Ruth

Redeeming Ruth - The Fulfilled Promises of God

Introduction:

The Fulfilled Promises of God... (Ruth 4):

  1. Come at a Cost . (Ruth 4:1-12)

    Colossians 3:2 - Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on the earth.

    Colossians 3:16 - Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly.

  2. Exceed my Own Expectations . (Ruth 4:13-17b)

    Romans 8:28 - And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose.

  3. Are bigger than Me . (Ruth 4:17c-22)

    Judges 21:25 - In those days there was no king in Israel. Everyone did what was right in his own eyes.

    2 Samuel 7:16 - "And your house and your kingdom shall be made sure forever before me. Your throne shall be established forever."

    Luke 1:32-33 - "He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. And the Lord God will give to Him the throne of His father David, and He will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and of His kingdom there will no end."

    2 Corinthians 1:20 - For all the promises of God find their Yes in Him.

    Number 23:19 - "God is not man, that He should lie, or a son of man, that He should change His mind. Has He said, and will He not do it? Or has He spoken, and will He not fulfill it?""

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    I turn to Ruth chapter 4 and while you're turning there I want you to raise your hand if you are a collector of anything Don't be ashamed of a minute. Although there's a lot more collectors than this. Come on. It can be anything trading cards stamps coins American Girl dolls antiques. I don't know whatever it is All right. I know there's more of you out there than you are actually admitting When I was a kid back in the 90s, I fell into a lot of collecting crazes. You name it. I collected it Crazy bones, Pokemon cards, Pogs.

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    Who remembers Pogs?

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    Wow, a lot of Pog lovers here.

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    See, you do collect Pogs.

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    You were lying before.

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    Furbies, Happy Meal toys, and Beanie Babies.

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    Who else collected Beanie Babies?

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    You know, I didn't collect these things just to have fun with and to look at.

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    I viewed them as a serious investment for my future.

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    Children of the mid to late 90s were that promised that all these things would be worth a fortune someday.

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    If you bought enough, you'd be set for life and you could retire in style.

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    And it wasn't just children that bought into these promises, adults did as well.

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    Adults got into fistfights in stores across this country over toys that were made for children.

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    You know, in 1999, 18 Wheeler filled with beanie babies accidentally dumped their cargo on the interstate and people stopped on the interstate, did dodging cars to grab up beanie babies and people were seen opening their doors, trying to grab them while they drove by.

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    As a kid, I viewed these various toys in my closet as playable gold.

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    I bought into this promise of riches, and I thought I was sitting on millions of dollars.

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    Well, how do you think that worked out for me?

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    Well, based on the fact that I'm not on a beach right now, retired, I think you know how it worked out for me.

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    And to be fair, a tiny portion of these collectibles can be worth some money, but that's a tiny fraction, right?

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    That is the exception rather than the rule.

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    You know, looking back at these unfulfilled promises makes me laugh now, but I remember being really disappointed back when I was a kid and I realized that my collecting goals didn't exactly line up with reality.

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    Now you may not be able to relate to my collecting lows, but every single person in this room can relate to what it feels like to be let down by an unfulfilled promise.

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    Maybe there is a broken promise from your childhood that still haunts you to this day.

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    Maybe a close friend promised to stick by you but bailed when you needed them the most.

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    Maybe your boss keeps stringing you along that things will get better at work and you'll get that big promotion, you'll get that big raise, but it's been months and even years of that carrot being dangled in front of you and nothing seems to change.

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    Politicians always say that, "I'm gonna accomplish all of my campaign goals, "all my campaign promises." How does that work?

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    You're blessed if even one of those promises is fulfilled by the end of their term.

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    We are fed a steady diet of empty promises and we take that distrust of other people, when we wrongly put it on God.

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    We say with our mouths that God is 100% trustworthy, but then we live as if he is not.

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    We get stuck in that endless and worthless loop of worrying about the future.

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    We can wrestle with doubts about God's character and his purposes.

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    We can grumble and complain when life doesn't go the way that we want it to.

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    Living this way is not only destructive for us, but it's dishonoring to our God, who has never once dropped the ball, who has never once failed.

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    This morning, we will wrap up our study of the book of Ruth by focusing on our promise keeping God.

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    We will be reminded that he always follows through on his word every single time without fail.

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    So before we continue, please take a moment to pray for me that I will faithfully proclaim Ruth chapter four, and I will pray for you, that you will have open eyes, ears, and hearts as we come to God's word this morning.

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    So please, spend some time in prayer with the Lord.

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    Amen.

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    So before we dive into the final chapter of Ruth, let me give a quick summary of what we've studied over the past month, because I know how easy it is to forget things.

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    Life is busy, and it's really easy to lose some of these important details.

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    So a famine hits the nation of Israel, a family of four escapes to the pagan nation of Moab in order to survive and find food.

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    And the mother, Naomi, returns back to Bethlehem after she hears that the famine is over and her two sons, Malon and Kilian, as well as their dad, have all died.

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    But she hasn't come back alone.

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    She comes back with her Moabite daughter-in-law, Ruth, who has chosen to stick by Naomi's side to worship the one true God of Israel, Yahweh, instead of the false gods that she grew up with.

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    After a short time in Israel, Ruth is shown great kindness by a wealthy field owner named Boaz.

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    And Naomi tells Ruth that Boaz is actually one of their relatives.

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    He is one of their redeemers, which means that he can marry Ruth and carry on the family name of Malon so that the family name does not die with him.

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    And last week we learned that Naomi came up with a crazy proposal idea that actually worked.

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    Everything happened according to plan.

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    Boaz promises to marry and redeem Ruth, but there's a catch.

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    There is another closer relative and redeemer in the family who has the right of first dibs, so to speak.

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    Boaz can't just cut in line without asking this redeemer first, which we will read about in chapter four.

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    Are we all clear on what has happened so far?

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    I can do that all over again if you want me to.

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    You're like, please don't.

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    All right, so let's read chapter four, verses one through 12, which lays out how Boaz fulfilled his promise to Ruth and gives us a glimpse of our God who fulfills his promises to us.

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    So verses one through 12 of chapter four.

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    Now Boaz had gone up to the gate and sat down there.

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    And behold, the Redeemer of whom Boaz had spoken came by.

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    So Boaz said, "Turn aside, friend, sit down here." And he turned and sat down.

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    And he took 10 men of the elders of the city and said, "Sit down here." So they sat down.

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    Then he said to the redeemer, "Naomi, who has come back from the country of Moab, "is selling the parcel of land "that belonged to our relative Elimelech." So I thought I would tell you of it and say, "Buy it in the presence of those sitting here, "and in the presence of the elders of my people.

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    "If you will redeem it, redeem it.

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    "But if you will not, tell me, "that I may know, but there is no one besides you "to redeem it, and I come after you." And he said, "I will redeem it." And Boaz said, "The day you buy the field "from the hand of Naomi, you also acquire Ruth the Moabite, "the widow of the dead, in order to perpetuate "the name of the dead and his inheritance." Then the Redeemer said, "I cannot redeem it for myself, "lest I impair my own inheritance.

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    "Take my right of redemption yourself, "for I cannot redeem it." Now this was the custom in former times in Israel, concerning redeeming and exchanging.

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    To confirm a transaction, the one drew off his sandal and gave it to the other, and this was the manner of attesting in Israel.

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    So when the redeemer said to Boaz, buy it for yourself, he drew off his sandal.

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    Then Boaz said to the elders and all the people, you are witnesses this day that I have bought from the hand of Naomi all that belong to Elimelech and all that belong to Kilian and to Malon.

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    Also Ruth the Moabite, the widow of Malon, I have bought to be my wife, to perpetuate the name of the dead and his inheritance, that the name of the dead may not be cut off from among his brothers, and from the gate of his native place.

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    You are witnesses this day.

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    Then all the people who were at the gate and the elders said, we are witnesses, may the Lord make the woman who is coming into your house like Rachel and Leah, who together build up the house of Israel.

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    May you act worthily, Neferthah, and be renowned in Bethlehem.

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    And may your house be like the house of Perez, whom Tamar bore to Judah because of the offspring that the Lord will give to you by this young woman.

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    So our outline for this morning, based on our text, is the fulfilled promises of God.

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    And we see, firstly, that the fulfilled promises of God come at a cost.

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    They come at a cost.

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    In these verses, Boaz is a man on a mission.

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    He made a commitment to Ruth and to Naomi, he's gonna follow through.

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    That very day, he goes to the gates of Bethlehem to find this redeemer.

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    And the gates of Bethlehem were like the town hall, the courthouse, or the meeting room at Pantera Bread, as Pastor Jeff calls it, It is where serious business meetings were done, where serious transactions were made.

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    And he sits by and waits for this other Redeemer to pass by.

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    And we're not given this Redeemer's name, so we're just gonna call him Mr. No-Name to make it easier for us, okay?

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    So finally, Mr. No-Name finally comes by, and Boaz politely sneak attacks him and makes him sit down.

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    And he draws elders from the city to come down and sit with them as well.

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    I was just laughing this past week, imagining Mr. No-Name strolling along Bethlehem, whistling a tune when he's suddenly caught up in the most serious business meeting of his life.

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    And Boaz isn't beating around the bush, he gets right to it.

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    Naomi is selling her land, you're the closest redeemer, you're expected to buy it.

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    And Mr. No-Name is a smart businessman.

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    This is really exciting to him.

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    He thinks he can add this to his financial portfolio and make a bunch of money off of it.

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    He can rent out the tenants and make even more money.

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    And when he dies, he can pass it on to his children and they can profit from it as well.

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    And the cherry on top would be that he looks like such a nice guy.

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    He looks like such the noble hero, but he is actually anything but.

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    He only has cash register sounds ringing in his ears.

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    He is not interested in helping Naomi in the slightest.

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    Mr. No Name jumps at this no duh deal and he says, "Yeah, I will buy it, I will redeem it." And Boaz quickly pulls the rug out from under him with the catch to this deal and pulls the classic Columbo move that you all know about, right?

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    One more thing, one more thing.

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    Is that okay?

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    All right, good.

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    I was working on that all week.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    Thank you, thank you so much, thank you.

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    One more thing.

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    This deal also includes you marrying Ruth the Moabite, just so you know.

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    I imagine this guy's stomach sinking when he finally realizes what he has agreed to.

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    If he marries Ruth, he is agreeing to attempt to father a son with her.

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    And this son will own this land when he grows up, not his existing kids.

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    Suddenly, this amazing deal doesn't seem so amazing anymore.

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    It seems like a liability rather than a profit.

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    And Mr. No Name isn't interested in doing the right thing.

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    He's not interested in offering any charity.

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    So he kind of walks back his promises.

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    Whoa, whoa, nevermind.

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    I didn't read the fine print for saying yes.

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    Boaz, if you want it, go ahead, redeem the land 'cause I cannot do it.

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    And I just imagine that Boaz had to resist the urge to fist pump and high five all of the elders 'cause that's what he wanted to hear.

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    He wanted this guy to say no so that he could say yes.

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    And they do something a bit strange to seal the deal to us in 2024.

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    So I'm gonna actually have James Austin come up to help give you a physical demonstration of this.

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    Let's give James a round of applause before he gets up here.

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    All right.

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    So imagine that James is Boaz, okay?

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    And I'm Mr. No Name.

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    So you're the good guy in this story and I'm the bad guy, okay?

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    So instead of signing a contract or shaking hands, Boaz, I'm sorry, Mr. No Name takes off his sandal.

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    Imagine this is a sandal because I look really dumb in sandals and didn't feel like the best idea for preaching.

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    So he took off his sandal and he gave it to Boaz.

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    I sprayed that shoe, but I still wouldn't smell it if I were you.

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    So let me have that back.

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    So by giving Boaz his sandal, he is giving away his redeemer right.

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    He is saying, I am giving up all of my claim to Ruth and this property.

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    I am now giving it to Boaz.

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    Does that make sense?

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    All right, this ought to make sense.

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    You would keep the shoe, but that'd be kind of weird.

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    So everyone thank James while I get my shoe back on.

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    So after this big ceremony, the elders verify this legal transaction, and they also speak a word of blessing over Ruth and Boaz.

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    And they are sure that the Lord will bless this future marriage with a son.

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    You know, Boaz's fulfilled promise to Ruth came at a great personal cost.

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    He agreed to attempt to father a son that would not even legally be his.

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    He is agreeing to steward a piece of property that will not ultimately belong to him or boost his personal net worth long term.

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    But out of love and loyalty, Boaz paid this price joyfully and willingly.

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    Does that remind you of anyone else in scripture?

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    The Old Testament points to the Messiah, the chosen one, the anointed one of God who would come to pay the price for our sin.

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    He would suffer and die to save his people.

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    Jesus joyfully and willingly paid this great and terrible cost.

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    I was thinking this past week, how often do we really stop and think all that Jesus has sacrificed for us.

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    And I'm not just talking about the cross.

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    I'm talking about the years, the months, the days, the hours, the minutes, and the seconds that led up to it.

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    God Almighty took on flesh and became a man.

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    The one who spoke everything into being entered into this world as a little baby.

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    The same one who spoke the world into existence, The power of his words had to learn how to read and to speak.

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    He lowered himself enough to do that.

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    The one who knit his earthly parents together in the womb submitted to their leadership even though he was perfect and they were sinful.

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    The all-powerful sustainer of existence had to sleep, he had to eat, he had to deal with all the annoyances that come along with having a human body.

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    the giver of life laid down his own life on the cross.

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    The one who had perfect fellowship with his father was rejected and separated on the cross for what felt like eternity.

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    We cannot even begin to scratch the surface of all that Jesus has sacrificed for us.

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    But thankfully we have all of eternity to thank him, to worship him, to fall down in amazement and awe before him.

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    In the meantime, let us choose to meditate upon this sacrifice and further explore its depths in the word of God.

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    We get so sidetracked and impressed by the most trivial things, don't we?

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    I know that I do.

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    We get sucked into the YouTube wormhole, pointless posts on social media, a 24-hour news and sports cycle, and dumb games on our phone that suck out so much time that we'll never ever get back.

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    We willingly choose to take our eyes off the most important thing in existence, the holy love of God in Christ Jesus.

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    No wonder we sometimes doubt if God actually cares about us.

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    It's no surprise that our circumstances seem so insurmountable at times.

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    It's not exactly a head-scratcher why we often fail to fully engage on Sunday mornings or obey God's clear commands.

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    We are so often checked out spiritually, but dialed into worldly things that ramp up, that crank up our ignorance and our anxiety.

