up with how to explain this, and I actually found it on Google.

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    (laughs)

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    Sometimes Google does help, Mike.

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    (laughs)

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    I actually looked it up from another pastor, so I'm stealing it from him.

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    The Christian life is like swimming against the current.

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    Okay, and I want everybody to picture a lazy river at a water park.

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    We all been to one of those lazy rivers, they're awesome.

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    You just sit on a raft and you float, life is awesome.

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    But there's a current and you go in a circle and you just keep kind of going that way.

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    But the thing about it is you can get off that raft and you can swim against that.

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    I mean, I can't, I'm a terrible swimmer, but most people can.

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    Sometimes you can even just walk along it.

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    It's not that hard of a current.

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    So that's kind of the current I want you to picture.

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    And that's what we do as Christians, is we are constantly, if we're following Christ, we are swimming against the current.

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    We can do it, and there are times you're gonna get tired, and you're gonna go, "Am I going anywhere?

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    "'Cause all I'm doing is swimming against this current, "and I'm so tired." Because God does not promise ease in our Christian walk.

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    He promises temptation, he promises struggle, but he promises he will always be there for us.

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    So you're swimming, you're constantly swimming, you're tired, and you might say to yourself, okay, I gotta let up, I gotta take a break.

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    I'm out of breath, I gotta catch my breath.

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    The second you stop swimming, you do not stay still.

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    There is no such thing as a stationary Christian.

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    The second you stop swimming, you go backwards, right back to the old person that you were, right back to the person you were before you were saved.

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    And Satan knows that.

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    And the second he sees you stop swimming, he is gonna pounce.

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    And he is going to help you go backwards.

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    And he is gonna push you.

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    And he is going to get that stronghold back in your life.

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    So you have to keep swimming.

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    You have to keep swimming.

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    You have to continually chase after God 'cause if you don't, Satan is there to pounce and he will take you backwards.

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    You have to make every effort.

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    'Cause if you do, you will avoid that habitual sin.

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    And I could go on and on and on about sin.

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    Sin, I think Jeff and I were talking, that's what, like a year long sermon?

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    If you actually just talk about sin.

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    But I wanna leave you with this.

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    I don't wanna avoid this because you may be here today and you're struggling with a sin and there is a stronghold in your life, and there's something that Satan's got you, or your own flesh has you locked in the sin.

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    And you might say, "Ryan, I've tried and I've tried "and I've tried to defeat sin, and I'm not successful at it." Maybe you've just given up and you've accepted that sin, and you've almost started defining yourself as that sin.

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    I'm here to tell you, and this is hard for me to say, but I love you and I have to say this.

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    If you're here today and that's you, you are completely ignoring what Jesus did for us on the cross.

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    He paid our sin.

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    That sin was wiped away when he died on that cross.

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    And if you live in that sin and you profess to be a Christian, you are denying what he did on the cross.

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    And when you deny what he did on the cross, you as well also say to God, hey, the power that you had that raised your son from the dead, that's not strong enough to beat my sin.

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    That's not strong enough to defeat the devil.

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    Just like we talked about back in verse three and four, we have access to a divine power through God because of the death of the cross, and he can defeat anything in our lives.

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    There is nothing that God cannot defeat, And all we have to do is say, "God, take it.

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    I can't do it because I've been trying to do it on my own, and I don't have the power to do it." And you never, ever will defeat sin on your own.

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    Only God can.

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    You must immerse yourself in Christ.

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    You must make every effort to go after God, and He will take that sin from you.

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    He doesn't promise you won't be tempted by that sin again, 'cause you will be tempted, just as God was tempted in the wilderness.

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    but God knew the Bible and he was able to stare sin in the face and go, "No, that is not what my father's word says." You have to make every effort to pursue God.

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    Point number three, making every effort produces confidence in our salvation.

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    Let's look at verse 10.

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    Therefore brothers, be all the more diligent to make calling an election sure. For if you practice these qualities, you will never fall. You will never fall. I've struggled with doubt in my life. I've struggled with doubt in my salvation. And I want you to kind of picture this. I talked about my dad and myself earlier in my intro, and I've never doubted my father's love for me. Why? Because he was always there hunting, he took me to baseball games, he put in the effort and there was never a doubt that I knew my dad loved me.

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    And the same went back and forth.

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    There's no doubt that I love my dad.

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    And my dad never doubts that I love him.

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    Because we put effort, we had a relationship.

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    But I want you to picture this.

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    Let's picture my dad constantly is texting me, constantly is calling me, constantly is showing up at my house and when he texts me, when he calls me, either I don't answer the text or I send him the voicemail or when he shows up at my house I'm real quick to kind of, "Dad, just get out of here.

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    I don't want to do anything with you.

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    Just go." And I'm nice to him, but I don't really do anything with him.

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    And then one day I'm sitting there at home with Sarah and I say, "You know, I don't know if my dad loves me." She goes, "Well, no kidding you don't know because you don't spend any time with him.

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    He's here all the time.

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    He's constantly trying to reach out to you, but you never reciprocate." Man, that sounds familiar.

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    We do that to God all the time.

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    God is constantly reaching out to us.

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    God is constantly calling us.

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    God is constantly begging us to spend time with Him.

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    And we're real quick to kind of dismiss it or we're real quick to kind of come up with an excuse why we can't read our Bible, why we can't pray, why we can't develop our relationship with God.

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    We're real quick to dismiss it.

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    And then we want to sit here and go, "I don't know if God loves me." Hey, just so you know, it's not God, it's you.

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    You're the one that may not love God enough.

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    God loves you.

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    He sent his son to die on the cross for you.

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    He loved us before we were even a thought.

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    He loved us in a way that we cannot imagine.

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    And then we wanna sit here and go, I don't know if God loves me.

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    It is not God, it is you.

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    You have to make the effort and God will reveal himself and you will not doubt your salvation If you make every effort And I kind of love how Peter put these in my mind he put them in succession Because first you got to have spiritual maturity because once you're spiritually mature you're gonna avoid habitual sin Once you have those two in your life, you're not gonna doubt Your salvation because your spirits are mature You're living in God's Word. You're making every effort. So you're constantly spending time with God. Just like I said with my dad and I, we're constantly together. We work together. We do everything together. But I never doubt it because I see it. I live it. I know it. And that's what we have to do with God.

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    We must make every effort in our Christian walk.

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    Every effort, not a little effort, every effort.

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    Every fiber of our being has to chase after God.

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    And as I close, I want to use this analogy that I got off YouTube of all things.

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    And it was one night I was sitting there laying in bed and I had the iPad.

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    You ever get stuck in a YouTube wormhole where it's like you're just clicking and clicking and clicking and like two hours later you're like, "Whoa, how did I get here?" And sometimes that suggestion list is just awesome.

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    You're just like, "Yup, yup, yup," and you're watching them all.

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    If you know anything about me, I love comedians.

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    I love them.

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    And my favorite comedian right now is this Christian comedian and his name is Michael Jr.

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    I actually had the privilege to go see him for my birthday.

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    My wife took me to see him.

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    It's just, I encourage you, go home with your family.

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    He's super friendly, super clean, awesome comedian.

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    You'll laugh forever.

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    But I was in this wormhole, and I'm watching Michael Jr. videos like crazy.

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    I'm starting to memorize his jokes.

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    I've seen so many of them now.

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    But I clicked on this one called The Good Room, and I thought it was gonna be funny, and it was not at all.

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    Because what he did was he started preaching at his audience.

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    And when I heard this analogy, it was so fitting to what I was talking about today and just kind of put everything into perspective for me.

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    All right, so I don't want to take credit for it, so it's Michael Jr.'s, but I'm going to tell you about it.

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    So I want everybody to picture themselves as a house.

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    You can make it whatever you want it to look like, but it's a house.

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    And outside that house is Jesus, and he's knocking.

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    And it's just this knock, this steady knock.

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    and he's not gonna force his way in, he's just gonna keep knocking.

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    He's never gonna kick that door in, but he's never gonna stop knocking.

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    And inside your house is just this filth, this sin everywhere, that filth represents sin.

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    And you might say, "No, no, I don't want God to come in "until I get this cleaned up, until I get this in order, "this sin, whatever it may be, until I get that in order, "I don't want God to come in.

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    I know he's there, but stay out there until I get this under control.

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    And you might bring in other Christians, or you might bring in people that you know are Christians, and they might temporarily help you clean that up, and you might have this feel-good day, but that filth and that sin is gonna come back with a vengeance, 'cause it always comes back harder.

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    And you might get it cleaned up and it's coming back.

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    And the only person that can clean up that sin is at your door knocking, and he's got a mop and a bucket, and he's begging you to let him inside.

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    And you might go through a hard time and you might go to the front door and you might open it, just a crack so you can pray and you feel better and you go back to your sin.

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    And then finally, one day, you open that door and Jesus comes blasting through that door and he brings in this contractor named the Holy Spirit and your house is running at optimum.

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    And it's amazing.

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    And your house is so full because you finally let Jesus into your life.

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    You've accepted that free gift, and you let him into your life, and he has your house spotless, and he's running your life, and things are great.

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    And then as time goes on, Christ is still in your life, but you put him into your good room.

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    You guys know what I mean by good room?

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    You know what I mean by good room, Mike?

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    All right, so we had a good room in our house, And this was right in the front of the house.

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    My parents took the carpet out of this room like 35 years later after it was put in.

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    It didn't have footprints in it because we weren't allowed in the good room.

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    It had sharp corners on the furniture.

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    You could go in there once a year.

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    That was for Christmas.

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    And I think my mom made us take the presents out of the room to open them.

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    Nobody was allowed in that room.

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    But you know, we've been to people's houses.

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    Maybe they still have plastic on the furniture.

