Intentional Faith

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Get the Most Out of Church

Introduction:

How to Get the Most Out of Church (James 1:19-27)

  1. Come ready to Hear God's Word. (Jas 1:19-21)
  2. Leave ready to Apply God's Word. (Jas 1:22-27)

    Deuteronomy 6:24 - And the LORD commanded us to do all these statutes, to fear the LORD our God, for our good always, that he might preserve us alive, as we are this day.

    John 13:17 - If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them.

    Matthew 12:34 - For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.

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    All right, open up to James chapter one, and we're gonna bow for prayer.

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    I'm gonna ask that you would please pray for me to be faithful to communicate God's word accurately and clearly, and I will pray for you to have a heart open to receiving what it is that God wants to teach us today from his word.

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    These are his words, not mine.

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    So we really need to tune in here.

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    All right, let's pray.

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    Father, let your word do your work.

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    Let your Holy Spirit reign.

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    Father, let today be a new chapter in the lives of many people who are sitting here or watching from home or listening to this digitally later.

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    Glorify your name, Father, we ask in Jesus' name, amen.

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    James chapter one, are you there?

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    When my wife, Erin, was a teenager, And she went with some friends to Sandcastle.

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    You know where Sandcastle is?

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    How many people here have been to Sandcastle?

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    Okay, okay, so you know what I'm talking about.

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    So her and a group of friends went to Sandcastle.

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    And when she got home, they had turned on the news.

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    And on the news, they said that there was a shootout between police and non-police.

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    There was a shootout at Sandcastle that day.

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    And as they were giving the report, Erin was watching the TV and she said, "Wait a minute." She goes, "We were there at the time of the shootout." This is unbelievable.

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    Well, she was continuing to watch the report.

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    And I kid you not, you ask her about this.

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    As they were watching the news report, They saw their car drive right through the middle of the shootouts.

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    And she had no idea that there was a shootout happening.

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    Isn't that crazy to be there and completely missing it?

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    Isn't that crazy?

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    Well, in a related snippet, let me ask you, have you ever missed church?

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    And I don't mean you were absent because you were parasailing or at the beach or what, I don't mean that.

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    I mean that you came to church and you still missed it.

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    Have you ever been there?

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    Let's be honest, we all have.

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    We've all walked out of church thinking, I didn't really get anything out of church today.

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    We've all walked out of church going, yeah, that worship set, that wasn't really for me.

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    By the way, that worship set was awesome I can't wait to do it again.

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    But there's gonna be some people here that walk out feeling that way.

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    Eh, it wasn't really for me, I didn't really care for those songs.

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    More hymns, less, eh, I didn't really care for that.

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    Or, gasp, you walk out of here going, eh, that sermon wasn't really for me.

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    I don't know what the goat-looking boy up there was talking about, but that really, that wasn't, eh, that wasn't really for me.

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    And my point here is you can be here and not be here.

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    When you come in late, yelling at the kids all the way from the car to the door, when you're distracted, you got too much on your mind.

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    Honestly, many of us come to church, we're not ready.

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    We're just not ready to encounter God.

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    And that's the message today, people.

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    You have to come ready.

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    And I don't just mean putting on your church boots or your, I guess, church Crocs.

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    What are we wearing?

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    I don't just mean that.

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    I mean that you have to make some decisions ahead of time.

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    If you do, listen, here's the thing, you're gonna get the most out of church.

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    Don't you wanna get the most out of your time here?

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    You don't wanna walk out of here going, "That was a waste of a morning." Don't you wanna get the most out of your time here?

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    I do.

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    So that's where James takes us here.

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    On your outline, I want you to write some things down.

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    This is a life-changing passage.

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    How to get the most out of church, all right?

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    How to get the most out of church.

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    Number one, come ready to hear God's word.

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    Come ready to hear God's word.

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    Look at verse 19.

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    He says, "Know this, my beloved brothers.

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    "Let every person be quick to hear, "slow to speak, slow to anger." Stop there.

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    (laughs)

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    Let every person be quick to hear.

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    Do you know that verse is used in a generic sense all the time?

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    You know, I've used like pre-marital counseling curriculum that uses this verse to say, you know, when you're husband and wife, you need to be quick to hear.

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    You know, and then grandma says, you know, God gave you two ears and one mouth so that you listen twice as much as you speak.

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    And I guess there is some wisdom in listening more than you speak, but that's not what he's talking about here.

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    What's the context of this passage?

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    The context is the previous verse, verse 18.

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    He says that God brought us forth by the word of truth.

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    That's what he's talking about.

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    This passage is about hearing the word of truth that he was just talking about.

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    Literally in the Greek, he says, "Be quick to the hearing." That means take every opportunity you can to go after the word of God.

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    Like, why?

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    Well, that's what we talked about the last couple of weeks.

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    Why?

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    Why do I need to be so quick to go after the word of God?

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    Because you're gonna experience trials in your life that seemingly crush you and you don't know what to do.

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    You need to be quick to get to the word of God.

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    You need to be quick to the word of God because you're gonna face temptation.

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    And you're like, how do I deal with this?

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    I don't wanna sin, but I get this strong temptation in me.

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    How do I, you gotta be quick to get to the word of God.

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    Why?

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    Why are we so quick to the word of God?

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    Because you realize there's only one thing the Bible refers to as the power of God outside of Jesus Christ, personally.

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    And I would think it'd be like creation power or judgment power or something like that.

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    No, no, the only thing the Bible refers to as the power of God is the gospel.

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    I'm not ashamed of the gospel for it is the power of God.

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    This is the power of God.

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    And that's why we need to be so quick to get to it.

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    All right, you need to come ready to hear what God says.

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    All right, so quick to hear.

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    And then he says, be slow to speak.

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    Boy, this is a word for me.

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    Are you like me?

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    Sometimes we're just too quick to speak.

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    We're just so quick to weigh in.

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    We're so quick to bring our wisdom to the table that we come into church and you're like, oh, oh, oh, he's talking about trials today.

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    Let me explain to you how you deal with trials.

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    I know a thing or two about that.

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    Let me explain it to you.

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    Like it's explain it, what are you talking about?

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    Or all the messages on marriage.

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    I'm somewhat of an expert on marriage.

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    Let me explain to you how a husband should treat his wife.

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    And we're just so quick to speak.

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    All the messages on kids today.

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    Well, I know how to raise kids.

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    Let me explain to you how to raise.

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    And we're just so quick to interject our opinion.

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    And what James is saying here is you need to come anxious not to share your words, but to hear God's words, right?

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    And then he says, "Be slow to anger." Be slow to anger.

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    Now the Greek word for anger there is not outburst of rage, right?

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    Like you get ticked off and you explode and you kick the cat or whatever, then don't kick your cat.

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    I don't recommend that.

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    But that's not the word here.

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    There's different words for anger.

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    And this is the slow burn anger.

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    This is, we could translate it resentment or seething or bitterness, right?

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    That's the word, that's the concept that he's talking about here.

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    You're angry, you're bitter, you're resentful.

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    It could be over life circumstances.

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    You know, maybe you come into church and you're like, you know what, Jeff, I'm in a bad place right now.

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    And I'm really not interested in hearing all this Jesus loves me stuff right now.

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    I'm just not having it, just not in it, not in the mood for it.

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    Maybe it's that.

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    Or, gasp, maybe you got a bit of a chip on your shoulder because of a subject that we've been preaching about.

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    It's a little touchy to you, right?

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    And maybe the sermon's about money or something, and you're like, "Oh, I knew it.

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    That last church I went to, that's all I did was ask for money.

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    I don't know why God needs my money." And now we're just like, we're ticked off, and we're like bitter.

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    And he says, "No, no, you can't just jump to the default mode of seething." When you hear a sermon, are you asking, "What's God wanting me to learn?" Or are you coming in just bitter and resentful?

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    Because if you are, you're only hurting yourself.

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    Look at verse 20.

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    He says, "For the anger of man "does not produce the righteousness of God." What's God after?

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    What's God after?

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    What does God want?

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    He wants righteousness, right?

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    Personal holiness, growing in Christ-likeness.

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    How do you grow?

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    How do you grow in your faith?

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    There's only one way to grow in your faith.

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    You know that, right?

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    Faith comes by hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.

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    What is that?

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    Romans 10, 17.

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    That's how your faith grows, it's through the word.

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    And that can't happen if the word is being proclaimed and you're fighting God on it.

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    That can't happen if you're bitter, if you're ready to object, or you criticize.

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    By the way, criticism is not a spiritual gift.

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    It's not listed anywhere in the New Testament, but some people think that's their gift.

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    They come in here to evaluate a sermon.

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    Like, I didn't really like that, or I didn't really agree with that.

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    But what did God say?

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    That's what we're going after, right?

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    Look at verse 21.

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    He says, "Therefore," like, don't come to church like this.

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    So what should I do?

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    Look at this, verse 21.

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    "Therefore, put away all filthiness and rampant wickedness and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls." You have to come to church ready.

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    And part of that is having a repentant attitude.

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    It's having a repentant attitude.

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    Sin will hinder the work of the word.

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    You can't be committed to your sin and think that you're gonna get anything out of the sermon of the day, right?

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    It doesn't work that way.

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    Like if you were wild partying, you were high Saturday night, don't expect to come in and get what's going on Sunday morning.

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    If you're in a relationship that you know is sinful, and you're unwilling to repent, you're not gonna get anything out of the sermon.

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    If your heart is full of hatred and unforgiveness, you're not gonna get anything out of the sermon.

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    That's why James says you gotta put these things off.

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    The Greek word is like taking off and discarding dirty clothes.

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    Get rid of that.

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    You need to abandon your sin if you want a heart that's ready to hear from God.

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    Because a heart full of sin doesn't have room to be filled with God's word, right?

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    Look what he says.

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    Receive with meekness.

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    Meekness.

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    That's a, look, be teachable.

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    That means you need to come ready to learn.

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    That's what meekness is.

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    I've come, God, I want to hear what you're saying.

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    I'm ready to learn.

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    Do you come to church that way?

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    You approach God's word that way.

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    Many, many, many years ago, previous ministry, a couple came to me for marriage counseling and it was ugly.

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    I'll spare you the details, but it was just, it was an ugly scene.

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    And you can tell when you're counseling, right?

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    The wife, she was edge of the seat, listening to every word.

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    And the husband was slumped back, arms folded, rolling his eyes.

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    And I said, look, here's the only way marriage works.

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    And I just like poured out to them.

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    I said, you know what the Bible says, Ephesians 5, that the husband is to represent Christ, the servant leader, lays down his life for his wife in every way.

