Guest Speaker

Living in Exile

Introduction:

Daniel 1

5 Responsibilities While We Are Away From Home:

  1. Maintain Perspective. (Dan 1:1-4)
    1. Heaven is our Home. (Dan 1:1)
    2. God is in Control. (Dan 1:2)
  2. Live as Undefiled. (Dan 1:5-8)

    Colossians 3:5-10

  3. Pray . (Dan 1:9, 2:17-18, 6:10)
    1. Pray for Wisdom
    2. Pray for Provision
    3. Pray for Leaders

Jeremiah 29:7 - But seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare.

  1. Test your Faith . (Dan 1:10-16)
  2. Do your Job . (Dan 1:17-21)

    Micah 6:8 | 1 Timothy 5:8 | Titus 3:1-2

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    There have been a lot of things said about home.

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    Home is where the heart is.

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    Home sweet home.

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    There's no place like home.

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    A man travels the world over in search of what he needs and returns home to find it.

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    Home is where one starts from.

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    Or the more cynical out there say, "Home is the place where when you have to go there, they have to take you in." or as my coworker's Skype message says, home is where the Wi-Fi connects automatically.

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    Whatever your definition of home, I think that most of us see home as a place where we wanna be.

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    And when we are away from our home, especially when we don't wanna be, we can get anxious or irritated.

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    Webster defines exile as the state of forced or voluntary absence from your home.

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    And there are many reasons that people go into exile.

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    Sometimes it's a form of punishment, like Napoleon.

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    He was exiled from France because he kept taking over Europe, which is frowned upon.

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    And Dante Alighieri, think like Dante's Inferno, he was exiled from Florence, Italy because he wouldn't support the current Pope.

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    And Nelson Mandela was exiled from the mainland of South Africa because he wouldn't accept the injustice of apartheid and he wouldn't keep his mouth shut.

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    So sometimes it's a form of punishment, Other times it's to flee punishment, like Benedict Arnold, who realized that America was not going to welcome him back, and so he went into self-exile.

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    Or how the Rolling Stones told England that you can't always get what you want, like nearly a decade of back taxes that they owed.

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    Sometimes people go into exile to avoid danger, like Albert Einstein went into exile from Germany because the Nazi form of Jewish science was not something that he wanted to be a part of.

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    And the current Dalai Lama is an exile from Tibet because China doesn't share power very well.

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    Sometimes it's to avoid danger, but other times the danger is unavoidable.

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    Like Louis Zamperini from The Unbroken Story, which is an amazing story of heroism.

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    But he was the Olympian-turned-Army air bomber who was taken captive as a Japanese prisoner during World War II the Pacific Ocean. Or you go into exile because of unavoidable danger like the heroes in our story here in Daniel chapter 1. Today we are going to look at this example of how to live well while in exile. So our story begins as Judah, the southern kingdom of ancient Israel, falls into captivity at the hands of the Babylonians. And to orient us in time, we're looking at the last days of the earthly Jewish kings around 600 years before Christ.

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    And I selected this text at least in part because our main characters are some of my most favorite people recorded in the Bible.

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    First, we see Daniel, of whom I am a namesake, and his friends.

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    These boys were likely only teenagers when they were captured and yet we still talk about them today as incredible examples of faith.

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    Second, we get King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon.

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    I have decided that he is the first non-family person that I plan to find when I get to heaven.

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    I just find him very entertaining in the whole book of Daniel, but here in our story today, he doesn't really do all that much exciting.

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    But Nebuchadnezzar does kickstart our story.

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    So let me read verses one through four.

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    "In the third year of the reign of Jehoiakim, "king of Judah, Nebuchadnezzar, king of Babylon, came to Jerusalem and besieged it.

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    And the Lord gave Jehoiakim king of Judah into his hand.

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    And with some of the vessels of the house of God, he brought them to the land of Shinar, to the house of his God, and placed the vessels in the treasury of his God.

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    Then the king commanded Ashpenaz, the chief eunuch, to bring some of the people of Israel, both of the royal family and of the nobility, youths without blemish, of good appearance, and skillful in all wisdom, endowed with knowledge, understanding, learning, and competent to stay in the king's palace and to teach them literature and the language of the Chaldean.

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    When Nebuchadnezzar captured Jerusalem, he took the best prize of the stuff and he took the smartest and brightest youth from Jerusalem.

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    This is how Daniel and his friends and many others were taken into exile to Babylon.

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    So you might rightly ask, "Why do we need to learn how to live in exile?" I think it's very reasonable for you to maintain some healthy skepticism of how I'm going to make the concept of exile applicable to our lives.

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    I mean, in our modern age, what kind of exile could we possibly face?

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    Well, I would like to suggest to you that there are several types of exile that we do actually face.

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    First, on a cosmic scale, as Christians, while we live on this earth, we are away from our true home, which is in heaven.

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    Having been born in a foreign land, we await a day when we will first arrive in our true country.

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    This is macro-level exile that affects all who profess Christ as Lord and Savior.

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    And second, on a personal level, any one of us may find ourselves, whether at work or at school or even in our own families, as the only believer in sight.

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    In this micro-sense, we are in exile in the foreign world around us of people unwilling or unable to understand our desire to serve Christ.

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    Lastly, there is a mid-level exile that specifically applies to us as American Christians.

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    We find ourselves in a country that is becoming increasingly foreign to us, and not in a xenophobic sense, but in a way where we see the fundamental principles and values of our country's founding eroding away with each generation.

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    This type of exile leaves us as strangers in a strange land.

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    So as we look at Daniel, Think of whatever form of exile to which you can most relate.

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    The Apostle Paul reminds us all that we are ambassadors for Christ.

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    And with that in mind, it is my hope that you will learn from Daniel's example of how to live well while in exile.

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    This past fall, I spent two weeks in Thailand, and two weeks is the longest I had ever been away from Alicia in our marriage, and the longest I had ever been away from any of my girls since they had been alive.

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    But when you go to a foreign country, there are certain responsibilities that you have.

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    Like, I had to have my passport with me anywhere that I went.

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    Or I had to check in regularly with my family to see how they were doing and to get up to speed on what was going on.

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    Or this one, which I failed, which was to not bring my work phone to Hong Kong.

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    Oops.

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    But wherever you go, there's always certain responsibilities that you have to do while you're away from home.

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    So today we are going to look at five responsibilities while we are away from home in exile.

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    And there's definitely some overlap with these points.

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    This isn't so much as a five-step plan, but as tools for us to consider as ambassadors for Christ.

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    So our first responsibility in our exile is to maintain perspective.

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    Maintain perspective.

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    Look, let's face it, exile sounds pretty bleak.

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    was really only a boy when he was taken from his holy homeland by pagan oppressors, taken from everyone and everything that he ever knew. He had no real hope of ever returning home and as far as we know he never did. Similarly, it would be easy for us in our exile to say to hell with this world, get me to heaven now, forget about everything else going on.

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    We could look at our godless work environment, keep our head down, put our nose to the grindstone and just collect our paychecks, ignoring those around us.

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    Or we could pine about the good old days in our country and cynically fantasize about moving to Australia or something, depending on the results of the next election.

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    But Daniel reminds us that we have a higher calling.

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    We must maintain perspective of at least two things.

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    We must remember A, that heaven is our home, and B, God is in control.

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    Well, how did Daniel do this?

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    Look back at verses one and two.

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    As the author of this book, Daniel includes two important details.

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    In verse one, he reminds himself and informs us that he is from Jerusalem.

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    No matter where he goes, no matter what happens to him, he is from Jerusalem.

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    We too need to be regularly reminded that our true home is in heaven.

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    Wherever we currently spend our time, whatever goes on around us, heaven is our home.

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    This is a great comfort, but we don't need to wait for heaven to live as if we are already there.

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    Jesus told us, "Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand." The perspective that heaven is our home gives us hope for the future, yes, but it also gives us great purpose for right now.

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    The other detail that Daniel included is in verse 2.

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    He recorded for us that God is in control in the midst of what looked like chaos.

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    Daniel makes it very clear that it was the Lord's hand that gave Jehoiakim and Nebuchadnezzar's hand.

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    Remarkably, God was in control during this Babylonian captivity.

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    With this fact understood, Daniel can move past the doubtful question of why is this happening, Lord, to the faithful response that says, "Behold, I am a servant of the Lord.

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    "Let it be to me according to your word." If we want to live well in our exile, we have to see God's hand in every situation which we find ourselves. We must know that for those who love God, all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. We must trust him with all of our circumstances, even those beyond our ability to control or understand. Our perspective about God makes all the difference, right? Small God, big problems. Big God, and our problems get small. So our first responsibility in exile is to maintain perspective. Secondly, in exile we are to live as undefiled. Let's read verses 5 through 8. The king assigned them a daily portion of the food that the king ate and of the wine that he drank. They were to be educated for three years and at the end of time they were to stand before the king. Among these were Daniel, Hananiah, Meshach, Azariah of the tribe of Judah. And the chief of the eunuchs gave them names. Daniel he called Belteshazzar, Hananiah he called Shadrach, Meshach he called Meshach, and Azariah he called Abednego. But Daniel resolved that he would not defile himself with the king's food or with the wine that he drank. Therefore, he asked the chief of eunuchs to allow him not to defile himself." This is the part where I had this whole thing planned out for Justin or Jeff, but neither of them are here.

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    So I'll just skip past that and get on to the real part of the situation.

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    Because we spent our time in Thailand, there were long stretches where we spoke only in puns, so I'll save you from those terrible dad jokes.

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    But let's recap Daniel's situation.

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    Daniel and his friends are taken into captivity.

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    They're renamed with Babylonian equivalents of their names.

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    And over the next three years, they were to be educated and indoctrinated in Babylonian culture.

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    Nebuchadnezzar was no dummy.

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    He took the best and brightest from each of the very different tribes that he ruled, and he would take care of all their needs and make them as smart as possible, all for the low price of Babylonian conformity.

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    The king very effectively consolidated the collective genius of the lands that he conquered and repackaged it in his image.

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    Political genius.

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    Daniel understood this political strategy or not, he resolved to not defile himself with the king's food or wine. So what's the big deal with this food and wine? Well, for these Jewish boys, there were at least two problems. First, with all the cleanliness laws and dietary restrictions, it was almost certain that this food was unclean and would inherently be not permitted by Mosaic law. Now that they were 500 miles away from the temple, which is the only place that they could get clean, they had a strong incentive to avoid unnecessary unrighteous acts.

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    The other problem is that this food and drink was likely devoted to idols.

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    In Exodus, before they entered the promised land, God had specifically warned his people that eating this food and engaging in idolatry would result in the people getting kicked out of the promised land, which is exactly what is being passed on to Daniel and his friends right here.

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    Daniel and his friends determined that this was the line that they would not cross.

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    With this stance on food, these boys were going to maintain their identity as God's holy people and their commitment to him.

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    See, compromise in and of itself is not wrong.

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    'Cause other than this food thing, these guys were pretty agreeable with the demands of captivity.

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    In his commentary on the book of Daniel, David Gozick points out that Daniel did not object to the name given to him because he knew who he was and people could call him what they wanted.

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    He did not object to Babylonian education because he knew what he believed.

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    But Daniel did object to the food from the king's table because eating it was a direct disobedience to God's word.

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    Each of us needs to decide before God and in accordance with his word, how are we going to keep ourselves from being defiled by the broken world in which we live?

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    What boundaries are we going to place upon ourselves to keep us from sin?

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    God commands us be holy because he is holy.

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    Holiness sounds complicated, but it can be simple enough to understand.

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    To be holy means to be set apart for a purpose.

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    And the Aero students already know where I'm going with this because my favorite example of holiness is a toothbrush.

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    And a toothbrush can do lots of things, right?

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    Like it can rub crayon marks off your walls, it can massage your cuticles, and it can scrub the tile grout on your bathroom floor.

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    And of course it can clean your teeth.

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    However, there is a very holy assignment to my toothbrush.

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    It can only be used to clean my mouth.

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    And if it were ever used for one of these less holy purposes, it would be unable to serve its primary duty any longer.

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    In fact, most people consider their personal toothbrush so holy that it must be thrown away if another person were to use it, or even if a stink bug were to land on it.

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    So our toothbrush can teach us about holiness because it is set apart for a very exclusive purpose.

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    In the same way, we are called to be holy, set apart to be God's ambassadors in this world. It is his desire that our lives would reflect his word in our actions, words, and thoughts. This is a very high calling, but thanks be to our gracious God that he has cleansed us from all our defiling deeds, past, present, and future. The blood of Christ is able to wash us white as snow to go from being an object that should be thrown away to the holy vessel which is set apart to do its holy job. The washing comes from God. That's his part. That's his job. Our job is once clean to stay clean. And even when we do defile ourselves with sin, to quickly repent and act like what we really are as God's undefiled servants. The Bible talks about this everywhere. But I'll just bring up Colossians 3 which says, "Put to death therefore whatever belongs to your earthly nature, sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires, and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. You used to walk in these ways in the life you once lived, but now you must also rid yourselves of such things as these.

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    Anger, rage, malice, slander, filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to each other since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in the knowledge and the image of its Creator. Put off and put to death the old, put on the new. We must stop defiling ourselves by acting like the sinful world around us. We must flee from the things and places that we know will distract and degrade our holy calling.

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    This is critical in our state of exile. If we look the same as everyone else, how will they see our God? If we go along with the current of this world, we will be swept out to the sea of hell. Or even if we are saved, when we go with the flow we are in no position to save others who are caught in the current.

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    So, our second responsibility is to live as undefiled. Number three, we must pray.

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    Look at verse 9, "And God gave Daniel favor and compassion in the sight of the chief of eunuchs. So at this point you should rightly call me out for cheating, because at no point in this passage does it say anything about prayer, and that is very true and we should never read anything into the text that's not there. However, Daniel lived in exile for a very long time, and I only have this one sermon to preach these points, so if you bear with my spygate of future chapters of Daniel, I think this point will make itself. If you read through the book of Daniel, which we're not gonna do today, you will very clearly see that Daniel is a man of prayer.

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    In chapter two, Nebuchadnezzar has a dream that he wants interpreted, but he's not willing to share what the dream is, a nearly impossible task.

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    In verses 17 and 18, Daniel gathered his friends together to pray for an answer from God, and their prayers were answered very quickly that night.

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    And Daniel gets the interpretation of the dream.

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    Later on in chapter six, when jealous political rivals sought to disqualify Daniel, the only thing that they could trap him in was that he would not stop praying to God.

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    Prayer is actually what sent him to the lion's den.

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    So knowing how dedicated Daniel was to prayer, I find it very reasonable to claim that Daniel prayed here in chapter one somewhere in verses eight and nine.

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    See, Daniel's resolve not to defile himself came from his relationship with God.

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    For him to have the wisdom and commitment take this stance as one so young, he must have spent some time with God in prayer. And God's answer was to give Daniel favor with his captor, and God gave Daniel favor and compassion in the sight of the chief of eunuchs. This entire situation happened as the result of prayer.

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    For us, we often turn to prayer as a last resort. I guess all we can do is pray, And here at Harvest, we know that that is a terrible thing to say.

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    Instead, we like to say the best thing that we can do is pray.

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    And that's especially true when we are in exile.

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    The only way in which we would be successful in doing any of these other four responsibilities is if we are connected to the source of our strength.

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    We must speak with God openly and often, because our exile is far more spiritual than it is physical.

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    So we must face these spiritual problems with spiritual solutions.

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    And in Ephesians, the Apostle Paul encourages us to put on the spiritual armor of God and to face the spiritual forces of darkness in this world. As he goes through each piece of the armor, he ends by telling us that each one is put on with prayer.

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    So we must pray as we are in our exile, but what should we pray for?

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    Well, the simple answer is everything.

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    But here are some starting points. A, we should ask for wisdom. The book of James tells us that when we ask God for wisdom, he will give it to us generously. He did that for Solomon, he did that for Christ, and he certainly did that here for Daniel and throughout this entire book.

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    We must ask God for how to navigate in this world in a way that honors him. Yes, we have his word, but prayer is the process of applying the principles of the Bible into the individual decisions that we make on a day-to-day basis. So first, ask for wisdom. Second, we need to ask for provision. In the Lord's Prayer, we are to ask, "Give us, Lord, our daily bread." This is daily and it is basic. We have needs and God has unlimited resources to meet them.

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    It is a matter of trusting him every day that he will continue to provide. Right here, Daniel receives literal provision through the vegetarian meal selection.

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    In our exile, we need to ask ourselves if we trust God to provide for us every day.

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    Do we trust God to provide for this world that seems so against him?

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    Do we trust God to provide for our workplace or our school or our family?

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    Do we trust God to provide for our country? Ask for wisdom, ask for provision, and lastly, pray for leaders. Right before the very popular verse, Jeremiah 29 11, in verse 7, God gives an interesting command that I'm not sure I remember reading before. It says, "But seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare." Daniel worked for at least four pagan kings, and most of them thought very highly of Daniel. And this wasn't because he always did or said what they wanted.