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    We need to unbury our heads from the garbage of this culture and instead saturate our minds in the heavenly truths of the word of God.

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    as Paul says in Colossians 3, 2, set your mind on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.

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    And later on in that same chapter, Paul gives this command, let the word of Christ dwell in you richly.

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    Do those verses describe you?

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    Do those verses describe what you think about day by day?

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    Do you set your mind on things that are above, where Christ is?

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    is the word of Christ dwell in you richly.

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    We must continually set our minds upon the truth.

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    We can't just dip our toes into the word of God and we feel like it, we're called to immerse ourself in it.

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    We are called to preach the gospel of grace to ourselves every single day instead of falling into the self-advice and pep talks that so many people in the church fall into, harvest, let us truly live up to our middle name and be people of the Bible.

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    People who immerse ourselves in the word of God because every single time we come to it, God is speaking to us.

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    Let's stop focusing on things that do not matter.

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    Secondly, the fulfilled promises of God exceed my own expectations.

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    Exceed my own expectations.

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    So let's see how Ruth, Naomi, and Boaz's stories conclude in verses 13 through 17.

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    So Boaz took Ruth and she became his wife and he went into her and the Lord gave her conception and she bore a son.

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    Then the women said to Naomi, blessed be the Lord who has not left you this day without a redeemer and may his name be renowned in Israel.

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    He shall be to you a restorer of life and a nourisher of your old age.

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    for your daughter-in-law who loves you, who is more to you than seven sons has given birth to him.

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    Then Naomi took the child and laid him on her lap and became his nurse.

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    And the women of the neighborhood gave him a name, saying a son has been born to Naomi.

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    They named him Obed.

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    What a beautiful outcome for these three people that we've learned so much about over the past month.

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    Ruth and Boaz get married and the Lord quickly blesses this union with a son, which means the family line of Elimelech and Malon has not died and come to an end.

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    And the women of Bethlehem actually name this little baby, they rejoice over this birth, and they name him Obed.

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    Isn't that a bit weird?

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    Can you imagine anyone but you as the parent naming your own child?

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    Can you imagine someone just being like, stepping in and be like, hold on, I got this.

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    Coming up with names is what I'm good at.

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    How about Farron if it's a boy and Jezebel if it's a girl?

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    No thank you.

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    Whenever Kate and I were planning our kids' names, we didn't put a poll on Facebook.

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    We didn't ask the doctors and the nurses and the janitors at the hospital to do the honors for us.

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    This is the only time in scripture where a child is named in this way.

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    And the ladies decide on the name Obed, which means servant, servant of God.

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    They describe him as Naomi's redeemer, her restorer of life and a nourisher of your old age.

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    Obed will be the number one man in her life.

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    He is expected to grow up and take care of his grandmother and provide for her.

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    He will be her guardian.

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    He will be her protector.

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    He will be her redeemer.

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    And the Bethlehem Golden Girls, as I like to call them, also remind Naomi that she was taken care of

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    (congregation laughing)

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    I'm glad you enjoyed it.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    So the Bedlam Golden Girls also remind Naomi that she had been blessed all along, that the Lord had blessed her with Ruth, who is better than having seven sons.

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    And we kind of lose the impact of this in 2024 because having a daughter or a son is of equal value and excitement, right?

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    But back in those days, A son was the one who cared on the family line.

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    So he was used the one that the father wanted to have.

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    No, actually, Ruth is better than having seven sons of your own.

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    In chapter one, we read that Naomi felt like the hand of God had afflicted her, but he had actually blessed her with the gift of Ruth.

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    She said, "I feel like I've come back to Bethlehem "empty-handed, but now those same hands "are holding her precious grandson who would not exist apart from the trials that she had to endure.

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    There would be no Obed without opposition.

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    Naomi's life turned out much differently than she expected when she married a limeleck all those years before.

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    She definitely wouldn't have chosen this bitter path that she had to walk, but God's sweet blessings were at the end of it.

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    And he far exceeded her own ideas and plans for her life.

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    I was thinking this past week, we all have dreams that we want to see come true.

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    Expectations that we hope to see become reality.

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    Ideas for how our lives should go.

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    And it's normal to make these plans.

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    It's normal to pursue after certain goals.

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    But it's a bad idea to hold God to your own plans and timetables.

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    God is not a divine vending machine who spits out every treat you desire.

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    He is not a waiter that you can snap at and boss around.

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    He is not a servant who feeds you grapes and fans you with a big leaf.

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    We should never expect God to fulfill what he never promised.

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    We should never expect God to fulfill what he never promised.

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    All right, so what does God promise us?

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    Well, he promises us a lot of things.

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    We can't possibly talk about all of them this morning, let me focus on a big one that we often get wrong.

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    In Romans 8, 28, the apostle Paul promises that, "And we know for those who love God, "all things work together for good "for those who are called according to his purpose." A lot of Christians know and love this verse and have it memorized, but they totally have misunderstood it and misapplied it.

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    Paul isn't promising that God will work all things together to accomplish your personal dreams.

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    He isn't promising that God will work all things together to fulfill your wish list.

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    He isn't promising that God will work all things together to give you a life of comfort.

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    He is promising that God will work all things together for your ultimate good.

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    All right, great, but what is my ultimate good?

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    Is my ultimate good being successful in my chosen profession?

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    It can't be that because a lot of the most successful people are the most miserable people on this planet.

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    Is it financial security?

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    Well, as great as that is and as nice as that is, it certainly won't make you happy as you think, and it won't solve all your problems.

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    Is it the easiest life possible with the least amount of road bumps?

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    Again, it can't be that because the people with the cushiest lives tend to grumble and complain more than anyone else.

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    Okay, then what is it?

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    What is your ultimate good?

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    Well, it's actually very simple, according to the next verse in Romans chapter eight and the rest of the New Testament.

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    Your ultimate good is Christ-likeness.

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    Being conformed, being drawn into the image of who Christ is and becoming more like him.

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    And this involves putting your sin to death, denying yourself, exalting God and all things instead of yourself.

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    Christlikeness must be the driving goal and ambition of your life, because that is God's driving goal and ambition for your life.

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    And God cannot cut away our sinful edges without the instrument of pain.

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    Gold cannot be refined apart from fire.

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    A diamond cannot be made without intense pressure.

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    I know what some of you are thinking right now.

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    I've heard this all before, Taylor, but you have no idea what I'm going through right now.

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    And you're right.

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    I in no way want to minimize your pain or belittle your hardships.

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    I know that some of you in this room are going through suffering I can't even begin to understand.

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    But I want you to know, at the deepest level of your being, that God never, ever wastes your pain.

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    Suffering is never senseless, ever.

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    Paul promises that the Lord will use every single situation, every single relationship in your life, every single adversity to bring you into conformity to Christ and draw you ever nearer to him.

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    Does that sound good and right to you?

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    And if it doesn't, then you may be trying to use God your own agenda rather than submitting to him to be used to advance his agenda.

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    You may be putting your own wrong expectations above the right expectations of God.

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    And if that's you, I just wanna tell you to hold your plans, to hold your expectations very loosely.

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    Give them over to the Lord.

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    Let go of your short-sighted expectations and grab onto his guaranteed promises instead.

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    Finally, the fulfilled promises of God are bigger than me.

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    The fulfilled promises of God are bigger than me.

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    And these last few verses that we're about to read may seem unimportant at a first glance.

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    You might look at 'em like, oh, a genealogy, I can just tune out and not listen to this.

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    That'd be a big mistake because these are by far the most exciting and the most important verses of the entire book of Ruth.

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    These past four chapters, the author has zoomed in on the personal lives of Ruth, Naomi, and Boaz, but now he is zooming out to show us the big picture, to show us what God has been up to all along.

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    So let's read verses 17 through 22.

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    They named him Obed.

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    He was the father of Jesse, the father of David.

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    Now these are the generations of Perez.

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    Perez fathered Hezron, Hezron fathered Ram, Ram fathered Amenadab, Amenadab fathered Nishan, Nishan fathered Salmon, Salmon fathered Boaz, Boaz fathered Obed, Obed fathered Jesse, and Jesse fathered David.

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    You know, the most difficult part of seminary for me was learning the original biblical languages.

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    Tackling New Testament Greek certainly wasn't easy, but it was much easier than doing Old Testament Hebrew.

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    And to be honest with you, I procrastinated to the last possible second of my seminary degree to take Hebrew because I didn't think I could do it.

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    Hebrew is particularly difficult because the letters look ridiculous to an English speaker's mind.

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    These are the last few verses of Ruth in Hebrew.

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    Now you know how I felt back in 2018 on my first day of Hebrew, like what is this?

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    And the other hard thing about Hebrew is that you don't read it from left to right like we read.

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    You read it from right to left.

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    If you try to read it frontwards, it'll look like senseless gobbledygook.

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    But if you read it backwards, that will lead to true understanding and comprehension.

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    And a pastor from several hundred years ago once wrote, "The providence of God is like a Hebrew word.

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    "It can only be read backwards." God's plans often do not make sense to us until we can see where they ultimately lead.

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    His ways can seem ridiculous and random until we have this backwards viewpoint that typically only comes with time and patience.

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    And this certainly rings true for the book of Ruth.

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    We have been on a wild ride with a lot of twists and turns, but now we have arrived at God's intended destination.

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    Everything that we have studied over the past month only makes sense in light of these final verses.

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    This book would be incomplete and pointless without its ending.

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    God orchestrated and used the famine in Israel, the deaths of Elimelech and his boys, the depression of Naomi, the barley harvest in Bethlehem, the weird midnight proposal with Boaz and Ruth and the sudden business meeting at the gates of Bethlehem to lead to Obed, who fathered Jesse, who then fathered David.

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    This whole month, we've been studying the family line of King David.

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    Remember that Ruth takes place in the time of judges, which ends with these words, "In those days, there was no king in Israel.

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    Everyone did what was right in his own eyes.

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    But during that time, God was getting ready the king who would serve with a heart that is after his own.

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    A king who would serve with righteousness and integrity.

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    The most famous king in Israel's history.

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    And we could end this message right here, but we would still miss the real ending of the book of Ruth.

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    'Cause let me ask you, if you know David's life story, was he the perfect king?

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    Did he do everything right?

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    Not at all.

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    He did great things, but he also did despicable things that we still talk about to this day.

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    He was unable to fix all of Israel's problems, and his sinful choices led to the devastation, not just his family, but of his kingdom.

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    David's family line included good kings, but a lot of bad kings as well that led Israel into idolatry and sin.

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    And eventually because of this, God brings exile upon his people, which seemingly crushes the kingly line of David.

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    It seems like God's promise to David has been left unfulfilled and broken.

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    From 2 Samuel 7, 16, and your house and your kingdom shall be made sure forever before me.

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    Your throne shall be established forever.

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    Bummer, what a massive disappointment.

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    Or maybe God was providentially directing his promise to be fulfilled in the most unexpected of ways.

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    This genealogy from Ruth chapter four, verses 18 through 22 is repeated in Matthew chapter one, verses three through six.

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    And Matthew continues on with the family line of David until he ends on one final name and descendant.

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    And this name is the name above every other name.

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    This final name is the ultimate fulfillment of this promise to David, and the name is what?

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    Jesus.

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    Listen to how he is described by the angel Gabriel before he was even born.

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    He will be great, and he will be called the son of the most high, and the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob, and of his kingdom there will be no end.

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    The promise is fulfilled.

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    Ruth is way more than just a rom-com story of two people falling in love.

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    Ruth is not about Ruth.

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    It's not about Boaz.

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    It's not about Naomi.

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    It's not even about Obed and his grandson David, the great king of Israel, like the rest of scripture, that is about the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords, Ruth points us to Jesus.

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    He is the one we truly need.

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    He is the one who can take away our sin and bring us into a right relationship with God.

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    He is the true King of not just Israel, but of heaven and earth.

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    He is the leader who can help us to turn away from doing what is right in our own eyes, so we can turn towards doing what is right in the eyes of our holy creator.

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    Jesus is the answer to God's many promises.

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    And Paul affirms this in 2 Corinthians 1:20, "For all, all the promises of God, find their yes in him." Find their yes in Jesus Christ.

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    You know, I've heard the relationship between the Old and New Testament described in this profound way.

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    The Old Testament is all about God making promises, and the New Testament is all about God keeping those promises.

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    Harvest, we can know beyond a shadow of a doubt that God will keep his many promises to us about our present and our future, because we can look in the word of God, the past of God, keeping all of his promises to his people.

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    As we read in Numbers 23, 19, God is not man that he should lie, or a son of man that he should change his mind?

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    Has he said and will he not do it?

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    Or has he spoken and will he not fulfill it?

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    God is totally unlike us in every single way.

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    God doesn't say something but mean another.

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    He hasn't crossed his fingers behind his back when he says something.

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    God's promises are reality.

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    He is incapable of not fulfilling his word.

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    the worship team can come forward.

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    You know, over the past four weeks, and this morning in particular, I've tried to make it crystal clear that Ruth's book is not even about her.

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    And as we wrap up this series, I want to make one final thing crystal clear to you as well.

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    Your life is not about you.

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    Your life is not about your job or your list of accomplishments.

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    Your life is not about your spouse.

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    Your life isn't even about your kids and your grandkids.

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    Your life should be all about Jesus Christ and bringing him glory in all that you think, say, and do.

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    And if you truly work that basic yet profound truth into your heart, into your mind, you will experience a sense of joy and freedom that you've never had before.

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    That Christ-like mindset will free you to become a better and more selfless spouse, parent, friend, and church member.

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    There is nothing more relieving than realizing that you're really not that important.

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    You're important, but you're not that important.

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    You are just a background stage actor in the movie of life.

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    Jesus Christ is the main star, and you exist to shine the spotlight onto him.

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    You know, in the Lord's Supper, we are given a tangible way of shining that spotlight onto Christ, and in particular, His sacrificial death upon the cross.

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    This isn't just an empty religious ritual.

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    This isn't something we do to pad out the service.

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    This is a holy moment.

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    We come together as the body of Christ to remember what He has done for us and to thank Him.

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    When we eat the bread, we remember that he gave his body to be broken for us.

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    That he gave his blood when we drink the cup to shed upon the cross to wash our sins clean.

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    Do not take this time lightly because God does not take it lightly.

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    This is one of the most serious things we can do as a church.

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    It's where elders can now come forward.

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    I wanna be clear, you don't need to be a member church to take part in communion, but you do need to be a member of the family of God.

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    Scripture is so clear that this meal is only for born again believers in Christ.

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    So if you are not a Christian, I encourage you to stay seated.

