Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Tell the Truth

Introduction:

If I'm Going to Tell the Truth: (James 5:12)

  1. I must understand Truth is the highest priority .
  2. I must stop Seaking Deceptively .

    Matthew 5:33-37

    Matthew 23:16-19

  3. I must speak Honestly .
  4. I must reckon with the Consequences for lying .

    Matthew 5:34-37

  5. I must do What is true .

    Colossians 3:9 - Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices.

    Ephesians 4:25 - Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another.

    Matthew 7:12 - So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.

    1 John 2:3-6 - And by this we know that we have come to know him, if we keep his commandments. Whoever says “I know him” but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him, but whoever keeps his word, in him truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him: whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he walked.

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    Good morning, beloved. We are coming to the end of our study in the book of James.

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    So if you would turn to James chapter 5, that's where we're going to pick up at verse 12.

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    If you don't have a Bible with you, there's one in the seat back. We know the print is kind of small, but it is a step up from the entire scripture engraved on a grain of rice.

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    And we do have more large print Bibles in the back, the hardbound ones back there, so feel free to go back and get one of the larger print versions.

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    All right, I hope you're all there at James chapter 5, and as we kind of customarily do, if you would pray for me, and I will pray for you. Let's pray.

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    Oh gracious Father, it's somewhat ironic to me that you would appoint an inveterate liar like me to preach a sermon on the truth, but we must preach your truth.

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    Father, you and I have talked almost every day about what this sermon would be.

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    And I pray that we hear not my words, but only your word. For your word is truth.

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    Your word gives life. Your word sanctifies us.

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    And I pray, Lord, in every heart this morning, you would plant your word deeply.

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    Give everyone listening, whether here in person or watching from home or on their computer, Father, plant your truth deep within us, that we may know truth in our inmost parts.

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    We ask in the great name of our Savior Jesus. Amen.

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    So James chapter 5 verse 12, we have a single verse this morning, "But above all my brothers, do not swear either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your yes be yes and your no be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation. We live in a culture so awash in lies it is nearly impossible to know what is true. Advertisers claim that using their product it will vastly improve your life. The media outlets and the talk shows and the view, they will spin events and use words to promote the agenda they want you to believe.

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    Celebrities and politicians issue apologies worded so carefully they do not acknowledge responsibility and they don't even actually apologize. And of course politicians, they will say anything and everything to get votes and to demonize and destroy their opponents and agitate their electoral base.

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    We're told the economy's doing great, the border's secure, the climate crisis and white heterosexual males, greatest threats to human existence right now.

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    Men can be birthing people, but killing a pre-born child, that's an act of love.

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    The scientific data says stay six feet apart.

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    And the riots have been mostly peaceful.

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    And in case you hadn't heard, the Secretary of Defense has been working from home.

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    The list is endless.

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    White lies, fibs, half-truths, exaggeration, spin, evasion, partial disclosure, concealment, bluffing, deception, hypocrisy, bald-faced, outrageous lies saturate every level and aspect of our culture.

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    And it's all designed to manipulate and to mislead and manage you in some way.

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    We almost expect to be lied to and maybe we think at some level it's okay for us to lie.

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    We may not give what we say a whole lot of thought. We might be kind of careless with our words and we may not even recognize we're lying. And you know we only get upset about it when someone lies to us, when those lies affect us personally. I was once involved in a lawsuit over a government contract and I was representing the US Army. The Army had canceled the contract because the company had basically failed to perform over two and a half years. And throughout the contract performance the Army's contracting officer and the government inspectors had a very difficult time getting straight answers out of the two brothers who owned the company. Now the brothers were Hasidic Jews and you might ask well how did a couple of Hasidic Jews get a government contract? That's a long story I can tell you afterwards if you're interested, but these two brothers had all kinds of excuses for why they were unable to perform the contract. Well during the time the army was trying to get them to perform, one of the government inspectors confronted one of the brothers about, shall we say, his unreliable answers, and the brother responded, "John, I would never lie to you.

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    I may mislead you, I may deceive you, I may conceal things from you, but I would never lie to you." And now a story about making, you know, fine distinctions about the truth might be kind of amusing, but if we examine ourselves as we're going to do this morning, we will realize we're not a whole lot different. But we're supposed to be different. We are supposed to be truthful, we are called to be truthful. As disciples of Christ, we are to put away falsehood and speak the truth to one another. That is what James 5.12 is all about, how to tell the truth.

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    So, if I'm going to tell the truth, I must understand that truth is the highest priority. James begins, "But above all, my brothers." Just a quick note, "brothers" there, the Greek word can be "brothers" and "sisters." It's not just the the male believers. He says, "But above all, my brothers and sisters." So let's stop there. What James is about to say must be important. The Greek rendered "above all" means above and before. It is the first thing, the main thing, and it applies to all of us. James uses the phrase "therefore" in his letter six times and he says things like, "Know this, listen my brothers, and behold." So he's emphasized things before, but what is different about this verse? And is it connected to that he just said, say the verses we spoke about last week? Is it connected to anything else in his letter? It seems to me that this is the capstone of his whole letter. It sums up and emphasizes all of his points so far. Have you noticed in this series, in the letter actually, have you noticed in James' letter how frequently James emphasizes speaking, usually as a source of sin and problems, and relationship conflict. It's not just the passages on the tongue either. So I'm not I'm not going to review all the sermons that have been preached but I encourage you when you read James to note how often he uses words like ask, say, boast, speak, grumble, and mouth. James is very interested in how we talk. This reveals what is in our hearts. What we say reveals what we think of God and what we think of other people. As James begins to sum up his letter, he practically shouts it, "But above all, my brothers and sisters, this is the highest priority of the Christian life. This is the main thing for you to know." So we had better pay attention to this main thing. Well, what is that main thing? He says, "Do not swear either by heaven or by earth or any other oath." So if I'm going to tell the truth, I must stop speaking deceptively. And when James says, "Do not swear," he's not talking about cussing and using bad words, although we should certainly stop swearing in that way too. James is talking about swearing that involves making a promise to do something and then confirming that promise with an oath appealing to a higher authority, meaning that there will be consequences for breaking my promise.

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    James' brother Jesus also preached on swearing in the Sermon on the Mount, and chapter 5, verses 33 through 37. "Again, you have heard it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn.' But I say to you, do not take an oath at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is his footstool, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great king and do not take an oath by your head for you cannot make one hair white or black let what you say simply be yes or no anything more than this comes from evil the old covenant did not prevent swearing an oath or prohibit swearing an oath and often making a sincere oath and keeping it was considered a righteous thing to do. Yet both James and Jesus tell us, "Do not swear at all." Why? Well, it's likely because of the way people at the time made oaths. They were swearing falsely and deceptively. They were doing it in a way that left a loophole or gave them a way out. In short, they wanted to be able to weasel out of their promises that they made. Let's look for a moment at how oaths were taken in first century Israel. The Jews were to take their oaths only in the name of God, Yahweh, but any sensible Jew who had little or no intention of keeping a promise is not going to take an oath in the name of Yahweh because doing so would most certainly call down judgment from heaven on his head when he broke his oath. So people supposed they could swear by something else, something less, that still sounded weighty, like the throne rather than the name of God. The Jews had developed such a sophisticated system of swearing oaths that Jesus criticized the lawyers and religious leaders who enforced it. Let's look at Matthew chapter 23. Jesus says, "Woe to you blind guides who say, 'If anyone swears by the temple, it is nothing, but if anyone swears by the gold of the temple, he is bound by his oath. You blind fools, which is greater, the gold of the temple, that has made the gold sacred?" Excuse me, let me start over. "Which is greater, the gold or the temple that has made the gold sacred?" And you say, "If anyone swears by the altar, it is nothing. But if anyone swears by the gift that is on the altar, he is bound by his oath. You blind men, for which is greater the gift or the altar that makes the gift sacred?" We might imagine a conversation in first century Judea between Ishka Bibel and Shlomo when their agreement falls apart. "Shlomo, last week you swore to me by the temple that you would buy all of my sheep today for a thousand shekels and now you say you will only pay 700. Yes Ish, but I didn't swear by the gold in in the temple. And what's more important, the temple or all its sacred gold?

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    And besides, all your sheep are diseased. I am released from my promise.

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    Unless you think I'm picking on Jewish people, I am not. Some of my ancestors are Jewish.

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    So why are you telling us this, Rich? It's kind of amusing, but it's hardly relevant to me.

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    I've never sworn an oath in my life like Shlomo and Ish, but you have and you do.

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    It just looks a little different from first century Judaism. We make oaths and vows and pledges often. When two people get married, they vow before God to love one another for so long as they live, and when someone testifies in court, they take an oath under penalty of perjury to To tell the truth, so help me God.

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    When you take out a car loan or a mortgage, don't listen to that, Alex.

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    When you take out a car loan or a mortgage, you vow to pay it back, because if you don't, the law is going to come looking for you.

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    If you were a scout, you took an oath on your honor.

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    If you serve or have served in the military or as a police officer or as a public servant, took an oath of office.

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    And I know one vow, a pledge, that almost every single person in this room has taken. Do you want to start it with me?

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    I pledge allegiance to the flag, right? Yeah, we take oaths, we just don't recognize them as such. And those are all positive examples of oaths. The majority of people taking them do so sincerely. But here's some other examples of the way we take oaths, some not so sincere. Have you ever noticed how often people preface something with "to be honest" or "if I'm being honest" or "I got to be honest with you" or "I'm not gonna lie to you" or "to tell the truth" or "actually" we say that one in our house a lot. Actually, why do we feel the need to say such things if we are in fact going to tell the truth? Are we not in effect taking an oath by attempting to puff up our character for truthfulness in the eyes of another person? And yet when we hear such things, when people say that kind of stuff to us, our lie detectors are activated and we're immediately on our guard. Do you remember the kind of things we did as kids, right? If we made a solemn promise or sworn to secrecy, we would pinky swear, right? Or we would say, "Cross my heart and hope to die.

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    Stick a finger in your eye." Do kids still do this stuff? Am I showing my age?

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    Am I showing how old I am? Right? But we would do that stuff, and then what also would we do? We got our fingers crossed behind our back. Because if I give me an out, if I broke my promise, why that gives me an out? I don't know. It just did.

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    We see this with marriage today. I promise to love you and cherish you for so long as we both shall live, but sign this prenuptial agreement in case I fall in love with somebody else. We try to make deals with others to manage and manipulate them. "Honey, I swear I won't buy any more clothes on credit. If I do, you can cut up all our credit cards." "But I still have my own credit card and I'll make ATM withdrawals to buy clothes." "Babe, I swear this is the last time I will look at that website. If I do, you can disconnect the internet." She's not going to disconnect the internet. And you're just gonna go look at porn on your phone or you'll search with stealth mode. I swear that's the last drink I'll ever take, or I'm sorry I promise this is the last time I will hurt you. Okay, you promised that before. Were you telling the truth then or are you telling the truth now? Are you lying then or are you lying now? Or we try to make deals with God. Lord, if you will just let me win this jackpot. I swear I'll never play the lottery again." But I got FanDuel downloaded on my phone. All right, God, if you'll just change him and fix our relationship, I promise I'll change too, I swear. And of course, that immediately goes out the window as soon as the next argument starts. James precisely because it so often involves duplicity and loopholes that allow us to weasel out of a promise. We too must cease swearing in the form of worthless promises and vainly puffing up our character for truthfulness. So if I'm going to tell the truth, I must speak honestly. It would be good at this point to ask, "Well, if James is so concerned with truthfulness, as you claim brunk, why didn't he just say, "But above all, my brothers, always tell the truth.

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    Above all, be truthful." Well, there's perhaps several reasons. One, because oath-taking was a real problem for Jewish believers. Two, because those Jewish believers might have said, "Tell the truth? No problem, I'm a truthful person." But a third reason might be the most important, because oath-taking is evidence of a heart problem. What does the prophet Jeremiah tell us?

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    The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately sick. Who can understand it? Throughout his letter, James has driven home the fact that what we say reveals what is in our heart.

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    The opposite of speaking deceptively is to let your yes be yes and your no be no. Well is that all there is to it? Just answer yes or no? Will that take care of your heart condition? I suppose if we took a poll at the door and asked people as they came in, do you consider yourself to be a truthful person? Almost everyone who entered this morning would have said yes. And why would you say that Christian? Maybe your answer would simply be, well I always try to tell the truth. Or maybe your reasoning goes something like this, the truth is found in Christ, I believe in Christ, and Christ is in me, therefore I've become a more truthful person. Do you know what that makes you?

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    A living, breathing, walking, talking oath. If you profess to be a follower of Jesus, You are always under oath. You are obligated to tell the truth always and in everything.

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    How are you doing in that department?

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    I have to confess my original ideas for this sermon were all lofty, kind of philosophical musings about the truth, you know, very 30,000 foot level stuff. And This notion that I am always under oath pulled me up short and brought me under a strong conviction. To preach to you, I had to admit to myself that in many of the things I say, I am not telling the truth. And it's not just me, because as I said, we grow up in a culture accustomed to lying, and we all rationalize and justify our own lies. I looked to that fount of all truth and wisdom, the Internet, for some statistics. Do you know the average American lies three times a day? There was a study in Great Britain that revealed that men lie an average of six times a day while women average three lies a day.

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    Three lies a day equals about 90 lies a month and that's 1,080 lies a year.

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    Multiply that by your current age and that amounts to a lot of weaseliness.

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    The majority of survey respondents said they lie, usually little white lies, in order to avoid conflict or avoid hurting someone's feelings.

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    75% of the respondents in the British survey said it was acceptable to lie to spare someone's feelings.

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    That's probably a lie in itself, isn't it? Because the reality is people lie to protect themselves and their own self-image. Let's look at some common lies. What do you think the number one lie is?

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    The number one lie that's told, any guesses?

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    "I'm fine, it's fine, I'm fine," or "I'm fine, I'm fine, just leave me alone, I'm fine." You hear those words and you know everything is wrong.

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    Everything's wrong, nothing is fine, but yet we say that to either, "I'm fine, now I want you to bend the knee and come groveling and figure out why I'm what's really the problem," right? See, we say those kinds of things to manipulate people. How about its close cousin? "Nothing's wrong, why should anything be wrong?" Why, everything is wrong. You need to figure out what it is. How about excuses? Do we ever tell excuses? Do you know what an excuse is? An excuse is the skin of a reason stuffed with a lie. I don't know why but that makes me think of those little cocktail wieners. An excuse is just about as appetizing. So what do we say? "I'm sorry I'm late. I ran into to some traffic. I didn't leave until just like five minutes before our appointment, but there was traffic, right? Oh hey, sorry I didn't reply. I didn't see your message. I just swiped and deleted it. How about this one? We're so busy. We've got so much going on. Hey, I got to jump on another call because I'm tired of talking to you. How about flattery? Have you ever flatter anybody? "You look great! You haven't changed a bit!" Exaggeration. This is my favorite. This is my favorite exaggeration. I hear it all the time. Frankly, I hear people say it to their kids. "You, that was awesome! You're awesome dude! You graduated from fifth grade.

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    Graduation wasn't even a, fifth grade wasn't even a thing when I was a kid." Right? How about this one? This is a good one. "I went to church with Najee Harris." Okay, he came in one time and he sat in the back row and Then he left when he realized that he was in the wrong church But I went to church with Najee Harris How sincere are we in what we say to others every day How much of what you say to others shades the truth to put you in a good light to protect or enhance your reputation?

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    What do you say to persuade someone that you are a trustworthy person an upright person a reliable person a likable person How much of what you say is designed to manipulate or manage others in some way?

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    And you're willing to lie to them to bend them to your purpose How much of what you say is a lie intended to end an unpleasant or uncomfortable conversation to make an excuse, to delay an undesirable outcome. Do you exaggerate or flatter to manipulate people? We must stop speaking this way and speak honestly.

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    Here are some things to think about before opening your mouth again. Check your motives. Why do I want to say what I'm about to say? Is it self-serving? Is pure? Is it loving? Is it necessary? Is it true? Check your emotions. Remember, we are to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger. If you're agitated or angry, it's probably best not to speak until you've cooled off. Choose your words carefully. Make them simple and sincere. Make sure they are accurate. Don't exaggerate or use words that blow things out of proportion. You always and you never are unhelpful and most likely untrue. It might be more accurate to say sometimes or there are times when you haven't done such-and-such. And as I said, not everything is awesome What words do you have to describe the Lord God Almighty if your new truck rims or your latest manicure is awesome?