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    This was because God gave Daniel favor with these leaders. Through Daniel's prayers, God extended favor to Daniel and to these kings. Well, at least the kings had favor whenever they humbly listened to God's warnings. But when we face the difficulties of our exile, How often are we praying for our bosses or our teachers or our difficult family members?

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    How often are we praying for our president and our government officials, whether they're elected or appointed, whether they're federal or local?

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    Our Harvest Prayer Services are a great opportunity to gather as a community and do exactly that.

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    Because no matter what the situation is that we face, the answer is to pray.

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    So it is our responsibility to pray while we live in exile.

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    Our fourth responsibility in exile is to test your faith.

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    Let's continue reading verses 10 through 16.

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    And the chief of the eunuchs said to Daniel, "I fear my Lord, the King, "who assigned your food and your drink, "for why should he see that you were in worse condition "than the youths who are of your own age?

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    "So you would endanger my head with the King." Then Daniel said to the steward of whom the chief of the eunuchs had assigned over Daniel, "and I am Mishael and Azariah.

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    "Test your servants for these 10 days.

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    "Let us be given vegetables to eat and water to drink.

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    "Then let our appearance and the appearance "of the youths who eat the king's food "be observed by you and deal with your servants "according to what you see." So he listened to them in this matter and tested them for 10 days.

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    At the end of the 10 days, it was seen that they were better in appearance and fatter in flesh than the youths who ate the king's food.

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    So the steward took away their food and the wine that they were to drink gave them vegetables. Though he does like Daniel, the steward in charge of him also likes his own head. And he's worried that if he lets these four skip out on the normal food, then it will be him that suffers if they fall behind in health. Daniel simply responds with the request to give it a try. In his combined boldness and reasonableness, Daniel is able to convince his caretaker to try his plan. This again reflects Daniel's wisdom and trust in God. For us, there are moments when after we have mentally prepared to maintain the right perspective, we have resolved to stay undefiled, and we have been spiritually nourished through prayer, after we have done all these things, we still need to be willing to put our money where our mouth is. We need to test God at his word. And the Bible is filled with examples of this, but the analogy that I always think of is the levels of faith as shown by a chair. If we look at this chair, we could say, "Will the chair hold my weight?" And the first level of faith is intellectual agreement. I could sit there and say, "Well, the chair looks like it's made out of strong materials. It appears to be holding everyone else in the room in their similar chairs, so it could probably hold my weight." The first level is intellectual agreement. The second level of faith is evidence-based conclusion. This is where we, this is where we measure whether this chair has the strength of materials. I could take tests on the metals and determine, yes, this chair can hold this much weight with it all assembled this way. Or I can look over there and say it's clearly holding Darren, so if it can hold Darren, then it can hold me. This is an evidence-based conclusion. But the third level of faith about whether this chair can hold my weight is what? Sit down in it. And so when I sit in this chair, I show that I really have this action-oriented commitment to my faith that the chair can hold me. And when we live in this third level of faith, we must live in the obedience to God, which includes repentance when we screw up. It is not just enough to know God's word and to commune with Him in prayer. At some point, we must act upon our faith and test God at his word. If we know that this dark world is in desperate need of Christ, will we test that by sharing Christ with others? If we know that love is a more excellent way, will we test that by sacrificially loving those difficult family members, coworkers, or classmates? So as we live in exile, we must test our faith.

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    And very similar to this is the last point.

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    When you live in exile, you must do your job.

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    Let me finish the chapter.

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    As for these four youths, God gave them learning and skill in all literature and wisdom.

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    And Daniel had understanding in all visions and dreams.

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    At the end of the time when the king had commanded that they should be brought in, the chief of the eunuchs brought them before Nebuchadnezzar.

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    And the king spoke with them.

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    And among all of them was none found like Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah.

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    Therefore they stood before the king, and in every matter of wisdom and understanding about which the king inquired of them, he found them ten times better than all the magicians and enchanters that were in all his kingdom.

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    And Daniel was there until the first year of King Cyrus." See God is faithful in Daniel's faithfulness.

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    And the food test proved successful.

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    In fact, the boys looked so much better than the rest that the guard agreed to continue giving them only vegetables and water for the remainder of their three years of training.

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    And while this is a testimony to God's faithfulness, I actually think that these last few verses are an even better testimony.

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    Daniel worked hard for the remainder of his life.

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    God continued to bless Daniel and his friends through God extending grace to them.

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    Daniel lived a pretty amazing life.

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    interpreted crazy dreams. He predicted events hundreds of years into the future with incredible precision. In fact, so much precision that that's what the Book of Daniel is criticized for. It's too accurate. It couldn't have possibly been written before these events happened. And he saw visions of revelation that have yet to come. And for most of his adult life, he served in positions of near supreme authority. And even Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, they stood in the fiery furnace with the pre-incarnate Christ and saw God's faithful deliverance there. These guys did not waste their exile. They served Nebuchadnezzar in spite of his character. A pagan king who ransacked the temple and kidnapped Daniel and his friends and he likely killed members of their family. On top of that he's married to a foreign woman and who knows how faithful he was.

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    Nebuchadnezzar was an emotional powder keg and really used to blast out proclamations from the ancient equivalent of Twitter. He certainly didn't act very kingly.

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    People would say, "He's not my king." Sounds like familiar criticism, right?

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    Yet in all of that, Daniel served him anyway, and he was greatly blessed by his obedience to God and being an approved workman and a good citizen. We cannot take a holier-than-thou position when it comes to engaging in the world we live in. We must do our job like Daniel. And he's not unlike some of the famous exiles that I mentioned at the beginning. During his first exile, Napoleon created a plot to take over Europe again, and for a hundred days it looked like it might actually work. And while in exile, Dante wrote his Divine Comedy, which is his most famous work about Inferno, Purgatory, and Paradiso. Whether it's Albert Einstein, Nelson Mandela, the Rolling Stones, Louis Zamperini, and the Dalai Lama, all these people are famous because of the things that they did during their exile. On this earth, while we remain in exile, God has given us some jobs to do. And just like with Daniel, there is a priority here to ensure that we do these jobs without neglecting the higher priority ones. And in general, God has made us his ambassadors in this dark world. So our job is to represent him well. What does that look like? Well, I think I think Micah 6.8 captures that most succinctly.

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    We need to seek justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with our God.

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    Are you doing this job?

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    In our families, God has called us to be providers.

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    1 Timothy 5.8 says, "But if anyone does not provide "for his relatives, and especially for members "of his household, he is denied the faith "and is worse than an unbeliever." That is a scary verse.

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    What ways are we to provide for our family?

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    Parents are called to provide financially and educationally.

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    Children are called to provide honor and obedience.

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    Husbands are called to provide love and understanding.

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    Wives are called to provide respect and support.

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    Children are called to provide unity and loyalty.

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    Are you doing this job?

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    In our church, he has called us to be disciples.

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    And here at Harvest, we say that a disciple of Christ three things. Worships Christ, walks with Christ, and works for Christ. Are you doing this job? In your workplace or your school, God has called you to be a worker approved by God. This means that we need to work with excellence using the gifts God has given to us. It means that we need to be trustworthy, being honest even if it costs us something. It means we must care for others and not move about our day indifferent to the needs of those God has placed around us.

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    Are you doing this job? In our country, God has called us to be good citizens.

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    This means we need to pay what is due. Honor, duty, taxes, all described in Romans 13. In our country, we have the freedom and the responsibility to vote. I've been saying to people at work, in the primaries our job is to vote for the best candidate, and in the actual election it's our job to vote against the worst, but we cannot sit on the sidelines.

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    Being a good citizen means that we need to speak out against injustice like Esther did.

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    In our world where we value money over meaning, we value convenience over compassion, and we value liberty over life, as a result, injustice abounds, often without a voice on behalf of those who are afflicted.

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    Or even when we do speak up, our approach condemns us as well.

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    Titus 3.1 says, "Remind them to be submissive to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good work, to speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle and to show perfect courtesy to all people." Sure doesn't sound like our world.

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    So are you doing this job?

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    We need to model Christ-like behavior in all aspects of our life.

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    We need to do our jobs while we still have breath in our lungs.

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    when we reach heaven, we want to hear, "Well done, good and faithful servant." So whether we like it or not, we are in some form of exile.

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    And everything that I've described so far today describes the exile of a believer in Jesus Christ.

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    However, there is another exile that's far worse, but also it has a more immediate solution.

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    For everyone who does not know Christ, you are in exile of your own making from your creator.

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    Like Adam and Eve when they sinned, hid and ran from God, we too are fleeing from the holy king of this world because of our rebellion to his rule.

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    If you live in exile from God, repent, turn around, come home to your heavenly father who awaits for you to return.

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    Confess your sin and submit to his rule.

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    Renounce the citizenship to your own kingdom and become a citizen of heaven.

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    End your self-exile by falling to the foot of the cross.

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    But for us as believers, because we are away from our true home in heaven, we remain in exile in this world.

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    As a result, we have some responsibilities that we need to own.

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    We must maintain the perspective that heaven is our home and that God is in control.

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    We must live as undefiled, both by avoiding sin and by walking in the reality that we are seen as white as snow in the eyes of God as a result of the cleansing blood of Christ.

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    We must pray because the wisdom and provision and authority to do any of this comes only from God.

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    And we must test our faith to prove to ourselves that obedience to God is the best way.

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    And finally, we must do our jobs in this world, in our home, in our church, in our job or school and in our country.

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    Let us make the most of our exile and finish well.

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    Please pray with me.

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    Father God, we thank you for this opportunity to look at your word.

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    Lord, I thank you for the fact that you provide power for us in our exile.

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    God, you have given us a holy purpose.

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    I pray, Lord, that we would live up to this calling, God, by the power of your word and by the spirit that lives inside of us.

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    Lord, I pray that you would convict us where we need conviction and you would change us to do more to live in exile.

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    God, I pray that we would look to you for our strength and our source of power.

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    All these things we ask for in Jesus' name. Amen.

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Small Group Discussion
Read Daniel 1:1-21

  1. Do you ever feel as though you are in exile? How so?

  2. Of the responsibilities listed, which one encouraged you the most? Which one convicted you the most?

  3. What job are you neglecting? How do you plan to fix this?

Breakout
In what ways are you “defiling" yourself? Pray for repentance there and for the proposed actions above.

Dare to [Not] Compare!

Introduction:

Genesis 3:1-7

1 John 2:16 - For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world.

  1. Comparison breeds Discontent . (Gen 3:1)
  2. Comparison encourages Compromise . (Gen 3:2-5)
  3. Comparison causes Disaster . (Gen 3:6-7)

Dare to NOT Compare!

  1. Know the Word . (Gen 3:1)

    Philippians 2:3 | Hebrews 13:5 | Ephesians 5:8 | Galatians 3:26, 4:6 | Ephesians 2:4-6

  2. Take your eyes off the World .

    1 John 2:15-17

  3. Fix your eyes on Jesus .

    2 Peter 1:3

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    You know retailers and advertisers when touting their their why their stuff is better than the other guy's stuff they encourage comparison There to compare that used to be a common phrase in advertising and it might still be Because they say it pays to comparison shop right auto dealers appliance manufacturers service providers And everyone else under the Sun wants us to compare features and prices and quality But sometimes it's tough for instance You go in the hair care aisle at the store. I don't know how women shop for hair care products because there are dozens of shampoo brands and Conditioner brands and then multiple varieties within each brand and even each product promising more shine Repair for damaged hair more volume dandruff relief improved personality You know greater income When you look at the labels, they all kind of have the same ingredients.

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    So how can you compare them?

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    Now guys, guys, we have it a little bit easier.

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    You know, you go up to pick a product off the shelf.

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    Oh, hair wash, conditioner, body wash, car wash, boat wash, engine degreaser.

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    Cool.

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    I'm exaggerating.

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    How about mattresses? Have you ever tried to shop for a mattress? There's now like a bajillion mattresses and you can buy them online and they get shipped to you rolled up in a box. And these mattress stores out there, they want you to compare. They urge you to compare. And they'll tell you if you can find the same mattress for a lower price anywhere else, we'll refund the difference. Or And they know nobody else in the whole world carries the same mattress as they do.

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    Now sure, every store sells Serta and Sealy and Beautyrest, but what the manufacturers do is they put different names and labels on them.

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    So that if you buy a Serta mattress at mattress discounters you can't go across the street to Mattress Warehouse and find the exact same mattress.

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    It is the exact same mattress, but it's got a different name.

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    And they say, "No comparison." You know, our economy thrives on, may even depend on urging people to compare products when there's no real discernible difference.

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    Our manufacturers present us with new choices, bold claims, and shiny packages to foster dissatisfaction with what we already have, to make us buy something else.

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    And pretty soon we have a bathroom drawer full of empty toothpaste tubes and half-used bottles of shampoo.

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    And here's the funny thing, the stuff we want to compare, we cannot.

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    But the things we should not compare, we do.

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    What I mean is there are comparisons we should seek to avoid at all costs.

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    And it's this, we should not compare ourselves or our circumstances with others or their circumstances.

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    Well, Rich, that's easy for you to say.

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    This is all, comparison's unavoidable.

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    Well, perhaps, but perhaps not.

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    I'm gonna make a bold, broad statement.

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    Our inclination to compare is behind all sin.

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    It is the seed of all sin, and it rapidly sprouts and bears the fruit of discontentment.

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    It is we think somewhere, someone, somehow, has something better than us.

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    And generally there are two ways we go with this when we make comparisons.

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    We go into an emotional and spiritual tailspin.

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    Or we begin planning and scheming on ways to get what they've got and then some.

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    Both ways often result in sin and some level of destruction.

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    That is, we're diminished spiritually, morally, physically, and financially.

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    Let's look at some hypotheticals. Take our toddler room.

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    Little Billy Dripnose is back there happily playing with a pile of blocks.

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    When he looks up and across the room he sees little Jimmy Full Drawers.

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    And he's got a shiny truck that makes noise.

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    Or how about teenager Judy Cheergood? She's in love.

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    She's found the love of her life, this is it.

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    She's certain she's going to spend the rest of her life with chumlee buckets.

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    And then she meets Joe Blonde, the three-sport varsity athlete.

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    How about that young couple we know, Bink and Muffy Sweetums, so happy in their economical bungalow, until they see the new housing development going up across town in a prestigious part of the city and that great interest only financing that's being offered.

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    Why, even on their pipsqueak income, this would be the house of their dreams and oh so affordable and the envy of all their friends.

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    And then how about middle-aged executive George Gogetum?

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    He's been mostly happily married to Jane, his wife, for 20 years and she's born him three children, but her figure just isn't what it used to be.

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    And there's a new gal at the office who sent him a LinkedIn invite.

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    Do you notice I didn't have to finish any of those scenarios because you could easily fill in the blanks yourselves.

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    In each case, the comparison inspired thoughts that led to actions that probably led to disaster.

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    So you see, the comparison we're talking about this morning produces discontent, compromise, and disaster.

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    That's our outline for this morning.

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    Comparison that produces discontent, compromise, and disaster.

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    It's comparison that flows from a worldly restlessness in our hearts, and it makes us think there's something better, something more, and if we could just get a hold of it, we would be so much happier, so much better off.

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    It's comparison in what the Apostle John calls all that is in the world, the desires of the flesh, the desires of the eyes, and the pride of life.

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    He says that in 1 John 2.16.

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    And it's these desires, like everything else, that started in the Garden of Eden.

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    Our goal this morning is to learn why we are so prone to compare ourselves what the schemes of Satan are, what he uses to prompt us to compare.

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    And then we're gonna look at some remedies that will help us dare to not compare.

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    So our first point is that comparison breeds discontent.

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    And our text this morning is about the fall.

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    But let's look for a moment what Adam and Eve had before the fall.

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    They were already made in the image of God, sharing some of his characteristics.

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    They were living, thinking, speaking, reasoning beings.

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    They were holy and pure, able to see God face to face and walk with him in the garden in the cool of the day.

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    But they were also limited.

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    Unlike God, they were not all powerful, all knowing, or all seeing.

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    And they were subject to God, made to serve under and with him.

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    They were not really free to do whatever they wanted in the garden.

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    They were given commands to obey.

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    They were given positive commands, that is they were told, "These are the things you are to do." The first of which was be fruitful and multiply.

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    They were to work the garden, to exercise dominion, and rule over creation.

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    There was only one thing they should not do.

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    They were not to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.

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    Here's the command from Genesis 2, verses 16 and 17.

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    And the Lord God commanded the man saying, "You may surely eat of every tree in the garden, "but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil "you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it, "you shall surely die." Now at some point in the creation narrative, Satan shows up, and he starts talking to Eve.

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    Genesis 3.1 says, "Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, 'Did God actually say you shall not eat of any tree in the garden?'" Now when the scripture says the serpent is more crafty than the other beast, it doesn't mean he spent a lot of time at Hobby Lobby. It means he was devious. He's He's up to no good.

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    The Hebrew word for crafty, or translated crafty, is arum.

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    It can also be translated as astute, which means Satan can study a person, know them, know what buttons to push.

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    And how does he do this with Eve?

