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Job

Seeking Wisdom During Trials

Introduction (Job 28:20-28)

Seeking Wisdom

  1. Wisdom cannot be found Apart from God. (Job 28:20-27)
  2. Wisdom is found with God. (Job 28:28a)

Proverbs 9:10 - "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight"

James 1:5 - "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him"

2 Ways to Fellow with God and His Word during Trials

  1. Utilize Small Groups
  2. Pray the Bible

    3. Seeking Wisdom

  3. Wisdom brings us Closer to God. (Job 28:28b)

Michael Wolski - Harvest Bible Chapel Pittsburgh North A/V Ministry Leader

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  • Pastor Jeff:

    00:28-00:37

    If you're visiting with us today, my name is Jeff, and I serve as the pastor here at Harvest Bible Chapel, Pittsburgh North, but I am not preaching this month.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:38-00:43

    We have four wonderful speakers that we'll be introducing the next one here in just a minute.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:45-00:45

    So what am I doing?

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:46-00:52

    Well, this week I will be working on the preaching calendar for the next year.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:53-01:01

    I pre-prepare the messages from October to September is when our preaching calendar runs.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:01-01:09

    So I would greatly appreciate your prayers for this week as I seek the Lord on direction for preaching.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:10-01:13

    And I just thought I'd open up the floor now if anybody has any suggestions.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:15-01:16

    Any suggestions?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:17-01:18

    Jay, I know what you're gonna say.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:19-01:20

    Amos, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:21-01:22

    Okay, noted.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:22-01:23

    And I appreciate the suggestion.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:23-01:24

    Anybody else?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:25-01:26

    Joshua?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:27-01:28

    Anyone else?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:30-01:31

    I'll tell you what, think about it.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:31-01:32

    What's that?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:33-01:33

    Romans!

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:35-01:37

    The whole book in one year.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:38-01:39

    In one sermon.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:43-01:44

    Yeah, thanks for that, Mark.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:46-01:47

    I appreciate that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:48-01:48

    All right.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:49-01:57

    If you get any big brainstorms or any big revelations, just go ahead and shoot me an email for that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:57-02:01

    But I'd like to introduce our preacher for today, Mike Wolski, if you would make your way up.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:03-02:11

    As I said, years past, we would basically hire some preacher friends of mine to come in during July and they give the word.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:12-02:17

    And this year, the word will be brought by four men from our congregation.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:17-02:20

    And today we're privileged to have Mike Wolski.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:20-02:27

    Now, usually Mike is delivering the word of God back in the AV booth with his team.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:28-02:30

    Mike heads up our AV ministry.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:30-02:36

    So all of the words and the pretty pictures and all of those kinds of things, Mike is the head of that ministry.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:36-02:42

    So today he's going to be delivering the word on this side of the room.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:42-02:52

    And I have been real excited to have Mike come because Mike and I are in small group together.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:52-02:57

    And this is gonna be just unapologetically, this is going to be a shameless plug for small groups.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:57-03:05

    But one of the things I appreciated about small groups so much was I really got to know Mike and Jessica.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:05-03:09

    I got to see their heart for the Lord, their heart for their family.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:10-03:17

    And also through that, as it pertains to preaching this morning, I really got to see Mike's heart for God's word.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:18-03:21

    And that happened through small groups.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:21-03:22

    That's where relationships are made.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:22-03:24

    That's where accountability happens.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:24-03:31

    And if you're here, if you consider this your church home and you're not part of a small group, you need to sign up.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:32-03:37

    And just email smallgroups@harvestpittsburghnorth.org and say, sign me up for small groups.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:37-03:41

    And Ryan and Sarah Stroop would love to get you plugged in to small group.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:41-03:51

    But I not only had the privilege of getting to know Mike through small group ministry, but at DeMar's Home for Youth, was that last year when you got up and gave your testimony?

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:52-03:56

    I get to hear Mike speak and he did a fantastic job.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:56-04:02

    And I thought this guy, this guy's got a heart for the Lord and a heart to give a message from the Lord.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:02-04:06

    So today, without any further ado, give a warm Harvest welcome to Mike Wolski.

    Mike Wolski:

    04:16-04:22

    You know, one thing you might not know about the A.V. ministry is that everybody that joins is required to be an expert in puns.

    Mike Wolski:

    04:25-04:35

    Peter when he was promoting Harvest Got Talent, he did that week after week because today what I wanted to say is I feel like a pony today because my voice is a little hoarse.

    Mike Wolski:

    04:37-04:41

    That has nothing to do with the sermon by the way, just circumstances.

    Mike Wolski:

    04:42-04:51

    So turn with me to Job chapter 28, and while you're doing that, I want you to think of the smartest person that you know.

    Mike Wolski:

    04:52-04:55

    And it doesn't have to be somebody that you know personally either.

    Mike Wolski:

    04:55-05:00

    Almost anyone in the entire world, whether alive or dead.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:01-05:11

    When I first thought about that and asked myself that question, my first instinct was to go towards an inventor or a scientist, like Thomas Edison or Albert Einstein.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:12-05:17

    These are men who refined scientific principles and have had a profound impact on our lives today.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:18-05:22

    Thinking about somebody more recently, Elon Musk.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:22-05:27

    He's the guy that is head of SpaceX and Tesla Automotive.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:27-05:31

    He's making autonomous cars and he's sending rockets in outer space.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:31-05:35

    All three people, very smart in their respective fields and studies.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:36-05:43

    But taking it a step further in a slightly different direction, I want you now to think of the wisest person you know.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:44-05:45

    There's a subtle difference there.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:46-05:57

    If you look up wisdom in Merriam-Webster dictionary, they define it as the ability to discern inner qualities and relationships, or accumulated philosophical or scientific learning.

    Mike Wolski:

    05:58-06:05

    That definition aside, I think we can all chalk up wisdom as being a combination of knowledge and experience.

    Mike Wolski:

    06:07-06:09

    But let's get more specific with our definition.

    Mike Wolski:

    06:10-06:12

    What kind of wisdom am I talking about today?

    Mike Wolski:

    06:13-06:18

    Well, there's the worldly wisdom we get from doing our everyday hobbies and tasks.

    Mike Wolski:

    06:19-06:22

    Those are tips and tricks we learn along the way to make those activities easier.

    Mike Wolski:

    06:23-06:35

    So for instance, if you work on your own car, the more you do it, the more pieces and components fix or replace, the more knowledge and experience you have with that, right?

    Mike Wolski:

    06:35-06:37

    The more car fixing wisdom you have.

    Mike Wolski:

    06:39-06:48

    I mean, I remember working on a car, Jessica and I have, and I had to do work that went beyond just oil change or simple brake pad replacements.

    Mike Wolski:

    06:49-06:53

    I had to venture into new grounds by working on the suspension and on the exhaust system.

    Mike Wolski:

    06:55-07:05

    I can laugh about it now, but there are numerous barriers and struggles I had that made what I thought would be a relatively easy repair into a weeks-long hair-pulling fun.

    Mike Wolski:

    07:07-07:12

    All the reading that I did up on how to do the fix didn't compare to my experience I had actually doing it.

    Mike Wolski:

    07:13-07:20

    But now I'm glad that I did because I was able to add a plus one to my car-fixing wisdom.

    Mike Wolski:

    07:21-07:27

    But while worldly wisdom is valuable, in the grand scheme of things, it's optional.

