The Fall of Man

Introduction:

The Origin and the Pattern of Sin (Genesis 3:1-13):

  1. Sin starts when we Disregard God's Word. (Gen 3:1-6)
    1. You Doubt the Authenticity of God's Word. (Gen 3:1-3)
    2. You Deny the Accuracy of God's Word. (Gen 3:1)
    3. You Disobey the Authority of God's Word. (Gen 3:4-6)
  1. Sin brings shame when we try to Disguise . (Gen 3:7)
  2. Sin causes us to Disengage from God. (Gen 3:8-10)
  3. Sin makes us want to Deflect guilt. (Gen 3:11-13)

    Romans 5:12 - Therefore, just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned...

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    Amen. Genesis chapter 3, are you there?

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    You're like, yeah, you asked us to turn there like 10 minutes ago.

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    Found it right near the beginning.

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    Did you know I almost died several years ago?

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    Like, I don't mean like exaggeration.

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    I mean literally almost dead.

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    Some of you know this story, but actually Aaron and I were both at the gym.

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    I was in the men's locker room, Aaron was in the women's locker room, so we weren't together, but I remember exercising and going at it hard that day.

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    I don't know why I was so motivated, but I was going at it hard that day.

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    I'm telling you, Jonathan, it was like the treadmill hard, and it was the weights hard, and I used to be in shape, honest, and I was going hard, and then, so I was getting ready to hit the showers, and I just did not feel right at all.

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    Like, sick to my stomach, and I was like, I could barely stand.

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    It was like I could fall asleep on my feet.

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    And it was just, I'm like, I must have gone too hard or something.

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    I'm like, shower make me feel better.

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    A shower did not make me feel better.

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    And I remember getting dressed and I'm like, there is something seriously wrong with me.

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    And I went and pounded on the door to the ladies locker room and Aaron was just finishing up.

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    And I said, there is something seriously wrong with me.

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    and I have no idea what it is.

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    And she's like, "We're gonna get you to hospital." But the locker rooms were downstairs on this huge flight of steps and I could barely move.

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    So she kind of put her shoulder under my backside and like shoved me up the steps and got me to the hospital.

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    At the hospital, they immediately took me back.

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    I mean, there was no waiting in the waiting room, which tells you how bad I was at this point.

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    I was fading in and out of consciousness.

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    And it was just like off and on and off and on.

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    and they had no idea what was going on.

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    And I just remember as I was fading in and all these doctors and nurses and everybody running in, at one point I do remember saying, you know, between the one weight room and the locker room, I thought I got a slight smell of gas.

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    And they're like, "Oh, oh, oh!" They're like, "Well, I, and I, unfortunately I do remember this." They're like, "We're gonna do a blood gas test.

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    You know what a blood gas test entails?

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    They take a needle the size of a McDonald's straw and stick it in your wrist.

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    Oh, oh yeah, it's much worse than that." And then they get a, but that's how they do the blood gas test and they had to do several of those.

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    And, but I just, I do remember them sticking one of those plastic tubes with the oxygen up my nose, and the doctor coming in smiling, and he says, "I have great news for you." He says, "You have a lethal level of carbon monoxide in your system." And I'm like, "Waiting for the good news here!" You know, because when you hear "lethal level" of something, well, he says, "You are healthy enough," and he goes, "Now that we know what the problem is, "get you on oxygen, we're gonna watch you for a while." And I lived to fight another day.

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    You're like, "Did you have any long-term effects from that?" I think it did do some things messing up my memory.

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    And, why did I tell you this story?

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    (audience laughing)

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    Oh, this is why I told you that story.

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    In order for them to treat me, they had to figure out exactly what was wrong with me, right?

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    I mean, at that moment, they didn't know, would it have helped at all if they were bringing in Tylenol, or cough medicine, or Prozac, Or would that have helped at all? No.

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    They needed to know exactly what my problem was, so they knew exactly how to treat me, right?

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    In Houston, we have a problem.

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    Because something is severely messed up, globally.

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    Have you noticed?

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    People are just bad and horrible, and globally, and I can look at the world, I can turn on the news, and I'm like, "Well, people are messed up." But then I turn it personally, I'm like, "There's something wrong with me." There's something wrong with people, and there's something wrong with me.

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    And nobody's arguing that there's a problem, okay?

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    They argue the solution.

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    Maybe we need more or better or different rehabs, or medications, or therapies, or maybe CRT will help get us in the right direction.

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    None of these things are working.

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    And all of man's attempts really just amounts to putting a band-aid on cancer.

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    We have a problem.

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    We have a serious problem.

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    We are inherently wicked, bad, selfish people.

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    We just are. All of us.

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    In the last couple of weeks we've been looking at His Word, and what have we seen?

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    We've seen that God created this perfect world, right?

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    And then He created woman for man, so He created this perfect relationship.

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    And we're like, "Okay, well, perfect environment, perfect relationship, what happened?" Well, Genesis 3 happened.

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    Sin entered the world.

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    You're like, "Well, what is sin?" Well, there's a lot of definitions, a lot of ways we can define it.

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    Today we're just going to call it a personal lack of conformity to the moral character of God or the law of God.

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    And now it's a disposition.

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    The heart.

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    It leads to thoughts and words and actions that dishonor God and His righteousness.

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    And this account we're going to look at today, the Garden of Eden scene.

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    And I know we've already talked about this, but I feel like if there's somebody new watching or somebody new streaming, I have to say it again, for the person that would ask, "Jeff, do you really believe this is literal, true history?" Absolutely, 100% I do.

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    That is how it is presented in the Word of God.

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    And, if this Adam wasn't literally true, and what he did literally happened, it's hard to make sense of the second Adam, Jesus Christ, and what he did.

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    So yes, I do believe that this is literally true as God told us.

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    So not only is it literal history, also this passage is deeply personal, because this shows us how sin started and something else.

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    It shows us that there is a definite pattern for sin.

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    So on your outline, the origin and the pattern of sin.

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    So, write this down. First of all, letter A.

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    This is like Theology of Sin 101 today, okay?

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    But we've got to get this down, church. We've got to get it down.

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    Letter A, sin starts when we disregard God's Word.

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    Sin starts when we disregard God's Word.

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    Now, Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden had one rule.

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    Look at chapter 2, verse 16.

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    It says, "And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, 'You may surely eat of every tree in the garden, but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it, you shall surely die.

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    Okay, that's the one rule.

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    Now, when it says you shall surely die, literally in the Hebrew, that phrase is, dying, you will die.

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    And that's something, this is another reason I believe this is literal history, because this is something I watch every day.

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    Dying, you will die.

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    Do you know what that means?

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    Spoiler alert, when Adam sins, he doesn't just eat the fruit and drop over dead.

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    What God said literally was, "Dying you will die." If you transgress, if you disobey, it will begin a process that will end with something.

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    In other words, you will die and then die.

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    Can anybody give testimony to that?

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    Because I sure can.

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    Because I'm gonna tell you something.

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    I've seen pictures of myself when I was little.

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    I was a cute kid.

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    And you're thinking the same thing that I ask myself every week.

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    I look in the mirror and I say, "What happened?" "You had such a good start." You're in that boat too though.

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    Look, no offense.

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    We're all in that boat.

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    We are all getting old and wearing out and eventually is going to get to the point that we are going to be done.

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    Dying, you will die.

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    Dying, I am dying.

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    Right?

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    What is death?

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    Well, death in the most generic term, death is separation.

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    Right? Death is separation.

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    Physically, our soul is separated from our body.

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    That's the casket type.

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    Death is separation.

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    spiritually, death is spiritually being separated from God.

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    And anytime you talk about this passage, somebody's going to ask the question, rightly so, justifiably so, "Well, if God didn't want man to eat off of that tree, then?" Go ahead, ask it. "Yes, why did he put it there if he didn't want him to eat it.

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    And I don't really think that's such a hard question. The reason God did that is it gave man a choice, right? It gave man a choice. God's like, "Look, here are your options. You can obey me or you can disobey me." You're like, "Well, why does that matter?" Because here's why. If God didn't give them a choice, it could It could have been said that man only obeys God, man only loves God, because man has no other alternative.

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    Right?

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    That could be said.

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    Why does man love you? Why does man obey you, God?

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    Because he doesn't have a choice.

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    God says there is a choice here.

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    We're going to see that Satan enters the scene And his tactics haven't changed.

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    That's why we call it the pattern here.

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    The tactics that he uses here are the same tactics that he uses today.

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    Do you know why he's been using the same tactics for about 6,000 years?

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    Do you know why he keeps doing the same things over and over?

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    Because they work.

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    Doesn't need to change a thing.

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    And when we sin, this is really close to home, We get on the same path, right?

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    So here it is, step one.

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    Sin starts when we disregard God's word.

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    Step one, you doubt the authenticity of God's word.

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    Look at chapter three, it says, now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the Lord God had made.

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    He says to the woman, did God actually say, you shall not eat of any tree in the garden?

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    And a woman said to the serpent, "We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, but God said, 'You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.'" Stop there.

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    The serpent.

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    We know later from God's Word, this is Satan.

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    This is the devil.

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    We know that, right?

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    Revelation 12.9, Revelation 20.2.

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    The serpent, this is Satan, this is an angel, Lucifer, who according to Isaiah 14 and Ezekiel 28, he thought maybe he should be God.

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    Like why should the Lord get all the glory?

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    Because I'm pretty awesome.

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    And not a great road to go down.

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    And he attacks this new creation of God.

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    And he brings what is the first question in the Bible.

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    You realize that?

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    Genesis 1 and 2, it's just declaration, declaration, declaration.

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    This is the very first question in the Bible.

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    Satan's first step.

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    Did God really say that?

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    I mean, is that what he actually said?

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    And that's how sin starts, church.

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    That's how it starts every single time.

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    It's when we ask ourselves the question, "Did God really say that?" And we begin to doubt the authenticity of God's Word.

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    You know, I want to commit this sin, I want to do this thing, but I think it's wrong, I think I shouldn't do it, but wait a minute, wait, wait.

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    But is that what God actually said?

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    And then we start to ask this question, to justify whatever it is we want to do.

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    And you know, Eve's response adds, don't even touch it, right?

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    God says, don't eat from the tree.

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    Eve adds, yeah, we're not supposed to eat from it.

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    We're not even supposed to touch it.

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    Like, where did that come from?

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    Is that something she made up?

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    Is that something Adam said to her?

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    we really don't know.

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    But regardless, sin, it always starts with doubting and questioning God's Word.

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    Step two, not only do you doubt the authenticity of God's Word, you deny the accuracy of God's Word.

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    You've got to see this because this is so subtle.

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    Look at verse 1. Look at the question again.

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    It says, "The serpent said to the woman, 'Did God actually say you should not eat of any tree in the garden?'" Just circle the word "any." Satan's like, "Is that what God said?

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    Don't eat of any tree." Now, hindsight's always 20/20, especially hindsight for somebody else.

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    But what Eve should have said was, That's not what he said!

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    He never said that.

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    But you notice the slight little twist that Satan puts on God's command.

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    It's close enough to sound kind of right-ish, which makes it completely wrong.

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    Satan is committed when we deny the accuracy of God's Word, because listen, close enough isn't enough.

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    With this little twist, you see what Satan was doing?

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    And this is what's so subtle.

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    This little twist was designed to make Eve think that God was restrictive.

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    Do you see that?

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    God's like, "Here, here's everything.

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    Here, the most perfect, beautiful place I created, man and woman in the image of God.

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    Here, you have everything.

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    God was so gracious in giving, and Satan wanted Eve to think of God in a different way.

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    God was restricted.

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    Oh, so he said you're not supposed to eat off any of these trees, huh?

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    Huh?

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    See that?

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    And like Eve, we're deceived into thinking - don't miss this Like, I know what God said, but, gosh, don't you think God really just wants me to be happy?

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    And we're starting to deny the accuracy of God's Word.

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    I thought I knew what he said, but maybe actually he meant something else.

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    Not a good path.

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    And step three, you disobey the authority of God's Word.

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    See the path here?

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    You doubt the authenticity of God's Word, you deny the accuracy.

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    Now you're disobeying the authority of God's Word.

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    Look at verse four, "But the serpent said to the woman, 'You will not surely die, for God knows that when you eat of it, your eyes will be opened and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.'" That's just, at this point, that's just a flat out contradiction.

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    You won't die.

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    God just doesn't want you to be like Him, and He knows if you eat from that tree, you're going to be.

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    And again, Satan, he's fantastic at making his lies sound kind of right, but at the same time completely wrong.

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    He left a big part out.

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    You know, when it comes to knowing good and evil, there's a big difference between God and man, you know.

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    One of the biggest differences is this.

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    God is incorruptible.

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    And man is not.

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    I heard a preacher say one time, it's like this comparison.

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    God knows evil like a sunbeam shining on sewage.

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    You realize that the sewage doesn't affect the sunbeam.

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    The sewage doesn't make the sunbeam filthy.

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    That's how God knows evil.

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    Man knows evil like someone drowning in sewage.

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    And church, if you're not settled by faith on the authority of God's Word, you have opened yourself up to anything goes.

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    In verse 6, it says, "So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband, who was with her," emphasis added, "and he ate." deceived, apparently, from this verse, it seems to me that she sort of dwelled on it.

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    Right?

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    Like she stood looking at it, thinking about it, thinking about Satan's words more than God's. Huh, you know, that does look good. Sounds helpful. She was deceived.

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    And and not deceived, they disobeyed.

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    They bought the lie.

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    Something's in it for me.

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    That's the way all sin is, by the way.

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    The root of every single sin, you name any sin, the root of every sin is selfishness.

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    It's I want what I want, I don't care what God wants, I don't care how it's going to affect other people, I want what I want.

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    The root of sin is selfishness.

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    That's why right in the middle of the word "sin" is the letter "I." Right?

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    Because I am always in the middle of sin.

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    It's always about me and what I want and my preferences, and who gives a rip what anybody else thinks.

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    So have you ever walked this path?

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    You don't need to raise your hand.

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    You don't need to come up and give testimony right now.

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    But I just want you to ask yourself, have you ever walked this path or a temptation has come before you.

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    Something that initially you were like, "Oh, I should not be doing this.

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    I know this is wrong." But you get on this path.

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    Like, "Oh, did God really mean that though?

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    I mean, I know what He said, but is that really what He meant?" No, no, no. You know what?

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    God couldn't have meant that.

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    Because that's surely not what I want Him to have meant by that.

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    Then we dwell on it and we think it over, and our conclusion is, "Well, I better do what I want to do anyways." The origin and the pattern of sin, it starts when we disregard God's Word.

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    Letter B, "Sin brings shame, we try to disguise." brings shame, we try to disguise. Look at verse 7. It says, after eating, it says, "Then the eyes of both were opened and they knew that they were naked, and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths." The first thing that they noticed after eating was that they were naked. Directly tied into the the very base of sin is a shamefulness connected to sexuality.

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    Like, what do you mean by that?

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    Look back at 2.25.

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    It says, "And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed." This was pre-fall, obviously.

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    This was right after creation of woman, the pronouncement of what the marriage relationship was designed to be.

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    But it says that they were naked, but they were not ashamed.

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    At that point, Adam and Eve didn't know any evil, and they didn't know, get this, that sexual desire could be used for evil purposes.

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    And now, all of that's changed.

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    And it is still this way until today.

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    At the root of sinfulness is a perversion and a shame connected with sexuality.

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    You can take any perversion you like.

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    Whether it's adultery or fornication or homosexuality or gender confusion or pedophilia or pornography, all of these things.

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    The very base of sin.

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    Now, the only two people on earth who were naked and innocent, and by the way, up to this point, they only ever saw each other naked, you know that, right?

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    Now they have this sense of, oh man, I need to cover myself.

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    I need to hide my body.

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    Because of the shame that's crept in.

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    So what did they do?

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    Well, your Bible tells you that they sewed fig leaves together.

