Questions from the Congregation - Part 19B

Note: The time signatures [00:00] below indicate the approximate start of a question if you'd like to skip to a particular one of interest in the audio file.

Family / Kids:

  1. [02:15] - Q: How can Christians help transgender family members fit into a family structure without alienating them?

    Creation / End Times:

  2. [07:28] - Q: Why did Adam live so long on the earth when we can’t now?

  3. [10:30] - Q: Buckle up, this is a doosey! :) How are scientists using Carbon Dating to find rocks that are millions of years old? Carbon Dating works by using the Half-Life of Carbon (the amount of time for half of the carbon in something to decay (5,730 Years in Carbon-14, which is used for Carbon Dating)). If the Earth is only 6,000ish years old (which I believe it is), then I should be able to get my own doohickey that tells me how much carbon is decayed, and find that only about half-of the carbon is decayed. This would mean that the scientists were lying, but all the carbon dating says the Earth is millions of years old. Are the scientists lying? Or when God created the Earth did he create it with a lot of the carbon decayed? And if so, why would he do so? Wouldn’t he want it to show that the Earth is only 6000ish years old? Is this whole Carbon Dating thing false and is a lie? Or does it have something to have to do with the fall, or something else entirely? Okay, that’s your homework assignment for the next few weeks! Enjoy, and thank you!

  4. [13:53] - Q: During the Millennium, where Christians reign with Jesus, people will sin, but I’m confused about who. 1. Will the Christians who have already died on the earth and received their glorified bodies sin? 2. Will the Christians who were raptured and did not receive their glorified bodies sin? 3. Will the children that the Christians in the millennium have sin? Thank you!

  5. [15:43] - Q: Why aren’t Christians talking about the Bible prophecies from thousands of years ago that are happening in our day and age? How is this not fascinating to every Christian? SOOO many Scriptures point to what is happening right now. How is it that Christians don’t know or care? I actually do want an answer to this question.

    Miscellaneous / Potluck:

  6. [21:16] - Q: How long does somebody have to be dead before it’s considered “archeology” instead of “grave robbing”? ***How is this Bible related? I’m not sure, but grave-robbing is definitely a sin!***

  7. [23:20] - Q: In 2 Sam 16:5-14 Shimei cursed David and David said, “it may be that the Lord will look on my affliction and that the Lord will repay me with good for his cursing this day”. What is going on here? Why did David accept this cursing?

  8. [26:02] - Q: What does the Bible say about cremation?

    Reprise (from Part 1):

  9. [31:01] - Q: What does the “gift of tongues” accurately look like in today’s church? Since I’ve only seen the “crazy” – there must be a legit use for it since Paul spent so much time on it in 1 Corinthians 14. And if it is no longer valid, how do you determine what gifts are valid or not?

  10. [36:40] - Q: Do the leaders of this church like each other? If so, how do you show it to each other?

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    Sermon we're going to be doing a Q&A many of you have submitted questions over the past few weeks that relate to the Bible Theology and Christian living and we're gonna answer as many of those as possible this morning We answered about half of them in the first service So we'll see if we can answer the other half in this service and to help pastor Jeff and myself We have Matt Cole who's gonna moderate the questions for us So Folsey we were talking in the first service it's been a while since we've had a Q&A Yeah, I think I said that in the first service that it was definitely before we went to two services because I would have definitely Remembered doing this back-to-back.

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    So we are long overdue and we got some really good questions The first service questions will be up on the Where's that record on the YouTube's or whatever you can find the first service on the YouTube's?

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    Yes on our YouTube channel, you can go on our church website should be up by today or tomorrow tomorrow, so you can check out those first questions we answered in the first service.

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    So we'll pick up with the questions we didn't get to in the first service then and just kind of take it from there.

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    Yeah, we had a lot of, we had 17 total questions, so we got through 9 of them in the first service, so we have to pretty much.

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    And I have to say, one of these questions literally made me laugh out loud for an extended period of time, and I sure hope that we get to that question.

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    I can testify because I saw your reaction.

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    Yeah, yeah.

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    Pastor Taylor, he goes, "Hey, here's the questions we got for Q&A day." He watched me, I laughed like an idiot in the lobby by the offices.

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    And I don't know who submitted most of these questions.

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    I don't know who submitted the funny one, but I would love to find out.

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    If you would fess up, you have to know how much you made my day.

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    I think I know who it was, but I won't say it.

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    >> I can't speculate.

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    >> Yeah.

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    All right.

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    So anyways, we going to set a timer?

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    >> Oh, yeah.

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    I guess that was me last time, huh?

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    >> Yeah, I don't have my phone.

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    >> I know, yours was a lot cooler in the past, because you had a Pac-Man theme song or something.

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    >> Yeah, the Pac-Man theme.

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    I forgot my phone again.

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    >> Mine's just a little ringer.

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    All right, 35 again?

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    >> You want to do 35?

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    Yeah, that was good for the first-- don't you think?

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    >> We preach longer than that, so it will seem to work.

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    >> So this is going to spoil people, right?

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    >> All right.

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    Ready, set.

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    Go.

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    All right, a lot of the questions in the first service were related to prayer and the church and family and kids, so we do have one leftover family question that we'll start with.

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    All right, fire away.

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    All right.

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    How can Christians help transgender family members fit into a family structure without alienating them?

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    This is, I know for some families, this can become a very emotionally charged question.

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    I wanna take a step back for a second and remind us what the Bible says.

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    The Bible says that in the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.

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    You know, we saw generations of people denying that truth, fueled by Satan, that Satan's oldest gimmick, right?

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    Did God really say?

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    So we had generations of Satan fueling that debate.

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    Did God really save, did God really create?

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    No, we're the product of evolution, millions and billions of years and all that.

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    But we've seen, especially in the past, what, 15 years or so, especially, this is really getting ratcheted up, where the Bible says God created the male and female.

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    And now we have a whole generation of, no, that's not, no.

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    I can be whatever gender I wanna be.

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    The Bible says marriage is to be between a man and a woman.

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    No, marriage can be whoever I want.

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    And we just see this erosion of everything that God established in Genesis.

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    We're seeing Satan attacking the very foundation of our faith.

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    So I wanna say regarding the transgender issue, It is a horribly, to me, it's a horribly tragic situation when you have people buying into Satan's lie that you're not who God created you to be.

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    And we are denying the fact that God created us who he wanted us to be.

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    So there's that tragedy that you have people that are, and you know, transgender, not the enemy, they're the victim of the enemy.

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    And then it's tragedy on top of tragedy when it comes to church world.

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    Because in church world, you go to either extreme and either extreme is horrible.

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    One extreme is hatred.

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    Because their sin might be different than my sin, I hate them.

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    Or we laugh and make fun, which also is inappropriate.

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    So that's one horrible response.

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    Another horrible response by the church is acceptance.

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    And we have churches tripping over each other now to be at the front of that line to say, hey, look at us.

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    We're affirming people who are denying what God created them to be.

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    Both of those are wrong, right?

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    I think the proper response is, I love you, but this is wrong, right?

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    I think John Piper kind of coined that maybe 10 years or so ago, it always stuck with me.

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    I love you, but this is wrong.

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    I think that needs to be our approach.

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    And regarding this question in particular, I would say if you're in this situation, you need to call the church and talk to one of the pastors because I can't give an answer that's gonna cover every context.

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    You know, how old is this person?

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    What kind of, what do you mean by family structure?

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    I don't know what exactly you mean by that.

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    So there's some things we'd have to unpack about your particular context.

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    But I would encourage you to call the church office and meet with one of our pastors.

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    Anything else, Taylor, on your end?

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    After the first service, someone asked me, what does the verse mean, that I am fearfully and wonderfully made?

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    And what I said was, you weren't made by accident.

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    You weren't a slapdash put together by God, like this one has to get out, okay, well, few mistakes there, whoops.

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    No, everything about you is intentional.

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    How you look, what gender you are, what personality that you have, God didn't make a mistake with you.

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    And many of us, even beyond this issue, we feel like God made a mistake with us in some way.

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    I wish I looked this way, I wish I had this personality trait.

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    That's actually offensive to God because you are fearfully and wonderfully made and God made you and designed you on purpose.

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    Yes, sin messes up with all those things, but God's intention for you was how he made you.

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    And in Acts 17, further tells us not only did God fearfully and wonderfully make us, Acts 17 tells us, He put us where geographically He wanted us to be, and He put us when in history He wanted us to be.

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    So God created you to be this person in this time, in this place, not by accident.

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    You're right, Taylor, the Bible is crystal clear.

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    That is an act of God's sovereignty, who you are and where He puts you.

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    Yeah, we're stamped with the image of God.

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    You know, brands tell you something about the product.

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    There's some brands like I don't trust that product, but there's some you trust the quality Right and we are branded by God himself with his own image. No one else nothing else. All creation has that brand Yeah, that was good stuff All right. Let's go to more creation and end times related questions here for just a few the first is This is something I've wondered myself. Why did Adam live so long on the earth when we can't now and not just Adam There were plenty of other people that did that as well.

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    Okay, first of all, first of all When you look at these people in the Old Testament that lived like 300 400 500 years Would you want to live that long? No, the answer is no No, it's a wonder for me, but not a I'm jealous of that.

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    No, I I'm like done. I've been done for a while What would back in my day of me when you live that long right, right, but um, okay, so I Believe personally that the reason you see those people living for those long periods of time You see that before the flood This is just my personal thing.

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    You can check the science on this.

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    But if you've ever studied-- we have a hyperbaric machine in our home.

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    I've done a lot of studies on hyperbaric therapy.

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    It's Henry's law.

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    Gas under pressure dissolves into liquid in a pressurized environment. Oxygen saturates all your cells, and it makes you healthy.

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    That's why all the professional athletes use hyperbaric chambers to accelerate injury healing.

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    I believe that there was some mechanism in place-- you love that word-- there's some mechanism in place before the flood that created a greater atmospheric pressure that would have resulted in greater health and longer life.

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    So they were all in the hyperbaric chamber.

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    I believe that somehow the Earth would have been under greater pressure, yeah, that it would have been one big hyperbaric chamber.

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    And the flood obviously changed that, because you see shorter lifespans after the flood.

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    That's my take on that.

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    Interesting.

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    Agree with that theory?

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    I don't know about that theory.

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    That's a good theory.

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    I just think something happened, whether it's that or something else, because Adam lived 930.

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    I think Methuselah was 969.

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    And then after the flood, Shem lived 600 years.

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    And then you see Abraham lived 175 years.

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    Obviously, something is happening.

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    There's a decline.

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    There's a progression there.

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    We don't know exactly what it was.

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    It could have been what Jeff was talking about.

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    But obviously, the rate of decay increased because of something involving the flood.

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    And now we live 70 to 80 years, maybe we're blessed by God, live into the early hundreds, I suppose, but our rate of living is way down.

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    Could it be that God just was not done using them yet on the earth and just wanted them to hang around for that long?

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    And it gets back to our first question, right?

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    God had a purpose in that.

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    He had a purpose in that.

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    And just as he had a purpose in allowing lifespans to be shorter after the flood.

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    So, yeah.

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    Interesting.

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    All right, this one literally says, "Buckle up, this is a doozy." So here we go.

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    Look at this thing.

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    I was wondering how we were going to fit this on the screen.

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    It's like size six fonts.

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    This takes up like my whole page.

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    That's how we finished reading the question.

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    We'll be done.

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    I know.

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    All right, here we go.

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    I'm sure a lot of you have already started, so I'm going to try to catch up.

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    How are scientists using carbon dating to find rocks that are millions of years old?

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    Carbon dating works by-- I'm not even going to read all that, actually.

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    If the Earth, I'm sorry if you submitted that question.

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    It's on the screen.

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    Yeah.

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    If the Earth is only 6,000-ish years old, which I believe it is, then I should be able to get my own doohickey, which is great.

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    I never thought I would say doohickey at church.

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    That tells me how much carbon is decayed and find that only about half of the carbon is decayed, which would mean that the scientists were lying.

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    But all the carbon dating says the earth is millions of years old.

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    Are the scientists lying?

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    Yes.

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    Or when God created the earth, did he create it with a lot of carbon decayed?

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    No.

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    If so, why would he do so?

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    He didn't.

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    Wouldn't he want to show that the earth is only 6,000-ish years old?

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    He did.

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    Is this whole carbon dating thing false and a lie?

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    Yes.

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    Or does it have something to do with the fall or something else entirely?

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    Something else entirely.

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    OK, that's your homework assignment for the next few weeks.

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    Enjoy and thank you.

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    Here's the thing.

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    They've proven carbon dating.

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    They've proven it's false.

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    I read years ago, they did a test on a live mollusk.

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    And the results from the carbon-14 dating was it had been dead for 2 million years.

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    It doesn't work.

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    It's been proven faulty.

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    So why are they still using it?

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    Because they're looking for something to give them some reading of millions of years.

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    Why?

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    Because if the Earth is really only 6,000 to 10,000 years old, which I believe it is, and I believe all the science really backs up when you consider Noah's flood fossil record, rock layers, all of that, you have to try to account for this molecules to man evolution somehow.

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    So they just said, well, time.

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    That happened through time, which is impossible, right?

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    Time and mutations.

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    Mutations take away genetic information.

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    They don't add to.

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    So that doesn't even work.

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    But they have to have some way of justifying this millions and billions of years.

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    So if they can get some kind of result from carbon dating like that, they're going to latch onto that.

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    But it's been proven false.

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    It's unreliable.

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    it doesn't work.

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    Yeah, the science isn't even done in good faith.

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    The carbon 14 is supposed to be decaying after several thousand years and not even be existent anymore.

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    But they're saying, "Oh, we can track back millions of years." So the science isn't even done accurately according to their own specifications.

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    Right, yeah.

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    It was a bad test.

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    So, no.

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    No. - All of it.

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    Just a flat no.

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    Jeff had many answers.

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    Yeah.

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    Well, I didn't want anybody to think we were dodging any of these.

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    No, that was clear, I think.

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    All right, let's go to the next one then.

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    During the millennium where Christians reign with Jesus, people will sin, but I'm confused about who.

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    Number one, will the Christians who have already died on the earth and received their glorified bodies sin?

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    No.

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    Number two, will the Christians who were raptured and did not receive their glorified bodies sin?

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    That question is, When you are raptured, you receive your glorified body at that moment.

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    So that question just need to clarify.

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    And number three, will the children that the Christians in the millennium have sin?

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    Yes.

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    Number three is the option there.

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    The Bible says that during the millennial reign of Christ, you have people will be having kids.

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    Not all of those kids will believe in King Jesus because at the end of the millennium, The Bible tells us, was it Revelation 20, Satan rounds them up for a last hurrah, Jesus vaporizes them.

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    So like, where did the sinners come from?

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    They had to be, they had to be children that were born in the millennium 'cause nobody raptured and no believers entering into the millennium from the tribulation period will be able to sin.

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    You can't sin in your glorified body.

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    It has to be them.

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    I thought he did a good job.

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    Yeah.

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    All right, let's go to the next one then.

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    That is a really good question, by the way.

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    Whoever asked that one, that is a really good question.

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    Three-parter too.

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    Yeah.

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    And the thank you at the end, how generous.

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    Well, yeah, that was really nice.

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    Whoever voted that.

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    Very kind and polite.

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    Good manners.

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    Yes.

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    Good manners.

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    All right.

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    Aren't Christians talking about the Bible prophecies from thousands of years ago that are happening in our day and age?

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    How is this not fascinating to every Christian?

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    So many scriptures point out or point to what is happening right now.

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    How is it that Christians don't know or care?

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    I actually do want an answer to this question, they say.

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    Just in case you were trying to skirt it, I want an answer.

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    You weren't going to answer it until you saw that.

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    Right.

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    Yeah, when I first saw this, I'm like, "I ain't answering that." Then I saw that last statement, I'm like, "Oh, you know what?

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    They actually do want an answer to the question." So Pastor Taylor, what do you think?

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    Well, I think it really depends on what Christian you're talking about.

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    I think every Christian has particular emphases, particular things they really focus on.

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    Right.

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    There's some people in this church who love creation science.

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    That's a great thing to focus on.

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    Some people love eschatology stuff, which is also great.

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    Everyone has something in the Bible that they're particularly fascinated by.

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    Yeah.

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    And we don't always take that to the extreme.

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    Well, if you don't talk about creation in the sermon, you aren't faithful.

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    If you don't talk about end times in the sermon, you aren't faithful.

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    We just go where the word of God takes us.

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    We've done a lot of different end time series.

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    We did Micah a year and a half ago.

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    We've done Revelation.

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    We're doing Revelation with the students right now.

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    And our big concern with the students and youth group was, we want you to study Revelation, not to be like, oh, what a lot of interesting facts I can put in my brain, which I think a lot of Christians struggle with.

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    I just wanna learn a lot of interesting things about the interesting things in the future that won't affect me right now.

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    Where actually, these things should change how you live right now if you're studying them correctly.

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    Because you should be so heavenly minded that you're of earthly good now.

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    So it is important to think about the end times, it is important to focus on what scripture says about it, but also be aware that not everybody's gonna have the same exact fascination that you might with it, 'cause everyone has different things in scripture that they really treasure and really focus on and others.

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    This is stuff that I personally love to talk about.

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    I love eschatology, I love studying Israel and all of that.

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    So yeah, I think it depends on which Christians you're talking to.

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    But if it's a matter of like preaching from the pulpit kind of thing, my response to that would be, yeah, we've done 1 Corinthians 15, we did a whole series on that.

    18:28-18:30

    We've done 1 Thessalonians, 2 Thessalonians, Revelation.

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    We're doing, like Pastor Taylor said, we're doing Revelation with the kids now.

    18:34-18:35

    We've done Micah.

    18:36-18:50

    And that's a good question when it comes to like philosophy of preaching, because some churches will say, well, let's just come up with a topic to talk about and maybe do a, build a series around a topic.

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    And we do little topical series here.

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    And like we did the one on money, we've done it on depression, we've done it on parenting or whatever.

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    So occasionally we'll do a short mini series that's topical, but our philosophy of preaching here at Harvest is to go straight through a book verse by verse and let the word of God speak for itself.

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    Right, it's not like what do I want to say, but what did God say in his word?

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    And let's just communicate that.

    19:27-19:37

    So, that keeps us from avoiding any subjects because we just take the subjects as they naturally come up in the text.

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    And that allows us to go after what God wants to communicate, preaching the Bible straightforwardly, but that also allows us to do what, like the Apostle Paul in Acts chapter 20, he said to the Ephesian elders that he preached the whole counsel of God.

    19:54-19:59

    And when you preach straight through the text, that allows us to preach the whole counsel of God.

    20:00-20:03

    Believe you me, we've done sermons on hell and judgment.

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    I didn't prefer doing those.