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    Well, notice how in that simple sentence, did God actually say, "You shall not eat of any tree in the garden." Satan very cleverly draws Eve's attention one tree?" Her response should have been, "No, no, no. God said we can eat of every tree in the garden." Did God say you can't eat from any tree? We can eat from any tree except that one. Seems like an innocuous question, but what it does is direct her attention to the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. He's insinuating that God is withholding something he plants a thought in Eve's mind that there's something more.

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    Why shouldn't I be able to eat from that tree?

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    Suddenly she's no longer content with all that she and Adam had.

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    Who she was, all that she was able to do, the multitude of trees in the garden that are pleasing to the eye and good for food.

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    No, she's laser locked in on that one thing she does not have.

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    Here's the thing, we frequently reenact the garden every day in the choices we make.

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    We're bombarded by media images, ideas, situations, circumstances that cause us to evaluate and reevaluate ourselves and our lot in life.

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    And we can form ideas that very often come straight from the pit of hell.

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    All those voices are in a way a form of the question, What did God actually say?

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    Because they cause us to lock in on what we're not, what we lack, and so we compare, and we become discontented.

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    We see something, someone says something to us, as a result we begin to wallow in self-pity.

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    Oh, I'm so stupid, I'm a worthless schmuck.

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    Nobody likes me, everybody hates me.

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    I think I'll eat a worm.

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    Or our pride gets bunched up, gets riled up, We think, "You know, I deserve more. I deserve that too. I'm entitled to that." What we as believers in Christ fail to remember is this. In our salvation, we're restored to the pre-fall condition. Our innocence is restored. We're all sons of God. We have eternal life and the Holy Spirit living in us. In short, we are as righteous as Jesus Christ.

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    Jesus tells us that all that belongs to him is ours.

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    Whereas the thief comes to steal and kill and destroy, Jesus came that we may have life and have it abundantly.

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    Yet somehow we find that insufficient.

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    So often we succumb to that little whisper, did God actually say?

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    And the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and the pride of life carry us to the next step.

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    which is that comparison encourages compromise.

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    Let's look at verses two through five.

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    And the woman said to the serpent, we may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, but God said you shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that's in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it lest you die.

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    But the serpent said to the woman, you will not surely die, For God knows that when you eat of it, your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.

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    Notice that instead of reciting the actual command as God gave it, or instead of asking Adam to repeat it, even instead of asking God to repeat the command, Eve says, "I got this." Then she alters and adds to the command.

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    First, she looks down her nose at what God actually granted.

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    A multitude of trees pleasing to the eye and good for food.

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    Granted them to surely eat of every tree of the garden.

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    And she sniffs.

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    We may eat of the fruit of the trees.

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    What does that mean?

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    All the trees?

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    Some trees?

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    Not others?

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    Which trees exactly did God mean again?

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    "Oh, everything seems kind of murky." And then she misstates and she obscures the true prohibition.

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    The problem with the statement, "The tree that is in the midst of the garden," is that there's two trees in the middle of the garden.

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    God only put one of them off limits.

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    She ignores, deliberately overlooks the fact that there are two trees, including the tree of life from which they made.

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    But the third thing she does after obliterating the truth is she adds a rule and appends the death penalty to it.

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    God never said, "Neither shall you touch it." Why is this important?

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    Isn't that a good thing?

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    Look, if you're not touching it, you're not gonna eat it.

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    That's good, right?

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    But just stay away from it.

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    to safeguard.

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    What do people do when they see a sign that says, "Wet paper"?

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    What do people do when they see a sign that says, "Do not touch"?

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    "Stay off the grass"?

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    Eve understands that this is a rule of her own making, and there is no penalty attached to it.

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    And knowing that, knowing that it's a rule without any power over her, creates an inducement to push the envelope, so to speak.

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    Because, oh, if there's no penalty for touching the fruit, oh, see, I can touch it, I'm not dying.

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    Then perhaps the penalty for eating the fruit isn't real either.

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    She has in one thought and action justified herself and rationalized away her sin.

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    Eve considers what she has, which is almost everything, and compares it to what God has, really everything, and suddenly 99% is not good enough anymore.

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    Only 100% will do.

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    100% is what I should have.

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    As we said, Adam and Eve were already like God.

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    They bore God's image, but they realized they were not equal with God.

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    He had knowledge of something they did not.

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    So even though they were already like God, the serpent persuaded Eve that there was something more to gain.

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    And there was no penalty for the pursuit.

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    Eve wants equality, and equality meant having what she didn't need, which was knowing good and evil, just like God.

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    We should compare, or should I say contrast, Eve's disobedience with Jesus' obedience.

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    In Philippians 2, verses five and six we read, have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who even though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped.

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    Whereas Eve mangled the commandment to grasp at the fruit, to grasp at equality with God, Jesus kept God's commands as they are.

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    He did not add to or subtract from.

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    So what happens?

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    What happens is comparison causes disaster.

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    So look at verses six and seven.

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    So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate.

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    And she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate.

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    and the eyes of both were open, and they knew that they were naked.

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    And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.

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    In the Hebrew, the word for naked is arumim.

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    It sounds very much like the word for crafty, arum.

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    Recall that verse one told us the serpent was the most crafty of all.

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    Now most scholars don't see much more here than a little bit of wordplay.

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    They don't give it much thought other than the words sort of sound alike.

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    But I would offer this.

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    Before the fall, Adam and Eve were arumim, naked and unashamed.

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    They bore the image of God.

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    But after eating the fruit, they were naked and now ashamed.

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    That is to say, crafty.

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    In their guilt, they now bore the image of the serpent.

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    I don't mean they look like snakes.

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    I mean they would henceforth act like Satan and not God.

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    The couple that was supposed to care for the creation is now wrecking it by tearing apart a living fig tree for leaves to cover themselves.

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    The couple that was directed to exercise dominion over the creation are reduced to hiding in it.

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    Everything about them and the creation has been devastating.

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    We don't have time for it, but we know the rest of the story.

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    God comes calling, "Adam, where are you?" And the blame throwing commences.

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    The woman you gave me gave me the fruit.

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    It's her fault.

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    And the rest, as they say, is history.

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    Do we need an extended analysis of the death and destruction that have resulted from that day cataloged in scripture, cataloged in human history?

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    Do you need any analysis of our current world, bombarded as we are from every direction with false ideas and allurements?

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    All a refashioning of, "Did God actually say?" All those things that breed discontent.

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    You need an analysis of media, especially social media that beckons us to compare our lives and our circumstances with someone or something else and find ourselves wanting? No, you don't. Because you know that every act of comparison either leaves us diminished in our own eyes or sets us on a path of grasping for something we do not need. Comparison wrecks our hearts, causes us to lose sight of the Lord who loves us and sooner or later it exacts a heavy price.

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    Remember that I said all the trees in the garden were pleasing to the eye and good for food.

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    That is to say they were all equal in those respects.

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    But to the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, Satan added a point of comparison.

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    He deceived Eve into thinking it was to be desired to make one wise, that is to become become like God, but no one ever becomes more like God by disobeying his command.

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    No one becomes wise through sinning.

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    No one ever gains from making foolish comparisons.

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    I have a story about people who made a comparison.

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    When Bethany and I were first married, we attended a church in Tacoma, Washington.

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    in terms of size, it was about the same size as Harvest.

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    It was a great church.

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    We had retired missionaries, retired pastors, active missionaries, all who were part of the congregation.

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    All ages of people, young people, growing families, wise saints in the Lord.

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    And when we got there, they were going through a building program.

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    They had bought some land, and they were raising funds to build a new building because their old church was like 90 years old.

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    And it was an exciting time to be there.

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    We left in 1990, but the church, they were successful in their fundraising, they built their new facility in the mid-90s, and things were going great.

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    Somewhere along the line in the late 1990s, early 2000s, There was a couple whom I had a great deal of respect for.

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    There was a couple, the husband, he got into a position of leadership in the church.

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    And he said, "You know, why aren't we a mega church like this one down the street?

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    We ought to be a mega church, and Pastor Tom, he's not the guy to get us there." And he started whispering and talking, and he got enough people in the church, Yeah, we ought to be a mega church.

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    We're just stagnant. We're not growing.

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    Well, they confused quantity with quality.

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    Because Pastor Tom was a pastor's pastor.

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    He was a great pastor, great preacher.

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    But somehow he was no longer good enough.

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    So, they got the board, fired Pastor Tom.

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    the door at a time when his wife was struggling with breast cancer.

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    The outcome, church was split, people were hurt, that church didn't last.

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    It shut its doors in the early 2000s.

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    been reopened in the last few years. Different people, different church altogether. But that's what comparison does. 2 Corinthians 10.12 says that when people measure themselves by one another and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding.

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    So So what about us?

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    Are we without understanding?

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    No, we belong to Christ and there are ways we can dare to not compare.

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    First of all, we must know the Word.

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    The primary stumbling point for Eve was that she didn't know God's command and therefore she could not rely on it for offense or defense.

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    She lost sight of who she was, and she poured contempt on everything she had.

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    Well, let's contrast Jesus again.

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    What did Jesus do when he was in the wilderness at the end of 40 days of fasting?

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    And Satan showed up to tempt him with the desires of the flesh, and the desires of the eyes, and the pride of life.

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    Let's look.

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    He tempted Jesus with the desires of the flesh.

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    If you're the son of God, "Command this stone to become bread." And Jesus answered him, "It is written, "Man shall not live by bread alone." Well then he tempts him with the desires of the eyes.

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    It says the devil took him up and showed him all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time and said to him, "To you I will give "all this authority and their glory.

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    "For it has been delivered to me "and I will give it to whom I will.

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    "If you then will worship me, it will all be yours." Jesus doesn't say it's already mine.

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    No, he uses the scripture.

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    Jesus answered him, "It is written, "you shall worship the Lord your God, "and him only shall you serve." And then Satan appealed to his pride of life.

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    He took him to Jerusalem and set him on the pinnacle of the temple and said to him, "If you're the son of God, throw yourself down from here.

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    "For it is written, he will command his angels "concerning you to guard you, "and on their hands they will bear you up, "lest you strike your foot against a stone." And Jesus answered him, "It is said, "you shall not put the Lord your God to the test." And Satan fled.

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    Therefore, beloved, we must feed on God's word daily.

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    You have to read it, study it, memorize it, listen to it.

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    If you have trouble memorizing it, look it up.

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    Search diligently for answers.

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    And I want you to listen to what I'm saying and how I'm appealing to Scripture to give us a ready defense and offense.

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    So that when the deceiver appeals to your pride, so that overextending your budget to get stuff seems like a good idea, if he goads you to step on people to get a promotion or to sacrifice children and marriage for the sake of personal accomplishment, you can reply, "It's written I must do nothing "from selfish ambition or conceit, "but in humility count others more significant than myself, "and keep my life free from the love of money "and be content with what I have.

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    "For he has said, I will never leave you nor forsake you." And when Satan reminds you, God actually say you're nothing but a worthless sinner? You can answer with, "You know that's comforting because God chose his love for me in that while I was still a sinner, Christ died for me." Then when Satan, when Satan wants to tell you that you're nothing but a worthless backslider, Didn't God actually say He's angry about your faithless backsliding?

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    He's trying to set you on a path of despair.

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    You can answer, "No, no, in Christ Jesus, I'm a son of God through faith.

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    Because I am a son, God has sent the spirit of His Son into my heart crying, 'Abba, Father.'" When Satan insinuates that, "Oh, you're by nature a child of wrath like the rest of mankind.

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    We rebuke him with, "But God, being rich in mercy, "because of the great love with which he loved me, "even when I was dead in my trespassing, "made me alive together with Christ.

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    "By grace I have been saved.

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    "And he raised me up with him and seated me with him "in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus." So we need to know the word.

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    And the second thing we need to do is take our eyes off the world.

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    Look at a verse that we looked at a part of earlier.

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    1 John 2 15-17.

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    The apostle says, "Do not love the world "or the things in the world.

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    "If anyone loves the world, "the love of the Father is not in him.

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    "For all that is in the world, "the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes "and the pride of life is not from the Father, "but is from the world.

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    "And the world is passing away along with its desires.

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    "But whoever does the will of God abides forever." You see in that verse the reference back to the garden to what Eve was thinking, right?

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    The desires of the flesh, oh, it's good for food.

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    And the desires of the eyes, oh, it's a delight to the eye.

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    And the pride of life is to be desired to make one wise.

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    See that?

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    God reminds us that our bent to compare It's from the world.

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    And what's happening to the world?

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    It's passing away, it's temporary.

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    In the Old Testament, the prophets and the psalmists often in rebuking idolaters, they remarked that those who worship idols became like them.

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    He remarked that idols are lifeless, they're altogether worthless.

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    and everyone who worships them becomes like them.

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    Well, what do you want to become?

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    You want to become temporary, in love with the world, and then pass away with the rest of it?

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    Or do you want to do the will of God and become eternal?

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    There is nothing in this world that profits us or improves us.

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    On the contrary, comparing ourselves with others and their circumstances only diminishes us.

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    We must therefore fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith.

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    Fix your eyes on Jesus in whom you have all things.

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    If you are in Christ, you are holy, righteous, united with him in his death and resurrection.

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    In him you have all you need for life, joy, and contentment.

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    You've been restored to the same spiritual status and right relationship with God that Adam and Eve enjoyed before the fall.

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    You are, and you can live, innocent and unashamed.

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    I want to consider for a moment all things.

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    We Jesus, we have all things.

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    What are they?

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    How did we get them?

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    Well, it's not about getting temporary things.

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    Not about temporary all things, but rather about life-giving, eternal all things.

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    2 Peter 1.3 says that God's divine power is granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness through the knowledge of Jesus who called us to his own glory and excellence.

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    How did we get all things?

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    Romans 8.32 says that God who did not spare his own son but gave him up for us all, will he not also with him graciously give us all things?

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    You see, we receive all things God gave up Jesus for us all.

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    I find it curious, interesting, illuminating, that in Genesis 1.26, when God made man, he said, "Let us make man in our image after our likeness." But after the fall, in Genesis 3.22, God says, "Behold, the man has become like one of us "in knowing good and evil." Who is this one of us in the Godhead that knows good and evil?

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    I submit to you that the one of us in Genesis 3.22 is the second person of the Trinity, the Lord Jesus Christ.

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    And at Calvary, he hung naked and ashamed on the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, burying our sin, burying our shame, and excruciating suffering and death.

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    There are a multitude of trees in this world that allure us and call us to make comparison, whether it's something as inconsequential as a bottle of shampoo or as valuable as your soul.

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    But we must turn our attention to a single tree.

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    And if you have not yet believed in the Lord Jesus Christ, You must lock in on the one thing that you do not have and you need above all else.

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    When the Apostle Peter preached the gospel in Acts, he reminded his hearers that they put Jesus to death by hanging him on a tree.

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    And he later says, "Jesus alone bore our sins in his body "on the tree that we might die to sin "and live to righteousness." The tree of the knowledge of good and evil in which Jesus died has become, praise God for us, the tree of life through his resurrection from the dead.

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    On the tree at Calvary, Jesus crushed the serpent's head.

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    Our sin was destroyed and death was put to death.

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    Regarding that tree, there is one command that all people in the world are called to obey.

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    Acts 17.30, God commands all people everywhere to repent.

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    So repent and believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and your sins will be forgiven.

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    You will have everlasting life.

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    What more can anyone possibly need?

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    Child of God, you have the incomparable Lord Jesus Christ who died your death, unites you with him in his life.

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    He covers you with his garments of righteousness and he graciously gives you all things.

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    And beloved, when you have all things in Jesus, there is nothing to compare.

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    Let's pray.

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    Oh, gracious Father, you have given us all things through Jesus Christ.

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    Father, help us to carry your word with us to this day, to this week, into our whole life that remains before us.

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    with our eyes fixed on Jesus Christ alone.

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    Let us leave off comparison.

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    Let us leave the world behind.

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    We put off the world we put on Christ, our incomparable Savior.

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    And it's in His name we pray.

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    Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Genesis 3:1-7

  1. What are your big takeaways from the text and/or the message?

  2. Why do you think we are so prone to compare ourselves with others?

  3. Can you think of a time when you compared yourself to another person (besides Jesus) and it produced constructive thoughts and a holy outcome?

  4. Why is knowing Scripture essential to overcoming the urge to compare?

  5. What are some practical ways we can “put off” the world and “put on” Christ?

Breakout
Pray that God will enable you more and more to fix your eyes on Jesus, and to refuse to compare yourself and your circumstances to others.

Walk Wisely: Wisdom: Value It, Get It, Use it.

Introduction: (Proverbs 1-3)

Dremel Rotary Tool: This product not intended for use as a dental drill.

Vidal Sassoon Hair Dryer: Do not use while sleeping.

Rowenta Iron: Do not iron clothes on body. 

Baby Stroller: Remove child before folding.

Scrubbing Bubbles Fresh Brush: Do not use for personal hygiene.

How Do I Get Wisdom for My Walk?