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    like this really nice room, but it's always in the front of the house. So when somebody were to look into the windows, they see this good and they go, "Wow, look at that guy's house." And that's where we put God. We put him in the good room. So he's still in our lives, but we kind of are starting, we want to control things again. And what nobody sees is the rest of our house that has gone back to the filth and the sin because we're not allowing God access to our entire house or our entire lives.

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    We come to church on Sunday and we put on a show and everybody goes, "Wow, look at that guy.

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    He's got it going on." All you're seeing is this good room.

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    So I ask you, is that you today?

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    Is God in your good room?

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    Is God in your house?

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    I beg you, if he's not in your house, go to the prayer team in the back after I'm done preaching, pray with them, they will lead you to Christ.

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    I promise you they will.

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    If God's in your good room, let him out.

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    Remember what it was like when he had complete access to your house.

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    Let him out and start making the effort to allow God to control your life, to run your life.

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    You start making the effort to have a relationship with God.

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    Make every effort in your walk with Christ.

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    If God's running your whole house, then praise the Lord today and don't ever let him in your good room.

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    Make every effort to keep him out of your-- we must make the effort in our relationship with God.

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    Let's pray.

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    Heavenly Father, I thank you for this day.

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    I thank you for this opportunity, and I am humbled as a blue-collar construction worker to get up and think that I can share your word.

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    And I thank you for allowing that.

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    And God, I beg you right now, if there's somebody in this building today that does not know you, please do not let them leave this building until they get that taken care of.

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    And God, if somebody has you in their good room, I beg you the same way, don't let them leave today without getting that taken care of.

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    And please help each and every person in this room to remind them to make an effort to chase you, God, so we can experience complete sanctification through you.

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    I ask you to bless this day, amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read 2 Peter 1:3-10

  1. Why should we want to do more than just "punch our ticket to Heaven"? What would you say to someone that doesn't want to do more than the bare minimum to get to Heaven?

  2. Why do we as Christians ignore Sanctification and focus on Justification and Glorification?

  3. As Small Groups what are some practical ways we can assist a fellow Christian or Small Group Member get past a habitual sin? 

  4. What are ways we can teach our children to start making every effort at a young age, i.e. teenagers?

  5. How much effort do you put into your relationship with God compared to other areas of your life? Would you say God is outside your house, in your "Good Room", or is running your entire house?

Breakout Questions:
Pray for one another.

Controlling the Fire: Honoring God with our Speech

Some Types of Sinful Speech:

BOASTING

COMPLAINING

SLANDER (GOSSIP/BACKBITING)

PROFANITY

CARELESS WORDS / EMPTY CHATTER

LYING


Truths from the text to help control the fire:

  1. We are ACCOUNTABLE for how we use our TONGUE. (Titus 3:1-2)

  2. Control the TONGUE, control the BODY. (Titus 3:2-5)

  3. Recognize that the TONGUE DEFILES us. (Titus 3:6)

  4. Our TONGUE can be used for GOOD and EVIL . (Titus 3:9-10)

  5. We are POWERLESS to tame the TONGUE without Christ. (Titus 3:7-8)

Mark Ort - HBCPN Elder

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    We're going to be in James Chapter 3, so if you want to go ahead and turn there.

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    Most of you know that I do prison ministry, and my wife, Kristen, does that along with me.

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    She's over in the women's plot, of course.

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    It's the Butler County Prison.

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    I just wanted to spend a couple of minutes telling you guys and giving you an update about what we do.

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    Maybe you're wondering a little bit about what happens in the prisons.

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    It's a pretty amazing ministry, actually.

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    We go in through a group called Pressing On Ministries.

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    It's a ministry in Butler.

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    A good friend of mine heads it up.

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    It deals with addiction issues, drug addiction and alcohol addiction, and any kind of addiction that somebody may have.

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    They provide biblical answers for the men and women who come to that.

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    involved in the prison, the Butler County prison.

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    And so we go in on most Friday nights and deliver the gospel to the men and women at the jail.

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    And it's kind of interesting.

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    Kristen goes in the women's pod and I'll be in the men's pod and we're literally 10 feet apart.

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    There's a hallway and the two pods when you go in, when you weave your way around through the doors and enter into the rooms that you're in, our respective rooms are across the hall from each other.

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    We're literally 10 feet apart.

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    So it's kind of neat to know that my wife is right across the hall from me, given the good news to the women.

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    And at first, I never would have dreamed that I would do prison ministry 20 years ago.

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    And that's actually how I met Jeff Miller.

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    And Jeff and his wife and their kids are on vacation today.

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    They're in Florida.

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    We've been praying for their vacation and for their safety and everything.

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    But that's how we met.

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    And at the prison, I always thought that these guys were just like dirtbags and scum of the earth and things like that.

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    And in many cases, they have done some really horrible things.

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    But when I look at them, when I go in every Friday, when I see them and I've gotten to know some of these guys, they're not a whole lot different than you and I.

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    In fact, they need Jesus just like you do, and you need Jesus just like they do.

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    And so as I look around the room, we get 8, 10, 12 guys in there.

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    Kristen gets 2 or 3, 5, maybe 6 ladies that come.

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    I don't look at them necessarily as criminals now.

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    These are like dads and husbands and people who have hurts and needs and fears.

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    And they have victories and wins and stuff like that.

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    And when I look at them, they've become, the regulars have kind of become my friend.

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    They're my friends.

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    When I miss a Friday night, I miss this past Friday, they are disappointed.

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    "Mark, where were you last week?

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    We missed you." Many of you have been involved in that prison ministry by praying, giving Bibles.

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    We're allowed to have paperback Bibles in there, and so we deliver the MacArthur Study Bible.

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    They all want the MacArthur Study Bible.

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    So for me, I look around and all the guys in my Bible study have MacArthur Study Bibles, and they have little sticky notes in there and things in there.

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    They're very excited to learn from the Word of God.

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    What we do in there is not much different than what we do here today.

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    We sing a couple of songs maybe.

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    A couple of weeks ago, we sang "The Old Rugged Cross." One of the guys who led it has a really deep, booming voice.

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    He's now out of jail.

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    We sang that song, and it was kind of humorous because they don't care about the notes.

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    They don't care if they're not singing the tune it's supposed to be.

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    They just sing it.

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    And it's pretty neat to hear the different variations of the songs that they'll sing.

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    And then we take prayer requests.

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    They love their prayer request time.

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    And we'll spend 45 minutes doing prayer.

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    And they love that.

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    They have so many needs and their cases and their families and just the things that go on in their plot and stuff.

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    A lot of different requests.

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    And then we study the Word.

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    We open up the Bible and we teach them something from the Word.

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    And it generally always goes toward the Gospel because I know there's people sitting there who don't know the Gospel.

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    So we clarify the Gospel.

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    That's our job as Christians really is to make the Gospel clear to people so that they understand their condition and understand what they need to do in their life to Jesus Christ.

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    I share with them a Bible study, something usually that I'm studying.

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    And a few weeks ago, I shared a message with them about how they can control their tongue, how they can honor God with their speech.

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    And since I did that, I kind of worked on it a little bit and made it suitable for a Sunday morning message.

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    And I wanted to bring that to you this morning.

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    So if you open up your copy of the scriptures to James chapter three, we're gonna look at verses one through 12.

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    If you would just imagine with me a scenario where you get up in the morning and you decide you're going to take a road trip and you're gonna take your dog with you.

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    I don't know if you have dogs, if some of you have dogs, maybe you have a cat, but just imagine you have a dog.

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    We have a dog, his name's Reggie, and he is the cutest little thing ever.

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    Right, Libby?

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    He's a cute dog.

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    But just imagine you get up in the morning and you're getting ready to go, and your dog goes over and he's eating his food, and he looks up at you and he says, "This is the best food I've ever had. I love this food.

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    You take such good care of me, and you give me this really good stuff.

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    I mean, I could eat this stuff every day.

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    It's so good.

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    You're happy that your dog is appreciative.

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    You hop in the car, and the dog goes with you.

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    Niagara Falls, I guess, is like 90 miles away.

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    We're going to Niagara Falls.

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    On the way there, we have some time to communicate.

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    There's some time to talk.

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    The dog, he just says, "I just love you so much.

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    "You're like the best.

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    "I love spending time with you.

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    "We're having a great time." You have this conversation the whole way to Niagara Falls.

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    And you get to Niagara Falls and jump out of the car and you walk over, I don't know how many of you have ever been to Niagara Falls, but I love Niagara Falls.

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    It's like the best.

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    I love that kind of thing in nature.

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    So the dog gets out and he runs over and he looks over the precipice and he says, "This is totally awesome.

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    I love this.

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    This is so beautiful.

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    I've never seen anything like this in my life.

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    Best road trip ever for me." You look at that and that's kind of like a far-fetched story.

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    I mean, we can use our imagination.

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    It's kind of out there.

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    Dogs don't talk.

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    Think about this gift of communication that God has given us.

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    Nowhere in God's creation has he given any of his creatures that kind of ability.

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    Your dog has never told you how good the food is that you give them.

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    They don't verbalize beauty.

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    They don't stand at the precipice of Niagara Falls or the Grand Canyon and say, "Man, this is really pretty." They're just worried about where their next dog treat's coming from, right?

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    For us to have the gift of communication like we do, I mean, we can express our love to one another.

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    We can encourage one another.

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    We talk about our fears with one another, our worries.

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    We talk about how we pray for one another, things that make us sad.

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    We can express extreme happiness and exclamations and things like that.

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    Words really define who we are, don't they?

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    They define who we are.

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    The things we choose to say tells the world what kind of person we are.

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    And it really tells the world who we belong to.

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    Unfortunately, we live in a culture that's increasingly careless with its words.

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    Language that was once considered distasteful or foul or vulgar, those kinds of things have become commonplace in everyday life and everyday talk.