    20:06-20:09

    I wasn't like, oh boy, can't wait to unleash this.

    20:09-20:18

    If it was up to me, I'd preach on grace and love like every week, but that's not preaching the whole counsel of God.

    20:19-20:28

    So in letting the word of God speak for itself, we exposit a text by going straight through from the first verse to the last verse.

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    That's the lion's share of our preaching calendar.

    20:32-20:42

    So for the Christians that may not know or care, in this case, related to this question, what are the Bible prophecies from thousands of years ago that are happening in our day and age?

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    We wouldn't have enough time this month to go through all of them.

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    There are so many.

    20:52-20:53

    We also went through the Olivet Discourse.

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    We talked about some of that, Matthew 24, 25.

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    I will say this, here's the short version.

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    Always keep your eye on Israel because the Bible says Israel is God's nation.

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    Romans chapter 11, yes, Israel was temporarily set aside as the Gentiles grafted in.

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    The church has not replaced Israel, but Israel is front and center in the end time events.

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    You read the book of Revelation.

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    That is crystal clear.

    21:23-21:31

    So, so many prophecies about the nation of Israel we're seeing fulfilled in this generation right now.

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    And it's like I said, it is a mammoth list.

    21:37-21:40

    All right, let's do some miscellaneous questions.

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    So I think-- - Miscellaneous, that's my favorite. - Yeah, right?

    21:44-21:46

    I think this might be the one that-- - Oh, this is it.

    21:47-21:48

    I wanna know who asked this question.

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    I think, I think it is.

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    Is it?

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    How long does somebody have?

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    Yes, yes.

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    Go ahead, Fulsi.

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    How long does somebody have to be dead before it's considered archeology instead of grave robbing?

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    How is this Bible related?

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    I'm not sure, but grave robbing is definitely a sin.

    22:12-22:13

    All right, who asked it?

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    Not here, huh?

    22:17-22:21

    >> Okay, that is a really good question.

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    The answer is 100 years.

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    >> Definitive, put it in the book.

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    >> I have no idea.

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    I have no idea.

    22:32-22:35

    >> So Pastor Rich's grave will be free game in 100 years?

    22:36-22:38

    >> I have no idea.

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    I mean, maybe we have to ask Pastor Rich, is there a legal, what's that?

    22:44-22:46

    I'm not gonna find my grave.

    22:48-22:50

    No, I meant, is there a legal answer to this?

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    Like, is there a...

    22:54-22:54

    Okay.

    22:56-23:00

    Then listen, if Pastor Rich doesn't know, then that means no answer exists.

    23:00-23:00

    Yeah, right.

    23:02-23:06

    But I will agree, grave robbing is a sin.

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    And this isn't for everybody here, but this is for somebody.

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    If you're robbing graves, you better knock that off.

    23:16-23:16

    (congregation laughing)

    23:17-23:18

    I'm glad they established that.

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    They at least established that in the question.

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    It definitely is a sin.

    23:22-23:38

    Look, I don't know who asked this and I sure hope to find out, but I just have this theory in mind that somebody was watching "Indiana Jones." And they were watching that movie like "Raiders of the Lost Ark," and I think that's when they thought of this question.

    23:38-23:40

    Yeah, good possibility.

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    All right, let's go to this one here.

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    It's in 2 Samuel 16, five through 14.

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    Is it Shammai?

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    'Cause David and David said, cursed David, excuse me, and David said, it may be that the Lord will look on my affliction and that the Lord will repay me with good for his cursing this day.

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    What is going on here?

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    Why did David accept this cursing?

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    That is a really good question, and that is a deep dive here.

    24:11-24:13

    So what is going on here, Pastor Taylor?

    24:15-24:15

    (laughing)

    24:17-24:17

    What a move.

    24:17-24:18

    See how I did that?

    24:19-24:25

    So Shammai, Shammi, whatever you wanna say, is a distant relative of Saul, and he curses David.

    24:26-24:34

    And it seems like he's accusing David of stealing the throne from Saul, committing bloodshed against him, which we all know he didn't if you actually read the story.

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    And Abishai, one of David's mighty men, says, "Let's kill this guy.

    24:40-24:46

    "Let's just separate his head from his shoulders "and be done with him." And David says, "No, no, no." And he entrusts himself to the providence of God.

    24:46-24:48

    And why he does that is up for debate.

    24:48-24:59

    People wonder, is David knowing that, "Hey, I am guilty of murder with Uriah, "so I am guilty anyway." Is he accepting that or is he not?

    24:59-25:04

    We're not 100% sure, but we do know that he's entrusting himself to God to deal with this person.

    25:04-25:21

    And he's like, "Maybe God will even bless me "in the process." Yeah, and I heard one preacher had said, really good point, I didn't even think about this, but one preacher had said that this account shows how time and circumstance sort of tempered David.

    25:23-25:31

    This would have happened a few years back, David might have responded in a violent way, but he didn't here.

    25:32-25:44

    So whether it was just maturing or he was just worn out, but it shows David was handling his problems much differently than he was as a younger man.

    25:45-25:48

    Yeah, I think a good modern day application for us is don't fight fire with fire.

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    When people hit you, don't hit back.

    25:51-25:57

    We get the ultimate example in Jesus Christ, 1 Peter 2.23, when he was reviled, he did not revile in return.

    25:57-26:03

    When he suffered, he did not threaten, but he continued entrusting himself to him who judges justly.

    26:04-26:09

    Ultimately, God knew the reason why David was cursed by Shammi, and David's like, I trust God.

    26:11-26:16

    By the way, I love how casually intense the Bible can be sometimes, where it's just like, let's separate his head from his shoulders.

    26:17-26:18

    Oh, okay.

    26:19-26:20

    Well, that escalated quickly.

    26:20-26:21

    Wow. - Right on.

    26:22-26:25

    All right, last miscellaneous question.

    26:25-26:28

    What does the Bible say about cremation?

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    What does the Bible say about cremation?

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    Oh, I thought it said creation.

    26:41-26:42

    Cremation, that's different, right?

    26:43-26:44

    That's different.

    26:45-26:46

    Definitely different.

    26:47-26:57

    You know, when I was a kid, there were two major brands of coffee creamer at the time when I was a kid.

    26:58-27:00

    I don't think you're understanding the cremation.

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    He'll make, he'll get there, don't worry.

    27:03-27:03

    I'm getting there.

    27:04-27:04

    Thank you, pastor.

    27:05-27:14

    There were two major kinds, and my dad drank coffee, and I made it for him, but there was Cremora and Coffee Mate.

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    And my dad, like a lot of dads, sometimes got the wires crossed there.

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    Do you know what he called his coffee?

    27:22-27:23

    He called it Cremate.

    27:24-27:33

    So dad would always like, "Could you put a little cremate in my coffee?" I was like, "Ew, ew." So-- - Okay, maybe he didn't get there the way I expected.

    27:34-27:34

    (laughing)

    27:35-27:37

    That wasn't where you thought we were going?

    27:37-27:38

    Still not sure if he understands the question.

    27:38-27:40

    I thought there'd be an illustration that you could choose whichever one you want.

    27:41-27:41

    Oh.

    27:41-27:42

    Whichever type of creme you want, I don't know.

    27:43-27:44

    Yeah, that works too.

    27:44-27:45

    All right, all right.

    27:46-27:48

    You got me, enough stalling.

    27:48-27:50

    Taylor, what does the Bible say about cremation?

    27:51-27:51

    (laughing)

    27:52-27:58

    Well, you don't see any examples of believers Old Testament being cremated or New Testament believers being cremated.

    27:58-28:02

    It actually has pagan roots. Greeks and Romans would do that.

    28:03-28:11

    Believers throughout biblical history have always buried their dead in anticipation of the resurrection of the dead. So you see that with Stephen.

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    He was stoned. He was buried. And Isis is a fire. When they died, they were buried. Lazarus was buried. Jesus was buried.

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    And Jesus rose again from the grave. And that's us being buried now.

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    And it's pointing forward that we trust that one day we will be raised as new creations and new glorified bodies.

    28:28-28:32

    And I don't want to say that you have to get buried, that cremation is a sin.

    28:32-28:36

    I'm not saying that at all. I'm just laying out the biblical pattern that we see in Scripture.

    28:36-28:40

    Yeah, and that is the question, what does the Bible say about cremation?

    28:40-28:45

    The Bible doesn't say, "Thou shalt not cremate," that I could see.

    28:45-28:58

    But yeah, every time somebody was, you know, when they passed away, their body was buried and the biblical picture there, 1 Corinthians 15, we're resurrected.

    28:58-29:08

    It's like a seed going into the ground, which will someday when we get our glorified body, we're going to come up out of the ground at the resurrection, right?

    29:14-29:21

    I guess, technically, you really don't have any say over what happens to your body when you die, right?

    29:21-29:28

    I mean, you can make your arrangements beforehand, but then once you're gone, it's carried out by the people left behind.

    29:32-29:42

    But one of the issues that people have with this, people are like, well, if you're cremated, is that somehow gonna affect you at the resurrection?

    29:43-29:46

    Almost like God's not gonna be able to find your body or whatever, right?

    29:47-29:48

    But I've had people ask me that.

    29:48-30:01

    And my response is like, what about people that die in a horrible explosion or eaten by a shark or something horrible like that where there's not an actual cemetery burial?

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    Do you think God's gonna have a hard time finding the pieces?

    30:06-30:07

    I don't think so.

    30:11-30:12

    Well, pastor.

    30:14-30:16

    Not sure how to respond to that one.

    30:16-30:19

    Well, you smell like a campfire was the question, by the way.

    30:20-30:21

    I'll tell you what, Rich.

    30:22-30:28

    If you're cremated, I will dig you up when it's no longer considered grave robbing.

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    Because that's definitely a sin.

    30:32-30:37

    Because that's definitely a sin, and I'll let you know if you smell like a campfire.

    30:38-30:39

    It's certainly not a major moral issue.

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    you shouldn't be tossing and turning at night over the decision.

    30:42-30:44

    Or feel bad if you cremated someone in the past.

    30:44-30:44

    No, not at all.

    30:45-30:50

    Because again, God can remake that body and recreate a new one.

    30:50-30:53

    But we're just laying out, this is the biblical pattern we see in scripture.

    30:54-31:00

    But you know my father was cremated and it just now hit me how ironic that is.

    31:01-31:02

    (laughing)

    31:05-31:07

    He finally became-- - He was asking for it all those years.

    31:07-31:09

    He's asking for it his whole life.

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    Oh man.

    31:11-31:16

    I know, if you're like, ooh, he's having a really good day right now, okay?

    31:16-31:18

    So trust me, he's not offended.

    31:19-31:21

    He'd be laughing with us.

    31:21-31:21

    Yeah.

    31:22-31:26

    All right, that was all for the questions from the leftovers from the first service.

    31:26-31:32

    So I'm gonna circle back to one that I think we had a good discussion about in the first service.

    31:32-31:33

    Great idea.

    31:34-31:40

    And that is, what does the gift of tongues accurately look like in today's church?

    31:41-31:41

    Terrible idea.

    31:42-31:45

    Since they've only seen the crazy, there must be a legit use.

    31:46-31:52

    Since Paul spent so much time on it in 1 Corinthians 14, if it's no longer valid, how do we determine what gifts are valid and which are not?

    31:54-31:58

    I thought it was a good idea to circle back until you went back to this question.

    32:00-32:03

    Now, here's the thing.

    32:05-32:07

    It's another emotionally charged issue.

    32:07-32:12

    It's like a lot of these Q&A questions, they're emotionally charged.

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    And there's a lot of different opinions and understanding on the gift of tongues.

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    All I can tell you is what the Bible says.

    32:20-32:23

    What does the gift of tongues accurately look like in today's church?

    32:23-32:27

    I don't believe the tongues is normative for today.

    32:28-32:29

    Let me take a step back here.

    32:30-32:32

    Where do you see tongues in the Bible?

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    You see in the book of Acts, right?

    32:35-32:41

    And the only epistle where it's mentioned is one of the earliest epistles written and that's 1 Corinthians.

    32:42-32:52

    Why, if tongues is such a major thing that's supposed to be happening in churches, why isn't it addressed in every single epistle?

    32:53-33:00

    The reason being is the purpose God had for tongues.

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    What was the purpose?

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    Well, in the book of Acts, what you have is this major turning point in history.

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    We're going from the old covenant to the new covenant.

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    And part of that shift is actually a message of judgment.

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    God prophesied this back in the book of Isaiah, that tongues was a sign of judgment against Israel.

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    Because Israel had rejected the Messiah, God says, all right, then I'm going to be moving on to other people.

    33:37-33:40

    And so tongues is actually, these are known languages.

    33:41-33:43

    The gift of tongues, it wasn't gibberish.

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    It would be like people speaking Chinese or Japanese or Spanish.

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    They were actual languages that were, And also, they were supernaturally spoken and supernaturally interpreted.

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    But that was the purpose of tongues, was to show Israel that God was, Romans 11, they were temporarily setting them aside and grafting in the wild branches, the Gentiles, the other nations, that's us.

    34:17-34:20

    So that's the purpose of tongues.

    34:21-34:29

    I just find it so interesting that it's spoken really so little in the Bible, but people make so much of it.

    34:30-34:33

    I do not believe the tongues is normative for today.

    34:33-34:36

    Do I believe that it still happens?

    34:36-34:37

    I do.

    34:39-34:45

    I've heard stories, I wasn't there, but I've heard stories from reliable sources of people on the mission field.

    34:46-34:48

    They were asked to get up and say a few words.

    34:48-35:20

    They're like, "Well, I don't speak your language." and say something. They get up and speak what they think is their own language, people were hearing it in their native tongue. That's sort of like Pentecost tongues, right? Acts chapter 2. Do I believe that happened? I do. I've heard that story from reliable sources. I believe that's the manifestation of the gift of tongues in our day, but speaking an ecstatic gibberish language as part of the worship service in church, I don't see that biblically at all.

    35:21-35:25

    Yeah, I have friends who have a different conviction than me on this matter, and they're great Christians, they love the Lord.

    35:27-35:34

    The biggest concern I do have is churches that say, to be a Christian, to be saved, you must speak in tongues.

    35:34-35:37

    You don't see that claim anywhere in the New Testament at all.

    35:38-35:42

    It lays a guilty burden on people that they cannot bear and they should not bear.

    35:42-35:46

    And I've met a lot of people who've said, yeah, I was in that kind of church, and I just faked it.

    35:46-35:50

    I just pretended, I wanted to fit in, I didn't want anyone to question my salvation.

    35:51-35:51

    Right.

    35:52-35:54

    That's a really difficult atmosphere to be in.

    35:55-35:57

    It's not correct and it's not biblical.

    35:59-36:18

    I had a friend who was part of a charismatic church and that's exactly the story he told me, I'm just gonna call him Joe, but he was at a church service and the pastor said, "Nobody's leaving tonight until Joe speaks in tongues." I said, "So what'd you do?" "What could I do? I faked it.

    36:19-36:29

    I don't want to be there all night." He goes, "So I just started making stuff up because I wanted to get out of there." But he was like mortified to be put on the spot like that.

    36:29-36:30

    But that's what they did.

    36:31-36:34

    I don't believe that tongues is the sign of salvation.

    36:35-36:35

    You're right.

    36:39-36:52

    We're gonna be, Lord willing, I have a whole series planned on this very subject for next year, we're gonna be doing a deep dive on what the Bible actually says on the subject.

    36:53-36:59

    So as long as the elders approve the preaching calendar, that's the direction I wanna head.

    36:59-36:59

    Okay.

    37:00-37:08

    We're almost out of time, but I do understand that we have a guest question asker who wants to step up.

    37:08-37:14

    He dressed so well for this occasion that I have to give him this opportunity, and that's one Cade Miller.

    37:14-37:15

    Come on up, Cade.

    37:15-37:16

    Hey, could you come up?

    37:23-37:25

    I'm gonna make you sit in the chair, too, officially.

    37:27-37:28

    What question is he asking?

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    Maybe we should have figured that out first.

    37:32-37:33

    Thank you, Matt.

    37:38-37:40

    You might not wanna do that.

    37:43-37:48

    All right, so the final question asks, do the leaders of this church like each other?

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    If so, how do you show it to each other?

    37:54-37:54

    Good question, Cade.

    37:55-37:57

    That's a really good question, Cade.

    37:58-37:58

    Taylor?

    38:00-38:00

    (congregation laughing)

    38:01-38:03

    I'll do what I did in the last service.

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    Here, Jeff, here's how much I care about you.

    38:05-38:06

    Taylor, do you like me?

    38:06-38:08

    Yes, I like you so much I gave you my wallet.

    38:08-38:10

    In the first service, he gave me his wallet.

    38:11-38:13

    And I'm like, that was really kind of him.

    38:15-38:16

    There's nothing in it.

    38:18-38:24

    If that doesn't answer the question as to how much he likes me, there's your answer right there.

    38:26-38:28

    I would say the serious answer is yes.

    38:28-38:37

    And I think the biggest evidence of that is after staff meetings, after elder meetings, or team leader meetings, people still want to stick around and talk and have fun and joke around.

    38:38-38:42

    I think that really speaks to people wanting to be with each other to be around each other?

    38:43-38:45

    And I think, Jeff, you probably have a couple other things you wanna share about that.

    38:46-38:46

    Yeah.

    38:50-38:54

    I would like to think that the leaders of the church like me.

    38:56-38:57

    I like them.

    39:01-39:09

    But the question came up, I think Fulsi asked this one, so what do you do if you have a disagreement about something?

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    how are you not like, (mimics gun firing) well, talk to any of our elders.

    39:14-39:18

    What do we usually spend the front end of the elders meeting doing?

    39:19-39:19

    Prayer.

    39:20-39:33

    We have an extended prayer time at the beginning of our elders meeting because I hate the whole, okay, let's get together for three hours and talk about money, and then we throw up some quick traveling mercies prayer on the way out.

    39:33-39:36

    Like, no, prayer should be the priority.

    39:36-39:40

    So at our elders meeting, We have extended prayer time at the beginning.

    39:41-39:43

    I think that sets the tone for the elders meeting.

    39:43-39:53

    How can you not when we're all like, God, your glory, your purposes, God, use us and unite us and show us God.

    39:53-40:00

    Like, when you front load a meeting, crying out to the Lord for that kind of unity, that really sets the stage.

    40:01-40:06

    So, you know, so no, do the elders always agree perfectly on everything?

    40:06-40:16

    No, but I'll tell you, I've never seen where there's been like knock down, drag out, name calling, cussing out kind of stuff that I've heard happen in other churches.

    40:16-40:17

    I've never seen that here.

    40:18-40:26

    Yeah, I can't help but wonder if this question was asked from someone who went through a really difficult church situation, 'cause church hurts is one of the worst hurts.

    40:26-40:26

    Yeah.