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    The husband has to love his wife in that way.

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    And the wife, her job is to be that submissive helper to love the Lord the way the church, or love her husband, excuse me, love her husband the way the church loves the Lord.

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    That's what I meant to say.

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    But that's the picture in Ephesians five.

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    And I just very clearly laid that out.

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    Husband represents the Lord.

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    I communicate for a living.

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    Back up.

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    The husband represents the Lord.

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    The wife represents the church.

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    That's the dynamic.

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    And I remember just pouring out to them, waving the pom poms.

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    You know, it was a good little sermon for those two people.

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    It really was, it was a good sermon.

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    I've had a couple.

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    It was good.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    That's not funny.

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    At least two, at least two.

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    Poured my heart out to them.

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    This was, okay, I had one good one.

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    This was my one good one.

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    And I'll never forget it.

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    The guy, he looked at me and he goes, Is that all you got?

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    And I said, yeah.

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    I said, that is.

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    Because if the word of your creator isn't good enough for you, I have nothing else to give you.

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    If what God said about marriage doesn't do it for you, it really doesn't matter what Jeff thinks about marriage.

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    Anybody wanna take a guess how that marriage went?

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    You'd be right.

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    And here's the thing, meekness, meekness.

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    You're not going to listen to God if you're proud.

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    You've got your own answers.

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    You don't want God's answers.

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    Jesus said, "My sheep hear my voice." A true believer is tuned in.

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    A true believer, a true believer, their antenna is receiving what God says.

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    They're like, "Yeah, that's what God said.

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    Yes, that's his word.

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    Yes, this is what God is saying.

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    A true believer has their antenna up.

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    My sheep hear my voice.

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    A true believer evaluates a sermon on, is that what it says?

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    Is that what God said?

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    Okay.

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    And if I disagree, if I disagree with what the text says, then I am wrong, God is right, and I need to change.

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    So did you come to learn from God?

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    Is that why you came today?

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    If it is, then you gotta ditch your opinions, your anger, and your pride, and you gotta listen to God with a repentant attitude.

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    So how to get the most out of church?

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    Number one, come ready to hear God's word.

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    Number two, how to get the most out of church, you gotta leave ready to apply God's word.

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    Leave ready to apply God's word.

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    Look at verse 22.

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    He says, "But be doers of the word "and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves." Look, receiving the word is great.

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    Receiving the word is awesome.

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    All in favor, aye.

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    All opposed, nobody.

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    We're all in favor of receiving the word.

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    That's great.

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    What really matters is doing the Word.

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    That's what matters.

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    Now, listen, at this point, I gotta stop for a second because there's always a couple in every crowd that's like legalism.

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    Here we go.

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    Here we go with the legalism.

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    And I would say lovingly, listen, you need to understand what legalism really is.

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    Anytime somebody tells you to apply the Word of God, Somebody's ready to throw up the legalism flag.

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    I guess throw it down, like the first quarter of the Steeler game.

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    Legalism, legalism.

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    And much like those refs, you're wrong to throw those flags down.

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    This is what legalism is.

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    Legalism is there are things that I have to do to make God happy.

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    And when I do these things, God approves of me.

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    And if I don't do these things, God is mad at me.

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    I gotta do things to grow spiritually, like in God's eyes, and to make Him happy and to make Him accept me.

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    That's legalism.

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    I do to make God happy.

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    That is not the gospel.

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    Do you know there's only one thing you can do to make God happy?

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    And we just studied it in Hebrews 11.

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    Without faith, it is impossible to please God.

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    The only thing you can do to make God happy biblically is to trust Him, to believe in His word.

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    But when you do, when you really believe in His word, then it's gonna show up in your life.

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    Don't say that you believe what God said and it makes no difference.

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    You don't really believe it then.

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    All right?

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    True faith believes God's word.

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    What that means is you should be able to point to things in your life where you say, "I do this because of what the Bible says.

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    "That's the only reason I do this.

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    "This is what I do because God said.

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    "That's the only reason I do this is because God said." You should have things like that in your life.

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    And there should be other things in your life that you say, "I do not ever do this "because God said I should never do that." There should be things like that in your life.

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    And if you don't have things that you can point to in your life that show that the word of God is making decisions for you, then you don't know Jesus Christ.

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    And that can change.

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    But you don't wanna sit here deceiving yourself.

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    Right?

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    That's what he says in verse 22.

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    Look at that again.

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    He says, "Be doers of the word, not hearers only." Deceiving yourselves.

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    We talked about that before, didn't we?

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    You tell yourself a lie and then you turn around and believe the lie that you just told yourself and it's just so tragic.

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    And you walk out of here thinking you're a godly person.

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    because you heard a sermon.

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    Look at verse 23. He says, "For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. For he He looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like.

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    I love this, James gives us the illustration here, right?

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    It's a mirror, they didn't have glass mirrors in those days.

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    They would, a polished metal would be pounded real flat and polish it, but they used, they used mirrors for the same purpose that we use mirrors, right?

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    To check your face.

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    Looking out here, I can't speak to the people that are watching this stream, but looking out here, it looks like most of you looked in a mirror this morning.

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    We appreciate that.

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    James's illustration is pretty obvious, right?

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    He says, "Hearing a sermon and not applying a sermon, "hearing the word of God, not applying the word of God." What's that like?

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    He says, "It's like looking into a mirror." And you just, you look into a mirror and you just see all kinds of problems, right?

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    Your hair looks like a rat's nest.

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    You got all kinds of crusties in your eyes.

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    And it's disgusting, right?

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    And you know, you just, you need to shave.

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    You just, you look like an absolute, you got dirt on your face from gardening the day before.

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    You got salsa on your chin from eating nachos in the garden.

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    But you see all this disaster.

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    It's a disaster.

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    You see all this, you see all this tragedy.

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    We'll go with tragedy.

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    Sorry.

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    Sorry, it's been a long 48 years.

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    You see all this tragedy and you walk away from the mirror going, yeah, I look okay.

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    I look all right.

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    I'm practically Fabio for those of you old enough to remember Fabio.

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    Not when he got hit in the face by the bird, but before that.

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    And James's point is, did it do you any good to look into a mirror?

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    Did it do you any good?

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    No, because you didn't do anything about it.

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    You saw the mess and you didn't fix anything.

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    So it didn't do you any good to even look.

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    And James says the same way.

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    Listen, you hear the word of God, and you see where you're falling short, you see where you need to change, and you walk out the doors and you just forget about it.

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    You walk out the door, you're walking to your car, and you're like, "I'm okay.

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    "I heard, yeah, you know what?

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    "I felt really convicted in there, "but I'm really not that bad.

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    "I'm okay." hand, look at verse 25, "But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets, but a doer who acts, he will be blessed in his doing." All right, different word for look here in the Greek, rather, different word for look. He says to look intently.

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    That's to really get in and take a hard look.

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    And that's how you need to go after the word of God.

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    Take a hard look at the word of God.

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    Because my friends, if you will receive it, the word of God is the mirror that reveals who you are.

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    You might think that you have a pretty good idea of who you are and what makes you tick, but God's word is the mirror that shows you what you're really like.

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    and it's faith that says, "God is right.

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    "I'm making some changes right now." I love this.

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    He says, "A doer who acts is blessed." I want you to think about this because there's blessing for you when you apply God's word.

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    Think about this for a second.

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    Why does God want you to apply his word?

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    Why?

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    Does God get a personal benefit out of you applying his word?

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    He really doesn't.

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    Is he more God when you're obedient?

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    No.

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    Is he less God when you're disobedient?

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    Is he, when you're having a really good day, is he more worthy of praise?

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    Or you have one of those days that the wheels fell off, is God less worthy of your praise?

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    You see, your obedience doesn't give God some kind of personal perk.

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    So why does God want you to obey his word?

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    Do you know why?

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    It's because he loves you.

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    That's why.

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    He loves you.

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    And you know, I've been studying the Pentateuch, And this phrase comes up over and over and over in Deuteronomy or some version of this phrase.

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    But look at Deuteronomy 6, 24.

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    Moses said, "And the Lord commanded us "to do all these statutes.

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    "And to fear the Lord our God." Look at this next phrase.

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    There's some version of that all through Deuteronomy.

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    For our good always.

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    Obeying God is good for who?

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    Who's it good for?

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    Point to who it's good for.

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    It's good for me that he might preserve us alive as we are to this day.

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    And you're like, "Oh, Pastor Jeff, that's so Old Testament." Okay, Jesus, John 13, 17.

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    Here's what our Lord said.

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    If you know these things, blessed are you if you do them.

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    This is for you.

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    This is for you.

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    So when we get up here and proclaim the word of God, whoever it is standing up here, whether it's Taylor or Justin or whoever's standing up here proclaiming the word of God.

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    Understand, church, this is for you.

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    And it does you no good if you don't do anything about it.

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    Many years ago, my wife, she got me a gift.

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    It was, she got me a set of those Beachbody DVDs.

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    You know what I'm talking about, the Beachbody DVDs?

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    I got one right here.

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    This is T25.

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    It's the 25 worst minutes of your day.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    This one's stretch.

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    It's all stretching and I'm gonna be honest with you, this winded me.

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    It's just stretching.

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    It's 25 minutes of realizing how out of shape I am.

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    Now, I gotta say this.

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    She's gonna be mad if I don't.

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    She didn't get these for me, like, here, slob.

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    (laughs)

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    It wasn't like that.

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    I wanted them.

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    I said, yeah, I think I would like to try that, and I was wrong, but she got these for me as a gift.

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    (audience laughs)

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    But could you imagine if, like, a month later, Aaron was like, hey, how's your T25 going?

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    And I'm like, oh, sweetie, it's awesome.

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    I pop it into the DVD player.

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    Explain that to a young person what that is.

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    Sweetie, it's awesome.

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    I pop that into the DVD player.

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    I get the wings out of the fryer and the potato chips.

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    And I sit down and honey, I've watched it every day.

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    I have watched one of these DVDs every day.

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    And I'm not completely not health conscious.

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    Like a couple of times I had a salad while I watched it.

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    It still had fried chicken and donuts on it, but I've been watching these every single day.

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    Did it do me any good, even if I watched this and thought, wow, that looks like a great exercise, that looks like that would make me healthy, looks like that would make me rip, beach body.

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    Did it do me any good to watch it if I didn't do what it said?

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    That's exactly what James is talking about here.

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    Why did you come to church?

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    Why are you sitting there taking notes?

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    Why are you listening at all right now?

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    Why are some of you gonna listen to these messages again if you have no intention on acting on what you hear?