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    They made loincloths out of fig leaves.

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    Now I think I've confessed before you that I'm no biologist.

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    I'm also not a botanist and I'm not a seamstress.

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    So I'm going to have to call an audible here and ask somebody maybe with more experience than me in this field, how long do underpants made out of leaves last?

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    I mean the leaves are kind of soft and pliable at first, right?

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    But what happens to a leaf when it's disconnected from the plant for a while?

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    What happens?

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    Do you see a problem?

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    Here's the problem, man's attempts to cover shame fail.

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    Somehow sin knows somehow sin, and this is the stupid deception sin always makes us want to try to cover it up.

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    That was Adam and Eve here, like, "Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, you're naked!" Like, "Yeah, I have been." Now all of a sudden there's this shame, and we, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, damage control, we can cover this, and we can hide it, and we can fix it.

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    Look, look, let's take the leaves, and we're covering up now, and look, look, out of sight, out of mind, problem went away.

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    And you're like, yeah, that was pretty stupid of 'em, huh?

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    Oh, come on, we still do this stuff, guys.

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    We still do this stuff.

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    When your pornography's hidden on your computer, when your email's in text from that secret relationship that you're trying to keep hidden from your spouse, you're hiding it, you're covering it, your bottle of addictive something hidden.

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    Are you trying to cover something up right now?

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    Because your coverup's gonna be about as effective as leafy britches.

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    All right, sin brings a shame that we have this, we gotta hide it.

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    It doesn't work.

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    Letter C, sin causes us to disengage from God.

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    Look at verse 8.

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    It says, "And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden.

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    The Lord God called to the man and said to him, "Where are you?" You think God didn't know?

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    You think Adam was like first ever hide and seek champion?

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    I don't think so.

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    Well Adam replies, verse 10 says, "And he said, I heard the sound of you in the garden, and I was afraid.

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    Because I was naked and I hid myself.

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    See this perfect fellowship he had with God was now broken.

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    Broken to the point that we were hiding from God in the trees, in the garden.

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    And you know, sin makes us do all kinds of crazy things.

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    And you know the absolute craziest thing that sin makes us do?

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    The craziest thing by far that sin makes us do?

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    Running and hiding from God.

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    That's the craziest thing.

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    People do that today?

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    All the time.

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    People settle on, "I'm not going to go to church.

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    I can't go to church.

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    I can't go to church and listen to Jesus Christ be exalted in worship.

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    I can't go to church and be praying to the Father in the name of Jesus.

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    I can't go to church and hear the Word of Christ proclaimed.

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    I can't do it.

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    I'm ashamed of myself.

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    I can't face God." So people abandon church.

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    And I've got to tell you, that's so foolish.

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    Because if you're struggling with sin of any kind, who is the only person who can help you?

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    Shout it out.

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    Who is the only person that can help you?

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    Then why are we running from Him?

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    That's the shamefulness of sin.

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    We need to be running to Him, not away from Him, because He can fix it.

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    He has fixed it.

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    But we don't want to face up to our guilt.

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    Sometimes in church we're just like Adam and Eve, we're hiding in the trees.

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    Letter D.

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    Sin starts when we disregard God's word, bring shame we try to disguise, it causes us to disengage from God.

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    Letter D, sin makes us want to deflect guilt.

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    Look at verse 11, deflect guilt.

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    Okay, now the Lord speaking again.

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    Adam says, "I heard the sound of you in the garden.

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    "I was afraid because I was naked and I hid myself.

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    "So he, God said, Who told you that you were naked?

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    Have you eaten of the tree of which I commanded you not to eat?" Ok, so the Lord asks two more questions, and again, I don't think He was looking for information.

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    He was looking for a confession.

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    Verse 12, the man says, "The woman whom you gave to be with me, He gave me the fruit of the tree, and I ate." Now this is obviously a very tragic story, but there is one little slight glimmer of something humorous to me in Adam's response, and that is simply this.

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    At this point in Adam's existence, he literally knew two others.

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    He knew God, and He knew Eve. And when He was confronted over His sin, what did He do?

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    He blamed literally every other person that He knew. True or false?

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    God's like, "What have you done?" and Adam's like, "Well, now that you bring it up, The woman?

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    Notice he says that you gave her.

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    That Adam's like, "Look God, I don't want to sound critical, but I'm sure in your sovereignty you noticed that this stuff wasn't happening before you created her.

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    I mean I'm not saying, but I'm just saying.

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    You know what I'm saying?

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    I'm not saying anything God, but you know what I'm saying?" These are pretty quiet and sinless.

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    Is that what he did?

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    Yeah, that's what he did.

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    The woman that you gave me.

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    He tried to pin this on God.

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    Like, there's got to be some kind of all-time audacity award for that.

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    And we too live in a day where nobody is responsible for their actions.

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    Right?

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    We're confronted about our sin.

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    And maybe you haven't said it in the way Adam said it, but you've certainly communicated the spirit of the same type of thing.

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    When you say things like this, "I can't help that, that's how I was raised." "Look, I act this way because it's part of my culture." Or, "I have an illness." Or, "I have an addiction." Or, "My therapist said my sin is not my fault." I'm not denying for a second that we've all been, and some of us are currently victims of the sins that other people commit, sometimes directly upon us.

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    That is absolutely true.

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    But nobody is making choices for you.

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    Okay?

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    You've got to draw the line somewhere to say at some point, "I'm making decisions, and nobody's responsible for the decisions that I'm making." But my therapist said, "I don't really care what your therapist said.

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    I care what God said." Our very popular mantra today actually does blame God.

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    In the way that Adam did.

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    I'm sure you've heard it before when people say, "I can't help it, I was born this way." Right?

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    "I was born this way." Well, look, that's true.

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    That's why Jesus said, "You must be born again." So God turns to Eve now and she is a little less deflecting.

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    It says, "Then the Lord God said to the woman, "What is this that you have done?

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    "The woman said, 'The serpent deceived me and I ate.' Okay, what does all this have to do with me?

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    And the answer is everything.

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    This story, the ramifications, the fallout, the effects of this account literally affects every single second of your life.

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    Every single day.

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    Because Adam's sin affects the whole human race.

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    Romans 5.12 says this, "Therefore just as sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sin." We are all born dead and dying with a sin nature.

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    We're born with that.

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    We're born with a propensity to be selfish and disregard the Word, the righteousness, the law of God.

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    Don't believe me?

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    Take one of these toddlers home with you.

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    Go up to harvest kids, get their parents' permission, of course.

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    Just take them home with you for the afternoon.

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    If you don't believe that we're born with this propensity for selfishness, we all are.

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    Like, "Oh man, I see what you're saying Jeff, but you know, I've got a question.

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    I wasn't there.

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    I wasn't there.

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    Why don't I get the same choice that Adam and Eve got?" Adam was the representative of the entire human race at this point.

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    And you can not like the choice that he made, but that doesn't change the fact that his choice affected the entire human race.

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    Okay?

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    You were born a sinner because your parents are sinners.

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    And you're like, "Man, you don't talk about my mama that way." Well, hang on a second.

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    Your parents are sinners because your grandparents are sinners.

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    Like, "Oh man, now you're talking about my grandmama.

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    We're going to fight." You trace this all the way back to Adam and Eve.

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    And you can't deny the result.

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    We're born with a sin nature, self-centered, prideful disposition that lives in the pattern that we just saw in Genesis chapter 3.

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    And look, you can redefine it, and you can ignore it, and you can just try to deny the guilt, but the problem remains. There's only one remedy for sin. It's forgiveness.

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    The only thing that can fix death is life. So this Friday, we're going to continue in this passage and we're going to talk about the consequences that sin has brought. We're looking at some of the specific curses on the world that's now typified and defined as one of sin and death.

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    This Friday we're going to see that just as the first Adam changed everything, we're going to see how the second Adam, Jesus Christ, again, changed everything.

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    And you're like, "No, no, no, no, no, you can't stop here.

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    Where's the hope?

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    Where's the hope?" We're going to get there Friday.

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    But the first step that we need to take is to properly diagnose the problem and personalize Only then, only when we do that can we see and embrace the solution that God has graciously provided through His Son.

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    Let's pray.

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    Our Father in Heaven, it is amazing to me that a passage that so many people deny is is so relevant and obviously illustrated and in my face all the time.

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    This is what we see.

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    This is the pattern that continues.

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    And Father, we all by nature stand before You guilty.

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    Because even if we didn't sin in the exact way that Adam and Eve did, We sure found other ways to sin.

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    And before You we stand guilty and fallen and wayward and rebellious.

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    We gather together to celebrate the fact that You have chosen to love us anyways.

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    So I pray, Father, just simply this, I pray this Friday that You would fill this room as we come to not just reflect, but to just so deeply meditate upon and embrace the reality of what the second Adam, Jesus Christ, accomplished through His death on the cross.

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    Father, I pray that in the days between now and Friday, You would let us meditate on this section of Your Word so that we have a greater a deeper understanding of this sin problem we all have.

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    That dying we will die, but You've made provision for us.

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    Thank You, Father, we pray in Jesus' name.

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    Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Genesis 3:1-13

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Define sin, in your own words, how you would to an unbeliever.

  3. In Gen 3:5, what did the serpent tell Eve God was withholding from her? In other words, “why was God restricting them”?

  4. Why do you think we tend to blame others for our sin (Gen 3:12)?

  5. Why did Satan first cast doubt on God’s Word (Gen 3:1), instead of just flat-out denying God’s Word from the beginning (Gen 3:4)?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

God's Design for Marriage

Introduction:

Genesis 1:1 - In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.

God's Design for Marriage (Genesis 2:18-25):

  1. Leave for your new priority.
  2. Cleave to your wife exclusively.
  3. Weave your lives together in unity.

    Matthew 19:6 - So they are no longer two but one flesh.

    Matthew 19:6 - What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.

3 Things to Embrace to Grow in Unity:

  1. I keep no Secrets .
  2. I do nothing that makes my spouse Uncomfortable .
  3. My money is Our money .

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  • 00:54-00:58

    Open your Bibles up with me please to Genesis chapter 2.

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    And we're in a series called Foundations.

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    Why Foundations?

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    Why this series?

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    Because the foundations are under attack like never before.

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    You see the Bible says, "In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth." And the world says, "No, he didn't.

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    or product of evolution, chance, mutations.

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    The Bible says that God created them male and female.

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    And the world says, no, he didn't.

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    Gender is fluid.

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    You can be whatever gender you want.

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    And how many genders are there now?

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    72 or something.

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    Can you not see this as a direct attack on the word of God?

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    The Bible says marriage is between a man and a woman, and the world says, no, it's not.

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    It can be between two men, it can be between two women.

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    I've even read articles of people marrying their pets.

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    It really is those last two that we're going to focus on today.

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    Male and female, and marriage between a man and a woman.

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    We're gonna be talking about issues of gender and sexuality and marriage.

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    And I've got to be honest with you, I never dreamed I would have to say some of the things that I have to say today.

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    Because I've been in ministry now for twenty-some odd years, and yeah, there's been a lot of teaching against evolution, you know, teaching for biblical creation, taking the Word of God straightforwardly.

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    I get all that, I've been doing that for decades.

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    I never imagined there would come a day that I'd have to stand up and defend the fact that there are two genders.

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    That I would have to say, "It's not okay to call a man a woman or to call a woman a man." But unless you've been living under a rock or without TV or internet, kind of envy you if that's you, then you realize this is the hot topic right now, right?

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    Pennsylvania swimmer Leah Thomas becomes the first known transgender athlete to win Division I National Championship.

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    A man who competed against women.

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    Maybe you saw the president insisted that the next Supreme Court justice be a woman.

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    And at the confirmation hearings, ironically, this woman couldn't define what a woman is because she's not a, what?

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    Not a biologist.

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    You saw that, right?

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    Isn't that interesting?

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    You could go grab any kid up in Harvest Kids right now and say, what's a man, what's a woman?

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    And any one of those kids could tell you.

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    But we have somebody that's a potential Supreme Court justice who doesn't know.

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    Maybe you've been following what's going on in Florida.

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    The governor of Florida signed a controversial sex education bill.

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    Did you see this?

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    This controversial sex education bill forbids instruction on sex orientation and gender identification in kindergarten through third grade.

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    I can't believe I have to stand up here and say this.

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    That there is intense national scrutiny over this governor who had the audacity to say the teachers shouldn't be teaching sexuality to kindergartners.

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    What?

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    Why is that controversial?

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    Somebody explain that to me.

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    I heard somebody say this week, "If it takes a law to stop you from holding a classroom discussion about sex with five-year-olds, you shouldn't be a teacher, and you probably shouldn't be allowed within miles of a school." I could go on.

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    But the whole issue of marriage and sexuality has become so, so twisted.

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    And I've got to tell you, church, it's real easy for us to kind of step back and be like, "Shame on them perverted sinners." I might have been there at one point.

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    But I've got to tell you something that happened to me one time that just completely changed the way I look at these things.

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    I was in Walmart, up in Butler of all places.

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    Like, "Oh, Pastor Jeff, you shop at Walmart.

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    I didn't know you were doing so well for yourself." I was in Walmart and walking through the aisles, I saw a bunch of teenage boys.

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    They were kind of laughing.

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    And I, look, I was a teenage boy once upon a time too.

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    I knew what was going on.

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    They were laughing and making trouble.

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    And there was something that really, they were really engrossed in making a project for themselves, but I didn't know what it was.

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    Until I kept walking, I saw in the next aisle, I saw a person standing, a very tall person wearing a black dress and a black hat and black gloves and black high heels.

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    And I made the connection, I'm like, "Those kids are laughing at that girl." But I couldn't put the pieces together as to why.

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    So later when I was coming back through the store, I passed what I thought was that woman coming up the aisle.

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    And it wasn't a woman, it was a man.

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    A cross-dresser.

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    And that's what the kids had sort of, they were laughing and throwing their insults or whatever.

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    But the look on his face, I will never forget.

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    He looked like he was about to burst into just uncontrollable weeping.

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    And there was a sense of just absolute despondent misery hanging over this person.

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    And that stuck with me.

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    Because I thought, "Man, this is what you thought was going to make you happy." And it obviously hasn't.

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    So church, I just want to preface this stuff to say, look, as we talk about issues of marriage and sexuality, it's so easy to condemn and to make fun of and to write off.

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    And maybe church, we need to seek the Lord on how to reach such people.

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    Because maybe there's a lot more of them like that guy that aren't parading it and celebrating it as much as they are maybe trapped by it.

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    Maybe living in misery over it.

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    People like that need the gospel.

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    People like us need the gospel.

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    You realize the Bible says that we all like sheep go astray each to his own way.

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    And even if you don't sin like that guy in Walmart sin, you have your own sin tendency.

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    And you need Jesus Christ just as much as that guy.

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    He has made His grace available for you, whether you're watching this, whether you're sitting here.

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    Whatever your situation is, His grace is available.

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    He died on the cross for your sins.

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    He rose from the dead to give you eternal life.

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    That's the love of God, and that's the transforming power of the gospel.

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    This is the world that our children are inheriting.

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    A world that not only denies God's clear plan for marriage, not only can't recognize what a man or a woman is, but insists that you play along.

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    So again, church, we're getting back to the foundation.

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    The foundation that God created them, male and female.

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    The foundation that God designed marriage and all that really matters is what he said about it.

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    And before we look at the text, you know, if you're single, I don't want you to feel like you can tune out right now.

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    Sometimes God calls people to be single.

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    Or maybe your time of no longer being single is just around the corner for you.

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    So you're going to want to pay extra special attention to what God has to say about this.

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    And if you're divorced, or if you're widowed, we're not denying the pain of a marriage ending for whatever reason.

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    All I simply want to do today is take a look at what God's original plan was and is for marriage.

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    So, if you are married, or if you're about to get married, this especially applies to you today.

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    All right?