    40:27-40:35

    Unbiblical, ungodly leadership is a painful thing to experience, and in coming to a new church, it can be hard to trust the leadership.

    40:36-40:39

    And I would just encourage you, just examine what we teach, examine our lives.

    40:40-40:44

    The fruit of what we believe comes out in how we live.

    40:46-40:49

    That's the biggest test of if leadership is biblical or not.

    40:49-40:50

    Are we living out what we preach?

    40:50-40:52

    Are we living out what we say we believe?

    40:52-40:53

    Yeah, absolutely.

    40:54-40:56

    And you see even some of the relational aspects of this.

    40:57-41:00

    Like Pastor Taylor said, after a meeting, nobody's in a rush to get out of there.

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    Look at some of our text threads, our staff text thread, our elders text thread.

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    You can't believe the puns that Rich Sprung comes up with.

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    I mean, it's like puns meeting dad jokes on steroids, right?

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    But the real question is, Kade, do you like the leaders of this church?

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    I do.

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    Which one would you say is your favorite?

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    (audience laughing)

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    I don't think I should mention names.

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    Well, I think you...

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    (audience laughing)

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    Maybe this guy in the middle.

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    (audience laughing)

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    What'd he say?

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    Maybe this guy in the middle.

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    Him.

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    Well, I have known him for 13 years.

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    All right, I think we're done here.

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    (audience laughing)

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    Thank you, Kate.

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    Hey, it's not what you think, Dad.

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    (audience laughing)

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    I love you, buddy.

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    All right, give her a pinch hitter.

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    (congregation applauding) Bolzi, come on up.

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    Go ahead, Kate, good job, buddy.

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    Good job, Kate, you can go back to the seat, buddy.

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    Well done.

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    Yeah, that was worth it.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    We're like, do the leaders of the church like each other?

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    We're like, the people in my house don't even like each other.

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    (audience laughing)

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):

Review the questions submitted above. Discuss any of these that stuck out to you, or that maybe your group finds particularly interesting.

Breakout Questions:
Pray for one another!

Questions from the Congregation - Part 19A

Note: The time signatures [00:00] below indicate the approximate start time of a question if you'd like to skip to a particular one of interest in the audio file.

Prayer:

  1. [02:25] - Q: Prayers of believers vs. unbelievers – when a person that has belief but doesn’t have a daily walk says, “I’ll pray for you,” “Sending prayers,” are they heard the same? How should I respond to them?

  2. [07:10] - Q: What is the biblical response to proclamation prayer or prayer where people pray with the authority to command things? How should we respond to believers who pray or want to pray for us in this way?

  3. [11:45] - Q: How should we view or even practice the “listening prayer”, in which we listen for God’s speaking or answer to us? Is that charismatic Christianity?

    The Church:

  4. [16:45] - Q: Do the leaders of this church like each other? If so, how do you show it to each other?

  5. [20:40] - Q: What is this church’s strategy concerning choosing worship songs that overuse the repeat button? I am unable to see the benefit of singing the same words over and over?

  6. [22:18] - Q: What does the “gift of tongues” accurately look like in today’s church? Since I’ve only seen the “crazy” – there must be a legit use for it since Paul spent so much time on it in 1 Corinthians 14. And if it is no longer valid, how do you determine what gifts are valid or not?

  7. [27:48] - Q: Can Christian women baptize new believers?

    Family/Kids:

  8. [29:27] - Q: Do babies go to heaven if they die? Similar Question: “The age of accountability” being made up – or not found in the Bible, what biblical basis is there for understanding what will happen to young children or the disabled when they die unexpectedly or if Jesus returns?

  9. [34:36] - Q: Is it okay for a Christian couple to decide that they do not want to have children or to prevent conception? Also, is it okay for a Christian couple to decide what size of a family they would prefer, or should we let those decisions up to God?

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    So we get to lay some ground rules first, right?

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    >> Absolutely.

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    >> OK.

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    It's been a while since we've had Q&A day, isn't it?

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    When was the last one we had?

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    >> It was definitely before we went to two services.

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    >> Yeah.

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    >> Because I don't remember doing this twice in a row.

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    >> You're right.

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    Yeah.

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    And you would have remembered something like that.

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    >> Who knows what's going to happen in the second service?

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    >> Yeah, we'll find out.

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    >> It's not recorded, so we can say whatever we want.

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    >> Right.

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    It's going to get spicy, right?

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    >> It will get spicy.

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    The ground rules, number one, we can only answer the question that we think is being asked.

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    So if you submitted a question and we answered it in a way where you're like, that's not at all what I was thinking, we can only assume what is being asked.

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    And we're going to try our best to that.

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    And we're also going to try to give the short answer.

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    Every one of these questions were fantastic.

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    And we could probably spend an hour on each of them.

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    But I don't think anybody really has time for that.

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    So we're gonna give you the short answer on these.

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    I love Q&A Day because it tells me as a pastor like what people are thinking about and the kind of questions they have.

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    So it's an opportunity to dive into some of those.

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    Yeah, and we have 17 questions that have been submitted and we have, and by we, I mean you guys 'cause I'm just a guy standing here, sitting here with a microphone.

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    have split into sections.

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    So we have prayer, we have the church, we have family and kids, we have creation and the end times, and then just a couple of miscellaneous.

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    Is this like Jeopardy?

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    Yes.

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    We're gonna pick a category.

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    All right, I'll take the church for 200, Matt.

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    Make sure you answer with what is.

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    (laughing)

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    So let's get right to it here, so we can get through as many as we can.

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    Do you wanna set your, Do you have a pack?

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    Was it Pac-Man or was it Mario Kart?

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    Yeah, but I don't have my phone on me.

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    Okay, I'll tell you.

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    I don't know where is my phone?

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    I'll set my boring timer.

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    Yeah, we better set a timer, huh?

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    Yeah, you wanna set a timer?

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    Yeah, I will.

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    Do we wanna do 30?

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    You wanna do 30?

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    Let's do 35.

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    35, oh boy, okay.

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    And it has started.

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    All right.

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    We preach longer than 35, so it'll seem short.

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    Yeah.

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    Yeah, it'll seem, yeah.

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    All right, first question.

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    We're going to go right to prayer.

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    Prayers of believers versus unbelievers.

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    So when a person that has belief but doesn't have a daily walk says, I'll pray for you, or sending prayers, are they heard the same?

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    And how should I respond to them when they say that?

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    Well, prayer is a very relational thing.

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    And when you look at what Scripture teaches about prayer, We come to God in prayer through Jesus Christ, right?

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    An unbeliever doesn't have that access.

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    And apart from Christ, what access would we have?

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    You know, it's funny, looking through these questions, I saw a reel with John MacArthur that I sent to Pastor Taylor, where he said, he was answering this very question.

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    I'm like, well, just write down his answer, 'cause it's gonna be way smarter than anything I come up with.

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    But he had a line in there that just really hit me.

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    He said, "God does not obligate himself "to answer the prayers of unbelievers." When you look at what his word says, he has obligated himself to answer the prayers of believers, but he does not for unbelievers.

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    Pastor Taylor?

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    As I thought of this question, I thought of an example.

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    Just imagine you take your whole family to go get ice cream, and while you're waiting in line, Some bratty, super rude kid comes over, kicks you in the shin and says, "Hey, get me ice cream." How likely are you to get that kid ice cream?

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    Imagine then your child says, "Hey, Dad, can I please have some ice cream?" You have a different heart disposition towards that question.

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    'Cause you're more tuned in to your kid's needs and wants than some random, rude, bratty kid who doesn't really want anything to do with you, right?

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    And so there's many verses in the Old Testament to talk about God not listening to the prayers of the wicked.

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    Doesn't mean he doesn't hear them, but he views them much differently than the prayers of his children.

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    I would say the one prayer that God always answers from an unbeliever is the prayer of repentance and faith in Jesus Christ.

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    And that last question, or how should I respond to them?

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    It depends on the situation.

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    I think the safe thing to do is to just say thanks.

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    But I think even better is to ask, hey, I really appreciate your prayers.

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    Do you have a church home?

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    And if they don't, invite them to harvest.

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    There you go.

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    I thought of 1 Peter 3, 7, and I believe that Justin Cady preached about this at the men's conference.

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    And the verse is, "Likewise, husbands live with their wives "in an understanding way, "showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered." What do you think that means?

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    And is that talking about, you know, if you're not doing those things, even if you are a Christian, that your prayers aren't going to be heard?

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    What do you think hindered means in that sense?

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    And that verse in particular, you know, a lot of times you had a situation where there was, one spouse was saved and the other was not saved.

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    And I think in that verse in particular, what he's talking about is, husbands, you're praying for your wife to get saved, and if you're acting like a jerk, you're hindering your own prayers. That's what I think is meant in the context of that verse. Like, you are, you're getting in your own way. You want your wife to come to Christ. You say you're a Christian, and you're acting like a jerk. She's like, "Why would I come to Christ? My husband says he's a Christian, and he acts like a, you know, just an idiot. So, I think that's what's being talked about in that verse.

    06:13-06:13

    Yeah.

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    I think in general though that if you have a hidden sin life, it does affect your fellowship with God. Not on His end, but on your end. And even in the Psalms it talks about, "If I cherish iniquity in my heart, you would not have heard me." It really does affect your prayer life, even if that specific verse doesn't speak to that concept.

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    Right, yeah, it absolutely does. I mean, we have access to God through Jesus Christ, and we have fellowship with God in our prayer life through spending time in His Word.

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    And I think we can really hinder our fellowship, you know, like the Christians in sin, you know, backslidden. We can hinder our fellowship.

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    But, you know, for the purposes of this question, I don't think God hears prayers for a non-believer the way He hears them for a believer.

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    Okay, let's go to another prayer question then off of that.

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    What is the biblical response to proclamation prayer or prayer where people pray with the authority to command things?

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    And how should we respond to believers who pray or want to pray for us in this way?

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    So I'm sure you guys have run into people or have heard this before, these proclamation prayers.

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    How do we respond?

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    Right.

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    You speak it, right?

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    You have the authority.

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    You speak it and it comes into being.

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    And I have a real problem with that biblically.

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    And you know, it's fresh on my mind because we just covered the Lord's Prayer recently going through the Sermon on the Mount.

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    What are the first two words in the Lord's prayer?

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    Anybody remember?

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    Oh, it wasn't that long ago.

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    Yeah, our father, right.

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    So how should we address God in prayer?

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    Like a child addressing his father.

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    Okay, parents, how does it fly in your house when your kids start making demands?

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    when your kids start walking around going, "I have the authority to get what I want." Does that fly in your house?

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    That doesn't fly in our house, right?

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    So I have a real problem with that, praying to command things.

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    We don't see anywhere in scripture where we have that kind of authority.

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    Where does that come from, do you know?

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    I think scripture does call us to pray confidently and boldly.

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    Like in Hebrews, we're told to come confidently before the throne of grace to ask for help in time of need on the basis of Jesus Christ, not my own authority, but on his authority.

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    So we're called to pray with boldness, expectation, but also with submission.

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    Right.

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    We ask God for things, but also trust that he knows better and he may answer our prayers the way that we want him to.

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    Right, and I had that verse open right up here that you referenced, you know, Hebrews 4.16.

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    "Let us then with confidence "draw near to the throne of grace." Right, so yeah, we do come confidently because of Jesus, but what are we doing when we come to the throne of grace?

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    Commanding things?

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    No, he tells us that we may receive grace and find mercy to help in time of need.

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    Receive mercy and find grace, excuse me, I just switched those words.

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    Same point, receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.

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    So yeah, we have confidence, but not to command things.

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    We have confidence to have access to God, but everything I see in scripture is to come praying as a dependent child on the Lord, trusting in His sovereignty and asking, you know, also in the Lord's prayer for His will to be done.

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    I just, I really, I'm not big on the, on the commanding things, but this question, How should we respond to believers who pray or wanna pray for us in this way?

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    I just can't.

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    I look for opportunity to lovingly say, well, you know, I appreciate your prayers and I'm trusting in God's sovereignty.

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    You know, I know what I want, but I'm more concerned with what God wants.

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    And I try to steer the conversation more towards submitting to the will of God versus demanding that God cash in what I want.

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    Pastor, what do you think about that?

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    I think instead of lecturing someone and critiquing their prayers, ask them questions.

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    Like, hey, when you were praying, you said so-and-so.

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    Could you explain what that means to me?

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    Or even ask, hey, I'm really fascinated by people's church backgrounds.

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    What church background did you come from?

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    Questions tend to open up conversations, not shut them down.

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    Yeah, yeah, that's a good point.

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    All right, we'll do one more on prayer, And I guess we should say, too, before we go too much further, that if and when we most likely don't get through all of these, right, all 17, you guys are going to answer them on the blog, Harvest Pizza-- Or maybe in the next service.

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    Maybe.

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    Just stick around.

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    Skip lunch, whatever you need to do.

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    Maybe we should just do that.

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    Just do them in the next service.

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    We'll see.

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    We'll see how we feel.

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    We've got time to think about it.

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    Clearly we pre-planned this.

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    If people throw rocks at us for any of the ways we answered these questions, then we'll definitely do different questions in the next service.

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    We'll see how the rest of this one goes.

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    All right, how should we view or even practice the listening prayer in which we listen for God speaking or answer to us?

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    And is that charismatic Christianity?

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    Pastor Taylor, what do you think about that listening prayer?

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    I certainly don't want to nullify subjective experience, inclinations, promptings, 'cause I felt an internal call to ministry years ago, but it was then validated by other people who saw something within me as well.

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    And so you can have subjective feelings from the Lord, but you always check it by scripture.

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    Objective truth always wins out over subjective feelings.

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    I think so much in our society, people are looking for an experience, whereas we're called to submit ourselves to the word.

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    Right, right.

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    We encourage, and we've been teaching the youth group this, right, to pray God's word back to him.

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    And I absolutely think that we should quiet our hearts before the Lord and take time to be silent before the Lord.

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    But I guess this is one of those questions where I'd like to talk to the person who submitted it to see how far are you taking that?

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    You know what I mean?

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    Like, yes, you should quiet yourself before the Lord.

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    Right, you should pray God's word back to him.

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    And if you have something in particular that you're wrestling with, yeah, I think you should be silent.

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    But you know, I do believe God still speaks to us in that still small voice, right?

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    But it's always through his Holy Spirit working through his word.

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    So again, I'd like to hear how far this is going, what exactly is meant by that before I just slap a charismatic label on it?

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    Because I think there is a lot of validity to being quiet before the Lord.

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    You mentioned the phrase, God speaks to us.

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    How have you seen, in what ways I guess, does God mostly speak to you guys in your lives?

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    How do you see that show up most?

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    I've seen it so many times in my life when I've been praying for something and he's revealed, well, it's always through the word, but like through the word, there have been times, and I don't even have time to get into it all this morning, but there have been times I've been seeking the Lord in something in particular, and I've heard like somebody preaching a sermon, you know, where that very thing is being addressed, and I was like, wow, that sort of answers the question that I've been bringing before the Lord.

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    A lot of times the Lord will work through other believers, right?

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    That's part of the beautiful thing about being a part of the body of Christ, is God speaking through other believers.

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    So, yeah, God absolutely does still speak to us, but He doesn't write it in the clouds in the sky.

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    He doesn't scream it from heaven.

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    He does still use that still small voice, but the Word of God absolutely has to be the final authority and standard on that.

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    Yeah, prayer is a two-way conversation.

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    You talk to God in your prayer, and He speaks back to you in His Word.

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    And that's why last week in my sermon, I really encouraged everyone to pray through Scripture, especially the Psalms.

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    That gives you a vocabulary for how to pray to God.

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    And I can't tell you how many times God has blessed me and really spoken in a specific situation in my life through His Word.

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    Right.

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    Right.

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    And praying Scripture is like the greatest and easiest thing in the world to do.

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    You just read a passage and pray those concepts back to God.

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    And you just, I like to read it out loud.

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    I'll read a verse and then I'll say, "God, you said this, therefore I wanna thank you.

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    "Therefore I'm crying out for help.

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    "Therefore I praise you." But you just read a verse and pray it back to God.

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    And if you take some time to do that, you'll find yourself praying in ways that you've never prayed before.

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    We've talked about this so many times, right?

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    We get bored with prayer because we pray in the most boring way possible.

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    God bless grandma, God heal grandma's gout and traveling mercies and hedge of protection and boring.

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    But when you pray God's word, now we're using God's language back to him.

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    God, you said this, therefore, I'm praying this.

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    This is why I'm praying what I'm praying.

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    And you'll see your prayer life take off if you commit to doing that.

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    Yeah, I feel like the times when I've done that is when I almost, I don't know what or how to pray.

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    And like, I just have a couple of different things going on that I can't, I don't know, there's times where I just can't even put it into words exactly what I'm even praying about, or you know, how I want God to, you know, to hear me or to help me.

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    So it's just kind of like, all right, this is, this is a time where I can just pray your word back to you. 100 % Yeah.

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    All right, that'll wrap up the prayer questions, at least for now. So we'll move on to the church. And this question made me literally lol whenever I saw it earlier this week. And I would love to know why this question was asked.

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    I would. I would too. Yeah, lay it Stay honest, Fulsey.

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    Do the leaders of this church like each other?

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    If so, how do you show it to each other?

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    Private hugs?

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    Hang out?

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    I was going to say on the weekends, but you already hang out on the weekends.

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    Not by choice.

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    Here, Jeff, take my wallet.

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    I love you, I care about you.

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    I really appreciate that, Taylor, thank you.

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    He actually is gonna take it too, look at that.

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    Times are tough.

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    See, he likes me, he really likes me.

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    So Taylor, what do you think?

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    Do leaders of this church like each other?

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    Well it's funny 'cause even if I say yes, everyone's gonna, of course I'd say yes.

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    But I do believe that answer, I'm not just saying it.

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    You know, every time we have a meeting, it always goes longer than we thought because people wanna stay, chat, joke around, have fun.

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    I think that's a great sign of the leaders loving each other and caring for each other.

    18:14-18:17

    Typically you don't wanna hang out with people you're not big fans of.

    18:17-18:20

    And when a meeting's over, you wanna get out as quick as possible.

    18:20-18:23

    But our meetings tend to spill over a little bit and people wanna hang out and have fun.

    18:24-18:26

    I really do love the leaders of this church.

    18:27-18:29

    But I think it would be so funny if I didn't.

    18:29-18:31

    We had to answer that now.

    18:31-18:32

    That's what I was gonna say.

    18:32-18:34

    Like it would have been really interesting if you would have said no. - That would be.

    18:35-18:36

    Like I genuinely do.

    18:36-18:38

    I genuinely love the leaders in this church.

    18:38-18:40

    But I was just sitting here thinking how funny it would be if I didn't.

    18:41-18:41

    Like no.