    Mike Wolski:

    07:29-07:33

    Knowing how to fix a car, cook a steak medium rare, or plumb a toilet isn't going to change your life.

    Mike Wolski:

    07:35-07:38

    Now the wisdom I'm talking about today is biblical wisdom.

    Mike Wolski:

    07:39-07:45

    Applying the word of God to every aspect of your life to answer the big questions.

    Mike Wolski:

    07:46-07:49

    For example, how can I be a good witness?

    Mike Wolski:

    07:51-07:53

    What should my role be in relation to my spouse?

    Mike Wolski:

    07:55-07:57

    How can I share my faith with a co-worker?

    Mike Wolski:

    08:00-08:02

    What values should I instill in my children?

    Mike Wolski:

    08:04-08:07

    Getting deeper here, what about questions we have during our trials?

    Mike Wolski:

    08:09-08:11

    How do I forgive someone who's hurt me?

    Mike Wolski:

    08:12-08:14

    I just lost my job. What do I do?

    Mike Wolski:

    08:16-08:20

    I don't think I can pay my bills on time. Who can I turn to?

    Mike Wolski:

    08:22-08:25

    I lost my child to a drunk driver. Why would God allow this?

    Mike Wolski:

    08:28-08:31

    We live in a fallen world, and with that comes deep and painful trials.

    Mike Wolski:

    08:32-08:35

    Each one has its own set of questions and answers we seek.

    Mike Wolski:

    08:37-08:40

    How to handle and react to the situation, defuse tension, or just heal?

    Mike Wolski:

    08:41-08:56

    Circling back to my first two questions and those two folks that you chose for being both smart and wise, I mentioned Thomas Edison, and he's credited with inventing the light bulb, so clearly a very smart and wise person in his scientific field.

    Mike Wolski:

    08:57-08:59

    But did you know he was an atheist?

    Mike Wolski:

    09:00-09:02

    Well, he called it being a free thinker.

    Mike Wolski:

    09:03-09:36

    But when you make statements like, and I'm paraphrasing quotes of his here, heaven and hell don't exist, there is no afterlife, all religion is bunk, you get the idea where he stands. The reason I mention this is because the people we look to as being smart and wise aren't necessarily wise when it comes to biblical wisdom. So with that said, those two people you identified in your life, would you go for them to counsel? Would you go for them for counsel? Could they provide biblical wisdom when you're going through a trial?

    Mike Wolski:

    09:38-09:45

    The title of the sermon today is "Seeking Wisdom During Trials." And coming to the text, we're in Job 28.

    Mike Wolski:

    09:46-09:50

    Now Job 28 is a little more than halfway through the book of Job, the entire book of Job.

    Mike Wolski:

    09:51-09:58

    And at this point, Job, a man righteous in God's eyes, has had his entire life turned upside down by Satan.

    Mike Wolski:

    09:59-10:01

    He's lost all his possessions and even his good health.

    Mike Wolski:

    10:02-10:09

    And his friends, they've come to comfort him, but instead they're arguing back and forth, accusing him of wrongdoings.

    Mike Wolski:

    10:10-10:15

    You know, Job is arguing that he's innocent, but Eliphaz, Bildad, and Zophar believe he must have sinned.

    Mike Wolski:

    10:16-10:20

    For all this bad stuff to happen to him, there's something deeper here that needs exposed.

    Mike Wolski:

    10:22-10:27

    And leading up to this chapter, Job is arguing back and forth within himself on God and His justice.

    Mike Wolski:

    10:28-10:30

    Is God being just with him?

    Mike Wolski:

    10:30-10:33

    Now wait a minute, I thought this sermon was on seeking wisdom.

    Mike Wolski:

    10:34-10:36

    Where does God's justice fit into all this?

    Mike Wolski:

    10:36-10:37

    Where did this come from?

    Mike Wolski:

    10:39-10:39

    Well hear me out here.

    Mike Wolski:

    10:41-10:47

    So when you're going through a trial or facing a difficult situation, you're probably wondering, what can I do about it?

    Mike Wolski:

    10:49-10:54

    Even if it's beyond your control, you still want to know what's the best way to handle what's being thrown at you.

    Mike Wolski:

    10:56-10:57

    What you're doing is seeking wisdom.

    Mike Wolski:

    10:58-11:32

    what Job was doing. He had no explanation as to why he was suffering, so him and his friends were pouring out their wisdom upon one another to try to come to some sort of conclusion. And chapter 28 is all about finding true wisdom. You know, each person had their own answers and understanding of God, but this gets to the core of where you and I can find wisdom. Let's pick it up in verse 20. "From where then does wisdom come, and where It is hidden from the eyes of all living and concealed from the birds of the air.

    Mike Wolski:

    11:33-11:39

    Abaddon and Death say, "We have heard a rumor of it with our ears." God understands the way to it, and He knows its place.

    Mike Wolski:

    11:40-11:43

    For He looks to the ends of the earth and sees everything under the heavens.

    Mike Wolski:

    11:44-11:53

    When He gave to the wind its weight and apportioned the waters by measure, when He made a decree for the rain and a way for the lightning of the thunder, then He saw it and declared it.

    Mike Wolski:

    11:54-11:56

    He established it and searched it out.

    Mike Wolski:

    11:56-12:08

    And he said to man, "Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom, and a turn away from evil is understanding." Not really what Merriam-Webster said, right?

    Mike Wolski:

    12:09-12:12

    You know, I thought wisdom could be found in any sagely person.

    Mike Wolski:

    12:13-12:18

    I thought wisdom would give me the answers right away and allow me to solve all my problems.

    Mike Wolski:

    12:19-12:23

    Well, God's definition is a bit contrary to ours.

    Mike Wolski:

    12:24-12:26

    This brings me to my first point.

    Mike Wolski:

    12:28-12:33

    My first point to be made about seeking wisdom in trials is that it cannot be found apart from God.

    Mike Wolski:

    12:34-12:36

    Look at verses 20-27.

    Mike Wolski:

    12:38-12:47

    And just as a side note, if you read the book of Job and especially this chapter, the poetry and the imagery in it is just very beautiful and I would encourage you to read the whole thing.

    Mike Wolski:

    12:48-12:53

    kind of what stuck out to me and why I wanted to use this passage for my sermon.

    Mike Wolski:

    12:54-13:04

    But it starts out asking the question, "Where then does wisdom come and where is the place of understanding?" It's a pretty straightforward question.

    Mike Wolski:

    13:05-13:19

    But in the following verses it says, "Both are hidden and even death does not know, but God knows it because he's created it, established it, and searched it out." So how can we say we found biblical wisdom apart from God?

    Mike Wolski:

    13:21-13:22

    Honestly, we can't.

    Mike Wolski:

    13:23-13:27

    I think we try to say we have based on, you know, the advice or experiences we've gone through.

    Mike Wolski:

    13:28-13:31

    But how can we say we know true wisdom when we aren't the Almighty?

    Mike Wolski:

    13:32-13:36

    To say we have intimate knowledge of the world around us on the same level as God.

    Mike Wolski:

    13:38-13:40

    And to understand our trials the same way God does.

    Mike Wolski:

    13:42-13:50

    There are plenty of times I've gone through turmoil and thought, "You know what? I can figure this out." Right? Let me Google it.

    Mike Wolski:

    13:52-13:56

    You know, let me Google what other people have said or ask some friends.

    Mike Wolski:

    13:57-14:01

    Isn't that the 21st century solution to everything? Google it. Google knows.