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    But I also want to plead with you to bow the knee to Jesus Christ as your Savior and Lord.

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    Stop trying to take center stage in your life and instead humble yourself before him so that you can be forgiven and transformed.

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    Make the most important decision of your life this very minute because you don't know how many minutes you have left.

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    Please talk to me, talk to one of our elders before you leave, we would love nothing more than to answer any questions you might have, to pray with you and talk to you more about Jesus.

Small Group Discussion
Read Ruth 4:1-22

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Talk through all that Jesus had to sacrifice to fulfill His Father’s promises. How would your life be different if you meditated upon these truths multiple times a day?

  3. What does the average American expect from life? What should the Christian expect from life?

  4. How do you see yourself holding God to promises that He never made in His Word?

  5. Why is it freeing to know that life isn’t about you and that you’re important but not THAT important?

Breakout
Share any frustrations or disappointments that you are experiencing in this current season of life.

Read Romans 8:28 and pray for each other in light of the truths found in this verse.

Redeeming Ruth - The Redemption of God

Introduction:

The Redemption of God... (Ruth 3):

  1. Cannot be earned by my efforts but Only Received by Faith . (Ruth 3:1-5)

    Isaiah 64:6 - All of us have become like one who is unclean and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags.

  2. Brings me guaranteed Rest and Protection . (Ruth 3:6-14)

    Philippians 1:6 - And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.

    Jude 24 - Now to Him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you blameless before the presence of His glory with great joy.

  3. Reveals itself in my life in Tangible Ways . (Ruth 3:15-18)

    2 Corinthians 13:5 - Examine yourselves, to see if you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you? – unless indeed you fail to meet the test!

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    Alright, so you can turn to Ruth chapter 3 Ruth chapter 3 October 5th 2013 I asked the most important question of my life and this question could either the answer to this question could either devastate me or Change my future for the rest of my life. Can you guess what that question is?

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    Will you marry me and thankfully Kate's answer was yes which still boggles my mind that she would marry someone like me, and many of you are thinking, "Yes, Taylor, I'm thinking the same exact thing." It boggles my mind as well.

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    And I won't bore you with all the details of our engagement because even though it was exciting for us, it wasn't an over-the-top extravaganza that you often see on YouTube and social media.

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    Some guys take it way too far with proposals, don't they?

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    Turn to the person next to you and share the lamest or most extreme engagement story you've ever heard?

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    Take 20 seconds, do that.

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    20 seconds to explain the lamest or most extreme engagement story you've ever heard.

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    All right, all right.

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    Hopefully none of you shared about your engagement story during this, right?

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    Well, this past week, while you were doing whatever you were doing, I looked up the most crazy and weird proposal stories that have ever happened.

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    Do you wanna hear about what I came up with?

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    Or I thought you would.

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    Did you know, for a short period of time, Pizza Hut offered a dinner box that came with an engagement package?

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    Because we all think of romance when we think of a personal pan pizza that used to be good back in the 90s, right?

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    We actually have a picture of their ad.

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    This engagement included a red ruby ring.

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    Oh, so fancy.

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    A limo ride, and even a fireworks display.

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    Man, if I'd only known about that back in the day, my engagement story would even be more noteworthy.

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    And this option could have been mine for the super reasonable price of $10,010 plus tax.

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    I love the $10, like that pushes it over the edge for to make it really worth it.

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    Or how about this one?

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    An amateur pilot named Anthony convinced his girlfriend to let him take her up for a plane ride even though she was terrified of flying.

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    And while they're flying, he fakes an engine failure.

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    And he hands her a checklist and frantically says, wait, read me all the instructions.

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    And she's like crying and down to the bottom.

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    And the last thing that says is, will you marry me?

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    And after she comes down from a panic attack, she actually said yes.

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    And this last one might be my favorite.

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    A Russian guy named Alexey Bykov hired a stuntman and a film director to help him fake his own death in an elaborate car crash right in front of his girlfriend.

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    And so after Lexi is laying there in a pile of movie blood, he pops up, "Will you marry me?" And thankfully and strangely, she actually said yes.

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    I feel like these last two stories almost say more about the women who said yes than the guys who asked if they would say yes.

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    Well, at this point, you may be thinking, "Taylor, this is really fun and all, But are you gonna get to the point in the near future?

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    Well, we're in the third week of our study of the Book of Ruth.

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    This morning, we're gonna zero in on one of the most unique proposal stories in the entire Bible.

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    It may not be as strange as a Pizza Hut engagement box or faking a plane or a car crash, but it's up there.

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    And since this proposal story is so unusual, I wanna approach this sermon in a very unusual way.

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    I wanna keep us on our toes this morning.

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    I want you to put yourself in elementary school mindset and get ready for story time.

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    Who likes story time?

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    As a kid, remember the carpet squares you used to sit on?

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    I want you to bust out a mental carpet square and get ready for story time as I go straight through the account of Ru's proposal to Boaz in chapter three of this book.

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    And we'll see that this isn't just an entertaining retelling of someone popping the question.

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    This is actually a glorious picture of sacrifice, redemption, and restoration.

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    And once we wrap up story time, we will unpack three essential truths about our redemption in Christ that we see reflected in the Lord's redemption of Ruth.

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    So before we do that, let's go to the Lord and ask for his help.

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    Father, we thank you so much this time as we open up your word to hear from you.

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    And that's what we want, to hear from you.

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    Every single time we read from your word, we are hearing from the mouth of God.

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    I pray that we would submit to you.

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    We receive the word that you have for us, Lord.

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    that we'd walk out of here different and transformed.

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    We ask all this in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

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    So let's kick off story time with a reminder of where we've come so far because maybe you forgot or maybe you weren't here over the past week or two.

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    So a famine hits the land of Israel and a family of four escapes to the pagan nation of Moab.

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    And while they're there, the father of Limelech and his two boys suddenly die.

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    They leave behind their mother, Naomi, and their two Moabite wives, Ruth and Orpah.

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    And Naomi hears that the Lord has revisited Israel with rain and there's finally food.

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    So she decides to turn away from Moab and turn back to Israel.

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    Orpah decides to stay in Moab while Ruth decides to loyally stick by her mother-in-law's side because she actually loves and worships Yahweh.

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    And the Lord's providential hand leads Ruth to a large community field in Israel.

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    And the portion of the field is owned by a man of integrity named Boaz.

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    And Boaz shows Ruth unbelievable kindness.

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    And she comes back to her house with 30 pounds of barley.

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    And she tells Naomi everything that happened with Boaz.

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    And Naomi gives her the juicy detail that Boaz is actually one of their relatives and he is one of their redeemers.

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    Well, what does that mean?

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    What is a redeemer?

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    Well, a kinsman redeemer is a male family member who is expected to help their household in times of trouble.

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    And not just with their immediate family, but with their extended family as well.

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    If a family member is sold into slavery, a kinsman redeemer is expected to buy them back, to buy their freedom.

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    If a murder or theft hits the family, The kinsman redeemer is expected to seek justice and not just sit back and do nothing.

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    If family property or land is lost for any reason, the kinsman redeemer must buy it back at his own expense rather than sit back and go, good luck with that, not my problem.

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    If a husband dies childless, his brother is expected to marry his widow.

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    And this kinsman redeemer should father a son for his brother so his brother's name does not die with him.

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    Now this may be brand new information for us in 2024, but this Redeemer tradition was ringing in Naomi's mind as she heard about Boaz's kindness to Ruth.

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    So she begins to hatch a plan, an idea for the strangest proposal that you can imagine.

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    She wants Boaz to marry Ruth so that he can redeem and rescue their family line.

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    So let's peek into Naomi's house to overhear her lay out this plan step by step to Ruth in verses one through five of chapter three.

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    The Naomi, her mother-in-law said to her, my daughter, should I not seek rest for you that it may be well with you?

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    Is not Boaz our relative with whose young women you were?

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    See, he is winnowing barley tonight at the threshing floor.

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    Wash therefore and anoint yourself and put on your cloak and go down to the threshing floor, but do not make yourself known to the man until he has finished eating and drinking.

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    But when he lies down, observe the place where he lies, then go and uncover his feet and lie down and he will tell you what to do.

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    And she replied, all that you say, I will do.

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    So like a good mother, Naomi only wants what is best for Ruth.

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    She wants her daughter-in-law to experience true rest and protection.

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    And Naomi seems to get that God is providentially bringing Ruth and Boaz together.

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    She kind of wants to push that boulder a bit further so they go down the hill and gather momentum.

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    I'm sure that nobody in this room can relate to having a nebby mother-in-law like Naomi, right?

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    Don't laugh too hard for some of you.

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    At the end of the harvest season, the reapers actually would sleep in the field overnight after working overtime to make sure that all of the work is finished on time.

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    This is the time of winnowing, when the wheat or barley is thrown in the air and the grain and the chaff is separated from each other.

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    The chaff actually blows away in the wind.

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    And Naomi knows that Boaz is a great guy, he's a great boss, so he won't just be sleeping at home in his own bed while his workers do everything.

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    She knows he's gonna be sleeping at the threshing floor with them.

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    She tells Ruth to get dressed up, put on her best face, sneak down to the threshing floor and spy on Boaz for a bit.

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    And once he's had his celebratory wine, his late night snack, and has fallen asleep, go to him, lie down with him, and uncover his feet.

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    Now we have to understand, this story took place over 3,000 years ago, so there's a lot of customs and traditions that we have no idea about.

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    It's kind of hard to grasp Naomi's thought process here, because in 2024, at first glance, this seems like a sexual proposition, but that is not the case, and that will become obvious as the story unfolds.

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    But there are a couple questions that pop up as you read this text.

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    Why couldn't Naomi have just gone to Boaz in the light of day to ask him to marry Ruth?

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    As was very common back in those days.

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    Why did this all have to happen at nighttime?

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    As your mother probably told you at some point, nothing good happens after midnight.

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    Have you ever heard your mom say that?

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    or if you're a mom, have you said that to your kids?

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    Well, that's certainly proven true in my life and probably many of your lives as well.

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    And the uncovering of the feet is a bit weird too.

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    People have a question about what does that even mean?

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    Well, the simplest answer is probably the right answer.

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    By removing the sheet from his feet, he would get chilly and, thank you, Pastor Jeff.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    He would get chilly and he would wake up.

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    So after Ruth hears this entire plan, she doesn't object, she doesn't ask any questions.

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    She says that she will do everything as she is told to do.

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    So let's see how the execution of the plan works out in verses six through 13.

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    So Ruth went down to the threshing floor and did just as her mother-in-law had commanded her.

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    And when Boaz had eaten and drunk and his heart was merry, "He went to lie down at the end of the heap of grain.

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    "Then she came softly and uncovered his feet and lay down.

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    "At midnight the man was startled and turned over "and behold a woman laid his feet.

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    "He said, 'Who are you?' "And she answered, 'I am Ruth, your servant.

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    "'Spread your wings over your servant "'for you are a redeemer.' "And he said, 'May you be blessed by the Lord, my daughter.

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    "'You have made this last kindness to me "'greater than the first, "in which you have not yet gone after young men, "whether poor or rich.

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    "And now, my daughter, do not fear.

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    "I will do for you all that you ask, "for all my fellow townsmen know "that you are a worthy woman.

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    "And now it is true that I am a Redeemer." Now get ready to gasp.

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    "Yet there is a Redeemer nearer than I." And nobody gasped.

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    Let me give another chance at that.

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    "Yet there is a Redeemer nearer than I." All right, good job.

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    "Remain tonight in the morning.

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    "If he will redeem you, good, let him do it.

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    "But if he is not willing to redeem you, "then as the Lord lives, I will redeem you.

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    "Lie down until morning." Like any man being woken up in the dead of night, Boaz is a bit startled and jumpy, but he's excited that Ruth is there because he likes her and he is happy that she wants to marry him.

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    He's a bit surprised because he's a bit older when she's younger.

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    And he says that her reputation is growing in Bethlehem and she's a very eligible bachelorette among the younger guys in town.

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    Boaz wants to marry her, but as we just gassed at, there is another redeemer in the family who is closer, who is next in line to marry Ruth.

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    And Boaz can't just cut in line without asking for this redeemer's permission first to see if he wants to marry Ruth.

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    Boaz swears in the name of Yahweh that he will marry, he will redeem Ruth if this other redeemer rejects her.

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    He tells her to lie down and they fall asleep, which again, looks really bad on the surface, right?

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    But we have no idea how close the other sleeping workers were to them at the time.

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    It's very likely that Boaz was worried for Ruth's safety and he didn't want her to travel back home into pitch black, especially during the time of the judges where other men weren't to be trusted.

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    As we read this story, it's a good idea to assume the best instead of the worst when it comes to Ruth and Boaz because they have a long track record of doing the right thing.

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    But I have a quick tangent I wanna share with you.

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    This story is not giving unmarried couples permission to sleep in the same bed or live in the same house even if they aren't having sex.

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    The author is not saying that this was a good and wise choice, he is simply describing what happened all those years ago, not prescribing how unmarried couples should go about their sleeping arrangements.

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    Does that make sense?

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    All right, good, I feel so much better, now we can move on.

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    So let's wrap up story time with verses 14 through 18.

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    So Ruth laid his feet until the morning, but arose before one could recognize another.

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    And he said, "Let it not be known that the woman came to the threshing floor.

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    And he said, bring the garment you are wearing and hold it out.

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    So she held it, and he measured out six measures of barley and put it on her.

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    Then she went into the city.

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    And when she came to her mother-in-law, she said, how did you fare, my daughter?

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    Then she told her all the man had done for her, saying, these six measures of barley he gave to me, for he said to me, you must not go back empty-handed to your mother-in-law.

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    She replied, wait, my daughter, until you learn "turns out, for the man will not rest, "but will settle the matter today." So they both wake up before it's light out, and Boaz says, "Hey, nobody can know about this, "because again, it seems pretty bad, right?" If people hear about this, the rumor mill will begin to churn, right?

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    They didn't have sex, but perception often seems like reality.

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    You could just imagine what people would say in Bethlehem.

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    "Did you hear what happened last night in Boaz's field?

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    "Him and Ruth slept together.

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    "He's such a creepy old man.

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    "Oh, Ruth, I thought she loved the Lord, "but I guess I was wrong about her." Boaz isn't trying to cover up wrongdoing.

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    He's simply trying to protect Ruth's reputation.

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    He doesn't want lies and rumors following her around for the rest of her life.

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    And then Boaz has her take off her shawl and he fills it with 60 to 80 pounds of barley.

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    I was laughing this entire week.

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    I mean, how did that even work?

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    Here, give me your shawl.