  1. You have to go after it Humbly (Prov 1:1-6).
  2. You have to go after it Reverently (Prov 1:7).
  3. You have to go after it Urgently (Prov 2:1-11).
  4. You have to go after it Totally (Prov 3:5-6).

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    These are actual warning labels on actual products.

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    I get a kick out of these.

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    These are actual warning labels on actual products.

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    The Dremel rotary tool, we have one of these.

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    Do you know there's a warning label on that?

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    The warning is, this product is not intended for use as a dental drill.

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    I wish I would have read that before I started using it.

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    I was really enjoying the dental savings we were enjoying at our house.

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    So the Vidal Sassoon hair dryer.

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    I love this one.

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    There's a warning on it.

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    Do not use while sleeping.

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    It's like, look, I'm really busy, and that's really the only time I have to dry my hair is while I'm sleeping.

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    But I love this.

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    The Rowenta Iron has a warning label on it that says, "Do not iron clothes on body." It's like, "Why don't have an ironing board?

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    "It's just easier to, you know." And here's the thing with these things.

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    We have a couple more, but here's the thing with these things.

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    There's a reason these warning labels are on these packages, right?

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    And you know what the reason is.

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    Somebody tried this stuff.

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    What's the next one?

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    This is on a baby stroller.

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    What's the warning on a baby stroller?

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    Remove child before folding.

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    And finally, I say the best, this is my favorite one of the ones. I read a bunch of these this week, but this is my favorite of the group.

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    Scrubbing bubbles, fresh brush.

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    Do not use for personal hygiene.

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    Alright, so you're scrubbing the bathroom, scrubbing yourself, don't use the scrubbing bubbles, fresh brush for personal hygiene.

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    And again, these warning labels are on these items, they're on there for a reason, and the reason is, you know somebody tried that.

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    You know somebody called the Scrubbing Bubbles Company and said, "I got a horrible rash, "but I smell great, but I got a horrible rash "because your scrubbing bubbles irritated my skin." And they're like, "Well, you realize those aren't supposed to be.

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    "No, I didn't know that!" Well, who's ready for some real, helpful wisdom?

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    Who's ready for that?

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    Well, open up your Bibles to the book of Proverbs because the next two months we're going after some things that are going to be real and going to be helpful.

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    Proverbs 1.

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    While you're turning there, "Proverbs? What are Proverbs?" Here's a definition for it if you want a definition.

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    Proverbs are timeless truths in the form of short and simple illustration that expose a fundamental reality of life.

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    Timeless truths in the form of short and simple illustration that expose a fundamental reality of life.

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    I heard a preacher this past week say, "Proverbs is God's Twitter account." I'm like, "Oh, that's brilliant, right?" It's God's Twitter accounts.

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    Hebrew for Proverbs, the word "Proverbs" is literally this.

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    It's "instead of words." Now, that doesn't mean numbers instead of words.

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    It's "instead of words." These are instead of words.

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    That's what Proverbs are.

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    their comparisons with the purpose of observation and instruction.

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    You're like, "Well, why are we going into Proverbs right now?" Well, we spent this past year in Revelation in a series called "Coming Soon," and the question I wanted to ask ourselves as a church and answer from God's Word is, "How shall we live while we wait?" Proverbs gives us the wisdom to navigate through daily life, equipping us to make the best decisions, making choices that honor God and bless me and bless others.

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    That's what we're going after the next couple of months - wisdom.

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    We're going after wisdom.

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    And it's important for us to understand, church, that wisdom is different than knowledge.

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    And I think a lot of people in the church are messed up because they don't understand the difference.

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    You have knowledge and you think you have wisdom, and you can't figure out why you can't get it together.

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    Well, knowledge is having the right information.

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    That's knowledge. It's just having the right information.

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    And we live in a world of easy access knowledge, more so now than at any other point in history, right?

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    because most of us carry in our pockets a little television screen that has access to all of the information that we could possibly want in every aspect of life.

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    The information is everywhere, even in the church.

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    We can subscribe to a podcast, or we can get online and get a sermon transcript, or listen to a sermon online, or we can get the daily devotionals from your favorite pastor sent to your email, for those of us that still use email.

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    The knowledge is everywhere. So what's the problem?

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    Knowledge by itself doesn't benefit you at all.

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    That's where wisdom comes in.

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    You see, wisdom is knowing how to apply knowledge.

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    Wisdom is, you know, knowing how not to fold your baby up in the stroller.

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    There was one person who said, "Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit, and wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad." But wisdom is the application of knowledge.

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    Think of it in terms of health.

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    I know how to be healthy.

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    And the reality is, you do too.

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    And I think, honestly, I think, I really think everybody, deep down, they know how to be healthy.

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    The problem is we don't apply that knowledge.

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    Because being healthy, there's nothing new under the sun.

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    It's the same old thing, right?

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    You eat right, and you what?

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    Exercise, right?

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    And that's how you are healthy.

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    We know that, but most of us just don't apply that.

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    Knowing what I should eat, what vitamins are in what food, and what exercises I should do, knowing that isn't going to make me healthy.

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    I only get healthy when I do it.

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    I only get healthy when eating right and exercising, you're actually a part of my lifestyle.

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    So it is with knowledge and wisdom, church.

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    God wants you to not only have the right information, that's knowledge, He wants you to live it out.

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    That's wisdom.

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    And I don't know about you, but I desperately need wisdom for my life.

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    I desperately need wisdom for my life.

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    I mean, think about it.

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    The areas of life that some of us are in, like, for example, marriage.

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    You're living with a person that you're called to love like no one else.

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    How do I do that?

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    I need wisdom.

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    Those of us that have children, I'm responsible for raising this child to succeed in life.

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    How do I do that?

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    Neither of my kids came with an instruction manual.

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    Did yours?

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    No.

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    OK, so we get a problem.

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    We've got to raise this kid.

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    How do we do that?

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    We need wisdom.

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    Conflict.

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    I have a damaged relationship that must be addressed.

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    How do I do that?

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    Money.

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    I'm entrusted to manage a certain amount of stuff that passes through my hands, how do I do that?

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    What about when that person at the office is flirting with me and I think there might be something going on there and I know I shouldn't do it, but I could probably get away with it and how do I navigate through that?

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    What do I do when I'm offended, when somebody says something and just that, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.

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    How do I handle that?

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    On the same line, what do I do when I'm about to lose my temper?

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    What about when my kid deliberately disobeys me?

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    Well, Proverbs gives us wisdom for all of this and so much more covering every single aspect of life, every arena of life.

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    You're going to find it in the book of Proverbs.

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    So before we get into some specifics over the next two months, I felt like church we should probably get a little on-ramp and sort of remind ourselves why we're so desperate for wisdom and how to get it in the first place, right?

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    So in your outline, the question we're going to be looking at today, how do I get wisdom for my walk?

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    How do I get wisdom for my walk?

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    For those of you that have it all figured out, you can be dismissed.

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    Maybe you can work in a kids ministry, you don't need to hear this.

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    But for the rest of us that are still trying to figure stuff out, how do I get wisdom for my walk?

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    We're going to be doing a drive-by through the first three chapters of Proverbs.

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    I want you to get this.

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    Number one, first of all, write this down.

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    You have to go after it humbly.

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    How do I get wisdom for my walk?

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    You have to go after it humbly.

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    Look at Proverbs 1. Look at the first six verses.

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    It says, "The Proverbs of Solomon, son of David, king of Israel.

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    To know wisdom and instruction.

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    To understand words of insight.

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    To receive instruction in wise dealing, righteousness, justice, and equity, to give prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to the youth.

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    Let the wise hear, and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance, to understand a proverb and a saying, the words of the wise and their riddles.

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    Let's stop there. How do I get wisdom for my walk?

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    Well, first of all, you have to go after it humbly.

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    You have to go after it humbly.

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    I want you to see the very first thing the Proverbs says about the need for wisdom.

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    Look, it's in verse 2.

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    "To know wisdom." The Hebrew word for "know" is "yada." Yada, yada, yada. Right?

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    And that Hebrew word for "know" isn't just knowing about something.

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    It's a word of intimacy and experience.

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    That's what yadah is.

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    For example, my wife Erin.

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    Most of you know about her.

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    You could recognize her seeing her walk in the church.

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    "Oh, that's Pastor Jeff's wife Erin." You know her, maybe you know some things about her, but you don't know her the way that I know her.

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    Why? Because I experience life with her.

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    We live together.

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    We are constantly interacting together.

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    We are experiencing this journey together.

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    And we, church, are called to know wisdom.

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    It's seeing the world as God sees it.

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    It's judging every scenario correctly.

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    It's following the best course of action.

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    And when you do that, when you live that way, you're living in a real relationship with wisdom.

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    You don't just know about wisdom, you know wisdom.

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    That's further explained with a synonym here.

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    Look down at verse 4.

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    The word "prudence." That's a word we just don't use anymore.

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    You know, I was thinking about this this week.

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    You know the last time I heard somebody use the word prudence?

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    You know the last time I heard somebody use that word?

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    Was when they were, they used to make fun of the first President Bush, right?

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    George Sr.?

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    "It wouldn't be prudent at this juncture." Do you guys know what I'm talking about?

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    Come on, don't leave me up here.

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    How many of you know what I'm talking?

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    Okay, thank you.

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    I think that's the last time I've heard somebody use that word, prudent.

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    but it is such a beautiful word.

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    Prudence is this.

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    Prudence is doing the right thing in the right way at the right time for the right reason.

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    That's prudence.

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    And that's wisdom.

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    It's not just knowing what to do.

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    Like, okay, this is the wise thing to do.

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    It's not just knowing what to do, it's also knowing how to do it.

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    Okay, so I see what I need to do, this is how I do it.

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    But it's not just that, it's knowing when to do it.

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    What's the right time to pull the trigger on this?

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    And it's knowing why we do it.

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    We're gonna talk about motivation here in a second.

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    Verse three says to receive instruction.

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    That's humility.

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    Receiving instruction, it's awareness that I don't always know the best course of action.

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    That's humility.

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    You and I are born with a bent to sin.

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    You and I are born with a bent towards selfishness.

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    And the Bible says that our hearts are deceitful above all things.

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    So when it comes to making decisions in your life, a lot of wisdom that people give, they say, "Just follow your heart.

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    Just follow your heart." Listen, that is horrible advice.

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    You know why?

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    Because my heart is deceitful above all things.

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    It is a big fat liar, and it is going to lead me down a wrong path.

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    So just follow your heart business, not wise.

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    I am bent, and I have to acknowledge this, I am bent towards always choosing the most self-serving option for me.

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    That's reality, and you're the same way.

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    You're going to choose by nature, by sin nature, you're going to choose the most self-serving option.

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    We've got to recognize that.

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    We need to recognize that God has provided wisdom in His Word that we must receive and apply.

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    Now listen, through the glorious power of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, He transforms you.

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    He changes you. He gives you a new heart.

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    And that is absolutely true.

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    His Spirit dwells within you.

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    But Christian, you are still dwelling in a body of sinful flesh.

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    And as Christians, we are a strange dichotomy.

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    God's Spirit is indwelling this fallen body.

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    So sometimes it's hard for me to discern what's true godly biblical wisdom How does me just choosing what's going to be the best option for me, how can I navigate through that?

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    God gave us His Word so that we might know wisdom.

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    Right? But it starts with humility.

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    Receiving instruction requires, you know what God, you're right.

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    I don't know a thing, and I need to know what you say about navigating through all of this.

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    So you have to go after it humbly.

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    Secondly, you have to go after it reverently.

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    You have to go after it reverently.

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    Look at verse 7.

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    Verse 7 is like the thesis of the entire book of Proverbs.

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    You're like, what's Proverbs about?

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    Verse 7 is what Proverbs is all about.

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    It says, "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.

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    Fools despise wisdom and instruction." Meaning this, if you want God's wisdom, I have to go after it reverently.

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    When we talk about the fear of the Lord, that doesn't mean I'm scared of God.

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    Like, I hide under the bed because I'm afraid He's going to lose His temper and start throwing lightning bolts and hellfire and brimstone on my head when He gets mad.

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    That's not what the fear of the Lord is.

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    The fear of the Lord is reverence for God.

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    It is standing in awe of God.

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    You say, "He is the awesome and majestic and transcendent, holy One of the universe!" But the fear of the Lord is also something else.

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    I want you to write this down.

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    It's living in the active awareness of His constant presence.

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    Living in the active awareness of His constant presence.

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    That is the fear of the Lord.

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    The act of awareness of his constant presence.

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    And that is what motivates us to live wisely.

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    We sort of understand this.

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    How many of you have been driving?

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    I'm not gonna ask how many of you.

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    We've all been there.

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    If you drive, this has happened to you.

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    You've been driving down the road and a police officer pulls behind you.

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    And you know, what's the first thing?

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    You have that feeling where your heart sort of comes down and like bounces off your liver.

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    You know that feeling I'm talking about?

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    And what do you do when you see the cop behind you?

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    What's the first thing you do?

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    Shout it out.

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    Yeah, you hit the brakes, slow her down, slow her down.

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    And then, and then you see the cop doesn't put his lights on, okay?

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    He was just pulling out because he was pulling, it had nothing to do with you.

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    And then you get that feeling of relief, right?

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    And I've seldom had that, because usually when the police were behind me, their lights were on.

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    I'm just confessing, I went to college in Ohio, and I got so many tickets when I lived in Ohio, that when I moved back here for ministry, the Ohio Department of Transportation sent me a card.

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    It was like, "Jeff, thank you for your support all these years, All your persistent donations.

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    That's a joke.

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    But I got a lot of tickets.

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    What was I talking about?

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    I don't any more of that.

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    I slowed down a little bit since then.

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    OK, so the couple's up behind you.

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    He doesn't put his lights on.

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    That's what we're talking about.

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    OK, so you hit the brakes, and you don't put the lights on, and you're like, oh, thank you, thank you, thank you, God.

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    Thank you, God.

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    But that cop's still behind you.

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    So what are you doing while the cop's behind you?

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    You're not like, oh, OK, he didn't put his lights on.

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    And then you start pulling out your phone and texting and one arm's out the window.

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    No, no, no.

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    What are you doing?

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    Your hands are at 10 and 2.

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    Right?

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    Make sure your seat belt is on.

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    Checking the speed.

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    You better not be going too fast or he might change his mind and come after me.

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    And why?

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    You realize there's police everywhere, so why all of a sudden are you so diligent about how you're driving?

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    It's because His presence put fear in you.

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    I'm driving the best I can because I'm being watched.

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    It's sort of like that with the fear of the Lord.

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    Maybe the police analogy isn't the best one.

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    The better analogy is, it's like a child knowing that his dad's watching.

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    I don't want to disappoint dad.

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    I know he's watching me, and I know he told me how to do this, and I want to do the best I can because dad's watching me.

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    That's the fear of the Lord.

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    You see the difference between knowledge and wisdom is the same difference between believing there is a God and fearing the Lord.

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    It's the difference between knowing some facts about Jesus to "I personally receive Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior for salvation." You see, if we just believe in God, That's sort of an acknowledgment that He's up there somewhere.

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    But the fear of the Lord is, "I know He is with me every single moment of every single day.

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    He's constantly with me and He knows the choices that I'm making." So the fear of the Lord is not only the motivation for going after wisdom, It's the starting point for getting it.

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    Look back at verse 7 in this thesis statement.

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    It says, "Fools despise wisdom and instruction." You know that guy.

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    Nobody tells me what to do.

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    Nobody's going to tell me how to spend my money.

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    Nobody's going to tell me how to raise my kids.

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    Nobody's going to tell me how to handle my marriage.

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    "Hey, hey, hey, you have that option." God says you're a fool if that's your attitude.

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    You have to go after this reverently.

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    Thirdly, you have to go after it urgently.

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    Jump over to chapter 2.

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    You have to go after it urgently.

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    Look at the first four verses.

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    "My son, if you receive My words and treasure up My commandments with you, making your ear attentive to wisdom and inclining your heart to understanding.

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    Yes, if you call out for insight and raise your voice for understanding, if you seek it like silver and search for it as for hidden treasures.

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    See, wisdom comes to people who desperately want it.

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    "I've got to have it! I've got to have it!

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    How do I get it?" The Bible says you search for it.

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    Well, you search for hidden treasure.

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    Right?

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    Imagine if I gave you a treasure map.

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    And I said, "Look, this isn't a joke, this isn't a hoax.

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    If you follow this treasure map, you're going to find a treasure that's worth over $300 million.

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    Not a joke.

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    This map will lead you right to it." And you take the map and you open it up and you find that it's written in Spanish.

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    How many of you would learn Spanish?

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    All of God's people said, "Si." All of God's people said, "Si." I just don't know what Spanish is for "Amen." But you would learn Spanish in a hurry.

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    And you see, that's how you have to go after wisdom.

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    Verse 5 says, "Then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God.

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    For the Lord gives wisdom.

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    From His mouth come knowledge and understanding.

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    He stores up sound wisdom for the upright.

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    He is a shield to those who walk in integrity, guarding the paths of justice and watching over the way of His saints.

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    Then you will understand righteousness and justice and equity, every good path, for wisdom will come into your heart and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul "Discretion will watch over you.