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    Because it's not gonna do you any good.

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    The way a person responds to the word of God tells you everything about their faith.

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    Like, all right, all right, all right, all right.

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    Apply the word, be blessed, don't apply, deceive myself.

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    You're like, "FA, can you be more specific?" Well, James does that for us.

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    James gives us three specific areas of life.

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    We're gonna close with this.

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    I'm gonna go through these very quickly 'cause all of these could be a sermon series.

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    But James gives us, for the guy that's like, "Okay, this is a concept.

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    "Okay, I get the concept, but can you be specific?

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    "Give me something to sink my teeth into." Here's three specific areas of life that reveal whether or not you're applying God's word.

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    I'm gonna tell you what they are ahead of time.

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    we're gonna look through them quickly.

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    Three areas of life that reveal whether or not you're applying God's word.

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    Your speech, compassion, right?

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    And I totally lost my place.

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    Oh, there it is.

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    Worldliness, worldliness.

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    Look at verse 26.

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    He says, "If anyone thinks he is religious "and does not bridle his tongue, but deceives his heart.

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    This person's religion is worthless.

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    You think you're a religious person, you think you're a godly person, well, what comes out of your mouth?

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    Listen, if it's perverted joking, words that you wouldn't use in a sermon, Gossip, slander.

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    You know, what if I had like a court stenographer follow you around all week?

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    And just with that little tiny typewriter, you know?

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    What if I had a stenographer follow you around all week and record every single thing that came out of your mouth?

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    And then we show up to church on Sunday and I pull out your transcript and say, "I'm going to read everything that he said "in the past week?" Would you be okay with me sharing that?

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    Or would you be kind of squirming in your seat?

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    Right?

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    It's your speech.

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    Oh, and by the way, P.S., what you put on social media counts too.

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    That's part of your speech.

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    That's part of your communication.

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    Look, if you're getting on social media, posting perverted memes and dirty cartoons and foul language, what if we said, "Hey, we're gonna put your Facebook feed up on the screen, we're gonna scroll through it and show everybody.

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    We're gonna talk about it, we're gonna evaluate your social media posts." Would you be embarrassed?

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    Here's a good verse to memorize, Matthew 12, 34.

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    Matthew 1, 2, 3, 4 says, "For out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks." You know, when you open your mouth, you're just revealing what's in your heart, according to Jesus.

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    When you open your mouth, you're sending a bucket down to the well and you're pulling out what's in here.

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    And it shows up in your speech.

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    So if what you say, the things you talk about, If it's tearing people down, if it's perverted, if it's ungodly, James says, "Your religion is worthless." Verse 27, next one is compassion.

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    Here's an area.

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    He says, "Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this, to visit orphans and widows in their affliction." And what do orphans and widows have in common?

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    What do they have in common?

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    It's this, these are people that you help that can give you nothing in return.

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    That's what they have in common.

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    You get that, right?

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    If I help someone that possibly in turn could help me with something down the road, It's possible that I had a selfish motive.

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    I gotta scratch your back right now, you scratch my back later.

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    I might've had a selfish motive.

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    But if I help someone who can't do a thing for me, that's like Jesus.

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    And that, James says, is pure and undefiled religion.

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    When was the last time that you helped someone in need and you expected nothing in return?

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    If you're like, man, I don't think I have.

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    I can't really remember the last time I did something like that.

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    And according to James, going to church didn't really do you any good, did it?

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    And the last one is worldliness.

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    Look at the last phrase here.

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    He says, "And to keep oneself unstained from the world." Worldliness.

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    I don't speak, act, or think like the world.

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    The world doesn't affect who I am.

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    God's word does.

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    That's what James is talking about.

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    And if your friends and your coworkers would be shocked to find out that you go to church and that you call yourself a Christian, if that would surprise them, And then going to church did you no good.

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    We can have our worship team make their way back up.

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    You know, the book of James in the Bible has a very special place in my life because I got saved through studying the book of James by a complete stranger at the time.

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    Because this person asked me if I was a Christian.

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    You know, I was 20 years old at the time.

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    I spent my life, I went to church every single week.

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    I was in church every week.

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    And sometimes I'd even pay attention.

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    I went to Sunday school, I went to vacation Bible school.

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    When I was old enough, I went to youth group.

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    I was offended that somebody would ask me if I was a Christian.

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    What are you talking about?

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    Look at my resume of church attendance.

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    I was like mad.

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    And this person said, "Well, okay, great.

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    "Glad to hear it.

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    "Would you be interested in, "oh, let's look and let's just do a little Bible study.

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    "We can study the book of James." I'm like, okay.

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    Didn't take us long before we got to this passage.

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    And I realized something.

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    At that point in my life, I'm like, I'm no Christian.

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    I am a self-deceived churchgoer.

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    And it was at that point in my life, this was 1995, it was at that point in my life that I realized I could either embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, or I could go back to self-deception.

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    I could go back to being church boy.

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    and sitting in church on Sunday morning and living like the devil the rest of the week.

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    And it's my hope in going through James that some people here recognize the crossroads and that some people here decide, you know what?

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    I'm done, I'm done playing church.

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    I'm done deceiving myself into thinking I'm so holy and religious just because I sit and listen to a sermon.

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    This is life.

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    Well, look, you can walk out of here unchanged.

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    You have that option.

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    And if you do, you're gonna have the same week this week that you had last week.

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    And I would say, well, then coming to church, did you know good, you might as well sleep in on Sunday.

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    Or you can commit to getting yourself ready from God, and you can leave with a clear plan of how this week is going to be different than last week.

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    And hey, if that's you, you're going to get the most out of church.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, I thank you, Father, just personally, for the way this portion of your word destroyed me because it ripped open the curtain of self-deception that I was living behind.

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    Father, I pray for my brothers and sisters here, and whether they're sitting here or watching the stream or whatever, God, I pray that you bring us all to place where we walk in here wanting to hear from you, and we're ready to put on the shelf all the stuff that distracts from that.

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    And then when we leave here, we're saying, this is what I'm doing this week because of what God said.

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    Father, you promised that we will be blessed in our doing.

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    We thank you for the blessing that you give us, Father, And I pray that it brings great glory to your name, and it gives us opportunity to reach others with your glorious gospel.

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    Father, please let us not deceive ourselves.

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    Let us be doers and not just hearers.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read James 1:19-27

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Explain James’ mirror illustration in Jas 1:23-24.

  3. Why is the tongue a good indicator on where your faith is (Jas 1:26)? See Matthew 12:34.

  4. What do you personally need to do to better prepare yourself for church next Sunday?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Beat Temptation

Introduction:

My Temptation: --------------------------------------------------

How to Beat Temptation: (James 1:13-18)

  1. Blame the right person. (Jas 1:13-14)

    Genesis 3:12 - The man said, "The woman whom you gave to be with me, she gave me fruit of the tree, and I ate."

    Proverbs 19:3 - When a man’s folly brings his way to ruin, his heart rages against the LORD.

    Isaiah 63:17 - O LORD, why do you make us wander from your ways and harden our heart, so that we fear you not?

  2. Say No early. (Jas 1:15-16)

    Romans 13:14 - But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.

  3. Focus on God's Gifts . (Jas 1:17)
  4. Remind yourself of your Identity . (Jas 1:18)

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  • 00:39-00:44

    Back in the day, and this is a long time ago, I used to be pretty good at tennis.

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    Thank you for not laughing at that. Like that seems believable. I mean, let's be honest, I wasn't Venus Williams, okay? I wasn't Serena Williams, okay? But I was okay. I was pretty good. I could keep up. Well, there was a guy who he asked "if I could play him," he was wanting to get ranked.

    01:12-01:16

    And he had to get so many, I don't know all the rules for that, but he's like, "Hey, I didn't need an excuse, right?

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    "Yeah, let's play tennis." And this man is, trying to think of the biblical way to say this.

    01:27-01:29

    He was advanced in years.

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    And going into this tennis match, I was thinking, I'm gonna have to take it easy on him, right?

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    Because he's advanced in years and I don't wanna embarrass him, then I'd feel bad.

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    Well, I ended up feeling bad for a whole different reason.

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    He mopped the court with me.

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    And I gotta tell you, it was the most frustrating game I've ever played because it didn't matter what I did.

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    He just seemed like he was always in the right place and he always had the right swing.

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    And I remember I was like, you know, let's overpower him, right?

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    You know, I'll try to get him on the, on the, on an ace serve.

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    Nope.

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    He could return every serve.

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    And I'm like, all right, well, I'll just do a power game from the back.

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    No, he was able to keep up.

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    I'm like, all right, I'll rush up.

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    I'll charge in that.

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    I'll do a finesse thing.

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    Nope.

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    I can do the backspin thing.

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    You know, where you hit it in the ball when it lands, it bounces, you know, where you don't expect it.

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    Everything I tried, he was just so casually like, "Katunk, katunk, katunk," and I got annihilated.

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    No matter how hard I tried, no matter what I did, I could not beat this guy.

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    And you know, today we're gonna be talking about temptation.

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    And for a lot of Christians, you view temptation like that tennis match.

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    That you're like, it doesn't matter how hard I try.

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    It doesn't matter what I do.

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    I just can't seem to beat temptation.

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    Well, let's try it God's way, all right?

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    Let's bow our heads.

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    I'm gonna ask you if you would please pray for me and I will pray for you because we're about to take some time studying God's word.

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    This is a very serious thing to God.

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    So it should be a very serious thing to us.

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    So let's pray.

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    Father, please open our hearts up.

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    Let our hearts be the good soil.

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    that the Word falls on, that your Spirit, Father, is at work with your Word in a way that brings true life change in an area that, if we're honest, we all struggle in some way.

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    I pray, Father, today would be the beginning of a new chapter, of a confident walk before you, because we don't just roll over to temptation and give up, wave the white flag, Father, but we are battling it the way you say to.

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    Father, glorify your name.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, and all of God's people said, amen.

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    Look at James 1:13.

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    He says, "Let no one say when he is tempted." Stop there for a second.

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    Last week, we talked about trials.

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    Now he talks about temptation.

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    So he moves from outward struggles to inward struggles.

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    Right?

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    And we all face temptation of some kind.

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    There's something that leads you to sin.

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    Maybe it's lust.

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    Maybe it's another person.

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    Maybe it's money.

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    Maybe it's an addiction of some kind.

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    There's something that tempts you.

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    So kind of like last week, we have a space at the top of your outline.

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    I want you to write down the thing that tempts you, but hang on a second.

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    'Cause I know right now in a room like this, she might be like, "Somebody's gonna look at my paper." Right?