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    Christians sometimes haven't been able to control themselves.

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    They've not been able to exercise self-control when they've expressed themselves.

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    And you might ask yourself, "What difference does it make?" Or what's on your bulletin cover?

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    Does God really care how I speak?

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    Does He care about that kind of thing?

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    So as we look at James chapter 3, I want to look at James chapter 3, and I tell the guys that had jailed us all the time, that when we come to God's Word, it's not this kind of psychological mumbo-jumbo stuff.

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    This is not a self-help book.

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    Certainly you can get some help from it, but I'm not going to the jail or I'm not coming here to talk to you guys about how you can help yourself.

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    It's not a self-help seminar is what I'm saying.

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    The presentation of God's Word is not to make us feel good.

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    The presentation of God's Word, the intent, is that we might know God and bring Him honor.

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    That's what I wanted to do today.

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    So when we come to James 3, let's not come to it with the expectation that this chapter is going to help me clean up my speech.

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    Let's look at it as this chapter is going to show me how to honor God in my speech.

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    So let's take a look at James 3.

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    It says, "Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we shall incur a stricter judgment.

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    For we all stumble in many ways.

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    If anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body as well." Now, if we put bits into the horse's mouth so that they may obey us, we direct their entire body as well.

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    Behold, the ships also, though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, are still directed by a very small rudder, wherever the inclination of the pilot desires.

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    So also, the tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things.

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    Behold, how great a force is set aflame by such a small fire.

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    And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity.

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    The tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by hell.

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    Every species of birds, I'm sorry, for every species of beasts and birds and reptiles and creatures of the sea is tamed and has been tamed by the human race, but no one can tame the tongue.

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    It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

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    With it, we bless our Lord and Father, and with it, we curse men who have been made in the likeness of God.

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    From it, from the same mouth, come both blessing and cursing.

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    My brethren, these things ought not to be this way.

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    Does a fountain send out from the same opening, both fresh and bitter water?

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    "In a fig tree, my brother, I produce olives, or a vine, I produce figs.

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    Neither salt water can produce fresh." Before we go through the passage, there were some points that I wanted to make about the passage, but I wanted to look at some kind of speech.

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    This is not an exhaustive list by any stretch, but just a couple of kinds of sinful speeches that we may find ourselves engaging in.

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    The first one I think you have on your outline is going to be boasting.

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    I think we know what boasting is.

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    The dictionary defined boasting as something like excessive pride and self-satisfaction about one's achievements, possessions, abilities.

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    This is bragging.

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    It's gloating.

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    It's verbalized self-admiration.

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    Listen to what God's Word says about boasting in Jeremiah 9, 23 and 24.

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    justice and righteousness on earth.

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    Ride the light in these things declares the Lord.

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    The word boast in this passage in the Hebrew I'm never going to be accused of being a Hebrew scholar. I've never studied Hebrew. I've never studied Greek. But I do have tools at home and there are valuable tools that you guys can use to look things up.

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    There's some caution in that that of course but boast in this passage is actually the Hebrew Hebrew word hello h-a-l-e-l hello means extravagant praise glorious and lofty like we're just saying that song glorious it's like hello hallelujah that's where that's where that word comes from hallelujah it's combining the word hello the praise with the word "Yah" short for Yahweh. It literally means "praise to Yahweh." Hallelujah. This word is translated into English several times in the book of Revelation. It's ascribing praise and glory and adoration to God, the Lord Almighty. So when we boast about something, when we boast about ourselves, We're really saying, "Hallelujah to me." We're pompously overestimating ourselves.

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    We're puffing out our spiritual chest and we're saying, "Look how great I am." When we use boastful words, what we're really doing, we're robbing God of the glory and praise that He alone is worthy of.

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    pretty dangerous because listen to what Psalm 5 5 says the boastful not shall not stand before your eyes you hate all who do iniquity this this is kind of a self-explanatory verse it condemns the prideful person the person who exalts himself God is not particularly interested in people who find their confidence in themselves. We are woefully inadequate in our own power.

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    And if we were honest with ourselves, I think we would say that we're really weak and frail and needy. We really don't have anything to brag about.

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    So does God really care if I boast?

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    What about complaining? That's the next one on your list. Complaining is pretty simple.

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    If we're honest with ourselves, we can admit what complaining is.

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    It's just verbalizing our ungratefulness about a circumstance that we're in.

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    I mean, if you think about complaining, it's pretty, it's a, if I could use the word putrid, aroma, to the people around you.

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    Who wants to be around a complainer?

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    If somebody, If somebody's coming to me and complaining, I gotta be honest with you, you kinda lose me after about the first three words.

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    Seriously, I wanna hear what you have to say, and there's room for discussion about things, but if you start complaining, you sound like Charlie Brown's teacher to me.

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    (audience laughs) You know what that sounds like?

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    I just hear blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

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    So if that's like that to me, What about God?

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    What's he hearing when we're complaining?

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    it is a Displeasing aroma to God when we complain If our discussion involves Grumbling and complaining if you hear me complaining, would you please lovingly confront me?

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    And say hey, you know Complaining is not what we're supposed to do as Christians.

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    So does God really care if I complain?

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    Does he care if I boast?

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    Does he care if I complain?

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    The next one is slander.

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    What about slander?

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    That's kind of like gossip or backbiting.

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    Our court systems are full of cases dealing with defamation lawsuits.

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    It's making false accusations about somebody.

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    It's accusations that are represented as fact, with the ultimate end being damage and harm done to someone else's reputation.

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    That might include things like shaming somebody, ridicule.

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    Guys that are in school, do you engage in ridicule at your school?

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    That would be slander if you're ridiculing somebody.

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    Scorning, gossiping, backbiting, anything that's malicious with an intent to harm somebody reputation. It's a vicious form of communication that a Christian ought not to be involved in. In the fourth chapter of Matthew, when the devil led Jesus up to be tempted, that word for the devil in there is the word "slanderer." You know, the devil's called a lot of things in the Scriptures. He's called the deceiver, the enemy, the murderer, the adversary. But in this account, in chapter 4 of Matthew, he's referred to as a slanderer. He's making false accusations. He wants to ruin the reputation of Jesus by throwing temptations in his path, hoping that Jesus will succumb to that. So for us to engage in slanderous type of communication, not only have we been fooled by the devil, we become implicit.

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    We're working with him.

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    Jesus, when speaking to his disciples in John 6, 68, he said, "Did I not choose you, the twelve, and yet one of you is a devil?" He was speaking of Judas Iscariot, who was going to betray him for a few coins.

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    If we feel as though we must ruin someone's reputation through our malicious words, then clearly we're doing the work of the enemy.

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    Would what Jesus turn to us when we're slandering In our viciousness and call us a devil Does Jesus really care if I slander God really care if I slander What about this one on your outline profanity You can use several words interchangeably with that vulgarity adversity I I was looking up on Google profanity and it literally means not admitted into the temple.

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    That's what the word profanity means.

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    Perversity is twisted, distorted, crooked, deceitful, false.

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    Twisted and crooked words that fly from our lips, they reveal something about us, don't they?

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    There's something sinister in our heart that is being revealed with our crooked speech or perversity.

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    speech begins with perverse heart. I don't know if you knew this or not, but your tongue is connected to your heart. Out of the mouth, let me start that again, for the mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart, from Matthew 12. And in Proverbs 11, it says the perverse in heart are an abomination to the Lord. Do you get that logical connection there?

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    You're speaking something that's coming from your heart, and God's saying, "I'm looking at you like this is an abomination." We really have to watch our words.

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    God takes our language very seriously.

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    I want you to think about these two verses.

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    Write these verses down.

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    Ephesians 5, 3, 4, and 5.

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    I thought this was pretty neat.

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    Ephesians 5.3 says this, "Immorality or any impurity or greed must not be named among you as is proper among the saints." Now, if you skip to verse 5, he says, "For this you know with certainty, that no immoral or impure person or covetous man who is an idolater has an inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God." two verses stand as prominent bookends around another verse. And look what the verse in the middle says. "There must be no filthiness and silly talk or coarse jesting which are not fitting, but rather the giving of thanks." I couldn't help but be amazed when I looked at that, how that connected, where you have a verse in the middle of two other verses talking about immorality and impurity, talking about your tongue, but these verses are talking about, it's plain what they're talking about, it's who is a participant and who is not a participant in the kingdom of God. The way we speak, that's sandwiched in between two verses that talk about that.

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    Church, we need to find out what words are profane and stop using them.

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    How do we know what are profane words?

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    I'm going to give you a couple of hints.

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    We can distill them down to a couple of categories.

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    Profane words are those which are associated with ungodly sexual filth.

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    There are also words that express anger.

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    We have ungodly sexual filth, words that express anger.

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    Some profanity is an ill attempt at trying to tell a joke or expressing humor.

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    And other profane words are directly irreverent to God.

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    Let me give you a little bit more help here.

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    The proper context of this phrase, "Oh my God," David wrote "Oh my God" a bunch of times in the book of Psalms.

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    Let me just read one to you.

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    "Deliver me from my enemies, oh my God.

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    Set me securely on high, away from those who rise up against me." This is David in Psalm 59, not using the name of the Lord flippantly or in vain.

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    Here's one. How about the proper context of the word "hell"?

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    "If your hand causes you to stumble, cut it off, for it is better for you to enter life crippled than to have your two hands, to go into hell, the unquenchable fire, where the worm does not die and the fire is not quenched.

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    This is Jesus in Mark 9, He's describing the horribleness of hell.

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    How do we use the word hell?

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    Do we use it carelessly?

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    Is hell in our vocabulary when talking about things other than the torturous place of punishment for those who reject Christ?

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    If so, that's profane.

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    What about the word damned?