    Mike Wolski:

    14:02-14:04

    Or rather, something Google shows you knows.

    Mike Wolski:

    14:05-14:10

    Well, Google was telling me a few months back that eating Tide Pods is all the rage.

    Mike Wolski:

    14:11-14:17

    And that this sore throat that I have could be a common cold, or Ebola.

    14:18-14:19

    (Laughter)

    Mike Wolski:

    14:20-14:25

    So for all the information we have at our fingertips, there's a lot of garbage out there.

    Mike Wolski:

    14:26-14:34

    A lot to sift through, and a lot that is deceptively wrapped in a pretty present to tickle our ears or to bolster our self-righteousness.

    Mike Wolski:

    14:34-14:41

    Pages and videos of echo chamber rhetoric that takes the lens to others in the world rather than to yourself.

    Mike Wolski:

    14:44-14:48

    A lot of the wisdom I've sought in my life and received, God's hand wasn't in it.

    Mike Wolski:

    14:49-14:51

    So really you could say it wasn't wisdom at all.

    Mike Wolski:

    14:53-14:59

    You know, one thing I think we can all relate to is working through difficulties at our jobs, right?

    Mike Wolski:

    14:59-15:09

    And not just the person commuting back and forth to Pittsburgh or wherever, you know, there's mothers and caretakers, They all have important jobs, you know, take care of families, raising children.

    Mike Wolski:

    15:09-15:10

    So all of us.

    Mike Wolski:

    15:12-15:18

    But you know that bad day or week that you have makes you want to throw the towel and start searching around for something else.

    Mike Wolski:

    15:19-15:25

    I mean, I've had some really trying weeks that make me second-guess if I did the right thing in taking my current position.

    Mike Wolski:

    15:26-15:29

    Why would I leave my job that I like to go to this new position?

    Mike Wolski:

    15:31-16:01

    You can imagine it's easy to find advice online. That's how to handle job related stresses You see articles about your job satisfaction and how you deserve to be happy at your job You don't feel appreciated find a new role and tell your boss to pound salt Maybe that's not what God's plan is for you Maybe there's some character refinement or lesson to be learned from your struggles Like in Job, we don't always get a definitive reason as to why we're getting put through our trials.

    Mike Wolski:

    16:02-16:06

    But we can't expect to find wisdom in our trials apart from God.

    Mike Wolski:

    16:08-16:15

    This leads me to the next point. So if wisdom isn't found apart from God, then obviously wisdom is found with God.

    Mike Wolski:

    16:16-16:18

    Let's look at the first part of verse 28.

    Mike Wolski:

    16:19-16:44

    "Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom." You know this verse is so profound because it's so contrary to what we define wisdom to be in the worldly sense You see Biblical wisdom has its foundation in fear of the Lord Not purely on our personal experience and knowledge And I say foundational because yes biblical wisdom can be gleaned from others, right?

    Mike Wolski:

    16:44-16:58

    It's not like you fear the Lord and suddenly, you know get through your trial Right. There's still knowledge and experience that goes along with it But that fear of the Lord is just such a vital difference between biblical wisdom and worldly wisdom.

    Mike Wolski:

    17:00-17:04

    God's definition puts our reliance for wisdom entirely upon Him first.

    Mike Wolski:

    17:07-17:20

    Proverbs 9 10 is actually closely paralleled saying, "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and the knowledge of the Holy One is insight." So we know this is an established truth in God's Word. It's His definition.

    Mike Wolski:

    17:22-17:27

    So now we see what wisdom is, but what is this fear of the Lord?

    Mike Wolski:

    17:27-17:29

    Why would that be required for wisdom?

    Mike Wolski:

    17:30-17:35

    Well, fear here is not being scared of God, like He's going to smite you on a moment's notice.

    Mike Wolski:

    17:36-17:38

    Rather, it's reverence towards God.

    Mike Wolski:

    17:39-17:42

    It's what allows us to be receptive to God's wisdom and insight.

    Mike Wolski:

    17:44-17:45

    What He's teaching us during a trial or struggle.

    Mike Wolski:

    17:47-17:54

    You know, if we're not reverent towards God, then how do we expect to seek or gain wisdom from Him?

    Mike Wolski:

    17:55-17:56

    I mean, think about it this way.

    Mike Wolski:

    17:57-18:03

    He's the Almighty, Creator of the universe, who can number the grains of sand on the beach and knows the number of hairs on your head.

    Mike Wolski:

    18:05-18:08

    You can't fully submit to His authority and be reverent towards Him.

    Mike Wolski:

    18:09-18:10

    You're not gonna glean from His wisdom.

    Mike Wolski:

    18:11-18:21

    Like, has there ever been a time or times when you're seeking advice from somebody, You know, somebody even biblically rooted, like a Christian, the best people to get advice from, actually.

    Mike Wolski:

    18:23-18:47

    You hear what they say and you're like, "Yeah, that's good. I totally understand that. That makes sense." Then they say that one thing that you're like, "Ugh, no, you can keep that one. I'll take those first two points, that last one. No." You might be getting some of the best godly advice from that person, somebody who has fear of the Lord and understanding from God, So your reverence towards that person isn't fully baked.

    Mike Wolski:

    18:48-18:51

    You're allowing your feelings and thoughts to override that wisdom you're receiving.

    Mike Wolski:

    18:53-18:54

    I mean, I do it all the time.

    Mike Wolski:

    18:55-18:56

    It's hard to fully submit under authority.

    Mike Wolski:

    18:57-18:59

    Our pride always gets in the way.

    Mike Wolski:

    18:59-19:02

    In the end, we think we know what's best for us.

    Mike Wolski:

    19:05-19:50

    You see, if you believe in the Bible, if you believe it's God's book, and what he wrote is perfect, and exactly the message he wanted to convey to the world, then you can't pick and choose of his wisdom. It's all or nothing. To say you agree with a few pieces and disagree with others, you might as well just throw it all away, go back to Google and eating Tide Pods. I'm joking. I hope I'm clear here. Don't eat Tide Pods. Serious medical conditions, results. But God's wisdom is unparalleled. We can't even begin to compare what we think we know with what God already knows. So when you're seeking wisdom during a trial, it has to be found in God. What better source than Him?

    Mike Wolski:

    19:51-20:11

    Well, how do I do that? I am reverent towards God and I want to understand what He has for me. How do I glean wisdom from Him? Well, I've got good news. God has a book. You ever wonder why the Bible is so over 31,000 verses across 1,200 pages. It's chock full of wisdom.

    Mike Wolski:

    20:12-20:18

    And as Christians, we've got a 24/7 prayer hotline direct to the Almighty Creator of the universe.

    Mike Wolski:

    20:20-20:33

    The wonderful thing about both those sources is that God's Word does not return void, a truth that's been established in Isaiah 55 11, and that He listens to all prayers, another truth he's established in Matthew 7.

    Mike Wolski:

    20:36-20:41

    So when you're struggling and seeking wisdom from God, you can rest assured that He will provide.

    Mike Wolski:

    20:42-20:46

    In fact, God comes out and tells us His truth very blatantly and obviously.

    Mike Wolski:

    20:47-21:06

    In James 1.5, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without approach, and it will be given him." Now I can't say exactly how or if it's going to be the answer that you want.

    Mike Wolski:

    21:07-21:08

    I mean that's the challenge, right?

    Mike Wolski:

    21:08-21:14

    If we knew how God is going to respond, then there'd be no point in seeking wisdom, seeking Him for His wisdom.