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    Understanding will guard you." When you passionately go after it, when you passionately go after it, you see that twice, verse 5, verse 9, then, then you will get it.

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    Then you will understand.

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    Because, verse 6, "The Lord gives wisdom." The New Testament talks about that.

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    James 1:5, "If any of you lacks wisdom, Ask God, who gives generously to all without reproaching it, will be given him.

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    You see, you have to be humble enough to know you need it, you have to be reverent to fear the Lord to get it.

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    You have to go after it urgently.

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    And you have to go after God for it.

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    See, you could leave here today and say, "You know what, Pastor Jeff, you're right. I've got to get wise.

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    Got to get wise. Got to get wise.

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    And I'm going to go home and start reading.

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    And hey, reading is a great thing.

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    But wisdom comes from the Lord.

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    You have to ask Him for it.

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    And you have to be desperate to go after.

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    Many, many years ago at the previous church in which I served, there was a lady in our church that said, "Hey, I have some family members who are going through some really hard marriage stuff.

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    Would you talk to them?" I said, "Sure, I'll talk to them." So the couple came to talk to me, and I could tell the wife was really interested in what the Bible had to say, and the husband I would put in the category of "not so much." Alright? So they come to talk to me, and again, I knew their family member, I didn't know them, and they came to talk.

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    I said, "Biblically, here's the key to marriage." I'm going to give you the short version.

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    I said, "Husbands need to love their wives like Christ loved the church." a self-sacrificing servant leader type love.

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    That's how husbands love their wives.

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    And wives need to submit to their husbands and respect their husbands the way the church does to Jesus Christ.

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    And I explained that whole dynamic in Ephesians 5.

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    And I explained the whole thing to them.

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    This is the way you grow in marital love and intimacy.

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    And I kind of laid out the whole Ephesians 5 thing.

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    And when I was done, the husband looked at me.

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    He said, "Is that all you got?" And I said, "Yeah." I said, "Yeah, that's all I got." That's all I got.

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    But let's examine how doing things your way has worked.

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    You're miserable.

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    Your wife is miserable.

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    Your marriage is miserable.

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    And you're so hopeless that you are sitting and talking to a complete stranger because you don't know what else to do.

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    And when you're offered wisdom to save your marriage, you just scoff.

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    Go ahead.

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    Just keep doing what you're doing, since it seems to be working out so well for you.

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    Here's the point, church.

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    If you don't recognize the treasure, the true wisdom is, if you don't recognize how it benefits you, then you're not going to pursue it like you need to.

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    So what about you?

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    Do you come to church and maybe even acknowledge, you at least acknowledge that God's word is true and then God's word is right, and then you leave church and you stumble through the rest of your week trying to do things your own way.

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    And then you come back to church on Sunday wondering, "Why is my life so difficult?

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    "Why is my home so rough?

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    "Why is work so miserable?

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    "Why can't I get it together?" I'm going to tell you why.

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    It's because you're not searching for wisdom the way you'd search for the hidden treasure.

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    You aren't asking God for the ability to live as he intended.

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    You have got to want it more than you want anything.

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    Like Solomon, you remember God showed up to Solomon and said, "I'll give you whatever you want." Wow, could you imagine?

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    Do you remember what Solomon asked for, by the way?

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    Wisdom.

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    God says, "Because you asked for that, "I'll give you everything else." And that's the truth about wisdom.

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    If you get that, you're going to get everything else.

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    But you have to go after wisdom first.

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    So what degree? Number four.

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    Drop this down. You have to go after it totally.

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    We're going to jump to chapter 3.

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    Chapter 3, verse 5.

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    A lot of you probably have this memorized.

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    "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding.

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    In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.

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    You have to go after this totally.

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    You have to go after it totally.

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    This isn't about keeping a checklist.

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    This isn't some mechanical three steps to a better you life hack.

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    Wisdom is a heart issue.

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    It's a heart issue.

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    He says, "Trust in the Lord." How much of your heart has to be in it?

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    You see that in verse 5?

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    "Trust in the Lord with..." what? What's your Bible say?

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    All your heart.

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    Then look at verse 6.

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    The question is, "In what ways must you acknowledge God?" Tell me.

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    All, right? You see that?

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    Circle the word "all" in your Bible.

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    In all your ways acknowledge Him.

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    See, this isn't why I trust God with the church stuff, but when it comes to work and money and hobbies and eating and drinking, all that Monday through Saturday stuff, I got that covered, Lord. I got that covered.

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    You know, trusting the Lord is just like my ministry church stuff.

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    That's incorrect.

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    It is trusting the Lord in all your ways.

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    All your ways.

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    Acknowledge Him.

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    Do not lean on your own understanding Because every single scenario that you face in life, you have a choice.

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    Every single scenario, you have a choice.

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    And your choice is this, I can lean on my own understanding, or I can trust in the Lord with all my heart.

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    Every choice.

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    Your wisdom, or the Lord's wisdom.

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    couple examples. Maybe you find yourself in this scenario. My co-worker just said something that really ticked me off. He meant to. It wasn't like an accident. He's picking a fight with me. You have a choice.

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    You could lean on your own understanding and say I'm gonna give him a piece of my I am going to light him up.

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    I am going to put him in his place.

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    He is going to regret the day he messed with me.

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    That's leaning on your own understanding.

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    Or, you could say, you know, Proverbs 15.1 says, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." So instead of going back after him with harshness, Maybe I can go back after him with a soft word, because God says that diffuses the situation and doesn't escalate.

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    But you have a choice whose wisdom you're going to follow.

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    Here's another scenario.

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    I see a family in church that has a serious financial need, like, serious financial need.

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    You can lean on your own understanding and say, "You know, I'm not really a rich person." Somebody else can help them.

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    I mean, who's going to look out for me?

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    Right? Who's going to look out for me?

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    That's leaning on your own understanding.

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    Or, you could turn to God's Word for His wisdom and apply that.

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    Proverbs 19.17 says, "Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord, and He will repay him." You have a choice.

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    One more.

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    My friend is making some terrible choices in life, and I need to have a hard conversation with him, and I need to say things that he may not like hearing.

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    We've all been there, haven't we?

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    We could lean on our own understanding, and say, "You know, it's not really my business." I mean, I don't want him being mad at me.

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    I don't want to risk the friendship, so I'm just going to let it go.

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    Or, you trust in the Lord.

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    Proverbs 27 and verse 6 says, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend." That a true friend loves somebody enough to confront them.

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    Even if it hurts.

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    and we're going to save them from self-destruction.

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    So if you're humble enough to receive wisdom, if you have a true reverence for the Lord, if you urgently want to grow in wisdom, and you want wisdom to mark your total life, then these next two months are going to be life-changing for you.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, just now we cry out to You for wisdom.

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    Father, we are so used to doing things our way.

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    We're so used to receiving advice and wisdom from all kinds of sources.

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    I pray, Father, that we would turn a corner in our hearts as we approach Your Word.

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    It would be the resolve of "I only care what God says.

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    I want to take the fatherly advice that my heavenly Father has given.

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    He is the one. He is the one who has true wisdom.

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    Father, I pray for my brothers and sisters here.

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    We would pursue wisdom over these next two months as we look at some very specific areas of life.

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    Let us regard your word as the ultimate wisdom.

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    Let us not just know about wisdom, let us know wisdom.

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    Let it be an experience for us.

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    Let it be a part of our very lifestyle, the very fabric of our being, seeking you for wisdom.

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    You promised to give it, Father.

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    So we're asking You for it.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Proverbs 1:1-7, 2:1-11, 3:5-6

  1. Define wisdom. How is wisdom different than knowledge?

  2. What is “the fear of the Lord”? Why must “the fear of the Lord” be your motivation to seek wisdom?

  3. How is wisdom a protection (Prov 2:7-11)? How are you “in danger” (unprotected) when you don’t walk in wisdom?

BREAKOUT
How much have YOU been seeking wisdom, Monday through Saturday?
In what areas of your life, right now, do you need wisdom? How are you going after it?

Recognition and Regret

Introduction:

To be free from your past... (Luke 7:36-50):

  1. Recognize Jesus and respond with Humility . (Luke 7:36-39)
  2. Recognize the debt You owed and Christ paid. (Luke 7:40-47)
  3. Recognize that forgiveness is received by Faith . (Luke 7:48-50)

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    Good morning everyone.

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    It's really an honor to be here sharing the Word of God with you this morning.

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    Let's pray before we get started.

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    Lord God, I thank you for this day. I thank you for this church.

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    I thank you for everything that you're doing here and across the world, Lord.

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    I pray today that, today God, you would move me aside and your Word would speak, Lord God.

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    I pray that you would prepare all of us right now to hear your word and be changed by it in a way that only you can do Lord. Thank you we ask you all these things in Jesus name, Amen. Open your Bibles with me please to the book of Luke chapter 7 and as you're turning there have you ever been in a situation where you run into someone and they know who you are but you don't know them? I mean some people say they never forget a face right but personally I specialize in forgetting faces. So I remember this happened to me a few years ago I was at a concert and I was talking to my future brother-in-law actually and And I heard somebody walking down the aisle behind me, and they shouted out, "Justin Katie?" And so I turned around and looked, and had no idea who this person was.

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    Has anybody ever been there?

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    So we're kind of stuck at that point in this silent face-off, and just waiting for the other person to say something, and then finally she says her name, and then it all clicks.

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    I totally remember who she is.

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    We actually went to high school together.

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    We were actually pretty good friends, and we knew each other pretty well.

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    And she looked exactly the same as the last time I saw her.

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    And the thing about it is, I graduated in a class of 25 students.

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    So I really had no excuse.

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    I absolutely should have known who she was.

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    So we talked for a couple minutes after that, but there's really no coming back from that start to the conversation.

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    Now, that incident was my fault, and I was really glad to see that person.

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    But when you run into someone from your past in that story from high school, it kind of makes you think back to that time, doesn't it?

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    And the thing about that is - don't raise your hands - some parts of their past that they'd really rather forget.

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    It could be from high school, it could be from college or your first job or whenever.

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    It could be something that happened last week and it just keeps coming back into your mind.

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    Whether it happened a few days ago or whether it happened decades ago, our past can weigh us down. And I think we all know what that weight feels like, right? We all make mistakes certainly, but some of them just seem to stick with you. And please, I'm not at all trying to dig up old wounds or anything like that, but if you could, just think back to yourself right now. Have you ever felt that? Have you ever felt that maybe people were identifying you by a mistake or by a sin in your life instead of who you are?

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    And maybe in complete honesty you just want to say to that person, "Look, I know I did that.

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    I know I said that.

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    But that's not me." So can we please just move on from that and pretend like it didn't happen?

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    Or maybe the part of your past that is eating at you isn't out in the open at all.

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    Maybe it's something that only you know or only you remember.

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    And whether it's conspicuous or whether it's a total secret, that can continue to eat away and just grow into an unbearable burden.

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    So what's my point in telling you all this?

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    In the story that I told, I didn't recognize my old friend, even though I definitely, definitely should have known who she was.

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    And in the passage of scripture that we're going to read today, we are gonna see misrecognition of a sort, but we're also going to see three biblical truths that we need to recognize if we wanna be free from that weight of our past.

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    So if you've ever dealt with feelings of regret or missed opportunity or failure, then you're in the right place today because we're going to look at a scripture that addresses exactly that.

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    So again, if you'll open with me to Luke 7, we're going to pick it up starting in verse 36.

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    It says, "One of the Pharisees asked Him," Him being Jesus, "to eat with him.

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    And he went into the Pharisee's house and reclined at table.

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    And behold, a woman of the city, who was a sinner, when she learned that he was reclining a table in the Pharisee's house, brought an alabaster flask of ointment, and standing behind him at his feet, weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears, and wiped them with the hair of her head, and kissed his feet, and anointed them with the ointment." Pause there for just a moment. There are a few things about those verses that might jump out as a little bit unusual.

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    First of all, Jesus was invited to dinner with a Pharisee.

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    The Pharisees did not like Jesus.

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    And secondly, I don't know how dinners usually go at your house, but at our house, if someone showed up unannounced, let themselves in, and started pouring something all over my feet, I think I would ask my wife to call the cops.

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    Now, I'm just kidding, but my point is that this meal is a little bit different than what we're used to typically in our homes.

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    This meal was more of a festive event, so it wouldn't have been uncommon for a variety of people to just show up and kind of observe what was going on.

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    And as we read in verse 37, word was traveling around that the meal was happening.

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    So it wasn't a surprise that a woman showed up.

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    The surprise here is that she showed up, and of course, what she did after she arrived.

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    So who was this woman?

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    Each of the Gospels, Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John, record an event where a woman anoints Jesus, but for a variety of reasons, most scholars believe that the other three Gospels describe one event, and the account that we're reading today is a separate event that's only recorded by Luke. And the truth is, we don't really know who she is other than what the Bible tells us here, that she had a sinful past and her reputation preceded her. Everybody knew about it. And many of us probably know someone like that, someone whose past colors everything that we think about about that person, or everywhere they go, all eyes are on them because of that.

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    And as we talked about earlier, many of us may have felt that way about our own past.

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    But despite this woman's well-known sin, she arrived carrying an alabaster flask of ointment.

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    Now, the word "ointment" here is better translated "perfume" to us, and it was extremely valuable because at the time, you could only open and use it once.

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    So she's approaching Jesus, carrying this extremely valuable perfume.

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    And as she does that, we read that he's reclining at table.

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    So during these meals, everyone would basically be lying down on these low couches that were around the table.

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    And that's how, when the woman arrives, she actually had easy access to Jesus' feet.

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    If you try to imagine that with the table and chairs that we're used to, it's a little bit more complicated.

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    So are you picturing this scene?

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    There's this public meal.

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    Everyone there knows this woman's past, knows her negative reputation.

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    But in full view of these people, she's bringing her very best, her valuable perfume to Jesus.

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    But before she's even able to pour it out, she's just overcome with emotion.

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    Verse 38 says, "Weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears and wiped them with the hair of her head, and kissed his feet, and anointed them with the ointment.

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    Obviously, she doesn't care what anyone thinks.

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    She wipes the tears with her hair, kisses his feet, and then pours out her perfume.

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    And so we have to ask, "Why is she doing this?

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    What would drive someone to this incredible, lavish display of love?" I'll tell you, she recognized Jesus for who he is.

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    Now, we don't know what event in her life originally triggered her to do this, but clearly Jesus changed her life.

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    And now she's worshiping Jesus with her possessions, with her emotions, and with her actions.

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    I mean, wow.

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    She clearly understood who Jesus was, that he was the Messiah and that he was the Son of God.

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    And these actions are her response.

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    And that's our very first point for today.

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    To be free from your past, you have to recognize Jesus and then respond with humility.

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    Humility is the first step.

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    And when I say humility, I mean living for God and for others before yourself.

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    Around here, we say humility is not thinking less of yourself, it's just thinking of yourself less.

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    And Philippians 2.3 says, "Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves." Now, of course, we could spend an entire sermon talking about how Jesus is the ultimate example of humility, but we won't do that today.

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    And instead, with that definition in place, we can look back at some of the details about how this woman was humbling herself before Jesus.

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    For example, the washing of the feet was typically a servant's task, but not only is she doing that, she's using her tears and her hair to do it, and even kissing his feet.

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    The anointing oil is typically poured on the head, but she pours it over Jesus' feet.

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    And given her past, it took an immense amount of humility just to be there.

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    But she worships Jesus ignoring the judgment of everyone around her.

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    Wait a second.

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    We know everyone knew her past, but was anyone judging her?

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    Let's go back to the text in verse 39.

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    Now when the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, "If this man were a prophet, He would have known who and what sort of woman this is who's touching him, for she is a sinner.

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    Yikes, how'd you like to attend this guy's dinner party?

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    Just like the woman, we actually don't know much about this Pharisee either, except that his name was Simon.

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    And the Bible does not specifically say why he even invited Jesus, but we do know that the Pharisees, generally speaking, were very much about being noticed.

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    In fact, just a few chapters before this, in Luke chapter 5, you can read about Jesus attending a similar public meal with tax collectors, and the Pharisees were pretty upset about it.

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    The point is, this invitation wasn't about genuinely getting to know Jesus or ask Him questions.

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    It was for show.

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    And we know that He wasn't happy about what was going on in His house, because the Bible records exactly what He was thinking.

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    He's both doubting the power and the authenticity of Jesus, and he's judging the woman.

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    Simon thinks he's better than the woman, and he thinks he knows better than Jesus.

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    And as I was thinking about this passage, I actually was reminded of the rehearsal dinner the night before my wife and I got married.

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    And I didn't learn this until that night, but apparently cake that's served at the rehearsal dinner is known as the groom's cake.

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    I didn't even know there was going to be cake.

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    But a friend of mine knew, and she knew that I loved the penguins.

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    And so she created this amazing Pittsburgh penguins cake as a surprise.

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    So I'm super excited.

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    Well, first I'm super excited because I'm getting married the next day.

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    But I'm also excited because this cake just looks amazing.