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    Genesis chapter 2, we're going to pick up in verse 18, but chapter 1 verse 27 says that God created, and on day six, he created them male and female.

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    That's Genesis chapter 1.

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    Genesis 2 sort of zooms in and gives details like, "Okay, God created them male and female.

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    He created humans.

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    We better unpack that a little bit." Right?

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    And that's what Genesis 2 does.

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    Let's pick up in verse 18 in what has been the longest introduction ever.

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    You are so gracious.

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    Verse 18 says, "Then the Lord God said, 'It is not good that the man should be alone.

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    I will make him a helper fit for him.'" Stop here.

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    At this point, okay, this zooming in, this rewind, it's talking about when it was just Adam.

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    There was only one human being created, and it was man.

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    But notice in verse 18, God says, "It is not good." when you read the creation account, everything was good to this point.

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    It was good, it was good, it was good, it was good.

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    And then finally we get here and God says, no, here's something that's not good.

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    This is the first negative you could say.

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    But it's not saying that something was evil or bad.

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    Everything in and of itself was perfect.

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    The problem was it just wasn't complete.

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    That's what that means.

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    God's like, "Okay, everything's good, but this, there's something more that needs to happen here." And he says what it is.

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    He says, "It's not good that the man should be alone." Man was created to have relationship, sharing ideas, sharing your emotions, sharing your soul.

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    And Adam didn't have a helper.

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    He didn't have someone who was, in God's Word, a fit for Him.

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    That could also be translated, somebody like Him, somebody corresponding to Him, somebody who is, it can literally mean, worthy of Him.

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    So what's the solution?

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    Look at verses 19 and 20.

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    It says, "Now out of the ground, "the Lord God had formed every beast of the field "and every bird of the heavens, "and brought them to the man "to see what he would call them.

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    "And whatever the man called every living creature, "that was its name.

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    "The man gave names to all livestock "and to the birds of the heavens "and to every beast of the field, "but for Adam, there was not found a helper fit for him." Okay, so what's up with this exercise?

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    How many of you think that God had the power and the ability to name the animals himself?

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    How many of you think that, some of you don't think God had the power or the ability to do that?

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    That was a seeing who's still with me question.

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    Most of you passed, very good.

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    Yes, God certainly had the power and the ability to do it.

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    But you see, this was more than just an exercise and slapping a label on animals.

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    This was an object lesson.

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    That Adam was supposed to see as he was labeling these animals, that none of them could be suitable helpers for him.

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    Now, I'm a dog person.

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    How many people here, fellow dog people, have a dog, love dogs, appreciate dogs, realize that's the only unconditional love you're going to get on this side of heaven.

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    Do you know why else I love dogs?

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    Do you know why I love dogs?

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    I talk about my dog from time to time.

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    You know why I love dogs?

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    Because every time I leave the house for whatever reason, whether it's come to work or go check the mail, it's almost like Aaron takes my dog and says, "Yes, Daddy left and he's dead, and you're never going to see him again." Because that would explain the reaction I get when I come home.

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    I walk in the door and every time, like I said, I could be gone for six hours, I could be gone for two minutes.

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    I walk in the door and she's like, "You're alive, you're alive!" And she's just immediately like elated.

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    And I love that.

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    because sometimes that's all I get.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    But despite all of that, she's not a suitable helper for me.

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    I can't really share life with her.

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    And you see, God wanted Adam to see that.

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    And that's why he had him go over the animals and name every one of them.

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    Could you imagine what that looked like?

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    That the animals were passing by wanted Adam to name them and I just kind of imagined what that would have been like that Adams like okay this one we're gonna call an elephant and God's like okay what about this one and Adams like we're gonna call this one a parent and God's like okay what about this one and Adams like we're gonna call this one an alligator and God's like okay what are call it a cat. By the way, like I said, God had Adam do this before Eve was created. Do you know another reason why? Because if God had Adam and Eve together name the animals, they'd still be doing it. True or false? Could you imagine how that would play out? God's like, "Okay, here's your next one." And Adam's like, "What do you want to name this one, dear?" And she's like, "Oh, I don't care, whatever you want." He's like, "No, I'd really like you to name this one." She goes, "No, I'm happy "with whatever you want." And Adam's like, "Okay, we'll call it a goose." And Eve's like, "Goose?

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    "Are we married to goose for this one?" And Adam says, "Oh no, no, no, we're not married to that.

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    "I mean, what do you wanna call it?" And she's like, "Oh, whatever you wanna call it." True or false?

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    At this point, Adam was the only one created in the image of God.

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    What does that mean?

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    That means everything, everything that separates man from every other creature in the world.

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    It boils down to this.

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    We are created in the image of God.

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    What does that mean?

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    It means a lot of things.

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    It means that we're self-conscious.

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    We have awareness of ourselves that animals don't have.

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    We have personality.

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    We are rational.

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    We are creative.

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    We appreciate beauty and art.

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    We have morality.

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    We record laws and history.

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    All of that, but first and foremost, it means that we are created to enjoy relationship.

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    And that was the purpose of this exercise, that all of these animals were brought to Adam and he saw that not only was he different than every other animal and couldn't really have a personal relationship, but he also would have seen that all of the animals had a male and female pairing.

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    everyone, there is a male and female counterpart except for him.

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    He would have seen that.

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    Like, "Oh look, those two go together, those two go together, those two go together, but there's not one of those counterparts for me." Look at verse 21.

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    It says, "So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man.

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    And while he slept, he took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh." So God performs surgery.

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    And this is unique.

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    Nothing else in all of creation was created like this.

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    And the word for rib literally means side.

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    It refers to bone and flesh, according to verse 23.

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    We'll see here in a second.

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    "The woman was created with material for man." Verse 22 says, "And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man, He made into a woman and brought her to the man." So God brought Eve to Adam, again making her out of the material from Adam.

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    brought her to Him.

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    And you know what Adam's response was, right?

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    He said, "Whoa, man." And it's stuck, verse 23.

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    It says, "And the man said, 'This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.

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    She shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man.'" and said, "This is a woman." That comes from a Hebrew word that means "soft." I probably don't have to explain to you where Adam came up with that concept.

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    That is an appropriate word that should be used to describe a woman.

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    She's soft.

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    We get to verse 24, and this really is one of the most important verses in the entire Bible.

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    And this is in fact the most important verse in the Bible in talking about marriage.

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    It says, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife and they shall become one flesh." That's the most important verse about marriage.

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    Like, "Well, how can you say that?" Well, it's not my opinion, it's Jesus' opinion.

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    Jesus was asked about marriage.

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    Matthew 19, Mark 10, he immediately quoted this verse.

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    Paul, when he was writing about marriage, Ephesians 5, 1 Corinthians 6, he quoted this verse.

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    is foundational to everything that God designed for marriage.

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    It's one statement.

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    And everything that we can talk about with marriage, and sexuality, and family, and relationships, and all of that, boils down to just this one thing.

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    So, let's look at this quickly in three parts.

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    God's designed for marriage.

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    Here it is, first of all, you have to leave for your new priority.

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    You have to leave for your new priority.

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    It says, "Therefore a man shall," look at this first phrase, "leave his father and his mother." I find that so interesting that this verse is inserted before there even was such a thing as a father and mother, right?

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    But even before kids came into the picture, God says, "Here's my plan for marriage." and it starts here. It starts with leaving.

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    Men, leaving.

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    Not saying that you never speak to your parents again, alright?

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    So don't, you know, call your parents up and say, "The pastor said I'm supposed to leave you, so this is our last conversation ever." That's not what this is saying.

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    This is not saying that married couples, that you can't live with your parents in a time of transition or an emergency situation.

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    It's not saying that at all.

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    What this is saying is there's a shift in loyalty and priority.

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    You're starting a new chapter in your life.

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    And this chapter is from living under your parents' care and your parents' authority to establishing your own home.

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    And that can only happen when you first of all leave.

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    You have to maintain a healthy biblical respect for your parents, but you can't let them negatively affect your relationship with your spouse.

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    And all I can tell you, I can tell you a plethora of stories where couples had failed at this foundational thing, where the husband is still tied to mom's apron strings, right?

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    And the wife won't make a move without consulting mama about it.

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    Look, it's great to have a healthy relationship, but when that relationship with your parents is interfering and you establishing your own home, you haven't fulfilled the first part of God's design for marriage, and that's leaving.

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    You have a new priority.

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    You're establishing your own home.

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    That means you gotta leave.

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    Secondly, number two, write this down, cleave to your wife exclusively.

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    Cleave, that's a King James word, but it rhymes with leave.

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    Well, I didn't, you know, didn't say it was an exact science, but the King James does say cleave, but it means to hold fast, right?

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    It means to be glued to your wife.

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    He says a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife.

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    There is no relationship on the planet like this one.

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    If you're married, your relationship with your spouse is by far the most important relationship you have and will ever have on this planet.

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    I find it so interesting that God did not create one man and create two women.

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    And say, okay, Adam, pick which one you want first.

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    His design from the beginning was, hey, here's one man, one woman for one lifetime.

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    Nor did God create 12 women.

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    Say, okay, Adam, why don't you marry one for a few years and when you're tired of her, move on to a different one.

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    I created a dozen for you.

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    Surely out of those, try them all out.

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    Surely out of those you can find one that's suitable for you.

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    He created one man for one woman.

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    And he says, look, you need to hold fast.

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    You need to cleave.

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    This is God's design for marriage.

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    Unfortunately, too many people look at marriage as a contract.

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    You know what a contract is?

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    A contract is, I'll sign my name to this and I'll keep my end of the deal so long as you keep your end of the deal and give me what I want.

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    That's a contract, right?

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    That's what you do for your cell phone.

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    Like I'll sign a contract, meaning you're going to fulfill what you promised me for this, right?

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    Marriage isn't a contract.

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    Marriage is a covenant.

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    And that's way different.

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    A covenant says, "I'm going to be faithful to do my part, no matter what." Right?

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    Like church, we live under the new covenant of the blood of Jesus Christ.

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    And you realize church that Jesus isn't saying, "Okay, for those of you who have received me, I will be faithful to you so long as you are faithful to me." That's not how it works.

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    Jesus has promised that he's going to be faithful no matter what.

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    And somehow we've lost that when it comes to marriage.

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    We view marriage like a contract.

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    We say, "I'm just going to get a divorce because she's not doing what I think she should be doing for me." He's not, "I thought he was when I married him, so I have an out." That's not a covenant.

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    The covenant says, "I am in this." And of course, as soon as you say that, there's objections, right?

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    Somebody right now is thinking, "Oh, but Pastor Jeff, you don't know my wife.

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    You don't, Pastor Jeff, you don't know my husband.

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    If only he was more like..." I just want to remind you, look, your conduct is not based on how other people treat you.

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    Your conduct is based on the Word of God.

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    And yes, certainly, the Bible addresses these things.

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    If you're in an abusive situation, you need to let us know.

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    And we will walk you through that.

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    It is not God's intention that a woman remain in an abusive situation.

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    Alright?

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    Or if there's something going on like adultery, you need to come and see me and we will walk through that with you.

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    Okay?

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    So don't take this as, "Well, being under a covenant means that I have to be subject to whatever abuse or neglect, and I'm not allowed to say anything, we will help you.

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    But sometimes I think we go too far the other way, and we're just looking for any and every reason to just bail on the marriage.

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    That is not God's intention.

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    God's intention is you fight for it with every fiber in your being.

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    Cleave to your wife exclusively.

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    And finally, weave.

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    Weave your lives together in unity.

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    What we have here is action, action, result, right?

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    He says, "Leave," that's action.

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    He's saying, "Cleave," that's action.

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    And really, this is the result.

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    Leave father and mother, hold fast to his wife, and here's the result.

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    and they shall become one flesh." This is unity. And this isn't just a poetic concept, okay?

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    This isn't something that somebody read on the front of a Hallmark card, and like, "Hey, that's great! Two become one! Let's write that up." This is literally what the Bible says.

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    Two people in marriage turn into one person.

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    And Jesus said in Matthew 9.6, He said, "So they are no longer two, but one flesh." So when you're married to someone, you're not into a partnership, you're not into a tag team.

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    You are literally two people that turned into one person.

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    Interestingly here in Genesis 2.24, it says, "They shall become one flesh." That word for "one" is also used in Deuteronomy 6, where it says, "The Lord is one." Somehow, in the same spirit that the Lord is one, though He's revealed Himself as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, a husband and wife married are two people turning into one person.

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    That's why we call it "weaving." It's like two cords that are being woven together to make one stronger cord.

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    That's weaving.

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    It's knowing and being known.

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    It's loving and being loved.

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    It means that no one should ever think of one of you without thinking of the other of you too.

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    Jesus' commentary continues in Matthew 9.6.

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    He says, "But therefore God has joined together, let not man separate." Jesus said, "God is in this work of joining you together in oneness." He said, "Let not man separate that." No one should get in the middle of the work that God is doing.

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    And that includes you.

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    I just want to give you three things to embrace to grow in unity.

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    Letter A, married people, write this down, "I keep no secrets." If you're married, these are three things you need to embrace to grow in your unity.

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    "I keep no secrets." Where I am going, who I am with, what I'm spending money on, Messages on my phone, I keep no secrets from my spouse.

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    Compromising in this goes against the unity that God is trying to bring about.

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    I keep no secrets, let her be. I do nothing that makes my spouse uncomfortable.

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    That means lunch with the opposite sex, or riding in a car alone with somebody from the opposite sex.

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    I strongly discourage that.

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    And men, when your wife is uncomfortable with something, do not disregard her feelings on the matter.

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    I think men have that tendency to say, "Well, she's just being irrational.

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    It's just coffee. It's just business.

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    We do this kind of thing all the time. It's part of the industry." If she's uncomfortable, respect that.

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    For the sake of your love for her and for the importance of protecting your relationship.

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    It's not worth it.

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    Respect her.

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    Do nothing that makes your spouse uncomfortable.

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    Like, even if you don't understand it, say, "Look, I love you enough to respect that." So keep no secrets, do nothing that makes your spouse uncomfortable and let her see.

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    And this is just in case we got to this point in the sermon and there's somebody here that I didn't offend yet.

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    Now this is your turn.

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    My money is our money.

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    My money is our money.

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    Now listen, I know, actually none of that's true.

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    It's all God's money, okay?

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    It's God's money, but I'm talking about this principle.

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    But some people get married and they insist on keeping the finances separate.

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    And for more reasons than I have time to tell you today, I just think that is a very unwise idea.

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    You should have the same checking account.

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    You should be spending within your means.

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    You should be deciding spending, especially on big things, you should be deciding that together. I just think it's unwise and I know couples that do this.

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    Let's say, "Look, this is my job, I make my money, this is what I bring in.

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    You have your job and this is what you bring in and let's keep that separate." And that, I got to be honest with you, that absolutely baffles me.

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    Like I'm sharing my soul with you.

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    I'm sharing my body with you, but keep your grubby myths out of my wallet.

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    Like what?

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    That's the part where we get all sensitive all of a sudden?

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    You need to say this, my money is our money.

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    And if you don't believe that, We could show you, we could talk to a good lawyer to prove that that's true, right?

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    My money is our money.

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    So look, maybe some of you right now, you're like, you know what?

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    My marriage has been a little stale.

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    I hear what you're saying, Pastor Jeff.

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    I just, I haven't really been feeling, I just haven't really been feeling it.

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    What do I need to do?

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    You need to humble yourself.

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    That's what you need to do.

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    You need to be honest before God and you need to be honest before your spouse and you need to sit down and say, "Hey, what are some things that I need to be doing right now to make you feel like number one in this relationship?

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    What are some things that I need to stop doing in order to make you feel like you're number one?" Because look, church, you are not one with your job.

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    You're not one with your job.

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    Jobs come and go, right?

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    A lot of us saw that during the pandemic.

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    And you know, no one on their deathbed ever wished for one more day of work.

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    Jobs come and go.