    Mike Wolski:

    21:16-21:28

    But to give a practical application of this, here's two ways that we can fellowship with God and His Word during trials, ways that we can get more and more of His wisdom while we're going through struggles.

    Mike Wolski:

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    The first one is utilize small groups.

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    See here at Harvest Bible Chapel, Pittsburgh North, we have church on Sundays and small groups the rest of the week.

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    You know, these are breakout groups held across Beaver, Butler, and Allegheny County where we as a church congregation can get a little smaller but much closer together as individuals.

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    You know, I've been going to the Murphy's, now Howell small group for, my wife's been going for about four years now and the amount of wisdom that we've been able to pour out on one another is just absolutely incredible.

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    You know, as an individual, your understanding and lens on your trial is one-sided.

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    There might be a facet or a biblical truth that you aren't aware of or you're blinded to because you're just anxious or you're stressed out.

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    You know, for me, job stress has always been a big thing with me.

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    And it might just be because that's how I am as a person.

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    But I don't deal well with multitasking.

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    If five people asking the same thing, stress goes through the roof.

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    But all the men in my small group can probably agree with me that that's the biggest thing I ask wisdom for week in and week out.

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    But you see, I know I can go there because the wisdom I get from small group is biblically rooted.

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    It's not just someone's opinion or Google search, right?

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    is tested against God's Word.

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    And in the situations where you're overwhelmed or sometimes just frozen in place, you need that person to come alongside, to pick you up, to encourage you.

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    That's what small groups are all about-- fellowship.

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    Pray as a small group about our trials and send each other scripture verses and ask questions.

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    And then when someone else is going through difficulties, hey, that's my time.

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    It's my time to encourage that person.

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    So it's really a key thing I use because we as Christians need to use one another.

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    The second way you can fellowship with God and His Word during a trial is pray the Bible.

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    This might sound a little weird, but, you know, and I'm totally stealing this from Jeff.

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    He brought this up in the last prayer meeting we had as a congregation, and even before that there was another time that is, you know, job stress, you know, old story.

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    But he told me about this method.

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    What we can do is pray the Bible.

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    And it's phenomenal that not only will you fellowship deeply with God, but this is a way to potentially change your prayer life.

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    The idea is that you take a passage or a verse or a chapter, say Psalms, and you read verse by verse, and after each verse, you take that truth that God's revealed to you and you pray about it.

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    So for instance, Psalm 23, the first verse is, "The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want." Something we, most of us are familiar with, right?

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    But imagine you're in a situation when you're under financial stress or you're eager about some incoming layoffs you heard about at your job.

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    Well, you can pray something like this, "Lord, you are my shepherd.

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    You provide everything I need.

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    I'm anxious about my finances or my job, but thankful that you've blessed me thus far with work.

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    And I know you will provide despite things not looking well, and I ask you to still my anxiety." You know, something like that, something simple.

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    And then you go on to the next verse, and so on and so forth.

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    And it's a double whammy.

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    You're gleaning wisdom from God, and you're praying about it at the same time.

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    This leads me to my final point.

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    wisdom brings us closer to God. The second part of verse 28 is, "And to turn away from evil is understanding." You see, we can seek God's wisdom in our trials, read scripture and pray about it. But if we don't submit to His wisdom, take it to heart and act upon it, it's just head knowledge. In this verse, it explicitly mentions turning away from evil as being understanding.

    Mike Wolski:

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    In the early verse in Proverbs 9.10, understanding is the knowledge of the Holy One.

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    Basically, it comes down to God's character, understanding and mimicking that.

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    Once we have some biblical wisdom, what would cause us to turn away from evil?

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    Well, it's part of God's character, right?

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    He is holy, and he abhors sin and evil.

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    And we can know that because as we're revering God, we gain wisdom into His character.

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    As we glean more and more from God and His wisdom, we'll understand more and more on how to act in and outside of trials.

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    How we can put on His righteousness daily in our lives.

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    I can speak for myself that when I turned my life over to Christ, my understanding of God grew exponentially.

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    what He was like, what He's commanded me to do, how I should act.

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    All wisdom from Him.

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    Most importantly, I drew closer to Him.

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    And I would urge you that if you haven't trusted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, a lot of this won't make sense.

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    Because 1 Corinthians 1:18-2:14, Paul talks about how we have a new heart in Christ, That Christ is the wisdom of God.

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    That His Spirit that dwells in us is what reveals God's wisdom to us.

    Mike Wolski:

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    So how can you get God's wisdom or draw closer to Him if you don't have that?

    Mike Wolski:

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    You might look to the Bible for advice or throw some prayers out.

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    But if you want a relationship with your Creator, you need to submit to Him, revere Him.

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    Only then will you have biblical wisdom and understanding of God's character.

    Mike Wolski:

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    I know getting started with seeking wisdom during a trial is a hard thing.

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    It's natural to feel deflated, beaten up, and tired.

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    Like what's the point?

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    Or here we go again.

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    Why now?

    Mike Wolski:

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    Why is this repeating?

    Mike Wolski:

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    For some of you, it can get to a point where you don't even know if God cares.

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    Job was at that point.

    Mike Wolski:

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    He had a really hard time understanding if God truly loved him.

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    I think when we're starting out, it's easy to push blame on God.

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    We look at Him as He's an almighty deity.

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    How could He possibly understand our plights? He doesn't need money.

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    There's a lot of things on this earth that don't even apply to God, right?

    Mike Wolski:

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    Well, He does understand our plights. He does understand our trials.

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    He came to this earth as a man, being fully God and fully man.

    Mike Wolski:

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    You know, Jesus experienced every bit of humanity we have-- pain, compassion, happiness, sorrow.

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    And he underwent the ultimate trial, quite literally.

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    He was sold out, taken without reason, sentenced to die, mocked, beaten, spat upon, and crucified.

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    And while we look to his death as a terribly painful, horrendous event, nothing compares to the trial he faced being separated from the Father.

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    To have God turn away his face from him while he bore the entire weight of sin upon himself.

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    That is a trial none of us could face.

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    And he did that for us.

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    So does God care?

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    Does he understand our plights?

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    Of course he does.

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    You know, Amanity has been sinning since the dawn of time, constantly rejecting God for generations.

    Mike Wolski:

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    I have a daughter who's a little over three years old now, and there are times when she can be the sweetest little girl.

    Mike Wolski:

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    You know, just watching her grow up, just things click in her brain, her understanding of the world.

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    And I love those times.

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    But there's other times where she's rebellious, mannered and just...

    Mike Wolski:

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    And I think every parent who's ever lived or people who have been around little kids know how fiendish they can be.

    Mike Wolski:

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    But when you think you're having a trial with your kid or your kids, what about God? He has 8 billion kids that all act that way. So yeah, even God the Father understands our trials.

    Mike Wolski:

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    You know, for Job and his friends, understanding this, that was a hard lesson for them.

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    His friends were giving Job the wrong counseling because their wisdom was not speaking the truth about God.

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    God even condemns them later on in chapter 42, verse 7, saying the same things.

    Mike Wolski:

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    "You're not speaking truth about me." They had a wrong view about Job, the situation, God's character, and his justice.

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    Their wisdom was faulty.

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    At the beginning I asked you all, who's the smartest person you know and who's the wisest person you know?

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    And again, reflecting back on that wise person, is their wisdom biblical?

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    Would you say it matches God's definition?