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    He puts all this weight in it.

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    I guess she just threw it over her shoulder and like dragged it home.

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    I have no idea how this worked.

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    But instead of going to Pizza Hut and getting a red ruby ring to show to her that he would marry her, he gives her all this food as a symbol that he will redeem her if the time comes.

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    And he gives her this symbol to show to Naomi as well, to show that he will follow through on his word.

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    And Naomi is convinced that he will be on the ball, that he's gonna track down the other redeemer that very day.

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    And that is the story of chapter three.

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    You can put your mental carpet squares away since story time is over.

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    And I know what some of you may be thinking at this point in this message.

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    Taylor, I was paying attention the entire time, but I'm still unclear about what this proposal has to do with me.

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    Well, we just heard a story of a woman being guaranteed that she will be rescued from an extremely difficult position in life.

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    This is a story of redemption.

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    And if you know and love Jesus Christ, you have a story of redemption as well, except your story of redemption is infinitely more beautiful and glorious than Ruth's.

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    Her redemption only involved freedom from a life of isolation and poverty.

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    You, on the other hand, have been redeemed or bought back from slavery to Satan, sin, and death.

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    Your ransom has been paid by the precious blood of Christ that was shed upon the cross, and you have been rescued from eternal punishment in hell.

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    You have gone from an enemy of God to a beloved child and friend.

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    You have been set free.

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    And that news is astounding the first time you heard it, and it'll be as astounding the billionth time you've heard it.

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    But unfortunately and sadly, we often lose sight of how truly awesome this story of redemption really is.

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    So for the next few minutes, I want us to see how Ruth's redemption points to our own and highlights the amazing grace of our great God.

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    So on your outline, the redemption of God, number one, cannot be earned by my efforts, but only received by faith.

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    Cannot be earned by my efforts, but only received by faith.

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    As we read earlier, Ruth is told by Naomi to take a bath, put on her nicest outfit, to spray her neck and wrists with perfume, and to approach Boaz under the cover of darkness.

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    Now this fancy makeover is most likely a sign that she is no longer mourning her husband who died, that she is making herself available for remarriage.

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    This is the ancient equivalent of activating your online dating profile and clicking the box that says single.

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    Ruth puts in her best effort into her appearance for this big date.

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    You know, I was talking to Rich Sprunk a few weeks ago about this passage, and he said something that has really stuck in my mind.

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    I haven't been able to stop thinking about since when it comes to this passage.

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    He said, knowing Boaz's character, he would have chosen to redeem and marry Ruth even if she hadn't focused on how she looked.

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    If she had looked like she just rolled out of bed and she hadn't really focused on what she looked like, he still would have redeemed her because he cared about her.

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    He didn't care about her external appearance.

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    Ruth didn't need to clean herself up to be redeemed by Boaz.

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    And we don't need to clean ourselves up for Christ to be redeemed by him either.

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    You know, working in full-time ministry, I hear so many inaccurate claims from a wide variety of people.

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    I'll hear people say, oh, you don't want me going to your church.

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    If I were to walk in, I'd immediately catch on fire.

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    Have you ever heard someone say something like that before?

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    They say it so confidently, like it's ever happened in the history of the church, right?

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    Like we have a special fire extinguisher just to put out the horrible people who walk into our church.

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    We have a fantastic security team, but I'm pretty sure this is not one of the scenarios they've been trained on.

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    Pastor Jeff, you've been in ministry for over 30 years.

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    Have you ever seen this happen before?

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    All right, let us know if you do remember.

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    I hear this next one a lot.

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    I know, I know, I need to read the Bible and go to church, but I need to work on myself first.

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    I need to clean up my act before I can get right with God.

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    Does that sound like a good plan to you?

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    I always respond in the same exact way.

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    You're getting that order completely reversed.

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    You have a zero percent chance of cleaning up your act and becoming the person you need to be apart from being made right with God.

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    Behavior modification doesn't matter if you haven't had a heart transformation?

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    What's the point of trying to obey the word of God if you have not been saved from the wrath of God?

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    We have to constantly remind ourselves that we cannot work our way towards this redemption.

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    We can never be good enough.

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    We can never do enough.

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    We are given this hard news in Isaiah 64, six, that all of us have become like one who is unclean, and all of our righteous acts are like filthy rags.

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    Even your best efforts apart from Christ are disgusting and dirty in the eyes of God.

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    Trying to pay off your sin debt to the Lord with your own unrighteous deeds is as foolish as trying to pay your taxes this April with Monopoly money.

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    You can try either of those things with the highest of hopes and the best of intentions, but the debt will remain the same and it will be unpaid.

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    Scripture makes it crystal clear that we can only receive this redemption by grace through faith in the finished work of Jesus Christ.

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    The Apostle Paul backs this up in Ephesians 2:8-9.

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    For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing.

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    It is the gift of God, not a result of works that no one may boast.

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    If you've been trying to scrub yourself clean to be accepted by God, I have fantastic news for you this morning.

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    You can stop doing that right now, because it does nothing.

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    It does nothing.

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    Instead, turn to Jesus Christ for salvation.

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    His perfect blood will wash you clean of every single sinful stain on your life, no matter what it is.

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    He alone can pay off your sin debt in an instant.

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    He alone can redeem you.

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    He alone can rescue you.

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    He alone can free you from your sin.

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    If you're a follower of Christ this morning, please never forget that salvation belongs to the Lord.

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    You didn't save you, Jesus Christ saved you.

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    As Paul said in the verses we just read, We have no room to boast about ourselves because the only thing we contributed to our redemption is the sin that made it necessary in the first place.

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    It can be so easy to fall under pride and look down our noses at unbelievers around us and make them feel less than.

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    To make ourselves puffed up and think that we're better than them, which we are not.

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    We can act like we're special and they can just get lost and stay lost.

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    Listen, the only difference between you and a non-Christian is the saving grace of Jesus Christ.

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    That is it.

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    You are no better than them.

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    And if you can be content with hoarding God's grace and keeping it to yourself, I have a hard time believing you've even experienced his grace.

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    It should rip us apart that there are dozens and dozens of people that we interact with every single day who are on the road to hell and are in desperate need of the redemption that is in Jesus Christ.

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    Instead of constantly grumbling about how horrible this culture is, let's actually commit ourselves to evangelism and prayer.

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    Instead of just pouting in the corner, crossing our arms, let's actually do something about it.

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    We cannot afford to stand our holy huddle at this church and just pat each other on the back and see how great we are.

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    We have to get in the game at work, our schools, in our neighborhoods to point people to this amazing grace, to this redemption that is offered them.

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    If we're gonna brag about anything, let us brag about Christ and what he can do in anyone's life.

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    Secondly, the redemption of God brings me guaranteed rest and protection.

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    brings me guaranteed rest and protection.

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    As we've already discussed, Ruth and Naomi want the same exact thing.

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    Rest and protection.

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    They don't want to wake up every single day wondering what's going to happen.

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    They don't want to lay their heads on their pillows at night wondering how they're going to make ends meet.

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    They don't want to stress about is Ruth going to find someone to marry?

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    Will our family line die with our husbands?

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    They truly believe that Boaz is the answer to all of their problems.

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    In chapter two, verse 12, Boaz commended Ruth for running away from the idols of Moab to find refuge and protection under the wings of Yahweh.

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    And in chapter three, verse nine, Ruth turns the tables on Boaz with his own words by saying this, "Spread your wings over your servant "for you are a redeemer." With this callback, Ruth is saying, "Actually, Boaz, you are the one "that God will use to restore my life.

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    "You are God's instrument of redemption for me." What a mic drop moment.

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    What can Boaz say to this except yes, which he does.

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    He wants to help Ruth.

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    He wants to protect and care for her.

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    And if you're a born-again believer, God has spread his wings of protection and care over you as well.

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    He has promised to walk through the trials of life with you.

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    He has promised to bring great good out of the worst things that happen to you.

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    He has promised you eternal security.

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    God wants his people to know that they are his people.

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    He doesn't want you to wonder if you're going to heaven or not.

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    He wants you to have an assurance of salvation.

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    You know, the grocery store coupons you get in the mail can only be redeemed for items that will last for a very short period of time.

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    They will eventually be eaten or thrown in the garbage.

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    While God's redemption in Christ lasts forever and has no expiration date, our redemption never goes bad or needs to be repurchased.

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    The same God who saved you will keep and sustain you for the rest of your life.

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    Paul talks about this in Philippians 1:6, and I am sure of this, this is confidence, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.

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    You know, many of us have a lot of unfinished projects at home right now.

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    We wonder when or if they'll ever get completed.

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    I'm sorry if I just got you in trouble again by bringing up your failure in this area.

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    I know I have some pain, touch-ups around the house I need to get to that I keep pushing off and pushing off and pushing off.

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    The great news is this never happens with God.

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    God has no unfinished projects.

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    He finishes what he starts every single time.

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    If you've been adopted into his family, he will never let go of you.

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    He started you on this Christian race, He will give you energy and strength as you run it, and He will bring you victoriously across that finish line.

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    The God who justified you in the past will sanctify you in the present and then glorify you in eternity.

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    I know what some of you may be thinking.

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    Well, Taylor, what if I do something so bad that God doesn't love me anymore?

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    What if I do something so horrible that God just lets go of me and drops me.

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    Well, if you wrestle with that kind of thinking, you need to look more at God and his word than you look to yourself.

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    Correct your wrong theology about God before you make any more wrong assumptions about him.

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    God isn't a fickle dad who has mood swings and may kick us out of the house or not.

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    He is a loving father who keeps us close to his side "no matter what." We're told in the book of Jude to look to God who is infinitely able to keep you from stumbling and to present you blameless before the presence of his glory with great joy.

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    I love that last line, with great joy.

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    God isn't thinking, "I can't stand you, "but if I have to live with you forever, fine." No, instead God is saying, I sacrifice what is most precious to me to redeem you, my own son.

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    I have saved you, I will keep you, and I will enjoy your company forever and ever.

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    He is our protector, he is our rest in this life and eternity.

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    Finally, the redemption of God reveals itself in my life in tangible ways.

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    The redemption of God reveals itself in my life in tangible ways.

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    So our story wrapped up with Boaz giving Ruth a tangible symbol of his promise to her.

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    More food than she knew what to deal with.

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    And as believers, God has given us a much better symbol of our redemption than a scarf full of bread.

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    He has given us the Holy Spirit.

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    Scripture describes the Holy Spirit as the seal, the guarantee or down payment of our redemption in Christ.

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    He comes to live within Christians, and there is a clear and tangible evidence of his transforming power in our lives.

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    He transforms us, He gives us new hearts that actually desire the Lord.

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    He produces the fruit of the Spirit within us, love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

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    It should be evident to everyone around you that there is something different about you, that you're not like everyone else.

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    How can you possibly be indwelt by the God of the universe and be just like the rest of the world?

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    It's not possible.

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    As Pastor Jeff taught on all throughout the book of James, a faith that hasn't changed you hasn't saved you.

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    We should be making some kind of progress in our walk with the Lord.

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    You should be more like Jesus Christ on December 31st, 2024 than you were on January 1st, 2024.

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    And if you don't see any changes you're thinking, you're speaking, or you're living, you have to ask yourself, do I truly know and love Jesus Christ?

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    We just learned that we cannot lose our salvation, but maybe some of you in this room will come to the realization that you never actually received this salvation in the first place.

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    You may even be a baptized member of this church, but you may not be a member of God's family.

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    This is painful to admit.

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    This is a hard thing to come to grips with.

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    But if there is no tangible evidence or fruit of transformation in your life, you need to take a hard look at yourself in the mirror and evaluate your spiritual condition.

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    Don't ignore this harsh reality any longer.

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    This is way worse than noticing that the engine of your car is smoking and on fire, but you just continue to keep on driving anyway.

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    to pull over immediately to deal with this emergency.

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    Recently I had my car batteries keep dying and dying and dying and I have a guy in the church that lives really close to me, I had to keep inviting him over to my house to jump my car for me.

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    I couldn't do it without his help.

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    You know what, don't face this on your own.

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    Ask for help.

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    If you are wrestling with doubts and concerns about your salvation, please call me.

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    Talk to Pastor Jeff, talk to one of our elders, talk to your small group leader.

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    We do not want a question mark floating over your eternal destiny.

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    There is too much at stake just to roll the dice on that.

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    Face these things with people who love and care about you.

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    Well, as the worship team comes forward, will you please bow your heads and close your eyes?

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    You know, the redemption that is found in Jesus Christ is like a massive, gorgeous, and multifaceted diamond.

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    No matter how many times you look at it and examine it from different angles, you should be captivated by its beauty and its splendor.

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    How can we possibly hear this good news and be bored by it?

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    How dare we be unmoved by the sacrificial love of our Savior and just shrug our shoulders and say, eh, I've heard it all before, what else you got?

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    If you're experiencing that kind of indifference this morning, take a few moments to go to the Lord and cry out along with David from Psalm 51, 12, "Restore to me the joy of your salvation." Ask God to fill you afresh with an excitement for him and what he has done for you.

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    Or maybe you never really think very much of sharing this good news with others and you just settle for living a nice life little bubble.

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    Ask the Lord to burst that bubble so that you can step out of your comfort zone and faithfully proclaim the gospel to people in your life who are on the wrong track and in need of what Christ has to offer.

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    And finally, if you are unsure of where you stand with Jesus Christ, take some time to contemplate who he is.

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    Take some time to meditate on his life, his death, and his resurrection.

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    I hope that you will stop trying to clean yourself up this morning, or ignoring the warning signs in your life, and finally give yourself over to Christ and faithfully follow him.

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    Take some time to be still before the Lord, and I will close us in a final prayer in a minute or two.

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    Father, we come to you.

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    And we admit that we so often get distracted by a million different things.

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    We so often take our eyes off of what is truly important.

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    Lord, I pray that in the stillness, we are able to meet with you and do serious business with you.

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    Whether it's a matter of salvation, it was a matter of just restoring the joy of the salvation that's already present.

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    Lord, we thank you for all that you've done for us in Christ.

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    Lord, thank you that we have been redeemed.

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    We have been rescued.

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    We have been set free.

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    And Lord, if there's anyone in this room who has not yet experienced that, Lord, I pray they wouldn't be able to leave today without making that important decision.

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    Lord, for the next few moments, help us we worship you in light of what you have done for us to lift high the name of Jesus Christ.

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    It's in his name we pray, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Ruth 3:1-18

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. What does it mean to be redeemed? How can we stay passionate about our redemption and not lose sight of how awesome it truly is?