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    Hobbies.

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    Hobbies come and go.

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    But you're not one with your hobby.

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    Other people, you're not one with other people, not your parents, not your friends, and not even your children.

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    You're not one with the church.

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    Ministry is not an excuse to neglect your spouse.

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    You ministry together.

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    According to God, the only one that you are one with, the only one that you are uniquely connected to, and the only one that God is actively at work joining you together with is your spouse.

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    This was God's design from the beginning, and this is what it is now.

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    You gotta leave, and then you cleave, and the result is you weep.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, we thank you for your word, especially in a day when things are constantly getting redefined.

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    And Father, the world already is beginning to see the foolishness of disregarding your Word on such clear foundational things.

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    And they will continue to.

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    But Father, you are calling us to a higher standard.

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    You are calling us to be a people who tremble before Your Word.

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    Who live in obedience even when we don't fully understand everything.

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    So Father, let the only voice that we hear and heed regarding marriage, sexuality, and gender, and all of these things, let the only voice that we hear be Yours.

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    the only voice that's eternally true.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Genesis 2:18-25

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Why did God have Adam name the animals (Gen 2:19-20)? What was the point of that assignment?

  3. Why is “leaving father and mother” the necessary first step in marriage? What does it mean to “leave”?

  4. What does it mean that marriage is a “covenant”? For those married - how does that determine the way we conduct ourselves as a spouse?

  5. What is the best piece of marriage advice you’ve ever heard?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

In the Beginning, God Created.

Introduction:

Genesis 1:1 - In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.

Why I Believe in Creation (Genesis 1:1):

  1. The alternative is clearly False .

    Hasn't science proven evolution?

    But what about the cavemen?

    Mark 10:6 - But from the beginning of creation, 'God made them male and female.'

    But what about fossils?

    What about genetic mutations?

  2. Science Confirms creation.

    Psalm 14:1 - The fool says in his heart, "There is no God." They are corrupt, they do abominable deeds; there is none who does good.

  3. God Said He created the heavens and the earth in six literal days. (2 Thes 3:13-15)
  4. Jesus Believed and Taught creation.

    Matthew 19:4 - He answered, "Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female..."

Why it Matters

  1. It Determines How We View God's Word .

    2 Timothy 3:16 - All Scripture is breathed out by God...

  2. It Determines How We View God .

    Psalm 100:3 - Know that the LORD, he is God! It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.

  3. It Determines How We View Salvation .

    Romans 5:15 - But the free gift is not like the trespass. For if many died through one man's trespass, much more have the grace of God and the free gift by the grace of that one man Jesus Christ abounded for many.

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    Open up your Bibles with me please to Genesis 1.

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    Father, we believe Your Word does Your work.

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    And as we kick off not just this message, but this series, I pray Father that You would just renew an excitement in Your people over Your Word.

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    that You would bring many people to come to know You through Your Word.

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    Give us understanding.

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    Give us discernment.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, Amen.

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    Genesis 1. This is where we are starting.

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    We're beginning a series called "Foundations." And I guess a series about basic foundational Christian doctrine has to start here.

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    Today, we're going to talk about creation.

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    You're like, Pastor Jeff, do you believe in creation?

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    Yes, I do.

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    You're like, well, why do you believe in creation?

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    I'll tell you why I believe in creation.

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    It's just simply because of this.

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    If you were walking through the woods, If you came across a rock, you could make up some sort of naturalistic explanation about how that rock got there, right?

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    Whatever, you could say, "Okay, so there was like an earthquake and it like crumbled pieces of the mountain, and then like the rains and the winds came and washed it, and I don't know, maybe a bear was walking through and he kind of kicked this rock, and eventually right here right I mean is that possible yeah that's right James that's possible that's I mean it's doable right yes we can we can work with that that's a naturalistic story about how the rock got there right but if you were walking through the woods and instead of a rock you came across a watch you can't make up a story about how that watch got there without ultimately tracing it back to the truth that somebody had to design and build this, right? Because this is full of just intricate little pieces that are designed and built in such a way so that it's able to keep the time. This didn't happen by accident. There's no naturalistic explanation about how this was put together.

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    Without saying design demands a designer, right?

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    You realize every cell in your body is infinitely more intricate than this.

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    Every cell in your body makes this look more like this, actually.

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    So design demands a designer.

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    That's why I believe in creation.

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    Maybe that's not enough for some of you.

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    If that is, you're free to go.

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    I would encourage you to stick around until they get the roads cleared off.

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    Or if you want me to justify getting paid because this is the one day a week that I do that, let's dig a little deeper.

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    Let's go to Genesis.

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    You're like, "Well, what does Genesis have to do with anything?" Genesis has to do with everything.

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    The origin and purpose of man, understanding the world, the universe, marriage, and sin, and salvation.

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    Everything from government, to religion, to languages, to the nation of Israel, to why we wear clothes.

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    Literally everything pertaining to our worldview and our spiritual beliefs find their foundation in Genesis.

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    You can't fully understand your purpose apart from Genesis.

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    You can't understand, I guess more accurately, God's purpose for you, apart from what it says in Genesis.

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    And you really can't make sense of God's Word as a whole without understanding the book of Genesis.

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    That's why Satan has systematically attacked these truths.

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    And it is right in front of your face.

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    You see this all the time.

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    What does Satan go after?

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    We've seen it for decades.

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    You know, the Bible says God created the heavens and the earth and Satan's like, nah, no he didn't, and gets the world to go with that.

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    No he didn't, no he didn't, evolution, right?

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    More recent years, we've seen the attacks ramp up, right?

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    Where God's word says, marriage is between a man and a woman.

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    The world says, no, it's not.

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    Marriage can be between two men.

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    Marriage can be between two women.

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    Genesis says that God created them male and female.

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    And what does the world say?

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    No, he didn't.

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    A woman can be a man, and a man can be a woman.

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    It's right in front of your face, right?

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    Like we, especially here in Pennsylvania, we followed the story of Richard Levine or Rachel Levine, who was appointed this position, not because of qualification, but because of orientation, you could say.

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    Even last week, did you see the NCAA swimming?

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    You follow that story?

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    Where the dude beat all the women swimming?

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    And we're all so very proud of him, right?

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    obnoxious and ridiculous.

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    But you don't dare say anything because then you're unenlightened, you're not woke.

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    All I know is the Bible says in the beginning, God created the male and female.

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    So we're getting back to the foundations because everything in Harvest Bible Chapel rests on this.

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    And it all starts here, Genesis 1.1.

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    We're only looking at one verse today, all right?

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    And this is it.

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    In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.

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    So on your outline, if you're taking notes, I'm just gonna cover two things today, why I believe in creation and why it matters, that's it.

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    Why I believe in creation and why it matters.

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    So first of all, why I believe in creation, you mean aside from like your watch and your rock thing, right?

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    I'm gonna give you a lot of information and we make sure that these messages are on our website.

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    So I encourage you to listen again.

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    I encourage you to do your research and I encourage you to share this with somebody that couldn't join us today, but needs to hear this.

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    But here's why I believe in creation.

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    And if you're not there yet, that's okay.

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    We love you.

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    But maybe some of these reasons that have been convincing to me will be convincing to you.

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    All right, so number one, write this down.

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    The alternative is clearly false.

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    Why do I believe in creation?

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    Because the alternative is clearly false.

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    The alternative, the lie is evolution.

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    And just to be clear, we're talking about macro evolution, the belief that over millions of years, here's how life evolved.

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    We've gone from amino acids to proteins, to cells, to fish, amphibians, reptiles, birds, mammals, and eventually, over the course of millions of years, comes us, right?

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    That's the belief in evolution.

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    And this belief permeates everything.

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    Be looking for it.

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    It's everywhere.

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    It's taught in schools.

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    I was a car in city gremlin and we were taught evolution.

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    It's all through media, TV, movies, everything from SpongeBob to the X-Men to Jurassic Park, to the Discovery Channel, to Animal Planet, to children's books.

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    You can't turn anywhere without some statement promoting this idea of, isn't it amazing how we evolved to But here's where the objections come.

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    Somebody's going to say, "Wait, wait, wait, wait, Pastor Jeff.

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    Hang on a second.

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    Okay, you're talking about preachery stuff here at church, but isn't this science you're talking about now, right?

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    Maybe we shouldn't marry the two, because hasn't science proven evolution?" The answer is no.

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    It sure hasn't.

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    And I encourage you to do your homework.

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    And what I'm going to do today will simply get you started.

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    But here's the truth, church.

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    Science is what we can observe and measure and repeat.

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    That's science.

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    Observe, measure, repeat.

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    So when we talk about creation and we talk about evolution, neither of those are really Both of them are actually faiths.

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    One of those faiths is supported by science.

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    The other one is not supported by science at all.

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    One faith says that we came from nothing, we're cosmic accidents, and we're heading nowhere.

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    So your few years that you have on earth, soak it in baby, because this is it.

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    The other faith says that we were specially created for a purpose and ultimately we're heading somewhere.

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    Science hasn't proven evolution.

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    And then at this point, somebody's like, well, hang on a second, Jeff, hang on a second, Jeff.

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    What about the cavemen?

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    All right, what about the cavemen?

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    Well, I have volumes of material on this.

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    I'm gonna give you the short version, okay?

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    Every caveman that has ever been discovered falls under one of four categories.

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    And they all begin with M, if you wanna write them down.

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    Every caveman falls, you know what I'm talking about, right?

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    They find like a couple of bones in the ground, and then they get some artist to draw this picture of some big, hairy, like knuckle-dragging, big-browed thing.

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    And they get that picture because they found a couple of bones in the ground, right?

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    That's what we've been told.

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    They don't tell you the rest of the story.

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    Do your research, look this up.

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    Because every one of these cavemen, they're one of four things.

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    First, write down man.

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    Some of them are just a man.

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    They find a couple of bones and they draw the big, you know, the big hairy knuckle dragging thing.

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    And the reality is they're just bones of a dude.

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    And if he was walking down the street today, you wouldn't look twice at him.

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    He just looks like every other person.

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    Some are man, some of the fossils are monkey.

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    They're just a monkey, right?

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    They find a couple of bones and immediately, we want them to be the missing link because nobody gets famous for finding a monkey fossil.

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    But if I found the missing link, if I found some half ape, half human thing, then I'm gonna be famous, right?

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    So we automatically jump to that nonsense.

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    But some of the fossils, they're just monkeys.

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    They're just monkeys, all right?

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    But here's where we get into some problems.

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    Because some of the fossils, some are men, some are monkeys, some are just a mistake.

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    Like, have you ever heard of Nebraska Man?

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    I remember in school hearing about Nebraska Man, I'd see in the pictures, big Nebraska man, like, man, I wish Nebraska man played for the Steelers.

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    He looks like he'd be a good lineman.

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    Do you know how many fossils they found to put the picture together that is Nebraska man?

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    They found one fossil actually, and it was a tooth.

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    Now, let me ask you, if for some reason you get one of your teeth knocked out and I found it underground, but do you think I'd be able to draw a picture of you based on just finding that tooth?

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    Oh, but there's another problem with Nebraska Man because they didn't tell you this in school, but they did some more digging in that area and they found some more teeth and the teeth actually belong to a pig.

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    Our bad.

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    Why is it that like they still promote this stuff?

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    Instead of coming out and saying, boy, we, okay, we dropped the ball here, we still hear about Nebraska man.

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    So that's a mistake.

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    And then, okay, so we have man, monkey, mistake, and then some are just an intentional misdirection.

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    Misdirection.

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    Like piltdown man.

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    You heard of piltdown man?

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    Well, they found out that there were some shenanigans regarding piltdown man's fossils.

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    That they were actually just monkey bones, but somebody stained them to make them look older than they were, and they filed down the big monkey teeth to make them look more like human teeth.

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    Just misdirection.

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    We could go on and on.

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    Again, do your research, this is just to get you started.

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    But there are no pre-humans, alright?

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    At least not according to Jesus, because Jesus said in Mark 10.6, "From the beginning of creation God made them male and female." If his word means anything.

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    Like, well hang on a second, you're talking about fossils.

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    Don't fossils prove evolution?

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    Actually, the fossils prove the Bible.

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    You're like, well, how can that be?

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    Well, we find fossils of animals bigger than your car.

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    And the only way something becomes fossilized is if it is quickly buried and preserved in mud and earth.

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    And it has to be one doozy of a rainstorm to quickly bury and preserve an animal bigger than your car, right?

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    like these dinosaur fossils we found.

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    Does the Bible talk about a certain kind of rainstorm that happened that might've been of the magnitude to completely fossilize an animal that large?

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    Yeah, Genesis 6.

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    Talks about the flood in Noah's day.

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    Look at, go back to Genesis here, look at verse 21.

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    We're going to play, see if you spot the recurring theme.

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    It says, "So God created the great sea creatures and every living creature that moves with which the waters swarm, according to their kinds, and every winged bird according to its kind.

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    And God saw that it was good." Jump down to verse 24.

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    "And God said, 'Let the earth bring forth living creatures according to their kinds, livestock and creeping things and beasts of the earth, according to their kinds.

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    And it was so.

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    And God made the beasts of the earth, according to their kinds.

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    And the livestock, according to their kinds.

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    And everything that creeps on the ground, according to its kind.

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    God saw that it was good.

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    Now, did you notice a theme there at all?

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    I can read it again.

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    Did you notice a theme?

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    What's the theme?

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    Shout it out.

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    according to his kind, right?

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    That God created things to reproduce according to their kinds, all right?

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    Like, man, I didn't know there was gonna be like science lessons today.

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    Well, here we go.

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    If you put two cats together, a male and a female cat, what are you gonna get?

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    You're like, I don't know, I'm not a biologist.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    Yeah, you get kittens, right?

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    And if you put two dogs together, what do you get?

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    Puppies.

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    And if you put a dog and a cat together, what do you get?

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    A fight, right?

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    But you're not going to get some hybrid animal.

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    Dogs only make dogs.

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    Cats only make cats.

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    Humans only make humans, right?

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    And that's a big problem for the fossil record, because there are no transitional forms at all in the fossil record.

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    You're like, "What's a transitional form?" Every fossil we find in the fossil record is one kind of animal or another.

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    And if evolution was true, if over millions of years, like for example, a reptile evolves into a bird, that means over millions of years that reptile should start, you know, things changing like growing beaks and wings and feathers and we should have billions of fossils of creatures that are somewhere between a reptile and a bird right we should have billions of them and you know how many we have none there has never been found one fossil of a transitional form of anything well I take that back there was there was one going back a couple of generations they But they did find a fossil that was half monkey and half fish.

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    And it was put on display, and people lined up and paid a lot of money to see this thing.

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    It was put on display by a man named P.T. Barnum.

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    And he was famous for saying, "A fool and his money are soon parted." So, I guess there was one.

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    The fossils prove the Bible.

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    For the reptile to turn into the bird, the question is, "Well, where does all of the genetic information come from that's eventually going to form beaks and hollow bones and wings and feathers and all of that?" Well, evolution's answer is genetic mutations, right?

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    What about genetic mutations?

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    You know, things sort of mutate on the cellular level, and that's how the information changes to go from one species of animal to another.

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    But there's a big problem with that.

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    If we're gonna be scientific, there's a big problem with that.

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    It's that mutations always result in a loss of information.

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    Mutations never result in gaining new information.

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    So everything we found is one thing or another in the fossil record.

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    and we observe animals reproduce according to their kinds.

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    That's what the Bible says.

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    So the alternative is clearly false.

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    We could go on and on.

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    But I would say on number two, science confirms creation.

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    Why do I believe in creation?

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    I would say, well, science confirms it.

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    A straightforward literal belief in Genesis, looking at the genealogies like in Genesis 5, would say that the earth is relatively young, somewhere between six and 10,000 years old.

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    And I know right now I'm saying that some of you might be rolling your eyes.

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    Oh, you believe that Pastor Jeff?