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    And do I have to, the whole time, try to cover up what I wrote?

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    So here, just do initials of your temptation, maybe a code word that only you and God know so that we're not wrestling with the self-consciousness of somebody looking at your paper.

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    But I do want you to write something down that makes sense to you.

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    Where are you tempted?

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    Go ahead, take a moment, write that down.

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    Where are you tempted?

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    What tempts you into sin?

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    Do you have your temptation down?

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    in the undecipherable code.

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    Well, look, before we get into this, I get to remind you, temptation itself is not a sin, right?

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    Jesus was tempted.

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    Our problem is that we give in and we sin.

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    And then we get so stinking frustrated with ourselves.

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    We knew better and now we feel so guilty and we swear that we're never gonna do it again until we do.

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    So how do we beat temptation?

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    That's what James tells us here.

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    On your outline, I want you to jot some things down.

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    How to beat temptation.

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    Number one, you gotta start here.

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    This is where James starts.

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    This is where you gotta start.

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    Blame the right person.

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    Blame the right person.

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    Because here's the thing, when we're tempted, this is true of every single human being, when we're tempted and we sin, we immediately look for someone else to blame.

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    We all do it, right?

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    Well, I drink because my wife is a hag.

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    That's just an example, okay?

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    That's not from personal experience.

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    Or, "I look at bad stuff on the internet "because my wife is cold towards me.

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    "I overeat because my boss is mean.

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    "My friends made me.

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    "My parents made me." How about this one?

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    God made me.

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    And I mean that literally, that it's God's fault.

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    My temptation is God's fault because God made me, right?

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    God created me.

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    And all that I am and all these desires and things that I have, well, God created me, so it must be His fault, right?

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    Nothing new here.

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    You know, this goes all the way back to the Garden of Eden, right?

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    Remember Adam and Eve fell into sin.

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    Look at Genesis 3, 12, we'll put it on the screen for you.

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    It says, "The man said, "The woman whom you gave to be with me," this is Adam speaking to God, and God's like, "What'd you do?" And Adam's like, "The woman whom you gave to be with me, "she gave me fruit of the tree and I ate." Do you notice Adam?

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    As soon as he was confronted with his sin, what did he do?

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    He immediately started blaming.

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    And the really interesting thing to me about this is understand at this point in human history, Adam knew two individuals.

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    He knew exactly two individuals.

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    He knew God and he knew Eve.

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    And you notice when he was confronted with his sin, Adam literally blamed every single other person that he knew.

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    He says, "The woman, oh, and by the way, God, "you put her here.

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    "Things were awfully quiet before she showed up." I'm not saying, God, I'm just saying, I'm not saying, but I'm saying, you know what I mean?

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    You put her here, God, so in a way, God, in a way, I mean, in a way, isn't this kind of on you?

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    There's nothing new here.

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    Proverbs talks about this, a verse that I talk about often with my son.

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    Proverbs 19.3 says, "When a man's folly "brings his way to ruin, his heart rages against the Lord." Do you know what that means?

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    It means we make stupid choices and then we face consequences for the stupid choices that we make.

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    And whose fault is it?

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    It's God's fault.

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    It's God's fault.

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    And you're like, "Well, you know what, Jeff, last week, you said that God really ultimately is responsible through His sovereignty, through His providence for our trials. Does He also bring the temptations? No, He does not. All right? So you've got to stop that right now. Look at verse 13. He says, "Let no one say "when he is tempted, I'm being tempted by God." For God cannot be tempted with evil.

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    And he himself tempts no one.

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    That could also literally be translated, God is inexperienced with evil.

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    He's not tempted and he doesn't tempt anyone.

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    All right, so it's not God.

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    God, that's just completely opposite of his nature to not only give in to temptation, but to try to tempt his people.

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    He's like, no, no, no, that's completely not God.

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    We're like, you're like, so, okay, all right, all right.

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    So who is to blame?

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    Pastor Jeff, I wrote this thing down on the top of my outline here.

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    I got my temptation in my little code here.

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    So who is to blame for this?

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    Well, look at verse 14.

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    He says, "But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire." James says, "We are lured and enticed by our own desire." Men, that is a, I guess some ladies, that is a trapping and fishing.

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    is trapping and fishing terminology, lured and enticed.

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    It's talking about capturing with bait.

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    All right?

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    You know how that works.

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    Whether you're fishing or whether you set traps, the bait looks so good and it's so attractive and the animal comes to take it and the animal is captured.

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    But is it really the bait responsible for capturing the animal?

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    Is it really the bait?

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    If you think about it, it's really not the bait that does it.

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    It's the inward desire of the animal that's responsible, right?

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    It's the fact that most animals are just led by their appetites.

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    and it's the animal's hunger, it's the animal's inward desire that gets it trapped.

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    And James says, that's the same for you.

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    When you're tempted, when you sin, whose fault is it?

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    Not Satan, not demons, not God, you.

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    You are responsible.

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    because of what's inside you.

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    You're like, wait, wait, wait, hang on a second.

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    You're telling me it's not Satan's fault, it's not demons fault?

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    Well, Jesus and his whole ministry was surrounded by demons and Satan came right after Jesus and he never gave in.

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    James says it's our own desire.

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    You know, the Bible says we each have an individual bent towards sin, Isaiah 53, six.

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    We all like sheep have gone astray, each to his own way.

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    You have a sin, a propensity, an inclination.

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    It's gonna be different from person to person.

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    That's why some people's sin looks weird to us.

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    Like, I can't believe he's tempted by that.

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    That's because that's not your inclination.

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    But if that dude looked at your sin inclination, you look weird to him.

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    because we all have our own desire.

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    And it's that desire that lures us to the bait.

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    So listen, the internet isn't the problem.

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    Some of you might be too young to realize this, but people lusted before the internet was invented.

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    Can you believe that?

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    The internet isn't the problem, you are.

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    Alcohol isn't the problem, you are.

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    Your spouse's attitude isn't the problem, you are.

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    And you are never gonna beat temptation until you start here.

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    When I'm tempted and when I sin, it's my fault.

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    It's because of what's in here.

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    It's my fault.

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    You're going to get nowhere until you get there.

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    All right?

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    So James says, "How to beat temptation, number one, blame the right person.

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    Number two, say no early." Look at verse 15.

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    He's talking about our own desire, that propensity, that inclination towards sin that we have in our hearts.

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    He says, look at this, "Then desire, when it has conceived, gives birth to sin.

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    "And sin, when it is fully grown, brings forth death." So he switches from the hunting and trapping and fishing metaphor to the childbirth metaphor.

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    And James's point is simply this, sin is not an act.

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    Sin is the result of a process.

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    Like how babies are born.

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    Now, I don't have time this morning to explain to you how babies are made, okay?

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    Ask your mom.

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    But I do wanna say this.

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    Babies don't just miraculously show up in your house one day, do they?

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    Like, oh, wow, we had another baby.

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    Didn't realize that.

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    The stork dropped him off.

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    That's not how it happens.

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    There's a whole process that takes place for that baby to get there.

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    And that's what he's saying about sin.

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    Sin isn't this act that just happens like, whoa, holy smokes, I just sinned.

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    How in the world did that happen?

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    It's the result of a process.

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    I mean, just think of that track.

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    Let's talk, let's just pick a sim.

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    We'll just talk about drinking, for example.

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    Let's say you have an alcohol problem.

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    Let's just use that as an example.

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    You can plug in whatever your temptation is here.

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    But let's just talk about drinking for a second.

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    If you're an alcoholic, it starts with desire.

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    You have that inclination.

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    Some people have that inclination, some people don't, But it starts with that desire, an addictive tendency or an addictive personality or whatever you wanna call it.

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    It's your sin inclination, you have that desire.

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    And then with your sin, with your temptation, it goes to justification.

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    And you are the master of justifying your own sin.

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    I'm the master of justifying my own sin, right?

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    Like the person that has struggled with alcoholism, they're gonna say things like, "Oh, I had a great day.

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    "I deserve a drink." Or, "I had a horrible day.

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    "I'm having a drink." It's been a long day, I'm having a drink.

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    It's been a short day, I have time for a drink.

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    You see my point?

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    Any excuse will do.

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    And we all do that, whatever you wrote down on your, that's what we can justify that.

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    And then the next step in the process involves your will.

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    You make a plan to get it, right?

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    You have the desire, you've justified it.

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    Okay, but in this case, like the alcohol doesn't just miraculously show up.

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    You have to make a plan.

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    I'm going to do this, and here's where I'm going to go to drink, where I'm going to go to buy it.

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    You make this plan, and then ultimately, the sin occurs, the act occurs.

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    But if you try to deal with this when you sin, when it becomes the action, it's too late.

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    And that's what James is saying here.

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    That sin baby is born, and it grows up and it only ever brings one thing, death.

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    That's James's point here.

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    You're like, well, is James talking to the Christians and the non-Christians?

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    Who's he talking to?

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    It's a universal principle.

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    He says, "Sin only ever produces death." All sin ever does is destroy your relationships, your witness, your walk, your life.

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    All of those things get destroyed by death when that sin baby is born.

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    You know, jot this reference down, 2 Samuel 11.

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    We've talked about it in past time, but it's the story of King David.

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    He was supposed to be at war and he saw, he was home, he saw a woman bathing.

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    I'm paraphrasing here very quickly.

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    He saw a woman bathing and he inquired about her, he sent for her and he ended up having an affair.

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    Found out it was one of his soldiers who was off at war.

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    Found out it was one of his soldier's wives.

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    So he goes, "Oh, I gotta cover this up." So he brings that soldier back from war to try to get him to sleep with his wife to think that that was his baby.

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    That didn't work, the soldier had too much honor.

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    So he's like, "Well, I'm gonna get him drunk." And then he'll stagger home and be with his wife and think the baby's his, and even in his drunken state, he had more honor than King David in that moment.

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    And then David had him murdered.

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    And it's a horrible story.

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    If you're familiar with it, I just want you to think, when would it have been easiest for David to avoid all of the trouble that he got in?

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    When?

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    I'll tell you when it wouldn't have been easiest is when the woman was at his house.

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    It wouldn't have been easy when the flirtation and the physical contact and all of that started happening.

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    It wouldn't have been easy then.

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    When would it have been easiest for David to avoid all of this?

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    The first moment that he saw her naked bathing, the first moment that he saw her, look, whoa, whoa, I shouldn't be, whoa, whoa.

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    walk away, do anything else, would have been so much easier for David.

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    You see, the principle is this, the earlier you fight, the easier the fight is.