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    And you don't really love everything that you say you do I Love ice cream. I love my mom. I Love my pet. I love Jesus. I Think you get the point And while you are learning to choose your words carefully, work on increasing your vocabulary so that you have fitting words to use in every occasion.

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    So how are we doing?

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    You still convinced you're a truthful person?

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    So much more truthful than the readers of James' letter who needed this upbraiding?

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    much more truthful that you don't need to hear anything more? But wait, there is more. If I'm going to tell the truth, I must reckon with the consequences for lying. James concludes the verse so that you may not fall under condemnation.

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    Many of the commentators I read on this verse don't even touch this. Don't want touch it. If you have a study Bible, look in your notes and see if there's a note on condemnation. But there it is, and we have to grapple with it. This is a strong word in the Greek, "krisis," and it means judgment, libel to punishment, or as translated in the ESV, "condemnation." What does James mean by this? He means that if you're careless with your words, if you're a chronic liar, there will be consequences. But condemnation? Is he saying I'll experience eternal damnation for lying? Well, Satan is a liar and the father of lies and he will be spending eternity in the lake of fire. If you're not a believer in Jesus and you're a compulsive liar, well then yes, you're going to be spending eternity with your father the devil. But James is writing to believers. Romans 8 says there's no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. That's very true. Your sins are all forgiven. But that does not change the fact that lying lips are an abomination to God. Pastor Jeff talked about this same thing last week. There will be a day of judgment for believers and each one of us will have to give an account for our works and our words. There will be rewards given for righteousness and and rewards forfeited for sinful behavior.

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    Make a note, first Corinthians 3 verses 11 through 15.

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    First Corinthians 3 11 through 15. Maybe you can talk about those verses in your small group this week.

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    And yet we keep on sinning with our mouths.

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    Jesus had something to say about this to the Pharisees. He said in Matthew chapter 23, "You brood of vipers, how can you speak good when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. The good person out of all his good treasure brings forth good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure brings forth evil. I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak. For by your words you will be justified and by your words you will be condemned." There's two things to note here. First, the way we speak is a litmus test of our salvation.

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    Pastor Jeff mentioned last week that how a person handles money reveals much about their spiritual condition. So also with our words. Out of the abundance of one's heart the mouth speaks. What you say reveals a great deal about your heart and how seriously you follow Jesus. We need to set a guard over our lips. We need to cry out to God to give us clean hearts, to help us keep our tongues from speaking evil and our lips from speaking lies. Second, Jesus says we're going to have to give an account for every careless word.

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    And yet we keep on sinning with our mouths.

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    You know what a swear jar is?

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    Anybody have a swear jar?

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    It's like a jar.

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    And people, every time they swear, they put some money in the jar.

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    And then when they get enough money saved up, they have a party or they go on vacation.

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    I don't know about you, but giving yourself reward seems counterintuitive if the goal is to reduce swearing. Well, if you keep on swearing with your mouth, you won't have a swear jar on the day of judgment when you have to give an account for your words. You may have a dumpster and it's going to be filled with 50 and 100 dollar bills and it's gonna be on fire. You will forfeit the reward you could have had from speaking the truth in all circumstances. You may say, "Rich, aren't you just kind of overstating things here? A dumpster fire, really?" Let me ask you, does Jesus, your God and Savior, tell the truth? Does he take telling the truth seriously? Do you know of any scriptures that give us license to lie, mislead, or manipulate with our words? Do you know of any righteousness ever produced in this world in your life as a result of lies? May God impress on our minds the seriousness of speaking truth so that we will have no reason to be ashamed of our words now or on the day of judgment. We must stop sinning with our mouths and speak honestly. Now that's the end of the verse and I could finish right there. We don't want to end there do we? This sermon is about how to tell the truth and we need to change in this area of our walk. So if I'm going to tell the truth I must do what is true. But I do my best to tell the truth. I'm living my truth. I always tell the truth from a certain point of view. That's the problem, isn't it? We have been bombarded with ideas that the truth is relative, that it's cultural, it's a construct. So if I tell the truth most of the time and especially about important things, well I'm doing better than the average bear.

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    It makes me think Yogi Bear was pretty deceitful most of the time. But this is the conventional wisdom, isn't it? And as we learned in a previous sermon, wisdom like this is earthly, unspiritual, and demonic. If we want to be truthful and we are commanded to do so, we have to know where to find truth. Well, good news. We which tells us truth is a person. Jesus Christ. And he said, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." And Jesus points us back to Scripture to know the truth. He said, "Sanctify them in the truth.

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    your word is truth." So from Scripture we know that Jesus is the truth and he affirms the Scriptures are the truth. Oh, so I just need to know what's in the Bible to tell the truth? No, you need to do what is commanded to tell the truth.

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    Now Jesus modeled this for us. He obeyed God's Word perfectly. He kept the whole law and never sinned in what he said or did. He only spoke what he heard from his father and he only did what he saw his father doing. When Jesus was debating with some of the Jews, he said to them, "Truly, truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of his own accord but only what he sees the Father doing. For whatever the Father does that the Son does likewise. So if you want to be truthful you must imitate Jesus and like him do what God commands. Now have we not heard this before in James letter right? You can repeat it with me. Be a doer of the word and not a hearer only. So what commands are we to obey? All of them. All of them. So that means you must read and study your Bible. There's no substitute for renewing your mind with God's Word. But relating to our speech and its effect on our relationships, here are a few pertinent commands. Colossians 3:9 do not lie to one another seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices. Ephesians 425, therefore having put away falsehood let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor for we are members of one another. And then Matthew 7 12, whatever you wish that others would do to you do also to them for this is the law and the prophets." I mean really, do you like it when people lie to you? I don't think I have to answer that question. This is not legalism. This is what love looks like. Jesus said, "If you love me, you will keep my commandments." Obedience is proof of our faith and proof that we truly know and love God. Let's look at 1st John 2 3 through 6. "By this we know that we have come to know him if we keep his commandments. Whoever says, 'I know him,' but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoever keeps his word in him, truly the love of God is perfected. By this we may know that we are in him. Whoever says he abides in him ought to walk in the same way in which he, Jesus, walked." Again, this is not about trying to keep God's commandments to earn his approval to get into heaven. You cannot earn God's approval by doing good works. You can only gain eternal life by recognizing right now that you're a sinner and that your sins have separated you from your creator. Your sin has put you squarely under God's wrath, but this is the good news.

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    Jesus Christ died for sinners. He obediently gave his life for sinners on the cross. He was buried and he rose again on the third day. All of that according to the scriptures.

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    and he did that to give eternal life to everyone who repents and believes in him.

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    There is salvation in nothing and no one else, for there's no other name but Jesus, given among men under heaven, by which we must be saved. If you are concerned about your eternal soul, you need first and foremost to obey the command to repent and believe in Jesus.

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    If you've never done this, come talk to me, talk to Jeff, talk to Taylor, talk to one of our elders.

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    And if you're sincerely obeying and doing what God has commanded, what do you have to lie about?

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    You will be doing the truth, thus you will be telling the truth. You'll have nothing to hide, no reputation of your own to protect, no longer will you be using or manipulating people with your words. And beloved, when we do sin with our mouth and we wrong another, we need to be quick to ask for forgiveness immediately. You see, that's the wonderful thing about life in Christ.

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    He's always present to forgive, to correct, and to help us obey. You see, you will be speaking the truth because you will be doing what is true. Your yes will sincerely be yes.

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    Your no will be straightforward and honestly no. You won't need to preface what you say with phrases like, "not gonna lie to you," because you will have so much integrity. People will believe what you say. Your word will be your bond. You will be imitating Jesus Christ, who in love did everything his father commanded, and you will not fall under condemnation, but you will have a great reward." As our worship team comes forward and we conclude this message, we need to realize that a message like this requires a definite response.

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    We have seen how we speak is of the highest importance to God, who spoke everything into existence, who speaks to us through his creation, who speaks to us through his word, who in these last days has spoken to us by his Son, who always speaks what is true.

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    What commitment will you make today and this week in response to God's word?

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    Will it be?

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    I'll try to be more truthful.

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    Well, you might as well say, "I'll do my best to lie less.

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    Cross my heart, hope to die." Because that means you're still a liar, doesn't it?

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    Beloved, that is not for us.

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    For us, there is only one response.

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    My Lord and my God, I will tell the truth.

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    Let's pray.

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    Our gracious, loving Father, our truth and our life, again I ask, plant your word deep in our hearts, convict us of your truth so that we will be always and ever truth tellers in all we say, all we do, all we think.

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    And I pray that you would help us each day to become more and more like our Savior Jesus Christ.

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    And it's in His name we pray, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read James 5:12

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. What are some reasons we may not take our responsibility to tell the truth seriously? How valid are those reasons?

  3. What are some excuses people make to minimize the wrongfulness of lying?

  4. What types of lies are you most prone to telling? For example, exaggeration, excuse making, stonewalling (“I’m fine”), etc.?

  5. Does the connection between keeping the Lord’s commands and being truthful make it simpler or harder to tell the truth? (1 John 2:3-6; Matthew 7:12)

Breakout
Pray that the Lord will impress on our hearts the imperative to be truthful, and that as a congregation we will be committed to telling the truth in love..

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Be Patient with People

Introduction:

Five Things to Say to Yourself When You Are Losing Your Patience with People: (James 5:1-11)

  1. Lost people act like Lost People . (Jas 5:1-6)

    Matthew 6:21 - For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

  2. Things won't Always be as they are now. (Jas 5:7-8)

    Romans 8:18 - For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.

  3. Don't forfeit your Rewards . (Jas 5:9)

    2 John 8 - Watch yourselves, so that you may not lose what we have worked for, but may win a full reward.

  4. Faithful people are patient. (Jas 5:10)
  5. Patience is Good for me. (Jas 5:11)

    Job 1:22 - In all this Job did not sin or charge God with wrong.

    Job 42:5 - I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you...

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  • 00:40-01:09

    Father, we believe your Word does your work, and we thank you when you give us the opportunity to see your Word and your Spirit at work in the lives of people. That's all we want here, Father, for you to show up and do what you do as we present ourselves to you as your servants. We pray in Jesus' name. And all of God's people said, amen.

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    James chapter five, are you there?

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    Several years ago, this one particular morning, I was having a really rough morning.

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    And I thought, you know what'll make this morning all better?

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    I stopped at Pantera Bread and got a Cinna Crunch Bagel.

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    And I'm like, that is going to turn this franchise around.

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    Well, I went to the Pantera up here in Cranberry and the, you know, Cinnacrunch bagel.

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    And the guy, he put the bagel in the brown bag and, you know, he handed it to me.

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    And as he handed it to me, I walked away.

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    He was like, "Oh yeah, sorry, that's not toasted.

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    "Our toaster isn't working.

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    "So it's not toasted." And I gotta tell you, it's embarrassing to stand in front of you and say this.

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    I really got bent out of shape about that.

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    I mean, I didn't say anything to him.

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    I got to my car.

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    And did you ever have something just hit you raw?

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    Just like raw nerve, and it was sort of like the straw that broke the camel's back.

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    You know what I'm talking about?

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    Don't leave me up here, come on.

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    Okay, thank you, thank you.

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    But I was so angry about this stupid bagel.

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    I was so angry, I'm like, why didn't he say anything when I ordered it?

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    Why did he let me swipe the card and the money and he gives me the bank, and then tell me to I'm leaving?

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    I mean, like, what is he, what is he, Al-Qaeda?

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    Like, why would he do something like that?

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    Why, who are they hiring?

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    Do they have a hiring process?

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    This guy shouldn't be allowed on the streets.

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    A maniac like this should be locked up.

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    I have children and people like this roam free And I was so been out of shape about this.

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    And I'm like, what can I do?

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    What can I do?

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    So I did, I called like Pantera headquarters and I'm like, you're not gonna believe what one of these miserable Nazi employees of yours did.

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    I might not have said it in those exact words but that was the spirit behind it.

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    And they were just like, oh, I'm sorry about that.

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    We'll refund the money.

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    And I'm like, "But I'm still mad!" And they refunded the money.

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    And I'm like, "Wow, I have a problem."

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    (congregation laughing)

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    I have a big problem with being patient with people.

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    I was ready to take a guy to court over a bagel.

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    I'm not very proud of that.

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    But maybe you've had moments like that.

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    Where you're like, man, maybe I'm not as patient with people as I'd like to be.

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    We're gonna talk about patience today.

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    Woo-hoo!

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    I'm like preaching on patience this week.

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    Kid gets really sick.

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    God has a way of helping me see if I really believe what I'm preaching.

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    But you know, when we talk about patience, I learned this this week, I didn't know this, but there's different Greek words for patience.

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    One Greek word for patience has to deal with patience in circumstances.

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    And there's another Greek word for patience that has to do with patience with people.

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    And that's the one that we're going to talk about today, patience with people.

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    Hard circumstances and hard people each require patience.

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    But there's a different word for that in the Greek.

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    And I thought about that a lot this week.

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    Like what's the difference between being patient in circumstances and being patient with people?

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    I just, I kept thinking about that.

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    Like what's the difference?

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    What's the difference?

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    And then something hit me.

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    You know, when it comes to circumstances, sometimes we want to lash out, but it's kind of hard to personally attack a circumstance.

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    You know what I mean?

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    Like yesterday when Cade was having this episode, I would have loved to grab whatever personification of this thing was.

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    I would have loved to grab it and slap it around and throw it out the door, but I couldn't.

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    It was a circumstance and I was helpless to do anything about it.

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    But you know, people are different.

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    Because hard people do give us the opportunity to lash out and fight back, don't they?

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    You know what I mean?

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    I might not be able to personally attack a circumstance, but I can personally attack a person.

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    Whether it's angry words or belittling someone, condescending tone, telling somebody off, slandering.

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    getting even with someone.

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    I can do that to a person.

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    I can't do that to a circumstance.

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    Don't shout out any names, but are there people in your life that are testing your patience?

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    Don't point either.

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    I see some of you like that guy over there.

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    But maybe you've got somebody in your life that's testing your patience.

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    Maybe it's an unbelieving spouse.

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    Maybe it's a know-it-all family member.

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    Maybe it's a godless, domineering boss.

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    Maybe it's that annoying coworker.

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    Maybe it's an unsaved neighbor.

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    All these people give us opportunity to show patience.

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    How are you doing there?

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    Now, maybe like the dreaded bagel incident, you've learned that you have some room to grow, like me, in that area.

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    And fortunately, we have God's word to give us direction on how to grow.

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    So on your outline, how to be patient with people.

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    Five things to say to yourself when you're losing your patience with people.

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    Five things to say to yourself when you're losing your patience with people.

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    You know, when people say, when you're about to blow your top, You gotta slow it down, you gotta take a deep breath, you gotta count to 10.

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    I'm gonna save you half the time.

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    I'm gonna say count to five.

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    Yeah, you're welcome.

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    Count to five.

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    And when you're gonna lose patience with people, here's five things that you can say to yourself.

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    Number one, write this down, lost people act like lost people.

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    That's the first one.

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    Let's look at the first six verses here in James chapter five.

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    He says, "Come now, you rich.

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    "Weep and howl for the miseries that are coming upon you.

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    "Your riches have rotted, and your garments are moth-eaten.

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    "Your gold and silver have corroded, "and their corrosion will be evidence against you, "and will eat your flesh like fire." You've laid up treasure in the last days.

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    Behold, the wages of the laborers who mowed your fields, which you kept back by fraud, are crying out against you.

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    And the cries of the harvesters have reached the ears of the Lord of hosts.

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    You have lived on the earth in luxury and in self-indulgence.

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    You have fattened your hearts in a day of slaughter.

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    You have condemned and murdered the righteous person.

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    He does not resist you.

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    Stop there.

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    James starts off this section by rebuking people that were problem people for the people of his day.

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    And that's the oppressive rich.

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    Now look, we had a whole sermon about this back in, what was that, chapter two.

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    all rich people are bad.

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    Nobody is saying that.

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    But what we said back then, and I'd like to remind you, the point is this, in general, when you look at history, do we typically see poor people oppressing rich people or rich people oppressing poor people?

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    Which way does it generally go?

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    Okay, that's what he's talking about here, okay?