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    I do.

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    They're like, do you even science?

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    And I'm like, do you even science?

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    Because there's some evidences.

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    There's some evidences that the earth is young from science.

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    I'm gonna give you a couple.

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    One is the recession of the moon.

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    Did you know, did you know, scientists discovered that every year, the moon gets one and a half inches further away from the earth.

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    Every year.

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    And you're like, "You know what, Pastor Jeff, now that you say that, I have noticed that but the moon looks a little, a little further away this year than it did last year.

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    That makes sense.

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    Well, it's the result of a gravitational phenomenon called tidal bulge, that's what it's called.

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    So if the Bible's true, we do the math, that means 6,000 years ago, the moon would have been 750 feet closer to the earth, which is no big deal.

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    But if evolution's true, that the earth is 4 billion years old and the moon is over 4 billion years old, we don't even have to go back to 4 billion years, we just have to go back to 1.4 billion years ago, the moon literally would have been touching the earth.

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    So the biblical model makes more sense, scientifically is what I'm saying.

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    Also with salt in the sea, do you know that oceans get saltier every year?

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    Did you know that?

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    And you're like, "Pastor Jeff, I did notice that.

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    Went to the ocean on vacation, got a mouthful of the dirty fish water.

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    That's a little saltier than it was last year." It's true.

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    And the point is, it is getting saltier every year, but it's not salty enough for the earth to have been around for billions of years.

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    In fact, I read one scientist said, "If the earth was around for the billions of years that some say it is, the ocean would be so salty that you could literally walk across the top of it." So that doesn't fit into the old earth theory, but it certainly fits into the young earth theory. Here's another one.

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    Human population. You know you can calculate the years of humans being in existence by doubling human population every 150 years.

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    That's what people who study this thing say.

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    They say about every...this is a conservative number, by the way, about every 150 years the population doubles.

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    Well the biblical age of the earth, again, if we're going with 6,000 years, is consistent with the numbers that's yielded by such a calculation.

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    What?

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    I'm not even gonna go back billions of years.

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    We'll be very conservative here for the evolutionists.

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    We'll only go back 50,000 years, okay?

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    If the earth was even just 50,000 years old, according to this population model, do you know how many people there would be in the earth?

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    10 to the 99th power.

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    You're like, is that a lot?

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    Well, that's more than the number of atoms in the universe.

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    Yeah, it's a lot.

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    You thought your house was crowded.

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    Again, I could go on and on.

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    I have volumes of information, but here's the bottom line.

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    Look, here's the bottom line.

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    When people embrace evolution, it's not because they were looking at the science and they were like, "Oh, the science of evolution makes so much more sense than the creation of young earth science." So that has nothing to do with it.

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    The reason people embrace evolution is, in their minds, it helps create a worldview where there isn't a God.

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    That means there's no authority.

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    There's nobody to whom I'm accountable. There's no moral standard.

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    I can do what I want when I want because I'm God. Right?

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    And there's no salvation, there's not even a need for salvation.

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    That's why somebody embraces evolution.

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    I'd just rather not deal with the ramifications of a God to whom I am accountable.

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    You know, the Bible talks about that in Psalm 14.

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    It says, "The fool says in his heart, 'There is no God.'" "How did you come up with that, fool?" "Science class?" "No." He says, "Here's exactly why they say that, "because they're corrupt.

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    "They do abominable deeds.

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    "There's none who does good.

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    "That's why.

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    "I'd just rather not deal with the fact that God exists." Science confirms creation.

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    Number three, why believe in creation?

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    Because God said he created the heavens and the earth in six literal days.

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    That's why. Because God said it.

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    God said he created the heavens and the earth in six literal days.

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    Like, "Wait, wait, wait, wait, how do we know that God didn't use evolution?

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    How do we know that?" And that is the great compromise that the church has made.

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    That the church has said, "Hey, look, look, look, we're all about that Bible, right?

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    But we don't want to look unscientific.

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    So, I guess if the science community, who doesn't know or love God or have any regard for His Word, but if they're saying there's millions of years, then we need to try to fit those millions of years into the creation story.

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    Look, we can all be friends here, right?

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    We can all get along. We're all saying the same thing, aren't we?

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    And then they try to put the millions of years between Genesis 1-1 and Genesis 1-2.

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    That's called the "gap theory." Maybe you've heard of that.

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    It's just an effort to appease evolutionists.

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    Like, "Oh yeah, we believe in millions of years. We believe it happened right after verse 1." And you're like, "Oh, Pastor Jeff, please don't tell me there's a problem with that." Well, there's a problem with that.

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    Because Genesis says that the days of creation were literal 24-hour days.

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    Meaning this, if you get an expert in the Hebrew language, and I'm not, but I've read a lot, if you get an expert in the Hebrew language and say, "What does the text actually say?" Every Hebrew language expert would say, without a shadow of a doubt, But it's clearly saying that these are 24-hour days in which God created.

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    Because the Hebrew word is yom.

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    And when the word yom is used with a numeric qualifier, first, second, third, it always refers to a 24-hour day, even in other places in the Old Testament.

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    And when the word yom is used with the phrases morning and evening, it always refers to a 24-hour day.

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    That's what the Hebrew language says.

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    And in the book of Genesis, you have all of that, numerical qualifier, evening and morning.

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    It was like God was like, "I'm going to make this as clear as I can." That's what the language says, that it's a 24-hour day.

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    But there's an even bigger reason for me as to why these have to be literal 24-hour days, of why evolution can't fit in to the creation model.

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    And it's just simply this.

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    If Christians are going to try to shove millions of years into the story, then it has to look something like this.

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    We're gonna do a couple timelines here.

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    Then in this timeline, we're like, okay, there were like millions of years, we're gonna put Adam here, right?

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    And there were millions of years of things evolving and changing, we talked about that, like amino acids to proteins to reptiles, birds, mammals, all millions of years of that.

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    And then eventually we get human beings as we see them in their modern form, right?

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    So this is where the millions of years are back here.

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    And then eventually we get Adam.

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    But what that means is this, over those millions of years, there were things evolving and changing and dying, right?

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    So let's put a symbol for death.

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    What would be a good symbol for death?

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    Like a skull, right?

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    Like, you don't wanna make it too, okay.

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    There.

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    So that means, is that not good?

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    Is that okay? Thank you. Darren says it's great. We're going with great.

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    All right. So that means there was millions of years of death before Adam, right?

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    You're all with me so far? Okay.

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    That's if we're going to try to put the millions of years thing into the creation story.

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    But the Bible says...

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    We're going to use a different color.

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    So here's the biblical model though.

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    The Bible says in the beginning God created, right?

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    And then God created in the first creation week, Adam and Eve, right?

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    And then Adam sinned and as a result of Adam's sin, part of the curse is what?

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    All right.

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    So do you see a problem?

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    If we're gonna try to force millions of years into the creation story, you have death occurring before Adam came around, right?

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    But if you look at the Bible straightforwardly, you don't have death until after Adam brought sin into the world.

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    See the problem?

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    Death is before Adam.

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    Death is after Adam.

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    It can't be both.

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    So which is it?

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    See, this has a lot of theological ramifications, doesn't it?

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    Because when Adam and Eve sin, we're gonna talk about that in a couple of weeks, God's like, "Don't eat off that tree, or dying, you will die.

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    The penalty is going to be death." If there was millions of years of death already, Adam would have been like, "The penalty is death, so what?

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    We've been dealing with this for millions of years.

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    Why does it matter if the penalty is death?

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    And God was like, no, no, no, your sin's going to bring something into the world that was not into the world before, and it's death.

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    You see the problem.

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    Where does death fit in?

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    Then finally, number four, Jesus believed and taught creation.

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    Why do I believe in creation?

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    Jesus believed and taught creation.

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    Matthew 19, Jesus was asked about marriage.

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    Specifically, he was asked about divorce.

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    And he taught from Genesis and he taught from Genesis as if Genesis were literally true.

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    When he said, he answered, "Have you not read "that he who created them from the beginning "made them male and female?" Jesus said Genesis was literally true.

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    He taught that way.

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    I'm just of the persuasion we should always go with Jesus' opinion on things.

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    So, okay.

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    Those are just a couple of reasons why I believe Genesis.

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    A couple of reasons.

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    And you're like, okay, Jeff, good for you.

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    You have reasons to believe in the creation story, young earth, Genesis being true, good for you, Jeff.

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    But the question is, so what?

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    I thought we were like Jesus people.

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    Like, does it really matter?

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    So that's how I want to wrap this up today.

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    I want to tell you why it matters.

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    Does this matter?

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    It does.

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    It absolutely matters.

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    Because God's not an abstract concept.

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    God is connected to reality.

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    So when Genesis talks about these things, it's not some kind of fairy tale.

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    It's like, hey, God is attached here.

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    God is connected here.

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    He's personal.

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    You're not this product of millions of years of random chances and mutations and ta-da, here we are.

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    Like, no, you were personally created by God.

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    So it matters.

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    Creation is foundational to everything that we believe.

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    Literally everything.

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    But here's the big ones.

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    Jot these down.

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    Why it matters, letter eight determines how we view God's word.

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    It determines how we view God's word.

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    In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.

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    I love that the Bible doesn't explain creation or defend it.

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    It just proclaims it right out of the gate.

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    Well, I'm not making any apology for this.

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    Look, here's how it went down.

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    as Steve Zell's neck would say.

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    Here's how it went down.

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    In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.

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    And as we said in the beginning, this has become the most denied verse and denied doctrine in the Bible.

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    And that's Satan's strategy, because if he can get you to doubt the very first verse, maybe we'll doubt the rest of it too, right?

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    Like, well, maybe creation isn't exactly the way God said it is.

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    So maybe marriage isn't exactly what God said it is either.

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    Maybe prayer isn't what God said it is.

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    What about salvation?

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    What about heaven?

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    What about hell?

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    I mean, maybe there's a lot of suspicious things in God's word here.

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    Maybe they're not exactly as...

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    Well, 2 Timothy 3.16 says, "All scripture is breathed out by God." And that's a true false question there.

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    All scripture is breathed up by God.

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    Is that true or is that false?

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    I believe that's true.

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    And if you're like, well, I kind of believe that's true too, Jeff, but you're like, really, creation?

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    Really, Jeff, creation?

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    If that's you, I just want to ask you, like in your Bible, at what point do you think God started telling the truth?

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    Right, if you don't believe Genesis 1, did he start telling the truth in Genesis 3?

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    You're like, "Oh no, I don't believe that either.

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    You know, with the talking snake and, you know, the Adam and Eve and all that, I don't believe." Oh, okay, well, do you believe the flood in Genesis 6?

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    I'm not sure about, okay, what about the Tower of Babel?

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    Like, at what point did God start telling the truth here?

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    Because according to God's word, he started telling the truth from the very first verse of his word.

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    And ironically, when you read your creation account, it's nothing but statements the whole time.

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    Statement, statement, statement, statement.

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    Do you know what the first question is in the Bible?

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    The very first question is when Satan shows up and he says, "Did God really say?

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    Did God really say?" And look, Satan is crafty and he's been using that same strategy for all of human history.

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    Do you know why?

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    because it works.

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    Just a shadow of doubt over the Word of God.

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    Did God really say that?

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    Did God really say that?

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    So it matters because it determines how we view God's work.

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    It matters because letter B, it determines how we view God.

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    It determines how we view God.

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    Creation is all through your Bible.

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    from Genesis 1.1, I think the last reference is like Revelation 14.7.

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    But every page in between, every reference to creation in between, there's an obvious point to creation, and it's this.

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    It's ownership.

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    Psalm 100.3 says, "Know that the Lord, He is God.

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    It is He who made us.

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    We are His people and the sheep of His pasture.

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    You see, we have this fatal flaw tied into our sinfulness that we think that we're in control.

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    We think that we call the shots.

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    And all of these reminders in God's Word that He created us serve to keep things into perspective.

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    To say, "He is God, And I am not.

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    He made us, which means we're here for Him.

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    You know what matters?

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    It's God's plan.

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    You know what matters for my life?

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    God's will matters for my life.

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    Do you know what matters?

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    God's wisdom is what matters.

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    Because He is God and I am not.

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    That's what matters.

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    That's the point of creation.

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    And if Christians doubt or even deem insignificant the first verse of the Bible, you're going to view the whole Bible differently.

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    And you're going to view God differently.

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    And you're going to view the work of Jesus differently.

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    And that's a real problem.

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    That's why finally, letter C, it determines how we view salvation.

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    It determines how we view salvation.

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    Your eternity hinges on Genesis being literally true.

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    Because your theology hinges on Genesis being literally true.

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    It has to be.

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    It has to be.

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    Or your faith has no substance.

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    Well, wow, how can that be?

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    Do you know Jesus is called the second Adam in the Bible?

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    Did you know that?

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    1 Corinthians 15, Romans 5, he's called the second Adam.

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    Why?

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    Because the first Adam, he was sort of a representative of us all.

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    But he rebelled against God, and as a result, he brought sin and death into the world.

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    Literally, he brought sin and death into the world.

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    The Bible says Jesus, the second Adam, he also represented man.

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    But instead of rebelling against God, he perfectly obeyed God.

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    He brought forgiveness in life.

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    Romans 5.15 says, "But the free gift is not like the trespass.

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    For if many died through the one man's trespass, much more have the grace of God and the free gift by the grace of that one man, Jesus Christ, abounded for many." So if the first Adam wasn't literal, and he didn't literally bring sin and death into the world, how can we make sense out of what the second Adam did?

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    See this, this is the foundation for everything that follows over the next several weeks.

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    I'm really sure it's just the foundation for everything that follows in your belief in the Lord, who He is, and everything He's done, it starts right here, in the beginning.

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    God created the heavens and the earth.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, I feel like we barely scratched the surface today, but I just ask, Father, that this is enough to get us going.

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    I'm sure there are people watching this, or sitting here listening to this, that they're not on board with this.

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    But I pray, Father, that You would let them do some honest research as to what Your Word actually says.

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    Do some honest research as to what science actually supports.

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    Because Father, at the end of the day, all that matters is what you said.

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    So Father, if we're going to dig deep as to what your Word says about your Son, I pray that you would give us understanding, even from the very first verse of your Word.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Genesis 1:1

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. How would you respond to a fellow Christian saying, “It doesn't really matter if Christians believe in creation. That's just a secondary issue.”?

  3. Why can't Christians believe God used evolution/millions of years to create? Why is that inconsistent with the Bible?

  4. How is creation tied into our salvation? Read 1 Corinthians 15:45.

Breakout
Pray for one another.

In the Meantime: Don't Be Lazy

Introduction:

Proverbs 26:13 - The sluggard says, "There is a lion in the road! There is a lion on the streets!"

1 Thessalonians 4:11 - and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you

How to Deal with Lazy Freeloaders in the Church (2 Thessalonians 3:6-18):

  1. Set an Example . (2 Thes 3:7-9)

    1 Corinthians 9:9 - For it is written in the Law of Moses, "You shall not muzzle an ox when it treads out the grain." Is it for oxen that God is concerned?

    1 Timothy 5:8 - But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

  2. Don't be an Enabler . (2 Thes 3:10-12)
  3. Avoid Him. (2 Thes 3:13-15)

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  • 00:41-00:47

    2 Thessalonians 3, we're going to be picking up in verse 6 where we left off last week.

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    And this is the last message in our series.

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    We are living on the edge of the apocalypse.

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    The title of today's message is, in the meantime, don't be lazy.

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    Today we're going to talk about work.

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    And much like Mark's checkbook, there's a generation coming up that is unfamiliar with the term.

    01:22-01:32

    It's a foreign concept, and I might be showing my age here, but I remember when work was considered a virtue.

    01:34-01:38

    It was a compliment to say that someone was hard working.

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    Now it kind of sounds like a disease, like, "Ew, why does he do that?" But church, as our culture drifts further away from God, which we're seeing, our culture is also going to drift further away from working.