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    The earlier you fight, the easier the fight is.

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    You're like, well, how do I say no early?

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    How do I do that?

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    Well, you're gonna know where you're weak, right?

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    You're gonna know where you're weak.

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    You wrote something on your outline, right?

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    And if you're like, I just couldn't think of anything.

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    Well, you're either like delusional or Jesus, if you couldn't think of anything that leads you into sin.

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    I'm leaning towards the former on that, if you couldn't think of anything to write.

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    You're gonna know where you're weak and you're gonna confess that to the Lord.

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    Oh, by the way, God already knows.

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    It's not like you're gonna tell him something that is gonna embarrass you, he knows.

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    But you need to confess that to the Lord and say, "God, this is where I struggle with temptation.

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    This is where I'm weak." And we say no early, not just by knowing where you're weak, but by avoiding scenarios where you're tempted.

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    Avoiding scenarios where you're tempted.

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    When you're tempted, when you sin, where are you in that moment?

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    What are you doing in that moment?

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    And you need to take steps to get out of that situation, to get away from those people, whatever it is.

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    That's why Paul says, Romans 13, 14, he says, "Put on the Lord Jesus Christ and make no provision "for the flesh to gratify his desires." That's how you win early.

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    How much easier would it have been for David to look away before it got to where it got?

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    How much easier would it be for you to say no early?

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    When that, at the desire level, when you start to feel that temptation to do that, no, no, you know what?

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    No.

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    The answer is no.

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    You gotta say no early.

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    Do you know the best way to not lose a fight?

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    Do you know the best way to not lose a fight?

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    Don't show up.

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    Don't show up.

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    When I was little, I'm talking little, like I was, I don't know, I couldn't be much more than seven or eight.

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    It was so long ago.

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    But I was up at the campground, all the campers and the trailers and the tents and the playgrounds.

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    Well, I was out riding my bike, like seven-year-olds did back then.

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    Do they still do that?

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    I was out riding my bike, and I was going to this playground, and the playground had this really steep hill, and then it had a shuffle ball court.

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    Do you know what shuffle ball?

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    Ask your mom that too.

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    Your mom's got a lot of explaining to do.

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    But anyways, I went down this hill and I kind of lost control of my bike and I hit this other kid on his bike, right?

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    And we exchanged insurance and all that.

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    I hit this kid on his bike and he was fine.

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    I just lost control.

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    I was seven, come on, I was seven.

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    Some of you are looking at me with such disgust.

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    I was seven.

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    Well, this kid had an older brother And the older brother was like, "Four o'clock, right here.

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    "Meet right here, we're gonna fight "because you ran into my brother." And I'm like, "But he's fine." It's like four o'clock.

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    I don't know why, I look back at this now, I don't know why he scheduled it for four o'clock.

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    Like, you know, he-man comes on at three, so we gotta do this at four.

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    Like, is this gonna be on pay-per-view?

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    Like, why do we have to come back for this?

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    And I'm seven, I didn't know anything.

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    He's like, "Come back at four, we're gonna fight." And I'm just like, okay.

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    And I remember, it was about 3.30, quarter to four.

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    I'm walking back to the playground.

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    I'm like, I guess we're having a fight today.

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    And my mom was out driving.

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    She pulls up beside me in her car.

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    She goes, what are you doing?

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    Well, I couldn't tell her.

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    I'm going to a fight.

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    Did you give me a ride?

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    Can you be my cut man?

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    I was just like, oh, I'm heading to the playground.

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    She goes, well, we have, supper's gonna be ready in a little bit.

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    Your dad's working.

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    So just get in the car.

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    And I'm like, okay.

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    So I got in the car.

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    That guy's still probably standing at the playground waiting for the fight.

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    But I'll tell you something.

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    He was bigger than me.

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    And he might've stomped me into a puddle, but I did not lose that fight because I didn't show up.

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    You see, that's what James is telling us here about temptation.

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    We try to deal with it way too late when instead we need to learn, make no provision for the flesh.

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    Look at verse 16.

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    He says, "Do not be deceived, my beloved brothers." Don't be deceived.

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    You want to beat temptation?

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    You got to stop deceiving yourself.

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    We're just fish swimming around going, "Well, I'm sure there's no hook under that bait." We're deceiving ourselves.

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    You see this, whatever this thing is that you wrote down, your temptation, if it wasn't so tragic, it would be funny.

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    But with your temptation, you know what you do, every person does this.

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    You tell yourself lies about this, and then you turn around and you believe the lie that you just told yourself about this.

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    We all have this propensity church, Are we gonna wake up to it?

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    Well, with your temptation, these are the lies we tell ourselves.

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    Well, I'm not hurting anybody but me.

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    That's a lie.

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    Or I can handle this.

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    You know, I can handle this.

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    Oh, really?

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    Really?

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    How are we doing so far on that?

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    You're not handling it.

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    Or it's not that bad.

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    Yes, it is.

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    It's sin.

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    Knock it off.

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    It is that bad.

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    The lies we tell ourself, and you know the biggest lie we tell ourselves is I'll quit tomorrow.

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    This is the last time I'm gonna do this, but I'm gonna quit tomorrow.

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    I'm gonna break up this relationship tomorrow.

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    I'm gonna stop looking at this stuff tomorrow.

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    I'm gonna stop ingesting this stuff tomorrow.

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    Just one more night, just one more night, right?

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    Pharaoh, just one more night with the frogs.

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    I'm done tomorrow.

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    That's a lie that you tell yourself.

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    You get to replace the lies with these truths.

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    This is sin.

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    It needs to stop.

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    And I'm going to beat temptation if I learn how to say no early.

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    Don't show up for the fight.

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    Number three, how do I beat temptation?

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    We get to blame the right person, you say no early.

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    Three, focus on God's gifts.

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    Look at verse 17.

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    "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, "coming down from the Father of lights, "with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change." The Father of lights, that was the Jewish way of saying God is the creator.

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    I love this, so it says, "He has, there's no variation, and there's no shadow due to change.

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    What does that mean?

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    It means like, even with the sun, it looks like there's a lot of change in the amount of light that's given by the sun, right?

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    Very bright in the middle of the day, then sunset, it seems like the sun's dimming.

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    And then at night, it seems like the sun has turned off.

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    So there's variation in the amount of light that even the sun gives seemingly.

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    But he says, God's not like that.

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    There's no variation with Him.

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    God does not change.

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    Everything that comes from God is good.

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    Your family, your friends, your church, your small group.

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    These are some of the gifts that God gives.

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    He gives so many.

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    Do you know what else God gives?

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    God gives you purpose.

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    God gives you promises.

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    God, through his word, which is another one of his gifts, gives us the gift of hope.

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    I could go on and on and on talking about all of the gifts that God gives, but this is James's point.

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    That if God only gives good and perfect gifts, why do we go after sin?

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    Why do we turn our back on God?

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    James says, "Yeah, everything that God gives is good." So let me ask you, what has sin gotten you?

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    Is there somebody that can stand and give testimony to, "Hey, this one time I sinned and it was awesome.

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    "Everything turned out great for me as a result." Can anybody give testimony to that?

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    That your sin has brought you something good?

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    You know what sin brings?

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    Sin brings guilt and shame and hurt and broken relationships and ruins your health and losing money and...

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    Sin never takes you anywhere good.

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    But all that God gives is good.

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    Church, you will never overcome temptation, sin, the guilt, the shame. You'll never overcome these things if you try to do it the world's way. Because what we see in this verse is completely contradictory to secular psychology. Secular psychology says, "The problem is out there and the solution is in here, right? The problem is out there. We blame other people for our problems, other things, circumstances. The problem's out there, but the answer is here. You need to learn to love yourself, you need to learn to forgive yourself, and you need to affirm yourself, and blah blah blah. The Bible teaches something completely opposite to that. See, where secular psychology says "The problem's out here, the solution's in here." The Bible says, "No, no, no, no, no.

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    "The problem's in here." And where's the solution?

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    The solution's out there.

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    It's from the God who gives every good and perfect gift from above.

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    That's where we get our help.

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    We gotta get our help outside of ourselves.

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    It never comes from within ourselves.

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    So focus not on your temptation.

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    You need to put your eyes and your time and your attention on the good things that God gives, and you're gonna find that you don't have any time or attention for the bait of temptation.

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    It's about focus, right?

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    And then finally, remind yourself of your identity.

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    Look at verse 18.

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    I could spend like probably two months preaching.

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    There's just so much in this verse.

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    We're not gonna do that.

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    Look at verse 18.

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    He says, "Of his own will, he brought us forth "by the word of truth, "that we should be a kind of first fruits of his creatures." Remind yourself of your identity.

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    People excuse their sins saying, "Yeah, I can't help it, I was born this way." And I say, "Yeah, that's true." And that's exactly why Jesus said, "You must be born again." That's exactly what James is talking about.

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    When it says God brought us forth, he's talking about this, God transformed us.

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    God put his spirit in us.

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    The Bible says that we become partakers of the divine nature.

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    Like, well, how did that happen?

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    He tells us it happened by the word of truth.

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    Listen, this is how the gospel works.

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    A very short verse.

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    You are dead in your sin.

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    You hear the message from the Bible about what Jesus did, and you turn from your sin and receive Jesus Christ.

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    And when you do that, the Bible says, God puts his Holy Spirit in you.

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    And now you're alive in Christ.

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    You're a new creature.

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    That's what Jesus called being born again.

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    So hear me, the gospel is not about becoming a churchgoer.

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    The gospel is not about becoming religious.

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    And the gospel is not even about becoming a better person.

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    The gospel is about becoming a new person.

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    It's nothing less than a total transformation of who you are.

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    You're like, well, what does that look like?

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    "Were you not paying attention a few minutes ago?" This is what it looks like.

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    That's why we baptize.

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    It's the picture.

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    When Lucas and Kelly went under the water, they were saying, "I'm dead." And when they're coming out of the water, they said, "I'm being raised in the newness of life.

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    "I'm identifying with the life of Jesus Christ.

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    "He is alive in me.

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    "I'm a new person.

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    "I'm not the same person that I was, "and it's because of Jesus Christ." That's what the gospel is.

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    That's what the gospel does.

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    He says that we should be a kind of first fruits of his creatures.

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    First fruits, that's an Old Testament concept.

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    The concept of first fruits is this.

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    You know, when they would bring in their crops, the very first and best part of their crops were to be given back to God.

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    And I know it might be hard for us to understand unless you are a farmer here, but in that culture, there would be a real easy tendency to get that first batch of the crop in and hoard it, to say, "Hey, I'm gonna need this, I'm gonna have to eat, my family's gonna have to eat, I'm keeping this." But giving the first fruits back to God was an act of thanksgiving.