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    What's the proper context of the word damned?

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    This is from the King James.

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    He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved, but he that believeth not shall be damned.

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    It's in Mark 16, 16.

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    Your translation might use the word condemned or judged.

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    This is the highest form of condemnation that we as sinful people don't have the right to make.

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    in my view.

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    We just have to be careful.

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    I'm not going to go through a list of all the profane words.

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    I'll ask you again, does God care if I use profanity?

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    We have boasting, we have complaining, we have slander, profanity.

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    What about careless words or empty chatter?

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    Careless words or empty chatter.

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    This is a discussion of vain and useless matters.

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    I think of-- well, King James Version says, "vain babblings." Babbling, that's empty chatter.

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    I think of things like Hollywood, or sitcoms, or getting involved in endless political debates.

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    I mean, there's room for discussion and things.

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    But this is fruitless talk that has no spiritual usefulness.

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    They're unholy words that have no substance.

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    They're lacking solid worth.

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    If I were to get up here and talk to you and tell you jokes and make you laugh, and if you go away from here and think, I got no spiritual nourishment this morning, then that's an epic fail.

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    That's empty chatter.

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    I am chattering up here if I'm not giving you something that's useful and fruitful.

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    Here's some examples on that.

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    I mean, you know, things that are, we're trying to win an argument, I guess.

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    Things that are well-established in Scripture and we're still arguing about them.

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    Does a day in chapter one of Genesis really mean a day?

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    I mean, people debate about that all the time.

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    I think the Bible's pretty clear about that.

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    Can we discuss?

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    Yes, we should discuss.

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    Should we babble about it?

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    No, that's empty chatter.

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    You know, I mentioned the King James Scriptures.

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    I love the King James Bible.

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    I don't use the King James.

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    I use the New American Standard.

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    I know some of you folks use the ESV, NIV.

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    There's a lot of six or seven really reliable translations.

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    Getting involved in a King James-only debate is fruitless.

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    Disgust? Yes.

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    Babble, empty chatter?

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    Not good.

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    Droning on in careless, empty, thoughtless words is bad.

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    It's a doorway to other sins.

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    2 Timothy 2:16 says that worldly and empty chatter leads to something. It leads to further ungodliness, and it spreads like gangrene.

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    There's no words we need to be careful we need to assemble our words and our phrases our sentences in such a way that are valuable to somebody that are fruitful and it's a duty of the Christian we must embrace that what about lying God disdains lying so much that he he made it as one of his 10 Commandments. We talked about slander and that's slander is a form of lying.

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    This is a little more broad. It's an outright, bold-faced falsehood. It could be a half-truth, a half-lie, a white lie, deception. Anything short of the truth is a lie.

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    Lies are abominable to God.

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    If we aren't telling the truth, what does that make us?

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    What does that make us?

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    A liar.

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    A liar.

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    If we kill somebody, we're a murderer, right?

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    If we steal something, we're a thief.

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    If we cheat on our spouse, we're an adulterer.

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    If we lie, that makes us a liar.

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    Proverbs 19 has something to say about this.

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    says, "A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who tells lies will perish." That's pretty harsh. Wow. You tell a lie? Do you know why liars perish? Because Satan is a liar. Satan is a father of lies. Christ is the author of truth. Who are we supposed to be like? As Christians, we're supposed to be Christ-like, not Satan-like.

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    We need to stop our lying.

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    We need to stop our deception.

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    Does God care if we lie?

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    So boasting, complaining, slander, profanity, careless words and empty chatter, lying, just a few.

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    There's more, I'm sure.

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    There's abusive speech.

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    There's sarcasm.

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    There's other kinds of things.

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    And this sounds bad, and we're guilty of these things, but the Bible gives us hope.

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    Why don't we look at our passage now, and we're going to get some help in these words to control the fire so we can honor God with our speech.

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    The first thing, if you look in verse 1, it says, "Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we will incur a stricter judgment." We're accountable for our speech.

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    Now this particular verse is talking about teachers, as in somebody like Pastor Jeff, somebody like me who gets up in front of you, somebody who teaches the Bible in a small group.

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    And if you guys that do small group, Ben, Ben, and Dan, you guys are accountable.

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    Dan with the youth ministry was so encouraged last week with the launch of our youth ministry.

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    I love that Dan and Alicia are putting that together.

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    But they are accountable for the things that they'll teach there.

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    What are we saying?

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    It's a sobering thing to stand up in front of people and teach the Word of God.

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    Standing up here and you're representing God, that makes me nervous.

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    I worry that I'm going to say the wrong thing because I know I'm going to be accountable.

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    Yeah, this is talking about teachers, but the principle's there.

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    The principle is there for everyone.

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    When you go to work, are you not accountable for the things that you say?

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    Are you not accountable for the things that you tell your kids when you teach them things?

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    How about if you get arrested?

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    If you get arrested, they read you your Miranda rights, right?

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    And by the way, if you get arrested and go to Baltimore County Prison, I'll get to see you.

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    They read your rights.

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    Anything you say can and will be used against you, because you're accountable for your words.

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    That's the first one.

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    Understand that we're accountable.

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    The second one, if you control the tongue, you will control the body.

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    The tongue is a very small part of the body.

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    I look some things up here, and we have some doctors in the house.

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    So if I say something wrong, I'm accountable for my words.

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    The average tongue is about 3 and 1/2 inches long, and it weighs about two and a half ounces, that means for somebody like me, that's about 0.08% of my body weight.

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    You have this relatively small member in your body that the scriptures say that it can control your whole body.

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    Various biblical scholars that I've read, I read this more than once this past week, They contend that the tongue is the most rebellious of all body parts.

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    Well, it's a small piece, but it's the most rebellious.

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    So, logic would tell us if you're capable of controlling the most rebellious member of your body, then you should be able to control the less rebellious members a little bit easier.

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    at verse 2 through 5, he says, "We all stumble in many ways.

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    If anyone does not stumble in what he says, he's a perfect man able to bridle the whole body as well." We'll just stop there for a second.

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    I used to look at that verse kind of hypothetically, like, "Oh, yeah, we all stumble in many ways, but if you don't stumble, we all know everybody stumbles, then you're a perfect man able to bridle the whole body as well." I looked at that as, "Well, I can't do anything about this.

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    I'm not a perfect man.

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    I'm not going to be able to pride on my whole body." But I think this passage is saying the opposite.

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    If we tear this verse apart just a little bit, you see the word "stumble." Stumble can be a mistake, be a sin.

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    Look at the word "perfect" here.

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    This is not sinless perfection, but maturity, completeness.

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    And the word "bridal" means to hold in check or restrain or guide.

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    So if we put this verse, verse number 2, in everyday language, it might look something like this.

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    "We all make mistakes and we're going to sin." If anyone does not sin in what he says, then he is mature.

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    And as a result of his maturity, he's able to keep his whole body in check.

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    I think what he's telling us there is that you, in your maturity, In your maturity, you control this small member, you will be able to control the rest of your body.

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    Here's a few verses here of some word pictures of how something so small can control something so big.

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    And I brought a couple of things with me to show you.

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    Some of you have already recognized what these are.

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    This is a horse bit.

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    Something small, it weighs less than a pound.

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    What's a horse weigh?

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    Rachel, what's a horse weigh?

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    About 1,200 pounds?

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    Yeah.

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    Yeah, 1,200 pounds.

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    This can control a 1,200 pound animal.

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    And this is just another bit.

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    Neat little devices here.

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    Something so small can control something so big.

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    If you control your tongue, you'll be amazed at the victories that I think God will give you in controlling your body.

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    That's what the scripture says.

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    He used a couple other word pictures here.

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    He talks about a rudder, small thing on a boat, controls the whole boat.

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    Talks about the tongue in verse five, is a small part of the body and boasts of great things.

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    Behold, how great a forest to set aflame by such a small fire.

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    That's a match.

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    You all have matches in your house.

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    I'm not gonna light it.

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    Probably throw us out of here.

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    And something this little and burn down California, and they're having a drought and everything, you throw this out the window of your car when driving by and you're creating a forest fire.

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    Something small can have, can control the body.

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    And that's what he's saying here.

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    We control the tongue, we control the body.

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    The next thing is recognize that the tongue defiles.

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    We'll spend a lot of time on that.

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    You'll see that in verse six.

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    What's it mean to defile?

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    It means to corrupt, to pollute.

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    You know, if you imagine you're hanging your laundry out, I don't know if many of you hang your laundry outside, but imagine you hang your laundry out like they used to, and your neighbor starts a fire and the smoke comes over, gets on your laundry.

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    It's polluting your laundry, it's defiling it.

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    Or rust on your car.

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    What does the wintertime do with the salt on the road?

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    It's on your car.

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    If you're like me and you only wash your car like once every five years, it's going to rust.

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    We just need to have an acute awareness of the defiling nature of our tongue.

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    Just be aware that it defiles.

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    If we're aware, then that can go a long way in equipping ourselves with the destructive consequences.

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    Fourth thing, our tongue can be used for good and for evil.

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    Your tongue is pretty unique in this regard.

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    Your tongue does two things.

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    It does blessing, and we're skipping down to verses nine and 10 here.

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    We're blessing and we're cursing.

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    We're blessing our Lord and we're cursing men who have been made in the likeness of God.

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    He says, what about a refreshing spring fountain?

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    Does it produce bitter water and fresh water at the same time?

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    It does not.

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    What about fig trees?

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    Fig trees are smart enough to do one thing.

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    They make figs.

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    They don't make anything else.

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    They make figs.

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    They're creating, they're doing what God created them to do.

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    And again, he uses another water example here, saltwater.

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    If you're in the ocean, you can't put a cup in one side of the boat and pull out.

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    Fresh water, and the other side, pull out.