    02:00-02:02

    You're like, "Wait, wait, wait, wait, hang on a second.

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    How did you make that connection?

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    How in the world are those two things connected that drifting from God also means drifting from hard work?" And it's just simply this.

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    We were designed to work.

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    That's part of being made in the image of God.

    02:30-02:34

    Because if you read God's Word, you'll note that He is a worker, right?

    02:35-02:41

    Creation and redemption and judgment and His providence.

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    God is constantly working.

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    Jesus Christ is a worker.

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    In fact, if you look at John 4.34, Jesus said, "Accomplishing the work of God was His food." He's like, "That's what keeps me going.

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    That's what sustains me is doing God's work." And doing God's work ultimately was going to the cross to die for our sins, to resurrect from the dead so that we could have the promise of eternal life.

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    And it is through belief in Him that we have eternal life.

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    But that work was what Jesus said He came to do.

    03:29-03:34

    And I need to remind you that work is not part of the curse.

    03:35-03:49

    Some people think that God put Adam and Eve in the garden and it was just relaxing all day and no, God from the very beginning ordained work.

    03:52-03:57

    The curse, the fall of man changed the nature of work.

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    But we are called to be workers.

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    Work brings a sense of fulfillment.

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    And you know what that feels like when you've worked all day and you've accomplished things, you can sit back and say, "I feel like I had a productive day.

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    I accomplished something." That feeling is from God and of God.

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    Work provides value and meaning and provision for your family and for others.

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    And to not work is sinful, because you're rejecting a core purpose for which you were created.

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    So born again believers in Jesus Christ more than anyone should be known for being hard workers.

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    And this is how the letter ends.

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    Look at verse 6.

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    Paul writes, "Now we command you, brothers, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you keep away from any brother who is walking in idleness and not in accord with the tradition that you receive from us." I've got to be honest with you, I kind of think that's a weird subject to close this letter with, right?

    05:32-05:53

    I mean 2 Thessalonians is all about like end time stuff and what's ahead and you know, living on the edge of the apocalypse, how do we live now knowing that Jesus is coming soon and you would think that he would have some like eschatology lesson like to end the letter and he's like, "Oh, by the way, just one more thing.

    05:55-06:12

    I get to talk about laziness, and it's a pretty big chunk in what's relatively a small letter, but obviously some people in the Thessalonian church refused to work.

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    And there are a lot of scholars that think that maybe it was belief that Jesus was coming soon.

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    Well, if Jesus is coming soon, why do I got to go to work?

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    'Cause I ain't gonna need money, 'cause I ain't gonna need to buy anything because Jesus is a coming soon, right?

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    So why should I go to work?

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    That's what a lot of people think, but actually the text doesn't say why.

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    And the truth is it doesn't matter why.

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    Because of this eternal truth.

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    If somebody doesn't wanna work, they will find an excuse not to work.

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    True or false?

    06:57-06:57

    True.

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    It reminds me of, I love this proverb, Proverbs 26, 13.

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    I love this.

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    The slugger, the lazy person says, "There's a lion in the road.

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    There's a lion on the streets." I love that.

    07:14-07:14

    That's hilarious.

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    It's like, dude, why aren't you going to work?

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    Why don't you have a job?

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    Like, here's a lion in the streets.

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    Just, and if I go to work, I'm gonna get eaten.

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    Like, you will come up with anything to get out of working.

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    And that's why Paul here, he starts out with a command.

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    He says, keep away from the idle people.

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    And he says, you need to deal seriously with lazy people in the church.

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    And as we go through this, I gotta give you a heads up.

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    Paul doesn't give some positive pep talk.

    07:59-08:04

    I mean, he could give all of these like compelling reasons why work is great, right?

    08:04-08:08

    You feel like a sense of accomplishment and don't you wanna be a productive member of society?

    08:08-08:13

    He could have done the whole positive thing, but honestly, the tone of this letter is pretty stern.

    08:15-08:19

    This passage is pretty, how you say, austere, right?

    08:20-08:23

    It's pretty direct and strict.

    08:24-08:27

    And you're like, well, why is that?

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    Why isn't Paul a little nicer about this?

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    I'm gonna show you why, and you're all gonna get it here in a second.

    08:36-08:44

    The previous letter, 1 Thessalonians 4.11, he says, "Aspire to live quietly and to mind your own affairs." Look at these last couple of phrases.

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    He says, "And to work with your hands as we instructed you." So see what Paul's saying here in 1 Thessalonians.

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    He said, "When we were there, we told you to get to work." And now I'm writing 1 Thessalonians, and I'm reminding you that when we were there, we told you to get to work.

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    And now I'm writing 2 Thessalonians, and I'm telling you, what?

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    Get to work.

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    So that's, when we get to this passage in 2 Thessalonians, this is at least, at least the third time he's had to talk to them about this.

    09:26-09:30

    Have you ever had to tell somebody something three times?

    09:32-09:33

    How do we do there by the third time?

    09:36-09:40

    Ryan, ever have any employees you had to talk to on the third time?

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    Is your tone the same as the first time?

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    No, it is not.

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    Parents, have you ever had to tell your kids something more than once?

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    Have you?

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    You're like, "Not me, Pastor Jeff, my kids are Christians." Well, for the rest of us, you know how it is.

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    Like, "Hey, champ, would you pick up your toys?

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    Let's pick up your toys." And then later the toys ain't picked up.

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    And you're like, "Hey, didn't I tell you?

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    Didn't I tell you to pick these up?

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    Come on, we got company coming, pick these up.

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    And then by the third time, I'm giving all of this stuff to Goodwill if you don't pick it up!

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    Right?

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    True or false?

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    Okay, so now you understand why Paul's tone here is a little direct.

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    Like, how many times do I get to talk to you people about this?

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    Get a job!

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    Stop being lazy!

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    Right?

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    Being Mr. Nice Guy apparently didn't connect with the lazy people.

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    So here, he's not even addressing the lazy people directly.

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    The directive here is to the church.

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    So that's what we're looking at today.

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    How should we handle someone who refuses to work?

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    That's the topic of the day.

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    So on your outline, how to deal with lazy freeloaders in the church.

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    That's how he closes the letter.

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    And here's the first thing you need to do, write this down, set an example.

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    Set an example, look at verses 7 through 9.

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    He says, "For you yourselves know how you ought to imitate us, because we were not idle when we were with you, nor did we eat anyone's bread without paying for it, but with toil and labor." night and day that we might not be a burden to any of you. It was not because we do not have the right, but to give you and ourselves an example to imitate.

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    Stop there. He says we worked, we earned, we contributed, but notice he says it's not because we do not have the right to be paid by you. He's saying we worked hard and we earned when we were there. But it's not because the preacher shouldn't get paid for preaching. The preacher absolutely should get paid for preaching. Can I get an amen?

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    The preacher absolutely should get paid for preaching.

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    Amen.

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    That's a whole nother sermon.

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    And I don't need to preach that one right now because this church gets that.

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    And you take care of all the ministers in this church very well.

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    And we appreciate that.

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    But if there's a skeptic here, here's one proof text for you.

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    1 Corinthians 9.9, he says, "For it is written in the law of Moses, "you shall not muzzle an ox when it treads out the grain." You know, like if the ox is like working to process the grain, he should be able to have some of the grain, and then he says, "Is it for oxen that God is concerned?" Like no, it's really not.

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    There's a principle there.

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    And so much of the New Testament teaches you should pay the people that teach and preach the Word of God.

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    You're like, "Okay, okay, I get that.

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    And why did Paul work if he had the right not to?

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    Why did he work if he had the right to have the church pay him?

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    Well, he tells us right here, two reasons.

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    And the first one is, he didn't want to be a burden.

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    He didn't want to be a burden.

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    You know, this church in Thessalonica was a young church plant.

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    And I remember those days, right?

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    Dan and Alicia Thompson, you remember those days?

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    Aaron, remember those days when this church had zero?

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    We literally had zero, and we were meeting in a chiropractor's office, we were praying and we were trusting God, and that was the first reason.

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    Paul's like, "Hey, we didn't wanna be "a financial burden to you." He did receive support from other churches in other contexts.

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    And again, he wasn't saying it was wrong, but in this particular context, he's like, "I just, I knew that it would be a financial burden." So that's one reason we didn't do it.

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    But the second reason, where I want to rest here for just a second, he makes it very clear in verse 9, he says he wanted to be an example.

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    He says, "Church, you had an example in us.

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    We worked hard and we didn't mooch off of anyone, and you need to imitate that." It's positive peer pressure, right?

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    It's, "Church, we should have a culture of hard-working people." And someone new coming into this church should pick up on that pretty quickly, like, "Hey, the people at this church, they seem very serious about their jobs, and they work very hard at their jobs.

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    There's no freeloaders at this church." That's the kind of people that they are at this church.

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    That's the kind of vibe we should give up.

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    the kind of people we should be.

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    The church, the people in the church that have to see you working hard, maybe more than anyone are the kids, the teenagers.

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    Because parents, your kids are not only watching your work ethic, they're catching it.

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    If you don't have kids, you have young single people in this church looking up to you, looking at your work ethic.

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    You're saying, "Hey, just because I might not have a family, I'm a single person, but I still work hard and earn to provide and to have something to give." Young single person, you should do the same thing.

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    That's the kind of people we are here.

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    We're not freeloaders.

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    We work here.

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    around. That's why Paul said, "We left an example for you." You're like, "Man, is this really a thing? Shouldn't we be talking about something serious in the church? I mean, nobody likes a mooch, but listen, this whole concept of working hard and earning and providing, This is so serious to God.

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    Because look at what he says in 1 Timothy 5.8.

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    He says, "If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household." Look at these two phrases.

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    Like it doesn't get any worse than this.

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    It says, "He has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever." Can you wrap your brain around that?

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    Like if you refuse to work and earn and provide, God's like, "Here, here's the hierarchy.

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    Here's an unbeliever, someone who doesn't believe in My Son, someone who has rejected the gospel, and here's you.

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    You are that much lower.

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    You are worse than an unbeliever if you call yourself a Christian and you don't work to earn to provide." So church, we not only have to teach hard work, we have to model it because that is what God's people do, and it is a big deal to God.

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    So how to deal with lazy freeloaders in the church?

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    He says first of all, very clearly, set an example, and secondly, don't be an enabler.

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    Don't be an enabler.

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    Look at verse 10.

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    He says, "For even when we were with you, we would give you this command, 'If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat.'" Stop there because this is so important.

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    He doesn't say, "If anyone cannot work." Do you see what he says?

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    if anyone is not willing to work.

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    And obviously there's a huge difference there, isn't there?

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    He's giving a bit of a disclaimer.

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    There's a difference between I can't work versus I won't work.

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    He says, I'm talking to the won't work people.

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    Okay, says we're coming down hard on the moochers, the freeloaders, the idle, Insert your favorite term for the bum.

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    Bit of a disclaimer we have to give.

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    First of all, he's not talking about those who are unable to work, whether there's a physical issue or a health reason.

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    He's not talking to you, okay?

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    Or somebody that went through a crisis recently and for whatever reason, and they're temporarily in a position where they can't work.

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    he's not talking to you.

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    Or if you lost your job temporarily, whether it's due to COVID or whatever, and you are working on getting another job, he's not talking to you.

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    If you're a stay-at-home mom, he's not talking to you.

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    All right?

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    Listen, I'm the stay-at-home mom when Aaron goes to work.

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    And it is a thousand times easier to come here than it is to be a stay-at-home mom.

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    Okay?

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    So, stay-at-home moms, you have my permission.

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    If somebody in this church says to you, "Oh, you don't work, you're a stay-at-home mom," you have my permission to bite that person.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    Just right on the arm, don't break skin.

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    Just to let 'em know what's up.

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    He's not talking about that.

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    He's talking about somebody that is completely capable and able to work and says, "Nah, I'd rather live off the generosity of others." Or as we say in our country, "I'd rather live off the government." Erin, my wife Erin used to be a social worker and she would do in-home counseling.

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    And one case in particular, She had a mother of three little ones.

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    It was, mother was really just trying to get her life in order and that's what Erin did.

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    She would go into the home and counsel and help get the house in order, right?

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    And Erin lined up childcare and got her a job and like, hey, we're getting on track to being the productive member of society.

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    Well, this young mom got her first paycheck and immediately quit the job.

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    And Aaron's like, "I did all that work to get you set up.

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    Why'd you quit your job?" You know what she said?

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    You know what she said.

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    I make more from the government handouts just sitting at home.

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    That's commonplace.

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    Welfare abusers, living on the stimmy.

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    You know, hearing people say now, "I don't know how I'm gonna make it if I don't get another one of them child tax credit things, stimmy things.

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    Like, I don't know how I'm going to live if I don't get one of those.

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    Like, how did you live before?

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    Now all of a sudden you consider that your income.

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    That's a problem.

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    That's a problem when our government rewards laziness.

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    That's a problem.

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    That's a problem when our government creates entitled people.

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    People walking around saying, "The government owes me." Well, why does the government owe you?

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    Because I'm American?

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    Because I breathe?

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    Because I like money?

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    The government owes me.

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    Listen, it is not the government's job to provide for you.

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    That is not the government's job.

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    Biblically, that's your job.

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    Your job is to work and to earn, and to reject that is sin, according to God's word.

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    So, that's it.

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    if someone can work but won't work, we should not help them.

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    Paul says, "If anyone's not willing to work, let him not eat." Because helping condones their sin.

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    You enable.

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    Right now, someone's squirming in their seat, whether here or at home, you're squirming in your seat right now.

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    Like, "Oh, Pastor Jeff, this just seems so like, un-Jesus-like, because aren't we supposed to share and give?

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    I mean, all this seems so severe that someone would have a need and we wouldn't rush to meet the need.

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    Isn't that severe?" No, severe is helping someone sin.

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    That's severe.

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    And refusing to work is sin.

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    Look at verse 11, it says, "For we hear that some among you walk in idleness, not busy at work, but busy bodies." Like, "Hey, let them starve." They won't, by the way.

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    They won't.

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    But withholding help actually prevents something worse from happening, and that's the freeloader they're becoming a busybody, a meddler, getting into other people's business.

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    Why?

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    Because when you don't have work to do, when you don't have something productive to fill your time with, what do you do?

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    You start to get in other people's business.

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    Like, hey, I don't have a job.

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    My life is boring and uninteresting.

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    Let me get in your business.

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    Busybodies create disharmony.

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    And that's why Paul says here, "Don't enable that." Because refusing to work, that's a sin, and that leads to other sins, including being a busybody, being, as we say around here, being nebby.

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    Right?

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    Verse 12, he says, "Now such persons we command and encourage in the Lord Jesus Christ to to do their work quietly and to earn their own living.

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    He says, "Command them and encourage them, do their work quietly and earn their own living." In other words, shut your mouth and get to work.

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    You are loved.

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    But don't be an enabler.

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    Don't be an enabler.

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    Like, well, what should we do if we're not enabling?

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    What should we do?

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    Number three, here it is, avoid them.

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    Avoid them.

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    First of all, verse 13, he says, "As for you brothers, do not grow weary in doing good." And obviously the context of the passage here, he's talking about doing good in regards to dealing with laziness and people in need.

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    He says, "Do not grow weary in doing good." And I think it's a pretty obvious point, right?

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    Because when you deal with freeloaders long enough, you can get jaded to the point that you start to become indifferent to people that have actual real needs, right?

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    You know, I served in a church in downtown Butler for 11 years, and oh, the stories I could tell you.

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    Stories of people in line for a community meal complaining about the hot free meal they're getting while they're on their newest iPhone.

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    I can tell you stories of these two girls who came into the office at one time and they wanted food certificates and lo and behold, I actually had a real actual bag of groceries in my office.

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    They're like, "We're starving," and they had their usual sales pitch, "We're starving," blah, blah.