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    And remember, this was going out to Christian Jews who were scattered due to persecution and people who were saved and unsaved were going to be hearing this message.

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    And James here is giving a warning to the unsaved.

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    And I would say, if this describes you, you better listen up.

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    Because nothing reveals your heart.

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    more objectively than the way you view and spend money.

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    It's an objective test.

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    How you view and spend money tells you where your heart is.

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    I didn't make that up.

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    Jesus pointed this truth out.

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    Matthew 6, 21, Jesus said, "For where your treasure is, "there your heart will be also." And we wanna flip that.

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    We want it to say where your heart is, that's where your treasure is.

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    As well, oh, you know, my heart's with missions.

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    See all these people up here with missions, oh, my heart's with missions.

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    And Jesus would say in response to that, well, how much do you give to missions?

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    Well, I really don't.

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    Then your heart's not with missions because you find where your treasure is, then you'll find your heart.

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    Now show me your checkbook.

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    Like, I don't have a checkbook.

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    All right, smarty pants, Mr. Highfalutin, living in 2024, online banking, show me your statement online, where you spend your money, and I'll show you where your heart is.

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    Because Jesus said where your treasure is, that's where your heart is.

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    And James here is warning those who have their treasure, therefore their hearts set on worldly prosperity.

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    He says in verse three, You've laid up treasure in the last days.

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    Now the term last days, that refers to the last chunk of history before Jesus returns.

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    Okay, from Jesus ascension until his second coming, that period of time is called the last days.

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    James' audience lived in that.

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    We today live in the last days.

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    So during this chunk of history, while we're waiting for our Lord to return, How should money be used?

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    How should we be spending money while we wait for the return of the Lord?

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    Whether James' audience or you.

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    And as far as I can see biblically, there's really two ways we should be spending our money.

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    God's money, you know what I mean.

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    There's two ways that we should be spending money.

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    One is to take care of your family.

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    You should be providing for your family.

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    If you don't, God says you're worse than an unbeliever.

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    Sickest burn ever, all right?

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    Right, Taylor?

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    You should be taking care of your family.

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    And the other way you should be using your money is to support missions.

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    Whether it's giving to the mission that's happening in the local church, or the missions that are happening beyond the walls of the church, like we talked about here.

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    That's how money should be spent.

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    But based on the way that some people, and maybe it's you, you know, and God knows, But based on the way that some people spend their money, they act like they don't think Jesus is returning and they act like we ain't leaving the earth either.

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    That this is just how it's always going to be forever.

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    That's what James talked about in this chunk.

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    We could spend a sermon series on this, but James says you're storing up stuff.

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    You're taking advantage of people.

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    You're living in self-indulgence.

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    excuse me, you're even oppressing people in court.

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    You're living a life consumed by serving money to the point of harming others.

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    And James is giving a warning to people that do that.

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    But for those who are suffering at the hands of someone else, whether it's the rich people mentioned here or any reason you're suffering at the hands of someone else.

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    James also gives a reminder in this passage that God's gonna deal with them.

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    Did you see that?

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    He says, "Miseries are coming." He says, "The cries of the harvester have reached God's ears." He says, "You've fattened your heart in a day of slaughter." He says, you know, God's gonna deal with the people that hurt and oppress others.

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    God's gonna deal with them.

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    And before we start the condemnation, I'd like to remind you that we all deserve God's wrath.

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    Because we all have wicked hearts by nature, we're born with that.

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    But see, the glory of the gospel is that when you receive Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, he gives you a new heart.

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    But some people, like the people James is talking about here, some people that haven't received Christ still have the wicked heart.

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    So I'd like to remind you, you know, when it's hard to be patient with people, that people who haven't been changed by Jesus act like people who haven't been what?

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    by Jesus, right?

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    Lost people act like lost people.

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    That's the first thing you need to say to yourself.

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    If you're gonna lose patience with someone, maybe someone who doesn't know the Lord, say, "Hey, hey, hey, lost people act like lost people." All right, second thing, number two, this is one that I say to myself multiple times a day, truly, and you've heard me say this before.

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    You'll hear me say this, until I'm with the Lord, things won't always be as they are now.

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    That's the second thing to say to yourself when you're losing your patience with people.

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    Things won't always be as they are now.

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    Look at verse seven.

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    He says, "Be patient therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord." See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient about it until it receives the early and the late rains.

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    Stop there.

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    You know, that's a great thing about all these troubles, whether it's troubled circumstances or troubled people.

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    Great thing about all these terrible things that we endure in life on earth is it makes us long for the return of Jesus.

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    And here in this section, James doesn't give us some eschatological timeline.

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    He doesn't give us some like breakdown of end time events, nothing specific.

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    James just gives us the simple, beautiful truth that Jesus is coming.

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    He says it twice here.

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    And it's a reminder for us, things won't always be as they are now.

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    So, we wait.

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    He talks about the farmer.

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    You know, people always talk about farming as being hard work.

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    Is it though?

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    Is it really that hard?

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    Because a lot of farming is waiting.

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    And a lot of farming is trusting God to bring the rain.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    And I do need to make it abundantly clear that that was a joke about farming not being hard work.

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    I don't want Jesse to wreck me after service.

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    Like, "What'd you say about farmers?" Like, oh boy.

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    Get a hospital bed beside Cade.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    Farming is incredibly hard work.

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    But at the same time, it's waiting and trusting.

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    Incredibly hard work and waiting and trusting.

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    Incredibly hard work and waiting and trusting.

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    Does that sound like anything?

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    Farming sounds a lot like our walk with Christ.

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    We work hard, don't we?

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    We work hard, but a lot of what we're doing in the church is waiting on his return and trusting him to do what only he can do in the meantime.

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    So what does the farmer do while he waits?

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    Does he procrastinate?

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    Like, you know what, the rains ain't coming for a while.

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    I got all the time in the world.

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    No, no, farmers don't do that.

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    Do farmers complain?

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    Like, oh, stupid cow, stupid seed, stupid barn.

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    No, no.

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    What does the farmer do?

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    He stays on it every day, on it every single day.

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    The harvest is coming.

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    I got to do everything that I can now because I know that the harvest is coming.

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    Yet too often in the church, procrastinate and complain is what we do.

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    We procrastinate.

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    Like, yeah, I'll get to it.

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    I'll get to it.

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    You know, I know I'm supposed to be baptized in response to receiving Christ.

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    I'll get to that someday.

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    Maybe not the next baptism service or the one after that, but maybe someday.

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    We procrastinate.

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    Or serving.

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    Yeah, I know they need help in the kids' ministry, and someday I'm gonna get involved in that.

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    Call me in August or whatever.

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    We procrastinate like we have all the time in the world.

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    Or we complain, right?

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    We complain, we complain about people.

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    I'm so sick of, you know, my marriage is miserable and I hate my neighbors and my boss is a jerk.

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    Do you believe that our best days are ahead of us?

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    Well, can we not be patient with people until then?

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    We don't like waiting though.

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    We don't like waiting.

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    You know what Tom Petty said about waiting?

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    We don't like waiting.

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    You know, our family's planning, if the Lord wills, like that call back, we're planning a vacation.

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    We'd love to go to Universal Studios in Florida.

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    Have you ever been there?

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    It's a theme park.

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    Have you ever been to any theme park?

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    Kennywood, Cedar Point?

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    We love that.

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    But you know, I was thinking about that this week as we're making our plans and if the Lord wills.

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    When you go to these theme parks, you have 90 minutes of waiting for a 90 second ride.

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    And while you're standing there in line, in the little maze, right?

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    There's hundreds of people in line.

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    But you know, they're not complaining.

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    Everyone in the maze is willing to wait because they know that something amazing is coming after they wait, right?

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    And you know, I got to thinking, shouldn't we be so willing to wait because our situation's opposite?

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    At the theme park, you wait a long time for a little, yay!

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    But you see, for us as followers of Christ, we're waiting a little bit of time for eternal glory in the presence of our Lord.

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    Shouldn't we be so willing to wait?

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    And I think that's why Paul said in Romans 8, 18, not about universal, but he said, he said, "For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing to the glory that is to be revealed to us." Verse eight in James five, he says, "You also be patient, establish your hearts." That means prop yourself up with this truth.

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    He says, "For the coming of the Lord is at hand." It's at hand.

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    The coming of the Lord is at hand.

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    It's right on the edge.

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    And if you just slow down and listen and quiet yourself, sometimes I'm convinced that you can hear Jesus going to the barn and getting the horse ready.

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    We are right on the edge.

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    Jesus might return today.

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    So can you be patient with people for one day?

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    For one day, for one day, can you be patient with people?

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    And if he doesn't come today, and if you do get tomorrow, can you make the same plan?

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    One day, one day at a time.

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    So when we're tempted to lose our patience with people, Hey, lost people act like lost people and things will not always be as they are now.

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    All right, number three, five things to say to yourself when you're losing your patience with people.

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    Number three, don't forfeit your rewards.

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    Don't forfeit your rewards.

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    He says in verse nine, do not grumble against one another brothers.

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    Stop there for a second, grumbling.

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    Grumbling not just against the person causing you problems, it's grumbling at anyone and everyone.

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    And some people just won't stop grumbling about people.

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    We know people like that.

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    If you stand still for longer than seven seconds, they're going to start grumbling to you about people.

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    And look, maybe you are that person.

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    And I don't mean this callously, because it's easy to grumble when you feel betrayed.

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    It's easy to grumble when you feel abandoned, but it's sin.

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    Not only is it sinful, which is the main thing that settles the issue, but a secondary problem is you sort of turn into an Eeyore or a Debbie Downer and you're miserable to everyone, even people that are trying to help you, even people in your small group that love you and want to lift you up and pray for you and all you want to do is complain about people.

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    You know, my boss this and my spouse that, you're not gonna believe what this family member said to me.

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    And we get into grumbling mode.

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    Do you need some motivation to stop grumbling?

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    Look at the rest of verse nine.

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    He says, "Do not grumble against one another, brothers, "so that you may not be judged.

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    "Behold, the judge is standing at the door." The judge is standing at the door and he hears every word you say, and you're gonna be judged.

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    And you're like, oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, hang on a second.

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    I thought if I put my faith in Christ that I'm not going to be judged.

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    You won't be judged for your sin.

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    That's true.

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    Jesus, when you believe in Jesus, he takes away your sin.

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    You will never be judged for your sin.

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    There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.

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    That is absolutely true.

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    You will never be judged for your sin.

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    That is absolutely true.

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    But the Bible also says that your works will be judged and you will be rewarded based on your works.

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    That's a whole nother sermon series.

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    Just write down 1 Corinthians 3, 2 Corinthians 5.

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    You're gonna be judged on the way you conduct yourself for rewards.

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    Look at what John says, this is in 2 John, verse eight.

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    He says, "Watch yourselves so that you may not lose what we have worked for, but may win a full reward." And James here says, "The judge who has your reward is about to come through the door, listening to every word that you say, so don't forfeit your reward by sinning." And grumbling really is probably the easiest way to sin.

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    So do you want a full reward?

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    Well, when you're tempted to grumble, when you're tempted to lose your patience with people or express your lack of patience with people, just stop and say to yourself, hey, you know, no, no, I'm not gonna grumble because I don't wanna lose any reward.

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    Number four, four things to say to yourself when you're tempted to lose your patience with people.

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    Number four, faithful people are patient.

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    Look at verse 10.

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    He says, "As an example of suffering and patience, brothers, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord." Like what does suffering and patience look like?

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    He says, look at the prophets.

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    Get in your Bible, read.

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    How these faithful men and women from the Old Testament, he's talking about specifically here, were patient with suffering, specifically suffering with people.

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    We talked about this in Hebrews 11, not too awful long ago, but they all went through it.

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    but it helps us to have an example to look to.

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    It helps us.

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    You know, one of my favorite examples to look to, this is an Old Testament, this is a New Testament, Acts chapter 14.

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    I love the passage.

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    We went through Acts years ago, and I'm sure you remember this sermon.

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    You're like, "Oh yeah, I remember that sermon." No, you don't.

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    Thanks for trying.

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    But Acts chapter 14, I love this passage.

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    Paul was stoned.

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    They tried to execute Paul via pelting with rocks.

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    And as he laid there in a pile of his own blood and misery, his buddies were standing around looking at him.

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    They thought he was dead.

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    The Bible says he got up and he went right back to work.

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    And he said, it is through many tribulations you must enter the kingdom of God.

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    I love that passage because it's convicting to me.

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    For all the times in my life that I'm like, "Oh, boo hoo, somebody said something mean to me.

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    "I'm gonna quit ministry.

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    "I'm gonna quit being a pastor "because somebody sent me an email that was mean." I look at Paul and I'm like, Like Jeff, stop your crying.

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    Like nobody's ever tried to do that to me.

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    I mean, the day's early, but nobody's tried to do that to me.

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    There's so many examples.

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    Oh man, there's so many examples.

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    We can talk about Joseph, right?

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    His brothers were gonna kill him.

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    Instead, they faked his death.

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    They sold him into slavery and then things really got rough.

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    We can talk about Moses.

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    Oh gosh, Moses, Israel was constantly complaining and undermining him.

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    We can talk about Jeremiah, threatened, put in stocks, thrown into a pit.

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    How about the best person ever to speak in the name of the Lord?

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    Number one, no equal, Jesus Christ and his example.

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    Did Jesus ever deal with problem people?

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    Did Jesus ever encounter someone that gave him a hard time?

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    So you see, when you're misunderstood, like Jesus gets that.

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    And when you're betrayed, Jesus gets that.

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    When you're abandoned, Jesus gets that.

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    When you've been slandered, Jesus gets that.

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    When you've been misquoted, Jesus gets that.

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    If you've been physically assaulted, Jesus gets that because they nailed him to a cross.

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    So I just wanna encourage you, my friends, to be in the word, be in the word, because not only will you grow your faith, because faith comes by hearing, hearing through the word of Christ, but you'll also see examples of other people who love the Lord and learned patience because of problem people.

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    And maybe you'll also discover that you're not the first to have to deal with problem people.

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    And maybe you'll discover that others have had to deal with things way worse than you.

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    So, are you faithful?

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    And I imagine everyone here is like, I wanna be.

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    Well, when you're dealing with problem people, remind yourself, hey, hey, hey, faithful people are patient.

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    Faithful people are patient.

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    Then number five, finally, patience is good for me.

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    Patience is good for me.

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    Look at verse 11.

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    He says, "Behold, we consider those blessed "who remain steadfast." That Greek word for consider, he says, "We consider those blessed who remain steadfast." Consider, that Greek word means common opinion, meaning, look, it's a universal truth.

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    People who endure are blessed, and we all get that, right?

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    We all get that.

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    Everyone, everyone, literally, literally everyone gets that.

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    The people that endure hardship are blessed, everyone.

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    No one, no one, no one is ever like, "Man, did you see that guy?

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    He endured such terrible hardship, and he never complained and he came out the other side.

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    What a loser.

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    Nobody says that.

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    Nobody.

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    Now we admire the one that overcomes, right?

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    We admire the one that overcomes.

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    Have you ever seen Rocky?

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    They made like a billion of them.

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    Have you seen any of them?

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    Rocky three was the best by the way, but have you ever seen any of them?

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    We love the overcomer, the guy that endures through suffering, the Karate Kid.

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    Are you kidding me?

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    Karate Kid Part Two is way underrated, but it's a story of somebody that overcame.

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    We love that.

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    Let me think of another example.

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    How about literally almost every single movie that's made?

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    True or false?

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    Think of a movie that's made that's not about somebody overcoming the odds and enduring suffering and coming out the other side.

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    So it's not a hard sell to say, you know, patience is good for me.

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    Look at the next part of verse 11.

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    And he says, "You have heard of the steadfastness of Job." He's like, "You've heard of Job.

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    "God permitted Satan to take Job's wealth, "his family, his health, "and all Job was left with was his wife and his buddies.

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    "And that weren't great, if you know the story." He was so steadfast that he became a cliche.

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    I mean, we say that.

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    I say that phrase all the time.

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    Like, man, that guy's got the patience of Job.

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    If you met her, she got the patience of Job.

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    He's a cliche.

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    Like, well, how did he get there?

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    I mean, this is a whole nother sermon again, but how did he get there?

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    How did he get so steadfast?

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    Here's how Job 122 says, "In all this," in all his suffering, "Job did not sin or charge God with wrong." And literally that last phrase, charge God with wrong, literally is charge God with doing that which is empty.