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    Do they seek wisdom apart from God or do they fear the Lord, revere Him, and understand their wisdom must foundationally lie within Him?

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    Those are the people we need to draw towards in trials.

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    You know, I said the best source for wisdom himself. That's true, but there are also many Christians who fear the Lord and have gleaned God's wisdom. They're a great source for counseling and advice, and they align with God's biblical standards. You know, here at Harvest we have elders and a prayer team. Those folks are exactly like that. They're fearful and reverent of the Lord. And I would encourage you to speak with them after service and use their wisdom to bolster your own.

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    If you're going through a trial right now, why continue to waste time on Google?

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    Or asking the world what they think about your trial?

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    And if you're not plugged into a small group, you can find all the information about the locations, the times, and the leaders online at our website.

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    And I urge you to take that step.

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    Life happens during the remaining 167 hours in the week.

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    When you're praying, try praying the Bible.

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    See how the verses come alive and directly impact you during a trial.

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    How biblical truths can calm your heart and encourage you that God is with you and He does care.

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    Seeking wisdom during a trial can be a tough thing.

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    Many of those big questions I mentioned earlier can be life changing.

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    We'd like to hear things that comfort us, but it might not be what we need.

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    I hope this message encourages you to seek God for your wisdom.

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    It cannot be found apart from Him.

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    It is only found in Him.

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    And as you glean from His wisdom, you'll draw closer to Him.

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    Let's pray.

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    Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your Word.

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    We thank You for the church body.

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    We thank You for our congregation.

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    and all the wisdom that is contained within your Scriptures.

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    We thank You that You have Your Word and that we as Christians can turn to You in prayer and in Scripture to understand Your wisdom more and more.

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    That during our trials, we have a strong comfort in You and in Your Son Jesus Christ.

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    And I thank You for Harvest just the different groups, small groups, prayer team, our elders, all just full of your biblical wisdom that we can turn to and seek during our trials, Lord.

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    We might not always understand why You're putting us through a difficult situation.

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    Even years after, we might not understand.

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    But we know that we can seek wisdom from you, Lord.

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    That it can't be found apart from you, that it's only found with you.

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    And as we strive more and more towards you, that we will get closer to you.

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    We thank you especially for your son, Jesus Christ, and the redemption through him, Lord.

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    And that you've defined Jesus Christ as wisdom, that his spirit that dwells in us reveals Your wisdom to us.

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    We're just so humbled to be surrounded by these truths, Lord.

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    We thank You, God.

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    We pray this in Your Son Jesus' name.

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    Amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read Job 28:20-28

  1. Where do you typically go first for your 'wisdom' during a trial?

  2. Why do you think Christians struggle with seeking God for wisdom first?

  3. What’s the worst advice you’ve received? Now applying biblical wisdom, how would that advice change [i.e. slight alteration, 180-degrees]?

  4. What has been the most difficult piece of biblical wisdom you’ve received? [i.e. forgiveness, just waiting, etc.]

  5. What is your go-to verse, chapter, book, etc. in God’s Word that has helped you out the most during a trial? What about that particular passage gives you comfort, guidance, etc.?

  6. What fellowship activities with God and His word have worked best for you during a trial?

  7. (For the sliding scale fans) On a scale of 1 <-> 10, how much do you enjoy sliding scale questions?

Breakout Questions:
Pray for one another.

Depression caused by Crisis

Review:


  1. Don't LISTEN to yourself.

    2. 4 Terrible Sermons after a Crisis (of any kind/degree):

    1. "I'm the ONLY one that has to deal with this!"

    2. "God doesn't CARE !"

    3. "God is not in CONTROL !"

    4. "I can't DEAL with this!"

    1 Corinthians 10:13 - No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.


  2. PREACH to yourself. (Job 1-2)

    3. 4 Truths to Preach to yourself after a Crisis:

    1. Nothing happens without God's PERMISSION . (Job 1:12, Job 2:6)

    2. Nothing is MINE . (Job 1:21)

    3. Nothing diminishes God's GOODNESS . (Job 1:21)

    4. Nothing God does is "EMPTY". (Job 1:22)

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  • 00:00-00:15

    We're continuing our series called "Defeating Depression." And just a quick review, we said that depression is a common and expected experience.

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    The issue is how do you deal with it?

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    Well, the answer and how we deal with it depends on what caused it, right?

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    You can't deal with all depression the same.

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    Different causes require different solutions.

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    And last week we talked about the most miserable person in the world.

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    Who's the most miserable person in the world?

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    A Christian who is in sin.

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    We saw in Ephesians 4 that you are grieving God's Holy Spirit.

    00:55-00:59

    You're acting against your very nature and identity in Jesus Christ.

    01:00-01:10

    The Apostle Paul told us in Ephesians 4, Christians, when it comes to our sin, we need to get serious and we need to get specific and we need to get strategic.

    01:11-01:12

    And through it all, we need to be secure.

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    and knowing that forgiveness has already been purchased for us through Jesus Christ.

    01:21-01:32

    But sometimes, church depression comes because we mishandle a hard or unpleasant event.

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    That's why the title of this message is "Depression Caused by Crisis." "Defeating Depression Caused by Crisis." Now when we say crisis, we're not just talking about like a plane crash or a hurricane that wipes out a town.

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    It can be that, but we're really talking about any hard event that we deal with.

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    Let's play a game of Shout It Out.

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    Tell me some hard events that Christians go through, that everyone goes through, that might cause depression.

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    What are some events that we go through that can cause depression?

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    Job loss, right? Job loss.

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    You know, you're the provider for your family, and you're working and you're earning, and suddenly you find out your position is being terminated.

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    Certainly a cause for depression.

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    What else?

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    Death of a family member. Right.

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    That was actually at the top of my list.

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    You know, a family member passing away.

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    Certainly an occasion for depression.

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    What else?

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    I'll tell you what I have on my list.

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    Death.

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    Obviously, death of a loved one.

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    Illnesses.

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    Not just yourself, but if you've ever walked through an illness with a loved one.

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    Children leaving the home.

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    Maybe it's a bad accident.

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    Maybe it is a vehicle accident or some type of an accident at work that causes injury.

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    Maybe it's divorce.

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    A very hard, unpleasant event that causes injury.

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    The church has not been exempt from.

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    Maybe it's retirement.

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    Maybe it's very personal.

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    Maybe it's something like criticism.

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    Maybe somebody just really came down on you hard for something and unjustly and harshly criticized you.

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    Maybe there was an event where you felt rejected.

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    And last but certainly not least, maybe you just feel overwhelmed.

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    Maybe you just feel like there's so much happening in my life right now, I just can't even wrap my brain around it.

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    Like what's happening at work and what's happening at home and now there's all this stuff happening in the church and it's just too much.

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    I want you to know that none of these events actually cause depression.

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    Did you know that?

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    You can't say that these things really cause depression because many people have experienced some of these circumstances without becoming depressed.

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    So a better way of saying this is these are occasions for depression, but they're not causes of depression.

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    Does that make sense?

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    that would mean if one of these things happens to happen to you, then you have no choice but to be depressed, cause and effect. That's not true. These are occasions for depression.

    05:25-06:08

    They're not causes of depression, but these are occasions, church, where we often find ourselves in depression. Depression is caused by a person's response to an event in their life, not the event itself, because it's all about the reaction. I want you to write this mathematical formula down. Write this formula down. Event plus interpretation equals equals response.

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    I'm going to say that again.

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    Event plus interpretation equals response.

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    Let's face it.