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    And I'm like, "You know what?

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    You're in luck." And I came down and I handed them, they wanted the food certificates, but I handed them a bag of groceries.

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    And when I handed them the bag of groceries, the look on their face when they saw the bag groceries looked like I was handing them a dead cat.

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    They were like, "No, we need the certificates." I'm like, "But you can't eat the certificates.

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    Here's real actual food." They were back the next day.

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    Oh, I could tell you stories.

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    I could tell you stories of people showing up to church saying, "I don't know what I'm going to do because my truck's on fumes." I'm like, "Oh, that means you're not going to be able to leave?

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    "That's like coercion if I've ever heard it.

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    "Give me money or I'm not gonna leave." But when I would say no, they just go the other pastor.

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    Start the sales pitch over again.

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    Like mom said, "No, so I'll ask dad." People going from church to church to church to church.

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    I'm like, "You realize it'd probably be less effort "if you actually got a job "than your scavenger hunt for freebies." Which isn't free by the way, somebody's paying for it.

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    But the bottom line is this, it's not helping anyone.

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    It's not helping anyone.

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    And that's why Paul here says, "Don't get worn out with the moochers and lose compassion for those with real needs because you can get jaded real fast." Gotta guard our hearts there, church. He says, verse 14, "If anyone does not obey what we say in this letter, take note of that person and have nothing to do with him, that he may be ashamed." Now, this is going to sound so foreign to so many people here, what I'm about to say, but I just want you to look at your Bible and tell me, is this what God said?

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    All right?

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    I'm not making this up.

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    He gives the exact same command here as he gave in verse 6, that if somebody in your fellowship refuses to work, he says to avoid them.

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    Ignore them.

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    Don't just hope that the problem goes away by itself.

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    He says you have to actively ignore them.

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    In other words, look, don't come to small group until you get a job and stop freeloading.

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    Like, "Well, Pastor Jeff, I don't know if I could ever do that." This is what God told you to do.

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    So you take that up with Him.

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    Or you say, "Look, you're not allowed to join fishermen until you stop refusing to work.

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    You get the work situation figured out, then we'll be glad to have you on fishermen.

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    But you can't be a part of the fellowship intimately, body life, until you get a job.

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    Stop being a freeloader." You're like, "Well, why would we shut them out like this?" Well, he tells you right here.

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    And again, this sounds so foreign, but this is what your Bible says.

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    He says, "Have nothing to do with him that he may be ashamed." Do you see that?

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    That he may be ashamed.

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    That the person who refuses to work is like, "Man, I don't know.

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    I went to Harvest last week and it just seemed like everybody was ignoring me." We are!

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    We're ignoring you because you're lazy.

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    And aren't you embarrassed that we sort of have to do this, like, intervention as a church body?

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    Like, "Hey, nobody talk to him because he won't stop being a freeloader, he won't get a job, and we've been trying to encourage him, ignore him." Like doesn't that embarrass you?

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    this group intervention thing that we have to do?

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    Aren't you embarrassed?

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    You should be.

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    Like I said, I know there are some people that are like, "Oh, I don't know if I could do that." But I also know that the opposite is true as well, that there's somebody here right now that's like, "Yeah, yeah, Pastor Jeff, tear 'em up, man.

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    "Rip 'em down, up one side, down the other.

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    "Rip 'em up." And I would say, "Easy there, Thanos." Look at verse 15.

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    He says, "Do not regard him as an enemy, but warn him as a brother." Look, he's not the enemy.

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    He's a brother that needs to hear you say this.

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    Look, I love you.

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    This is wrong.

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    Look, man, you know I love you.

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    You know we're boys, but dude, you can't live like this.

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    You can't be a mooch, man.

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    Because God says to work, so let's get a job, man.

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    He needs to hear that.

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    He needs to hear, look man, I can't hang with you until you get this work thing figured out.

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    You don't treat him like an enemy.

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    He says, we're in him as a brother.

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    Like, look man, it's just how it is.

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    This is serious business.

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    Like, well, yeah, you know what, Jeff, if we do that, they'll just go to another church.

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    And I'm like, okay, that's their choice.

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    But the reality is they wouldn't fit in here anyways, because we work hard at this church.

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    He gives some closing remarks, verse 16.

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    He says, "Now, may the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times in every way.

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    The Lord be with you all.

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    I Paul write this greeting with my own hand.

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    This is a sign of genuineness and every letter of mine it is the way I write.

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    The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.

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    Jesus is coming soon.

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    And we learn from 2 Thessalonians, the payback is coming.

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    We learned that the man of lawlessness is coming, and we learned that in the meantime, what do we do, church?

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    What do we do?

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    We stand firm.

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    We pray.

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    And don't be lazy.

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    And do not tolerate laziness in the church.

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    'cause we are living on the edge of the apocalypse.

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    You're like, man, I really, I love this topic.

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    And I'm so sad that the conversation is ending.

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    Well, the good news is the conversation isn't ending, but beginning.

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    Let's pray, and then we're going to stand and worship.

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    Father in heaven, we thank you for your word.

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    And Father, I know some of these things sound very It's different than what we would expect in the way that we've sort of watered down Your Word.

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    But You are so clear on this, that You have called Your people who are able to work, to work hard.

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    So I pray, Father, that as a church, we're obedient to Your Word, and we seek to establish the kind of culture that you've called us to be in your Word.

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    Father as we continue the conversation about end times and the signs ahead, Jesus told us to be looking at the signs.

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    And there's so much happening right now and people are having such a hard time processing.

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    I just pray for Edmund, I pray for Alex, I pray for this church, Father, that we can discern what's happening in our world and in the news and all these things happening around us, Father, because your word makes it so clear that we are truly living on the edge of the apocalypse. And Father, prepare us to be the people that you've called us to be in this season. We pray in Jesus' name.

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    Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read
2 Thessalonians 3:6-18

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Why is refusing to work a sin? Why is work so important to God?

  3. How would you respond to someone who says “Isn’t it harsh to not give food to someone just because they refuse to work?”

  4. How specifically can the church fulfill the command to keep away from someone who refuses to work, yet treat him as a brother at the same time (2 Thes 3:6, 14, 15)?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

In the Meantime: Pray

Introduction:

Three Things to Pray For While We Wait for Jesus (2 Thessalonians 3:1-5):

  1. The Message to go out. (2 Thes 3:1)
    1. The Word of God to Advance .

      Psalm 147:15 - He sends out his command to the earth; his word runs swiftly.

    2. The Word of God to be Accepted .
  1. The Messengers to be protected . (2 Thes 3:2-3)
    1. Protection from evil Men .
    2. Protection from the evil One .
  2. The Motivation to come from the Lord (2 Thes 3:4-5)
    1. God's Love .

      John 14:15 - If you love me, you will keep my commandments.

    2. Christ's Steadfastness .

      Deut 6:24 - And the LORD commanded us to do all these statutes, to fear the LORD our God, for our good always...

      1 Peter 2:23 - When he was reviled, he did not revile in return; when he suffered, he did not threaten, but continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly.

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    That's why it's so appropriate for us to walk through this particular passage of Scripture.

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    We've seen already that payback is coming.

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    We've seen the day of the Lord is coming.

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    We see the Antichrist is coming.

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    This is all ahead, and it is going to happen exactly as the Lord told us it was going to happen.

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    So, what do we do?

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    Like, why do we wait?

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    In the meantime, we pray.

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    We're going to talk about prayer today.

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    And right now some of you are like, "Awesome!

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    This is like once a quarter Pastor Jeff gets up and I feel really bad about my prayer life, right?

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    He's going to lay on the guilt trip, pack your bags, here we go." No.

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    No, we're not going to do that.

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    I just want us to, for a moment, just take a giant step back.

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    And I just want us to think about, and we believe God's Word, right?

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    Right? Okay, don't leave me up here. We believe God's Word, right?

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    Therefore, the truth is, prayer is having audience with God.

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    The Bible says He moves when we pray, and we know that it matters.

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    And along with the Word of God, it's the most important resource that we have.

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    And prayer is actually very easy to do, right?

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    We're just simply talking to God.

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    And anyone of any age can do that.

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    living in any culture, with any IQ, whatever education background you have, through Jesus Christ we have access to the throne of God.

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    Prayer is so easy to do.

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    So let me ask you, why is it so hard to do?

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    I think a problem for a lot of Christians is this.

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    Permission to speak freely?

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    Thank you.

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    It's boring.

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    It's boring.

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    Now, the concept certainly isn't, and God absolutely isn't, but I think a lot of Christians have made prayer boring.

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    That's what we've made it.

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    You're like, "How did that happen?" It's because we pray the same old things about the same old things.

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    That's how that happens.

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    Right?

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    We get down on our knees.

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    You know, I print out the prayer list here that you guys submit.

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    I print it out, get on my face every week, lifting these up before the Lord.

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    And truthfully, we can make that a boring activity.

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    go through the list. Okay God, this person's sick. I don't know this person, but heal them. Next. All right, this lady's sick. I kind of know her. Heal her. Next. Boring!

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    And you pray like that five minutes seems like an eternity. Like you thought worship was preparing us for eternity. Praying like this prepares you for eternity. Because it feels like it and then our minds start to wander it's hard to focus and then we feel like a second-rate Christian and we're like man you know there must be something wrong with me because I should enjoy this and I'm and I'm not Well, you realize that can all change for you today. Did I just hear somebody say "yay"? I think we should all do that. You ready? I'm gonna give you another run at that, and I want to hear you all do that. Okay, rewind. That can all change for you today.

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    I love this church. You can totally revitalize, re-energize, and enjoy your prayer life like never before, and it's just by doing one simple thing.

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    It's praying God's Word back to him. When you do that, you will find you will pray in certain ways that you've never thought of praying in your life.

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    And you'll find that you can't get enough of it.

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    And it's so easy to do.

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    You just take a passage, hint, Psalms are easiest because though inspired by God, they are directed to God.

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    But you get on your face with God's word in front of you, and you read a verse or two, and you pray that back to God, right?

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    It's easy.

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    And it makes prayer so much more robust and enjoyable.

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    And it feels like a two-way conversation because you have God speaking to you through His Word and His Spirit at work in the Word, and you're speaking back to God.

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    It's easy.

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    Just pick a passage.

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    How about the 23rd Psalm?

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    We know that one, right?

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    You're on your face, and you're like, "Okay, I'm praying this to God today.

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    The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.

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    God, I thank You that You're my shepherd because I need one.

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    I would be so lost without You, God, I need your guidance today.

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    Please guide me like the stupid sheep that I can be.

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    God, I need you.

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    I shall not want.

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    God, thank you for all of the provisions you made.

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    And sometimes I'm guilty of not being thankful, but I look and see that you've given me every single thing that I need.

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    And then you pray that for a while, and then you move on to the next verse.

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    Read it out loud, pray it back to God, and you're going to find an experience in praying.

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    that maybe you've never had before.

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    I'm going to give you a chance to try it here in a few minutes, because this is what we are called to do while we wait on the return of the Lord.

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    So on your outline, in the meantime, three things to pray for while we wait for Jesus.

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    Are you ready?

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    2 Thessalonians, what chapter are we in?

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    Great, okay.

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    Thank you.

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    That's somebody paying attention.

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    It says, "Finally, brothers, pray for us that the word of the Lord may speed ahead and be honored as happened among you." Stop there.

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    Three things to pray for while we wait for Jesus.

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    The first, we pray for the message to go out.

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    We pray for the message to go out.

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    He says in verse 1, I love this, he says, "Finally, brothers, but do you notice there's still a lot of stuff after that?

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    I'm going to let you in on a trade secret.

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    That's a preacher trick." Oh, come on, we all do it.

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    You know why, right?

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    Because you're like, "How much longer is this sermon?" And you're like, "Finally!" And you're like, "Oh, I'm going to perk up, and I'm going to catch the last part of this really good." But we're far from done when we say finally.

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    And you're like, "Pastor Jeff, that's dirty." I'm like, "It's in the Bible.

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    "He did it right here, right?" What he means, getting inside, what he means is, "I've been doing all this "end times teaching." He goes, "Okay, I'm done with that.

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    "But before I sign off here, "I gotta give you a couple words of instruction." And one of them we saw last week, he said, "Stand firm, we talked about that." The second thing he tells us to do, knowing Jesus is coming soon, he goes, "Here's what you need to do while you wait." He says, "Pray for us." Pray for us, literally in the Greek, what he's saying is, "Continually surround us with prayer." You're like, "Well, pray for you how?" Well, there's two things, jot these down.

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    First of all, he says, "Pray that the Word of God," I'm sorry, "Pray the Word of God to advance." The Word of God to advance.

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    Did you see that?

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    He says, "Pray for us that the Word of God may speed ahead." Literally, that is run.

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    He goes, "Pray for us that the Word of God may put on track shoes and take off running." It's a concept straight from the Old Testament.

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    Psalm 147.15 says, "He sends out his command to the earth.

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    His word runs swiftly." And Paul says, "Hey, church, you need to pray for this." And notice the prayer is focused first for the message, because that's what changes people.

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    He's like, "Yeah, pray for us." Like, for what though?

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    That the word gets out.

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    And understand, whether it's me standing here, or Alex here in a couple of weeks, or whoever is standing here, it's not about us.

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    It's about the Word of God.

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    I said one time, "You know, I'm really nothing more than a glorified microphone." And somebody said, "Glorified?" They're right.

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    They're right.

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    I accepted that rebuke.

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    But he says, pray that the word gets out, because that's what changes people.

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    The gospel changes people.

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    People who realize, maybe there's somebody here who needs to realize, that by nature, I am a rebellious, wayward sinner.

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    I've turned my back on God.

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    I know that I've done so much wrong before God and before other people.

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    I know I'm guilty of sin.

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    And I know I deserve to be punished for that.

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    And the message is that God loves you so much that He sent His Son to die in your place.

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    He took all of your sin on Himself.

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    And when Jesus Christ was on the cross, He was bearing God's wrath for your sin and for my sin.

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    So that God could say, "You are forgiven because of what my Son did for you." The message is that Jesus Christ rose from the dead to give us the promise of eternal life.

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    That's the gospel.

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    And Paul says, "Pray that that gets out." Secondly, letter B, not just pray the Word of God to advance, but pray the Word of God to be accepted.

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    Did you see that?

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    He said, "May speed ahead and be honored as happened among you." He says, "So let the Word of God be preached, "let the Word of God be preached accurately "and compellingly, "and let the Word of God be preached accurately "and compellingly to people who will receive it." All right, finally, that was to get you to perk up.

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    Because I'm about to say something that I've shared different times over the years, and every single time I share this, it gets a negative reaction from one or two people.

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    So I want you to hear me out.

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    As we're talking about prayer.

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    Notice he says here, "Pray for us." Now obviously the context here is evangelism.

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    Evangelistic prayers in the Bible are always primarily directed at God's people.

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    Hear me.

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    Because somebody is going to walk away from this and say, "Pastor Jeff says you shouldn't pray for lost people." I'm not saying that.

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    You can pray for lost people if you want.

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    Here's what I am saying.

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    That is not the pattern of the New Testament.

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    You don't read in the New Testament from anybody, Jesus, or Paul, or John, or Peter, any of them, say, "Hey, pray that the lost get saved." Every time you see evangelistic prayers, the primary focus is always, "Hey, pray for us to be able to reach the lost." prayers are focused. And listen, it's okay if you want to pray for your unsaved neighbor, you should. But you come to me and say, "Jeff, I want you to pray for my neighbor Joe because he's lost and I want you to pray that he gets saved." My response is, "Well, how does somebody get saved? How does somebody get saved? It's and receiving Jesus Christ, right?

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    So you have to know, and I have the list right here.

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    And people that are like, I have people in my life that need to know the Lord, and that is so encouraging to me to see these people lifted up in prayer, but I want you to know something.

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    When I pray for these people, I'm praying for you.