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    That's how Job got so steadfast.

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    He said, "God does nothing empty.

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    Everything that God does has a purpose.

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    He believed that.

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    That's why he persevered.

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    He knew that God had a purpose.

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    And back to James here.

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    Oh, oh, speaking of, look at verse 11.

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    "And you have seen the purpose of the Lord." There it is.

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    "You have seen the purpose of the Lord." It's getting to the point, my friends, to say, look, God has a purpose.

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    And you might not know what the purpose is, but that doesn't mean that God doesn't have a purpose.

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    He does, He always has a purpose, even if we don't see it, or even if we might see it in a year or five years, or like Job, we might not ever fully understand on this side of heaven.

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    But God always has a purpose.

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    And anytime I share this, there's always somebody that's like, I'm so sick of hearing the Romans 8:28, God works all things for good.

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    What could God possibly be doing in my circumstances?

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    And my answer is, you'll see.

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    You'll see.

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    For Job, well, you get to the end of the book and he ended up getting twice as much as he lost, But that wasn't the biggest blessing.

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    The biggest blessing came when he said this, Job 42, 5.

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    Job said, "I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, "but now my eye sees you." And Job was saying, God, I understand you and I see you in hardship in a way that I never did when everything was great.

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    Trials allowed Job to see God's character.

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    You're like, well, what is God's character?

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    I'm glad you asked.

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    Last phrase in James, here it is.

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    "How the Lord is compassionate and merciful." That's what Job learned.

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    And through your patience, that's what you will learn.

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    Compassionate and merciful.

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    Another way of saying that literally is this, God feels and God cares.

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    You'll never know God's power until you're weak.

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    And you're never going to know that God is a Savior until you recognize that you need saved.

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    And you're never going to know that God feels and God cares until you're hurting.

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    So you can refuse to be patient with people and you can be bitter or you can be steadfast and experience God's compassion in a way that you wouldn't otherwise.

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    So needing patience is never fun, but growing in patience is always good for me.

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    Our worship team would make their way back.

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    In just a couple of moments, we're going to sing, and you're going to walk out the door, and you're going to run right into someone who will require patience, because God wants to know if you were listening today.

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    And if you were, and you believe what God said, and you're about to flip out over a stupid bagel, I want to encourage you to take a deep breath and say, I choose patience because lost people act like lost people.

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    I choose patience because things won't always be as they are now.

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    I'm going to choose patience, Jeff, Jeff, hey, hey, don't forfeit your rewards.

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    I choose patience because faithful people are patient, and I'm growing to be a faithful person.

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    And I choose patience because patience is good for me.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, Jesus said, "If you know these things, blessed are you.

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    if you do them.

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    And God, you know better than anyone the struggles that I've had in being patient with people.

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    And so much more over a bagel incident.

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    But God, I pray for myself, and I pray for my brothers and sisters here, for people that are watching this stream, are gonna be downloading this podcast later And listening to this, I pray, Father, that by the wisdom of your word, by the power of your Holy Spirit, that we would grow to be people who are patient with people.

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    We ask you, Father, manifest your grace in this area in our lives.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read James 5:1-11

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Do you struggle to be patient with people? What kinds of things do people do that require extra patience (no names!)?

  3. How is the Christian life like being a farmer, according to Jas 5:7?

  4. Which of these 5 reminders from James on how to be patient with people is the most helpful to you? Why?

  5. Which person from the Bible (besides Jesus Christ) do you find most inspiring to you in your walk with Christ? Why?

  6. How is patience ultimately a benefit for the one who has to show patience (Jas 5:11)?

Breakout
Pray for one another to be patient with people.

Intentional Faith: A "How To" Guide - How to Craft Your 5-Year Plan

Introduction:

Goal for 2024: I will - ___

How to Craft Your 5-Year Plan (James 4:13-17)

  1. You need to know what you Don't Know . (Jas 4:13-14)
    1. You don't know what is going to Happen tomorrow. (Jas 4:14a)

      Proverbs 27:1 - Do not boast about tomorrow, for you do not know what a day may bring.

    2. You don't know if you will Have a tomorrow. (Jas 4:14b)
  2. You need to stop the Self-Confidence . (Jas 4:15-16)

    Numbers 20:10-12 - Then Moses and Aaron gathered the assembly together before the rock, and he said to them, "Hear now, you rebels: shall we bring water for you out of this rock?" And Moses lifted up his hand and struck the rock with his staff twice, and water came out abundantly, and the congregation drank, and their livestock. And the LORD said to Moses and Aaron, "Because you did not believe in me, to uphold me as holy in the eyes of the people of Israel, therefore you shall not bring this assembly into the land that I have given them."

  3. You need to do whatever God says - ASAP . (Jas 4:17)
  4. You need to acknowledge God has the Final Say . (Jas 4:15)

    Acts 18:21 - I will return to you again if God wills.

    1 Corinthians 4:19 - I will come to you soon, if the Lord wills.

    1 Corinthians 16:5-7 - I will visit you after passing through Macedonia, for I intend to pass through Macedonia, and perhaps I will stay with you or even spend the winter, so that you may help me on my journey, wherever I go. For I do not want to see you now just in passing. I hope to spend some time with you, if the Lord permits.

    Philippians 1:20 - as it is my eager expectation and hope that I will not be at all ashamed, but that with full courage now as always Christ will be honored in my body, whether by life or by death.

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  • 00:40-00:49

    It's New Year's Eve and it's the magical time of year where we're making New Year's resolutions.

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    And I actually before we look at that I want us to look at some statistics regarding making New Year's resolutions.

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    All right. So I thought we could do it the boring way and I just read you the statistics.

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    Or we could do it the fun way.

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    Let's make it a game.

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    All right?

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    We're going to make it a game.

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    It's going to be a guessing game.

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    And everybody's going to participate.

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    All right?

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    If you're watching at home, you can participate too.

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    You're just going to have to speak extra loud.

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    All right?

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    So you're going to have to guess the percentage.

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    All right?

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    What percentage of US adults set New Year's resolutions every year?

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    Now, I'm gonna give you an opportunity in a second.

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    I want you to shout out an answer and whatever answer I hear the most clearly, which who knows what that'll be since my hearing is so bad, but whatever answer, I'll take it from there.

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    So percentage of US adults that set New Year's resolutions every year, shout out your guess.

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    I heard 68.

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    We're gonna go with that one.

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    All right, now we're gonna play card sharks, higher or lower.

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    Remember card sharks?

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    Some of you do.

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    Higher or lower?

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    Okay, how many people, show of hands, think that it's higher than 68% that set New Year's resolutions every year?

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    How many people think it's lower?

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    And you are correct, it is 38.5%.

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    And look, if you wanna argue these statistics, Erin actually found these and sent them to me, so you can talk to her about that.

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    Okay, percentage of young adults that make New Year's resolutions.

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    By the way, the biggest demographic that makes resolutions is the 18 to 34 bracket.

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    If you're in that bracket, you are in the group that has the highest percentage of people that make New Year's resolutions.

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    So do you want to guess the percentage of that demographic that makes New Year's resolutions every year?

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    guess? I heard 50. That's a safe one there. We can go either way, can't we, Bethany?

    03:06-03:17

    All right, so how many people think more than 50% of people 18 to 34 make New Year's resolutions? Who thinks it's higher? Okay, who thinks it's lower than 50%?

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    It is higher. It is 59%. Okay, what percentage of New Year's resolutions are are about exercising more.

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    The people that make the resolutions, what's the percentage of people that say, "I wanna exercise more in the new year." Shout out a guess.

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    I heard 65, we're gonna go with 65.

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    How many people think it's higher than 65?

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    How many people think it's lower than 65?

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    It is lower, it's 48%.

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    That's about half.

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    That's about half.

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    The rest of us are like, I'm just gonna sit on the couch and wait for Jesus to return.

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    Okay, percentage of people that quit in the first week.

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    In the first week.

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    Oh, how I admire your perseverance.

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    Percentage of people that quit in the first week.

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    Shout out a guess.

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    You have to do that again, I didn't hear anything.

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    I heard 80.

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    Okay, percentage of people that quit in the first week.

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    How many people think it's more than 80?

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    A few of you, how many people think it's less than 80?

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    There is hope for humanity, there's less than 80.

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    It is 23%.

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    But even then, come on, that's pretty bad.

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    One out of four made it the first week.

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    Okay, what's the percentage of people that make it past the first month?

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    Making it past the first month, shout out a guess.

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    10, I heard 10, first and clear, whoever that was.

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    That was perfect.

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    Okay, percentage of people that make it past the first month, who thinks it's more than 10%?

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    How many people think it's less than 10%?

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    It is 36%.

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    All right, here's the last one.

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    It's a big one.

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    I don't mean like the percentage is big, or is it?

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    I'm not leading you.

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    It's just a very interesting statistic to me.

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    It's percentage of people that successfully keep their New Year's resolutions.

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    That they keep them all year.

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    Percentage of people, they made it, and then at the end of the year, they're standing tall.

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    Shout out a guess.

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    I heard 12, did you say 12?

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    Okay, 12.

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    How many people think it's more than 12?

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    How many people think it's less than 12?

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    Yeah, you would be correct.

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    It is 9%.

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    That's actually a lot higher than I thought it was gonna be.

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    All right, on the top of your outline, goal for 2024, I want you to take a moment and write something down.

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    As you look forward to the new year, it's New Year's Eve, we're turning the calendar.

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    As you look forward to the new year, what goal do you have for this coming year?

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    And if you're like, I have more than one, just write down your biggest one, okay?

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    Or the one that came to your mind immediately.

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    Just write down a goal that you had, or have, excuse me, for 2024.

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    Now we all got plans.

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    and there's nothing wrong with making plans, but you can make plans in the wrong way.

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    And that's where we're going in the next section of James.

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    This is how to make your plans in a way that not only honors God, but acknowledges God in all things.

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    All right, so at the top of your outline, how to craft your five-year plan.

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    And I checked in the first service that the young people are still making their five-year plans.

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    I wasn't sure when I put this together if that was still a thing.

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    I remember when it was a thing, but I've been told it's still a thing, people making their five-year plans.

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    So if you're like, hey, I'm one of these hip youngsters making my five-year plan, well, you're in the right place because today we're going to let God's word show you how to make your five-year plan.

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    Number one, you need to know what you don't know.

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    You need to know what you don't know.

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    Look at verse 13.

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    He says, "Come now, you who say today or tomorrow "we will go into such and such town "and spend a year there and trade make a profit, stop there.

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    This phrasing would have been very familiar to the Jews in that day, because a lot of the Jews were businessmen who would travel and they would find strategic locations and they'd set up a business.

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    And in those days, it could take a year or more of executing.

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    So it was a long process.

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    And I know that's hard for us to understand because we live in a day, I mean, it happens to me all the time.

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    I'll be driving somewhere and it's like a field and I'll drive by that exact same address, like a week later, $5 generals right there.

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    I'm like, next to each other?

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    Yeah, next to each other.

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    But this business plan that we see here in verse 13 He's actually pretty good.

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    I mean, he has everything figured out.

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    Well, almost everything.

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    I mean, if you look at the business plan in verse 13, we have the when, today or tomorrow.

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    We have where, such and such town.

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    How, we'll spend a year there.

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    What, we're gonna trade, right?

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    And why, we have that figured out.

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    to make a profit, no problem with what's there at all.

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    The problem is what's missing.

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    It's the who.

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    You're gonna see this as we go through the text.

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    The problem with this business plan is God is nowhere mentioned in the plan.

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    You see, their sin was not engaging in business.

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    but their sin was they were counting on the future without any acknowledgement of God whatsoever.

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    And listen, planning is great.

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    I don't want anybody leaving here this morning going, "Okay, what I learned in church today "is it's a sin to make plans, so I'm not ever making plans." That is not the message at all.

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    Planning is great.

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    But, Making plans without acknowledging the sovereignty of God is presumptuous.

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    That's the message that James is driving home.

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    So first thing James tells us is you need to know what you don't know.

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    Like, wait a second, how can I know something that I don't know?

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    And I would say, right.

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    That's correct.

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    You're like, "Well, what don't I know?" You see, there's some things that you are unaware of that you need to realize that you are unaware of.

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    You need to know what you don't know.

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    The first thing you don't know is this, letter A, you don't know what is going to happen tomorrow.

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    Look at verse 14.

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    He says, "Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring." That's the first thing you need to know that you don't know is you don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow.

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    And his whole passage here, you have to think that James was thinking about Proverbs 27 one.

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    When he wrote this section, Proverbs 27 one says, do we have that one or did I not put that one on?

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    Oh, there we go, there.

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    It says, "Do not boast about tomorrow, "for you do not know what a day may bring." You see, the first problem with trying to plan without thinking of the Lord, you don't know what's going to happen tomorrow.

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    Life changes in an instant, doesn't it?

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    Think about that.

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    Whether it's more positive sounding things, life changes in an instant.

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    You know, your wife calls and says, "Hey, I was at the doctor and he confirmed I am pregnant." Life changes in an instant.

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    Or you get that call, "Hey, that promotion you put in for, "you're getting it and you're being transferred.

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    "You're gonna be working in Texas." What, why?

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    Life changes in an instant, doesn't it?

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    Also for the not so positive things, positive sounding things, you know, maybe it's, hey, I did have that doctor's appointment and they said it is cancer and it's fast spreading and they have to start treatment immediately.

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    Life changes in an instant.

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    Or, "Honey, I got a memo at work today.

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    "They're downsizing, they're eliminating my position.

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    "And I'm done." Life changes in an instant.

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    Or you get that phone call, "I'm so sorry to tell you, "there's been a terrible accident." Life changes in an instant.

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    James here has us stop and reflect on how well we are doing in the sovereignty department.

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    How's your sovereignty been?

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    My sovereignty has been lousy.

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    My sovereignty has been horrible.

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    There's so much in my life that I thought was gonna turn out one way, and it didn't, and I thought I could control it.

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    and I couldn't, and I look at the health of my son.

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    I look at even the life of this church.

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    I think back to winter of 2019, around the spring of 2020.

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    I remember the elders had all these plans.

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    We sat down, we had all these plans for the church, and then COVID hit, you remember COVID?

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    And that just completely changed everything.

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    My sovereignty hasn't been great.

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    And if you're honest, yours probably hasn't been either.

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    You don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow.

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    Another thing that you need to know that you don't know, the letter B, you don't know if you'll have it tomorrow.

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    How about that?

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    You don't know if you'll have it tomorrow.

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    Look at the rest of verse 14.

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    He says, "What is your life?

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    For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes." You don't know if you'll have it tomorrow.

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    Mist, right?

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    Like a cold day, you go outside and (blows) You see the vapor and it's gone.

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    And James reminds us that's our lives.

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    We are here and gone.

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    I had a funeral on Friday, two days ago, for a lady from my old church.

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    Her name was Marian, and 91 years old.

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    And they said she was extremely active all the way to the end.

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    She has an amazing family, great life.

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    She loved the Lord, had a strong faith.

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    Despite the hardship she faced, she was such an incredible testimony.

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    And I thought, you know, that's like storybook, honestly.

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    Lived to be in my 90s, active all the way up to the very end, surrounded by family.

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    But that's not the usual.

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    It's just not.

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    And James's point here is, hey, you can make plans for tomorrow and you don't know if you have it tomorrow.

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    So as you're putting your five-year plan together, you might wanna take note of that.

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    And you know, truthfully, it's a huge blessing to not know what's gonna happen, right?

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    Sometimes I think, boy, I'd really like to know what's gonna happen in my life or my family's life for the life of this church.

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    I just said that to Pastor Taylor a week or two ago.

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    I said, I'm so curious what God's gonna provide for this church, you know, facilities wise, as we're on that track.

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    And boy, there's sometimes I think I'd love to know.

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    But it's such a blessing that we don't.

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    Because think about it.

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    If you knew that in April, You are gonna land the dream job, the job that you've always wanted.

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    You would be discontent every day until then.

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    You'd be thinking, can't wait till April, can't wait till April, can't, and there's nothing wrong looking forward to stuff, but you would never enjoy the present.

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    You would never be like, what does God have for me here and now?

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    You'd be so fixated on that that you'd miss the blessing of today.

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    It's good that we don't know what's gonna happen.

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    Another, what if it's something not so good?

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    What if you knew for sure in April that one of your kids was gonna be in a terrible accident?