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    salt water. It's all salt water. It's our mouth, likewise our mouth. He says, "From the same mouth come both blessing and cursing, my brethren, these things ought not to be this way." And number five, we are powerless to tame the tongue without Christ. It says in verse eight, "No one can tame the tongue." No No one can tame the tongue.

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    We are helpless to do this in our own strength.

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    Tame in this passage means to curb or subdue.

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    The verse really says we cannot subdue our tongue.

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    It's wild.

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    And how are we going to bring it into subjection?

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    We can't tame it.

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    We don't need to despair about that.

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    We talked in these other points about things that we need to do, recognizing its use for good and evil and recognizing that it causes pollution and corruption and that we're accountable for our words and things like that.

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    This is the most important one, to recognize we're powerless.

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    If I can remind you of a story that we covered in the Book of Mark, Chapter 5.

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    You don't need to turn there.

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    But remember when we talked about the Gerasene Demoniac?

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    Now, I'm not comparing the use of our tongue to a demon.

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    That's not the comparison I'm making here.

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    If you're using foul language, I'm not saying you're demon possessed.

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    I want you to get the comparison.

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    The passage is talking about, here's a man that he had demons, And he was absolutely powerless to do anything about it.

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    In verse 4 of that passage, it says, "No one was able to subdue him." An interesting connection between James 3/8 and Mark 5/4.

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    It says, "No one was able to subdue that guy." It's the exact same word that says, "No one contained the tongue." Now was that guy left out all alone and out on a limb?

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    No.

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    We go on in that passage, and we see that the demoniac encountered the one who could tame him.

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    Who was it?

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    It's not a Pat Sunday School answer.

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    It was Jesus.

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    You know, that's the answer to every Sunday School question.

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    But in this case, Jesus was the only one that was able to subdue this guy.

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    The subduing, taming power of Jesus Christ made the difference in this man's life by dealing with the issues that he was not capable of doing on his own.

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    The question here isn't really, "Does God care how you speak?" The question is, "Do you care?

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    Do you care how you speak?" God showed he cared.

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    We care by providing you the power to do something about it.

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    Power through the Son, Jesus Christ.

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    We can show that we care by putting into practice some principles that we learned from 2 Peter 1.

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    If you turn in your Bibles to 2 Peter 1, and then we'll be done.

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    2 Peter 1.

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    There's two, this is about God giving us everything pertaining to life and godliness in verse three.

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    He says, "Seeing that his divine power has granted to us everything pertaining to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and excellence." And so, as part of our sanctification or our growing, you know, I see that God has a part.

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    He does his part, okay?

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    We have a part.

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    We have a part in that.

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    And that's what I'm gonna read to you next.

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    I call this our responsibility.

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    And a friend of mine once said that our responsibility is our response to God's ability.

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    God already did this, but there are some things that we have to do in our sanctification process.

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    And this helps us in controlling our time so that we give honor to God.

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    What is that responsibility?

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    God did his thing, what do we do?

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    Jump down to verse five, it says, "For this very reason, also applying all diligence in your faith, supply moral excellence.

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    And in your moral excellence, knowledge." Is moral excellence gonna help you in your speech?

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    I hope so, in your knowledge, self-control.

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    One of the fruits of the Holy Spirit is self-control.

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    We have to exercise self-control when we're speaking.

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    And in your self-control, perseverance, don't give up.

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    And in your perseverance, godliness.

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    And in your godliness, brotherly kindness.

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    And in your brotherly kindness, love.

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    For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, They render you neither useless or unfruitful in the true knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ." Is there anybody here who wants to be useless?

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    How about unfruitful?

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    Anybody want to be unfruitful?

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    He says if these qualities are yours and they're increasing, he says you will not be useless or unfruitful.

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    And verse 9 says, "For he who lacks these qualities is blind, or short-sighted, having forgotten his purification from his former sins.

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    Therefore be all the more diligent to make certain about his calling and choosing you." And listen to this, "For as long as you practice these things, you will never stumble." Do you remember that verse in James 3?

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    2 it says for we all stumble in many ways if anyone does not stumble and what he says he's a perfect man able to bridle his tongue he says if you're practicing these things you are not going to stumble you are not going to do those things does God care about your speech do you Let's pray. Heavenly Father, we come to you and just confess our inadequacies in so many areas.

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    Lord, I know that I have a lot to learn myself and a lot of things to put into practice regarding how I speak.

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    And Lord, as a church, might we grow in that area.

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    I pray God that you would help us, that you would do your work in subduing and taking our tongue.

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    Lord, we know that we're incapable of doing it ourselves.

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    Lord, we, again, don't wanna do this just to help ourselves.

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    We as Christians have a responsibility to honor you.

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    And I pray God that we would honor you in our speech.

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    Thank you for giving us the power to do so through your son.

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    In his name we pray, amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read 1 Timothy 3:11 and Titus 3:2

  1. What does it mean to malign someone? Gossip and slander is vicious and damaging. How do you prevent this kind of evil communication from damaging your life and the lives of others?
     

  2. What is profanity? Does the culture dictate what words we consider profane? What words or phrases should we stop using, and why?
     

  3. If there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1), will Christians really be held accountable for every careless or idle word (Matthew 12:36). How do you reconcile these two passages?
     

  4. Reviewing 2 Peter 1:3-11, discuss "God's part" and "our part" in controlling the tongue.

  
Breakout Questions:

Have you been encouraging/exhorting other in their walk with Christ this week? In what circumstances? Pray for one another.

Rest Assured

How to Grow in the Assurance of Your Salvation:

2 Corinthians 13:5, Jeremiah 17:9

1 John 5:13 - I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God that you may know that you have eternal life.

2 Peter 1:1-10

  1. I grow in assurance when I focus on His POWER. (2 Pet 1:1-3)

  2. I grow in assurance when rest in His PROMISE. (2 Pet 1:4)

  3. I grow in assurance when I PRACTICE godly qualities. (2 Pet 1:5-7, 10)

  4. I grow in assurance when I PERSEVERE through time. (2 Pet 1:8-9)

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    2 Corinthians chapter 13 and verse 5 says, "Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith.

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    Test yourselves, or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Christ Jesus is in you, unless indeed you fail to meet the test." So that's what we're doing.

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    We are testing ourselves.

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    Are you saved?

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    Are you sure?

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    Bible says to test yourself.

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    And why are we spending a whole month on this?

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    Well because Jeremiah chapter 17 and verse 9 tells us that by nature our hearts are what?

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    Above all things.

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    Do you remember?

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    Deceitful, deceitful.

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    Yeah, your heart is a liar.

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    So we're going after the joy of assurance, the humble confidence that we are saved.

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    You know, in spite of God using us his greatest enemy. In spite of the fact that the Bible says we are hidden with Christ in God. In spite of the fact that the Bible says our names are written in the book of life. In spite of the fact that the Bible says we are called children of God. In spite of the fact that the Bible says we are co-heirs with Christ. In spite of the fact that the Bible says that we are sealed in the Holy Spirit. In spite of the fact that the Bible says that we are overcomers of of the world, many Christians still doubt their salvation.

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    Am I really saved?

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    Honesty in church, all in favor.

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    How many people have wrestled with that at some point or another in your life?

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    Am I really saved?

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    Put your hands up.

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    My hand is up too.

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    I've wrestled with that.

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    There might be somebody here today wrestling with that.

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    They say, "You know what, Pastor Jeff?

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    "I don't wanna stand before Jesus and hear Him say, "Depart from me, I never knew you, "and I believe that I am saved." Well, here's a question.

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    Is it possible to even know for sure?

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    Let's get that question on the table.

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    Is it possible that you can be sure?

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    Well, according to the Bible, the answer to that question is 100% emphatically yes.

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    1 John 5:13.

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    John writes, "I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may suppose that you have eternal," no, that's not it, that you may hope that you have eternal... No, that's not in my Bible either. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God that you may... What? Know.

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    That you may know. How much wiggle room is there in that? The answer is none. There is no wiggle room. John says you can know for sure that you have eternal life. And you know there's one passage explicitly, explicitly in the Bible that tells us how we as Christians can grow in assurance. Did you know that? I'll tell you what, I found this passage like several years ago and just revolutionized my walk with the Lord, my confidence and my salvation because of what God has to say.

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    And that is 2 Peter 1.

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    Look at verse 10 first.

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    This is where we're going to land today.

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    But I want you to look at verse 10 first.

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    Just so you know, I'm not taking things out of context.

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    I would never, ever by God's grace, I would never want to stand before you and try to make the Bible say something.

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    I don't make up the message, my job is to just broadcast it.

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    Okay?

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    I'm just like a flesh and blood microphone is really all I am and that's all I ever want to be.

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    But I want you to look at verse 10.

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    Peter says, "Therefore," because of everything else we're going to see what Peter said here today. Therefore, brothers, be all the more diligent to make your calling and election sure. Be all the more diligent to make your calling and election sure. In other words, be diligent about growing in assurance. Be diligent about growing in your confidence in your walk with Jesus Christ. He says, "For if you practice these qualities, you will never fall." Meaning, you will never fall concerning what? Concerning your confidence.

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    He says, "If you do some certain things, you are going to walk through your time here on the earth in a humble confidence before the Lord, knowing for sure that you belong to Him and that you're heading to heaven." Would you like to know what those qualities are?

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    All right, well, let's look at them.

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    Bow your heads with me.

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    Father, we're just about to enter a passage of your Word that has really ministered to me, and I have no doubt that it's going to minister to those right here in this room.

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    Father, I thank you that you want us to be confident in our salvation.

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    You want us to have assurance that you don't want us walking through life never really sure if we belong to you.

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    But you want us to walk in full assurance of your love and your grace.

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    Father, I ask by the power of your Holy Spirit that you would do big things today in the lives of the people sitting in this room right now.