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    I'm saying, God, give the requester opportunity to share the gospel with these lost people that they want to know Jesus Christ, because that's how somebody gets saved.

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    When you're like, "Pray my neighbor gets saved," I doubt they're gonna be sitting on their couch and all of a sudden just be like, "Wow, for no reason whatsoever, I realize I'm a sinner in need of the vicarious atonement of Jesus Christ." They're going to realize that when you share the gospel with them.

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    You know, Jesus modeled this, right?

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    Matthew 9, Jesus saw the crowds coming, the Bible says He had compassion on them.

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    And what did Jesus say?

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    Did He turn to His disciples and say, "Hey, see all those lost people?

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    Pray that they get saved." Is that what He said?

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    He said, "Pray to the Lord of the harvest to do what?

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    Send forth workers into the field." You need to pray for us, church, in this way.

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    Whether it's the person up here preaching, or teaching the kids back there, or leading a small group, or whatever ministry.

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    This is how our prayer should be focused.

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    Pray for the person that's going to be delivering the message.

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    Did you get all that? Because I can run through it again.

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    You got it? Alright.

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    Did I say it's wrong to pray for the lost?

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    No, absolutely you can't.

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    I'm saying, biblically, we pray for those that are delivering the message to reach the lost.

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    But Paul, despite everything he accomplished, and our church went through the book of Acts, what was that Mark, like three years we went through the book of Acts, something like that, he accomplished a lot.

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    But here you have to notice that Paul, more than anyone recognized that he needed prayer.

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    He knew if something was going to advance the kingdom of God, it had to transcend him.

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    And it's the same for this church, because this church has a ridiculous amount of talent and creativity.

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    This church has the most amazing Christians in the Pittsburgh area, dare I say Pennsylvania, maybe the world.

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    And that is awesome, but there's a danger that comes with that kind of talent and creativity.

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    And it becomes easy for us to trust our own resources.

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    And start thinking that we don't need God's resources.

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    Like, hey, we sounded pretty good today.

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    The sermon was somewhat intelligible.

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    We didn't lose any of the kids in children's ministry.

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    But natural ability means nothing apart from God's power.

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    That's why Paul says, hey, before I sign off here, you gotta pray for us.

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    because we are working on getting the gospel out.

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    Let it run and let it be honored and pray for us so that that would happen.

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    Number two, pray that the messengers would be protected.

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    Three things to pray for while we wait for Jesus, the messengers to be protected.

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    Look at verse two.

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    First of all, he says we want to pray for protection from evil men, verse 2.

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    He says, "And that we may be delivered from wicked and evil men, for not all have faith." Wicked and evil.

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    Wicked means capable of harm.

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    It's just the kind of person whose life's ambition is to inflict harm on other people in some way.

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    You know people like that.

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    Evil people.

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    That's wicked.

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    Evil speaks to those who corrupt others.

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    They're just a nasty influence and they try to get other people on board with their nastiness.

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    Paul says, "Hey, we need to live literally rescued from those who would harm us." And I need you to pray that we would be protected from such people.

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    That last phrase he says, "For not all have faith." Have you noticed that?

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    Have you noticed that?

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    Not everyone has faith?

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    Like, yeah, that seems kind of obvious.

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    Not everyone has a saving and growing relationship with Jesus Christ.

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    I have noticed that.

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    But I've been thinking a lot about that this week.

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    He says, "For not all have faith." And I have to wonder, what Paul was talking about when he mentions the wicked and evil men.

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    Is he talking about problems from within the church?

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    I mean, it's obviously those outside the church don't have faith.

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    I just have to wonder, is he saying that there's people in the church that are causing problems?

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    Like, by the way, not everybody sitting in church is a Christian.

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    Is that what he's saying?

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    I don't know.

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    But take it from someone who's been in ministry for over two and a half decades.

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    The worst problems, and the hardest issues, and the most destruction does not come from the people on the outside of the church.

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    Just without exception, it comes from the people from within the flock.

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    The most heartbreaking and discouraging and stressful pain has been inflicted by those that we've loved, those that we've poured into, those that we've encouraged.

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    You know, all the little Judases that were with us for a while, but were never really with us.

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    That's what hurts, right?

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    Aaron can tell you.

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    Like, yeah, people outside the church, any problems we've had with them, that doesn't bother me for a second.

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    Like you know what?

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    Lost people act like lost people, right?

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    People who don't know Jesus act like people who don't know Jesus.

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    That doesn't bother me.

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    But Aaron can also tell you how many sleepless nights I've had from the pain that's come from somebody in the flock. I kind of lean towards, I think that's what he was talking about there. And I know that many people sitting here and watching this stream, you know exactly what I'm talking about.

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    He says, "We're not all have faith." Look at verse 3.

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    He says, "But the Lord is faithful." Don't you love that contrast?

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    He's like, "Not all have faith, but God is faithful." You don't have to worry about Him.

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    He always delivers.

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    He's always faithful despite evil men and despite Satan's campaign against God's people.

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    Look he goes on to say, "He will establish you and guard you against the evil one." That leads to letter B under number 2, "Protection from the evil one." Because not all of the attacks on the church are physical.

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    In fact, I would clarify that by saying, I think relatively few attacks on the church or physical.

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    The overwhelming majority of attacks on the church are going to be spiritual from the evil one.

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    Accusations, discouragement, those kinds of things.

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    And he says, "God is faithful to establish you and to guard you against Satan." Now look, Satan is powerful.

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    There's no question about that.

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    Let's not give Satan too much credit.

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    Because some Christians are sort of preoccupied, I think sometimes more with the devil than they are with the Lord.

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    Like, "Oh, the devil's doing this, and the devil's doing that, and my life's hard because the devil did this, and the devil made me do that, and the devil this, and the devil that." And can I just give you a general reminder from the book of Job?

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    Satan doesn't do a thing apart from God's permission.

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    And when you embrace that truth, that gives you so much trust and confidence and joy.

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    He's doing nothing unless God greenlights it.

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    And if God says, "No, I'm not going to allow that," it's not going to happen.

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    Because Satan too is under the sovereign of the universe.

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    And the way that we appropriate that trust and that confidence and that joy and knowing that God is sovereign even over the evil one, you know the way we appropriate that?

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    It's through prayer.

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    That's why one person said one time, "The one who kneels before God can stand before anything." Right?

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    So we not only pray for the message, we pray for God to protect the messenger to keep the Message going.

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    So in the meantime, three things to pray for while we wait for Jesus.

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    Number three, finally, the motivation to come from the Lord.

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    Here's something you need to pray for. You need to pray for the motivation to come from the Lord.

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    You're like, "Motivation for what?" Look at verse 4.

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    He says, "And we have confidence in the Lord about you, that you are doing and will do the things that we command." Talking about obedience, Paul says, "I am confident in your obedience." And obedience to the Lord, to the Word of God, is the mark of every true, sincere follower of Jesus.

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    And again, notice, he doesn't simply say, "Hey church, I'm praying that you obey." He says, "I know that you will." How do you know? Look at verse 5.

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    He says, "May the Lord direct your hearts to the love of God and to the steadfastness of Christ." This is what we should be praying for as a church.

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    That the Lord would direct our hearts.

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    Literally in the Greek, it means "straight." In other words, "May the Lord put a direct path straight to the heart of God." That's what he's praying for the church.

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    You're like, "Well, what does that have to do with obedience?" You see, that's what has to motivate our obedience.

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    I shouldn't have to threaten you to obey God.

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    I shouldn't have to bribe you to obey God.

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    I shouldn't heaven help me - I shouldn't put some legalistic construct together to try to guilt you into obeying God.

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    None of those things are right motivations.

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    There is only one right motivation to obey God.

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    And it's going directly straight to the heart of God.

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    In other words, I'm praying that you, Harvest Bible Chapel, are motivated to obey God, because you're driven to His heart.

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    And He highlights two aspects of that.

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    First of all, God's love.

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    God's love.

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    John 14, 15, Jesus said, "If you love Me, you will keep My commandments." opposites true as well. If you don't love me you won't keep my commandments, right?

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    But that statement isn't some kind of a deal being struck, right? Where Jesus is like, "If you obey me and I'll evaluate your obedience and then I will determine if I think whether or not you love me." That's not what I don't think that's what that means at all. Nor is it a checklist where you just sort of take his self-evaluation and say, "Well, okay, I did this and I did this and I did this and I did this.

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    That must mean I love God." I don't think it's just simply that.

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    I think Jesus' statement, "If you love me, you will keep my commandments," I think that's a cause and effect statement.

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    In other words, the person who loves Jesus will obey Him.

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    It speaks to motivation.

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    I follow Jesus because I love Him.

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    Straight to the heart of God.

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    Second thing here is that needs to motivate our obedience is Christ's steadfastness.

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    Like, wait, wait, wait, wait, steadfastness, you get that, right?

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    Like patience, endurance, that kind of thing, right?

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    Like, what does that have to do with obedience?

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    How can being driven to the heart of the steadfastness of Christ motivate obedience?

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    I'll tell you why.

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    It's because obedience is really easy in the short term.

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    It is.

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    But when life gets hard, and the days are long, and it doesn't seem that relief is coming, it's easy to get discouraged.

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    And in those moments it's easy to let our love for Christ grow cold.

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    And we're not as fired up to follow Him as we once were.

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    Christ's steadfastness because obedience demonstrates trust.

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    It's a hard issue.

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    You know, when God gave the law, I think sometimes when we look at the Old Testament law, living on this side of the cross in the empty tomb, and you know, living on the edge of the apocalypse, sometimes I think we look back at the Old Testament and simply look at it as all those legalistic rules and regulations and like it was red tape and hoops to jump through for Israel.

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    But Moses said something very interesting in Deuteronomy 6.

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    He said, "And the Lord commanded us to do all these statutes to fear the Lord our God." Look at this last phrase. "For our good always." Why did God give His law?

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    To see what hoops He could get Israel to jump through? No. He said He gave us this law for our good. God doesn't personally benefit from it. God doesn't become more God or less God based on our obedience or disobedience. He said the Word of God was given because God loves me and He cares about me. So I obey God not only because He is God and I am not, which would be more than enough motivation for me to obey God, but I obey because He has my best interests in mind.

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    Are you with me?

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    And you see Christ's steadfastness, that Paul says, "May God drive you straight to that." Why?

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    Because of this, Christ's steadfastness came from his trust in and obedience to the Father.

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    There wasn't a person that walked this planet that had more steadfastness than Jesus, more or endurance, because there was nobody that had more trust in the Father.

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    That's why Peter says in 1 Peter 2.23, it says, when He, Jesus, was reviled, He did not revile in return.

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    When He suffered, He did not threaten.

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    How did He do that?

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    How did Jesus endure all that?

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    Here it is.

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    But continued entrusting Himself to Him who judges justly.

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    Did you see that?

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    Christ was like, "I trust my Father.

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    Whatever happens, I trust Him.

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    That's what led to His obedience.

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    That's what caused the steadfastness that Paul is praying that we are driven to.

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    Like Christ, we are motivated to obey God because we trust God, even in the hardest times.

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    at the beginning I said you want to revitalize your prayer life, pray God's Word.

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    And this is plug and play right here.

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    He tells you exactly the things that the church should be praying for.

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    Right?

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    And you're like, "Good to know." Thank you.

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    Thank you Jeff for informing us.

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    "I will pray about these things this week." Is that what we say at this church?

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    "I will pray about these things this week." Is that what we say?

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    Oh, come on.

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    What do we say?

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    Let's pray right now.

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    So how can we look at what God's Word has to say the church should be praying for and leave this place without praying for these things as a church?

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    Doesn't that sound like a good idea?

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    It sounds like a good idea to me.

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    So here's what I want you to do.

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    I want you to stand up and I want you to get into prayer groups.

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    Just get a couple of people nearby and listen.

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    We say this all the time.

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    This is absolutely true.

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    If you prefer to stand and pray by yourself, this is a no judgment zone.

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    You can do that if that's what you choose, but this is a safe place and you're surrounded by people here who love you and who want to seek the Lord with you.

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    So I want you to stand up, get a couple of people nearby.

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    Usually when we do this, we go around and take prayer requests.

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    We're not going to do that this time.

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    You're going to get in your prayer groups and I'm going to give you each of these things that we talked about.

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    And I want somebody from your group to lift that up before the Lord for just a minute or two, and then I'll announce the next one.

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    And we're going to laser focus as a church, praying for these things.

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    All right?

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    So go ahead, get in your prayer groups.

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    And Darren's going to play.

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    I will give you your instructions in a minute.

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    Alright, I'm going to announce these.

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    I want somebody in your group to lift this up before the Lord.

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    The first thing that Paul said we need to pray for is for the message to go out.

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    So I want somebody in your group to pray that the Word of God would advance from Harvest Bible Chapel with our ministry here, in our community, in our mission work, all over northern Thailand and beyond.

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    that the Word of God would advance.

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    Let's pray for the Word of God to be accepted.

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    He says that the Word would be honored.

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    It needs to be honored first of all by the person that's preaching it.

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    And pray that it would be honored by those who are going to hear it.

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    Let the Word of God be honored.

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    Please, church, let's pray that the Word of God be honored.

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    So church, we not only pray for the message to go out.

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    Let's take a couple of minutes and pray for the messengers to be protected.

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    First of all, he said pray for protection from evil men.

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    Pray that we would be protected from wicked and evil men.

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    Somebody in your group, pray for protection from the evil one.

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    Satan is under the sovereignty of God.

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    He is prowling around like a lion, but he does nothing apart from God's permission.

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    We see very clearly in his word, we are called to pray for protection.

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    Deliver us from the evil one, Jesus taught us to pray.

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    that this church would be protected from the evil one.

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    Church, let's pray for our hearts.

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    Yes, we are called to obey.

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    But our motivation to obey isn't legalistic.

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    God doesn't love us unless we do everything He says or anything like that.

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    That's not it at all.

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    Our motivation needs to be love.

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    So pray that our hearts would be motivated to honor Christ and His Word because of His love for us and as a result, our love for Him.

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    Let's pray.

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    And finally, let's pray that our motivation would come by being driven to the steadfastness of Christ.

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    We have the example of Jesus, who entrusted Himself to Him who judges justly.

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    That we are able to endure all of these things that are happening in the world as we're living on the edge of the apocalypse.

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    We are able to endure because we have the example of Jesus Christ, and we have the power of Jesus Christ.

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    Pray that we are driven to the steadfastness of Christ to motivate our obedience.

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    (P)

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    Our Father in Heaven, as we close this particular time of prayer, we thank You for the privilege that You've given us to cry out to You.

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    Father, we pray Your message would go out.

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    You would use this church however you see fit to get your message out.

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    Father, I pray that we would be protected, every servant of Christ in this church serving in any capacity.

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    Father, please protect us.

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    Father, please keep us rightly motivated.

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    Please, Father, keep us rightly motivated that you would direct us straight to you.

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    Our hearts to your heart, so that we would know the love of God, we would know the steadfastness of Christ, that our worship would be from our hearts, our prayers would be from our Our service would be from our hearts.

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    The way we love one another would be from our hearts.

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    The way we reach out to this community from our hearts.

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    The way we give to the work of the ministry from our hearts.

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    Father, let us be rightly motivated in everything we do as a church from our hearts.

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    And all praise and glory and honor and power be unto your name forever and ever.

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    And all of God's people said, "Amen." Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read
2 Thessalonians 3:1-5

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. What are some reasons you think many Christians struggle with consistent prayer? What one piece of advice would you give someone who struggles with consistent prayer?

  3. Why are New Testament evangelistic prayers (see 2 Thes 3:1) directed at those who are bringing the Word, instead of those who need saved? How should this shape the way we pray?

  4. What are specific ways “wicked and evil men” (see 2 Thes 3:2) inflict harm on those in the church? How does God “deliver” (ie, rescue) us from them?

Breakout
Pray for some of the things this passage calls us to pray for.