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    You would be so consumed with stress and worry and the anxiety every single day.

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    So we don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow, God does.

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    I think that's a blessing.

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    James says, "Hey, when you craft your five-year plan, "first of all, you need to know what you don't know.

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    "Secondly, you need to stop the self-confidence." Stop with the self-confidence.

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    Look at verses 15 and 16.

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    He says, "Instead, you ought to say, "If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that." We're gonna get back to that verse.

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    But I want us to look at for a couple of minutes here.

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    Look at verse 16.

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    James says, "As it is, you boast in your arrogance.

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    All such boasting is evil." Stop there.

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    Verse 16, that's the other side of the coin from the previous point.

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    You see, on one hand, thinking you're sovereign, making your plans without God, on one hand, you're ignoring God's plans for your life, but on the other, you're bragging about your own.

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    Now, this Greek phrasing here where he says, "Boast in your arrogance," it's literally this, "A loud mouth bragging about something he's not able to do." That's what that means.

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    A loud mouth bragging about something he's not able to do.

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    And I think back to the best illustration of this is like the old snake oil salesman.

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    You remember the snake oil salesman?

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    Be like, "Ladies and gentlemen, step right up here.

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    "Step right up here.

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    "We've got this magic tonic.

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    "You drink this, your hair will grow three feet "by the end of the week, guaranteed." You're like, "That can't possibly be true, but he sounds so sure of himself.

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    He's a loud mouth.

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    He's boasting about something that he can't do.

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    And that's exactly what James is saying here.

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    When you're like, well, I'm gonna do this, and I'm gonna do that, and I'm gonna do this.

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    He goes, you're no better than the snake oil guy.

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    You're boasting about something that you can't do.

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    You're self-confidently making your plans, and you never give this a thought.

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    What if God has a different plan for me?

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    You know, think about that.

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    What if I wanna do this, but what if God in his sovereignty says, "No, no, no, I have something different I want you to do." That thought just isn't even in your head.

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    And you're planning, here's the problem, you can't miss this, you're planning as if you're in charge.

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    And you have to see here, he says, all such boasting is, what does it say in verse 16?

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    Evil, all such boasting is evil.

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    I'm speaking of Greek.

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    That's the same word that's used to describe Satan.

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    It's exalting yourself above God.

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    All such boasting is exalting yourself above God.

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    Just stop here for a second.

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    Because I know right now, there are people here that are like, Pastor Jeff, I think you're laying it on a little thick.

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    I mean, is it really that bad?

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    Okay, so I make plans, and I don't always really stop and consider what the Lord might want for, is it really that big of a deal?

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    And I would say, first of all, God says it's a big deal.

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    Right?

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    You're like arrogant and evil.

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    Isn't that overstating the thing?

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    Like, it sounds pretty intense.

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    And I mean, when I think of sin, I think of like murder or like, you know, stealing from someone or like committing adultery.

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    Like those are the serious sins.

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    This seems like pretty minor leagues, doesn't it?

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    I mean, doesn't this seem kind of like what you're so fired up about?

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    And I'll be honest with you, I've been working on this sermon and studying this for a couple of weeks.

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    And that was one of the things that I kind of got fixated on.

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    Like arrogant and evil to do this.

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    Like this sounds like this is such a serious thing to God.

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    I'm like, why?

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    I mean, I see that it is, but why?

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    I spent a lot of time thinking about that.

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    And I was reminded of Numbers chapter 20.

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    A little quick flashback here.

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    Numbers chapter 20, Old Testament, Moses leading the Israelites out of Egypt to the land that God promised Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.

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    And you get to Numbers chapter 20, they end up at this place called Meribah, and there's no water.

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    And you know what Israel did whenever there was any kind of adversity.

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    Oh, you brought us out here to die, and there's no water, and we don't have any figs.

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    And I'm just like, what do the figs have to do with anything?

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    But that's what they said.

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    And so they start like losing it, right?

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    And the Bible says that Moses goes before the Lord and God says, okay, Moses, I'm paraphrasing this part.

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    We're gonna actually read the text here in a second.

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    But God says, all right, Moses, I want you to speak to the rock and it's gonna yield water.

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    All right, now pick up in verse 10 through 12.

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    It says, "Then Moses and Aaron gathered the assembly "together before the rock.

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    "And he said to them, 'Here now, you rebels, "'shall we bring water for you out of this rock?' "And Moses lifted up his hand "and struck the rock with his staff twice.

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    "And water came out abundantly.

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    "And the congregation drank and their livestock." Like the end, it says, "And the Lord said to Moses and Aaron, 'Because you did not believe in me, to uphold me as holy in the eyes of the people of Israel, therefore you shall not bring this assembly into the land that I've given them.'" So why did God disqualify Moses and Aaron from entering the promised land?

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    Now you see, there's some scholars that say it was purely over the method.

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    God said to speak and Moses struck the rock.

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    He didn't do it the way God said, and that's a fact.

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    Moses did not do it the way that God said.

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    I don't think that's the main issue.

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    And some people say, "Moses lost his temper.

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    "You know, he hit the rock twice." And I think that's part of it, but I don't even think that's the main issue.

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    Can we put those verses back up, please, for a second?

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    Thank you very much.

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    I think the text shows us what the issue is.

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    Look down, like third line up, what God says to Moses.

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    He says, oh, fourth line up, "Because you do not believe in me, "to uphold me as holy." Like, what was he talking about?

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    I want you to look again at what Moses said.

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    Look really close and see if you see a problem.

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    Moses said, "Here now, you rebels, "shall we bring water for you out of this rock?" Somebody tell me, what's the problem with that question?

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    You caught that right away, didn't you?

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    Problem, we, we, we.

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    What's this we stuff?

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    Moses says, "I have to keep giving you water?" And God's like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa.

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    Moses, you never did.

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    That was all God's power." But Moses did something that if we're honest, we tread there sometimes.

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    Moses put himself in the place of God.

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    That's why God said, "You didn't uphold me as only.

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    "You were supposed to say, 'Israel, God has all the power.

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    "'God gets all the glory.

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    "'All praise goes to God.' "And Moses, you stepped in that place "and said, 'Look what I'm doing for you.'" God says, "I won't have that." Who do you think you are taking credit for what only God can do?

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    Like, okay, what does that have to do with James and making plans?

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    I think it has everything to do with it, because there's the same principle at play here.

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    When you make plans without regarding God, you're acting just like Moses, trying to take the place of the sovereign.

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    And in essence, God is saying to you, when you make your plans without Him, God is saying to you, "Who do you think you are?

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    Oh, you're making your plans.

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    Oh, oh, are you sovereign?" asking in essence, you mean you can make and fulfill all your plans regardless of what I want?

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    The sovereign of the universe in charge of every second that passes, in charge of every molecule that exists, you're gonna make your plans and you're gonna fulfill them and I'm not gonna have any say over that?

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    Now do you see why James uses the word arrogant?

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    And I would suggest to you, church, That if God wasn't keen on Moses talking like he's God, then God's not going to be on board with you talking like you're God either.

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    So stop the self-confidence.

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    All right, crafting your five-year plan number three, you need to do whatever God says ASAP.

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    ASAP.

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    A-S-A-P, that's a hip new term.

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    It means as soon as possible.

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    New, it's new.

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    I heard it in a sermon I was listening to on my eight track.

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    You need to do whatever God says ASAP.

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    Look at verse 17.

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    So whatever, excuse me.

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    So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.

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    See, when we say sin, we think of doing the wrong thing, like lying and stealing, like that.

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    But sin is more than that.

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    Sin is also knowing what you need to do and just not doing it.

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    That's called a sin of omission.

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    Doing the wrong thing, that's a sin of commission.

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    Not doing the right thing is a sin of omission.

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    You're like, "Why is it in this context?" James is talking to people who know today what God wants them to do, and they presume on the future.

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    I'll do it later.

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    That's what he's talking about.

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    You know today exactly what God wants you to do.

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    I'll do it later.

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    I'll get to it.

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    And I think this is the type of sin that is so prevalent in the church.

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    Knowing what you need to do and just not doing it.

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    You know, there are people sitting in church, they're saying, "You know, I'm gonna repent.

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    "I realized I shouldn't be doing this, "and I'm gonna repent.

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    "Repentance is the right thing, "and I'm gonna do it tomorrow." Or, "You know, I'm involved in this relationship.

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    "I shouldn't be in this relationship.

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    "I know it's wrong.

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    "It's wrong for me, it's wrong for the other person.

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    "It's a wrong relationship that I'm in, "and I'm gonna break it off tomorrow." I need to stop wasting time.

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    So much of my time is just spent with meaningless time-wasting activities, and I'm gonna be more intentional about glorifying God with the way I spend my time, "I'm gonna get to that tomorrow." Or you say, "I'm gonna get more serious "about my walk with the Lord.

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    "I realize prayer is important "and I haven't been praying like I need to, "and I'm gonna carve out time, make prayer a priority, "and I'm gonna make time in the Word a priority, "and you know what, starting tomorrow, It's gonna be a whole new way of living for me.

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    Tomorrow, new leaf and all that.

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    I'm gonna start giving to the church.

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    I really haven't been, but you know what?

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    It's all God's and God promised to bless it and it's an act of obedience.

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    I'm gonna, tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow I'm gonna start giving.

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    Wait, I don't get paid tomorrow.

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    paycheck I'm gonna start giving.

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    Or, you know, I know as the church is growing and there are so many kids back there and needs on the worship team and security and hospitality and facility, there's just so many areas.

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    I'm gonna step up tomorrow.

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    See, that's a sin.

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    to sin when you know exactly what God wants you to do, and you know exactly what God wants you to do, and you say, "I'll get to it tomorrow.

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    "You know, when I start my diet, I'm gonna get to it." Putting off what God wants you to do is sin, and when God brings some point of obedience to your mind, you need to get on that.

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    ASAP.

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    Right, ASAP.

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    You know, we pray in the Lord's prayer, our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come.

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    What's the next part?

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    They will be done.

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    Okay, they will be done.

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    And then what's the next phrase?

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    How's that go?

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    On earth as it is in heaven.

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    How do you think God's will is done in heaven?

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    How do you think it's done?

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    Do you think God ever says to an angel, "Hey, assignment, this is exactly what I need you to do." And the angel's like, "Yeah, sorry, Almighty.

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    "I have a lunch appointment "and I'm gonna book the rest of the day.

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    "Actually, this whole week's not good.

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    "How about next Thursday?" Do you think that happens ever?

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    Do you?

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    Of course not.

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    When God says, "Hey, this needs done," the angel's like, "Poof, gone." Do you realize that's what we're praying for when we say your will be done on earth as it is in heaven?

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    That when God tells you to do something, you should be on it like the angel.

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    Okay, now, I'll get on it right now.

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    I read a few years ago, I read this sermon from Charles Spurgeon.

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    And this just always stuck with me.

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    He was speaking of a recently deceased friend of his.

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    He had a friend, his name was William Olney, O-L-N-E-Y.

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    But listen to what Charles Spurgeon said about his friend who had just passed.

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    Spurgeon said, "His life cannot be said to be unfinished.

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    All is finished as if he knew he was going to die.

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    Spurgeon said, this man died as if he knew he was gonna die right then.

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    So he made sure he finished everything in his life.

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    Everything was done.

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    And I gotta tell you, the first place I looked was at myself to say, could that be said about me?

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    Now it's your turn.

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    Could that be said about you?

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    If this was your last day on earth, and it could be, if this was your last day on earth, would we look at your life and say, you know what?

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    She lived like she knew this was coming and everything is finished.

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    Or are there going to be a lot of loose ends?

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    Like, wow, wow.

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    She so is not ready for this.

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    Are there any broken relationships in your life that you need to reach out to?

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    Maybe you need to send a text, give a call.

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    Don't leave it unfinished.

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    Is there someone maybe that you took advantage of that you need to make restitution to.

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    Don't leave anything unfinished.

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    Is there some kind of addiction that you just need to like, no, it's over, done.

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    Bottle of something that needs to be dumped down the drain.

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    Do you need to cry out to Jesus for the salvation that he gives.

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    There's people that are sitting here and there's people I'm sure watching this stream that are church goers but not Christ believers, not born again Jesus disciples.

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    And listen, we talk about making plans.

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    It doesn't, nothing you do matters until you do that.

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    You realize that.

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    The most important thing you will ever do is bow your knee to Jesus Christ, to believe that he died to take away your sin.

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    He rose from the dead to give you eternal life.

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    That's the most important thing that needs to happen.

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    Like, yeah, I'm gonna get serious about him.

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    You gotta do that today.

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    Because James says you put it off, that's sin.

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    It's sin.

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    So we're sitting here today talking about the five-year plan.

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    You know what, forget the five-year plan.

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    Maybe we need to think about our five-minute plan.

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    What do I need to do in the next five minutes?

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    And whatever you know that God wants you to do, get on that ASAP, right?

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    And number four, finally, you need to acknowledge God has the final say.

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    We're gonna go back to verse 15.

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    Because really this is the whole thing, right?

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    This is the crux of the matter here.

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    Verse 15, look at it again.

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    Instead, here it is.

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    Instead, you ought to say, "If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that." So that your plans for 2024, the thing you wrote on the top of your outline here, your plans.

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    When you wrote that down, how much did you stop and consider, what does God want me to do?

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    Did you think about that when you wrote that down?

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    Like, what does God want?

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    Because the believer, the Christ follower lives by this.

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    God is at the center of all my plans.

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    And we have to live with a constant commitment to the contingency of the will of God.

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    We have to live church like, hey, we're making plans, but if God changes the plans or God has a different idea than I did, we're going with his, because God has the final say.

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    Paul got this, real quick, real quick.

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    Paul got this, you see this, Acts 18, 21, as he was leaving Ephesus, he says, "I will return to you again if God wills." 1 Corinthians 4, 19, "I will come to you soon if the Lord wills." 1 Corinthians 16, verses five through seven, look at how he talks about his travel plans.

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    He definitely wrote in pencil, not pen.

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    But he says, "I will visit you after passing through Macedonia, for I intend to pass through Macedonia and perhaps will stay with you or even spend the winter, so that you may help me on my journey wherever I go.

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    For I do not wanna see you now just in passing, I hope to spend some time with you, if the Lord permits.

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    See that?

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    That we should be a people of conviction that my life is in God's hands.

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    And I can say, you know what, I hope to do this, and I plan to do this, but if God and his providence and his sovereignty changes the plan, I'm doing that instead, because God has the final say.

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    And really any plans that we make should be about God's glory, right?

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    Anything we do should be about God's glory.

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    And if our lives take a detour from what we planned, well, then that must be from God, and our goal's still the same, to give God the glory.

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    So, if our worship team would make their way forward, we gotta watch the expectations, my friends.

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    We gotta watch the expectations because we get so flustered.

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    Say, yeah, I was planning on doing this and I wanted to do that and I'm frustrated because I was expecting this.

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    But you realize, biblically, we should only have one expectation.

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    One expectation, it's Philippians 1.20.

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    You need to carry this expectation with you.

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    Like, what are you expecting today?

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    Like Paul, as it is, my eager expectation and hope that I will not be at all ashamed, but with full courage, now as always, Christ will be honored in my body, whether by life or by death.

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    Like, what are you expecting, Paul?

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    What are you expecting?

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    He's like, I'm not gonna be ashamed.

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    But whether I live or whether I die, whatever happens, may Jesus Christ be honored through me.

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    So your 2024 plans, whatever you wrote here, it's bad planning.

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    Whatever you wrote.

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    And you're like, "Jeff, that was kind of jerky.

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    "Like you told us to write that, "then you tell us that we did it wrong." True, you're right.

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    But it was to teach you a lesson.

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    And here's the lesson.

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    What you got to do now is write right underneath that, if the Lord wills.

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    Now it's correct.

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    and you live by that conviction.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, I guess I'm guilty.

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    I don't think of this as being such a big deal, but you do.

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    And how many times, Father, have I said thoughtlessly what about my plans without considering what do you want me to do?

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    Whether it's just the agenda for the day or ministry plans or vacation plans or whatever.

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    I think it's so flustered when it doesn't happen the way I want.

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    This is a big deal.

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    God, thank you for all the reminders that I'm not sovereign, but you are.

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    And God, I pray for my brothers and sisters here, that as we draw near to you, we would grow in our trust.