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    It was an act of worship and catch this, it was an act of faith that the rest of the crop was coming.

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    Like, well, what does that have to do with what James is talking about here?

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    Listen, I've told you before the best verse in the Bible is Revelation 21 five.

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    And don't give me this, it's all God's word, it all has equal value.

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    Yeah, yeah, yeah, I get that.

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    But the best verse in the Bible is Revelation 21 five.

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    It says, "And he who was seated on the throne said, "Behold, I'm making all things new.

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    "Also he said," write this down, For these words are trustworthy and true.

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    A day is coming when our Lord is going to make all things new.

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    There's gonna be a new heavens.

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    There's gonna be a new earth.

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    There's not going to be sin or death or suffering.

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    It's going to be a kingdom that's completely righteous, a kingdom that's not dominated by sin the way the world is now.

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    You see, James reminds us here that we, church, born again believers, we are the first fruits of that.

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    Like, what does that mean?

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    It means we, those who are born again, those who have been transformed by Jesus Christ, We are the first evidence of the promise of Him making all things new.

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    You understand that?

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    If you're like, in other words, if you're like, well, how do we know?

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    How do we know that God's going to make all things new?

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    The answer is because by His grace, He made me new.

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    I'm the first fruits of what's coming.

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    This idea of newness and transformation.

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    And if you are born again, you are proof of what is coming because God made you new.

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    You are the first fruits of the new heavens and the new earth because you're new now.

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    You understand that?

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    It's an identity issue is what it is.

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    You need to see yourself as the first fruits.

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    and saying, you know what, as first fruits, I belong to God.

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    And as first fruits, I'm a new creature.

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    And that kingdom that is coming, I represent that right now.

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    The righteousness of God's kingdom, that's what I'm going after today.

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    because even though that kingdom isn't fully here yet, it is here now in me.

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    Do you understand what the implications of this are?

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    'Cause somebody could say, well, what about pornography?

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    The answer is, you know, there's a kingdom that's coming, a kingdom that I'm part of now, And in that kingdom, we don't do that.

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    We don't do that in that kingdom.

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    What about unfaithfulness in your marriage?

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    You know what that kingdom that's coming?

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    I'm a part of that.

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    We don't do that stuff.

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    We don't do anything unfaithful.

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    I'm part of that kingdom now.

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    What about drunkenness or other addiction?

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    What about perverted joking?

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    What about greed?

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    What about slander?

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    Like, I don't do that stuff.

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    Because I'm part of the kingdom that's coming.

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    I'm the first fruits.

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    That's not who I am anymore.

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    So when you're faced with temptation, you need to remind yourself this, hey, hey, Jesus died for that sin, and he made me a new person.

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    And I'm not doing that.

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    Because that's just not who I am anymore.

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    Then who am I?

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    Well, I'm a person who fights temptation.

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    And I'm a person who discovers that I win when I realize it's not God's fault, it's mine.

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    I win when I say no early.

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    I win when I get my eyes off of the things that tempt me and get them on the things that God gives.

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    And I win when I remind myself, I'm the first fruits of God's new creation.

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    I'm avoiding that sin, that temptation, because that's just not who I am.

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    That's how you beat temptation, God's way.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, we thank you for your Word.

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    And I just felt like we barely scratched the surface on everything that you're telling us in this passage.

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    Father, I pray that these principles would take deep root into our hearts 'cause we are to represent you and your kingdom.

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    And so often I do a lousy job of that.

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    Father, let us be people who define sin and temptation and all of these things, define them and describe them and understand them in the way that you do.

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    And go after resisting and beating temptation in the way that you've laid out here.

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    For your glory and honor, Father, we pray in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read James 1:13-18

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. What excuses have you made - or heard - for giving into temptation? What does James say about who is responsible for our sin?

  3. Why do you think people tend to blame God for their failures?

  4. Are all desires bad (Jas 1:14)? How do you know what is a good desire and what is a sinful desire?

  5. What gifts from God can you focus on when you are tempted to sin?

Breakout
Pray for one another - to resist temptation the way James lays out for us.

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Profit from Trials

Introduction:

My Trial: --------------------------------------------------

How to Profit from Trials: Change The Way You See Them (James 1:1-12)

  1. See trials as Strengthening you. (Jas 1:3-4)
  2. See trials as Teaching you. (Jas 1:5-8)
  3. See trials as Humbling you. (Jas 1:9-11)
  4. See trials as Testing you. (Jas 1:12)

    Hebrews 12:2 - looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

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    If you please would open up your Bibles to the book of James.

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    Did you know that Jesus Christ had half brothers?

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    Jesus Christ, his mother was Mary, conceived by the Holy Spirit, fully God, fully man.

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    But after Jesus was born, the Bible tells us Mary and Joseph had other kids.

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    And they, technically, they would be half brothers of Jesus.

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    And the book of James was written by one of those half brothers.

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    Jesus' brothers, half brothers, they didn't believe in Jesus until after he resurrected.

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    And James not only became a believer, but he became an early church leader, according to Acts 15 and 1 Corinthians 15.

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    And James 1, verse one, it says, "James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ to the 12 tribes of Israel and the dispersion.

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    Greetings.

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    James wrote this letter to Jews who were scattered abroad due to persecution in that day.

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    And as we kick off this series, we're going to be going through the book of James and see under inspiration of the Holy Spirit, we're gonna learn how to live what you believe.

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    James has 108 verses in it, and 54 of those are imperatives.

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    So this is going to be really practical.

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    Our series is called Intentional Faith, a how-to guide.

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    All right, so let's bow our heads.

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    I'm gonna ask that you would please pray for me, and I'll pray for you.

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    Let's get into God's word together.

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    Father, we've come here today to hear from you.

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    So Father, let your word be clear and open our hearts to receive your word for what it is.

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    Father, let this be a time of renewing our minds.

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    Father, it's my prayer that every single one of us walks out of here different than when we came in.

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    We pray in Jesus' name.

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    All of God's people said, amen.

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    I have a Jeep Wrangler and I didn't know this when I got it, but I guess people that drive those have this game that they play.

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    You know about duck, duck, Jeep?

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    Do you know about that?

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    I didn't know anything about it.

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    But apparently you stick rubber ducks in the handle of another Jeep Wrangler.

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    I don't really play that.

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    All right, it's not as fun as it sounds.

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    I don't really play.

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    But I got in the Jeep one day, Aaron had borrowed it, it's like, it's ours, all right.

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    So Aaron drove it the day before.

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    And the next day when I got in, There was one of these ducks on the dash.

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    And like I said, I'm not really crazy about it because every time you go around Ben's, he's clunking around, he's at your feet, he's all over the place.

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    Maybe you're supposed to tape them down or something, I don't know.

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    But I remember looking at this stupid thing, thinking, I can't wait to get rid of this.

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    I gotta find another Jeep so I can...

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    You're like, well, what's the problem?

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    Well, first of all, notice he's like leopard skinned.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    And you might not know this, but ducks are not naturally leopard skinned.

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    So I'm like, I can't wait to get rid of this dumb thing.

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    Well, I told Erin that, I said, I said, "Where'd the duck come from?" And I said, "I can't wait to get rid of that." She goes, "No, you don't wanna get rid of it." I'm like, "Yeah, I do wanna get rid of it.

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    "I don't want that stupid thing bouncing around "and it's just dumb, right?" She goes, "You don't wanna get rid of that." I said, "Why?" She said, "I gotta tell you how I got it." She said, "The other day when I took the Jeep, "the boys and I went into the dollar store." And she said, "This little boy came running up to her.

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    "He goes, 'Excuse me, ma'am.

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    "'Ma'am, is that your Jeep outside?'" And she said, "Yes, it is." He goes, "Oh, oh, hang on, I'll be right back." And he vanished.

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    And he came back and he said, "I wanna give this to you." And Aaron's like, "Oh, that's so sweet.

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    Isn't that precious?" Well, the little boy was with his grandma and his grandma told Aaron, she said, "You know, little hunter, he saves up his allowance just to buy these to give to people that have Jeeps." She said, "We don't even have one." He saves up his allowance to buy these to give away.

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    And she said, "And do you know what he asked for for his birthday?

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    He wanted rubber ducks to give away." And Aaron told me that story.

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    And I'm like, "Honored!

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    So precious.

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    So guess what I'm going to have for the rest of my life?

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    I'll have this long after the Jeep.

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    But you know, getting that new information about this changed the way that I look at this.

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    I went from, this is a stupid thing I can't wait to get rid of to, wow.

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    Somewhere out there is a little boy that is so selfless that this is where he directs money and energy.

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    Because you see, this duck teaches us, it's all about the way you look at it.

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    The duck didn't change, but the way I see it did change.

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    Now look at James 1, verse two, where he says, "Count it all joy, my brothers, "When you meet trials of various kinds." Stop there.

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    Okay, coming out of the gate hot.

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    James is like, "Good morning, let's talk about trials." We all have them, right?

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    And notice he says various kinds, okay?

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    So it's not just like one thing, we all have them.

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    And for some of us, maybe it's a health trial.

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    Maybe you're dealing with something debilitating.

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    It just doesn't go away.

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    Maybe it's diabetes or MS or arthritis, or maybe that's your trial.

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    Or for some people, it's a financial trial.

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    Maybe you've suffered a job loss, or maybe inflation is crippling you.

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    And for a lot of people, it's maybe a trial in your family.

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    You know, I just can't ever seem to get my marriage on track and I don't know what to do.

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    and my spouse and I just aren't on the same page ever.

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    Or maybe it's parenting.

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    Yeah, I thought parenting would look a lot different than it does, and I just, I don't know how to get through to this kid of mine.

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    Maybe your trial has to do with work or school, right?

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    It's just too much, I can't seem to get caught up.

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    Maybe your trial is here in the church.

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    Maybe there are conflicts or broken relationships right here.

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    But there's various trials.

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    So what I want you to do, on your outline, and I hope you got one, on the top it says My Trial.

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    I want you to take a moment and I want you to write down right now the trial in your your life that seems to be giving you the biggest hardship.

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    Go ahead, take a moment, write that down.

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    And if you're like, "Jeff, I have several." Pick the one that is the worst.

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    Pick the one that's the hardest.

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    Write something down.

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    What trial are you going through right now?

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    And if you're like, "I don't really have any trials at all right now," then this is gonna be a long sermon for you.

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    But write down my trial.

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    What is it in your life that you would consider a trial or a hardship that you're enduring?