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    And it's all to your glory and honor, we pray in Jesus' name.

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    Amen.

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    All right, 2 Peter chapter 1, are you there?

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    this down on your outline first of all. How can I grow in assurance? That's what we're talking about today. The title of the message is "Rest Assured." How to grow in the assurance of your salvation.

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    Jot this down. Number one, I grow in assurance when I focus on His power, when I focus on God's power. Peter writes, "Simon Peter," or Simeon Peter, "a servant and apostle of Jesus Christ to those who have obtained a faith of equal standing with ours by the righteousness of our God and Savior Jesus Christ. May grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord. His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness through the knowledge of Him who called us to His own glory and excellence. Let's stop right there, I grow in assurance first of all when I focus on His power. It's His power. Verse 3, "His divine power has granted to us," what? What do you have in Christ? Somebody tell me. How much? How much do you have in Christ? Is it like, "Well, you know, Jesus, here's what I'm able to bring to the table, and And golly, can you please supplement what I'm lacking?

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    How much does Jesus Christ bring to the table here?

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    Well let's look at verse 3 again.

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    "His divine power has granted to us," what?

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    Oh, don't be shy.

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    We're all friends here.

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    "Has granted to us," what?

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    All things.

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    Circle the word "all" in your Bible.

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    God's power, He has given us everything.

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    Like, well, why did He do that? Well, He tells us because He called us to His own glory and excellence. If you want to grow in assurance, it has to start here. It has to start in focusing on God's power because, listen church, there is no confidence when I'm living in my power, because I don't have any. True or false?

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    True or false? If I'm going through life and Jeff's gonna do it, and Jeff's gonna make sure this happens, and Jeff's gonna lead the church, and Jeff's gonna lead his family, and Jeff sounds like a caveman, and if I go through life that way, I'm not going to go very far in confidence because I don't have any I don't. Do you know what I am? I'm a handful of dirt and a lot of water. That's all I am, inherently.

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    But the good news is, God didn't leave me just as that. He has given me His power so that I might have everything that pertains to life and godliness for his glory and excellence.

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    And here's where many people lose confidence, because the devil comes along and he tries to convince you of some things.

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    The devil comes along and he starts telling you things like, "You are worthless.

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    God can't use you.

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    Your time is past.

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    Your time will never come.

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    Your sins can't be forgiven.

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    Sound familiar?

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    He's come at me with all of those.

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    As you know, I love sports, and I love a lot of aspects of sports.

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    And you know one of my favorite aspects of sports?

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    I might be the only person in the room.

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    So if you're with me on this, please back me up here.

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    Don't leave me hanging.

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    But I love the post-game press conference with the coach when he loses and he's furious.

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    Anybody else?

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    Anybody else?

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    Just me?

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    OK, OK, a couple of you.

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    Oh, thank you.

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    YouTube some.

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    They're hysterical because sports can be so emotional and people get so passionate.

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    And I think of Jim Mora, kind of a famous one after an embarrassing episode from the Indianapolis Colts, I believe he coached at the time.

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    Maybe you've seen it where the team just performed horribly and he's at this press conference and some reporter in the crowd asks him about the playoffs.

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    Did you ever see that?

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    I see some heads nodding.

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    And you remember his response?

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    He's like, "Playoffs?

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    "Playoffs?

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    "You wanna talk?

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    "Playoffs?

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    "I'd like to just win a game." I love that stuff.

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    And I was thinking about this this week.

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    You're like, "Where in the world are you going with this?" I believe it was Dennis Green who, his post-game rant after a embarrassing defeat from the Chicago Bears came out.

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    And I think this was ESPN's number one post-game tirade from a coach.

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    But he comes out and he goes, "They were who they thought, "they were who we thought they were." Did you ever see that one?

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    "They were who we thought they were." And the reporters are like asking questions and he's just like, "They were who we thought they were.

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    "That's why we took the field, "because they were who we thought they were." just like walks off like, okay. Well here's what I'm suggesting to you. When Satan comes and starts making all these accusations and starts trying to plant things in your mind that aren't true, I want you to take a page out of Dennis Green's book and I want you to say, "I am who God says I am." But I want you to say it like Dennis Green.

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    I don't give you a run at that, okay? So Satan comes and he's like, "You're worthless." And you say, "I am who God says I am." Like Dennis Green, okay? You ready?

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    Oh, come on, if you don't participate, it's no fun. You ready? You are worthless.

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    I am who God says I am.

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    God can never use you.

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    I am who God says I am.

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    Your sins are too bad to be forgiven.

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    I am who God says I am.

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    You're getting it.

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    I'd work a little bit on the temper though, like get really fired up about that.

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    The next time Satan shows up, I am who God says I am.

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    Because really, doesn't that settle it?

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    I mean, look what Peter said here already.

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    You know, when Satan comes along, he's like, "You're worthless." Right here, "I'm a servant of Christ, okay?

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    I'm a servant of Jesus Christ." Like, yeah, but you're like a lame Christian, right?

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    You missed the bus that took off with the cool Christians on it, and you're like on the second path Christian.

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    Look at what Peter says.

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    We're talking about Peter, okay?

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    Look what he says.

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    "To those who have obtained a faith of equal standing "with ours." Peter wasn't like, "I'm up here, people, "and you're down here, and too bad your faith "isn't as great as my faith, and too bad you're not "as great of a Christian as I am." Peter says, "Your faith puts you on equal standing "with God as me." And I would say to you, church, your faith in Christ is just as great, just as valuable, just as precious as Peter's, as Billy Graham's, as James MacDonald, as John MacArthur, John Piper, insert your favorite preacher name here.

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    Your faith has put you on the same standing with God through Jesus Christ as anybody.

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    I am who God says I am.

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    Like I'm so lacking in the Christian life.

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    Wrong, I have everything in Christ.

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    His power has granted to me all things that pertain to life and godliness.

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    I am who God says I am.

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    And God says I have everything in Christ.

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    I am not who my enemies say that I am.

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    I'm not who Satan says I am.

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    Church, I'm not even who you say that I am.

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    I am who God says I am.

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    First of all, let's focus on the power.

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    You get off that and start looking at yourself and thinking about your power.

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    You're not going to make it very far down the path of assurance.

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    Secondly, I grow in assurance when I rest in His promises.

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    When I rest in His promises, this is so beautiful.

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    He says, verse four, he continues, "By which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature." I've meditated on that last phrase for years.

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    We are partakers of the divine nature.

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    God has put his Holy Spirit in us.

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    Isn't that glorious?

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    Listen, salvation isn't just, I pray to receive Jesus and I get my ticket to heaven.

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    And God's like, good luck until you get there.

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    That's not it.

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    It's not just a pardon where God says, "Okay, you were a sinner, and now I pronounce you not guilty.

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    "Best of luck to you." You see, it is those things, but it's so much more than that.

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    I think people lack assurance because they sort of look at the Christian life as just that, that's just my ticket to heaven.

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    It's not, it is, you have become a partaker of the divine nature.

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    God is living in you.

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    But he says at the first part of this verse, "By His glory and excellence, He's given us promises." He's given us promises.

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    Like what kind of promises?

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    Well, he describes them in a couple of ways.

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    He says they're precious and very great.

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    God has given us His promises and you will grow in assurance when you rest in those promises.

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    This past Wednesday I met with my friend Levi for lunch and I said, "I'll be there at 1230." I made a promise, "I'll be there." Levi shows up at loafers over there in 228.

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    He was just sitting in the booth and he's like, before I got there, he was just sitting there.

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    He's like, he's not coming.

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    I just know he's not coming.

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    I just know he's not coming.

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    This is a waste of time.

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    I shouldn't have come here.

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    Did you do that?

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    No, you were there, why?

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    Because I told you I'd be there, right?

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    And you just took me at my word and you believed me and you acted upon believing what I told you.

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    And here's the thing, I'm just a guy.

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    Right? I'm just a guy. God Almighty has made you promises. And sometimes we put ourselves in that ridiculous scenario of wringing our hands, "Is it really gonna happen? Is it really gonna happen? Is it really gonna happen?" God is trustworthy.

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    He trusted me and I'm just a guy. Almighty, sovereign God has made you promises, are you going to trust them? Are you going to trust Him?

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    You know Hebrews chapter 6 verses 17 through 18, the Hebrew writer says, "It is impossible for God to lie." Did you know that? Do you know there are some things that God is just unable to do? Like, "Oh, that sounds blasphemous." Well, that's what the Bible says. Here's something that God can't do. God can't lie. He just can't. Why? It is completely contradictory to his very nature. He is a God of truth. And when he makes a promise, he cashes in a hundred percent of the time. He never fails. He never disappoints. He's never left anybody going, "Well, I trusted God and he didn't show up." He's not like that. God has promised that those who come to him by faith in Jesus Christ will be saved. Did you know that? God their sins forgiven, have the promise of eternal life.

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    That's a promise.

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    So you have to rest in this church.

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    Salvation is not based on you keeping your word.

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    Because you will fail.

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    And there should be like the biggest sigh of relief come from the church right now.

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    I'm gonna give you another run at that.

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    And afterwards, I want you to give the biggest sigh of relief you can.

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    Listen, salvation is not based on you keeping your word.

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    (sighs)

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    Oh, I'm so with you.

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    It's like, well, I made this commitment to God, but I haven't really been doing it.

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    Gosh, maybe...

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    It's not about you keeping your word, because you're going to fail.

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    Your salvation is based on God keeping his word and he will never fail.

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    Some people think assurance is arrogance.

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    I stand up before you today and I say, I believe 100% that I am saved and going to heaven.

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    Somebody will say, well, that's arrogance.

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    I completely disagree.

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    I think assurance is faith.