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    Actually, do we have a picture of that?

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    Yeah, it's pretty awesome, isn't it?

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    So you can imagine my excitement.

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    Well, a few minutes later, one of the waitresses grabs me and says, "Yeah, my boss was going crazy about your cake.

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    I'm going to let her know you're here." Okay.

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    So then the manager of the restaurant comes out, and she says to me, "Oh my goodness, don't worry.

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    I put it in the safe, and I'm looking at her like, "I don't know what you're talking about." And I quote, she said, "Mario Lemieux is like a god to me." If you're not from around here,

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    (Laughter)

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    the short version is, Mario Lemieux played for the Penguins, and he's one of the greatest hockey players of all time.

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    (Laughter)

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    Some would say the greatest hockey player of all time.

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    Well, it turns out that the husband of my friend who made this cake had recently met Mario Lemieux, had him autograph a puck, and was giving it to me as a wedding gift.

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    Yes!

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    (Laughter)

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    Well, my friend's idea was to actually put the puck into a case and integrate it into her design of the cake.

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    Well, when the manager of the restaurant saw this, She lost her mind.

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    She grabbed the puck, took it to the back of the restaurant, and locked it in the restaurant safe.

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    This is a true story.

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    So why am I telling you this?

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    It's because the manager recognized who Mario Lemieux is, and she responded with, in her mind, the appropriate urgent action.

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    The waitress, however hard this is to believe, did not recognize who Mario Lemieux was, and she responded with indifference.

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    Now flip from my rehearsal dinner back to the dinner that we're reading about.

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    The way that the woman and the Pharisee behave in this passage is completely different.

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    The woman recognized Jesus, and she responded by reverently, emotionally, ignoring all the outside opinion, worshipping him.

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    Simon did not recognize Jesus for who he is, and he was doubting and questioning and judging both Jesus and the woman.

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    The first part of being free from our past is understanding who Jesus is and responding appropriately.

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    The woman understood and she responded with humility, And Simon did not understand, and he responded with pride.

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    I heard a wise pastor once say, "It takes humility to recognize that you're sick with sin." I mean, think about it.

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    When do you go to the doctor?

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    It's not when you're sick.

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    It's when you recognize that you're sick.

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    Simon, like many of the other Pharisees that we see in Scripture, he didn't recognize Jesus, and he refused to recognize his own sin.

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    He either thought he was good or at least not that bad.

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    And if you want to be free from your past, you first need to recognize who Jesus is and humble yourself before him.

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    Let's jump back to the text and pick it up in verse 40.

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    And Jesus answering said to him, "Simon, I have something to say to you.

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    And he answered, "Say it, teacher." A certain moneylender had two debtors.

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    One owed 500 denarii and the other 50.

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    When they could not pay, he canceled the debt of both.

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    Now, which of them will love him more?

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    Simon answered, "The one, I suppose, "for whom he canceled the larger debt." And he said to him, "You have judged rightly." Sean, just to clarify, a single denarius represented one day's wage, but we can understand what Jesus is saying here, right?

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    CJ, let's say you owe me 10 bucks.

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    Sean, let's say, somehow, you owe me $10,000.

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    I question both of our decision making.

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    And let's say I call both of you up and I say, you know what, forget it.

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    We're totally even.

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    Neither of you owe me anything.

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    In that scenario, will CJ or Sean love me more?

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    Sean, right?

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    That's exactly what Jesus is saying here.

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    But let's back up a second.

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    A woman shows up with an incredible lavish display of love towards Jesus, okay.

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    Simon sees it and he judges both her and Jesus in his mind.

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    Okay.

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    Jesus responds with a lesson on finances.

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    Wait, what?

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    That was a little surprising.

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    There's more to this.

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    Let's keep reading.

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    We'll pick it back up at verse 44.

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    Then turning toward the woman, he said to Simon, "Do you see this woman?

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    "I entered your house.

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    "You gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair.

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    You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in, she has not ceased to kiss my feet.

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    You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment.

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    Therefore I tell you, her sins, which are many, are forgiven, for she loved much.

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    "But he who is forgiven little loves little." So here, Jesus explains his parable and he's not sugarcoating it for Simon.

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    In Jesus' time, culturally, Simon, as the host, would have been expected to provide a way for guests to wash their feet.

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    Whether he just brought some water for them to use or he had servants to do it, the responsibility was on Simon.

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    And similarly, you would expect a courteous host to greet you with a kiss when you arrived.

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    And even though it might sound a little bit strange to us, for a guest of honor, it was customary to anoint the head with oil.

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    Simon neglected all of these responsibilities.

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    And Jesus is emphasizing that in each of these things, Simon didn't even meet the basic expectation, but the woman not only met them, but went far above and beyond.

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    For example, Jesus noted that Simon skipped on anointing with oil, as in a common olive oil, and the woman performed the anointing with that valuable perfume that we talked about.

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    So we know that the woman recognized Jesus, but there's more.

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    And again, we have to ask, why is she doing this?

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    Why?

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    Fortunately, Jesus answers that exact question for us right in verse 47.

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    He said, "Her sins, which are many, are forgiven, "for she loved much." In other words, and we're gonna come back to this, she loved much because her sins were forgiven.

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    The woman is the one from Jesus' parable who had the large debt forgiven and loved the one who forgave her.

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    See, the woman knew her sin. She did. She recognized her sin.

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    And using Jesus' metaphor, she recognized her debt.

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    But more importantly, she saw that Jesus, and only Jesus, could pay that debt.

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    And to be free from our sinful past, we have to do the same thing.

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    And that's our second point for today.

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    To be free from your past, recognize the debt that you owed but Christ paid.

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    After recognizing who Jesus is, we must respond by humbling ourselves before Him, and in that humility, we can recognize the magnitude of the debt that we owe.

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    Our sin is a debt that we cannot pay, but praise the Lord, Jesus Christ did pay that debt.

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    And for those that know Christ, we can receive our forgiveness in Him.

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    And Jesus is teaching here that understanding and receiving forgiveness is the key for freedom from our past.

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    Our regrets, our failures, our sin, forgiveness is the key.

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    And Jesus even gives us a measuring stick for our understanding, Our love for Christ is proportional to our understanding of His forgiveness.

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    Jesus expands on that in the negative direction in verse 47 when He says, "He who is forgiven little loves little." In this passage, Simon again seems completely unaware of his own sin and therefore he loves Christ a little, if at all.

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    And he certainly doesn't love the woman.

    24:35-24:40

    Simon saw that this woman sinned more than him, or at least more publicly than him.

    24:42-24:51

    But what he didn't understand is that throughout the gospel, Jesus teaches us that as for where you're going to spend eternity, one sin is the same as one million.

    24:53-25:02

    If you broke the law every single day of your life, or somehow only once, same sin, same guilty, same debt.

    25:04-25:14

    Sin is sin, and whether your past has a little bit of sin, or it's overflowing with sin, it doesn't matter, because in the eyes of God, both are infinite.

    25:16-25:22

    We see in the woman and in Simon that there are two paths that can be taken.

    25:23-25:35

    Like Simon, some people don't see their sin, and there's just a complete failure to recognize the debt that they owe, and they deceive themselves into thinking that they're good, and they don't owe anything to God.

    25:37-25:49

    On the other end, some people are like the woman before she encountered Jesus, carrying a past that's full of sin and full of regret and full of shame.

    25:51-26:58

    And when you're in that situation and you look back on your past, it can be easy to think, "I can never be forgiven because there's just so much here." So much debt. And then you wrongly dismiss the idea of forgiveness, thinking that it's not possible. To be free you need to recognize that all of us are the same in this regard. Each and every one of us owe that debt to God that we cannot pay, and only Christ can pay that debt. So you might be thinking, "Okay, I by humbling myself and I also recognize that I owe a debt and only Christ can pay that debt. So the question is, what do I do to get that forgiveness? To get that freedom? And I am so excited to tell you this morning that Jesus once again has the exact answer. Let's go back to the text in verse 48.

    26:59-27:17

    And he said to her, "Your sins are forgiven." Then those who were at the table with him began to say among themselves, "Who is this who even forgives sins?" And he said to the woman, "Your faith has saved you.

    27:18-27:25

    "Go in peace." Your faith has saved you.

    27:26-27:33

    The way to receive forgiveness and the freedom that comes with it is only through faith in Jesus Christ.

    27:34-27:36

    And that's our final point on your outline for today.

    27:37-27:44

    To be free from your past, recognize that forgiveness is received by faith.

    27:46-27:54

    See, Jesus' words here confirm that the woman's love towards him was the result of her forgiveness, not the cause of her forgiveness.

    27:55-28:01

    She didn't earn her forgiveness through her worship of Christ or anything she did, and neither can we.

    28:02-28:13

    She received her forgiveness through faith in Jesus, believing that he is who he says he is, and believing that despite the depth of sin that's in her past.

    28:15-28:24

    For some of us, getting over our past and removing that as a barrier in our relationship between us and Christ is a huge challenge.

    28:25-28:33

    You can feel like I've done this thing in my past that everyone knows, and it might as well be tattooed across my forehead.

    28:34-28:43

    I just feel like everybody knows my mistakes and how I've screwed up, and I don't know how they're gonna accept me, much less how Jesus ever will.

    28:46-28:47

    I'm gonna be transparent with you today.

    28:50-28:52

    I'm not the person from the parable with a smaller debt.

    28:54-28:58

    And in fact, I actually don't think that person exists outside of the parable.

    29:01-29:03

    I mean, sure, I'm not a murderer.

    29:05-29:11

    I haven't robbed a bank or even stolen an autographed hockey puck from a restaurant safe.

    29:14-29:18

    But while I haven't done those things, I do have a past.

    29:20-29:26

    I have a past that's full of mistakes and full of regret and full of shame.

    29:29-29:32

    Like the woman, my sins are many.

    29:35-29:45

    And sometimes all I think about every day are all the things that I've done that I wish that I could undo.

    29:48-29:50

    And do you know what Jesus would say to that?

    29:51-29:57

    And what he would say to anyone who's willing to put their faith in him, we just read it.

    29:58-30:02

    He would say, "Your faith has saved you.

    30:03-30:05

    Your sins are forgiven.

    30:06-30:08

    Your sins are forgiven.

    30:10-30:10

    Praise the Lord.

    30:13-30:15

    You can be free from your past.

    30:16-30:25

    And when you start to think about your debt and then Christ's forgiveness, you start to understand this beautiful act of worship of this woman.

    30:26-30:28

    She understood forgiveness.

    30:29-30:35

    And her love for Jesus was just pouring out of her like the perfume that she poured out.

    30:36-30:39

    Because when you really grasp forgiveness, you can't help it.

    30:39-30:41

    Love for Christ just pours out of you.

    30:42-30:48

    Love for Christ leads to love for your brothers sisters in Christ. Love for the lost.

    30:50-31:28

    Verse 47 teaches us that he who is forgiven little loves little, but he who is forgiven much loves much. Some people don't recognize that depth of forgiveness in Christ. The woman was forgiven of a lot and she acted like it. She wasn't ashamed of her past and today we don't have to be ashamed either because regardless of what you've done, what you've said, what you've thought, what you've wished, once you put your faith in Christ, God looks at us and sees Christ.

    31:30-32:13

    He looks at us and says, "I don't see your past. I see you as perfect." It's mind-blowing and it's only possible because of the cross. At the cross through Jesus' sacrifice our sins past present and future were redeemed and the debt that Jesus talks about in this passage it was paid. Through Christ our past doesn't have to be viewed as a weight. He frees us from that but we We don't have to ignore our past either, because it serves as a reminder of who we once were and who we are now.

    32:15-32:31

    Because extending beyond the point of salvation, the point of putting your faith in Christ for the entirety of our time on earth, Christ is transforming us and we're always going to be continually looking back and seeing that transformation.

    32:33-32:59

    the work that he's done in our lives. And looking at it in the negative, if you don't recognize the depth of forgiveness in Jesus, you will continue to carry your past as a weight and probably be defined by it. We can see from the woman's behavior that she's no longer living with that regret or that guilt and that That is why she loves Jesus so much.

    33:01-33:07

    And through faith in Him, we can follow in the same freedom that Jesus promised to the woman.

    33:10-33:19

    So as we close, I hope you understand today that you don't need to hold onto your past like so many of us are tempted to do.

    33:20-33:29

    This passage of scripture outlines how to be healed from that plague of failure and regret and past sin.

    33:30-33:33

    And as we learn from Jesus, the key is forgiveness.

    33:35-33:56

    To be free from your past, you have to recognize Jesus and respond with humility, admitting where you've fallen short, and recognize the debt that you owed, but Christ paid, and recognize that forgiveness is received by faith and put your faith in him if you have him.

    33:57-33:59

    And of course, walk out your faith.

    34:00-34:14

    Through Christ, when you screw up, you can pray to the Lord and confess your sin to him and thank him for his forgiveness and ask him to continually be transforming you to be more like Jesus.

    34:16-34:23

    Certainly, you may need to seek forgiveness from another person if there was someone else involved that was wronged in this.

    34:24-34:38

    And certainly there might be consequences for things that you've done, but if you can pray those things with sincerity in your heart, you truly can walk in the exact same freedom that we read about this woman walking in.

    34:40-34:43

    So first you need to ask yourself, am I forgiven?

    34:44-34:47

    Have I not yet put my faith in Jesus?

    34:48-34:52

    And if not, today can be your day to make that right.

    34:54-35:13

    And if you already are forgiven through faith, then you need to ask yourself, "Am I living like I've been forgiven, or am I living like I still have that debt?" In either case, you don't need to be burdened by your past, by your reputation, or by your regret.

    35:14-35:15

    You can be free.

    35:17-35:21

    And the answer to our burdens is always in Jesus himself.

    35:22-35:27

    And the same answer that he gave to the woman in verse 50 can be yours today.

    35:28-35:31

    He said, "Your faith has saved you.

    35:32-35:36

    Go in peace." Let's pray.

    35:39-35:44

    Lord God, thank you for your word and thank you for the forgiveness that we have through your son.

    35:47-35:58

    I pray for all of us today, Lord, that through your spirit, you would enable us to understand this forgiveness, both in our heads and in our hearts.

    36:01-36:04

    Lord, all of us have a past, and all of us have made mistakes.

    36:06-36:11

    And I pray for those of us who constantly struggle with dwelling on them.

    36:14-36:21

    For those of us who struggle with holding on to our regrets instead of giving those burdens of our past to you.

    36:22-36:35

    For those of us who may struggle with confessing our sin to you in humility, I pray that in every circumstance, you would bring freedom, Lord.

    36:36-36:47

    You are the only one with the power to transform us, to change us from what we once into who You have called us to be.

    36:49-36:54

    I pray that You would continue to shape all of us into the likeness of Jesus.

    36:56-37:01

    God, we all want to be faithful, to live in the freedom that only You provide.

    37:02-37:10

    We thank You, and we praise You, and we ask all of this in Jesus' name.

    37:11-37:11

    Amen.

Small Group Discussion

Read Luke 7:36-50

GROUP

  1. What things can get in the way of humility before God?

  2. How would you counsel someone feeling overwhelmed by their past (their “debt”)?

  3. Why do you think some people struggle with internalizing forgiveness?

BREAKOUT

Pray for one another.

Where Are You

Introduction:

  1. Grace Abounds.
  2. Grace abounds in Early Death.
  3. Grace abounds in Eternal Life.
  4. Grace abounds in Everyday Righteousness.

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  • Rich Sprunk:

    00:18-00:25

    Good morning. It is a joy and a privilege to be up here and to speak with you this morning.

    Rich Sprunk:

    00:26-00:41

    I want to offer a disclaimer first. This was a tough message for me to prepare, and I want to say it. My aim is right at the core of our being, to cut us to the quick.

    Rich Sprunk:

    00:42-01:01

    The other thing I want to say is by way of disclaimer, in a couple of places I'll be using myself as an illustration, but I don't want anyone to leave here thinking that this isn't in any way about me. It is all about the grace of our great God and our Savior Jesus Christ.

    Rich Sprunk:

    01:01-01:08

    Before I begin, I want to invite Jillian to come up. She's going to read the passage for us this morning.

    Jillian:

    01:08-01:23

    Now the law came in to increase the trespass, but where sin increased, grace abounded all more, so that, as sin reigned in death, grace also might reign through righteousness, leading to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

    Jillian:

    01:24-01:25

    What shall we say then?

    Jillian:

    01:26-01:28

    Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound?

    Jillian:

    01:29-01:30

    By no means!

    Jillian:

    01:30-01:34

    How could who died to sin still live in it?

    Jillian:

    01:34-01:39

    Do you know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ were baptized into His death?

    Jillian:

    01:39-01:43

    We were buried, therefore, with Him by baptism into death.

    Jillian:

    01:43-01:50

    In order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.

    Jillian:

    01:51-01:58

    For if we have been united with Him in a death like this, we shall certainly be united with Him in a resurrection like this.

    Jillian:

    01:58-02:07

    We know that our old self was crucified with Him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.

    Jillian:

    02:08-02:10

    For one who has died has been set free from sin.