    18:42-18:47

    I like some of them, like, yeah.

    18:47-18:49

    I would say I like most of them.

    18:50-18:53

    Or just to watch you kind of squirm and dance around that question.

    18:53-18:55

    Right, right.

    18:55-18:56

    Speaking generalities.

    18:56-19:03

    Yeah, I don't know the reason why that question was asked, but maybe a reason could be that there's so many churches where the leaders don't like each other.

    19:04-19:07

    There's fallouts and there's frustration, there's church splits.

    19:07-19:14

    You know, most people in this room have experienced a church hurt of some kind, And church hurt is one of the worst hurts to have.

    19:14-19:22

    And so it can be hard when you see leadership that's unhealthy, to see pastors that are fighting, to see elders that can't stand each other.

    19:23-19:25

    So there could be a big reason for that question is why I don't know.

    19:26-19:36

    Yeah, and I guess a follow up question to that is, yeah, how do you balance loving each other well and also dealing with some potentially hard things, some business things?

    19:36-19:42

    You know, we've got the campaign right now for a new building, and I'm sure there's a ton of conversations around that.

    19:43-19:44

    Yeah, there absolutely is.

    19:46-19:55

    Speaking for the elders, usually the first part of the elder meeting, it's front loaded with an extended prayer time.

    19:56-20:01

    And I think that sets the tone because we're not all coming in like, this is what I want and here's what I think.

    20:02-20:09

    But we're coming in saying, God, this is your church and we're here to glorify you and we just want what you want.

    20:10-20:20

    And I'll tell you what, when you spend like a half hour or whatever praying that and concepts around that, that sure shapes the tone of the meeting, wouldn't you say?

    20:20-20:22

    Yeah, and studying God's word as well.

    20:22-20:35

    We always do that in the staff meetings, the elder meetings, ministry team leader meetings, always studying the word together because that also shapes our discussion that we're not just coming to share our opinions, we're coming to submit ourselves to God's authoritative word in all that we do.

    20:36-20:39

    All right, we've gotten through four questions in like 20 minutes or so.

    20:39-20:40

    We're on a good clip.

    20:40-20:41

    Let's kick it into gear here.

    20:41-20:42

    All right, speed round.

    20:42-20:43

    All right, here we go.

    20:43-20:48

    What is the church's strategy concerning choosing worship songs that overuse the repeat button?

    20:49-20:53

    Am I unable to see the benefit of singing the same words over and over?

    20:54-21:02

    So it's my understanding this is not about like picking the same songs, but using songs that just repeat and repeat and repeat.

    21:03-21:06

    Worship is such an emotionally charged issue.

    21:06-21:15

    And I mean, you get five Christians in a room, you'll get six different opinions about worship, right?

    21:16-21:20

    Taylor, you had a good word about this when we were talking about this earlier.

    21:21-21:27

    Well, Psalm 136 repeats the phrase, "His steadfast love endures forever" 26 times.

    21:27-21:29

    The Psalms are very repetitive.

    21:30-21:32

    I think it's all just a matter of what are you repeating.

    21:33-21:34

    Is it worth repeating?

    21:34-21:35

    Is it glorifying to God?

    21:35-21:36

    Is it biblical?

    21:36-21:37

    Is it edifying?

    21:38-21:39

    That's the biggest question.

    21:40-21:41

    Right.

    21:41-21:42

    Yeah.

    21:42-21:49

    You see a lot of that repetition in the Psalms, like Pastor Taylor said.

    21:50-21:54

    It's not vain repetition, but it's purposeful repetition.

    21:55-21:57

    I think the Bible uses that too, right?

    21:57-21:58

    Outside of the Psalms.

    21:58-21:59

    Yeah, even outside of the Psalms.

    21:59-22:00

    I wrote down a verse.

    22:01-22:02

    Look up...

    22:03-22:03

    Where is that?

    22:04-22:04

    Oh, yeah.

    22:05-22:37

    Galatians 2.16. Just jot that down and look it up later. But in one verse Paul says the exact same thing three times. So there you go. All right next one. What does the gift of tongues accurately look like in today's church? Since I've only seen the crazy, there must be a legit use for it since Paul spent so much time on it in in 1 Corinthians 14, and if it is no longer valid, how do you determine what gifts are valid and which are not?

    22:37-22:38

    This'll be quick.

    22:38-22:42

    Yeah, this is a great question, Taylor, let them know.

    22:43-22:44

    (audience laughing)

    22:46-22:48

    I thought you were excited to answer this one.

    22:51-22:53

    Oh dear, this is a big question.

    22:57-22:58

    Should've saved it for next service.

    23:00-23:01

    It's too late, we'll do it.

    23:01-23:03

    All right, here's the thing.

    23:05-23:09

    The gift of tongues is so misunderstood.

    23:11-23:17

    So let me, the first thing I wanna say is, speaking in tongues is not normative.

    23:18-23:19

    It's just not.

    23:20-23:27

    The other thing is, when the Bible talks about speaking in tongues, those were actually known languages.

    23:28-23:29

    It wasn't gibberish.

    23:29-23:31

    They were actually known languages.

    23:31-23:32

    And what was the purpose?

    23:33-23:38

    Why did God have the early church speak in tongues?

    23:39-23:49

    Well, you only see it in the book of Acts and it's only mentioned in one epistle and that's 1 Corinthians because it's one of the earliest epistles.

    23:50-24:01

    And the reason you only see it there is because in that time, there was a transition happening from the old covenant to the new covenant, right?

    24:02-24:21

    And part of that was, and this was prophesied in Isaiah actually, because Israel by and large, not totally, but by and large, because Israel rejected her Messiah, God said, "I'm going to move on to other people," represented by other languages.

    24:21-24:26

    So tongues was actually a sign of judgment against Israel.

    24:26-24:29

    God says, "You don't want my Messiah?

    24:29-24:37

    "All right, I'm gonna move on to other people." And they were known languages.

    24:37-24:57

    I think it's so interesting that Paul writes what he wrote in 1 Corinthians to correct how misused and abused it was, and people sort of use that as a proof text to use it in the way that is inappropriate in the church today.

    24:58-25:04

    So, Lord willing, I do have a draft of the preaching calendar for next year.

    25:05-25:13

    It does not have elder approval yet, but spoiler alert, this is a big part of that, is I want to address this issue in depth.

    25:13-25:16

    But do I believe tongues happens today?

    25:17-25:18

    Yes, but it's not normative.

    25:19-25:25

    I've heard stories of missionaries, you know, in places where they don't speak the language, they were asked to share.

    25:25-25:29

    They spoke what they thought was their own language and people heard it in their language.

    25:29-25:32

    And like Taylor said earlier, I can't discount somebody's experience.

    25:33-25:35

    I wasn't there, but I've heard that story a few times.

    25:36-25:37

    I believe that's this.

    25:38-25:47

    But I personally do not believe in the gibberish, ecstatic, babbling language.

    25:47-25:49

    I don't believe biblically that's a thing.

    25:49-25:58

    When the Bible talks about tongues, They were actual, real languages that people were speaking that they didn't know but had to be interpreted.

    25:59-26:04

    Or, like we saw in Pentecost, people heard in their own language.

    26:04-26:07

    So, we could spend a lot more on that.

    26:07-26:08

    Is there anything else we should?

    26:09-26:10

    I think you answered that really well.

    26:10-26:16

    The alarming issue for me is there's so many churches that make it an essential of your salvation to speak in tongues.

    26:16-26:19

    If you're a Christian, you will speak in tongues.

    26:20-26:22

    And the New Testament makes no such claim at all.

    26:23-26:28

    And so a guilty burden is laid upon people that they are not expected to carry.

    26:28-26:34

    And I've known many people who've said, yeah, I just pretended like I could because I wanted to fit in and not be thought of as a non-Christian.

    26:35-26:39

    So it's very unbiblically carried out in a lot of ways.

    26:39-26:39

    Oh, it is.

    26:40-26:44

    I knew a guy who was part of a charismatic church.

    26:45-26:46

    I'm just gonna call him Joe.

    26:46-26:51

    But they were having a service and the pastor said, We're not leaving until Joe speaks in tongues.

    26:52-26:53

    And I said, what'd you do?

    26:53-26:55

    He goes, I faked it.

    26:56-26:58

    He wasn't gonna let anybody leave until I did it.

    26:58-27:02

    He said, so I just spouted off a bunch of sounds and stuff.

    27:02-27:03

    And he goes, I faked it.

    27:03-27:07

    And they're like, all right, we can go now because he's been anointed by the Holy Spirit.

    27:07-27:10

    I just, I don't see that biblically.

    27:10-27:17

    I do think tongues was a real thing as a sign of judgment against Israel.

    27:17-27:22

    1 Corinthians 12, 13, 14 dives into that.

    27:22-27:28

    And like I said, Lord willing, I'd like to spend more time really diving deep on that subject, but that's the short version.

    27:28-27:30

    Yeah, and you mentioned interpretation too.

    27:31-27:33

    That's a big part of it, right?

    27:34-27:36

    Right, yeah, that was an essential.

    27:37-27:41

    And that's something a lot of churches that practice this don't have interpretation.

    27:44-27:46

    All right, I think we can move on past that one.

    27:46-27:46

    That was a good one.

    27:47-27:49

    Last one on the church.

    27:50-27:53

    Can Christian women baptize new believers?

    27:57-28:02

    You know there had to be a gender role in the church questions submitted, right?

    28:03-28:08

    So, can Christian women baptize new believers?

    28:10-28:31

    Again, when the Bible's your authority, what does the Bible say about baptism and who baptizes, the only examples that we have biblically are men in spiritually authoritative roles, like pastors, elders, baptizing people.

    28:31-28:35

    I don't see any example biblically of a woman baptizing.

    28:35-28:36

    I mean, have you seen anything?

    28:36-28:37

    I haven't, no.

    28:37-28:42

    So I wouldn't say the Bible explicitly condemns that or encourages it.

    28:42-28:43

    Right.

    28:43-28:53

    Yeah, the Bible doesn't say, you know, a woman is forbidden to baptize, but we see zero examples of that.

    28:53-28:56

    And it seems to me to be a pastoral function.

    28:56-28:57

    You spoke on that a few days ago.

    28:58-29:04

    Yeah, I believe that baptism and the Lord's Supper are essential elements of church membership.

    29:04-29:07

    That baptism is an entrance into the church.

    29:08-29:09

    And the Lord's Supper is for believers.

    29:10-29:17

    And pastors and elders are called to shepherd over the souls of their congregation, and baptism and Lord's Supper are essential for that.

    29:18-29:22

    So I think it is safest for pastors and elders to be responsible for those two things.

    29:23-29:23

    Amen.

    29:25-29:37

    All right, let's go to the family and kids section here of our questions and see how many we can get through of these, we've got less than 10 minutes here, so let's try to not fly through them, but let's see how many we can get through.

    29:38-29:42

    First one is, do babies go to heaven if they die?

    29:42-29:43

    Yes.

    29:44-29:46

    Next. - Similar question.

    29:47-29:47

    (congregation laughing)

    29:48-30:01

    The age of accountability being made up or not found in the Bible, what biblical basis is there for understanding what will happen to young children or the disabled when they die unexpectedly or if Jesus returns?

    30:03-30:17

    The whole age of accountability thing, There's not a hard age like for us today to know when a child developing, growing, maturing is able to accept or reject Jesus Christ.

    30:17-30:19

    There's no magic age for that.

    30:20-30:32

    The principle does come from, I write this down, numbers 1429, you know, God had told Moses that those who were 20 and up were not allowed to enter the promised land.

    30:32-30:32

    Why?

    30:33-30:37

    Because the younger people didn't know better, but 20 and up, they did no better.

    30:37-30:41

    They were held accountable for the rebellion and the sin.

    30:43-30:44

    That's a guideline there.

    30:44-30:47

    That was, Moses is dealing with how many people here, right?

    30:48-30:52

    Some scholars guess over a million people were involved in the Exodus.

    30:53-30:57

    That, you know, that was a guideline that the Lord established.

    30:58-31:03

    So I think there's a principle there, but we don't know because people mature at different rates.

    31:03-31:10

    We don't know when somebody gets to the point in their life that they are able to accept or reject Jesus Christ.

    31:11-31:14

    So is there a hard age of accountability?

    31:14-31:15

    I don't think there is.

    31:17-31:20

    I think the biggest scriptural evidence for this comes from the life of David.

    31:20-31:22

    We talked about this a couple of weeks ago, Psalm 51.

    31:23-31:27

    As a result of his affair and the murder of Uriah, his son died.

    31:27-31:29

    It was a result of the affair with Bathsheba.

    31:30-31:31

    And we see David weeping.

    31:32-31:41

    He's mourning, and then he says in 2 Samuel 12, I was 12, 23, "But now he is dead, why should I fast?

    31:41-31:42

    "Can I bring him back again?

    31:42-31:54

    "I shall go to him, but he will not return to me." So he knows the baby's not gonna come back to life in the present, but he has a confidence that he will see his son again someday.

    31:55-32:00

    And later on, he goes to comfort Bathsheba, I think he comforts her with that truth.

    32:00-32:03

    Is that part of the reason why you were so confident with the first question?

    32:03-32:03

    Yeah.

    32:04-32:18

    Oh, for sure. Yeah. David knew emphatically. He goes, you know, that, that child's not going to come to me, but I'll go to him. He knew that child was in heaven and David knew he was going to heaven because of, you know, the Lord's promise. So yeah, a hundred percent.

    32:19-32:27

    I think another example is from Numbers and Deuteronomy, the ones who, all the adults who decided not to go in the promised land and not listen, they died in the wilderness.

    32:28-32:49

    got to go into the promised land? Their children. So I think infants, unborn babies, young children, those with severe mental disabilities, they are not able to make a decision for Christ or against Christ. So I think it's very clear that they are covered by the grace of Jesus Christ and they're bound for heaven, the ultimate promised land.

    32:49-32:53

    Right. Here's a personal question off of that.

    32:54-32:55

    What will they look like in heaven?

    32:56-32:57

    Thirty.

    32:58-32:58

    You think?

    33:00-33:02

    I believe everybody looks thirty in heaven.

    33:04-33:06

    There's biblical reason for that.

    33:06-33:06

    Was that your peak?

    33:07-33:09

    Was that your peak in this life? Thirty?

    33:10-33:10

    Thirty.

    33:13-33:13

    That's...

    33:15-33:17

    If that's what I peak, boy, I'm in trouble.

    33:20-33:21

    No, that's a whole other study.

    33:22-33:26

    But yeah, I personally believe everybody in heaven looks 30.

    33:27-33:30

    When did the Levitical priests start their job function?

    33:31-33:32

    30.

    33:32-33:34

    When did Jesus start his ministry?

    33:35-33:35

    30.

    33:35-33:37

    There's a whole, you can trace this out.

    33:37-33:44

    Do a little Bible study on all the people that God used at that exact age and how he ordained that.

    33:44-33:45

    It's a fascinating study.

    33:45-33:54

    So that's, like I said, I'm not, that's not a, "Thou sayeth the Lord." I'm just saying when I studied the Bible, It's like, huh, seems like there's something about that age.

    33:54-33:57

    So when people say, how old will my resurrected body look?

    33:57-33:58

    30.

    34:00-34:02

    I looked better five years ago, so I'm good with that.

    34:02-34:04

    Yeah, I know, I'm a year off.

    34:04-34:05

    Is there anybody here exactly 30?

    34:08-34:08

    JT.

    34:09-34:14

    JT, there is what-- - There he is, that's the picture of heaven right there, JT.

    34:14-34:17

    There is a peak physical body right there.

    34:18-34:20

    JT will never get better than this.

    34:21-34:28

    And I promise you, I promise you someday when I receive my glorified body and I look like JT Dean, I will be happy.

    34:30-34:33

    He is one step off from glorification right there.

    34:35-34:37

    All right, let's do another one here.

    34:39-34:46

    Is it okay for a Christian couple to decide that they do not want to have children or to prevent contraception?

    34:46-34:54

    Also, is it okay for a Christian couple to decide what size of a family they would prefer, or should we let those decisions be up to God?

    34:56-35:00

    Well, that is a really, really good question.

    35:01-35:10

    And obviously it's hard to answer this one without an emotional element behind it in saying it and in hearing it.

    35:12-35:14

    But at Harvest Bible Chapel, Bible is our middle name.

    35:15-35:16

    And what does the Bible say?

    35:18-35:20

    The Bible says be fruitful and multiply.

    35:21-35:28

    So I encourage married couples, if you can have kids, I think you should have kids.

    35:28-35:36

    Because I don't see any prohibition in the Bible, I don't see any language telling married couples not to have kids.

    35:36-35:38

    All I see is you should have kids.

    35:38-35:42

    So I would say, yeah, have as many as you can.

    35:43-35:52

    Right, but Taylor, you had a really, we talked about this before, you had a really good piece there about motives that I wanted you to lay out.

    35:53-35:55

    I think as with everything, the motive really matters.

    35:56-35:59

    Is the motive self-centered or is it actually selfless?

    36:00-36:04

    For example, is it self-centered in the way, look, I don't really want my life to be impinged by a child.

    36:05-36:07

    I wanna be able to travel, go do what I want.

    36:07-36:09

    I don't want, I wanna be able to get-- - Kids are expensive.

    36:09-36:12

    Right, I think those are self-centered reasons that don't hold water biblically.

    36:13-36:19

    But for example, let's say a couple's a missionary, they wanna go travel to a dangerous part of the world and share the gospel.

    36:19-36:22

    Like we don't wanna worry about our children's safety.

    36:22-36:24

    I think that's a godly good rationale.

    36:25-36:30

    But I think again, in our culture, in our society, more and more people are having less and less kids.

    36:31-36:40

    Some people are having no kids, but it's because of that self-centered piece of I just want to enjoy my life and live unimpinged from children.

    36:40-36:41

    So that's a self-centered motivation.

    36:41-36:46

    And I think another one, too, is if there's a serious health issue, right?

    36:46-36:52

    Because I've known couples that they have said the woman can't carry a child and be healthy.

    36:52-36:57

    Like, it would risk-- it would severely risk the mother's life if she were to carry a child.

    36:57-36:59

    So the couple couldn't have kids.

    37:00-37:05

    I think-- yeah, I don't think you should put the Lord to the test if that's an issue.

    37:05-37:08

    But that's going to boil down to a matter of conviction.

    37:08-37:11

    But the bottom line is God wants your heart.

    37:12-37:15

    And like Pastor Taylor said, it boils down to motive.

    37:16-37:23

    If you're saying, "I don't want kids," then I would have to say, "I can't say it." Yeah, I can't.

    37:24-37:26

    I would have to say, "Why?

    37:27-37:34

    "What's the motive behind it?" I think that's a good word, because biblically we're called to be fruitful and multiply.