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    Whatever you want, whatever you want us to do, or more accurately, I guess, whatever you wanna do through us, may we approach every aspect of our lives, in our homes, in our workplaces, in our church, let us approach all of it, all of our planning.

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    by saying, "If the Lord wills, this is what we'll do." We pray in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read James 4:13-17

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Did you make a 2024 New Year’s Resolution? What are some resolutions you made in the past?

  3. Is James saying it is wrong to make plans? Why or why not?

  4. Explain why making plans apart from God is “arrogant” and “evil” (Jas 4:16). Why is this such a serious sin?

  5. Is there anything you know God wants you to do, but you’ve been putting it off? What is keeping you from obeying God today?

Breakout
Pray for one another to make your 2024 plans in the way that acknowledges God in all things.

Jesus' Christmas Presence: An Example - He Gives a New Attitude

Introduction:

4 Things the Incarnation Teaches Us About Selflessness (Philippians 2:5-11):

  1. Selflessness starts in the Mind . (Phil 2:6)
  2. Selflessness is a matter of Identity . (Phil 2:7)
  3. Selflessness shows up in Action . (Phil 2:8)
  4. Selflessness leads to Glory . (Phil 2:9-11)

    Matthew 23:12 - Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.

    Luke 14:11 - For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.

    Luke 18:14 - For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.

    1 Peter 5:6 - Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you,

    James 4:10 - Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.

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    Open up your Bibles with me, please, to Philippians chapter 2.

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    And if you don't have a Bible with you, you can use one in the seat back.

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    If you don't have a Bible at home, you can keep that one.

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    And if the print's too small in that one, which I think it is, we have larger print Bibles on that shelf in the back.

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    You can have one of those, consider that our present to you.

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    Romans chapter 2.

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    It is Christmas time.

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    It's a magical time of year, isn't it?

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    It's a time when we really, maybe more than any other time in the year, we think of others over ourselves, right?

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    Don't we do that at Christmas especially?

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    We think of others over ourselves?

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    I mean, except when you're like at the mall and you're about to pull into that parking spot, right?

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    And that jerk pulls in ahead of you, you know what I'm talking about?

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    And you're like, I was sitting here with my turn signal on.

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    You didn't see me, but you went right in there.

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    Other than that, we're pretty good about being selfless, aren't we?

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    I mean, except when the church doesn't play the right songs that we think they should.

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    I have a pastor friend who served at a church up in Canada that every year for generations, they closed their service with that song, Feliz Navidad.

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    You know the one I'm talking about?

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    You know that horrible, horrible, horrible song?

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    ♪ I wanna wish you a Merry Christmas ♪ You know that song?

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    Well, one year the pastor was like, you know what, let's do something a little different so we don't get stuck in like some traditional rite.

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    There was like rioting in the aisles and there were tears and sackcloth and ashes and threats and like really over that song?

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    But I mean, other than that, we're pretty selfless this time of year, right?

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    Well, except when we give somebody a gift and we don't quite get the thank you that we were expecting.

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    Has that happened to anybody else?

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    You make this big presentation, you wrapped it all nice, and you're expecting, it doesn't have to be a ticker tape parade, but come on, something, and you give the gift and they just kind of take it and they're like, oh, thanks, that's nice.

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    You're like, no, it's more than nice.

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    But I mean, other than that, we're pretty selfless and we think of others over ourselves, right?

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    Well, I guess also, except for when we put the decorations away, for some of us, it'll be tomorrow we put them away.

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    And for some of us, it'll be June when you get your Christmas decorations away And you feel like, well, maybe Christmas wasn't what I wanted it to be.

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    Maybe it was a bit of a letdown.

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    And I think if we're all going to be honest with ourselves, we should confess that really, by nature, even this time a year, we still get stuck being pretty self-centered.

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    my way, my rights.

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    Or as we had one adopted grandma, her saying was always, I don't prefer that.

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    Or we say that offends me, right?

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    Well, self-centeredness is a miserable way to live.

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    in the home, it's miserable in the workplace.

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    And self-centeredness causes all kinds of problems in the church.

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    We talked about that, we're going through the book of James and we saw this in James chapter four.

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    There's fights, there's quarrels, there's even murder that takes place because people are selfish and insist on getting what they want, how they want it, when they want it.

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    They're like, "Well, how do I fix that?

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    How can I stop being so self-absorbed?" Well, look at Philippians chapter two.

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    Looking at, we'll pick up in verse two.

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    He says, "Complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord, excuse me, and of one mind." Here it is, verse three, he says, "Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.

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    Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others." There's your solution.

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    If you struggle sometimes as I do with being self-centered, there's your answer right there.

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    What you need to do is just simply consider other people as being more important than you.

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    That's it.

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    That's a sermon, you can go.

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    Merry Christmas.

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    If you're like, "Hang on, hang on, hang on." That's a nice thought.

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    But how in the world do I live that out?

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    How can I, it's easier said than done.

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    You know, I've tried that and it lasts like, you know, 15 seconds.

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    How do I consider other people more important than me?

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    How can I truly live a selfless lifestyle?

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    Well, you know, the very next thing that Paul talks about here is the incarnation.

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    He talks about the truth that God Almighty became a man.

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    And in our vernacular today, we would say that Paul goes right into the Christmas story.

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    You see, it's a story of promise.

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    The Christmas story is a story of miracle.

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    It's a story of hope.

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    Ultimately, as Pastor Taylor preached last week, it's a story of salvation.

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    But this Christmas, I want you to see that there's something more for us.

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    That the story of Christmas, the story of God becoming a man, is also the example of selflessness.

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    Look at verse five.

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    He says, "Have this mind among yourselves." This mind, we're like, what mind?

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    We already talked about that, considering others more important than yourselves, looking over the interests of others.

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    You're like, man, where do I get that mind?

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    Where do I get that mindset?

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    Well, look at verse five.

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    He says, "Which is yours in Christ Jesus." If you are a follower of Jesus Christ, if you are a born again believer, I have great news for you.

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    You already have this mind.

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    You have the mind of Christ because you have the Holy Spirit.

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    And Paul here is calling us to imitate the selflessness of Christ that was on display in the incarnation.

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    So if you're taking notes, which I always encourage you to do, four things the incarnation teaches us about selflessness.

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    I was originally gonna call this, have yourself a selfless little Christmas.

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    And I'm like, they're never gonna go for that.

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    Gonna be dignified.

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    So we're going to say, four things the incarnation teaches us about selflessness.

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    Number one, write this down.

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    You wanna be selfless like Jesus?

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    Selflessness starts in the mind.

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    I want you to look at this verse six.

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    He says, talking about Jesus, who though he was in the form of God did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped.

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    Stop there.

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    It says he was in the form of God.

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    That's not something lesser.

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    That's not saying that Jesus resembled God.

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    The literal Greek here means that Jesus had the very essence of God.

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    Jesus is by nature God.

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    That's what the original language means.

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    And this speaks to from where Jesus' humiliation began as God.

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    You see, Jesus being God went from the throne of heaven to baby in a manger.

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    And I'm not sure we can fully wrap our brains around that experience.

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    I was trying to think of some examples to illustrate this.

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    And to be honest with you, I really, I couldn't think of anything of this magnitude.

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    I thought, well, like for ladies, what if you're like the queen of England and then you become a street urchin?

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    I'm sorry, that doesn't offend anybody, does it?

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    Like, Pastor Jeff, my aunt is a street urchin and quite frankly, she doesn't prefer that term.

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    Or like, okay, that didn't work.

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    Or I was thinking like for guys, like what if you went from starting pitcher for the New York Yankees to third string pitching coach for the Pine Richland Little League Peewee team.

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    And I just couldn't think of a good example to really embrace this concept that God Almighty became a baby.

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    And then I started thinking, how could he be okay with this?

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    To go from such an exalted position, such a lofty position to being a baby.

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    How could he be okay with that?

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    Well, here we have our answer.

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    It started in his mind.

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    Notice it says, he did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped.

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    You see, Jesus would have had every right to demand that people treat Him as God, because He is.

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    But Jesus said, "You know, if letting go of that privilege is going to help people, And that's not something that I need to hold on to.

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    In Jesus' mind, he didn't feel the need to tightly cling to all of the privileges that come with being God.

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    And my friends, if you're going to humble yourself, if you're truly going to be selfless like you want to think you are, like Jesus, it has to start in your mind.

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    You have to get to the place where you have made up in your mind that you do not have to insist on your rights.

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    You have to get to the place in your mind like Jesus that you're not too important to stoop down and help somebody in need.

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    And that's so counter to our flesh where we're constantly worried about my rights and what do I deserve?

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    And I can't believe you asked me to do that.

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    You asked me to scrub the bathroom here?

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    Do you realize who I am?

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    I'm the pastor of the church.

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    And you know who I am?

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    That mindset needs to change.

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    To, well, you know, if God was willing to become a man there's no title that I could ever have that puts me above helping people, right?

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    So selflessness starts in the mind.

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    You gotta reconsider some things.

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    Number two, selflessness is a matter of identity.

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    Look at verse seven.

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    Again, you can barely wrap your brain around this.

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    It says, "But Jesus God made himself nothing, "taking the form of a servant, "being born in the likeness of men." So you see this train of thought here.

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    The way Jesus thought determined the way Jesus saw himself.

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    You see that?

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    It says he made himself nothing or he emptied himself.

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    That's not subtraction, okay?

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    It's not like Jesus stopped being God for a while.

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    That's not what that means.

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    It does mean that he saw himself in a new identity.

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    Notice it says, "Taking the form of a servant or a slave." You see the change of identity?

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    Jesus said, "I am the King of heaven." And in the incarnation, he says, "I am a servant." Like, well, how far did he take that?

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    It says he was born in the likeness of men.

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    Jesus Christ in the incarnation totally identified with us as human beings.

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    People thought of Jesus in form no different than a regular man.

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    And see, that's the mystery of Christmas.

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    That somehow Jesus is fully God and fully man at the same time.

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    That God emptied himself of his glory to be confined to a human body.

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    So you see the way Jesus thought determined the way Jesus saw himself.

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    First a negative and then a positive.

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    He says, "I don't need to demand my rights and privileges.

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    I do see myself as a slave." And again, the point in writing this is an example for us, that we need to see ourselves as servants.

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    You know, it's a tough sell to the world because the way the kingdom works, the way God works is always opposite of the way the world works.

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    It's always opposite.

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    Like if I said to you, like who's the, like who has the most glory on earth?

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    Who is the most important person on earth?

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    Who's the greatest person on earth?

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    Well, the world would start to think in terms of who has the most people serving him, right?

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    Who has the biggest payroll, the biggest staff employees, like who is that?

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    And that's how we determine greatness.

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    But Jesus said, "The greatest among you, will be the servant of all.

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    And I heard one preacher say this, and I love this.

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    He said, "You won't know if you're a servant "until you're treated like one." And I thought about that this week, and I thought, you know, what if we had our ushers, our hospitality team, what if that we gave them a stack of those stickers that say, hello, my name is, and what if they took one of them stickers and just wrote slave on it?

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    Hello, I'm a slave.

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    And when you came in here, they lovingly and good Christian love, they slapped that sticker on your chest and you walked around indicating to everybody that you are a slave.

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    And then people started treating you that way.

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    They see your name tag.

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    Oh, okay, hey, would you give me some coffee?

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    Oh, hey, I left something in the car.

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    Here, go fetch it for me.

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    And then have her washed and waxed.

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    How would you feel if somebody was treating you like a slave?

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    And you see there's something in us that's like, whoa, whoa, whoa, no, no, no, no.

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    I'm not a slave, I'm nobody's slave.

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    That's beneath me.

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    And here we see in this passage that that wasn't how Jesus saw himself.

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    Jesus saw himself as, you know, I'm going to step off the throne of heaven to wash the feet of my disciples.

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    And if Jesus was so willing, what job is beneath you?

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    What job is beneath me?

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    because a servant only thinks about one thing, and that's serving the master.

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    Do you see yourself as a servant of God?

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    Four things the incarnation teaches us about selflessness.

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    Number three, selflessness shows up in action.

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    Look at verse eight.

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    It says, "The being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient point of death, even death on a cross.

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    Again, follow this way of thinking because we're told to model that, we're told to follow this example that Jesus modeled for us rather.

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    But you see this line of thinking, Jesus' way of thinking determined the way Jesus saw himself and that determined what Jesus actually did.

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    Did you see that? He humbled himself and did what? He became obedient to the Father. Well, how far did he take that? All the way to death. Oh, and by the way, it's not just death. We're reminded here that He died the worst possible way to die. That's death on a cross. That's what Jesus humbled Himself and was willing to do.

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    You see, the cross was designed for execution, yes, but it was also designed to prolong the torture for as long as possible.

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    And it was also designed to humiliate the people who were crucified.

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    That's the death that Jesus was willing to endure.

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    See, Jesus went all the way, and he did everything else along the way, all the way.

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    Everything Jesus did was to obey the Father and selflessly serve others.

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    It's astounding.

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    This is God that we're talking about.

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    And read your Bibles.

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    And I challenge you to find me anything that Jesus did for himself.

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    I don't see that.

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    I never see Jesus saying, "Hey, I've been preaching for like a month.

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    "I'm taking three weeks off." Or, "Enough of the miracles for a while.

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    "I just need a break." Over and over and over, Jesus' whole life was about giving and pouring himself out.

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    And you see, church, we've been talking about changing your thinking and changing the way that you see yourself.

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    That doesn't mean anything if it doesn't change the way we act.

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    And when we look at Jesus' example in the incarnation, I have to ask myself, and I have to ask you, how far are you willing to take your service to God and to others?

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    Or let me ask you, how much is too much?

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    You know, if you're like, all right, all right, Jeff, all right, fine.

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    I'll help out in the church, but only once a month.

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    And even then, only when it's convenient for me.

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    I would say, well, that's not really thinking like a servant, right?

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    Or if you're like, okay, I'll give.

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    Oh, you, okay, we're supposed to give money.

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    Okay, all right, look, I'll give, but I'm only gonna give a little.

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    You know, like when you tip the waiter at Cracker Barrel, some people view giving to God as that.

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    Just gonna, here's a tip.

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    That's not biblical giving.

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    If you're like, "I'll give, but only what I won't miss." I would say, "Well, that's not thinking like a servant." And if that describes you, if you're like reluctant to serve and reluctant to give, if that describes you, then you haven't changed your thinking, you're still holding onto your rights.

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    You haven't changed how you see yourself because you're not seeing yourself as a servant, And you certainly haven't followed Christ's example because you're not willing to give all that you got.

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    So how far are you willing to go to serve God and to serve others?

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    We see that God in the flesh was willing to be selfless all the way to the cross.

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    And finally, number four, selflessness leads to glory.

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    Look at verses nine through 11.

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    It says, "Therefore," okay, he was obedient to the point of death, even death on the cross.

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    "Therefore God has highly exalted him "and bestowed on him the name that is above every name "so that at the name of Jesus, "every knee should bow in heaven and on earth "and under the earth and every tongue confess Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father.

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    And now here you're expecting me to say, "Okay, listen, you need to make Jesus Lord.

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    "You need to make Jesus Lord." And I'm certainly not gonna say that.

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    Jesus is Lord.

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    You're not making him anything.

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    And whether you acknowledge him or you don't acknowledge him, He is still the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords.

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    You can bow now, or you can bow later, but someday you are going to bow.

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    But there's a difference.

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    Right now you have a choice.

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    But if you need more motivation for selflessness, we have several already, right?

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    we have several motives to be selfless.

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    I can say you need to be selfless because then you're like Jesus.

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    Or I can say you need to be selfless because then you'll be used of God.

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    Or you need to be selfless so that there's unity in the church like we talked about a couple of weeks ago.

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    Here's another reason to be selfless.

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    It's exaltation.

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    It's glory.

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    See that first word in the verse, verse nine.

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    Therefore, therefore, what he's saying is because Jesus Christ faced the ultimate humiliation, he experienced the ultimate exaltation.

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    Like, well, how did Jesus get there?

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    Well, it certainly wasn't through manipulating people, using people, stepping on the little guy, stepping over the little guy.

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    Jesus took the path that, quite frankly, does not make human sense.

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    He emptied himself.

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    He saw himself as a servant, and he was obedient to God, putting everybody else's needs ahead of his own.

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    Like, well, why would Paul, in talking about the example of selflessness, why would he mention this exaltation of Christ?