    Jillian:

    02:11-02:16

    Now if we have died with Christ, we believe that we also live with Him.

    Jillian:

    02:16-02:20

    We know that Christ, being raised from the dead, will never die again.

    Jillian:

    02:21-02:23

    Death no longer has dominion over Him.

    Jillian:

    02:23-02:27

    For the death He died, He died to sin, once for all.

    Jillian:

    02:27-02:29

    But the life He lives, He lives to God.

    Jillian:

    02:29-02:34

    So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Jesus Christ.

    Jillian:

    02:34-02:39

    Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body to make you obey its passions.

    Jillian:

    02:39-02:51

    Do not present your members to sin as instruments for unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life, and your members to God as instruments for righteousness.

    Jillian:

    02:51-02:56

    For sin will have no dominion over you, since you are not under law, but under grace.

    Rich Sprunk:

    02:57-02:58

    Thank you, Jillian.

    Rich Sprunk:

    02:58-02:58

    Let's pray.

    Rich Sprunk:

    02:59-03:01

    Gracious Father, O feed us this morning.

    Rich Sprunk:

    03:02-03:05

    May we hear from you, not me.

    Rich Sprunk:

    03:06-03:18

    I pray, Father, give us ears to hear, eyes to see the glories in your truth, and the grace and the great love with which you have loved us, in our Savior Jesus Christ, amen.

    Rich Sprunk:

    03:19-03:28

    My phone, I really like my phone because when I'm lost, when I need to know where I am, I can go to Waze, I can go to Google Maps, and it'll tell me where I am.

    Rich Sprunk:

    03:28-03:32

    My phone will even tell me where it is if I've lost my phone.

    Rich Sprunk:

    03:33-03:54

    And another thing I like about it is if I go to the store with my wife, Bethany, go to Walmart, it's raining, and I'll drop her off at the front door so she doesn't have to walk through the parking lot in the rain, and I'll go park, and when I get in the store, I can text her and find out where she's at.

    Rich Sprunk:

    03:55-03:55

    There we go.

    Rich Sprunk:

    03:56-04:08

    So I'll text her, I'll say, "Dude, where are you?" And she'll say, "Oh, I'm in Sporting Goods, bro, "and I'm getting some camo and ammo." Now, if you know my wife, Bethany, you know she's not going to be in sporting goods.

    Rich Sprunk:

    04:09-04:13

    Now, more likely she's going to be in automotive or hardware looking for some power tool.

    Rich Sprunk:

    04:14-04:20

    But the question of where are you is, it's not always about one's physical location.

    Rich Sprunk:

    04:21-04:23

    It can refer to a person's circumstances.

    Rich Sprunk:

    04:24-04:58

    So, if we know someone who's going through difficulties, they've lost a job, they're struggling with their health, they're going through a breakup in a relationship, we might say, "Well, you're in a bad place." Conversely, if I got a new job, I'm moving across country, I'm in a new relationship, we say, "Well, you're in a good place." So as it refers to relationships, we sometimes see people who, as they progress in the relationship, they might start asking themselves, "Well, where are we right now?

    Rich Sprunk:

    04:58-04:59

    "What's going on with us?

    Rich Sprunk:

    04:59-05:00

    Where are we?

    Rich Sprunk:

    05:01-05:02

    We see this in the Scripture.

    Rich Sprunk:

    05:02-05:10

    In Genesis chapter 3, when God asked Adam, "Where are you?" It wasn't because God didn't know where Adam was physically.

    Rich Sprunk:

    05:10-05:12

    He knew exactly where Adam was.

    Rich Sprunk:

    05:13-05:17

    But he wanted Adam to understand where he was relationally.

    Rich Sprunk:

    05:17-05:22

    He was looking for confession and repentance in asking that question of Adam.

    Rich Sprunk:

    05:23-05:27

    It was, "Adam, do you know where you stand with me now that you've sinned?

    Rich Sprunk:

    05:28-05:30

    Do you know where we are in our relationship?

    Rich Sprunk:

    05:31-05:50

    And we are going to see that God did not destroy Adam and Eve in His wrath, as He said, "You eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, you shall die." But He didn't destroy them in His wrath, instead He graciously moved them to a place where grace abounded and fellowship could be restored.

    Rich Sprunk:

    05:51-06:11

    In Romans 5.20-6.2, Paul tells us, "Now the law came in to increase the trespass, but where sin increased, grace abounded all the more, so that as sin reigned in death, grace also might reign through righteousness, leading to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." What shall we say then?

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:11-06:13

    Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound?

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:14-06:15

    By no means.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:16-06:19

    How can we who died to sin still live in it?

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:20-06:22

    Our first point here is that grace abounds.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:23-06:24

    The case abounds.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:25-06:31

    Paul is, of course, referring to the Ten Commandments when he talks about the law coming in.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:32-06:35

    But God gave Adam laws to follow too.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:35-06:37

    He gave him several positive to-do commands.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:37-06:38

    Be fruitful and multiply.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:39-06:40

    Exercise dominion over the earth.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:41-06:42

    Take care of the garden. Tend it.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:43-06:45

    And he gave him the one shall not command.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:46-06:49

    But by eating the forbidden fruit, Adam and Eve sinned.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:50-06:51

    They increased the trespass.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:52-06:56

    The good news is where the sin increased, grace abounded all the more.

    Rich Sprunk:

    06:57-06:59

    In response, we see that God cursed the serpent.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:00-07:04

    He cursed the creation, but he didn't curse Adam and Eve.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:04-07:15

    They were going to experience consequences, but he didn't curse them directly, and they did not die physically immediately, though they did perish spiritually, inwardly.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:16-07:23

    Instead, to restore fellowship with his people, God clothed Adam and Eve with animal skins from a sacrifice.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:24-07:27

    We see that where Adam and Eve sinned, God's grace abounded.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:28-07:32

    His grace exceeded the extent and consequences of their sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:33-07:39

    The whole of Scripture is a historical account of God's grace exceeding human sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:39-07:42

    Wherever sin increased, grace exceeded it.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:42-07:48

    This is most evident in Christ's substitutionary, sacrificial once for all death on the cross.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:48-07:55

    God's grace continues to abound as sinners in the perfect and permanent once for all sacrifice of Christ.

    Rich Sprunk:

    07:56-07:59

    We cannot sin beyond what God will graciously forgive.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:00-08:02

    His grace exceeds our sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:03-08:10

    We see in Romans 5.21 that grace reigns through righteousness leading to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:10-08:15

    So there's some natural and logical questions that arise about the truth, that grace abound.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:16-08:17

    The first is, well, what is grace?

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:18-08:22

    Very simply, grace is getting what we don't deserve.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:22-08:25

    Adam and Eve deserve death when they sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:26-08:29

    God instead showed them grace by substituting another life for theirs.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:30-08:35

    By grace, he kept them alive and promised a redeemer from the seat of the woman.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:35-08:39

    The second question is, well, if grace abounds, why not keep sinning?

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:40-08:46

    This was the question posed by Paul's critics, the Jews who believed in righteousness and salvation by works.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:47-08:54

    They asserted sarcastically that if grace exceeds sinful actions, we should just keep sinning, so there'll be even more grace.

    Rich Sprunk:

    08:55-08:59

    This is a wicked notion, and Paul responds by no means.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:00-09:02

    How can we who died to sin still live in it?

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:03-09:07

    Well, the next question is, well, if grace abounds, does it really matter if I continue to sin?

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:09-09:10

    God's going to forgive me, right?

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:10-09:12

    He knows I'm not perfect.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:13-09:18

    So do I really have to try to live up to such an impossible standard?

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:18-09:22

    Or put it another way, if Jesus died for my sin, shouldn't I be getting my money's worth?

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:23-09:26

    This too is a wicked, presumptuous thought.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:26-09:35

    It's the kind of Christianity and thinking that accommodates the world and opens the sluice gates to let in the cultural swamp around us.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:35-09:41

    German theologian and opposer of the Nazis, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, called this cheap grace.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:41-09:45

    He said, "Cheap grace is the grace "we bestow upon ourselves.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:45-09:49

    "Cheap grace is the preaching of forgiveness "without requiring repentance.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:50-09:51

    "Baptism without church discipline.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:52-09:53

    "Communion without confession.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:54-09:57

    "Cheap grace is grace without discipleship.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:57-09:58

    "Grace without the cross.

    Rich Sprunk:

    09:59-10:06

    "Grace without Jesus Christ living and incarnate." According to Bonhoeffer, Grace is to hear the gospel preached thus.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:07-10:09

    Of course you have sinned, but now everything is forgiven.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:10-10:14

    So you can stay just as you are and enjoy the consolations of forgiveness.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:14-10:19

    You know, I've tried this myself and probably in ways still do.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:20-10:21

    See, when I was first saved, life was great.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:22-10:24

    My life was improved.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:25-10:31

    My faith in Christ was a means of self-fulfillment, self-actualization, a pathway to success.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:31-10:37

    God was going to bless me because now I was a shiny and new improved version of myself.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:37-10:55

    I thought I could hold on to what I deemed to be good, values of my old life that were good, and by putting on a Christian veneer, putting a Christian veneer over them, I was bound to have success in my relationships and in school, in my career.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:55-10:59

    I was gonna have financial well-being and material blessings that were given.

    Rich Sprunk:

    10:59-11:02

    The biblical term for this is idolatry.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:02-11:04

    God also calls it whoredom.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:04-11:11

    In short, I continued whoring after all my idols along with a half-hearted worship of God.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:11-11:16

    And I thought, well, this is okay because my sin increases, grace abounds all the more.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:16-11:18

    God would forgive me.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:19-11:23

    Pastor and author Douglas Wilson says, our dilemma is that we want to be saved.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:23-11:28

    We want to be saved without admitting the full reality of what we're being saved from.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:29-11:32

    You see, what I was trying to do simply does not work.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:32-11:39

    It's impossible to keep the first commandment and still love and worship myself.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:40-11:45

    It's impossible to love myself and at the same time love the Lord my God with all my heart, mind, soul, and strength.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:46-11:55

    I tried mightily, but inevitably my love of self and friendship with the world kept me mired in ungodly living.

    Rich Sprunk:

    11:56-12:01

    Now, I didn't start out most days thinking about ways to deliberately sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    12:02-12:10

    I would instead incrementally fall into it, admiss or ignore the warning signs that accompany the little temptations and compromises.

    Rich Sprunk:

    12:11-12:14

    And you know, the next thing you know, I'm yelling irrationally at my kids.

    Rich Sprunk:

    12:14-12:17

    I'm being unkind to my wife and giving her the cold shoulder.

    Rich Sprunk:

    12:18-12:20

    I'm cursing at the driver who wouldn't let me merge.

    Rich Sprunk:

    12:21-12:35

    I'm looking at worthless things and magazines and online, and I'm indulging in petty jealousy, gossiping, envying, hating others, feeling sorry for myself, wallowing in self-pity.

    Rich Sprunk:

    12:35-12:51

    My efforts to love my wife, I'm sorry, my efforts to love my neighbor, and that includes my wife and children, as myself were mired in futility because my covetous heart was lavishing the love due to God alone on other gods, including myself.

    Rich Sprunk:

    12:52-13:15

    My life was a continual car wreck I loved my life more than the one who loved me and gave me life. I was living a life of cheap grace. So I'd make excuses. It's not my fault. Satan's attacking me. Even though James 1 verses 13 and 15 tells me otherwise, I berated myself. How did I end up here again?

    Rich Sprunk:

    13:16-13:26

    Expressed contrition. Oh, the guilt, the shame. I'll do better. And then in short order, I I would find myself doing the very same things I vowed I would not do.

    Rich Sprunk:

    13:26-13:28

    This brought me to a very dark place.

    Rich Sprunk:

    13:28-13:29

    I began to question my salvation.

    Rich Sprunk:

    13:30-13:34

    How can I really be saved if I keep doing what I know I should not?

    Rich Sprunk:

    13:35-13:39

    Why was I not changing in permanent and fundamental ways?

    Rich Sprunk:

    13:40-13:42

    Is it even possible to change?

    Rich Sprunk:

    13:43-13:51

    After many years of flailing in my walk with Christ, I found, or more precisely, I was taught the things we're gonna talk about this morning.

    Rich Sprunk:

    13:52-13:55

    The answers to my questions are in our passage in Romans.

    Rich Sprunk:

    13:55-14:00

    I found in these verses the assurance of my salvation.

    Rich Sprunk:

    14:00-14:09

    And I understood at last that because I was in Christ, where grace abounds, I could fully walk in the righteousness that was mined by grace.

    Rich Sprunk:

    14:10-14:14

    So the answer, is it possible to change, is a resounding yes.

    Rich Sprunk:

    14:15-14:18

    It's because where sin increased, grace abounded even more.

    Rich Sprunk:

    14:18-15:22

    going to look at how grace abounds to set us free from the power of sin and how grace enables us to walk in ways that conform us to Christ and please our Heavenly Father. Does that mean we will never ever sin again? No, but Paul deals with that in Romans chapter 7 and that's a sermon for another day. Today we will see first that grace abounds in early death, grace abounds in eternal life, and abounds in early death. Unbelievers fear death. It's a great unknown. Even some believers fear death. My father as he was approaching death was, "I hope Jesus forgives me. I really hope he forgives me." And I was like, "Dad, you are in Christ. You don't need to be afraid." I think it's probably fair to say that most of us avoid thinking about death, and yet the subject of death permeates scripture. It's everywhere, everywhere, right from the beginning to the very end.

    Rich Sprunk:

    15:22-16:14

    In this passage this morning alone, it's mentioned 16 times. We see that our for Savior Jesus, His death on the cross was the focus and purpose of His earthly life. And His death for us was motivated by love and obedience to the Father. And their life will lose it and anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life and in Luke 9 23 and 24 Jesus says whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me for whoever wants to save their life will lose it but whoever loses their life for me will save it therefore if you want to experience abounding grace in a a righteous life, you must die to this world.

    Rich Sprunk:

    16:15-16:19

    That is, we must die to all the things that bring death, right now.

    Rich Sprunk:

    16:21-16:29

    Right now, and later today, and tomorrow, and the day after that, and you must remain dead for the rest of your earthly life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    16:30-16:33

    Because Paul says, how can we who died to sin still live in it?

    Rich Sprunk:

    16:34-16:41

    In Romans 6, three through seven, Paul connects the necessity of death with baptism.

    Rich Sprunk:

    16:42-16:45

    Baptism illustrates our death to this life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    16:46-16:53

    He says, "Do you not know that all of us "who have been baptized into Christ Jesus "were baptized into his death?

    Rich Sprunk:

    16:54-16:59

    "We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death.

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:00-17:07

    "In order that just as Christ was raised from the dead "by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:08-17:11

    For we have been united with Him in a death like His.

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:11-17:16

    We shall certainly be united with Him in a resurrection like His.

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:17-17:26

    We know that our old self was crucified with Him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:28-17:35

    The one who has died has been set free from sin." So we see in this passage that we should already be dead.

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:36-17:39

    We should have died to this world even before we were baptized.

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:41-17:50

    And your baptism vividly illustrates for you and everyone who was there, that it was a funeral and a burial.

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:51-17:51

    Why did we die?

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:51-17:53

    Well, we were crucified with him.

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:53-17:54

    That's an astounding thought, isn't it?

    Rich Sprunk:

    17:55-18:02

    We were crucified with Christ in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing so that we'd no longer be enslaved to sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    18:03-18:07

    This is the key to abounding grace in early death.

    Rich Sprunk:

    18:08-18:21

    Note where death places you into Christ Jesus, united with him in a death like his and buried with him by baptism into his death.

    Rich Sprunk:

    18:22-18:25

    Again, this is an astounding fact.

    Rich Sprunk:

    18:25-18:29

    When Jesus died at Calvary, we were baptized into his death.

    Rich Sprunk:

    18:30-18:34

    Elsewhere in the gospels, Jesus himself refers to his approaching death as a baptism.

    Rich Sprunk:

    18:35-19:04

    In Mark 10.38, Jesus asked James and John, "Are you able to drink the cup that I drink, or be baptized with the baptism with which I am baptized?" And in Luke 12.50, he said, "I have a baptism to be baptized with, and how great is my distress until it is accomplished." Again, Paul says, "The one who has died has been set free from sin." "Have we reckoned ourselves, therefore, "as dead to this world and everything in it?" What are the dead able to do?

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:05-19:07

    They no longer have any interaction with this world.

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:08-19:14

    The sights and the smells, the tastes, the feelings of this world have no appeal and no hold over them.

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:15-19:16

    They are dead to it all.

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:16-19:18

    Do we desire the world's acclaim?

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:18-19:23

    Do we idolize wealth, success, power, out of worldly pride and selfish ambition?

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:24-19:25

    Or are we dead to such things?

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:26-19:28

    Now you may say, "What is all this stuff about death?

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:29-19:31

    "Why, how did this sermon get so morbid?

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:32-19:37

    "God, I thought God knew the plans he had for me "and my best life right now is gonna be great.

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:38-19:39

    "Why is this so morbid?