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    Write it down.

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    Because you're going to be referencing that.

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    And I want you to look at that trial, Look at that thing you wrote down.

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    And then look back at the text.

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    What does James say to do with it?

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    He says, "Count it all joy." What?

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    And by the way, that's a command.

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    You have to commit to this.

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    You have to make some decisions ahead of time.

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    And you're like, you're looking at yours.

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    You're like, that's easy for you to say, Jeff.

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    You don't know what I wrote down.

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    And you're saying that you want me to feel good about this.

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    Is that what you're saying?

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    I should feel good about this.

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    And I would say, who said anything about feelings?

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    I think that's part of the problem as we get so used to being led by our feelings.

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    But that's not what I'm saying because that's not what James is saying.

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    Literally, what he's saying is think forward.

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    That word consider or count it.

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    He's saying, think forward.

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    This is a thinking thing.

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    This has to start in your mind.

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    This is about the way you process it.

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    James is saying, whatever trial you're going through, you need to think through the implications of that trial because it's all in the way that you see it.

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    Nobody loves a trial, nobody signs up for it.

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    They're painful and I'm not discounting that at all.

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    But the joy comes in looking ahead to see how God is going to use it.

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    You know, it's easy to see the benefits of a trial in a rear view mirror, right?

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    Now I went through this hardship and looking back now, I see exactly why God allowed that and what he did through it.

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    And yeah, it's easy to see in retrospect.

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    Hindsight's 20/20, right?

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    You're like, "Oh, that's comforting, Pastor Jeff.

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    Thank you for that." So you're saying in a good 40 years, I can count this all joy, but hey, hey, hey, hey, what about today?

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    What about today?

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    How can I count it all joy today?

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    Well, when it comes to your trials, there's some things that you can't do.

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    You can't change the duration of it, that we would all like to.

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    Yeah, can this be over soon?

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    You can't make it vanish.

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    You can't reverse the effects.

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    But there's one thing that you can do.

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    There's one thing that only you can do.

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    And that one thing that you can do, if you are willing to do it, will actually make you profit from your trial.

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    That this thing you wrote down, if you do this one thing, you're going to look at that and say, "Hey, this was painful, but this was good." What's that one thing?

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    You gotta change the way you see it.

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    So on your outline, "How to Profit from Trials." I love that title because it makes me sound like somebody from an infomercial. "You too can profit from trials!" That'd be like the world's worst infomercial.

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    I'll stick to selling rubber ducks.

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    How to profit from trials, change the way you see them.

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    You ready?

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    Let's change our perspective a bit.

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    Number one, write this down.

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    You need to see trials as strengthening you.

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    That thing you wrote down, see trials as strengthening you.

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    Look at verse three.

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    He says, "For you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness." Stop there.

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    That word know, that you know, there's different words for know in the Greek.

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    And this word know doesn't mean like, I read about this in a book somewhere.

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    This word know means personal experience.

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    Like you really understand something because you've been through it.

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    He says, you know, these trials that you're going through, that God uses them to make you stronger.

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    And you're like, yeah, yeah, I know that.

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    I've been through that before.

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    I've gone through trials and I've seen this.

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    I've been here before and I know this.

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    We got to address an elephant in the room when we talk about trials.

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    Maybe it's splitting hairs, but some people say, well, when trials come into my life, what is that?

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    Like, does God cause it?

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    Is God up in heaven, like constructing it and causing it?

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    And this is exactly what I'm gonna put the whammy on this person.

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    Does God cause it?

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    Or does God allow it?

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    That God's up in heaven seeing all this bad stuff happening to you, and he's like, "Okay, I'll permit that." And which isn't?

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    Well, if you read the book of Job, we can safely say that everything that's happening to you is only by God's sovereign permission.

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    That nothing comes into your life without God signing off on it.

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    So this thing that you wrote down, your trial, please hear me church, you can't attribute this to bad luck.

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    You can't attribute this to bad people.

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    You can't even really ultimately attribute this to Satan because who's the sovereign one?

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    Shout it out, who's the sovereign one?

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    God is.

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    So if it's in your life, he signed off on it.

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    And he's allowing and using every trial for his purposes.

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    And that's where James starts, where he says, you're gonna get to the place where you say, I know God's walking me through this right now in order to produce steadfastness.

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    It's to give me patience.

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    It's to give me more resolve.

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    It's to make me stronger.

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    And you gotta start here Because unless you really believe that God is sovereign, unless you really believe that everything that comes into your life first has to pass through His hands until you really believe that, you're never going to have joy.

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    But it is all about the way you see it.

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    Look at verse 4.

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    He says, "And let," underline the word let.

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    We're gonna talk about that in a second.

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    "And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing." Let it happen.

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    Let it happen.

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    This thing, God has allowed this, he's brought it into your life, ultimately to benefit you.

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    He says, "Let it happen." In other words, don't fight him on this.

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    Like, well, how do you fight God on this?

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    What are some ways that we don't let it happen?

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    There's lots of ways.

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    For some people, it just gets so hard at home, they abandon their family.

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    I'm not letting this trial happen.

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    I'm walking away.

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    Some people drink it away.

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    or some other substance.

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    You're not letting it happen.

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    I think for most people, it's a complaint about it.

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    Get on social media, let everyone know how horrible your life is.

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    When you do those things, that's not letting steadfastness have its full effect.

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    God's trying to do something and you're just like, nah, nah, I'm not interested.

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    You're like, "Well, what's God going after?" He tells us right here what God's going after.

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    He says the full effect of this steadfastness that comes from this trial is that we may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.

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    Now when he talks about perfection, understand he's not talking about sinlessness.

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    the word means mature, or it can be translated becoming full grown.

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    He says, you need to let this happen because God's going to use this to grow you up to full maturity, full maturity.

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    You know what that means?

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    Well, we know what it means physically, right?

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    Physically, you get to a point in your life that you're never more adult.

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    You know what I mean?

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    At some point in your life, you become full grown.

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    You're mature, your bones are done growing.

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    You're not going to get taller.

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    What is that?

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    Age 20, 21, individual results may vary, but you get to the point that your body is fully mature adult, right?

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    And in the same way, he's saying the trials will grow you up.

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    They will mature you into spiritual adulthood.

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    What does that look like?

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    What does this maturity look like?

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    Well, I can tell you this, as a much younger believer, I had a lot of crises of faith.

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    I think a lot of Christians go through that, that we struggle with, you know, is this really the word of God?

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    Is God real?

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    Does God really love me?

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    Is God really with me through everything that I go through in life?

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    Is that really true?

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    And I gotta tell you, I don't have those struggles anymore.

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    I don't have those doubts.

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    Because God has proven himself real and faithful and loving and sustaining.

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    Not because my life has been God taking me around all the hardships, it's because God has taken me through them.

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    That I stand before you saying, I don't struggle with believing who he is.

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    and what he does, he's proven himself.

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    That only happens through trials.

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    No one's ever gotten stronger in their faith through an easy life.

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    And you will profit from trials if you see them strengthening you.

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    Because it's all about the way you see it, right?

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    Number two, write this down.

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    You gotta see trials as teaching you.

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    Look at verse 5.

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    He says, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach and it will be given him." Now wisdom here in this context, obviously he's talking about trials.

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    He's saying when you're trying to navigate through this trial that you're going through, God for the wisdom in getting through this, in understanding this, in changing the way that you see this. Because trials let you learn things that you will never learn any other way. Trials will teach you how to apply this in a way that nothing else can teach So if you want wisdom, James says, you gotta go to God to get it.

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    And that is a really fun sentence to say.

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    You wanna try it?

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    Gotta go to God to get it, say it.

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    Right, where do you get wisdom, tell me.

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    Gotta go to God to get it.

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    You gotta go to God to get it.

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    That's where wisdom comes from.

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    You gotta go to God to get it.

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    And he loves to give it.

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    I love this, it says, he gives generously to all without reproach.

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    You're like, well, what does that without reproach thing mean?

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    Well, you know, have you ever had to have your parents bail you out repeatedly?

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    And you've gotten the speech?

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    Like, okay, look, like, this is the last time I'm doing this.

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    Okay, I am so tired of you screwing up all the time.

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    I'm gonna help you, but this is the last time I'm helping you.

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    You've got to get it together, man.

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    That is with reproach.

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    Does God give wisdom like that?

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    Never.

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    You see, that's a glorious thing.

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    When you go to God for wisdom for your trial, do you know what God's answer always is?

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    He says, "I am so glad you asked me.

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    "Let me show you, let me teach you.

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    "Let me show you some things.

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    "Oh, I'm so glad you brought this up." He loves to give it.

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    Verse six, he goes on, he says, in asking for wisdom, he says, "But let him ask in faith with no doubting, "for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea "that is driven and tossed by the wind." So look, when you ask God, you have to ask in faith.

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    You can't doubt when you ask him.

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    You can't pray insincerely.

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    You have to come to God believing that he knows and he cares and he has the answer.

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    Otherwise, he says you're like a wave.

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    You're just bouncing all around and bouncing all around and never settled, looking everywhere for answers for this.

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    That's a problem when you do that.

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    Here's what I mean.

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    Whatever this thing is you wrote down, and you're like, man, I need some wisdom on how to figure this out, on how to navigate through this.

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    So you come to church and you hear a sermon, and you're like, eh, maybe.

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    And then you go to your secular counselor with this and say, help me make sense of this.

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    And they give you, You need to learn how to love yourself and forgive yourself and all the other nonsense they tell you.

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    And which by the way, those things aren't really things by the way.

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    And you leave your secular counselor's office and you're like, okay, but you know what?

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    I mean, I get this coworker.

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    He doesn't know the Lord, but it seems like he's been around the track a few times.

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    And you go to him and get some knucklehead advice.

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    And you're like, no, I guess maybe there's some merit in that.

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    Oh, I know, I'll turn on the view and see what those people say about it.

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    And then you listen to them and you're like,

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    (mimics angry sound)

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    Do you think that you're going to get an answer from God when you don't really believe that he's the one that has the answer?

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    because you're going everywhere else looking for answers.

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    Do you really think you're gonna get an answer from God?

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    No, you are not going to get anything from God.

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    Like, Jeff, how could you say such a thing?

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    Well, look at verse seven.

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    "For that person must not suppose "that he will receive anything from the Lord." Do you see that?

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    Like, I just can't figure out the answers for my trial.

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    Have you gone to God exclusively about this?

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    Or have you tried to put God's word in with this cluster of all these other opinions?

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    God doesn't answer doubters.