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    Because when I stand before you and say, I'm a child of God, I've been born again heading to heaven. It's not because of anything that I've done. What I'm saying is I believe in an awesome God who has done that for me. And my confidence is in Him keeping His word.

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    Assurance is faith. Rest in His promises. Rest in His promises. Thirdly, I grow in assurance and I practice godly qualities.

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    Remember that at the beginning of the message, verse 10?

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    He says, "If you practice these qualities, "you will never fall." And what qualities?

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    Well, here they are.

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    Look at verses five through seven, and we're gonna mention these very briefly.

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    Well, picking up in verse four where we left off, he says, "Having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire.

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    That's why we're partakers of the divine nature.

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    But verse five, he says, "For this very reason, "make every effort to supplement your faith with," and he's gonna give us a list here.

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    So I wanna pause here for a second.

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    Before we get to this list, you have to understand a couple of things.

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    First of all, he says, "For this very reason," meaning because you live by his power, because you trust in his promises.

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    See, that's the backdrop for everything.

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    That's the foundation for everything that's coming.

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    You can't do these things and have assurance if you haven't done the first two, trusting his power and his promises.

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    So when you get there, you have to, Peter tells us, "Practice certain qualities." These aren't about getting saved.

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    He's addressing Christians emphatically here.

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    And these qualities aren't about keeping your salvation.

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    God sustains your salvation by grace just as he gives you salvation by grace.

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    Understand that.

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    You can't lose it because it's all grace.

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    There are people that teach anti-biblical doctrine that say, "Well, it's God's grace that saves you, but it's up to you to maintain that." Wrong.

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    It's all His power.

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    So these aren't about getting saved.

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    We're not about keeping salvation, if that's all grace.

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    This list he's sharing with us is about growing in assurance.

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    He said, "You go after these things.

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    "This is how you grow in assurance." And you're like, "Interesting.

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    "I'll take a look at this list "and maybe think about possibly incorporating "some of these things into my life." Wrong, look at verse five again.

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    He says, "For this very reason, make every effort." Now, as you know, while you're at work doing your thing, I'm at work doing my thing, and my thing is studying the Bible.

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    And one of the things I do in studying the Bible is to see what things meant in the original language.

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    And in the original language, do you know what it meant when he says, "Make every effort"?

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    Do you know what that means?

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    Literally, it means to make every effort.

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    I get paid for this.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    Actually, in the Greek, the word was used to describe somebody that was in a hurry.

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    You ever seen somebody in a hurry?

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    Yeah, like, oh, they started worship and I'm still out coming down the sidewalk, in a hurry.

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    That's the idea, get on this.

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    Peter's not throwing this list out to say, Peter's like church, get on this right now.

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    Get on this, move, move, move.

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    You wanna grow in assurance?

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    Today, today, right now, get on this, get on this.

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    Why haven't you started?

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    Get on this.

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    Five minutes ago, get on this.

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    That's what this word means.

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    Hurry.

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    Get after this.

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    Make maximum efforts.

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    It's the paradox that we talked about back in Philippians chapter two as we went through Philippians this past year.

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    It's a paradox and Peter addresses it here.

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    Christ has given us everything, now go after it with everything you got.

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    Philippians 2, Paul writes, "Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you." And I've shared with you before, I don't understand how all that works.

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    I know that it's God's power, He's the one that regenerates us and somehow we cooperate with Him and Christ has given us everything, now go after it.

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    Go after what?

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    Well, add these to your faith.

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    I'm gonna read through the list and I'm gonna go back and make a few comments on these.

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    I'd encourage you, write these words down.

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    What I want you to do is to take this sermon outline, write these words down and take the sermon outline and stick it in the back of your Bible So the next time you're struggling with assurance, pull this out and say, "I need to hurry and get on some things." Because Peter says, "This is how I grow in assurance." Make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue and virtue with knowledge and knowledge with self-control and self-control with steadfastness and steadfastness with godliness and godliness with brotherly affection and brotherly affection with love.

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    Add these to your faith.

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    First of all, virtue.

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    Virtue.

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    The Greek word literally means excellence.

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    Excellence.

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    Growing in Christ-likeness, not phoning it in.

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    Not in my family, not in my small group, not in my ministry.

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    It's I'm going after the Christ like this.

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    I'm going after that upward call.

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    I'm pushing forward to grow more and more like Jesus Christ.

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    It's excellence.

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    Literally, you could say it's about being the best Christian that you can be.

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    And we know God has pronounced us perfect in Christ.

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    And he sees us as totally righteous.

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    And what Peter's saying here is, act like how God identifies you.

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    Go after that.

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    You're like, "Yeah, I'm Christ-like enough." Anybody here that's like, "Yeah, I'm Christ-like enough." I'm like, to use a Pittsburgh term, I'm pretty near Jesus.

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    No, you're not.

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    Neither am I.

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    Go after it.

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    Grow in Christ-likeness.

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    Do you see some areas of your life where you're not like Jesus?

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    Hurry up and get after that, is what Peter's saying.

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    Excellence.

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    Excellence, you're going for that.

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    God sees you as an A plus in Christ.

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    Go after that.

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    That's how you grow in assurance as you're pursuing the excellence of Christ-likeness, being more like Jesus.

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    I wanna forgive like Jesus.

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    I wanna pray like Jesus.

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    We've talked about this the last couple of weeks.

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    Peter chimes in again with it.

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    Go after excellence.

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    Secondly, knowledge.

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    Knowledge, that's spiritual discernment, that's spending time in the word.

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    Spending time in the word.

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    We're pretty big on that at Harvest Bible Chapel.

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    Bible's like our middle name.

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    And I would ask you, where else are you going to learn about your Savior?

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    Where else?

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    Where are you gonna learn about Jesus if you're not in the Bible?

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    Not on Wall Street.

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    You're not going to turn on Fox News or ESPN to learn about Jesus.

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    You're not going to learn about Jesus by going to a website, allaboutjesus.com or something.

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    Here's where you learn.

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    Here's where you grow in your spiritual discernment.

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    And you saw over and over in this passage, he says, you know, in verse 2, "In the knowledge of God," verse 3, "through the knowledge of Him." Where else?

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    Oh, okay, we're going to see it again in verse 8, "The knowledge," verse 5, "The knowledge," you know, what was that, five times I lost count?

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    Like more than like two times in this passage, he keeps going back, "The knowledge of the knowledge of the knowledge of the knowledge." Where are you getting this knowledge?

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    You've got to be in the Word.

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    You've got to be in the Word.

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    you have a Bible reading plan, get one, okay?

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    You should be in God's word, prayerfully reading through it yourself.

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    That's how you grow in spiritual discernment.

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    And that's how you're going to grow in assurance.

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    A lot of people aren't sure about their salvation because they don't really understand their salvation because they're not reading the handbook about salvation.

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    You wanna grow in assurance, get your nose in the book.

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    Thirdly, he says self-control.

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    Self-control, literally this is translated, holding yourself in.

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    It's described as one of the fruit of the Holy Spirit in Galatians chapter 5.

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    And in 1 Corinthians 9.27, Paul uses it in the analogy of athletics.

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    Athletes have to learn self-control, don't they?

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    I was gonna say unless you play baseball, but I'm not gonna say that.

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    Athletes have to learn self-control in things like training.

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    I don't really feel like going to the gym.

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    I went to the gym last month.

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    Hey, you're an athlete.

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    Yeah, the bed's more comfortable than getting up out of it.

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    says I have to make some decisions.

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    Diet, right?

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    If you're in athletics, you gotta watch your diet.

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    I could go for a whole box of Twinkies, but I'm not going to because I'm training.

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    I'm using self-control.

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    I'm holding myself in.

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    Sleep and practice.

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    And as an athlete, They learn to say no to some things.

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    They just have to learn to say no to some things.

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    Christians, in the same way, self-control, you're going to have to say no to sin.

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    More and again, believers, please hear me.

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    Sinning does not take away your salvation, but sinning will take away your confidence.

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    It will, because it's hard to feel triumphant when you're acting defeated.

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    That's why Peter says, "Self-control, go after it.

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    "Go after it, hurry.

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    "Go after it." Is there sin in your life?

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    Go after it, repent of it, get rid of it.

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    Hurry.

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    You have some stuff in your house that needs thrown away or flushed or thrown in the shredder.

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    He's like, "Get after that now.

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    "Hurry, you wanna grow an assurance?

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    "You're not gonna do it while you're living in sin." Fourthly, steadfastness.

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    Steadfastness, that's just never giving up.

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    That's just never giving up.

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    That's falling off the horse seven times and getting on the horse eight times, steadfastness.

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    Did you blow it yesterday?

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    Well, then get back at it today.

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    But steadfastness is that attitude that just says, look, I will not quit.

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    I will not quit.

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    I want you to say that.

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    I'm gonna give you an opportunity here, prepare yourself.

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    I just want you in a second, I just want you to bow your head.

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    You're not saying it to me, you're not saying it to your family.

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    I just want you to bow your head for a second here.

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    And I want us to say that out loud before God.

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    I will not quit.

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    That's what Peter says we need to be going after here.

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    I will not quit.

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    Yeah, but life is hard, I'm not gonna quit.

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    Yeah, but there are a lot of people that don't like you.

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    I will not quit.

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    But you have a lot of reasons to just give up.

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    I will not quit.

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    It's not an option.

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    It's not like plan B.

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    There is no plan B.

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    Plan A is I'm pursuing Jesus Christ.

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    What's plan B?

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    I don't have one because I'm not gonna quit.

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    Are you ready?

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    Bow your heads.

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    And I want you to say that.

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    Say, I will not quit.

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    Say it again.

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    I will not quit.

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    It's going to be hard.

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    And God, you know these things that we go through.

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    I will not quit.

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    I will not quit.