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    Bad stuff is going to happen to all of us.

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    True or false?

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    Truth.

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    So event - that's going to happen.

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    That's in the bag.

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    If you're here this morning and you're like, "Event's not in my equation." Well, I'm coming to live with you in your little fantasy world where the fondue pot's probably always on, I'm coming to live with you.

    06:45-06:47

    We all deal with hard events.

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    But the event plus the interpretation - see, that's the variable.

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    It's the interpretation of the event.

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    That's what leads to the response.

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    It's not just the event that leads to the response, it's the interpretation that goes with it, meaning this, interpreting an event with a biblical perspective leads someone to handle it biblically.

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    Which will result in growing spiritually.

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    But having an unbiblical perspective is going to lead someone to handle the event unbiblically, using worldly wisdom, leading to a number of other problems, including depression.

    07:41-07:53

    So as we talk about crisis, tragedy, heart event, whatever you want to call it, how does a crisis bring about depression?

    07:56-07:59

    But we seem to replay the event over and over in our minds, don't we?

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    Think of a hard time that you've gone through.

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    Maybe some of you are going through something right now.

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    Here's what you're doing.

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    You have it on loop in your brain.

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    Whether it was a conversation that took place or an accident that took place or an illness.

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    As you're playing this over and over in your mind, you're asking yourself, "Why did this happen?

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    stopped it. Why did he say that? What am I going to do? Where do I go from here?

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    This is eventually what brings someone to the point of depression, because you've sold yourself on a hopeless, unbiblical evaluation. You see in your little math formula there, if your interpretation is wrong. More than likely, you're going to be depressed. If your interpretation of an event is wrong, more than likely you're going to be depressed. So on your outline, defeating depression caused by crisis.

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    This is real simple today.

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    There's two things you need to do, and the first one is don't listen to yourself.

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    But secondly, you need to preach to yourself.

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    Stop listening to yourself and start preaching to yourself.

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    Like, what do you mean by that?

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    Well, the truth of the matter is everyone in this room is a preacher.

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    Everyone.

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    And when you go through a crisis.

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    You're going to be preaching to yourself, but the question is, what sermon are you're going to preach to yourself? So. Don't. First of all, don't listen to yourself.

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    Meaning this. I'll jot these down. These are four terrible sermons after a crisis.

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    Do you know what I mean by a terrible sermon?

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    You know what I mean by that?

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    I am so delighted you guys are like, no, I have no idea what you mean by a terrible sermon, but just that does my heart good.

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    Terrible sermon.

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    What is this you speak of?

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    Four terrible sermons after a crisis of any kind, any degree, pick one.

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    These are the terrible sermons that you're preaching to yourself that you need to stop listening to.

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    And here's the first one.

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    You've gone through a crisis, you've gone through a hard event.

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    First thing you say is this, I'm the only one that has to deal with this.

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    I'm the only one that's ever had to deal with this.

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    That's certainly how it feels, doesn't it?

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    I'm so alone.

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    I can't talk to anybody about this problem I'm going through because nobody understands.

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    Nobody understands.

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    Nobody could possibly understand what I'm going through.

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    I'm just...

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    We have two autistic children.

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    Like, who am I going to talk to about that?

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    Because your kids are so normal and perfect and sinless and everything is great at your house, but.

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    I feel so alone. Who would understand?

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    That's often a terrible sermon that we tell ourselves when we go through a crisis, I'm.

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    I'm a pioneer here, nobody's ever had to deal with this. Secondly, here's a terrible sermon.

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    God doesn't care.

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    God doesn't care.

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    I have prayed and I have fasted and I have nothing to show for it.

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    God could have fixed this, but he didn't.

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    He doesn't care.

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    That is a terrible sermon.

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    But there are people that are preaching that to themselves and gobbling up every word.

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    Stop it.

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    Let her see God is not in control.

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    Right, Levi? That's a terrible sermon.

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    We can agree with that, right?

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    That is a terrible sermon.

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    God is not in control.

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    You know, I hear what the preacher says at church about God, but you know what? My life is just a complete wreck right now.

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    And everything seems to be out of control.

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    And where's God when I need Him most?

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    It's hard for me to believe that there's an omniscient, omnipresent, omnipotent God in heaven, and I'm dealing with this.

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    Maybe God's not in control.

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    Maybe he's only partially in control.

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    Maybe he doesn't care.

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    Terrible sermons.

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    Then letter D.

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    "I can't deal with this.

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    This is the point of despair.

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    I just can't do it anymore.

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    You know what? I've tried to be strong.

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    I've tried to put on the brave face.

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    I've tried to wear the big boy pants walking through this.

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    I just can't do it anymore. I can't do it anymore.

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    And I've been waiting, and I'm done. I can't do it anymore.

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    I can't do this marriage anymore. I can't raise these kids anymore.

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    I can't deal with this illness anymore.

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    I can't deal with this stuff at work anymore. I just can't do it.

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    I'm done. I've had enough.

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    That is a terrible sermon.

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    And you're like, well, Pastor Jeff, can you possibly debunk those four sermons from the Bible?

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    And the answer is I can debunk those four sermons from one verse in the Bible.

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    And I put it on your outline. Look at your outline.

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    This is like one of the greatest verses in the Bible, Especially when we're dealing with this stuff.

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    Look at 1 Corinthians 10.13, okay?

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    We're done with the lies that we preach to ourselves.

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    This is God's truth.

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    And God's truth says none of the above are true.

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    1 Corinthians 10.13 says, "No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man." God is faithful and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation, He will also provide the way of escape that you may be able to endure it.

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    All four of those terrible sermons completely vetoed by one verse.

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    Look at it, it's all right there.

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    For the person that says, I'm the only one that has to deal with this.

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    God's word says, no temptation.

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    By the way, that word temptation can also be translated experience or adversity.

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    It doesn't just mean the word is perosmos.

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    It doesn't just mean like something enticing you to sin.

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    It means a hardship.

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    And you're saying, well, I'm the only one that has to deal with this and God's word says that no hardship, no adversity has overtaken you that is not common to man.

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    So we can get that one off the shelf immediately.

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    The stuff that I'm going through, guess what?

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    There are what?

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    Hundreds, thousands of people in this area dealing with the same thing.

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    The only one that has to deal with this.

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    Secondly, it says God, the bad sermon is God doesn't care.

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    But first Corinthians 10, 13 says that God is faithful.

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    God is faithful.

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    I'm going to talk more about that in a minute.

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    Letter C for the person that says, "God is not in control." God's Word says, "He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation, He will also provide the way of escape." Sounds like God's pretty much in control there to me. How about you?

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    You feel like the oven's getting hot?

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    Well, God has His hand on the thermometer.

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    I realize you're going through a hardship, but I am not going to let this get beyond a certain point.

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    I'm not going to let it.

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    God is in complete control.

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    And then the idea, I can't deal with this.

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    Look at the last phrase, that you may be able to endure it.

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    You can endure it, not in the flesh, but by God's Spirit.

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    This is one of the greatest verses in the Bible, but it's also so misquoted, and it's so poorly used.

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    Because here's what we do with this verse, Christians.

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    Somebody's going through a hardship and we're not sure what to say to them.

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    What do we say?

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    Well, you know the Bible says, "God doesn't give you anymore than you can handle." That is not what the Bible says. Okay? That is not what the Bible says.

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    By the way, that's lame anyways.

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    It's like God's up in heaven looking down.