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    He just, he doesn't.

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    You gotta go to God saying, I believe that you know, and I want you and you alone to tell me what the answer is for this.

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    Look at verse eight.

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    And speaking of the person that's bouncing all around, he says, "He's a double-minded man, "unstable in all his ways." If you aren't settled in God having the answer, then you don't really have faith.

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    You just don't.

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    It's what James is saying here.

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    We profit from trials because they give us the opportunity to get wisdom from God that we don't get otherwise.

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    So this trial, This thing that you wrote down, you need to look at it and say, "I'm about to learn something that God wants to teach me, and this is what He's going to use." You'll profit.

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    It's all about the way you see it, right?

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    Number three, see trials as humbling you.

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    out of profit from trials, change the way you see them.

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    Number three, see trials as humbling you.

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    Look at verses nine, partway through 10 here.

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    He says, "Let the lowly brother boast in his exaltation "and let the rich in his humiliation." Stop there.

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    Like that's a left turn.

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    What's going on here?

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    What's really not a left turn?

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    It's the same theme here.

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    He's saying, "If your trial is being poor, rejoice." It's really humbling.

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    We don't have anybody poor here, honestly, not by biblical definition.

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    But he says, if you're poor, rejoice because that's really humbling.

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    He says, if your trial rich person is suffering a great loss, he says you need to rejoice because that too is really humbling.

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    He's saying, let everyone rejoice in his humiliation.

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    Right?

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    You get humiliation, you get humiliation like Oprah.

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    Right?

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    Everybody look under your chair.

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    You're all getting humbled today.

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    He goes on.

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    He says, "Because like a flower of the grass, he will pass away.

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    But the sun rises with its scorching heat and withers the grass.

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    Its flower falls and its beauty perishes.

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    So also will the rich man fade away in the midst of his pursuits.

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    Like, what's that all about?

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    Well, whether you have nothing or you want for nothing, it's all temporary.

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    It is all going to go away.

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    Like, well, what's the point?

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    Here's the point. There is nothing that is better for you spiritually than humility.

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    God, what is the number one characteristic you are looking for in your people? Without of doubt, it's humility.

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    There is nothing better for you than humility.

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    And what is it that gets us there?

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    This thing.

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    See, our default mode is trying to make it on our own steam.

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    We live like we don't really need God.

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    And then some trial comes along and knocks us down and makes us realize that we do.

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    This trial knocks us down and say, you know, I'm not as strong as I thought I was.

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    I'm not as in control as I thought I was.

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    I really do need God.

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    And church, anything that has come into your life that has driven you to your knees, where you cry out to God in utter dependence on Him, you need that.

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    Our missionary from Thailand, Barnabas, was here last week.

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    I can't believe I missed that.

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    So sick.

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    But I get to spend a lot of other time with them and was here for the Q and A.

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    Did you come for the Q and A?

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    It's gonna be, it was recorded.

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    It's gonna be available.

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    You need to watch it.

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    But I've heard him tell this story a couple of times and it just, the story just attached itself to my soul.

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    I'm gonna give you the very short version, talk to Barnabas, we'll give you the longer version.

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    But there was this girl that was possessed by an evil spirit that he was going after repeatedly, repeatedly, repeatedly.

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    And finally, he went to her family's house and she was in her room.

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    And he went and he stood in the doorway.

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    He tells it so much better than I do, but he stood in the doorway so she couldn't escape because she kept running from him.

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    And as he stood in the doorway, he said, she loudly cried.

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    just loudly started crying out, so loud.

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    And I think most of us in that moment would say, shh, shh, shh, shh, it's okay, be quiet.

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    It's okay, don't cry, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh.

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    Do you know what he said to her?

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    As she was wailing and crying, he says, "Cry." He says, "Cry as loud as you can.

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    Cry." He said, "Because when the baby bird cries, the mother bird hears the cry and comes." He says, "When the baby pig cries, the mother pig hears the cry, and she comes." He says, "You cry, and God, your heavenly Father, He will hear you, and He will come.

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    So cry.

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    Cry as loud as you can." Which person is better off?

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    Which person is better off?

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    The person that has this trial in their life, that has caused them to spend so much time on their face crying out to God, or the person who seemingly has no trials and has never felt the need to cry out to God. Which person's better off? It's the person with the trial, isn't it? You see, this thing that you wrote down, has it made you keenly aware of how much you need the Lord? Has it done that? If it has, then you are profiting from this in the greatest possible way. And then finally, number four, how to profit from trials. You've got to see trials as testing you. Look at verse 12. This is like a summary statement. This just says it all, Paul caps it off, he says, "Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life which God has promised to those who love him." You want to profit from trials?

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    you've got to see them as a test.

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    You're like, "Well, how does that help?" Because I got to tell you, Pastor Jeff, I don't like taking tests.

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    Never did.

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    How does it help to see my trials as a test?

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    And I would respond, "Well, do you really want to go through life not knowing whether you really trust the Lord or not?" Because trials have a way of exposing what's really in here.

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    Oh, by the way, God already knows what's in here.

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    Trials are so you know what's really in here.

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    Trials can't destroy true faith.

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    It's never happened.

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    Trials never destroy true faith.

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    Trials only always ever strengthen true faith.

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    But trials do reveal, according to Jesus, Matthew 13, trials do reveal that some people never had faith.

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    So I'm gonna ask you this thing you wrote down, How are you responding to it right now?

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    How are you doing in responding to this?

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    Are you willing to change the way you see it?

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    Because of all that James says, isn't incentive enough, he adds on here that there's a crown of life.

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    That's reward.

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    That's glory, that's exaltation, that's heaven.

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    Get that God has promised.

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    And who did God promise it to?

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    Who did God promise it to?

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    What are the last four words in verse 12?

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    Say 'em, say 'em.

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    Who did God make this promise to?

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    Okay, well, two of you got it.

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    What are the last four words in verse 12?

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    To those who love him.

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    Oh, well, that's five.

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    Let me back up, scratch that.

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    Those who love Him.

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    That's who this promise is for.

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    It's a test.

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    Your trial's a test because nothing, nothing proves allegiance, nothing proves commitment, nothing proves love like a trial.

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    That is true in a marriage.

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    That is true in a friendship.

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    And that is true in your walk with God.

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    So, count it all joy when you meet trials.

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    Like, oh man, turn a negative into a positive.

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    How can that be?

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    I gotta remind you, our whole theology is built on that.

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    Have you heard of the cross of Jesus Christ?

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    Look what we studied this, what was it last year?

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    This year?

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    I don't know, Hebrews 12 too.

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    Says, "Looking to Jesus, "the founder and perfecter of our faith, "who for the joy," we're talking about joy today, "for the joy that was set before him," endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Did the cross make Jesus happy? Did Jesus have warm feelings about going to the cross? No! He agonized over everything that was going to happen.

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    through the crucifixion.

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    But you see, Jesus looked beyond the cross.

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    Oh, the cross of Jesus Christ means so much.

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    But it forever stands as a testimony that God can take tragedy and turn it into blessing.

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    Listen, whatever this thing is you wrote down, I just need to remind you, God took the worst thing that's ever happened and he turned it into the best thing that's ever happened.

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    The worst thing that's ever happened in the history of mankind, God showed up.

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    He took the form of man, lived among us, taught us about the love of God, taught us about the kingdom of God.

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    What did we do?

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    We rejected him, we spit on him, we insulted him, and then we publicly executed him.

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    And then we mocked him while he was being executed.

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    I can't think of anything more horrific than that.

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    But it was out of that, the worst thing that ever happened, that God made the best thing that ever happened because it's through the cross of Jesus Christ that your sins can be forgiven if you will receive him.

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    So if God can do that through the cross, you don't think he can bring anything good out of this thing that you wrote down?

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    He will.

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    Are you willing to change the way you see it?

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    I mean, your trial that you wrote down there, that thing at the top of your paper, you have options.

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    You have options.

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    You can look at this thing and you can see it as unjust pain.

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    You can complain about it.

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    You can let this thing make you a bitter person.

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    You can do that.

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    That's an option that you have, but you will never profit from it.

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    And I know right now, again, there's somebody sitting here going, you can't see what I wrote down, Jeff, but I'm telling you, there is no way that I could ever profit from this.

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    You have no idea.

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    And if you said that to me, I would say, "Give me your paper." And I would read it, and I would say, "So you're telling me there's no way this can make you stronger? Is that what you're telling me? Are you telling me that there is no way that you're going to learn anything from this, is that what you're telling me?

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    Are you telling me that this thing you wrote down, you're telling me there's no way that this can draw you closer to God?

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    Because move down from the list here, from the thing you wrote down, your trial, then look at the list of the things that James says, these prophets that we get from trials.

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    You know, I was looking at this list a lot this week, thinking about it.

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    And I thought, you know, as Christians, these things that James says we get from trials, the strength, the teaching, the humbling, the testing, aren't these the things that Christians really want most in life?

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    I mean, think about it.

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    Being a pastor, I talk to a lot of Christians.

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    And you know the thing that I constantly hear Christians saying they want?

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    They want their faith to be stronger.

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    They want wisdom.

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    They want to draw closer to God.

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    And they want to know that their thing with God, their walk with God is real.

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    Well, the only way that these things happen is through this, the thing you wrote at the top.

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    So I just wanna ask you, church, will you change the way that you see it?

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    Let's pray.

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    Our Father in heaven, I come before you as someone who has struggled so many times in my life to count trials as joy.

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    But I just again, Father, ask for myself and for my brothers and sisters here, for those who are watching the stream, for those who are gonna be listening to this or watching it later, I'm just asking God that you would, by the power of your spirit Father, by the wisdom of your word, help us to see our trials, the things that you have sovereignly allowed into our lives.

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    Father, we would count them as joy because of everything that you've promised to accomplish through them, if we're willing.

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    Father, as hard as it is, Whatever that thing is that we wrote down at the top, and God, you know I wrote something down at the top of my outline.

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    As hard as it is, God, I wanna say thank you for that.

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    Because of everything that you've done in my life, through it, give my brothers and sisters here eyes to see how you're doing it for them.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read James 1:1-12

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. How are trials a “test” (Jas 1:3, 12)? What do they reveal?

  3. James 1:4 says to let steadfastness have its full effect. What are ways people refuse to obey this and resist what God wants to accomplish in trials?

  4. What does it mean that steadfastness makes us “perfect and complete, lacking in nothing” (Jas 1:4)?

  5. Share a time when you asked God for wisdom in a trial, and He clearly answered (Jas 1:5).

Breakout
Pray for one another - to see trials according to God’s purposes.