    37:35-37:35

    Thank you.

    37:37-37:38

    (applause)

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):

Review the questions submitted above. Discuss any of these that stuck out to you, or that maybe your group finds particularly interesting.

Breakout Questions:
Pray for one another!

Guard Your Heart

Introduction:

Guard Your Heart… (Proverbs 4:20–27)

  1. With the WORD OF GOD (Proverbs 4:20–22)

    Psalm 119:9–11 (ESV)How can a young man keep his way pure? By guarding it according to your word. With my whole heart I seek you; let me not wander from your commandments! I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you.

    1. Because it BRINGS TRUE LIFE (Prov 4:22a)

    2. Because it BRINGS LASTING HEALING (Prov 4:22b)

  2. With UNWAVERING VIGILANCE (Proverbs 4:23–27)

    Luke 6:45 (ESV)The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.

    1. By Watching WHAT YOU SAY (Prov 4:24)

      Proverbs 13:3 (ESV)Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.

    2. By Controlling WHAT YOU FOCUS ON (Prov 4:25)

    3. By Directing WHERE YOU GO (Prov 4:26–27)

      1 Kings 11:2–4...for surely they will turn away your heart after their gods.” Solomon clung to these in love... For when Solomon was old his wives turned away his heart after other gods...

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  • 00:45-00:52

    The Lord saved me at a young age, but my relationship with him wasn't really deep until I was a senior in high school.

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    At that time, I became a serious student of God's word, and I bought myself a nice new Bible.

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    Do you wanna see that nice and new Bible 16 years later?

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    All right, thanks.

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    I'll show Jay, Jay wants to see it.

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    Here's how it looks now.

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    How's it look?

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    Some of you get it, yeah, it does look good, in some ways, doesn't look great in other ways, though, does it?

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    You may be wondering, did you get run over by a lawnmower or something while you were reading it?

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    Well, nothing as dramatic as that, but for years, this Bible went everywhere with me.

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    I took it to Haiti, twice to Kenya, all the missions trips I led as a youth pastor.

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    I preached a lot of sermons and taught a lot of lessons from this Bible.

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    When I first bought it, I protected it, I guarded it, I kept it in the box it came in whenever I put it into my backpack or went on a trip.

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    But as years went by, I stopped protecting it with the box and I just hoped for the best.

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    And I kept getting more worn out, kept getting more beat up.

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    With each passing year, I kept looking worse and worse and worse and worse.

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    It really bummed me out to look at this Bible and what it had become.

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    Other people would comment on it as well, like, "Dude, you need to buy a new Bible "or get it rebalanced.

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    It's gonna fall apart any minute.

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    So I eventually took people up on that and I bought a nice leather-bound Bible.

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    And I learned my lesson with my old Bible because I still have the box for the new one and I still keep it in there all the time whenever I travel or put it into my backpack.

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    I am resolved to guard this copy of God's word moving forward.

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    It has immense value to me.

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    "It is precious to me, so I want to take care of it "by any means necessary." According to God's word, there is something of immense value within you that you often fail to consider and guard properly.

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    Your heart.

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    Your heart should be precious to you, and you should want to take care of it by any means necessary.

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    Over this past year, we have focused on one major theme from scripture, God wants your heart.

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    God wants your heart, but what if you don't want God like you used to?

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    What if you don't wanna give God your heart like you used to?

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    This is the final week of our latest series, Heart Problems, What to Do When You Don't Want God.

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    Every single person in this room has a heart problem of some kind.

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    It could be apathy in prayer, spiritual laziness and gratitude, an unrepentant sin in your life.

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    Thankfully, God has solutions to every single heart problem you can experience.

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    And over the past few weeks, we've discovered three of God's solutions to these heart problems.

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    evaluating your heart, confessing sin from your heart, and giving thanks with your heart.

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    Maybe at this point you're thinking, well Taylor, I'm good to go, I've done all those things, I've evaluated my heart, I've confessed sin from my heart, I've given thanks with my heart, time to move on from this series and go back to the Sermon on the Mount, thanks so much, I'm done with this.

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    Well not so fast, you are missing one important piece of the puzzle, and that is guarding your heart.

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    'Cause if you fail to guard your heart, you will lose all the progress that you've made over the past few weeks, and all the old heart problems that you had will return and intensify.

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    New heart problems will pop up and spiral out of control.

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    You must protect yourself from this danger.

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    You must do your best to resolve these heart problems when they first pop up, instead of ignoring them and leaving them undealt with.

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    We'll spend the rest of this message talking about what it looks like to guard your heart in action.

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    I want you to walk out of this series with a confidence that you can resolve heart problems right when they appear through God's power and with God's methods.

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    So before we continue, let's go to the Lord in prayer.

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    Please pray for me and I will pray for you.

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    Father, we come to you with a sense of weightiness, but we all have a heart problem of some kind right now.

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    None of us can say that we don't.

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    I pray that we can be honest about it this morning.

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    to bring those things to you so that you can change us, so that you can convict us, so that you can build us up.

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    Lord, I can do none of those things.

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    All I can do is share your word, but you are the only one who can use your word to change lives, and I ask that you would do that this morning.

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    I ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

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    So over the past two Sundays, we spent a lot of time with King David in the Psalms.

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    This morning we're gonna spend some time with King David's son, Solomon, in Proverbs chapter four, verses 20 through 27.

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    So if you have a Bible with you, please turn to Proverbs chapter four, verses 20 through 27.

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    And as you turn there, let me give you a quick crash course on King Solomon.

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    At a young age, this man was given a blank check by God himself.

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    Name what you want, and I'll give it to you.

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    You ever think about how awesome that is?

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    Just imagine that.

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    What do you think you would ask for if God gave you that blank check?

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    Well, Solomon didn't ask for what was expected.

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    He didn't ask for riches, for honor, or the ability to fly.

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    That would've been really cool, though.

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    No, what does he ask for instead?

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    Wisdom.

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    Wisdom, which is the ability to apply God's word to every situation you experience and every decision that you make.

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    Wisdom is knowledge in action.

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    And God was so pleased with this answer that he still gave Solomon all the stuff he didn't ask for, minus the superpower of flight, he didn't get that.

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    But Solomon was blessed with so much material stuff, most importantly, with wisdom from God.

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    And he used this wisdom to accomplish a lot of great things like building the first temple, but later in life, he squandered that wisdom, which we'll talk about at the end of this message.

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    But the first nine chapters of Proverbs are written from the perspective of a father speaking to his son.

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    Solomon is addressing his own son, but he's also acting like a fatherly figure to anyone who listens to what he has to say.

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    His wise words should not be ignored.

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    They should not be forgotten.

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    They should be treasured.

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    And in these chapters, Solomon tells his son that wisdom is the most valuable thing.

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    It's better than silver, gold, or precious jewels.

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    He needs to seek after wisdom and get it.

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    He also warns his son against many things that he should not do.

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    But our main focus this morning is Solomon's words of wisdom about his son's heart.

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    That is the thing that Solomon is most concerned about because if your heart is wrong, it doesn't really matter what else you get right.

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    Solomon gives his son and everyone who reads Proverbs 4, 20 through 27, the same command, guard your heart.

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    So on your outline, guard your heart with the word of God.

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    Guard your heart with the word of God.

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    Let's read verses 20 through 21.

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    My son, be attentive to my words, incline your ear to my sayings, let them not escape from your sight, keep them within your heart.

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    These verses remind me a lot of conversations with my dad when I was younger, when he made it very clear that I should listen to what he had to say and not tune him out.

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    And I have very similar conversations with my own son that vary in their level of effectiveness and success.

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    In those moments, I want my son Sam to close his mouth, open his ears, and heed my warnings to listen to what I have to say.

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    But you have to remember that this instruction from an earthly father isn't the only thing happening in this passage.

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    Remember, this is the authoritative word of God.

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    It's not just the end of the Andy Griffith Show when Sheriff Andy sits down with Opie to give the major moral lesson.

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    No, your heavenly father is sitting you down to give you commands and instructions.

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    God himself is calling you to be attentive to his words, to incline your ears to his sayings, to not let them escape your sight, and to keep them within your heart.

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    That sounds very similar to Psalm 119, nine through 11.

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    How can a young man keep his way pure?

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    By guarding it according to your word.

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    With my whole heart I seek you.

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    Let me not wander from your commandments.

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    I have stored up your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.

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    You cannot guard your heart, fight sin, and lead a pure life apart from significant time in the Bible.

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    It's just not possible.

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    It's like trying to build a deck on the back of your house without any tools or any supplies of any kind.

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    You can have the best of intentions, but you will get nowhere fast.

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    It's not enough just to read the Bible.

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    You need to keep it, store it up in your heart.

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    How do you do that?

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    You push out other things to make room for it.

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    You kill the bad habits in your life.

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    You let go of those hobbies that hold you back and that vie for your attention.

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    You make room for God's word by memorizing it.

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    I know what some of you are thinking, Taylor, I can't memorize stuff, I have a horrible memory.

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    Let me share a universal truth with you.

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    you memorize what you care about.

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    You memorize what you care about.

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    If you love sports, you have a ton of information about players, games, teams, right at your fingertips at all times.

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    If you love golf in this room, you have a lot of information downloaded into your brain about the perfect golf swing, all the courses you want to play at in the world.

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    If you're a movie freak, you have film knowledge, directors, actors right in your brain.

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    What is the focus of your memorization?

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    What do you make the most room for in your heart?

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    John Bunyan, the man who wrote one of the best-selling books of all time, The Pilgrim's Progress, hundreds of years ago, was described in this way.

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    "This man is a living Bible.

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    "Prick him anywhere and he will bleed the Bible.

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    "The very essence of the Bible flows from him.

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    "He cannot speak without quoting a text, "for his very soul is full of the word of God." Is that description true of you?

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    I wish I fit this description far more than I do.

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    But this can describe you, it can describe me, if we grab a hold of the right motivations.

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    And let me tell you this morning, I have no desire to guilt you into spending more time in the Bible.

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    Do you want to know why?

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    Because that motivation won't last beyond the end of this week.

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    You may be diligent in studying, reading, praying this week, but it won't last any longer.

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    You need the motivation only God can provide. You need to believe that this book is far more important than anything else you can set your mind to or fill your time with. You must truly be convinced from your heart that that reading this book, studying it, living it, applying it, blesses and benefits you in every way and in every area of life.

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    My yelling, my nagging, my pestering may make you feel like a shamed dog who got bopped on the nose with a rolled up newspaper.

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    But those tactics will not make you love the instructions of your heavenly master even one bit more.

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    So let's talk about two motivations that will inspire you to guard your heart with the word of God.

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    So on your outline, guard your heart with the word of God because it brings true life.

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    Because it brings true life.

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    Let's check out the first half of verse 22.

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    For they are life to those who find them.

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    You are only as healthy as what you consume.

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    As the old saying goes, you are what you eat.

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    That is true both physically and spiritually.

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    Your physical well-being cannot rise above what you put into your body.

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    Your spiritual well-being cannot rise above what you put into your heart.

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    When he was tempted by Satan in the wilderness, Jesus quoted Deuteronomy 8.3, "Man shall not live by bread alone, "but by every word that comes from the mouth of God." Maybe you are spiritually starving this morning because you have never feasted on the word of God.

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    You have never tasted the goodness of Jesus Christ in the gospel.

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    Listen, nothing and no one can satisfy your longings or cravings apart from Jesus Christ.

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    Stop poisoning yourself with the junk food of this world.

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    That diet will do nothing but make you sick, hurt your heart, and kill your eternal soul.

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    Life is offered to you today in the word of God.

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    Let go of the junk food of this world and grab a hold of Jesus Christ, who suffered, died, and rose again, so that you can have eternal life it starts now and lasts forever.

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    Grab ahold of Christ by faith and you will have that life.

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    Guard your heart with the word of God because it brings true life and because it brings true healing.

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    Because it brings true healing.

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    Let's read all of 22.

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    For they are life to those who find them and healing to all their flesh.

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    The word of God provides a remedy for every ailment.

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    It provides a solution to every heart problem.

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    This book is like the ultimate Swiss army knife.

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    It is multifaceted, multipurpose, and useful for every situation.

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    It is a genuine lifesaver.

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    I can't guarantee you much, But I guarantee you there is no trial, there is no discouragement, there is no relational issue that you cannot come to the word of God and find wisdom for.

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    There is no issue you'll come across and be like, ah, well, the Bible can't help me with this, time to buy a self-help book or watch that Lifetime movie, maybe that'll help me.

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    No.

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    The healing help you are looking for is in the word of God, it's right at your fingertips, you can have access to it every single second of every single day.

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    And the Lord has brought me so much healing personally by praying through scripture, especially through the Psalms.

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    The Psalms provide you a vocabulary for how to pray to God as you experience every emotion, anger, fear, frustration, confusion, sadness, excitement, joy.

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    Do you pray through scripture?

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    If you don't, let me teach you how to do it.

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    This is very complex.

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    Are you all ready for this?

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    All right, really pay attention.

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    Read a verse and then pray about it.

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    Read the next verse and then pray about it.

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    Read the next verse and then pray some more about it.

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    Rinse, wash, and repeat.

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    Can you do that?

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    You can do that.

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    Pray through God's word.

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    Pray through the Psalms.

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    Are you overwhelmed right now?

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    Are you at the lowest point that you've been in a long time?

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    Are you in need of healing?

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    Push out what the world has to say about you and your issues, make room for what God has to say about you and your issues.

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    Guard your heart with the word of God and you will experience the healing and the life that you are so desperate for.

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    Guard your heart, secondly, with unwavering vigilance.

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    With unwavering vigilance.

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    Verse 23 is the centerpiece of this entire passage.

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    It is one of the go-to verses when it comes to the importance of your heart.

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    Solomon writes this.

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    Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.

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    After a year of repetition, you may be tired of hearing it, but I'm going to say it again.

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    Your heart is who you really are on the inside.

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    Your heart is like a spring or a fountain.

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    Everything that you think, say, and do flows from it.

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    Most fountains only pour out what they are filled with.

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    If a decorative fountain is filled with contaminated water, it will only pour out unclean water that you shouldn't drink.

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    If a fondue fountain is filled with cheese and chocolate, you shouldn't be surprised when it only pours out cheese and chocolate.

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    Your heart is a fountain that will only pour out what it is filled with.

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    Have you ever come across a person who is rude in every situation and constantly rags on everyone?

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    And then someone comes along to defend this person.

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    Oh, well, you know, they might be rough around the edges, but deep down, he or she really is a nice and kind person.

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    What do we think about that?

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    Is that true?

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    Incorrect.

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    What is in that person's heart spews out of their mouth.

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    Their heart is full of resentment and disrespect, so it comes out in how they talk to everyone.

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    I can't put it any better than our Lord, when he said, "The good person out of the good treasure "of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.

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    You show who you really are by what you say and by what you do.

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    And with that essential truth in mind, Solomon says, "Keep your heart with all vigilance." Vigilance.

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    Do you know who I think of when I hear that word?

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    McGruff the Crime Dog.

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    Does anyone remember McGruff?

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    He was a character in the '80s who was created to increase personal safety and awareness of crime.

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    He was a bloodhound in a trench coat who had a really deep and intimidating voice.

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    Does anyone know what his tagline was?

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    Anyone remember?

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    "Take a bite out of crime." McGruff set his sights on important issues like bullying, drug use, home invasion.

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    And he would just be so emphatic that you have to defend yourself, you have to have alarm systems, you have to have a deadbolt on your door.

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    McGruff wants you to be constantly aware and unwaveringly vigilant in order to guard your loved ones and yourself from the crime that wants to take a bite out of you.

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    Well, God himself wants you to be constantly aware and unwaveringly vigilant in order to guard your heart from the sin that wants to take a bite out of you.

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    You cannot take breaks or vacations from this vigilance.

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    Heart security is infinitely more important than home security.

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    Spiritually, your head needs to be on a swivel at all times.

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    You must be circumspect, not careless, cautious, not casual.

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    So what should you be on the lookout for?

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    How should you guard your heart with unwavering vigilance?

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    Well, next on your outline, guard your heart with unwavering vigilance by watching what you say, by watching what you say.

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    Let's read verse 24.

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    Put away from you crooked speech and put devious talk far from you.

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    Crooked speech and devious talk, what does that mean?

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    Well Solomon is saying don't mess around with lying and deception.

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    Do not bend the truth to fit your narrative.

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    Do not fudge the facts to get out of trouble with your spouse or your boss.

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    Don't stretch the truth to make yourself look more impressive than you actually are.

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    It's really tempting to believe that lying isn't a big deal as long as you only do it sometimes and don't make a habit out of it.

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    That is a stupid thought that you and I both fall for.

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    We've already established that you show who you are on the inside by what you say on the outside.

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    So let's run that through.

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    If you lie to others on the outside, who does that make you on the inside?

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    That makes you a what?

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    A liar.

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    It's that simple.

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    You cannot call yourself a lover of the truth if you constantly indulge in one of the activities that God hates the most.

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    Elsewhere in Proverbs it says, "Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord." So should you mess around with something that is described so harshly?

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    No, we really shouldn't.

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    The pathway of Christian speech is straight, not crooked.

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    You need to walk the straight highway of God's truth instead of stumbling down those side roads of deception.

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    Put away crooked speech and devious talk by fessing up to how you've been deceitful.

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    Sit that person, sit those people down to unravel every single lie that you've told.

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    Those conversations sure won't be fun, but they sure will set your heart free.

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    Put away crooked speech and devious talk by entering into tough conversations, by praying to God, God, I know I'm gonna be tempted to be dishonest, I know I'm gonna be tempted to stretch the truth, guard my heart, help me to only say what is true, even if it costs me.

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    Put away crooked speech and devious talk by diving into Proverbs that talk about how you speak.

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    Proverbs like the one we're studying this morning, or Proverbs 13.3, whoever guards his mouth, preserves his life, he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.

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    Be vigilant in guarding your heart by guarding your mouth.

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    Be vigilant in what you say and what you don't say.

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    Guard your heart with unwavering vigilance by controlling what you focus on, by controlling what you focus on.

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    So Solomon moves from what you say to where you look in verse 25.

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    "Let your eyes look directly forward and your gaze be straight before you." Where you look is where you'll end up.

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    Where you look is where you'll end up.

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    Imagine that after church, I take a nice long scenic drive.

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    I find myself on a row with a really steep embankment.

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    And for some reason, I stop looking directly ahead and my eyes start to wander to the embankment.

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    Keep looking at it, keep looking at it, keep looking at it.

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    If I keep doing that, where am I going to end up?

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    Smashing into the guardrail or through the guardrail and rolling down the embankment.

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    I will most likely get in a very serious accident.

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    I could have avoided that if I had kept my eyes looking directly forward where I should have been looking.

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    Where are you looking right now?

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    Are you looking where God wants you to look?