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    I encourage you to make that part of your prayer life.

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    I don't know how many times I've been on my face before the Lord.

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    Just repeating that, I will not quit.

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    Things are getting hard, but I'm not going to quit.

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    Steadfastness.

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    Godliness is number five.

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    Big Brother already gave you the heads up on that earlier in a statement that he made.

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    But what does godliness mean?

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    It means reverence.

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    It means God consciousness.

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    And here's what Darren said earlier.

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    It's God in every area of my life.

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    That's godliness.

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    God in every area of my life.

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    Meaning this, you want assurance?

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    Well, here's something you can't do and still have assurance.

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    And that's compartmentalize your life.

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    This is who I am in church and this is who I am at home, and this is who I am when I'm with my buddies and this is who I am at work.

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    And some people try to live that mode of being some kind of a chameleon.

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    And Peter says, no, you want you want to grow an assurance?

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    God consciousness in every area of your life, every area.

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    There's no compartments.

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    I'm the same no matter where you find me or who you find me with.

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    Number six is brotherly affection.

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    Brotherly affection.

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    You know what the Greek word is for that, Amanda?

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    Yeah, it's hard to say.

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    It's Philadelphia.

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    Brotherly affection.

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    She's from Philadelphia, so she's always there to help me out.

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    Brotherly affection.

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    1 John says, "If you love God, you'll love others.

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    If you say you love God, you don't love others." He says, "You're a liar.

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    Go after it.

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    Go after it.

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    Love others." Come on, hurry up.

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    Come to church early and meet people.

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    Stick around church a little bit afterwards and meet people.

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    Invite someone to lunch.

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    Get involved with people.

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    Get in a small group where you're loving people.

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    You're like, oh no, he's not talking about small groups again.

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    Yeah, I am, because they're a big deal.

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    You need to be involved in a community of people.

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    You have to be.

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    You know, I just show up Sunday and I'll see you next Sunday thing.

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    You know what?

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    missing it. All I can tell you is you're missing it. You're missing out on something greater, being involved with a group of people, authentic, who will love you and pray with you and pray for you and brotherly affection. Hurry up and get on that and you'll grow in assurance. And then last but not least, actually this is last and most important, this is last and top of the list, this is last and sort of "All encompassing," he says, "love." That's the top of the list.

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    We're talking about growing any assurance of your faith.

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    Faith works by love.

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    Did you know that?

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    That's how faith works.

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    Faith doesn't work by guilt.

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    It doesn't work.

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    Well, I should probably go to small group 'cause I feel guilty if I don't.

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    Yeah, that's gonna last.

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    I should probably give to the church and I'll feel guilty if I don't.

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    Yeah, that's gonna last.

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    Faith works by love.

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    I'm involved in a small group because I love the people in this church.

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    I love our small group.

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    I wish I could go to every small group.

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    In fact, Justin and Michelle, get on that.

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    Let's have our small groups arranged as such so that I can go to everyone every week.

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    I would love that.

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    I don't think my family would, so maybe I need to rethink this.

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    I love this church.

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    Faith works by love.

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    It's love for God, first of all, love for God's people, love for God's work, love for God's church, love for God's world.

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    We could go on and on.

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    But how do these things, how does going after these things grow my assurance?

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    You know, Peter gives this list here.

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    How do these things grow my assurance?

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    Or I want you to imagine, I want you to think of, just imagine these friends that you have that are married.

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    And specifically, you're friends with the man.

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    And one day he says to you, you know, he's just kind of confiding to you, Ken.

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    He's like, you know what, Ken?

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    You're like, how's the marriage going?

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    And how's your wife?

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    And he makes this statement.

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    He says, you know, I don't really feel married.

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    Well, what's the first thing you say?

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    The first thing you say is, well, you are married, whether you feel like it or not.

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    But then Ken would dig a little deeper and he'd say, well, tell me about your, well, talk to me about that.

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    Tell me like, what does a weekly schedule look like for you?

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    And this man says, well, I'm at work late two nights a week and I'm at the bar late the other three nights.

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    Usually in the weekends, I take these fishing trips with my buddies.

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    A lot of times when I am home, I just sleep in the den or in the basement.

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    What's the obvious problem here?

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    You see it?

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    The problem is his lifestyle doesn't match up with his identity, right?

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    His lifestyle doesn't match up with his identity.

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    You would say to him, do you wanna feel married?

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    Well, yeah, I really do wanna feel married.

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    Here's what you do.

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    Go home instead of going to the bar.

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    Take your wife on a date twice a month.

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    Go to bed with your wife.

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    Write little notes to your wife.

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    Buy your wife presents.

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    In other words, if you start doing the things that married people should do, you're going to feel married.

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    And church, I would say to you in the same way, when you embrace your identity in Jesus Christ, when you rest in the promises of God and you deliberately go after the things that are directly tied into your identity, you're going to feel the assurance of salvation.

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    Because, bottom line, assurance is tied into your lifestyle.

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    It's tied into your lifestyle.

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    Finally, I grow in assurance when I persevere through time.

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    When I persevere through time, look at verse eight.

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    He says, "For if these qualities are yours and increasing, they keep you from becoming ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ." I'm gonna pause here for a second.

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    I grow in assurance when I persevere through time.

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    Listen, don't misunderstand me today.

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    I'm not saying, you know what?

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    Just go home and do the things on this list like sometime this afternoon before supper and everything's gonna be great.

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    You know, just take three or four minutes this afternoon and work through this list and assurance all the way to heaven.

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    You're gonna feel all better.

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    No, he says, if these are yours and increasing, meaning you're maturing in Christ going after these things, he says, "They keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful." What does he mean by that?

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    He means it's hard to be effective or fruitful in ministry, however God's called you to ministry.

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    It's hard to be effective or fruitful when you're always unsure about your own salvation.

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    That's what he's saying.

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    In other words, if I'm not sure about my own salvation, I'm not going to be a very effective preacher, am I?

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    I get up on Sunday, it's like, Derek, you know, the Bible's kind of like, you know, believe in Jesus.

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    Like, wow, that was like whatever's on the other end of the spectrum from hellfire and brimstone.

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    Like, where's the passion?

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    Where's the confidence in the word of God?

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    If I'm not confident in my own salvation, how am I going to stand up before you and say, "Thus saith the Lord." Trust God to keep his promises, embrace who you are in Christ.

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    I'm not gonna have the confidence for that if I don't have it personally.

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    Same way for the worship team.

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    It's going to be awfully hard to stand up, right, Bob?

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    It's gonna be awfully hard to stand up.

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    We're going to lead the congregation in worship.

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    And we're like, okay, we're going to sing "Your Grace is Enough." And meanwhile, you're not even convinced of that in your own life.

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    And you're just kind of like, "Your grace is enough." Like, really?

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    It's standing up confidently saying, "I have found that Jesus Christ is sufficient "and He is everything and everything I need is in Him.

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    "That's why I can stand before you and say, "'His grace is enough.'" That's a different worship set, isn't it?

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    You know, you're back working with the children.

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    You're not gonna have fruitful ministry if it's sort of like, "Well, I probably should teach them the Bible, "but I'll just kind of babysit them." stuff some goldfish crackers in their mouth and hope that the sermon doesn't go too long.

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    Unfruitful.

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    But when you have this fire of what God's doing in your life, I can't wait to teach this to the kids about how awesome Jesus is.

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    You have no effectiveness or fruitfulness in your ministry if you're unsure yourself.

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    Your ministry has to be an overflow what God's doing in your heart, or it's gonna show eventually, it's gonna show.

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    In that case, we might have to ask you to step down and work on your thing with God before you're put in a position of ministry.

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    Today, he says, look at verse nine.

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    "For whoever lacks these qualities "is so nearsighted that he is blind." Many of us can relate to the concept of being so nearsighted that you're practically blind.

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    Anybody else?

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    Like the Hubble Space Telescope people, like have me on speed dial just in case something happens with their telescope and they need my glasses.

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    But he says if you lack these qualities, he's talking about spiritual nearsightedness, right?

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    Yeah, you got that.

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    He says he's so nearsighted that he is blind.

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    And then look at this next statement.

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    having forgotten that he was cleansed from his former sins.

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    If you lack these qualities, you're nearsighted, you're blind, you have forgotten.

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    Once upon a time, once upon a time, you were so enamored with grace, and you loved Jesus so much, and you felt so free from your sin and the guilt and the shame, and you just wanted to serve Christ and tell people about Christ just because you love Christ.

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    And it was so like, man.

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    And Peter says, you know, some of you have gotten away from that.

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    You've gotten away from that.

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    Remember when you were so passionate about serving Christ because you loved him?

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    Well, if you get away from that and the Christian life becomes stale and routine and you come to church, time to make the donuts, roll the stuff off the truck, hook up the microphones, put out the friendship registers, see you next week, yawn, you're going to lose your assurance.

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    That's why Peter says, "Hurry up, hurry up, get back to these qualities." And then you'll find a day at a time, over a period of time, you will find that assurance isn't even a question you're thinking about.

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    Peter says, "Therefore, brothers, be all the more diligent to make your calling and election sure.

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    For if you practice these qualities, you will never fall." Pray with me.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read 2 Peter 1:1-10

  1. Why do you think it’s so important to be confident in your salvation? How does confidence affect your walk with Christ? How does not being confident affect your walk?
     

  2. Why do you think many Christians struggle with assurance? What would you say to a friend who confides in you, “I just don’t know if I am really saved?”

Breakout Questions:

  1. On a scale of 1­-10 (1 = I have NO idea, in fact, I may be a Pagan, 10 = I am 100% positive) rate your assurance of your own salvation as of right now.
     

  2. What can you do to grow in assurance right now? Tonight? This week? (2 Peter 1:1-10).
     

  3. Pray for one another.