  3. How do you see the sin of pride showing up in your life right now? Why should we never view ourselves as better than unbelievers in our lives and in our culture?

  4. Do you ever struggle with an assurance of your salvation? How can true believers fight against their doubts and lack of assurance?

  5. If the Holy Spirit lives within you, what evidence will show up in your life? In other words, what are the marks of a changed life?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Redeeming Ruth - The Kindness of God

Introduction:

The Rudeness Quiz:

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The Kindness of God... (Ruth 2):

  1. Puts me in the Right Place at the Right Time . (Ruth 2:1-7)
  2. Transforms my Character . (Ruth 2:8-10)
    1. I should help those who cannot Repay Me . (Ruth 2:8-9)
    2. I should humble myself instead of Embracing Entitlement . (Ruth 2:10)
  3. Rewards my Faithfulness . (Ruth 2:11-23)

    Psalm 23:6 - Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

    "He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose." - Jim Elliot

    Psalm 63:3 - Because your loving-kindness is better than life, my lips shall praise you. Thus, I will bless you while I live; I will lift up my hands in Your name.

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  • 00:55-01:02

    So as you turn to Ruth chapter two, I want you to help me answer a really important question that I've been thinking about all week.

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    Are you ready?

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    The question is, are we becoming ruder as a society, yes or no?

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    Who says no?

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    One brave soul, Jane Auer, I'm not surprised.

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    All right, who besides Jay says yes?

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    I heard you all say yes, but you don't wanna raise your hands for some reason.

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    Well, if you raise your hand, you're in welcome company because 79% of Americans believe that rudeness is on the rise and kindness is sharply declining.

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    You know what's interesting?

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    If I asked you to raise your hand, if you encounter a rude person recently, every single hand would shoot up immediately.

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    But if I asked, if any of you believe that you are a rude or unkind person, I doubt that anyone would raise their hands.

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    Well, none of you are prepared for this, but we're gonna take a quick pop quiz this morning.

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    On your bulletin, I want you to write down the rudeness quiz, and underneath that title, put the numbers one, two, three, four, five, six.

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    Okay?

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    One, two, three, four, five, six.

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    And whenever I ask if you've committed a certain rude behavior, you'll either put a check mark if you have done it, or an X if you have not done it.

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    And don't look at your neighbor's paper because that's so rude and you'll automatically fail the quiz.

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    Are we ready to understand the rules?

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    Everyone's like, I regret coming to church this morning.

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    Don't worry, we'll be okay, don't worry.

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    All right, number one, coming out the gate hot.

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    Number one, do you ever interrupt people as they talk?

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    Put a check mark or an X next to number one.

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    Do you ever interrupt people as they talk?

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    Thank you, Darla, for proving my point.

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    Number two, have you ever failed to return your shopping cart to the metal cart corral in the grocery store parking lot?

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    This really says a lot about who you are as a person.

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    Have you ever not returned your shopping cart to that metal corral in the parking lot?

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    Are you one of those people who's left it by your car and just slams into somebody else's car later when the wind blows?

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    Check mark or X, okay?

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    Number three, have you tailgated someone or rode their bumper because they were going too slow?

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    Everyone failed that one, I think.

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    Number four, have you ever been late to an appointment or meeting?

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    Have you ever been late to church?

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    Number five, have you ever used the last of something but not replaced it?

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    Gas in the tank, milk in the fridge, paper towels, or the biggest one, toilet paper, right?

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    X or check?

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    Number six, have you ever ignored someone who is talking to you by looking at your phone or texting right in front of them?

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    All right, pencils down.

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    How did you do?

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    Well, thank you for being honest.

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    Many of us did terrible, myself included.

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    And these are all silly examples, right, that we can laugh at.

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    But we can all honestly admit that we fail to be kind on a daily basis to the people that we interact with.

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    And some of you may be thinking, well, Taylor, I'm a really nice person.

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    I'm kind to everyone, ask anyone.

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    I would respond to that by saying, it's really easy to spot the rudeness in others, but it's really hard to spot it in ourselves.

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    We are often blind to our own lack of kindness.

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    We justify our unkind attitudes, words, and behaviors by slapping other ridiculous labels on them.

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    It's not my fault.

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    I had a bad day.

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    I couldn't help it.

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    That person made me so angry.

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    Well, I had to focus on me today and do what's right for me.

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    Well, I'm just a straight shooter.

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    I just tell people the way I see it.

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    I call things out.

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    Or how about this one?

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    I only treat people the way that they treat me.

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    If you're nice to me, I will be so nice to you.

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    But if you disrespect me, I'm gonna disrespect you right back.

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    You know, as our Lord would say, right?

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    These are all lame excuses that are truly embarrassing when you put them under the microscope and honestly look at them.

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    and evaluate them.

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    As followers of Christ, we should never try, we should never try to excuse the inexcusable, and according to the word of God, being unkind is inexcusable.

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    Instead of making excuses, instead of trying to justify our bad behavior, let us own up to our failures in this area and choose to be better by the grace of God.

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    We are towards the beginning of our study of the Book of Ruth, and this morning, we're gonna focus our attention on the second chapter.

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    And the author arranged this chapter like a five-act play, and each act is a separate conversation.

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    There's not a lot of action in this chapter, but there is a lot of dialogue, a lot of people just talking to each other.

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    And all of these conversations center around one key theme, kindness.

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    Specifically, the loving kindness of God, who often delivers his greatest blessings through the kindness of his people.

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    And I'm not just talking about being polite by putting your card away at Giant Eagle, or not driving like a maniac on the road whenever someone annoys you.

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    I'm talking about genuine acts of selflessness that are born out of imitating our great God and Father.

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    Acts of kindness that point others to Jesus Christ.

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    Acts of kindness that are done to not receive kudos or to get ahead.

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    Acts of kindness that are used to genuinely help and bless others.

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    It is my hope this morning that we will be blown away by the kindness of God and equipped to be his agents of kindness in an unkind world.

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    So let's go to the Lord and ask that he would show us wondrous things in his word.

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    Father, we come to you and we ask for your help.

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    Lord, it's so easy to come to church week in and week out and tune out, not pay attention, to be distracted by all the things we have to think about.

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    Lord, help us to remember that we are coming to your word, we're hearing you speak to us.

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    What could be more important than this?

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    Nothing.

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    Lord, help us to humble ourselves, to clear our minds, and to be ready to receive your word and to submit to it.

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    In Jesus' name we pray, amen.

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    So before we dig into Ruth chapter two, let's quickly cover what we studied last week in case you need a fresh reminder or you weren't here.

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    View this as the previously on portion of your favorite TV show, all right?

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    So previously on Ruth, a famine strikes the land of Israel needs a man named Elimelech to take his family to the pagan nation of Moab so that they can survive and have food.

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    And Elimelech dies of unknown causes in Moab, and following his death, his two sons die as well.

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    And they leave behind Moabite wives.

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    And they leave behind their mother, Naomi, who was stranded in a foreign land with two daughters-in-law.

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    Naomi learned somehow that rain has returned to Israel and the famine is finally over.

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    So she chooses to turn away from her life in Moab and turn back to the grace and provision of Yahweh in Israel.

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    Her one daughter-in-law Orpah chooses to go back to Moab, go back to her old life and to her old gods.

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    But her other daughter-in-law Ruth decides to stick by Naomi because she has committed herself to Yahweh.

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    She has been saved by faith in him.

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    And Naomi returns to Bethlehem feeling very beaten up and broken down.

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    She is coming back with very low expectations.

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    But as you read at the end of the last chapter, the reaping of the barley harvest has come in Israel and the reaping of God's blessings is soon arriving for Ruth and Naomi as well.

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    Are we all caught up?

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    Are we all awake?

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    If the person next to you is not awake, you have my permission to elbow them, okay?

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    All right, let's move forward with the story and read verses one through seven of chapter two.

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    Now Naomi had a relative of her husband's, a worthy man of the clan of Elimelech, whose name was Boaz.

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    And Ruth the Moabite said to Naomi, "Let me go to the field and glean among the ears of grain after him in whose sight I shall find favor." And Naomi said to her, "Go, my daughter." So Ruth set out and went and gleaned in the field "after the reapers, and she happened to come "to the part of the field belonging to Boaz, "who was of the clan of Elimelech.

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    "And behold, Boaz came from Bethlehem, "and he said to the reapers, 'The Lord be with you!' "And they answered, 'The Lord bless you.' "Then Boaz said to his young man "who was in charge of the reapers, "'Whose young woman is this?' "And the servant who was in charge of the reapers answered, "'She is the young Moabite woman who came back with Naomi from the country of Moab.

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    She said, "Please let me glean and gather among the sheaves after the reapers." So she came, and she has continued from early morning until now, except for a short rest.

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    So our outline for this morning is all centered around the kindness of God.

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    And number one, we learn that the kindness of God puts me in the right place at the right time.

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    The kindness of God puts me in the right place at the right time.

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    And the author of Ruth kicks things off by shining a spotlight onto a new character named Boaz.

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    And we learn that Boaz is a family member of Naomi's recently deceased husband, Elimelech.

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    And he is a wealthy field owner.

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    And he is described as a man of valor, a worthy man, which means that he is a man of integrity.

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    who wants to do the right thing and honor the Lord.

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    And after this quick introduction, we see the hand of God at work in bringing Ruth across Boaz's path, in particular, his field.

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    Ruth knows that she needs to take action quickly or she and her mother-in-law will starve.

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    Remember, they are two widows over 3,000 years ago, which is a really tough position to be in.

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    They have no husbands or sons to protect them to provide for them.

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    But in his mercy, in the books of Leviticus and Deuteronomy, God made it clear that landowners shouldn't completely pick their fields clean and just hoard everything for themselves.

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    Instead, the edges, the borders of their fields should be reserved for the poor, for the widow, for the orphan, for the foreigner, so that they can survive.

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    And everything that the harvesters drop on the ground should be left for the needy as well.

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    "a gracious law from the Lord that allows those "who are needy to work for their food rather than beg." So in the first of the five conversations in chapter two, Ruth tells Naomi that she is gonna go to one of the edges of these field to gather barley.

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    And Naomi just decides to hold down the fort and stay put.

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    What's up with that?

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    That seems so rude and unhelpful, doesn't it?

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    Naomi kind of seems like Grandpa Joe and Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.

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    You don't know who I'm talking about.

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    We have a picture of Grandpa Joe right behind me, I think.

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    There he is.

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    The internet's favorite character in a movie.

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    You know, Charlie's poor grandparents live in squalor with him and his parents.

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    And he has four grandparents who all sleep in the same bed together.

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    And Grandpa Joe has laid in bed immobile for 20 years.

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    But then all of a sudden he jumps up kid's summer camp starts dancing around the house whenever he's offered a golden ticket to go on a chocolate factory tour. How convenient! Now you can suddenly move.

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    What happened to the past 20 years? You're just laying there in bed doing nothing while your kids are struggling and your grandkids are struggling as well. Why is Naomi suddenly acting like Grandpa Joe? Why is she just laying around doing nothing.

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    You know, many will say that Naomi is lazy, but I think the better description is depressed.

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    She is paralyzed by the pain of her past.

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    She feels numb.

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    We all know people who've been stuck in this holding pattern of sadness, or maybe you've experienced it yourself when it's hard to even roll out of bed in the morning, it's hard to carry out the most simple of tasks, nothing seems important.

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    In Naomi's mind, if Ruth is willing to go, whatever, so be it, go and do that.

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    Remember Naomi's status in this first conversation, because it's gonna radically change during the final conversation of this chapter.

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    And thankfully Ruth makes her way to Boaz's field to glean, which we'll talk about more in a minute.

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    As she is gathering up barley, Boaz shows up on the scene.

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    And he asks, "Who is this woman?" He asks about her status and her story.

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    Is she a foreigner?

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    Is she married?

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    Is she a widow?

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    And his field foreman tells him all about Ruth.

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    She is the one that Boaz has been hearing rumors about in town.

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    She is the one who left Moab to come to Israel with her mother-in-law.

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    And on top of that, Boaz is told that Ruth is a hard worker.

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    She has been diligently gleaning all morning.

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    So we learned that a woman of integrity has crossed paths with a man of integrity.

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    And I want to take a step back for a minute and draw our attention to verse three, because it seems kind of out of place.

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    We are told that Ruth happened to come to the part of the field belonging to Boaz, who was of the clan of Elimelech.

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    You read this and it seems like the author is saying this all happened by random chance and by accident, right?

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    But as we learned last week, this book is all about the providence of God, who purposefully directs everything.

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    He directs human history, he directs our lives, He directs every single thing that he has created.

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    And this major theme comes across in an unexpected way in the most literal translation of the original Hebrew, the happenstance that happened to her.

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    It's like the author's going over the top with his language and winking at us as the audience and playing up the drama of the scene.

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    He is putting us in Ruth's sandals to experience the story from her perspective.

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    From her perspective, this all just seems like chance.

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    It all seems too good to be true.

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    She'll soon learn that she happened to come to the part of a community field that happened to belong to the wealthy relative of her husband who died.

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    From a human perspective, this was a chance encounter that ended up in Ruth's favor.

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    But from God's perspective, this was anything but random.

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    I mean, do any of us really think that God saw Ruth stumble across Boaz's field and thought to himself, "Phew, really God, that one worked out "because I was not paying attention." Of course not.

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    This was not coincidental.

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    This was not happenstance.

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    This was the providence of God.

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    God is the one who orchestrated this.

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    God is the one who is drawing this story to his designed conclusion.

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    God is the one who put Ruth and Boaz at the right place at the right time.

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    Has something too good to be true ever happened to you?

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    When you thought, "Wow, I can't believe "this all worked out so well." Have you even said, "Wow, what a crazy coincidence!" Let me ask you, do we believe in coincidence as Christians?

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    All right, that was pretty lame, let's try it again.

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    Do we believe in coincidence as Christians?

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    No!

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    All right, good job, man, I appreciate that.

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    We don't believe in coincidence, we believe in the divine oversight and personal involvement of a loving God who deeply cares for us.

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    The same God who put Ruth and Boaz at the right place at the right time also puts you and I in the right place at the right time.

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    You know, that job opportunity that seemed to come out of nowhere didn't actually come out of nowhere.

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    didn't just fall into your lap.

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    God is the one who gave it to you.

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    That one time you were in a life-threatening accident and you were spared the last second, God is the one who saved you, not luck.

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    You just happened to meet your spouse all those years ago.

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    God is the one who brought you together.

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    The house that you live in wasn't just brought to you by your realtor, it was given to you by the one who owns heaven and earth.