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:40-19:44

    "And you know, I don't think about my baptism that way, "that it's a death.

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:45-19:47

    "I thought it was just some kind of a picture.

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:48-19:49

    "It was a step of obedience.

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:49-19:55

    "It's a way to get closer to God." Well, you know, when I got baptized, I didn't have a full understanding either.

    Rich Sprunk:

    19:56-20:02

    But as we read God's word, as we pray and worship and meditate on his word, our understanding grows.

    Rich Sprunk:

    20:03-20:12

    And we should look back on our baptism and see it as a very public pronouncement of when we pass from death to life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    20:13-20:26

    For instance, if you ever watched a movie that you maybe saw as a kid, and as a kid you probably thought you understood it and it was a great movie, and you go back and you watch it as an adult, And you go, "Wow, I never realized that.

    Rich Sprunk:

    20:26-20:27

    "I never saw that before.

    Rich Sprunk:

    20:28-20:29

    "Now I understand.

    Rich Sprunk:

    20:30-20:32

    "Now I understand the character's motives.

    Rich Sprunk:

    20:32-20:39

    "Now I understand the whole point of the movie." We can do this because we have experience, we have knowledge, we have the context.

    Rich Sprunk:

    20:39-20:45

    We can see clearly now with a lifetime of experience what we only dimly perceived as a child.

    Rich Sprunk:

    20:46-20:56

    And so as we grow up in our walk with Christ, We can look back at our baptism and see it as a passage from death to life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    20:56-21:00

    We did not have to understand the whole of life in Christ in order to be baptized.

    Rich Sprunk:

    21:01-21:11

    It was a one-time event showing our death to this life, but it should remain for us a daily touchstone, a continual reminder when we are tempted to sin that we cannot.

    Rich Sprunk:

    21:12-21:13

    We cannot sin anymore.

    Rich Sprunk:

    21:14-21:17

    We should not sin anymore because we died.

    Rich Sprunk:

    21:17-21:19

    How permanent is such a death?

    Rich Sprunk:

    21:20-21:25

    Well let me give you an illustration of how we should view the death, of our death, to our old life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    21:25-21:33

    On September 6, 2009, this truck was traveling southbound on Nicholson Road.

    Rich Sprunk:

    21:33-21:40

    The driver at 1201 that morning, he just had his license reinstated from a previous DUI.

    Rich Sprunk:

    21:40-22:03

    But at 6.20 in the morning on September 6th, he had a blood alcohol level of 2.8 and he was hurtling southbound at over 60 miles an hour, fell asleep, and crossed over into the oncoming lane where he crashed into this car head on.

    Rich Sprunk:

    22:03-22:15

    The impact of that collision was so great it drove this little car backwards 56 feet He flipped the truck completely around so that it was facing the opposite direction.

    Rich Sprunk:

    22:16-22:22

    The driver of the truck, probably because he was drunk, experienced a scratch on his face.

    Rich Sprunk:

    22:23-22:28

    The driver of this car was taken away in an ambulance to Allegheny General Hospital.

    Rich Sprunk:

    22:30-22:40

    And the EMT, as he was calling in, calling to the hospital to tell them what kind of patient they were bringing, were bringing in a victim of a murder crash.

    Rich Sprunk:

    22:40-22:49

    The police officer who did the accident investigation was absolutely convinced that the driver of this car was dead.

    Rich Sprunk:

    22:50-22:52

    But I'll tell you what, I didn't die.

    Rich Sprunk:

    22:53-22:55

    I walked away from that car.

    Rich Sprunk:

    22:56-23:05

    And as I stared back kind of dumbly at my car after this happened, the only thing I could think is, I can't drive my car anymore.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:06-23:08

    Some people have told me I was lucky.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:08-23:12

    Lucky, by the grace of God, I walked away from death.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:12-23:14

    There is no such thing as luck.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:15-23:20

    And this is how we should view our lives, our old lives before knowing Christ.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:21-23:28

    Your old life is a murder crash and you've walked away from it and you can't drive that old life anymore.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:29-23:31

    How can I continue in sin?

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:32-23:34

    I was baptized into his death.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:34-23:41

    I was buried therefore with him by baptism into death, and I have been united with him in a death like his.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:42-23:49

    Beloved, grace abounds in being united with Jesus in his death, because through death he defeated sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:49-23:54

    Sin was brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:55-23:58

    The one who has died has been set free from sin.

    Rich Sprunk:

    23:59-24:05

    And if we have died with Christ, Then we see grace abounds in eternal life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    24:06-24:10

    Paul says, "If we have died with Christ, "we believe we will also live with him.

    Rich Sprunk:

    24:11-24:14

    "We know that Christ being raised from the dead "will never die again.

    Rich Sprunk:

    24:15-24:17

    "Death no longer has dominion over him.

    Rich Sprunk:

    24:17-24:28

    "For the death he died, he died to sin once for all, "but the life he lives, he lives to God." The first application of these verses is that we shall be united with him in a resurrection like his.

    Rich Sprunk:

    24:29-24:34

    Eternal life in a glorified body is the ultimate hope of our salvation.

    Rich Sprunk:

    24:35-24:44

    We don't know what that glorified body will look like, but it will be better than this husk, this tent, this old pot.

    Rich Sprunk:

    24:45-24:46

    It will be so glorious.

    Rich Sprunk:

    24:47-24:52

    And scripture gives us an illustration using ordinary seed.

    Rich Sprunk:

    24:52-25:02

    In John 12, verses 24 and 25, Jesus said, "Truly, truly, I say to you, So unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone.

    Rich Sprunk:

    25:03-25:06

    But if it dies, it bears much fruit.

    Rich Sprunk:

    25:06-25:12

    Whoever loves his life loses it, and whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    25:12-25:19

    And in 1 Corinthians 15, 36-37, Paul wrote, "What you sow does not come to life unless it dies.

    Rich Sprunk:

    25:20-25:40

    And what you sow is not the body that is to be, but a bare kernel, perhaps of wheat or some other grain. A seed is packed with amazing energy. It contains everything necessary within itself to become a fruitful plant, hundreds times larger and more beautiful than itself.

    Rich Sprunk:

    25:41-25:44

    But it has to die. It has to be put into the earth.

    Rich Sprunk:

    25:45-25:59

    Now Paul in 1 Corinthians 15, he's talking about our glorified life, the future. But you see the future is not our only hope Because Jesus is raised to the Father's glory, we walk in newness of life right now.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:00-26:04

    Jesus was raised to life by the power of God, and the life he lives, he lives to God.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:04-26:07

    You see, the imagery of baptism returns.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:07-26:14

    We are buried in the water because we were dead, but then we're raised up to eternal life with him.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:14-26:17

    We come out of the water to walk in newness of life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:18-26:22

    By grace, we live and walk with our eyes fixed on Jesus.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:23-26:28

    So another very practical and present application is that we live forever, right now.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:29-26:32

    You should not think of eternal life as some far off thing.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:32-26:33

    You're eternal right now.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:34-26:37

    Death has no dominion over us.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:37-26:38

    Death has lost its sting.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:39-26:45

    I believe that's why in the New Testament that people who've died are said to have fallen asleep.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:46-26:48

    'Cause that's not just a pleasant euphemism for death.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:48-26:49

    Oh, they're asleep.

    Rich Sprunk:

    26:49-27:13

    No, it's a factual way to describe believers who've crossed the threshold, where they now see God face to face, by grace their fellowship is perfectly restored, but the seed has been planted to one day be resurrected bodily, united with our souls, to live forever with God in a physical glorified new body.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:13-27:15

    But beloved, that starts now.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:16-27:21

    And Paul extends this thought, And what it means for us daily in the next passage.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:22-27:24

    Grace abounds in everyday righteousness.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:25-27:31

    Because we walk in newness of life, we are able to live righteously every day.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:31-27:33

    Jesus Christ has justified us.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:34-27:36

    By that I mean he has made us righteous positionally.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:36-27:41

    He has moved us to a place where we are righteous in God's eyes.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:41-27:44

    The Father looks at us and he sees his Son.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:45-27:50

    But we have an obligation to grow up into that righteousness and live it out every day.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:51-27:52

    That's called sanctification.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:53-27:58

    So Paul says, "You also must consider yourselves "dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.

    Rich Sprunk:

    27:59-28:03

    "Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body "to make you obey its passions.

    Rich Sprunk:

    28:04-28:11

    "Do not present your members to sin "as instruments for unrighteousness, "but present yourselves to God as those "who have been brought from death to life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    28:12-28:15

    "And your members to God as instruments for righteousness.

    Rich Sprunk:

    28:16-28:23

    "For sin will have no dominion over you, "since you are not under law, but under grace." You are dead to sin, beloved.

    Rich Sprunk:

    28:24-28:26

    The world of sin does not have dominion over you.

    Rich Sprunk:

    28:26-28:28

    That's what Paul says about believers.

    Rich Sprunk:

    28:28-28:29

    That's a fact.

    Rich Sprunk:

    28:30-28:54

    "Therefore, each day we are free and empowered "to resist the devil and flee temptation "and walk in newness of life." Paul says we have to consider ourselves as dead to sin and the more glorious, awesome truth that we are alive in Christ Jesus to consider, is to contemplate, to ponder, to reckon, to believe.

    Rich Sprunk:

    28:55-29:03

    So I exhort you, believe as a fact that when Jesus died and rose again, you were in him, you died and rose with him, and you are alive forevermore.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:03-29:07

    Here's a way of illustrating that kind of security.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:08-29:10

    This is a concrete anchor.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:11-29:18

    It's used to, for instance, mount a fence post in concrete.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:18-29:19

    You drive it down in there.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:19-29:25

    And the way you use this is you drill a hole in the concrete and you tap it down in there.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:25-29:26

    And it has some different parts.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:27-29:31

    So the first part, of course, is the bolt and it has this little bell shape on the end.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:32-29:37

    It has a nut and a washer to secure what you're trying to put in the ground.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:37-29:41

    And it has this little collar or anchor on the very end.

    Rich Sprunk:

    29:41-30:08

    So, what happens is when you put this down in the hole in the concrete, and you tighten the nut, it draws the bolt upward and it pulls this little collar down over the bell shape at the end. So, what happens is that anchor is so tight in the concrete and so immovable, the only way you're going to get it out is to bust the concrete all up.

    Rich Sprunk:

    30:09-30:10

    It's the only way this is coming out.

    Rich Sprunk:

    30:10-30:24

    Now, no illustration is perfect, and we should not take the size of the various parts as having any importance or greater or lesser meaning, but here's the application.

    Rich Sprunk:

    30:25-30:27

    God is your rock.

    Rich Sprunk:

    30:27-30:28

    Christ is your anchor.

    Rich Sprunk:

    30:29-30:44

    The Holy Spirit has placed you - bolt - into God the rock, and He is tightening you up so that you are so firmly in Christ, in God the Father through the work of the Holy Spirit, you cannot be moved.

    Rich Sprunk:

    30:45-30:50

    You are anchored, you are established in the Lord God most high.

    Rich Sprunk:

    30:51-31:00

    Because of that, because of where you are, you can wake up every morning and present yourself to God as those who have been brought from death to life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:02-31:04

    And your members to God as instruments for righteousness.

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:04-31:06

    What does this look like?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:06-31:09

    First question, have you repented?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:09-31:15

    The times of ignorance God has overlooked, but now He commands all men everywhere to repent.

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:16-31:19

    Repent and believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you shall be saved.

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:20-31:21

    Have you been baptized?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:21-31:25

    Whether you've been a believer for a short time or a long time, have you been baptized?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:26-31:28

    If not, why not?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:28-31:32

    In the book of Acts, people professed faith in Christ and boom, they were getting baptized.

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:33-31:34

    What are you waiting for?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:34-31:36

    How am I doing with the first commandment?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:37-31:41

    What other gods am I putting before the Lord God Almighty?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:42-31:49

    Am I still a practical idolater, pursuing my career, my passions, my pursuits as my first effort?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:50-31:53

    Or am I loving the Lord my God with all my heart, mind, soul, and strength?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:54-31:56

    How am I doing at keeping the Sabbath?

    Rich Sprunk:

    31:57-32:06

    Do I keep it as a gift of rest from my gracious Father, as a gift, as it is meant to be, or is it just another day?

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:07-32:09

    to pursue my wants and my pleasures.

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:09-32:14

    Our friends across the street that sell those chicken patties, they seem to know how to keep the Lord's day.

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:15-32:16

    What about my entertainment choices?

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:18-32:20

    I'm not gonna tell you what to watch and not to watch.

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:21-32:23

    But your entertainment choices, do they honor God?

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:24-32:25

    Do they glorify God?

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:25-32:30

    Do they expound the values you claim to profess that are in the scriptures?

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:31-32:37

    Or at the very least, do they not contradict and disparage what you profess to believe.

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:38-32:41

    If they contradict and disparage what you profess to believe, why are you watching it?

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:42-32:45

    You're not an adulterer, but why are you watching people commit adultery?

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:46-32:50

    You're not a murderer, why are you entertained by murder?

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:51-32:52

    Am I keeping the commands to love?

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:53-32:57

    To love God, to love my spouse, to love my neighbor, to love my enemy.

    Rich Sprunk:

    32:58-33:01

    Now, you might object, you know, this, Sprounk, this is legalism.

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:01-33:03

    We're not saved by works.

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:04-33:05

    I'm not talking about works, beloved.

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:06-33:10

    Jesus kept the law perfectly for us to give us righteousness.

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:11-33:16

    But because we are justified and he has given us his righteousness, doesn't give us license to do whatever we want to do.

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:17-33:20

    Jesus said, "If you love me, you will keep my commands.

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:20-33:42

    "And it's by grace you've been saved through faith, "not works, it's not your own doing, "it's the gift of God, so that no one may boast." And Paul goes on to say, "We are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus "for good works, which God prepared beforehand "that we should walk in them." As I said before, we are righteous in our Father's eyes.

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:42-33:44

    We must grow up into that righteousness.

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:45-33:47

    Am I bearing another's burden?

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:47-33:52

    Am I loving my brothers and sisters in Christ deeply from the heart?

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:52-33:54

    Mike, am I taming my tongue?

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:54-33:56

    Ryan, am I preaching the word?

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:56-33:58

    Am I showing hospitality?

    Rich Sprunk:

    33:58-34:05

    Am I spending time with my God every day, reading and meditating on his word and talking with him in prayer.

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:06-34:17

    You see, beloved, because we are in a place where grace abounds in everyday righteousness, we can do all these things and more to imitate our Savior.

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:18-34:22

    Because we are in him, we are united in him in both death and life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:23-34:26

    Again, I ask, how can I continue in sin?

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:26-34:29

    I am in Christ, I am united with him.

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:30-34:35

    And even now I am at the right hand of the Father through the power of the Holy Spirit.

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:36-34:38

    So back to our title, our first question.

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:38-34:39

    Where are you?

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:40-34:44

    Beloved, you're in Christ where grace abounds and you're in him forevermore.

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:44-34:53

    You are in a place where you are able by the power of God to live righteous, holy, and blameless life for the glory of God.

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:54-34:55

    Amen, let's pray.

    Rich Sprunk:

    34:56-35:09

    Gracious Father, oh, this is a challenging word from you, but it is also a hopeful word because we live in Christ and we can walk in newness of life.

    Rich Sprunk:

    35:10-35:14

    For that great truth, we thank you and praise you in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Romans 5:20-6:14

  1. What is “cheap grace?”

  2. Why is it so difficult to die an early death, i.e., to die to self? How often do you “consider [yourself] dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus?” Romans 6:11; and see John 12:25, Luke 9:23-24.

    a. How do the illustrations of a seed “dying” help us to understand the benefits of dying to self now? See John 12:24-25, 1 Corinthians 15:36-37

    b. How does Galatians 5:22-24 relate to these verses?

  3. Baptism is a picture of death and resurrection, but Paul indicates in Romans 6:3-6 that if our baptism is “into Christ Jesus,” it is evidence that we were in Christ at the time of His death and resurrection. Does this fact cause you to see deeper meaning or purpose in your baptism?

  4. How soon after you professed faith in Jesus were your baptized? If you delayed, why did you do so? If you haven’t yet been baptized, why not?

  5. Paul emphasizes we were “united with Christ” in His death and resurrection. How should union with Christ transform how we live – for example, Who, what, and how we worship, how we love God, neighbor, and enemy, how we forgive others, etc.? How does Galatians 2:20 add to our understanding of the transformation wrought in us by union with Christ?

  6. A concrete anchor was used to illustrate the security we enjoy as a result of being united with Christ. How should the knowledge of the strength of that union transform our thinking about God’s love for us, about anxiety/worry, about the permanence of our salvation, and about our ability to live righteously? See Psalm 18:1-3, 31-32 and Psalm 62:1-8.

  7. Because we are secure “in Christ” we are able to walk “in newness of life.” What does that look like on a daily basis?

BREAKOUT
Does the knowledge that you are united with Christ change your perspective on temptation and sin? In what ways? See Romans 6:2-3, 7, 12-14.

For further study, read Colossians 3:1-17