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    You know, what's his point?

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    Well, we're gonna play a quick game.

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    You wanna play a game?

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    It's an easy one.

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    We're gonna play, see if you can find the theme.

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    We're gonna put some verses on the screen.

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    Do we have those verses ready?

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    We're gonna put some verses on the screen and I want you to see if you can find the theme.

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    You ready?

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    Let me go through these quickly.

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    Matthew 23, 12.

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    Whoever exalts himself will be humbled and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.

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    Luke 14, 11, "For everyone who exalts himself "will be humbled and he who humbles himself "will be exalted." Luke 18, 14, "For everyone who exalts himself "will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself "will be exalted." First Peter 5, 6, "Humble yourselves therefore "under the mighty hand of God, so that at the proper time "he may exalt you." James 4, 10, "Humble yourselves before the Lord "and he will exalt you." Do you see a theme?

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    I can do it again.

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    Actually, I probably can't.

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    I'm a little winded from that.

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    Well, here's motivation to follow the selfless example of Jesus Christ.

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    Because the Bible says, "If you're willing to humble yourself before God now, "the day's going to come when God will exalt you." You know, Our worship team would make their way forward and our ushers.

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    We're going to be closing in worship here in a minute and having candlelight.

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    But you know, every Christmas, amidst all the festivities and traditions and all of that, I think even in our culture, you hear a lot of sentiment around, don't forget Jesus.

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    You know what I mean?

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    Like don't forget Jesus is the reason for the season and it's more than about the tree.

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    And I think in the church, we get that, right?

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    Like we don't wanna forget about Jesus on his birthday.

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    Right?

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    And then we see the nativity scenes, right?

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    Maybe you have one of these in your house.

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    You certainly see them as you drive around.

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    But I think sometimes, look, even in the church, I think sometimes we reduce the nativity scene to some Hallmark movie.

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    You know what I'm talking about?

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    That we look at this scene and we conjure up this, This is what Christmas is about.

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    Oh, poor pregnant lady had to give birth in the stable.

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    And then they were like angels singing.

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    And it's like this, it's this story of overcoming adversity and bless their triumphant Rocky Balboa hearts.

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    They made it and they had the baby.

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    And that's sort of what we reduce that to.

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    But I want you to look again and see that this is so much more than that.

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    It's the astonishing beginning of the story of how God put our needs first in the ultimate display of selflessness.

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    Yeah, Jesus was born to an obscure woman.

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    He was laid in a manger, that's a feeding trough.

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    And he was born in a relatively obscure town.

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    He was raised in another obscure town.

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    And Jesus said when he was an adult, that he has no place to lay his head.

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    He also said that he came as one who serves, and he was willing to die a painful and humiliating death, not for anything that he did, but for the sins that you and I committed.

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    So when you see the nativity scene, here's really how you need to think about it.

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    You need to say, if God so humbled himself, what kind of example is that for me?

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven.

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    I can't, if I had an infinite amount of time, I don't think I could explain this to the degree that would bring us to the place of awe where maybe we should be.

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    But to consider the creator of everything became a servant.

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    to live among us, to die for our sins.

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    Father, your word tells us that we're to have the same mindset that Jesus had.

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    And it's so lacking in the church across the board today.

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    My God, I pray the gift that we all open and receive this year is the gift of truly embracing this concept of humbling ourselves and being the servant of all in the way that Jesus modeled for us.

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    We pray these things, Father, in his glorious and incomparable name, the name above all names.

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    Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Philippians 2:5-11

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Have you ever felt like some job at the church was “beneath you”? What does God becoming man teach you about how we view any job at the church?

  3. Have you ever felt like you have served too much or given too much? What does the incarnation teach us about how far we should be willing to serve and give?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Jesus' Christmas Presence: A Savior - He Gives Forgiveness

Introduction:

A Savior: He Gives Forgiveness (Colossians 2:8-15):

    In Christ...

  1. I have been gifted with the Truth . (Col 2:8)

    Colossians 2:2-3 - To reach all the riches of full assurance of understanding and the knowledge of God’s mystery, which is Christ, in whom are hidden ALL the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.

  2. I have been gifted with All That I Truly Need . (Col 2:9-10)
  3. I have been gifted with New and Everlasting Life . (Col 2:11-12)
  4. I have been gifted with Total Forgiven . (Col 2:13-14)
  5. I have been gifted with Victory Over My Spiritual Enemies . (Col 2:15)

    1 Peter 5:8-9 - Be sober minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith.

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    Well, if you have your Bibles, you can turn to Colossians chapter 2.

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    And as you turn, I want to tell you a quick story.

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    Several years ago, my wife Kate and I were eating outside the Five Guys in Cranberry.

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    And this was before we had kids, so it was actually nice, quiet, and peaceful.

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    I can barely remember what that feels like, right?

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    And right next to the Five Guys is Mathnasium, which specializes in tutoring kids in any level of math who are struggling.

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    And in the window of Mathnasium is a poster of problems by grade that you should be able to solve without issue.

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    You're all kind of getting ahead of me, you all know where this is going.

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    From first grade all the way through 12th grade.

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    And Kate and I think, hey, wanna feel good about ourselves?

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    Let's go through this list and see if we can get a 100% success rate.

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    They get through the first problem, fine.

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    Second grade, third grade, fourth grade, fifth grade, sixth grade, and I tell her I don't want to do this anymore.

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    And I just throw in the towel.

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    Can I be honest with you this morning?

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    If you put a long division problem before me and say I can't use the calculator on my phone, I don't think I could do it anymore.

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    Oh, that feels so good to get that confession off my chest.

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    Some of you are judging me severely, I know that others of you are just like really feeling that in your hearts.

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    You know, someday my kids are gonna be really disappointed when they ask me to help them with their math homework.

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    There's gonna be a lot of blank stares and awkward stretches of silence.

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    You know, many of the mathematical basics that I learned over 20 years ago have slowly but surely faded over time.

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    when it comes to math or any other subject, skill, and activity, you have to constantly reinforce and remind yourself of the basics, or you will slip into a state of forgetfulness.

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    As December 25th quickly approaches, we can't afford to slip into this foggy state of forgetfulness and lose sight of what Christmas is actually about.

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    we're taking a short break from the book of James to focus on the meaning of Christmas.

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    To remind ourselves of why Jesus truly came 2,000 years ago.

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    Instead of getting wrapped up in the physical presence, let us instead focus on the presence of our Lord and Savior.

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    So this morning we're gonna study Colossians chapter two, verses eight through 15 in which the Apostle Paul lays out the many gifts and blessings that belong to us in Christ.

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    And these gifts are way better than anything we will unwrap next week.

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    Everything on our wish list will lose their luster very quickly and end up in a garbage dump someday.

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    But what God offers us, what God gives us truly lasts and satisfies for all of eternity.

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    So before we continue any further, I want you to take a moment to go to the Lord and ask him to push aside all of the distractions that are calling out for your attention right now.

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    Hectic schedule, shopping lists, travel plans, anxiety about being with that specific side of the family.

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    Bring these things to the Lord Ask Him for an attentive mind, open ears, and a willing heart.

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    Go to the Lord.

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    Father, You are truly great.

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    And You alone are worthy of our praise, our honor, our devotion.

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    Lord, this time of year, it's so easy to lose sight of what Christmas is all about.

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    Lord, this morning, I pray that You would hone in our attention upon Christ and what he has done for us.

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    For those of us who do know you, may you restore to us the joy of your salvation.

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    And for those of us in this room who don't know you and who mean to not know you, maybe for those who think they know you but actually don't, what I pray to use the preaching of your word to draw many to yourself, that many would look unto Jesus and be saved.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

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    So as I already said, this sermon is all about who we are in Christ and what has been given to us in Christ.

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    Let's start off with the first gift and blessing that Paul lays out in Colossians chapter two, verses eight through 15.

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    So firstly, in Christ, I have been gifted with the truth.

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    I have been gifted with the truth.

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    Let's read verse eight.

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    Paul writes this.

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    "See to it that no one takes you captive "by philosophy and empty deceit, "according to the human tradition, "according to the elemental spirits of the world, "and not according to Christ." So Paul warns the Colossians, not be taken captive or held hostage by lies and deceitful doctrine that will hurt, that will enslave them.

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    At the time Paul wrote this letter, There is a false teaching circulating around the Colossian church.

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    We aren't given a lot of details about what this false teaching is.

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    It looks to be a mixture, a hybrid of Jewish legalism and pagan philosophy, but I don't want to spend any time speculating because Paul doesn't tell us.

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    What he does tell us is that this false teaching is empty and deceitful.

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    Have you ever been hungry and went to your pantry and you grab the new bag of chips, and then you pop the seal and you look inside, and half the bag is filled with chips, and the other half is just filled with artificial air.

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    I hate when that happens.

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    This false teaching, making the rounds of Colossae, is very similar to a disappointing bag of chips.

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    On the outside, it looks so good, it looks so full of goodness, but on the inside, it is a hollow disappointment, with no substance, with no spiritual nourishment.

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    Paul says that this teaching isn't divine in origin, but instead comes from the mind of sinful men who have no idea what they are talking about.

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    He says it is according to the elemental spirits of the world, which could refer to its demonic roots, but Paul is most likely saying that this teaching is childish and immature.

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    It is stupid, and any thinking Christian should be able to spot it from a mile away and steer clear.

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    And I love how he says, "See to it "that no one takes you captive." Don't be gullible, don't let this false teaching just wash over you passively.

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    Be active in defending yourselves.

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    You know the truth, don't be deceived.

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    In Christ, you have been gifted with the truth.

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    And I'm not talking about a subjective truth, what's true for you isn't true for other people.

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    I am saying that you have become a person of the truth which is found in Jesus Christ and him alone.

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    No other philosophy, no other worldview, no other religion has the answers that Christ offers.

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    Paul tells the Colossians earlier in this chapter that it is his hope for them that they will reach all the riches of full assurance of understanding and the knowledge of God's mystery, which is Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.

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    All the treasures of wisdom and knowledge are found in Christ.

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    Not some, not many, not most, all.

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    In Christ, your spiritual eyes have been opened to the truths of this book.

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    You no longer need to be deceived because you can now be discerning.

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    You can spot truth from error.

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    What is unbiblical from what is biblical.

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    What is wise from what is unwise.

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    What is godly from that which is demonic.

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    But like the Colossians, you must constantly see to it that no one takes you captive.

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    You must see to it that no one pulls the wool over your eyes.

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    You must filter every single idea and teaching through the word of God.

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    Not the filter of your own wants and preferences, not the filter of your feelings and emotions, not the filter of what's popular right now.

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    All of those filters are subjective and prone to error, while the filter of God's word is objective and perfect in every single way.

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    When you hear someone say that God told them to do something and that you need to wait on a word from God before you do anything, remind yourself that you don't need to wait on a word from God because you've already been gifted with the word of God.

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    God has perfectly revealed himself in this book.

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    You don't need to look for new revelation.

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    As our culture and many within the church seek to attack and pick apart the first three chapters of Genesis, don't fall prey to their faulty arguments that sound spiritual, scientific, and intellectual.

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    Hold fast to the realities that our God created this world in the time frame that he clearly lays out in his word, and he made us male and female in his image.

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    When someone tries to recommend you the latest Christian book, that is climbing the New York Times bestseller list with a self-help title and the author's picture on the cover, that's always a warning sign, by the way, your spiritual antenna should spring into action, and you should remind yourself that calling something Christian doesn't make it Christian.

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    I was texting Pastor Jeff yesterday.

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    I was looking through a Christian Instagram page and watching reel after reel of churches doing the most foolish things.

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    A pastor bringing a pornographic magazine on stage and laughing about it.

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    Setting up a baptismal and having people jump in and just swim and laugh hysterically.

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    There are so many lies that our enemy wants to feed to us right now.

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    See to it that no one takes you captive.

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    Guard the gift of the truth that has been given to you in Christ.

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    Do not sacrifice the treasures of wisdom and knowledge that are found in Christ.

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    Do not sacrifice these things for the trinkets and foolish lies of this world.

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    Secondly, in Christ, I have been gifted with all that I truly need.

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    I have been gifted with all that I truly need.

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    Let's read verses nine through 10.

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    Paul writes, "For in him, in Christ, "the whole fullness of deity dwells bodily, "and you have been filled in him "who is the head of all rule and authority." So according to Paul, all the fullness of deity dwells bodily in Christ, which is just a complex way of communicating a very simple truth.

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    Jesus is God in the flesh.

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    He isn't just God-like.

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    He isn't just God's favorite in all creation.

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    Jesus is God.

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    Paul says that he is the head of all rule and authority.

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    He owns everything that you can see and everything that you cannot see.

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    Nothing and no one escapes his divine sight and oversight.

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    And Paul just lays an awesome truth before us in verse 10 that should blow us away.

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    And you, he's talking about believers, have been filled in him.

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    "The one who is full of all divine power and authority "has filled you with himself." Isn't that awesome?

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    You may be thinking, Taylor, that does sound awesome, but what in the world does that actually mean?

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    Well, another way to translate this verse is, "And you are complete in him." You're no longer defined by your brokenness.

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    You are no longer a lost soul, but a found friend of God.

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    You are a whole and complete person in Christ.

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    I've already said the phrase in Christ several times in this message, and the similar phrases of in him and with him are used seven times in this passage.

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    This phrase in Christ is the most important phrase in the entire New Testament when it comes to your salvation, your relationship with Christ, and who you are as a person.

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    Yes, we can say we're Christians.

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    We can say that we are believers.

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    But the best description of who we are is that we are in Christ.

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    And the best way to explain being filled and complete in Christ is to point you back to the best day of my entire life.

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    On July 26, 2014, I married my wife and her life was joined together with mine.

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    On that day, we became one flesh.

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    After the wedding, we moved into the same house.

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    She took my last name.

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    We share the same bank account and assets.

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    All that she has is now mine, and all that I have is now hers.

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    I am united to her, and she is united to me.

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    Marriage is a God-given relationship that points us to a greater and more long-lasting union, our union with Christ.

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    To be in Christ is to be united to him, an unbreakable fellowship for all of eternity.

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    I am one with Christ.

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    He will never leave or forsake me, and nothing can separate me from him.

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    I now share in all of his saving benefits, and I enjoy every spiritual blessing.

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    I share in his perfect righteousness.

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    I have been given unlimited access to God the Father in prayer.

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    I bear his name to a watching world.

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    I have been given the mission of spreading the gospel across the face of this planet.

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    While my marriage to my wife will end the second one of us passes on, my union with Christ will never ever come to an end.

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    I am united to Christ both now and forever.

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    And the same is true for you, if you have placed your faith and trust in Him.

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    In Christ, you have been filled to the brim with all that you could ever possibly need.

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    In Christ, you have been shown unbelievable grace and mercy that you do not deserve.

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    In Christ, you are guaranteed a place in heaven.

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    In Christ, you are given all these awesome blessings that are beyond comprehension.

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    In Christ, you are no longer like that empty bag of chips that I talked about earlier.

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    In Christ, you are full, you are complete, you are lacking in nothing.

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    Sounds great, doesn't it?

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    But do you actually believe that?

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    Do you actually believe that this morning?

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    Are you focusing on all that you've been given in Christ?

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    Are you obsessing over all the things that you do not have?

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    As I said earlier, we all have Christmas wish lists on our mind right now.

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    Maybe for others or for ourselves.

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    Maybe this year you want a new iPad, AirPods, golf clubs, Hoka tennis shoes, I heard those are popular, a Lululemon crossbody, and yes, I know what that is.

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    It's okay to want these things as gifts, but you have to realize you don't need any of these things.

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    They won't make your life even a tiny bit better.

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    What's exciting on Christmas Day isn't that exciting on Christmas night.

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    Ask yourself an important question this Christmas season.

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    What do I actually need that has not already been provided for me in Christ?

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    You may not feel it to be true right now, but the answer is nothing.

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    Nothing.

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    Nothing that Christ gives to you can be stripped away.

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    Nothing that Christ gives to you can be outmatched by the things of this world.

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    Jesus Christ is a one-stop shop for all that you truly need in this life and the next.

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    Thirdly, in Christ, I have been gifted with new and everlasting life.

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    and have been gifted with new and everlasting life.

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    And Paul goes in a somewhat unexpected direction in verse 11.

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    In Christ also you were circumcised with a circumcision made without hands by putting off the body of flesh by the circumcision of Christ.