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    if you learned in our study of James, every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights.

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    Every single good thing in your life is from the hand of God.

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    He shows you acts of kindness that you don't even notice.

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    And we are so quick, blame God when bad things happen to us, but when good things happen to us, we find it so hard to give him the credit that he deserves.

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    You know, as I meditated upon thankfulness this past week, I couldn't help but think of when my wife and I gave our son Sam a huge Batman robot that we bought off a Facebook marketplace for $10.

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    Who buys stuff off a Facebook marketplace?

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    It's not exactly the best of exchanges, right?

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    Somebody randomly shows up at your house, you meet up in a parking lot under a light so people can find you if something happens.

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    Well in this case, I went to someone's house and just awkwardly walked to their doorstep to grab a garbage bag that had a Batman robot in it.

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    So extravagant, right?

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    So nice.

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    But when my son saw that robot, he jumped up and down like he had won the Powerball lottery.

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    He kept showering us with praise.

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    Oh dad, thank you for my robot, it's so big.

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    Mama, thank you for my robot, it's so cool.

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    I lost track of how many times he said thank you next week over a $10 garbage bag Batman robot. Harvest, let's take a page out of Sam's book and choose to give thanks continually and passionately for all that God has done for us. Instead of constantly complaining about what we do not have, let us thank the one who has given us all that we do have. Instead of They're having the eyes of negativity.

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    They're constantly looking for the bad in everything.

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    Let's have eyes of positivity that are looking for the kindness of God in every single situation, no matter how dark and horrible it may seem at a first glance.

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    All right, secondly, the kindness of God transforms my character.

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    The kindness of God transforms my character.

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    So after hearing all about her from his foreman, Boaz approaches Ruth as she gleans and shows her great kindness and compassion.

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    He approaches her as a daughter who's in need of protection and provision.

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    And in this third conversation of the chapter, we see two specific ways that the kindness of God should transform our character.

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    And letter A under number two, I should help those who cannot repay me.

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    I should help those who cannot repay me.

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    Let's read verses eight through nine.

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    Then Boaz said to Ruth, now listen, my daughter, do not go to glean another field or leave this one, but keep close to my young women.

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    Let your eyes be on the field that they are reaping and go after them.

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    Have I not charged the young men not to touch you?

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    And when you are thirsty, go to the vessels and drink what the young men have drawn.

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    Boaz shows Ruth an unbelievable amount of kindness in this passage.

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    He tells her to not even think about going to another field because he can't guarantee her safety there, but he can promise her safety in his field because he has talked to all of his guy workers and said, "Don't even think about touching her "or you will have me to answer to." He said, "Don't even bring your own water bottle.

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    "Use the water that I have." Boaz goes out of his way to protect this woman from a nation that Israel hates.

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    Showing such extravagant kindness to a Moabite woman in ancient Israel would be somewhat similar to a modern-day Israeli showing an act of kindness to a member of Hamas.

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    This simply wasn't done.

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    Boaz blessed a woman who could do nothing for him in return.

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    There was nothing in it for him.

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    He simply blessed her because he had been blessed by God.

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    The kindness of God transformed Boaz into a man of kindness.

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    And this past week, I was deeply convicted by Boaz's kindness to Ruth.

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    I thought to myself, do I go out of my way to bless those who cannot repay me?

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    Do I help those who can do nothing for me in return?

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    And I want you to wrestle with this same question as well.

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    Are you often like the religious leaders in Jesus' day?

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    Doing nice things so that people will praise you and think that you're great.

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    Maybe dropping something nice you did casually in conversation, hoping someone will give you an attaboy and pat you on the back.

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    Posting what you did on social media so you'll get attention in the form of likes and comments.

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    or bringing up a praise during a prayer time, even though your intention is for people to praise you?

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    Or do you not even care if another soul saw what you did and knows what you did?

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    Is it not enough that God saw what you did and he was pleased?

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    Do you tend to only help those who can help you?

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    Do you think, oh, you know what, to help so and so because I need something from them in a few weeks.

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    So I'm gonna do a favor for him, so he'll owe me a favor and I'm gonna call on that when I need it.

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    Is that kindness?

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    That is not kindness.

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    That is a business-like approach to life.

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    You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours mentality.

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    In Luke 6:35, Jesus says, "Lend expecting nothing in return." Be kind even when people aren't being kind to you.

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    Serve even if no other person is serving you.

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    Show love to the most unlovely of people.

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    We are to bless others, even when there seems to be nothing in it for us.

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    And by God's grace, we will be blessed anyway.

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    So how should the kindness of God transform my character?

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    Letter B, I should humble myself instead of embracing entitlement.

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    I should humble myself instead of embracing entitlement.

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    So let's read Ruth's response to Boaz's kindness.

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    Then she fell on her face, bowing to the ground and said to him, "Why have I found favor in your eyes "that you should take notice of me since I am a foreigner?" I love Ruth's response to Boaz's kindness.

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    She doesn't say, "Well, it's about time "someone finally noticed my hard work and gave me a break." No, she humbly falls on her face in amazement and asks, "What have I done to deserve this?" She knows that she is on the lowest rung of the ladder in Bethlehem.

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    She doesn't expect anything from anyone.

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    When she receives kindness, Ruth accepts it with humility.

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    You know, we live in such an entitled time in society.

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    So many in this country think that everything should be handed to them.

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    I deserve the best of the best.

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    I deserve to have all my dreams and expectations met.

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    I deserve every single thing that I desire.

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    Is that biblical in any way?

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    We're shaking our heads, but we fall into that same attitude as well as believers.

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    We can be so entitled, we can be so selfish, myself included, and fixate on what we deserve.

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    Do you know what you deserve?

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    Do you know what I deserve?

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    We deserve to be dead and in hell right now.

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    That is what we deserve for our sin and rebellion against God, that is it.

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    Everything beyond that is mercy and grace.

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    Be careful demanding what you deserve.

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    But in his infinite grace, the Lord has not given us what we deserve.

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    He instead gave his son what we deserve.

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    On the cross, Jesus was treated as if he lived our sinful lives.

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    We have been given his righteousness.

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    He experienced hell so that we could enjoy heaven forever.

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    That simple biblical fact should rob us of any sense of entitlement that we might have.

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    Never forget that we were nothing and nobodies, that the greatest somebody chose to die for and make much of.

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    Let us be like Ruth.

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    Let us humble ourselves and fall on our faces before the loving kindness of our God, who is constantly loyal to us, despite our disloyalty to him.

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    If you are entitled, you have no chance of being kind.

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    You cannot be a person of kindness without also being a person of genuine humility.

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    All right, finally, the kindness of God rewards my faithfulness.

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    The kindness of God rewards my faithfulness.

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    (sniffling)

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    Let's read verses 11 through 13 together.

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    But Boaz answered her, all that you have done for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband has been fully told to me in how you left your father and mother, your native land, and came to a people that you did not know before.

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    The Lord repay you for what you have done and for your mother-in-law since the death of your husband has been fully told to me.

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    I'm sorry, I skipped, I actually went backwards, sorry.

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    The Lord repay you for what you have done and a full reward be given to you by the Lord, the God of Israel under whose wings you have come to take refuge.

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    Boaz has blessed Ruth because he is so impressed that she has chosen to escape from her old life in Moab to commit herself to Yahweh.

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    He compares her to a baby bird who has drawn near to its mother.

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    She has drawn near to the Lord and find refuge and shelter in his wings.

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    His divine wings flew her away from Moab and she has found a new nest in Israel.

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    And on top of that, she has chosen to selflessly serve Naomi.

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    She left her father and her mother, she left everything.

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    And she didn't do this to be noticed, but her service has gone noticed anyway.

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    God has rewarded Ruth for her faithfulness and kindness through Boaz.

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    She is a living testimony of Hebrews 11, six, which says that God is a rewarder of those who diligently seek him.

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    But there's more.

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    Boaz's kindness has not yet come to an end for Ruth.

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    Let's read verses 14 through 17.

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    And at mealtime, Boaz said to her, "Come here and eat some bread "and dip your morsel in the wine." So she sat beside the reapers and he passed her roasted grain.

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    And she ate until she was satisfied and she had some left over.

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    When she arose to glean, Boaz instructed his young men saying, "Let her glean even among the sheaves, "and do not reproach her.

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    "And also pull some out from the bundles for her "and leave it for her to glean.

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    "And do not rebuke her." So she gleaned in the field until evening.

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    Then she beat out what she had gleaned and that was about an ephah of barley.

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    So in this fourth conversation, Boaz once again speaks to his employees to remind them to respect Ruth and to help her when she is gleaning.

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    And he says, "Hey, why don't you have a meal with us?" And he offers her to eat with him and his workers.

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    He offers her friendship and fellowship, not just food.

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    And as I was studying this scene, I just imagined Ruth just fighting back tears as she's having a normal moment, an extremely lonely period of her life.

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    These people are treating her like one of their own and not a foreign widow that she feels that they feel sorry for.

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    You know, none of us like feeling alone.

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    None of us like feeling rejected.

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    You know, all of our worst childhood memories have to do with feeling rejected in some way, right?

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    Like the time my friends didn't invite me to a month's worth of sleepovers to see if I would notice, because that's so fun, right?

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    That's so funny.

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    And scarring at the same exact time.

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    We all want to be accepted.

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    We all want people to welcome us in.

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    And Ruth finally gets to experience that for the very first time in Israel.

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    And after this meal is over, Ruth is stuffed and she even goes home with a doggy bag full of food.

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    And we learn that she is given an ifa of barley.

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    Okay, judging by the blank expressions on your face, none of you use the ifa system when you cook and bake at home.

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    Don't worry, I just learned what this means this past week.

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    This is about 30 pounds.

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    That's how much my four year old weighs.

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    That is a lot of barley, right?

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    Ruth left home empty handed, but she has come home fuller than she ever imagined when she stepped out the door that morning.

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    This second round of provision highlights how over the top our heavenly Father is when it comes to rewarding us.

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    We've already talked about his physical provision, We don't really think that much about his spiritual rewards.

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    Our God is not a stingy dad who just begrudgingly hands out dollar bills every once in a while to his children on special occasions.

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    He opens up the floodgates of heaven to pour out his mercy and blessings upon us.

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    We could be here the rest of the day recounting all that God gives us for our faithfulness to him, but let me just share a few.

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    a confident contentment that I have all that I really need in Christ, an exciting sense of purpose and fulfillment that my life actually matters, that I'm being used to advance God's kingdom, an inner peace that can withstand any storm of life, any anxiety, any problem, true joy that can never, ever be stolen away from me, an intimate closeness with our God.

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    and the pleasure of engaging him and meeting him in his word.

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    And the Bible also talks about future rewards in heaven for obedience now.

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    Brothers and sisters, we are so unbelievably spoiled by God.

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    As David says to God in his most popular Psalm, you anoint my head with oil, my cup overflows, surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell the Lord forever.

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    So let's wrap up with our fifth and final conversation of chapter two in verses 18 through 23.

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    And Ruth took it and went up into the city.

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    Her mother-in-law saw what she had gleaned.

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    She also brought out and gave her what food she had left over after being satisfied.

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    And her mother-in-law said to her, "Where did you glean today and where have you worked?

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    "Blessed be the man who took notice of you." So she told her mother-in-law with whom she had worked and said, "The man's name with whom I work today is Boaz." And Naomi said to her daughter-in-law, "May he be blessed by the Lord whose kindness "has not forsaken the living or the dead." Naomi also said to her, "This man is a close relative of ours, "one of our redeemers." And Ruth the Moabite said, "Besides," he said to me, "you shall keep close by my young men "until they have finished all my harvest.

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    "And Naomi said to her, her daughter-in-law, "it is good, my daughter, "that you go out with his young women, "lest in another field you be assaulted.

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    "She kept close by the young women of Boaz, "gleaning until the end of the barley and wheat harvest, "and she lived with her mother-in-law." Well, we've come full circle, haven't we?

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    We started this sermon with a conversation between Ruth and Naomi, And we're gonna end this sermon with a conversation between Ruth and Naomi.

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    But Naomi is in a much different head space and heart space in this final conversation.

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    When Ruth left to glean, Naomi was depressed.

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    She was hopeless, but now she is excited and filled with hope for the first time in a long time.

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    Naomi tells Ruth that Boaz is actually a relative of their deceased husbands.

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    He is one of their redeemers.

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    And you'll have to come back next week to learn what that means.

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    But in the meantime, listen again to Naomi's response to Boaz's kindness.

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    "May he be blessed by the Lord whose kindness "has not forsaken the living or the dead." This is the same woman who last week, last chapter, said that God has emptied me of every good thing.

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    God's hand is against me.

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    Now she's saying, "God's kindness has not forsaken me.

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    "He has been with me every single step of the way." Like Naomi, never forget that your spiritual cup is overflowing with the blessings of the Lord in every single season of life.

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    Yes, serving the Lord comes at a great cost, but whatever we sacrifice for Him in this life cannot compare to what we receive in return.

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    Long-term, I can guarantee you that you will not miss one single thing of this world that you give up to faithfully follow Christ and obey his word.

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    As the famous missionary Jim Elliot said before he was brutally martyred for his faith, he is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.

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    He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.

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    So as the worship team comes forward, I want us to take a moment to reflect.

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    We kicked off this sermon with a silly quiz about the level of rudeness, but for the past 30 minutes or so, we have been taking a test with much more serious questions about your understanding of God's kindness.

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    Do you really believe that God puts you in the right place at the right time?

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    Or do you feel like life is just a random series of happenstances?

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    Has the kindness of God transformed your character?

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    Do you seek to bless those who cannot repay you and embrace humble service rather than selfish entitlement?

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    And finally, do you live as if you serve a God who will reward you for your faithfulness to Him?

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    Well, let me ask you the same exact question and I asked you after the quiz earlier, how did you do?

Small Group Discussion
Read Ruth 2:1-23

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. How has the Lord put you in the right place at the right time in the past?

  3. Why do we often fail to thank and praise the Lord for the gifts of kindness that He has given us? Share what you are most thankful for right now.

  4. How do you see yourself struggling with unkindness and entitlement? How can you fight against these trends in your life?

  5. What rewards does the Lord give to His faithful and obedient servants?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Redeeming Ruth - The Providence of God

Introduction:

Providence: God's purposeful direction of Human history, every single human life, and every single thing that He has created .

The Hand of God... (Ruth 1):

  1. Draws back His Wandering People . (Ruth 1:1-7)

    Judges 21:25 - In those days there was no king in Israel. Everyone did what was right in his own eyes.