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    He's like, "Well, Justin, I see how much you're capable of handling, And that is the exact amount of hardship I'm sending your way.

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    Thanks God.

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    That is not what the Bible says, at all.

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    In fact, Scripture would teach that God gives you much more than you're able to handle.

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    Why?

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    So you learn to depend on Him instead of your own strength, right?

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    You're going to walk through life like, "You know what, God?

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    Things have been pretty easy. I've been able to handle everything." And you know what?

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    Yeah, yeah, we've had a couple of minor things happen, but I've been able to figure that out.

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    I've been able to get through a couple of bumps on the road.

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    You don't need God for that.

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    But so many times in life we find ourselves in situations where it's God shows up or nothing.

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    That's where I'm at.

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    That's where if the Lord doesn't show up and deliver me, we've sunk.

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    If the Lord doesn't show up and give me strength, I'm not going to make it.

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    That's the place where God would have you, so that you learn to depend on Him and not yourself.

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    God doesn't give you any more than you can handle. Yes, He does.

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    The testimony of your life is not, "Look what I was able to manage, But God's grace carried me through seasons and trials.

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    I could not have survived on my own.

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    Those are four terrible sermons.

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    And instead, I want to leave you with this today, number two, preach, don't listen to yourself with those lame sermons, those lame, fleshly sermons.

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    Preach to yourself.

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    Open up your Bibles to the book of Job.

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    I preach to myself what?

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    Open up your Bibles to the book of Job.

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    Job, actually, the book of Psalms is right in the middle of your Bible and right before Psalms is the book of Job.

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    So if you go the middle of your Bible and take a left, you're in Job.

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    Church, if you're going to overcome depression, if you're going to allow the Lord to defeat depression in your life, you've got to learn to preach to yourself.

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    While you're turning to Job, I want to recap, I really wish we had the time to just like read the whole thing.

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    I want to recap chapter one, Job was this godly and wealthy man in the Old Testament And God declared before Satan, look at Job, there is no one like him on the earth.

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    And Satan, the accuser of the brethren, said to God, do you know why Job loves you, God?

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    It's because you're good to him.

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    That's why. But I'll tell you what, if you didn't give Job all this stuff, he would spit in your face.

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    He would turn his back on you.

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    The only reason Job loves you is because you give him stuff.

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    I mean, let's be honest.

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    That was the accusation that Satan made against God and against Job.

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    So God, in his sovereignty, allowed Satan to afflict Job.

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    But he said, you're not allowed to touch the man himself.

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    This is in chapter one, verse 12, "And the Lord said to Satan, behold, all that he has God is in your hand only against him.

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    Do not stretch out your hand.

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    God allowed this.

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    What did Satan do?

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    Well, in verses 13 through 19, Job lost his wealth.

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    His animals, his servants, and his children.

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    Job had to bury seven sons and three daughters.

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    It's almost hard to wrap your brain around, isn't it?

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    losing wealth.

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    How do you deal with that?

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    I remember getting fired up because somebody stole a lawnmower out of my driveway.

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    But imagine losing everything.

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    Everything!

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    Your bank account is zero.

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    That's bad enough.

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    That's crisis enough.

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    But then to lose your children?

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    hard enough to lose one child. No parent should have to go through that. But losing ten children at once. So what was Job's reaction? Look at chapter 1 verse 20. This was after he got all these reports, Job you've lost everything and your children are dead. It says, "Then Job arose and tore his robe and shaved his head." Those were signs of mourning. The Bible says, "And fell on the ground and," what does your Bible say? "Worshipped." What?

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    What?

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    He worshiped.

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    How can you worship at a time like this, Job?

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    You've just lost your children.

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    How can he?

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    How can I?

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    through a hardship, make worship the reaction.

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    Well, here's how you do it.

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    It takes preaching.

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    The truths of God's word to yourself, because I want to show you that's exactly what Job did.

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    And I would commend his sermons to you.

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    So four truths to preach to yourself after a crisis.

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    Anybody going through a crisis right now?

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    If you're not, you know what that means?

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    It just means you're between crises.

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    You're going to have one coming up.

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    So when that next crisis comes, this is the sermon, these are the four sermons you need to preach to yourself.

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    Your first sermon is called this.

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    Nothing happens without God's permission.

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    Nothing happens without God's permission.

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    We already read that chapter one, verse 12.

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    The Lord said Satan could afflict Job but not touch him personally.

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    Then look at chapter two and verse six.

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    Satan wasn't too fired up about Job's reaction of worship.

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    Appears before God again, verse chapter two, verse six, the Lord said to Satan, behold, he is in your hand.

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    only spare his life, meaning this.

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    Yeah, he still has his health.

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    Satan's like you take his health away, then he's really going to turn his back on you, God.

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    And the Lord says.

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    You can afflict his health, but you can't kill him.

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    But you have to see here one of the most amazing things that we learn about Job is the sovereignty of God.

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    The word sovereign means solely raised.

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    And we have an insight here that Job didn't even have.

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    We get this whole behind the scenes view of this conversation between Satan and God.

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    And as far as I can see from Scripture, Job didn't know this was going on.

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    Did he?

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    You have to see that Satan, while he is powerful, powerful enough to wipe out a man's wealth and family and his health.

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    Even though Satan is powerful, he does nothing without God's permission.

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    Did you know that?

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    Satan does nothing without God's permission.

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    It's not as if God's all fired up about this new Harvest Bible Chapel.

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    Where's that at?

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    Malaysia?

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    Yeah, so God's all fired up about Harvest Bible Chapel in Malaysia.

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    Satan's like, "Woohoo! This is my chance to attack, like, Harvest Bible Chapel Chattanooga.

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    This is my chance because God's not looking." And God turns around and he goes, "Well, how did I let that happen?" That's not how it goes.

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    Even for as wicked and powerful as Satan is, he does nothing without God's permission.

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    just talking about Satan, even broader than that, there is not a single event that happens in the universe that surprises God or that God is unaware of. God has said a lot in His Word, but there are some things that He has never said. One thing God has never said is Whoops. Whoops. Oh. Oh.

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    Dude, oh.

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    My bad.

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    He's never said that.

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    Something else God has never said is I don't know.

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    So you have to know, whatever trial you're going through, it wasn't like the captain stepped away from the wheel for a second.

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    God stepped away from being present in your life.

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    He promised to never leave you or forsake you.

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    So anything that happens, you have to know, is not taking God by surprise.

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    Letter B.

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    This is one of the hardest sermons you will ever preach to yourself.

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    It's just three words.

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    Nothing is mine.

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    Nothing is mine.

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    Here's how Job put it.

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    Look at verse 21.

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    Ok, so Job falls on his face and worships verse 21.

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    And he said, "Naked I came from my mother's womb, and naked shall I return." The Lord gave.

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    And the Lord has taken away.

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    That's really what causes depression.

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    Is the sense of loss, right?

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    Isn't that really what it boils down to?

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    I've lost something.

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    Somebody dies.

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    I've lost that person.

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    You're terminated from your job.

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    I've lost my source of income.

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    Health issues.

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    I've lost my health.

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    I've lost the time I could be doing other things.

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    Were I healthier?

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    If my family member were healthy, it's a sense of I lost, I lost, I lost.

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    I lost.

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    But if you get this sermon down, It will change everything.

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    And the sermon is this, nothing is mine.

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    We're getting near the end of the sermon now.

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    Is there anybody that's like hungry?

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    Anybody hungry?