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    Or are you looking where the enemy wants you to look? Where the world wants you to look?

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    If you keep up with watching those corrupting movies and shows, you'll end up with those movies and shows rewriting your thinking.

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    If you keep up with mindlessly, endlessly scrolling on social media all hours of the day, you'll end up as a spiritual zombie, as an undisciplined slacker who doesn't give his or her family the time and attention that they deserve.

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    If you keep up with that pornography addiction, you will end up feeling very alone and ruining the good connection that you have with your spouse.

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    You become what you behold.

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    Be vigilant in guarding your heart by controlling where you look and what you focus on.

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    Finally, guard your heart with unwavering vigilance by directing where you go, by directing where you go.

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    Let's wrap up with verses 26 through 27.

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    Ponder the path of your feet, then all your ways will be sure.

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    Do not swerve to the right or to the left.

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    Turn your foot away from evil.

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    Staple this truth to your brain and never forget it.

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    You are one decision away from life-shattering disaster.

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    You can destroy all the trust that you've worked so hard to build up in an instant.

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    You can tear your reputation to shreds with one choice.

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    You can do serious damage if you're not careful of where you go.

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    Don't do what feels good.

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    Don't do what feels right.

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    Do what is good.

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    Do what is right.

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    Ponder the path of your feet.

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    Direct yourself to where you should go.

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    But here's the thing.

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    You can't ponder the path of your feet on your own.

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    You will go to the right or to the left if you isolate yourself.

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    You will not turn your foot away from evil if you try to go this way alone.

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    Direct yourself towards worshiping with God's people every single week.

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    Direct yourself towards intentional Christian community in small groups.

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    Direct yourself to honest and accountable relationships in the body of Christ.

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    If you have been on the outskirts of this church for weeks, months, or even years, I want to encourage you to dive in.

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    Take a risk, be vulnerable.

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    Listen, you may have been hurt in the past by a church, and I in no way want to nullify that or minimize that pain.

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    But that pain will not go away if you don't get involved in this church.

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    it will only get worse and worse and worse.

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    To truly be in community, to be truly known, to truly know others, it's always a risk.

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    It always requires you being vulnerable.

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    Take that step in faith and trust the Lord.

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    Trust that He will direct you to where you should go, that He will direct you towards greater maturity and connectedness in the body of Christ.

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    Please know that we love you and we want you here.

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    Be vigilant and guard in your heart by directing where you go.

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    At the end of this message, you may be thinking, well, Taylor, all this stuff that Solomon is saying is very obvious.

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    I already know all this stuff.

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    It's not complex.

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    You're right.

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    Keeping your heart, guarding your heart is not complex, except when it comes to actually doing it.

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    when theory becomes reality, when rubber meets the road, when your worldly desires experience a head-on collision with your godly affections.

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    Before we close a curtain on this series, I want to give you a word of warning from Solomon himself.

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    It's actually a warning from his own life because Solomon didn't listen to his own words.

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    As time went on, he didn't guard his heart with the word of God.

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    He didn't guard his heart with unwavering vigilance.

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    He was told time and time again, don't marry foreign wives from pagan nations who worship other gods.

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    If you do that, they will cause you to not be faithful to the Lord.

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    Solomon knew that, but he didn't listen.

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    Which leads to one of the saddest passages in the entire Old Testament.

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    Solomon clung to these in love.

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    He had 700 wives who were princesses and 300 concubines.

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    And his wives turned away his heart.

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    For when Solomon was old, his wives turned away his heart after other gods.

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    And his heart was not wholly true to the Lord his God, as was the heart of David his father.

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    What a heartbreaking end for Solomon.

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    What a serious warning for you and for me.

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    Solomon knew it all.

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    He knew what the right thing to do was, but he didn't do it.

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    He didn't guard his heart.

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    It's tempting to think, well, my heart seems like it's fine right now.

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    But then you fail to think, well, I'm gonna have heart problems moving forward.

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    You may not think that you have heart problems right now, and that you're free from them, but what about tomorrow?

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    What about next week?

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    What about next month?

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    What about next year?

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    Are you ready?

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    Evaluating your heart is not a once in a lifetime appointment it is a daily appointment with the Lord.

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    Confessing sin from your heart isn't something you just do once at your conversion, no.

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    It is a daily acknowledging and repenting of your sin.

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    Giving thanks with your heart isn't something that you just do in November when you're eating turkey with your family.

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    It is a daily discipline that shapes how you view God and how you view your own life.

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    Guarding your heart isn't just something you do when you have the time.

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    No, it's something you do 24/7, 365 days a year.

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    Guard your heart with the word of God because it is the only source of help, encouragement and strength that you can find.

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    Guard your heart with unwavering vigilance for from it flow the springs of life.

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    Your heart problems can only be solved by God's solutions.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father, we come to you.

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    And we acknowledge that there is something going on within all of us.

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    doubt, severe anxiety, constant complaining, a sin that we don't think anyone knows about, but you do.

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    Would help us to lay all those things at your feet.

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    Help us to seek after you for help, for encouragement, for strength.

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    Lord, we don't have the energy in ourselves to guard our hearts.

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    We don't have the passion that's needed within ourselves, but you do.

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    Give us your strength, give us your encouragement, give us your passion, so that we can guard our hearts, not just today, but every day moving forward.

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    We ask all these things in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read
Proverbs 4:20-27

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. How do you guard your heart with the Word of God? How would you describe your devotional life and the ways it needs to improve?

  3. What does it look like to be vigilant in guarding your heart? How have you been lazy in guarding your heart in the past?

  4. What actions steps do you need to take moving forward?

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Give Thanks With Your Heart

Introduction:

I Give Thanks with My Whole Heart… (Psalm 138)

  1. Because God has Proven His Reliability to Me IN THE PAST (Psalm 138:1–3)

  2. Because God is at Work in My Life RIGHT NOW (Psalm 138:6–7)

    1 Corinthians 10:13No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

  3. Because God Will Not Give Up on Me IN THE FUTURE (Psalm 138:4–5; 8)

    Philippians 2:9-11Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

    2 Samuel 7:16And your house and your kingdom shall be made sure forever before me. Your throne shall be established forever.

    Philippians 1:6And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.

    Jude 24Now to him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you blameless before the presence of his glory with great joy…

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    I hope you're all doing well this morning.

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    I've had better days.

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    It took me forever to fall asleep last night.

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    I'm just so tired.

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    My neighbors were just blasting fireworks into all hours of the night.

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    Isn't it been like three weeks since the Fourth of July?

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    I just don't get it.

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    And then when I fell asleep, I couldn't stay asleep.

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    I have a bed that's too small.

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    I have a room that gets way too hot.

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    I have a pillow that isn't comfortable at all, and I just set the alarm really early this morning so I had to wake up and look presentable for all of you, and I stubbed my toe really hard, and it still hurts.

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    Oh, and I forgot to iron all my clothes.

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    So I had to do it all this morning, so I was way later than I wanted to be.

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    And so I was driving here, got stuck behind the slowest drivers in the entire world.

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    That just drives me insane.

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    It's like, don't you wanna get where you wanna go in this century?

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    You may not have things that you want to do, but there's things that I need to do, so move it.

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    Oh, and I also have the worst headache, so these lights aren't helping me at all.

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    Okay, time out.

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    Is anyone tired of listening to my complaining yet?

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    There is a resounding yes from the congregation.

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    It is so annoying when someone constantly complains and grumbles about everything.

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    This person's constant whining sounds like nails screeching across a chalkboard.

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    A quick question.

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    If that's how other people's complaining sounds to you, how do you think your complaining sounds to them?

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    Not much different.

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    Let's up the ante even more.

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    How do you think your constant complaining sounds to God?

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    Do you think he appreciates it?

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    No, he does not.

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    I know that complaining is bad for me and offends God.

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    And I am very sure that most of you know that complaining is bad for you and offends God.

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    So why do we keep doing it?

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    What is going on within us?

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    Well, this is the third week in our latest series called Heart Problems, what to do when you don't want God.

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    Over the past two Sundays, we've identified two different heart problems and their surgical solutions according to God's word.

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    We began by evaluating our hearts to see how serious of a heart surgery we truly need.

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    And last week, we discovered the heart problem of hidden sin, and the surgical solution to that problem is confession from the heart.

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    And this morning we will unpack a third heart problem and its surgical solution from Psalm 138.

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    Psalm 138.

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    Your heart problem this morning could be that you have a serious infection of negativity and complaining.

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    You struggle to truly appreciate all that God has given to you because you are so fixated on everything that God has not given to you.

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    In your mind, you deserve better.

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    You deserve more.

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    You deserve what you want.

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    Does that describe you right now?

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    How do you fix this heart problem?

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    The surgical solution to a negative and discontent heart is passionate praise and true thanksgiving.

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    You must actually give thanks from your heart.

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    So before we look into the solution any further, let's go to the Lord and ask for his help.

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    Please pray for me and I will pray for you.

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    Father, we come to you with one of our greatest struggles, with something that I am very sure that every single person in this room struggles with.

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    Lord, minister to us in a way that only you can.

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    Challenge us, convict us, but also comfort us and build us up.

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    We thank you in advance for what you will do.

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    We ask all this in the beautiful, wonderful, powerful name of Jesus Christ, amen.

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    If you're able, please stand in reverence for the reading of God's word as we read Psalm 138.

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    I Give you thanks. Oh Lord with my whole heart before the gods. I sing your praise I bow down boat towards your holy temple and give thanks to your name for your steadfast love and your faithfulness For you've exalted above all things your name and your word on The day I called you answered me My strength of soul you increased all the kings of the earth shall give you thanks. Oh Lord For they have heard the words of your mouth and they shall sing of the ways the Lord for great is the glory of the Lord For though the Lord is high he regards the lowly but the haughty he knows from afar Though I walk in the midst of trouble you preserve my life You stretch out your hand against the wrath of my enemies and your right hand delivers me The Lord will fulfill his purpose for me your steadfast love of the Lord endures forever Do not forsake the work of your hands you may be seated as You study this psalm you can't help but notice that David's Thanksgiving is divided up into three different sections the past the present and the future in In this Psalm, David slides back and forth in the timeline of history to find reasons to praise the Lord and give him thanks for his actions and his attributes.

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    And I want you to follow David's lead this morning.

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    I want you to be on the lookout for reasons to give thanks with your whole heart for what God has done in your past, what he is doing in your present, and what he will do in the future.

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    So I give thanks with my whole heart, firstly, because God has proven his reliability to me in the past.

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    I give thanks with my whole heart because God has proven his reliability to me in the past.

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    So David starts this psalm by declaring his complete total devotion to the Lord.

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    Let's read verses one through two again.

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    "I give you thanks, O Lord.

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    "With my whole heart, before the gods, I sing your praise.

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    "I bow down towards your holy temple "and give thanks to your name "for your steadfast love and your faithfulness.

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    "For you have exalted, above all things, "your name and your word." This isn't the prayer of a man who is dispassionate and disconnected.

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    This isn't the prayer of a man going through the motions.

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    David is overflowing with gratitude for God's faithfulness, his love, and his power.

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    David is saying the false gods of the other nations are worthless idols.

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    They get nothing from me while God gets everything from me.

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    They get my ridicule, God gets my praise.

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    Their words are worthless and accomplish nothing while God's word never fails me.

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    Their names do not matter while God's name is infinite.

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    David doesn't offer God some of his heart, or even most of his heart.

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    He offers God his whole heart.

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    This is what God wants and deserves from David.

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    This is also what God wants and deserves from you.

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    God isn't worthy of your leftovers.

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    He is worthy of your best.

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    God doesn't want you just to thank him when you remember.

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    He doesn't want you to treat him like the teenage cashier at the ice cream shop, who you begrudgingly tip with the lowest amount possible when the iPad screen is flipped around.

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    "Ah, fine, I guess I'll do it if I have to." Is that kind of attitude honoring to God?

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    Not on any level, but that is often how we approach the credit that he deserves.

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    Instead of stopping what we're doing to give him a heartfelt thank you, we throw a quick three second prayer up to him that is devoid of any emotion and energy.

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    Instead of immediately praising him, we immediately move on to the next thing and the next big concern.

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    This half-heartedness drains you of your joy.

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    This half-heartedness gives you spiritual amnesia.

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    You forget what God has done for you in the past, so you trust in yourself moving forward.

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    In verse three, David gets very specific with his thanksgiving and remembers how God has come through for him in the past.

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    On the day I called, you answered.

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    My strength of soul, you increased.

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    I am well aware that some of you are telephonophobics.

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    You hate talking on the phone.

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    When someone calls, you panic.

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    When you know you have to call someone else, you secretly hope that they won't pick up.

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    But even you telephonophobics in the room have had to make calls that you needed someone to answer.

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    Maybe you had an urgent question that required an immediate answer.

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    Maybe it was a serious issue at work that you need to solve right now.

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    Maybe it was even a matter of life or death.

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    Every single person in this room has a call of this kind in their past.

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    Put yourself into that tense mindset.

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    Try to remember how you felt.

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    Let me ask you, when you called, did that person answer?

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    Did they come through for you?

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    Other people cannot always come through for you no matter how reliable they might seem.

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    Friends and family members cannot always answer when you call.

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    But that is not true of God.

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    He always picks up, He always answers.

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    God doesn't screen your prayers and say to Himself, oh, this guy again, I don't have time to deal with him right now.

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    That has never happened.

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    God doesn't send you to voicemail.

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    God is always ready and willing to answer you when you call.

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    But God's help may not come in the form that you expected or hoped for.

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    At some point, every single one of us in this room have had this exact thought or said this exact thing, God didn't answer my prayer.

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    Is that true?

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    Well, it really depends on what you mean by answer.

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    If by answer you mean that God says yes, then God didn't answer your prayer.

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    But that definition captures our experience of the situation more than the reality of the situation.

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    It captures our feelings more than the facts.

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    That definition misses the big picture what God is up to behind the scenes.

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    God answering your prayers doesn't mean that he always answers with a yes.

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    But it does mean that God always responds.

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    And sometimes that response is no or wait.

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    And you never want that answer, do you?

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    I never want that answer either.

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    Again, every single one of us in this room can think of a time when we called to God and he answered with a no.

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    You prayed for healing and healing didn't come.

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    You asked for that big promotion and it went to someone far less deserving.

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    You asked for the Lord to use your witness and your positive example to make an impact on your prodigal child, but there is no positive reception.

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    You call out to the Lord and ask for that baby that you've always wanted, but that room is still empty.

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    That no can be so confusing and devastating.

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    What reason could God possibly have to say no to that request?

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    I don't know.

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    I don't wanna patronize you or minimize your pain.

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    I don't want to give you a hallmark card answer and tell you to not be sad and upset.

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    Listen, it's okay to be sad and upset.

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    Seasons of sorrow are unavoidable.

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    I've gone through these times in the past and I will again.

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    You've gone through these times of sorrow and you may be experiencing it right now.

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    I truly don't know the exact reason that God said no to that request when you called to him.

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    But he does.

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    God never says no for no reason.

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    Everything he does is purposeful.

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    God never wastes your pain.

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    Everything you go through has meaning.

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    As I meditated upon these truths over the past week, I couldn't help but think of the hymn, "God Moves in a Mysterious Way," which says this.

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    Judge not the Lord by feeble sense, but trust him for his grace.

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    Behind a frowning providence, he hides a smiling face.

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    God's purposes will ripen fast, unfolding every hour.

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    The bud may have a bitter taste, but sweet will be the flower.

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    Why God said no back then may never make sense in this life, but it will in eternity.

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    And those times when God said no often drown out and obscure the times that he said yes.

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    So I want you to stop focusing on the no's for a minute.

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    I want you to start thinking about the times when you called to God and he answered you with a yes.

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    Consider that.

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    Were you able to think of some clear examples when God said yes and proved his reliability to you in the past.

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    Maybe you experienced a season of dark, deep depression.

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    You called out to God and he answered you with a yes by sending you a friend who loved you, who encouraged you, who prayed for you, who listened to you.

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    Maybe you called out to God when you had no idea how to handle a specific situation and he gave you a yes by providing you wisdom from his word.

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    Maybe you experienced a broken relationship and you called out to God and he answered with a yes by bringing restoration and putting all the pieces back together again.

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    Or how about the most important yes of all?

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    You realize you were a sinner, you called out to God asking for forgiveness and salvation and God answered with a yes by giving it to you.

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    I could keep going for days, weeks, months, and years because there is no end to what God has done for you.

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    Friends, God has been so good to you in the past.

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    Do you recognize that?

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    Do you believe that?

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    There have been so many times when you recognize his goodness and you praised him for it.

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    But there have been many more times when you didn't recognize his goodness or praised him.

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    And thankfully, God's goodness wasn't taken away from you didn't recognize it.

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    God still gives good gifts to his children, even when his children don't say thank you.

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    But in those moments when you didn't acknowledge what God had done and say thank you to him, the strength of your soul was diminished and depleted.

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    Your strength of soul was like a balloon, and ungratefulness was the needle that popped that balloon and left it deflated on the floor.

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    That may be how you feel this morning.

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    You're just deflated.

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    You're just kinda there.

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    You're down and out.

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    Could it be that you have a heart problem because you are ungrateful for what God has done for you?

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    No matter how hard your life has been, God's fingerprints of kindness are all over your story.

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    You simply need the eyes of faith to see these evidences of grace I miss them completely.

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    Like David, give thanks with your whole heart because God has proven his reliability to you in the past.

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    Give thanks with your whole heart for what God has done for you and your strength of soul will be increased.

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    I give thanks with my whole heart because God is at work in my life right now.

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    God is at work in my life right now.

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    I'm gonna break some preaching rules here for a minute.

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    Who wants to break the rules with me?

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    All right, some of you, I guess most of you are rule keepers besides Darla and Jay, I guess we'll go with it.

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    So we're gonna skip past verses four through five for now.

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    We're not gonna skip them entirely, we'll come back to them.

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    We're gonna move on to verses six through seven.

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    Don't worry, this will all make sense very soon.

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    We spent some time focusing on what God has done for David.

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    Now let's focus on what God is doing for David in verses six through seven.

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    For though the Lord is high, he regards the lowly, but the haughty he knows from afar.

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    Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life.

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    You stretch out your hand against the wrath of my enemies and your right hand delivers me.

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    We don't know the backstory of the Psalm of trouble David is experiencing, all we know is he needs his life to be preserved.

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    He has enemies that the Lord needs to stretch out his hands against. David needs deliverance.

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    Your problems seem like the biggest deal in the entire world, don't they?

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    When you're going through trouble, you often feel like you're the only one in the entire world who is experiencing what you're experiencing.

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    Is that actually the case?

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    Not at all.

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    Literally every person in the world has something going on right now.

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    Everyone has a problem.

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    Everyone has trouble.