    Revelation 2:4-5 - "But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first. Remember therefore from where you have fallen; repent, and do the works you did at first."

  2. Reaches out to grab Hold of the Lost . (Ruth 1:8-18)

    Romans 10:9 - If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.

  3. Directs the bitterest of paths towards His Sweetest Blessings . (Ruth 1:19-22)

    Romans 8:18 - For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.

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    Well, as you turn to the Book of Ruth, I want you to turn to someone around you and share two things.

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    I want you to share your favorite movie and your favorite type of movie.

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    And know this isn't a pastoral trap to sniff out who's watching non-Christian movies.

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    You don't have to say the Ten Commandments of Charlton Heston, God's Not Dead 17, or Filer Proof.

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    Just be open and honest with your sharing, okay?

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    Take 15 seconds to share that with someone.

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    All right, all right.

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    All right, movie fans, let's calm down.

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    Let's calm down, okay?

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    Maybe you learned something very surprising about someone next to you.

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    You know, I'm a huge fan of mystery, crime, and action movies.

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    I like other types of movies as well, but these are the types of movies that I'm drawn to.

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    I like highly choreographed fight scenes, fast-paced car chases, and plot twists that I didn't see coming.

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    My favorite movie hasn't changed in over 25 years.

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    I actually have a poster of this movie in my office at home.

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    I actually have it on the screen behind me as well.

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    Indiana Jones and the Raiders of the Lost Ark.

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    Who else shares this favorite with me?

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    Wow.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    I might need to end this sermon a bit early or preach even longer, I'm not really sure.

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    You know, my wife Kate and I are very similar in a lot of key ways, but we are very dissimilar in one way in particular, and that's our entertainment taste.

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    Kate tunes out during action scenes.

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    I think they're so exciting.

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    I look over to her and she's just texting on her phone.

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    She thinks they're incredibly boring.

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    Her favorite movie is "PS, I Love You," which is very different than my favorite movie.

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    Wouldn't you say?

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    It is a challenging game of relational Tetris to find a movie that crosses over on the Venn diagram of our shared tastes.

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    You know, on particular date nights, we'll let the other person pick a movie that they wanna watch, even if it's not something that lines up something we both like.

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    But sometimes she'll just be like, you know what, just watch whatever you wanna watch, and she'll fall asleep on the couch.

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    And sometimes I'll just say, you know what, why don't you watch what you wanna watch, and I'll put headphones in and read a book on the couch while she watches a chick flick romantic comedy that I'm not really interested in.

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    You know, I was thinking this past week that many people often view the books of Ruth and Esther as the chick flicks of the Bible.

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    Very popular for a women's study, but not exactly the first choice for a men's group.

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    You know, sadly, many pass over Ruth in their Bibles because at a first glance, it just seems like a straightforward love story.

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    But it is so much more than that.

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    First and foremost, the book of Ruth is the word of God.

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    And that should be more than enough justification to study it, right?

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    This book is for every single believer, whether you are a woman or a man.

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    And over the past month as I've been studying Ruth, it's quickly become one of my favorite books in the entire Old Testament.

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    So guys in the room, tune in instead of tuning out.

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    Ruth is not something to be skipped over, because if you do, you will miss out on so much blessing, knowledge, and insight.

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    And secondly, I wanna make it abundantly clear that the main character of Ruth is not Ruth.

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    It's not even Naomi, who we'll meet in a few minutes.

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    It's not Boaz who we'll discover next week.

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    The main character of Ruth is God.

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    He is the central figure.

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    God is the major point of Ruth.

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    I really don't want you to walk away from this series thinking, wow, what a nice and interesting story.

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    What a major fail that would be.

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    Instead, I want you to walk away thinking, wow, what a great and awesome God that I serve.

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    In Ruth, we see the divine hand of God at work in the smallest and most mundane details of life.

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    We see God furthering his plan of redemption by securing the family line that his son, Jesus Christ, would come out of at the perfectly planned time in history.

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    In Ruth, God's providence is on display.

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    Now you may be wondering what exactly is providence?

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    Well I'm so glad you asked, I have a definition for you.

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    Providence is God's purposeful direction of human history, every single human life, and every single thing that he has created.

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    Providence is God's purposeful direction of human history, every single human life, and every single thing that he has created.

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    God's providence is very similar to a father directing his young son through a bustling crowd at a sporting event.

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    The boy is walking with his own two feet.

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    He's making choices as he goes along, but with a firm and guiding hand on his shoulder, this boy will only go where his father ultimately directs him.

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    The book of Ruth gives us a snapshot of this sovereign God who is in complete control of this world and even our own individual lives.

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    So as we dive into chapter one this morning, I want us to spot three things that the providential hand of God accomplished in the lives of two women over 3,000 years ago, because this God is still at work today, and he is accomplishing these three important things right now.

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    So before we continue any further, let's go to the Lord and ask for his help.

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    Father, we thank you once again for this opportunity we have to gather as your people to open the word, to sing your praises.

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    Lord, in a fellowship together, Lord, I pray that we never take this time for granted, and I pray that we would be ready to receive and submit to what you had to teach us this morning.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

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    So outline for this morning is the hand of God.

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    Number one, the hand of God draws back his wandering people.

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    The hand of God draws back his wandering people.

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    The author of Ruth sets the stage at the start of verse one.

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    In the days when the judges ruled, the entire account that we are going to read and study this month takes place during the period of the judges.

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    And Pastor Jeff preached on the book of judges a few years ago, but let me give you a quick refresher on what it's all about, because it's essential for understanding the message and ultimately the ending of Ruth.

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    So throughout the time of the judges, the Israelites constantly choose to slide down the slippery slope of sin by turning their backs on the Lord and worshiping false gods.

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    The Lord then brings a foreign invader upon Israel, puts them into slavery, And then Israel cries out for mercy, and God raises up a deliverer, a judge, to rescue them.

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    But sadly, this doesn't last very long, and Israel once again gets stuck on that cycle of idolatry and destruction.

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    And to save you any further explanation, let's read the final verse of Judges, which provides a really clear summary of what Israel was like at this point in their history.

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    "In those days, there was no king in Israel.

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    "Everyone did what was right in his own eyes." Does that sound familiar to you at all?

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    Does that sound like what we're going through today?

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    "Wickedness and backsliding reigned supreme.

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    "My ways were viewed as way more important than God's ways." So now that we understand the backdrop of Ruth, let's move forward with the beginning of the story in verses one through five.

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    In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land.

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    And a man of Bethlehem and Judah went to sojourn in the country of Moab, he and his wife and his two sons.

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    The name of the man was Elimelech, and the name of his wife, Naomi.

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    And the names of his two sons were Malon and Kilion.

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    They were Aphrothites from Bethlehem and Judah.

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    They went into the country of Moab and remained there.

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    But Elimelech, the husband of Naomi, died, she was left with her two sons.

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    These took Moabite wives.

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    The name of one was Orpah, and the name of the other was Ruth.

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    They lived there about 10 years.

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    And both Malon and Kilion died, so that the woman was left without her two sons and her husband.

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    There's a horrible famine that strikes Israel.

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    We aren't told explicitly in the text that this famine is a act of divine judgment against Israel for their rampant wickedness, but looking at their behavior at the time, it's a pretty safe guess.

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    And the author zooms in on a particular family in Bethlehem, Elimelech, Naomi, and their two sons, Malon and Kilion.

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    And their names mean sickness and wasting away.

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    In case you wanna name your kids that, I wouldn't advise you to do that.

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    But it certainly describes what Israel was like during this famine.

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    Sick and wasting away.

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    And Elimelech makes the hard choice to not hunker down in Bethlehem to wait out the famine, and instead, they move elsewhere to avoid starvation.

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    And we should be really careful of harshly judging Elimelech for moving his family away from Israel so they could escape the famine.

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    It's a scriptural reality that Godly men and women fled for food in times of need.

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    Abraham and Sarah did this in Genesis chapter 12, Jacob and his family did it later on in that same book.

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    The prophet Elisha in 2 Kings tells a family to get out of Israel to avoid a seven-year famine.

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    The problem isn't that they left.

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    The troubling aspects is where they chose to move and who Elimelech's sons chose to marry.

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    This small family fled the kingdom of Moab, which had an extremely dark history with the nation of Israel.

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    This nation started out of an incestuous relationship between Abraham's nephew Lot and his own daughter.

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    The king of Moab once hired a man named Balaam to curse Israel, and they carried out vile practices such as child sacrifice before the false god Chemosh.

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    This would be like, in modern day terms, moving your family into a casino hotel on the Las Vegas Strip, or setting up shop in the red light district of a major city across the globe.

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    not exactly the wisest of choices if you're trying to protect your family's purity.

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    And we are told that Elimelech and his family worshiped false gods while they were in Moab.

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    But we do know that once Elimelech died, his sons married Moabite wives who did worship these pagan gods.

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    An Israelite marrying a Moabite was highly frowned upon in Old Testament law.

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    And children of this kind of relationship were forbidden from the assembly of God's people for 10 generations.

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    That's 400 years.

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    So obviously God didn't take this kind of intermarrying lightly because by intermarrying with the Moabites, this could lead to ethical decay and religious drift.

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    But thankfully, the Lord uses the unwise choices of his people to advance his perfect plans, which we'll discuss in greater detail in a few minutes when we focus on Ruth and where God ultimately directs her life.

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    So not only does Naomi lose her husband, but her two sons eventually die as well.

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    Naomi's boys never had children with their Moabite wives.

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    This family seems to be dead in the water.

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    There seems to be no hope at all.

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    All of the men in her life are gone.

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    And this was a devastating place to be in over 3,000 years ago for a woman.

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    Naomi had no means of financial support, and she would have to rely upon the generosity of others to survive, but again, she has no community, she has no family in Moab to take care of her.

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    I just imagine her sitting there weeping, thinking, what am I going to do?

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    but the loving intervention of God's providence shows up in a great and mighty way to take care of Naomi in verses six through seven.

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    Read that with me.

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    Then she arose their daughters-in-law to return from the country of Moab, for she had heard in the fields of Moab that the Lord had visited his people and given them food.

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    So she set out from the place where she was their two daughters-in-law, and they went on the way to return the land of Judah.

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    The Hebrew word shub, which means return, go back or brought back is used twice in the verses we just read and 11 times throughout chapter one.

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    Now, when you see repetition in the Bible, it's never accidental or meaningless.

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    It is always purposeful and packed with meaning.

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    When you see a word or phrase repeated over and over and over again, sit up and pay attention to what God is clearly and simply communicating.

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    If you have checked out this point in the sermon, please check back in for a few minutes.

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    This is really important.

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    In the Old Testament, Shub is the main word for repenting and turning back to God.

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    This means that Naomi isn't simply traveling home after a 10-year long vacation.

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    She is turning away from her life in Moab and turning back to the grace and provision of Yahweh in the land that he promised his people.

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    This isn't just a change of location, this is an act of repentance.

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    As Pastor Jeff talked about last week, repentance isn't just an acknowledgement of wrongdoing, even though it does include that.

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    Repentance is a change of heart and a change of mind that leads to a change of direction.

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    You know, as a father of a four-year-old and a two-year-old, I often call them to repentance daily, especially my son, whether it's saying something rude, bullying his little sister, or incessantly jumping on my stomach after dinner, which is his new favorite pastime, apparently, I don't know why.

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    I daily call Sam to turn away from doing something that is wrong and to turn towards doing something that is right.

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    Stop going in that direction, start going in this direction.

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    To turn from something, you also have to turn to something else.

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    You can't just stop doing something that is sinful, you have to replace it with something that is godly.

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    You can't just turn away from pornography without also turning towards a life of purity where you do everything you can to guard your eyes and view women as precious souls and not sexual objects.

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    You cannot turn away from laziness without also turning towards a life of selfless service that honors the Lord and blesses others.

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    You cannot just turn away from being harsh with your wife without also turning towards being understanding with her and dying to yourself.

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    You cannot turn away from being disrespectful to your husband without also turning towards a continual pattern of submission and encouragement.

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    For the Christian, repentance isn't just a one-time deal at your conversion, but it is the daily posture and position of your life.

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    Over 500 years ago, Martin Luther put it this way.

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    When our Lord and master Jesus Christ said, "Repent," he intended that the entire life of believers should be one of repentance.

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    The New Testament constantly reminds us of the necessity of repentance, but there are no more sobering words about repentance than in Revelation chapter two, verses four through five, which Mike Wolski did a fantastic job preaching on at our last prayer service.

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    Jesus says this to the Ephesian church.

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    But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first.

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    Remember therefore from where you have fallen, repent and do the works you did at first.

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    These verses powerfully demonstrate that repentance involves your head, your heart, and your hands.

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    Repentance is a total change of your thinking, is a total change of what you love, value and prioritize, and finally, it's a total change of how you behave and how you act.

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    Last week, Pastor Jeff talked about our responsibility as believers to call those who are wandering away from the faith, those who are wandering away from the truth of God's word, to salvation in Jesus Christ.

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    If we know and love someone in this church who has walked away and bailed on Jesus, We need to do whatever we can to call them back to the Lord.

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    But this morning, I wanna hit even closer to home and talk about you.

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    I wanna talk about your personal walk with the Lord.

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    If you are a true born again believer, you too can easily wander away from the Lord.

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    You too can easily get off track and do things that you know you shouldn't do and fail to do things that you know that you should do.

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    Who among us cannot say that we have wandered away and gone down sinful paths that we have no business exploring?

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    I know I can't.

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    So let me ask you, have you been wandering away from the Lord recently?

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    Have you been heading in the wrong direction?

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    What is the Lord calling you to repent of?

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    What is he commanding you to turn from and what is he pointing you to turn towards?

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    Maybe for you it's a pattern of selfish thinking that has led to a pattern of selfish living.

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    Maybe it's a secret and hidden addiction that no one else knows about besides you and the Lord.

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    Maybe it's how you speak to your family, your friends, and your coworkers when you're angry and you're frustrated.

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    Maybe it's a lack of passion for the Lord.

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    Maybe the sense of apathy towards the Bible, towards prayer, and community with God's people.

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    You used to have a fire for it, and now you're kind of like, eh, whatever.

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    Whatever it is, whatever the Lord's calling you to repent of, choose to let go of it today, choose to turn from it and change your direction before you hurt anyone else.

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    You know, I often hear at churches, sit back, relax, and be comfortable.

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    And I always think that's the last thing I want for anybody in my church.

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    I want you to sit forward and be challenged and be convicted.

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    The Lord is not remotely interested in you or me being comfortable this morning.