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    Brooke, you're hungry.

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    Would you like your Rice Krispie Treat?

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    You like your Rice Krispie Treat?

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    Alright.

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    It just so happens that I have one.

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    I'm not going to get shocked if I walk in front of this thing, am I?

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    I sure hope not.

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    All right.

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    There you go.

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    Open it up.

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    Go ahead, take a bite.

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    It's good, isn't it?

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    Makes you happy, doesn't it?

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    Take another bite.

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    Good, isn't it?

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    Makes you happy, doesn't it?

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    All right, give it back.

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    That was depressing, wasn't it?

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    How many people would agree that that was depressing?

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    Now Brooke's sitting there going, I lost my Rice Krispie Treat.

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    It made me so happy.

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    It was good, wasn't it?

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    And now it's gone, and I lost it.

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    Brooke, did you walk in here this morning with a Rice Krispie Treat?

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    Are you walking out of here with a Rice Krispie Treat?

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    So really, what have you lost?

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    Did Brooke really lose anything?

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    If you think about it, she actually gained something, didn't she?

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    She had two bites of a Rice Krispie treat that none of the rest of you people had.

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    But that's what we do, isn't it?

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    Instead of saying, "I was blessed to have something for a while." "You know what, I'm sad that I lost this job, but it was a real blessing for me to be able to work there for a few years." or to have a child die.

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    The worst.

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    But to be able to say, even though life will never be the same, and even though it hurts, what a blessing it was for me to have that child in my life for a few years.

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    But the way that you get there is by preaching this sermon.

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    thing is mine. That Rice Krispie Treat was not hers. And she had the privilege of enjoying it for a few seconds and then it was gone. But the reason that's depressing is as soon as I handed it to her it was mine, mine, mine, mine, mine, mine, mine. Look at me, I'm entitled to a Rice Krispie Treat now. And we do that with the little things in our lives.

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    Everything that we have has been given to us by God. And oh how tightly we cling to to these things and are entitled to these things.

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    What did you bring into the world with you again?

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    Nothing, right?

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    None of you came into the world with like pockets.

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    Like make sure I get buried with this because I brought it with me.

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    That was Job's message here.

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    I came naked.

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    Guess how I'm leaving?

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    naked, I'm leaving with everything that I brought.

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    And everything that I handle in this life is just something the Lord entrusted to me for a season.

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    Anything I have was given to me, and I'm not keeping anything forever.

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    True or false?

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    Is there anything in this life that you will possess that you are keeping forever?

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    The answer is no.

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    Nothing is truly mine.

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    Nothing is mine.

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    Let's be thankful for the time God lets us have things in our hands.

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    We're not holding too tightly.

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    Nothing is mine.

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    or C. Nothing diminishes God's goodness.

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    Nothing diminishes God's goodness.

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    Look at the end of verse 21, Job says, "Blessed be the name of the Lord." Nothing diminishes God's goodness.

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    Question, is God more awesome when He gives or when He takes away?

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    What's the answer?

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    But we think He's more awesome when He gives.

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    We're thankful for the stuff that we have, and the job that we have, and the children that we have, and the health that we have.

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    And what happens when they're gone?

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    Question, does God change or do we change?

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    Is God fickle or are we fickle?

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    Is God only good when we are happy?

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    That's how we've learned to regard the Lord.

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    And that's how we need to unlearn to regard the Lord.

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    People show up at a prayer meeting, "Hey, praise the Lord, I got a job." "Praise the Lord, I got a car." Praise the Lord, you know, we just bought a house.

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    You hardly ever hear the person say, "Praise the Lord, I lost one of these things." Is he less worthy of praise in the hard times as he is in the good times?

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    Well, not according to Job.

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    In the face of the worst tragedy a human being can face.

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    You're like, we still had his wife, right?

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    And I'm like, have you ever read Job?

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    That was a joke, people.

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    That's better.

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    No, seriously, like read the rest of it.

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    Wonderful, godly advice from his wife.

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    Sarcasm off.

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    God's goodness does not depend on how we feel about our circumstances.

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    God's goodness does not depend on how we feel about our circumstances.

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    Us feeling the sting of the evil that temporarily shows its ugly face does not suddenly put the character of God on trial.

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    He didn't cause the mess, but by His grace He saved us from it.

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    And He is going to eternally clean it up someday soon.

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    So much of the mess that we find ourselves in is a result of sin.

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    And how dare we question God's goodness when He came to take our sin away, saving us from ourselves, With a promise in his word that he's going to come back and do the ultimate clean up someday soon.

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    And finally.

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    OK, nothing happens without God's permission, nothing is mine, nothing diminishes God's goodness, finally, nothing God does is empty.

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    Look at verse 22.

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    If our worship team would make their way forward, if the ushers want to come up as well.

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    Verse 22 says, "And all this Job did not sin or charge God with wrong." Interestingly, that word for wrong in the Hebrew is the word Tifle.

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    Do you know what the word Tifle literally means?

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    It literally means empty or frivolous.

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    Notice what it says about Job, he didn't charge God with doing something.

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    Frivolously, he didn't charge God with doing something that's empty.

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    Meaning this. God never does anything that someone can come alongside him and say, God, why did you do that? And he says. Because I felt like it, I don't know. Just something to do, I guess. God never does anything like that. You see, Joe realized. Even in the in the midst of tragedy.

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    God never does anything frivolously.

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    He never does anything empty.

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    And this is a glorious truth about God.

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    Everything He causes, everything He permits, everything He allows - whatever you want to call it - As we close here, you ask, "Well, that, yeah, I really believe that there's a reason for God doing some of the good stuff, but what about the hard stuff?" And as we close our service today, I'd like to remind you that God took the worst thing that ever happened in history and turned it into the best thing that's ever happened in history.

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    If I were to ask you, "What is the worst thing that could possibly happen on this planet?" Your answer would be, "Well, the worst thing that could happen on this planet is if somehow the God who created the planet became a man and lived with us, and we treated Him like garbage, and we spit on Him, and we humiliated Him, and we stripped His clothes off and publicly executed Him." That's like the worst thing that could ever happen.

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    That's exactly what did happen.

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    Our Creator God came to this earth, Jesus Christ, and instead of embracing our Creator, we killed Him.

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    But you know, the Bible says that God took that horrible circumstance, the worst thing that could have happened, and He used that to be the best thing that could have ever happened because it was the cross of Jesus Christ that became the means of our forgiveness.

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    It was on the cross that Jesus was bearing the penalty for my sin and He was suffering the wrath of God for my sin and for your sin.

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    God took the worst thing that could have happened and He used it to be the best thing that's ever happened.

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    The church - if He can make something eternally glorious out of the death of Jesus Christ, He can sure take this much lesser crisis that I'm going through and use it gloriously.

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    The cross - the reminder that we have in the Lord's Supper and communion that we're about to receive that God never does anything empty, but he specializes in turning a tragedy into a triumph.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read Job 1-2

  1. When facing a crisis, EVENT + INTERPRETATION = RESPONSE. How can you properly interpret an event? What are some wrong interpretations you need to avoid?
     

  2. What is wrong with the oft-­repeated counsel from Christians, “God doesn’t give you any more than you can handle? (Read 1 Corinthians 10:13)
     

  3. When Satan appeared before God, why do you think God initiated the conversation about Job’s uniqueness, blamelessness, and uprightness (Job 1:8)?

Breakout Questions:

Are there any hardships “causing” depression in your life? Share them and pray.