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    I know what some of you are thinking.

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    Taylor, this is a lot of talk of circumcision for a Christmas time message.

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    And I get it, but it's what the text says, so we're going to talk about it.

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    If you don't know what circumcision is, just turn to your neighbor, and I'm sure they'd love to explain it to you.

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    I don't wanna talk about the biology of circumcision today, but I do wanna talk about the symbolism of circumcision.

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    In the Old Testament, every Jewish boy was expected to be circumcised on the eighth day following his birth, to stand apart from the pagan nations around Israel and to communicate physically a deep spiritual reality that we are horribly sinful and we need cleansing at the deepest level of who we are.

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    Sadly, many Jews went the legalistic route with circumcision and viewed it as a part of salvation.

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    The Pharisees and religious leaders in Jesus' day believed that a man cannot possibly be right with God apart from physical circumcision.

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    But physical circumcision cannot change a man's heart.

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    it cannot change his deepest problem, which is his inner brokenness and slavery to sin.

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    So Paul delivers this awesome news that everyone who is in Christ, male or female, has been circumcised with a circumcision made without hands.

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    In other words, this is a spiritual circumcision.

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    This is a spiritual change and transformation.

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    Instead of cutting our physical bodies, Christ has cut us loose from slavery to our fallen and sinful flesh.

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    We used to be dominated and controlled by our sinful wants and desires, but we have been set free in Christ, who is our masterful spiritual surgeon.

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    Other parts of scripture say that we have been given new hearts, hearts that desire to obey and please the Lord.

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    In Christ, you can say no to sin and yes to righteousness.

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    You no longer have to be controlled by your sinful flesh, those desires that you have.

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    And Paul keeps on rolling with the good news in verse 12.

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    He writes, "And having been buried with him, "with Christ in baptism, in which you were also raised "with him through faith in the powerful working of God who raised him from the dead.

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    In Christ, our old and sinful selves are dead and buried.

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    The old you is in the tomb, and a new you has been raised with Christ.

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    And this reality is pictured in baptism.

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    Baptism is the ultimate symbol of our union with Christ.

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    It displays that you identify with and share in the life, death, and resurrection of Christ.

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    As you were lowered into the water, that is a symbol of your death and burial.

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    That's the old you.

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    As you were raised out of the water, that is a symbol of your new, resurrected life in Christ.

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    Baptism does not lead to salvation, but it is an awesome reminder of our salvation and the transformation that God has made happen within us.

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    In Christ, you are a new creation, and you are expected and commanded to act like one.

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    Going back to your old ways and habits cannot be an option, because that's not who you are anymore.

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    Using and abusing the grace of God as a hall pass to do whatever you want should be unthinkable, because that's not what you do anymore.

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    Covering up your sin and justifying it It can't be your knee-jerk reaction any longer because that's not what Christ set you free to do.

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    Live into who you already are in Christ instead of backsliding into who you used to be.

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    Fourthly, in Christ, I have been gifted with total forgiveness.

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    In Christ, I have been gifted with total forgiveness.

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    So after talking about our resurrection to new life, Paul rewinds the tape a bit to remind us yet again of our desperate situation before Christ.

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    He writes at the beginning of verse 13, "And you who were dead in your trespasses "in the uncircumcision of your flesh." All right, let's stop there for a second.

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    As a reminder, before Christ, what were you?

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    That was pretty dead.

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    Let's yell it out.

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    You were what?

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    Dead.

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    You weren't just a bad person.

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    You weren't just a spiritually sick person.

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    You were a dead person.

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    You were a spiritual corpse with no pulse and no hope.

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    You know, as a pastor, I hear so many people say, you know, I've always been a Christian.

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    I get what they mean, but I want to lovingly say, no, you haven't.

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    There was a point in your personal history when you were dead, you had no spiritual life, but God made you alive together with Christ.

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    How did he do this?

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    Well, Paul tells us.

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    God made us alive together with him, having forgiven us all of our trespasses by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands.

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    This he set aside, nailing it to the cross.

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    There is so much to unpack here that kind of fries my preacher brain a little bit.

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    I could do a whole sermon series on this, but don't worry, I won't.

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    We'll do it very quickly.

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    First and foremost, if you are in Christ, all of your sins have been forgiven.

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    Past, present, and future.

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    From those things that seem small but actually aren't, all the way to the thing that you regret the most in life, All of these things have been covered by the blood of Christ.

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    Secondly, your debt to God has been completely taken care of.

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    The picture that came to my mind when I studied this verse was the US National Debt Clock in New York.

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    Who's ever seen that in person?

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    In real time, this clock is being updated with how deep in the hole we are as a country.

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    And you may be looking at that and thinking it's not that bad.

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    It's actually much worse.

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    This is an old, outdated picture.

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    I think it's more than double that at this point.

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    With each passing second, our nation's debt is ticking up higher and higher and higher.

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    In a much worse way, with every sinful thought, word, action, reaction, and inaction, your sinful debt to God was getting larger and larger and larger, ticking up and up and up.

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    But God, in a generous act of mercy and grace, decided to cancel the debt that stood against you.

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    Another way to translate this is wiped away.

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    It's like God took his divine hand and wiped the existence of your sin off the heavenly record.

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    He took the eraser and cleared the chalkboard.

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    To add even more finality to this, Paul adds that our record of debt has been nailed to the cross.

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    Three nails have been driven into the coffin that holds the power and penalty of our sin.

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    Even though we know this truth in our minds, it is so hard to actually feel it in our hearts.

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    It is so hard to live in light of it.

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    As forgiven people, we can struggle with thinking that God is still mad at us over something we did years ago.

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    When we give in to temptation now and do something that we know we shouldn't do, we often run away from God instead of to God because we think he wants nothing to do with us.

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    We think that he is disgusted with us.

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    We can still feel like our record of debt is alive and well instead of dead and buried.

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    You know, during my early years of seminary, I shared that I worked as a debt collector for libraries.

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    And yes, it was as glamorous as it sounds.

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    It's awesome being the worst call of someone's month and being verbally berated night after night after night after night.

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    But over the course of my time as a debt collector, I looked at hundreds, maybe thousands of records of debt that stood against men and women across this country.

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    And I never thought I would be on the receiving end of one of these debt collection notices until in 2015 my wife was sent one from our alma mater, Geneva College.

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    And I say, did you want me to read it to you?

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    Warning, your time has run out!

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    With two exclamation points 'cause one apparently wasn't enough.

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    We have asked you to call if there was a problem.

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    You have not done so.

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    We never were told about this debt or told to call.

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    We have asked you to pay the amount due.

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    You have not done so.

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    I didn't know there was an amount due.

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    We gave you the opportunity to file for either a student or hardship deferment.

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    You have not done so.

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    We wrote you attempting to reach a satisfactory settlement for your account.

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    We fully expected your cooperation.

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    Since we've had no response from you, we have no choice but to initiate serious action to collect your account.

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    Whether we transfer your account to an outside collection agency or attorney for immediate litigation is entirely up to you.

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    That just sounds jerky, doesn't it?

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    I assume that's how it was written.

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    We were just so confused.

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    We didn't know there was a record of debt against us.

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    We didn't know that we owed anything.

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    So we called Geneva, but actually before that, look at the bottom of this.

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    Go to the next slide, please.

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    You'll see the total that was actually due.

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    What does that say?

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    Zero dollars and zero cents.

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    Wow, should I pay it off in a lump sum or do that monthly?

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    That's quite the bill.

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    We call Geneva and they apologize profusely and said, don't worry about it.

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    This bill has obviously been taken care of in the past.

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    And every single time I read this passage in Colossians, I think about my record of debt to Geneva being $0.00.

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    And even better than that, in Christ, Your record of debt is now and forever $0.00.

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    There is nothing you can do to get yourself into further debt, and there is no need to try to pay off what has already been fully taken care of.

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    When you sin, you can honestly bring it to the Lord, confess it, repent of it, and move forward.

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    To be clear, I'm not saying that you shouldn't feel any negative emotions about your sin.

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    As Pastor Jeff taught us last week, you need to mourn over your sin if you want to move forward.

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    A sense of godly guilt is essential because that leads to repentance and change.

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    But just sitting in your shame, refusing to do anything about it and feeling sorry for yourself only leads to cover up in isolation.

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    Forgiven people deal with their sin in a healthy and biblical way because they know their sinful bill has already been settled at the cross.

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    You know, some of you in this room are not believers in Christ, and you don't really sense a need for that.

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    You feel like you're a good person.

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    You don't sense the need that you owe the Lord anything.

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    Others of you know how sinful you are.

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    And you're thinking, Taylor, you just don't get it.

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    You don't know all the things that I've done.

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    You don't know the people that I've hurt.

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    I've crossed the line too many times.

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    God could never love and forgive someone like me.

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    You just don't know what I've done.

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    And you're right, I don't know what you've done.

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    But I know the one who does, God does.

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    And he offers you forgiveness anyway.

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    You could take me aside for service today and list out all your deepest, darkest sins and I would have the same exact response no matter what you share with me.

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    The blood of Christ is more than enough to cover that.

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    As a pastor from several hundred years ago once said, there is more mercy in Christ than sin in you.

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    It doesn't matter who you are or what you've done, you will be fully forgiven today if you place your faith and trust in Jesus Christ alone for salvation.

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    It's that simple, but this requires humility.

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    You must humbly acknowledge that you are hopeless and helpless apart from Christ.

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    That you were unable to pay this massive debt, but Jesus is infinitely able to pay it off in an instant.

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    The gift of forgiveness is offered to you right now, but you must reach out by faith to accept it or you will never actually receive it.

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    Will you accept this gift of forgiveness or will you once again push it away?

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    Will you just wallow in your sin and your shame or will you turn to Christ for salvation and eternal life?

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    I so wish I could make that choice for you, but I can't.

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    The choice is yours.

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    Finally this morning, in Christ, I have been gifted with victory over my spiritual enemies.

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    I have been gifted with victory over my spiritual enemies.

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    So Paul ends this section of Colossians with an amazing victory lap that highlights the utter inability and weakness of our enemy in comparison to our Savior.

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    He writes this, "God disarmed the rulers and the authorities "and put them to open shame by triumphing over them "in Him, in Christ." You know, on top of not being a great mathlete, I'm also a pretty lousy athlete.

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    From sixth through 12th grade, I played basketball for Eden Christian Academy, and during that time, I experienced a decent number of wins, but a lot of losses.

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    I didn't really care that much.

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    I didn't take it that much to heart because I wasn't that great.

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    A lot of my friends were devastated and I'm like, I wonder what's for dinner.

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    I just never really took it to heart that much.

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    But there was one particular game during my sophomore year that I'll never forget as long as I live because it was so embarrassing.

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    I wish I could say that we played well during this game of shame and that we left it all out on the court.

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    But I'm pretty sure the only thing we left on the court was our dignity.

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    The other team out hustled and outplayed us the entire game.

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    And I'll never forget the scoreboard at the end of the game 'cause those red numbers are burned into my brain.

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    87 to 20.

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    We lost by over 60 points.

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    There was no question of who was the dominant team that night.

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    No one walked away from that game thinking, Yeah, sure, Eden lost, but the rest really robbed them of that victory and they really deserved to win.

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    No one thought, you know, that game was so back and forth, it could have gone either way.

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    Nah, this was a total open and shut case of annihilating victory.

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    The other team totally triumphed over us and we were put to open shame for all of our friends and family to witness.

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    In a much greater way, The devil and his demons were completely smacked down at the cross of Christ and delivered a killing blow for all of eternity.

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    Paul said that they were disarmed, which also can be translated as stripped.

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    Satan and his demonic goons were publicly stripped of their power and totally humiliated.

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    Now they're just trying to cause as much damage as possible until Jesus Christ returns to finalize the victory that he has already purchased on our behalf.

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    If you are in Christ, Satan has no power over you.

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    His accusations of you before God are pointless and fall on deaf ears.

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    His threat of death holds no sway over you because Christ has had victory over the grave and you have been given eternal life.

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    Satan can't make you do anything.

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    Yes, you should wisely be wary of him and his schemes, but you should not obsess over him.

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    So many Christians live in bondage of fear of the devil.

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    Do not live in fear of him any longer.

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    You don't have to follow his lead.

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    You don't have to take the temptations that he throws before you.

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    When he casts that shameful accusation before you, you don't have to bite the hook.

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    All Satan can do now is wave a bill for zero dollars and zero cents in your face.

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    That's all he can do.

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    In those moments of doubt and fear, preach the truth of the word of God to yourself instead of listening to the horrible advice of Satan, your flesh, and this world.

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    Again, be active instead of passive.

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    Be proactive instead of reactive.

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    Peter talks about this in his first epistle.

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    Be sober-minded, be watchful.

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    Your adversary, the devil, prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.

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    Resist him, firm in your faith.

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    Does that sound familiar?

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    It really should because Pastor Jeff talked about it last week.

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    We don't rebuke the devil.

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    I can't say it in the voice you did it last week.

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    We can't rebuke the devil, but we must resist the devil.

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    Is that pretty good?

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    We resist him and we stand firm.

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    View Satan for what he really is, a wounded and cornered animal who's taking desperate swipes until he is put down for good.

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    His ultimate destination is the lake of fire, while yours is the presence of God.

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    He is the biggest loser imaginable, while you serve the greatest winner imaginable.

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    You share in the victory of your savior, and don't let your enemy rob you of any of the joy that has been given to you in Christ.

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    You know, this has been less of a, you need to do this kind of sermon, and more of a Christ has done all of this for you kind of message.

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    This time of year, we are so busy hustling and bustling that we need to be sat down and reminded of who we are and whose we are.

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    You'll often hear people telling you at this time of year, Get into the Christmas spirit.

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    Who has said that or heard someone say that?

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    Okay, come on, it has to be way more than that.

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    We've all heard it or said it, right?

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    If by get into the Christmas spirit, you mean I need to watch all those old claymation movies, deck out my house like Christmas Vacation, or blast Jingle Bell Rock on my way to work, I'm pretty confident I should not be expected to do any of those things.

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    But if I get into the Christmas spirit, you mean that I need to wholly focus my mind, my attention, my heart, my affections upon the incarnation of my Savior, who came to this earth, took on a human form to die for me.

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    Then I wholeheartedly agree with you.

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    Let's get in the Christmas spirit.

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    The flashy ornaments that we hang on this holiday are fun, yet not essential.

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    Let us never lose sight of what this holiday is actually about, which is Christ and Christ alone.

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    You must never lose sight of who you are in him.

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    In Christ, you no longer need to be deceived because you've been gifted with the truth.

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    In Christ, you no longer need to feel empty because you are full in him.

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    In Christ, you no longer need to go back to who you used to be because you've been gifted with new and everlasting life.

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    In Christ, you don't need to wallow in your sin and your shame any longer because you have been gifted with the full weight of God's forgiveness in Christ.

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    You don't need to live in fear because you have been gifted with victory over your spiritual enemies.

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    Hallelujah, what a Savior.

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    What a friend we have in Jesus.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father, I pray that we would never be able to hear this gospel news and sit back and yawn and be bored by it.

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    Lord, this is inexhaustibly good news.

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    Lord, this is news that we need to hear even if we've believed it for decades.

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    Father, for those of us in this room who know and love you, but that love has grown cold as of late, I pray that your Holy Spirit would stoke the affections, stoke the fire in our hearts for you.

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    That we would be restored with the joy of our salvation.

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    and we would remember how awesome Christ truly is.

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    And Lord, for those of us who do not know you, Lord, may you use the preaching of your word to pierce them to the heart, to convict them of their sin, but to point them to the solution, which is Christ, and what he accomplished on the cross.

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    Lord, I pray this message wouldn't just stay here in this room, but it would go with us this week and into Christmas.

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    And we would tell everyone that we know and love what this season is actually about.

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    That we would focus on Christ and lift him up in every single way.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Colossians 2:8-15

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. When it comes to this time of year, why is it so easy to slip into a state of forgetfulness regarding the true focus and meaning of Christmas?

  3. What does it mean to be “in Christ” and “complete in Him”? What blessings and gifts do we receive in Him?

  4. What specific errors and false teachings do we need to be on guard against right now? How can we prepare to stand against false teaching and “see to it that no one takes you captive”?

  5. How does the forgiveness of Christ change how you view your sin? How should it fuel your fight against sin?

Breakout
Pray for one another.