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    He is, however, extremely dedicated to us We're growing in our maturity and holiness and this will not happen apart from our repentance.

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    In this moment, the hand of the Lord is lovingly yet firmly drawing many of us away from our foolish wandering so that we can return back home, so that we can walk in faithfulness and obedience.

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    Secondly, the hand of God reaches out to grab ahold of the lost.

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    The hand of God reaches out to grab a hold of the lost.

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    So let's circle back to joining Naomi, Ruth, and Orpah on their journey to Bethlehem in verses eight through 14.

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    "But Naomi said to her daughters-in-law, "'Go, return each of you to her mother's house.

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    "'May the Lord deal kindly with you "'as you have dealt with the dead and with me.

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    "'The Lord grant that you may find rest, "'each of you in the house of her husband.' She kissed them and they lift up their voices and wept.

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    And they said to her, "No, we will return with you to your people." But Naomi said, "Turn back, my daughters.

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    "Why will you go with me?

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    "Have I yet sons in my womb "that they may become your husbands?

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    "Turn back, my daughters, go your way, "for I am too old to have a husband.

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    "If I should say I have hope, "even if I should have a husband, "this night it should bear sons.

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    Would you therefore wait till they were grown?

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    Would you therefore refrain from marrying?

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    No, my daughters, for it is exceedingly bitter to me, for your sake, the hand of the Lord has gone out against me.

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    Then they lift up their voices and wept again, and Orpah kissed her mother-in-law, but Ruth clung to her.

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    At some point between Moab and Bethlehem, Naomi stops dead in her tracks and thinks, what am I doing?

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    and she lays out the harsh reality of life to her daughters-in-law.

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    Listen, go back to your old lives.

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    That way you have a better chance of finding a husband and getting married.

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    You are better off without me.

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    And Naomi gives us a glimpse of her inner struggle with the Lord in verse 13.

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    "It is exceedingly bitter for me for your sake "that the hand of the Lord has gone out against me." Even though Naomi has chosen to return back to Israel, she is doing so with very low expectations.

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    She is obviously wrestling with all the horrible things that have happened to her.

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    I just imagine her, I picture her in my mind, crying out to the Lord, "Why has this happened to me?

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    "What did I do to deserve this?" You know, we're not explicitly told in this passage as to why these tragedies fell upon Naomi and her family, it would be unwise for you or me to say that we definitively know beyond a shadow of a doubt that these tragedies were a result of their sin and their choice to go to Moab.

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    But we do know beyond a shadow of a doubt that Naomi's hardships led to a God-ordained and glorious outcome for one of her daughters-in-law.

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    chooses to listen to her mother-in-law's advice, which seems wise from a worldly point of view, she goes back to Moab to worship her old gods.

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    But she will not get rid of Ruth that easily, as we see in verses 15 through 18.

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    And Naomi said, "See, your sister-in-law "has gone back to her people and to her gods.

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    "Return after your sister-in-law." But Ruth said, "Do not urge me to leave you "or to return from following you, "For where you go, I will go, "and where you lodge, I will lodge.

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    "Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God.

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    "Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried.

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    "May the Lord do so to me and more also, "if anything but death parts me from you." And when Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her, she said, "No more." You know, this is the section of Ruth that is the most famous, the most quoted, the most emblazoned on coffee mugs, inspirational posters.

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    And very often in studies, people will just focus on the loyalty of Ruth, who is such a faithful friend and daughter-in-law.

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    And yes, she is both of those things, and she should be commended for it.

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    But by focusing on the horizontal relationship between Naomi and Ruth, we lose sight of the vertical relationship between Ruth and God himself.

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    Ruth claims your people shall be my people and your God, my God.

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    If you know the Old Testament, those words should ring a bell in your mind.

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    Goes back to God's covenant promise of salvation to the Israelites, I will be your God and you shall be my people.

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    This is astounding.

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    Ruth has turned away from the fake gods of Moab to turn to the living and true God of heaven and earth.

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    She has repented, she has been saved, she has been converted.

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    She even binds herself to Naomi with an unbreakable oath in the name of Yahweh.

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    Where you die, I will die, and there I will be buried.

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    May the Lord do so to me and more also, "anything but death parts me from you." By swearing in his name, Ruth is claiming Yahweh as her one and only God.

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    This isn't a warm and cuddly story about a great relationship between a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is typically a difficult relationship for many, especially if you're watching sitcoms or reality TV.

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    This is about a lost sinner, an idol worshiper and grabbed up by the gracious and saving hand of God.

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    Naomi is too caught up in her pain and misery to see that God's hand isn't against her.

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    He has used her life to draw Ruth unto himself.

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    God's providence led to the salvation of the person that you would least expect.

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    And we see this trend all throughout scripture, don't we?

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    God chose Abraham to be the father of his chosen nation, even though Abraham was an elderly gentleman, to put it nicely, who had 0% chance of having children with his wife from a human perspective.

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    I mean, the Bible says he was as good as dead.

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    That's not as kind as I said it.

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    God chose Jacob to continue that family line, even though he was a sneaky and slimy liar who do not deserve this honor in the slightest.

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    God called Peter, even though he constantly lost his cool and put his foot in his mouth every single chance that he got.

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    God miraculously saved Saul and transformed him into Paul despite his background of persecuting the church of Christ.

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    Our God delights in saving sinners.

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    He delights in setting his undeserved grace upon those who seem to be the farthest away from him.

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    As we've already established, nothing happens by chance or by accident.

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    We are all here this morning, every single one of us, by divine appointment.

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    Maybe you're at harvest this morning and the Lord drew you here so that you could be saved, as Ruth was all those years ago.

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    Maybe you're not a Christian and that's on purpose.

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    What do you mean to not be a Christian?

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    But you suddenly feel the crushing weight of your sin and the vacuum of emptiness in your own heart.

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    Or maybe you've been here for months or even years and you've done a great job of blending in and going through the motions, but you haven't placed your faith and trust in Jesus Christ and transformed by the Holy Spirit.

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    You can walk out of this building today fully forgiven, irreversibly transformed, and heaven bound if you simply bow the knee to Jesus Christ as your Savior and your Lord.

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    Paul gives us an awesome promise in Romans 10, 9.

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    If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.

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    You will be saved.

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    No ifs, ands, or buts.

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    No scriptural loopholes or escape clauses.

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    You will be saved.

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    Or maybe the Lord drew you here so that you could be encouraged.

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    So that you wouldn't give up hope.

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    You wouldn't give up praying for the salvation of a son, a daughter, a parent, a sibling, or a friend.

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    be encouraged that your God is mighty to save.

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    We are told in Isaiah 59, one, "Surely the arm of the Lord is not too short to save." Do you believe that?

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    Do you really believe that?

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    Do not underestimate God's sovereign reach.

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    Be faithful in loving, be faithful in praying, be faithful in sharing, and then leave the results in God's more than capable hands.

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    Finally, the hand of God directs the bitterest of paths towards his sweetest blessings.

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    The hand of God directs the bitterest of paths towards his sweetest blessings.

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    Let's finish up chapter one with Naomi and Ruth's return to Bethlehem in verses 19 through 22.

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    So the two of them went on until they came to Bethlehem.

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    And when they came to Bethlehem, the whole town was stirred because of them.

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    And the women said, "Is this Naomi?" And she said to them, "Do not call me Naomi.

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    "Call me Mara, for the Almighty "has dealt very bitterly with me.

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    "I went away full, and the Lord has brought me back empty.

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    "Why call me Naomi, when the Lord has testified against me, "and the Almighty has brought calamity upon me?" So Naomi returned and Ruth the Moabite, her daughter-in-law with her, who returned from the country of Moab.

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    And they came to Bethlehem at the beginning of barley harvest.

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    So this homecoming causes quite the stir and causes a lot of questions.

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    Naomi seems so different to her people.

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    And Naomi gives them this really straightforward instruction.

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    Do not call me Naomi, call me Mara.

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    Because Naomi means pleasant and sweet, and Mara means bitter.

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    Naomi's like, why would you call me Naomi?

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    I don't feel that way anymore.

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    I feel bitter.

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    Once again, we see that Naomi is in the dark pit of despair.

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    She feels empty and trapped.

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    Have you ever felt that way before?

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    Like life is just a series of gut punches that never seem to let up.

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    Like the deck is stacked against you and there is no intermission for your suffering in sight.

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    Do you feel like that right now?

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    Do you feel numb and trapped on a bitter path that seems to be leading nowhere good?

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    You know, 12 years ago, I experienced a really discouraging setback on my ministry journey.

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    I was lied about by someone I respected and suddenly pushed out of a church internship that I really cared about.

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    And to be honest, for a period of time, I was kind of shell-shocked and just really jaded about ministry in general.

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    I felt the calling of God upon my life to enter into pastoral ministry, but it felt like God had left me on this path and just abandoned me to figure it out on my own.

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    But this bitter path led to one of the sweetest blessings of my life, Harvest Bible Chapel.

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    Hopefully I can get through this without crying too much.

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    The Lord used a family friend to connect me with Pastor Jeff, who encouraged me, supported me, and gave me a chance when I needed it the most.

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    Being here in the early days of the church rekindled my passion for ministry and kept me from throwing in the towel.

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    Because of this church, I went to seminary and I was a youth pastor for seven and a half wonderful years.

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    In the Lord's gracious providence, I was brought back to Harvest as the associate pastor a year and a half ago.

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    You know, I wouldn't be standing here this morning preaching this sermon to you apart from walking a painful path but it turned into inexpressible joy.

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    I cannot begin to describe to you how thankful I am that the Lord led me through that dark valley 12 years ago so that I could arrive at this green pasture with all of you.

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    I can look back at that season of discouragement and view it as a blessing instead of a curse, even though it wasn't very fun to go through at the time.

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    pulled me closer to the Lord, carried out his perfect plans, and it got me ready for the difficulties that you'll face in ministry.

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    As a pastor once famously said, "I have learned to kiss the waves "that throw me against the rock of ages." The Lord's providential plans are often mysterious and frustrating while we're in the midst of them, but our perspective can quickly change once we're on the other side of them.

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    But at this point in chapter one, Naomi has not yet gotten to the point where she can have that kind of perspective.

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    She still feels like God is picking on her.

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    Mara may be how she feels, but it's not who she really is.

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    You know, as I studied Ruth and read it many times, I just laughed out loud that nobody seems to take her name change very seriously.

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    No one calls her Mara the entire book, not even the author himself.

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    It's like he's saying, "No, that is not who you are." And spoiler alert, for the end of Naomi's story, it does not end in bitterness and tragedy.

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    It ends in the sweet blessings of God's providence.

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    And the author hints towards what's gonna happen with the final verse, "And they came to Bethlehem "at the beginning of barley harvest." After years of famine, there is finally hope for Israel.

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    Naomi is in the midst of a spiritual famine, but there is hope and blessing is coming.

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    I won't give you any more spoilers, but we're gonna study the rest of this month, but I do wanna give you one final spoiler alert for your own life.

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    If you know and love Jesus, your story will not ultimately end in bitterness or tragedy either.

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    God's path for you, no matter how hard hard and difficult it may be, will lead directly into his loving presence in heaven.

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    Paul speaks to this in Romans 8, 18, "For I consider that the sufferings of this present time "are not worth comparing with the glory "that is to be revealed to us." If you are going through a difficult health issue right now that is not letting up, remember that one day you will be fully set free from any chronic pain or sickness.

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    If you have lost a loved one recently and it feels like your heart has been ripped out of your chest, remember that one day your grief will give way to glory and unceasing joy.

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    If you feel discouraged in this season of life, remember that there will be no room for disappointment in the presence of Almighty God.

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    If you feel lonely and isolated right now, Remember that one day you will have face-to-face fellowship with Jesus Christ in perfect community with God's people that is unstained by sin or disunity.

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    You will reap a harvest of eternal blessing that is beyond your wildest dreams.

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    Hold on to that unswerving hope as you have to navigate the bitter twists and turns of life.

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    In the first chapter of Ruth, we come face to face with a God who is more gracious, kind, and patient than we ever dared to hope for.

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    We have looked upon the king of the universe whose sovereign control is far greater than we could possibly imagine.

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    I hope and pray that you are comforted by his bigness in comparison to your smallness.

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    We can know that we are not pawns in a game of fate.

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    We are not on the ever spinning wheel of karma.

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    We are needy children under the providential care of our heavenly father.

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    His strong and capable hands are upon your weak and weary shoulders right now.

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    Even though it may not feel like it, God is at work in your life.

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    We see that God is at work in this church.

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    God is at work in this city, in this country.

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    God is at work in this world.

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    He is not unaware of the sins of his people, but he is ever drawing us back from our backsliding so that we can truly be repentant.

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    He is not indifferent to the desperate situation of the lost, but he reaches out a loving hand to snatch them out of the darkness and place them in the light of his eternal kingdom.

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    He is not uncaring about the sufferings of his people, but he is using our sorrows, he is using our pain to mold us further and further into the image of Jesus Christ.

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    Please know that Almighty God is not checked out.

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    He is not asleep at the wheel.

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    He is on the throne.

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    And he is definitively directing everything according to his perfect purposes.

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    Let's pray.

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    Lord, we come to you.

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    Lord, we're all coming from different points.

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    Lord, some of us are struggling.

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    Some of us are suffering.

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    And Lord, it can be really easy to lose heart.

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    It can be really easy to want to give up.

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    Lord, I pray for every single person in this room who's experiencing that.

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    Lord, I pray that you would draw near to them.

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    Grant them the comfort that only you can.

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    That Lord, you would help them to know that you are with them in the midst of the fire and you will not abandon them.

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    That you will use the flames of trial to burn off their sinful edges and refine their faith.

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    Lord, for those in this room who do not know you, I pray that you'd use the preaching of your word to soften their hearts that your Holy Spirit give them the faith to believe they could walk out of this room forgiven and changed.

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    And Lord, throughout this month, I pray that we would just keep our eyes fixed on you and we would be blown away by how awesome you truly are.

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    Let us sing to you with hearts that are full of love that are full of devotion.

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    In the precious name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read Ruth 1:1-22

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. What is providence? How do you see God’s providential hand at work in the first chapter of Ruth? How do you see His providential hand at work in this world and your life?

  3. What is repentance and why is it so essential for living the Chrisian life? Why do many churches and professing Christians ignore the biblical call to repentance?

  4. How have you seen the Lord direct a bitter path towards His sweet blessings in your own life?

Breakout
What is the Lord calling you to repent of right now? What steps need to be taken to turn away from your sin and turn towards true change?

Pray that every member of your breakout group will humble themselves and walk in repentance.