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    And David is well aware where his life, where his troubles, where his problems rank on the order of importance.

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    Compared to God, he is nothing and nobody.

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    David acknowledges that he is lowly, but he actually rejoices in that truth because even though the Lord is high, he regards the lowly, but the haughty, the proud, the arrogant, he knows from afar.

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    If you exalt yourself to the position of the movie star of your life, you will not be in a position to receive God's help.

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    you will dismiss what he has to offer.

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    But if you rightly acknowledge that God is the star, you will receive help from him.

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    God is big, but he still loves little people.

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    God is great, but he still blesses the unremarkable.

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    God is supremely important, but he still serves the unimportant.

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    You may be painfully aware that you are unimportant, unremarkable, and little.

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    But that is a good thing.

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    That means the Lord has regard for you.

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    God cares for you.

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    He pays attention to you.

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    God's helping hand is offered to you at all times.

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    You can either push away this helping hand in pride or you can grab a hold of it in humility.

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    I need God's help right now.

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    You need God's help right now.

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    You are in the midst of some kind of trouble.

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    Maybe you're being attacked.

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    Someone at work is gunning for you.

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    A family member or friend is making life miserable for you.

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    Your integrity is being called into question.

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    You may have a target on your back, but God preserves your life.

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    You may have enemies who are seeking to destroy you, but God stretches out his hand against the wrath of your enemies.

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    His right hand delivers you.

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    Fair warning, God may not deliver you from experiencing that hardship, but he delivers you from giving up as you experience that hardship.

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    His right hand delivers you from anger, bitterness, resentment, isolation.

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    You may be enduring the most intense season of temptation you've ever encountered.

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    You feel like you can't say no one more time that any day now you're gonna break.

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    But you can stand strong because God preserves you.

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    He will stretch his hand against that temptation.

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    If you believe that he can, his right hand delivers you from giving in.

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    Listen to this promise from 1 Corinthians 10, 13.

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    No temptation is overtaking you that is not common to man.

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    God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation, he will provide the way of escape that you may be able to endure it.

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    Something that God has taught me recently is that he most often delivers you through trust in his promises.

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    There is nothing more powerful and dependable than a promise from God.

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    If you're experiencing intense temptation, grab a hold of this promise and don't let go so you will experience deliverance and find the way of escape.

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    Maybe you need delivered from the ultimate enemies of Satan, sin, and death.

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    You are under the power of the evil one in this evil world.

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    You are a slave to sin.

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    You are bound for eternal death.

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    You are like that toddler running towards the road.

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    And there will be a horrible fate unless that child is grasped by a loving father.

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    Ask this father to preserve you and give you eternal life.

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    Ask him to stretch out his hand against the wrath of your enemies.

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    ask for his right hand to grab ahold of you and deliver you from the fate that you deserve.

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    A truck of hell is barreling down, but God will rescue you if you ask him to.

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    No matter what trouble you were walking through, God is at work in your life right now.

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    You can't say, yeah, God sure was at work back in the day, but he hasn't done anything for me lately.

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    No, God is preserving your life even when you don't know it.

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    He is stretching out his hand against enemies that you don't even know you have.

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    God is delivering you all the time.

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    God isn't like the lifeguards at the pool or the beach who clock in and clock out.

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    For many hours of the day, their flotation devices are hung up and those chairs are empty.

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    But God is always on duty.

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    He who keeps you from drowning, He keeps your head above water.

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    God is always on His heavenly throne.

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    Listen to Psalm 121, one through four.

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    I lift up my eyes to the hills from where does my help come from?

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    My help comes from the Lord who made heaven and earth.

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    He will not let your foot be moved.

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    He who keeps you will not slumber.

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    Behold, He who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep.

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    God is not asleep on the job.

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    God is not taking a break.

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    He is not packing up his office.

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    God is helping you.

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    God is fighting for you.

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    Give thanks with your whole heart because God is at work in your life right now.

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    I give thanks with my whole heart, finally, because God will not give up on me in the future.

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    God will not give up on me in the future.

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    Let's rewind back to verses four through five, but this rewind is actually a fast forward as David gives thanks for what God will do.

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    All the kings of the earth shall give you thanks, O Lord, for they have heard the words of your mouth, and they shall sing of the ways of the Lord, for great is the glory of the Lord.

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    In 2025, this scene seems very unlikely, doesn't it?

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    I mean, how many presidents, politicians, dictators, and governments truly fear God and worship Him?

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    Not many.

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    God is openly mocked and dishonored. His people are belittled.

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    People are even put into prison and martyred for their faith.

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    So many world leaders do not recognize the One who put them into power in the first place.

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    But despite this hostility, the message of the gospel is still advancing and spreading among the nations.

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    People of different backgrounds, positions, and levels of influence are hearing the words of God's mouth, being saved, giving thanks, and praising Him.

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    And one day, all leaders of the earth will retire from their positions and vacate their offices as one rightful ruler reigns supreme.

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    And who is this rightful ruler?

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    Jesus Christ, the King of kings and Lord of lords.

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    And Paul speaks to this future in Philippians 2, 9-11.

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    "Therefore God has highly exalted him "and bestowed on him the name as above every name, "so that at the name of Jesus, "every knee should bow in heaven and on earth "and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

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    One day, there will be no more elections, no more protests, no more corruption, no more political news channels, no more war, no more threat of nuclear attack.

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    There will be only praise and thanksgiving.

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    "The glory of the Lord will cover the earth "as the waters cover the sea." And this future isn't a maybe, a might be, or let's hope so.

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    No, this future is set in stone.

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    It is certain fact.

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    You can resist it all you want, but it will come to pass.

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    While the immediate future of this world is uncertain, God's ultimate future is not in question.

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    In verse eight, focuses on David's future and the purpose that God has for David's life, his throne, and his house.

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    The Lord will fulfill his purpose for me.

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    Your steadfast love, O Lord, endures forever.

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    Do not forsake the work of your hands.

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    The same God who will cause kings and leaders to bow down before him will fulfill David's purpose as well.

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    Actually, it is through fulfilling David's purpose that God will fulfill this ultimate future for his people and his creation.

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    Help me with a quick reminder.

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    From whose family line does King Jesus come?

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    From King David's line.

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    Listen to the promise that the Lord made to David in 2 Samuel 7, 16, "In your house and your kingdom "shall be made sure forever before me." "the throne shall be established forever.

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    "This purpose has been fulfilled "and will further be fulfilled in Christ.

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    "This promise has been kept "and will be further kept in Christ.

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    "David's throne has been established "and will be established forever.

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    "And the one who sits on this throne "is none other than Jesus Christ himself." David trusts in God's future plans.

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    but he still cries out to the Lord and offers this prayer.

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    "Do not forsake the work of your hands." This may sound like doubt, but it isn't.

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    This is a cry of dependence and neediness.

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    David is saying, "God, please keep your promises to me.

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    "Without you, I am completely sunk.

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    "Do not forsake the work of your hands." This has become my new favorite prayer request.

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    I've lost count of how many times I've prayed it over the past week, and you should pray it as well.

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    God, keep your promise.

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    Do not forsake the work of your hands.

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    David's personal future is set in stone.

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    It is a certain fact.

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    The same is true for you if you're a follower of Christ.

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    God will fulfill his purpose for you.

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    He will keep every single promise that he has made to you in his word.

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    His steadfast love for you will endure forever.

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    If you don't believe me, Paul backs up this truth in Philippians 1.6, and I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.

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    In Jude 1.24, that God will keep you from stumbling and present you blameless before the presence of His glory with great joy.

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    The steadfastness of God is so foreign to us because we give up on things all the time.

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    You start a brand new read that you're so excited for, but then it puts you to sleep, so then you sell it, you send it to Goodwill, you put it back on the shelf.

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    You watch a movie that's boring, so you turn it off.

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    You start a new diet or exercise routine, but you get distracted and you give up on that.

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    You start a new hobby, but you get very distracted and very bored very quickly.

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    You start something, but you don't finish it.

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    God never does that.

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    God doesn't operate like that at all.

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    God will not forsake the work of his hands.

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    God will not give up on you someday.

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    God will hold on to you.

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    He will finish what he started in you.

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    And it's so easy to believe these truths intellectually, but it's hard to feel in your heart.

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    You often feel that God's love for you is an up and down, up and down roller coaster that's based on your performance.

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    If you're a good boy or a good girl, God's happy with you.

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    If you're a bad boy or a bad girl, God's very unhappy with you.

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    But God's love for you doesn't depend upon you and your performance at all.

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    God's love for you depends on Christ and his perfect performance on your behalf.

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    If God's love for me depended on my good deeds, my good works, he would have stopped loving me a long time ago.

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    But because his love depends on Christ who is perfect and obeyed in every way that I failed, his love for me will last forever and ever and ever.

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    And that is true for you if you belong to him.

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    If you have trusted in Christ, God gives you the same exact message that I give to my kids every single night before I put them to bed.

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    I love you when you're good, I love you when you're bad, I love you when you listen, I love you when you don't listen.

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    I'm your dad no matter what.

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    Isn't the assurance of God's love a cause for celebration?

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    Isn't his steadfastness worthy of your thanksgiving and your praise?

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    Instead of stressing out about what's ahead, choose to give thanks with your whole heart because God will not give up on you in the future.

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    Give thanks with your whole heart for what God will do.

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    I doubt that anyone in this room has a heart that is completely free from negativity and complaining.

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    You and I complain about something every single day.

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    And many of us complain about many things most days.

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    Discontentment is a serious heart problem that you shouldn't take lightly.

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    Dissatisfaction is an acid that eats away at your heart, your ministry, your walk with the Lord.

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    The only surgical solution to that heart problem of ingratitude is gratitude.

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    You must give thanks.

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    It's not enough to just feel thankful.

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    You have to verbalize it.

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    You have to express it.

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    You must acknowledge and verbalize your thankfulness for the attributes and actions of God.

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    We've spent a lot of time talking about giving thanks, but it would be a big failure on my part if I didn't give you the opportunity to actually give thanks.

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    In a moment, you will find some people around you, and you're gonna praise the Lord together with your whole hearts.

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    Come together to give thanks for who God is.

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    Think about this God we saw in Psalm 138.

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    He is loving, he is steadfast, he is faithful, he is glorious, he is worthy, he is high and exalted, he is the king of all, he is the preserver and sustainer, He is a promise keeper.

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    Also give thanks with your whole hearts for what God has done, what he is doing, and what he will do.

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    So find some people around you and give thanks together.

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    Father, we come to you and we thank you so much, first and foremost, for the gift of your son.

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    We thank you that your son came to live a perfect life we never could. And he endured hell on the cross that we could experience heaven forever.

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    Well, there are people in this room who don't have the hope of heaven that don't have a true relationship with Christ made today be the day of salvation. So they can give thanks to you both now and forever. And for the rest of us, Lord, help us to continually give thanks to not give ourselves over to discontentment and complaining, but to always recognize your goodness. And to know that every single day is a fresh pouring out of your mercy and your grace for us. We thank you for what you have done. We thank you for what you are doing. And we thank you for what you will do. We ask all these things in In Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read
Psalm 138

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. If we know it’s so bad for us, why do we complain so much? What do you complain about the most?

  3. How has the Lord proven Himself reliable to you in the past? Take some time to thank the Lord for what He has done.

  4. How is the Lord at work in your life right now? Praise Him for what He is doing.

  5. How will the Lord fulfill His purposes for you in the future? Give Him thanks for what He will do for you.

Breakout
Pray for one another.

Confess From Your Heart

Introduction:

Why Should I Confess from My Heart? (Psalm 51)

  1. Because My God is MERCIFUL AND LOVING (Ps 51:1–2)

  2. Because My Sin INSULTS GOD (Ps 51:3–6)

    2 Samuel 12:9“Why have you despised the word of the LORD, to do what is evil in His sight?”

  3. Because My Heart NEEDS RENOVATION (Ps 51:7–12)

  4. Because My Worship and Witness is HINDERED BY HIDDEN SIN (Ps 51:13–19)

    James 5:16Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.

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    Who has ever received a bad haircut?

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    Don't point to the person next to you, I'm asking you personally, that'd be really rude.

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    When I was a kid back in the mid-90s, I got a bad haircut.

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    My barber really messed up my bowl cut.

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    And that may sound like an oxymoron because you think, well, a bowl cut's already kind of messed up, and they're all kind of lame, It might actually look pretty good for bowl cuts, except for this one time.

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    And for the rest of this story, I'm gonna shift to my mom's perspective to give the story some more dramatic weight.

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    So we get home from the haircut, and later on that day, my mom goes into the bathroom to find quite the crime scene.

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    There's hair everywhere, and there are scissors right on the sink.

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    My mom didn't need to be Sherlock Holmes to figure out what had happened because there is an abundance of evidence right in front of her face.

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    I had obviously tried to fix my bowl cut and made it way worse in the process.

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    And like any good detective, my mom tried to get me to confess.

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    She came up to me and said, "Taylor, "did you cut your hair?" And I said, "No, I didn't." Even though there was a huge chunk missing right out of the front of my bowl cut.

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    "Why don't you and your mom try a different approach?" "Well, I found hair in the sink, I found scissors, "and there's a huge chunk just gone from your hair." And I kept digging my own grave, "No, that lady messed it up." And my mom tried one last attempt.

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    She said, "Taylor, you're not gonna be in trouble "for cutting your hair, but you will be in trouble "if you keep lying and you don't tell the truth." Well, that was the final straw.

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    I finally broke down and I confessed like in one of those over the top crime dramas on TV.

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    I told my mom everything even though she already knew everything.

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    And I'm sure that many of you have a similar story to tell.

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    Isn't it interesting that no one has to train you to cover up what you're ashamed of?

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    It comes so naturally to you.

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    It started at a young age and even continues to this day.

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    You knock over something very valuable in your house as a kid and it shatters on the ground.

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    What do you do?

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    You pick up all the pieces and you try to hide it somewhere, right?

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    But you're just a kid so your hiding place stinks and your parents find it almost immediately.

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    You hit your brother or sister and they start to weep and to wail.

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    What's your response?

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    You cover their mouth and threaten him or her not tattle, to your parents.

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    You finally get your driver's license and you promised your parents you will take care of their car, but then you immediately scratch it.

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    What do you do?

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    You try to buff out that scratch and try to cover it up with the cheapest paint you can find?

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    Or how about now?

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    At work, you make a very serious and embarrassing mistake.

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    What's your first blush response?

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    to say nothing and hope that no one notices what you did.

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    Hiding is easy.

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    Coming clean is hard.

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    You and I struggle to confess our sins to other people, and we also struggle to tell God everything that we have done, even though he already knows what we have done.

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    This reluctance to be honest about our failures reveals that we have deep issues within our hearts that we cannot ignore.

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    This is the second week of our latest series, Heart Problems, What to Do When You Don't Want God.

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    No matter who you are or how long you've been a Christian, you have a heart problem of some kind right now.

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    Maybe it's spiritual laziness.

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    Maybe it's indifference to the things of God.

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    Maybe it's a lack of connection with the Lord in prayer, or maybe it's serious doubts that you have about the Christian faith, or a habitual sin that is hidden.

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    All of these problems require a surgical solution and not a quick fix.

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    Last week we studied the parable of the sower and unpacked the importance of evaluating our hearts to see how serious of a heart surgery the Lord needs to give us.

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    This morning we will dig into Psalm 51 as the Lord lays out the importance of another surgical solution that we must cooperate with and participate in, confession of sin.

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    Is this the most popular of topics in the church today?

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    Sin is often affirmed and accepted rather than confessed.

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    And this is why there are so many unhealthy and dying churches.

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    This is why there are so many unhealthy human hearts within those churches that are spiritually withering away.

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    For you to get better, the infection of hidden sin needs to be pulled out by the root, and the method of that extraction is heartfelt confession to the Lord.

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    And your natural response to a message like this, A passage like this will be to inwardly cross your arms and dig in your heels.

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    And I wanna plead with you not to do that.

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    Lower your defenses and prepare your heart for what God is going to command you to do.

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    So let's go to the Lord and ask for his help because we certainly need it.

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    Father, we come to you and we admit that we so often hide from you.

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    We're like Adam and Eve, foolishly hiding in the garden You can see them right there.

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    Lord, there are people in this room who have others fooled, but they do not have you fooled.

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    I pray that today would be the day of revealing what has been hidden to others, of confessing to you what you already know.

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    And we thank you for the healing, we thank you for the change that you will bring through this genuine confession.

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    I ask all these things in Jesus' name, amen.

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    Now turn your Bibles to Psalm 51, Psalm 51.

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    It's important to note that you should never skip the descriptions at the beginning of many of the Psalms because these descriptions give you helpful background information.

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    Skipping these descriptions would be like fast-forwarding through the first two minutes of Star Wars as the music blasts, the logo appears, and the background text of the story scrolls on the screen in front of you.

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    If you fast forward through that, you're gonna miss a lot of helpful background information that will really lead you to not fully understand the story.

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    And the same is true for this description at the beginning of Psalm 51.

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    If you skip it, you're not gonna understand why David wrote it in the first place.

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    So let's see what he says.

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    with the choir master a psalm of David when Nathan the prophet went to him after he had gone in to Bathsheba.

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    David may have been a great king of Israel and a man after God's own heart, but he was not free from sin and heart problems.

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    Far from it.

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    He committed adultery and murder.

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    He had sex with a woman who was not his wife.

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    and he thought everything was under wraps.

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    And no one knew.

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    But then Bathsheba gets pregnant.

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    And the problem is, she's married to a man named Uriah.

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    Instead of confessing what he had done, David decides to have Uriah killed in battle.

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    Then he moves Bathsheba into his house, they get married, and they have their child.

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    It seems once again that David got away with these things, got free.

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    But he hadn't.

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    Who was the one who saw what David had done?

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    God himself, the one who sees all things.

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    We are told this in 2 Samuel 11, 27.

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    But the thing that David had done displeased the Lord.

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    And God sent the prophet Nathan to confront David in his sin, and thankfully David doesn't cross his arms and dig in his heels, no, he confesses, and he acknowledges what he had done.

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    And he accepts the consequences for his sin, which is the death of his son, who was a result of this affair, and violent division within his own family moving forward.

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    And after this confrontation, David writes one of the rawest, most hard-hitting songs in the entire Bible in Psalm 51.

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    David honestly confessed his sin from the heart.

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    I know you may be wondering after all this setup, Taylor, I'm certainly not a perfect person.

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    I've made mistakes in the past, but I've never done anything as bad as David.

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    I'm actually a pretty good person.

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    I'm nice to other people.

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    Why should I confess from my heart?

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    Some of you have a different thought that ends with the same exact question.

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    I see why David should confess his sin.

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    He lived in the Old Testament, but I'm a Christian living after the New Testament.

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    I'm covered by the grace of Jesus Christ.

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    All of my sin has been forgiven.

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    Why should I confess from my heart?

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    Well, that is a great question that we're gonna spend the rest of this message answering.

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    Why should I confess from my heart?

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    Reason number one, because my God is merciful and loving.

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    My God is merciful and loving.

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    David kicks off this psalm by getting as low as he can as fast as he can.

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    He humbles himself before his maker and admits his need for compassion.

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    In verses one through two, let's read that together.

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    "Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love, "according to your abundant mercy.

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    "Blot out my transgressions.

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    "Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity "and cleanse me from my sin." David makes zero excuses for his sin.

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    He doesn't try to minimize what he has done or try to lessen its seriousness, like celebrities and politicians who get caught in underhanded scandals.

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    You know what I'm talking about, right?

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    You ever seen those press conferences or statements from famous people that are non-apologetic apologies?

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    Oh, what I did was unfortunate.

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    I got caught up in a moment of weakness.

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    I'm sorry if what I did offended anyone, aka what I did wasn't that bad, so lighten up.

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    David doesn't do any of this soft peddling nonsense.

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    He describes his affair in three different ways.

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    As transgression, as iniquity, and as sin.

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    And these three words cross over with one another but communicate different aspects of the same concept.

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    Transgression is purposeful rebellion.

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    Iniquity is perversion, a twisting of God's ways and intentions, sin is falling short and missing the mark of God's holy standard.

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    David is brutally honest here because he knows that he has abused his role as king to satisfy his own evil desires.

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    David knows that he deserves nothing good from God.

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    But David also knows that he serves a God who is willing to forgive anyone of anything if that person comes to him in repentance and faith.

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    David knows that he shouldn't run away from the one who is ready to embrace him.

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    If you have not yet turned from your sin and trusted in Christ, what are you waiting for?

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    I have to be honest with you.

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    You are not a good person.

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    I am not a good person.

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    You may not have ordered a hit on someone else like David, but you are just as guilty as him of transgression, iniquity, and sin.

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    You have rebelled against God's rightful rule and authority.

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    You have perverted how life should be lived.

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    You have fallen way short of God's perfect and holy standard.

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    You are far more wicked than you could possibly understand, but God is far more gracious than you could ever imagine.

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    God wants to show you mercy.

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    He doesn't want to give you what you deserve, which is eternal punishment in hell.

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    God wants to give you what you don't deserve, which is grace, eternal joy in heaven.

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    God wants to show you his steadfast love and his abundant mercy.

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    He wants to blot out your transgressions and erase all record of your evil deeds.

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    He wants to wash you thoroughly of your iniquity and cleanse you of all your sin.

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    But God will only do those things if you ask him to.

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    If you humble yourself before him like David and make no excuses for your evil desires and decisions.

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    your heart problem may be that your heart is spiritually dead and needs to be brought to new life in Christ.

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    If that's the case, confess your sin for the very first time and plead for Christ's forgiveness and he will give it to you.

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    He will fix your heart problem.

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    He will give you the solution which is faith in Jesus Christ and what he achieved by dying on the cross and rising again.

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    Please don't let your pride keep you from the abundant mercy and steadfast love of God.

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    Why should I confess from my heart?

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    Reason number two, because my sin insults God.

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    Because my sin insults God.

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    David goes even deeper in verses three through six to reveal why his sin and your sin is such a big deal.

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    Let's read that together.

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    For I know my transgressions and my sin is ever before me.

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    Against you, you only have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgments.

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    Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me.

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    Behold, you delight in truth and the inward being, and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart.

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    David has a constant reminder of his affair and murder right in front of him all the time in the form of Bathsheba.

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    I think that's one of the reasons why he says my sin is ever before me.

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    Every single time he sees Bathsheba, he remembers that he took her when she didn't belong to him.

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    And he ended the life of her first husband, Uriah, He was a man of great integrity.

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    Yes, he wronged this woman.

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    Yes, he wronged her husband.

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    But they're not the ones that David is most concerned about wronging.

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    Listen again to verse four.

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    "Against you, you only have I sinned "and done what is evil in your sight." Who is David most concerned about wronging?

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    The Lord.

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    No one matters more than God, So offending him matters more than offending anyone else.

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    Every sinful thought, every sinful word, action, inaction, reaction is an insult to God.

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    It is a slap in his face.

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    And this inescapable reality is highlighted when the Lord asks a direct question to David through the prophet Nathan in 2 Samuel 12, 9.

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    Why have you despised the word of the Lord to do what is evil in his sight?

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    In the following verse, God says that David didn't just despise his word, he despised him.

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    When you take the word lightly, you take God lightly.

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    When you disobey God's word, you disobey the one who spoke it into existence.

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    (congregation laughing)

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    Christians in the room and watching online, I want you to understand what you communicate to God when you choose to do something that you know you shouldn't or you fail to do something that you know you should.

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    You are telling God, I love this sin more than I love you.

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    When you click that link and watch that pornographic video, you are telling God, I'd rather look at this than behold you in your word.

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    When you gossip and slander, you are telling God, I care more about what other people think about me than what you think about me.

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    When you lie and cover your tracks, you are telling God, I care way more about my comfort than honoring you.

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    When you intentionally disrespect your husband or selflessly dishonor your wife, You are telling God, I'd rather do things my way than your way in this marriage.

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    In those moments, you dismiss God and act like he is worth nothing to you.

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    How insulting is that?

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    If that view of your sin doesn't make you wanna confess, I don't know what else to tell you.

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    When I am rude and disrespectful to my wife, we are still married.

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    My bad behavior doesn't divorce or separate me from her in that moment, but it does affect how close I feel to her.

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    And I can't enjoy that closeness, that fellowship again, until I confess to her how I have wronged her.

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    If you are a true believer in Jesus Christ, you confess to draw near to the Lord in fellowship, to enjoy a closeness with him that you cannot enjoy when you were holding on to sin and refusing to let it go.

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    You confess because you're already forgiven.

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    You confess because you love God and are loved by God.

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    So often we feel like God forsakes us.

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    But he's not the one who forsakes you.

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    You are the one who forsakes him.

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    The hymn, Come Thou Fount, nails this on the head.

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    Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it.

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    Prone to leave the God I love.

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    Does that describe anyone else besides me this morning?

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    Is your heart problem that you feel distant from the Lord because you've been wandering off the path of his word?

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    If that's you, admit that you've strayed because he already knows that you have.

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    Confess that you need his help because God is well aware that you already need his help.

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    Draw near to God and scripture promises that he will draw near to you.

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    Why should I confess from my heart?

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    Third reason, because my heart needs renovation.

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    Because my heart needs renovation.

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    In verses seven through 12, David continues on with more pleas for God to wash him of what he has done, and then he pops the hood, so to speak, and asks God to work on the engine of his heart.

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    Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean.

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    Wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.

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    Let me hear joy and gladness.

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    Let the bones that you have broken rejoice.

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    Hide your face from my sins, and blot out my iniquities.

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    "Create in me a clean heart, O God, "and renew a right spirit within me.

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    "Restore to me the joy of your salvation "and uphold me with a willing spirit." David asked God to create in him a clean heart.

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    And that Hebrew word for create is the same word used in Genesis 1-1, when God made everything.

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    In the beginning, God created things that were not there to begin with.

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    He did something brand new.

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    And David is asking him, God, do something brand new in me.

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    Create in me something that doesn't exist.

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    A heart that desires you.

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    A heart that would rather choose you than sin.

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    And David doesn't want this change to be a passing fad or a flash in the pan.

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    He wants it to last.

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    That's why he says, "Renew a right spirit within me.

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    "Uphold me with a willing spirit." In other words, God, don't let me be lazy.

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    Don't let me go back to business as usual.

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    Let this change last for the rest of my days.

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    Help me to step into who you've created me to be instead of sliding back into who I used to be.

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    David understands that his life is a marathon, not a sprint.

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    He needs to focus on the long term, not just the short term.

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    And David says something in verse 11 that may have surprised you.

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    "Cast me not away from your presence "and take not your Holy Spirit from me." Maybe that verse unlocked a new fear within you and you're starting to wonder, wait, can that actually happen?

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    Can God take his spirit away from his people?

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    You just said that God doesn't forsake his people.

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    Aren't you contradicting yourself?

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    Well, I don't have the time to fully explain the theology of this verse, so let me try to do my best in 90 seconds.

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    You can even time me if you really want to.

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    In the Old Testament, the Holy Spirit did not live within God's people as he does today.

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    Instead, he would rush upon people and anoint them for specific tasks and roles.

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    He would empower the prophets, the kings, judges, and others to say and do what God told them to say and do.

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    And one such man was King Saul, the first king of Israel.

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    He certainly looked the part.

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    He was tall, dark, and handsome, but the problem was his heart.

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    He had a heart problem that was never resolved.

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    He sinned, he disobeyed, but he didn't truly confess and repent as David would.

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    So God took away his Holy Spirit from Saul, which also meant that he took away the throne from Saul as well.

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    And that's what David is thinking about in this verse.

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    God, don't let me be another Saul.

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    Don't take the throne away from me.

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    Don't take your Holy Spirit and his help away from me.

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    But if you are a follower of Christ, this side of the cross and the empty tomb, You don't need to share this fear of David's because you are sealed and indwelt by the Holy Spirit.

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    He has made you into a new creation and given you a changed heart.

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    The Holy Spirit can never be taken away from you just as your salvation can never be taken away from you.

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    How amazing it is to enjoy the blessings that David longed for.

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    a brand new heart and the constant presence, the constant indwelling of the Holy Spirit.

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    But you and I often take these blessings for granted, don't we?

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    We often take advantage of these blessings and act as if we don't need to do anything in our personal journey of holiness.

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    Like David, ask God to uphold you with a willing spirit to maintain this heart that has been given to you.

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    Who likes new stuff?

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    A new car with a new car smell, new shoes that don't stink like a gym locker room, a new phone that can do stuff that your old one could not, a new car, how about a new house that doesn't have the issues that your last one did?

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    And I think one of the reasons we like new stuff is that we think we can enjoy a break from maintenance and upkeep.

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    Is that true?

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    That's a really false hope that really goes away very quickly.

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    A new car can be trashed in a few days if you're not diligent in cleaning it out.

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    A new phone can be broken and shattered if you don't have a protective case and screen shield.

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    New shoes will look very old and gross if you don't spray them out every once in a while and clean the dust and the grime that accumulates.

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    I want you to imagine that a wealthy friend has a brand new house built for you, free of charge.

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    This house is state of the art.

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    Everything inside and outside the house looks fantastic.

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    How fantastic would that house look if you never cut the grass?

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    If you never do any upkeep of any kind, if you never keep up with ongoing renovations as the years pass by, that new house will not look new for very long.

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    The same goes to the new heart that God has gifted to you.

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    It needs ongoing maintenance and renovation.

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    This isn't a task you can do once a year really quickly.

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    This is a 24/7 project.

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    project.

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    And we'll talk about this heart maintenance in even greater detail in two weeks.

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    But for the time being, I want you to understand that this heart maintenance includes personal time with the Lord in prayer and in his word.

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    Participation in the life of the church, not just attendance, participation in the life of the church.

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    And yes, ongoing confession and repenting of sin.

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    It's hard to maintain a car and keep it running.

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    It's hard to maintain a house and keep it looking presentable.

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    It's way harder to maintain your heart and keep it dialed in to the Lord.

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    What's the motivation for this difficult project?

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    What keeps you on task, on schedule, on mission?

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    Well, David gives us the answer in verse 12.

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    "Restore to me the joy of your salvation." You will not continually maintain your heart if you are not continually blown away that you are saved in the first place.

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    You will not constantly confess to your father if you are not thrilled that you belong to him and you are a part of his family.

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    The moment you take your salvation for granted is the moment you stop growing, is the moment you stop making progress.

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    It's like all the gas is siphoned out of your tank.

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    Are you running on empty in this current season of life?

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    If so, ask the Lord to fill your tank.

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    Ask him to restore to you the joy of your salvation.

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    Ask that you would once again celebrate that your name is written in heaven and nothing and no one can scratch it out.

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    Do you know what the best thing about me is?

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    That I belong to Jesus.

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    And if you're a Christian, the best thing about you is that you belong to Jesus.

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    Do you truly believe that this morning?

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    Is that a truth that's on the forefront of your mind and fills your heart?

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    If not, ask God that it would.

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    'Cause otherwise you're not gonna grow your heart problem will not be solved.

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    Why should I confess from my heart final reason?

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    Because my worship and witness is hindered by hidden sin.

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    Because my worship and witness is hindered by hidden sin.

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    Let's wrap up with verses 13 through 19.

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    "Then I will teach transgressors your ways, "and sinners will return to you.

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    "Deliver me from blood guiltiness, O God.

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    "Oh God of my salvation, and my tongue will sing aloud "of your righteousness.

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    "Oh Lord, open my lips and my mouth "will declare your praise.

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    "For you will not delight in sacrifice, "or I would give it.

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    "You will not be pleased with the burnt offering.

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    "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit, "a broken and contrite heart, oh God, "you will not despise.

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    "Do good to Zion in your good pleasure.

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    "Build up the walls of Jerusalem." "Then will you delight in right sacrifices "and burnt offerings and whole burnt offerings.

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    "Then bulls will be offered on your altar." David's heart is broken and contrite.

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    As we studied a few months ago in the Beatitudes, David is poor in spirit and one who mourns over his sin.

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    David understands that his sin doesn't just affect him, It affects everyone in positions underneath of him.

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    It affects everyone in Israel.

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    As the nation goes, as the king goes, so goes the nation.

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    In this section, David isn't me focused.

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    He is others focused.

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    He asks to be used for God's purposes.

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    Listen again to verse 13.

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    "That I will teach transgressors your ways, "and sinners will return to you." David wants to be a living testimony of God's grace and kindness.

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    Verses 14 through 15, "Deliver me from blood guiltiness, "O God, O God of my salvation, "and my tongue will sing aloud of your righteousness, "O Lord, open my lips, "and my mouth will declare your praise." David wants to demonstrate what it truly looks like to wholly worship God.

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    Verse 18, "Do good to Zion in your good pleasure, to build up the walls of Jerusalem.

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    David doesn't want to hoard all the blessing for himself.

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    He wants Jerusalem and all of Israel to experience the blessing of God as well.

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    David isn't interested in keeping his sin a secret any longer.

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    He's ready to go public with it.

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    And one of the ways he does this is by writing this psalm that we are reading right now.

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    Think about it.

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    How many transgressors have been taught?

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    How many sinners have returned to God because of this psalm?

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    How many countless numbers of sins have been confessed because David gave us a clear example of how to do this in a godly way?

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    But this wouldn't have happened if David kept his sin a secret and only confessed it to God.

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    Confession increased David's worship and strengthened his witness.

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    And the same can be true for you as well.

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    Confession will increase your worship and strengthen your witness.

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    But the problem is you often believe the exact opposite.

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    You think to yourself, "I don't want to ruin my testimony, "so I'll just keep my struggles to myself.

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    "I won't tell anyone about my failures except God." That is a horrible plan.

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    That plan is pride disguised as humility.

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    That plan is self-interest disguised as an outward focus.

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    Please listen to me.

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    There is only one sinless person in all of existence, and this person is without a doubt not you or me.

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    No one will benefit from a false image of your fake perfection.

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    People will only benefit from a true image of your genuine confession.

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    How many unbelievers could you point to the forgiveness of Christ by sharing how you have experienced his forgiveness?

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    How many fellow believers can you remind them of that it is a good and godly thing to be transparent in the body of Christ?

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    You can model that, because so often we think this isn't a safe place, but this should be the safest place to confess our sins and be honest with one another.

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    For the rest of my life, I'll never forget one particular night at Geneva College during my freshman year, when my guy friends and I were completely honest with one another about what we struggled with.

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    And to a man, we all admitted that we, at one point, had struggled with pornography use.

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    I'll never forget the looks on people's faces.

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    Everyone was shocked.

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    We were all amazed because each guy thought he was the only one.

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    Because that's how Satan wanted us to feel.

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    Alone, isolated, self-condemning.

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    No one wants you to confess your sin less than Satan.

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    He doesn't want you to confess to God.

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    He doesn't want you to confess to others because then you will receive love, encouragement, and prayer that will help you to make those needed changes.

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    Listen to James 5, 16.

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    Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another that you may be healed.

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    It is so healing to shine a light on what you've kept in the dark.

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    It is so freeing to unearth what you've kept covered up.

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    It is such a blessing to share what you have done to a person who is ready to build you up with the truths of the gospel.

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    You don't need to hide your sins any longer because God himself has already hidden his face from your sin.

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    As we close, let me ask you, what sins are you so desperate to keep hidden?

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    What are you holding on to and refusing to confess to God and to those who are willing to help you?

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    Maybe it's a sexual sin of some kind.

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    Maybe it's a substance abuse problem.

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    Maybe it's a anger issue or a pattern of lying.

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    Maybe you've destroyed someone's reputation and they don't even know it.

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    Maybe it's an all-consuming worry that no one knows the full extent of besides you and God.

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    Whatever it is, you can and should confess it to the Lord and your loved ones today.

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    Not next week when you've had more time to think about it because you're just gonna talk yourself out of it in the meantime.

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    Not when it's more easy and convenient.

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    No, it's never gonna be easy and convenient to confess your sin.

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    Do it today.

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    But I know what some of you are thinking.

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    Taylor, you just don't get it.

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    If I share this secret, my life will be ruined.

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    I'm gonna hurt so many people.

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    Well, over the past 10 years in ministry, I've had people confess some doozies to me, and then to other people who need to know.

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    And guess what?

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    It was hard, it was painful, but they survived.

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    And most of those people not only survived, they are thriving right now.

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    They are closer to God than ever before.

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    If you don't plan to confess to God, that tells me that you may not truly understand his saving grace.

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    If you don't plan to confess to others, that tells me that you don't actually plan to change.

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    You should confess from your heart because God is ready to pour out his love and mercy upon you.

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    You should confess from your heart because you shouldn't want to indulge in what insults God.

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    You should confess from your heart because you are in desperate need of renovation.

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    You should confess from your heart because hidden sin will shipwreck your worship of God and your witness to everyone.

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    There is no better place to come and confess our sin than the table of the Lord's Supper.

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    This God-given meal reminds you of God's given solution to your heart problem, the sacrifice of his one and only son.

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    Jesus Christ came down from heaven so that you could join him there someday.

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    His heart was set upon the cross so that your heart could be transformed and set to worship him forever and ever.

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    As you come to the Lord in communion, withhold nothing from him because he withholds nothing from you.

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    Our servers can now make their way forward as well as the worship team.

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    You don't need to belong to this church to take part in the Lord's Supper, but you do need to belong to Jesus Christ.

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    If you have not yet confessed your sins and asked Jesus to save you, please remain seated.

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    But please don't just tune out.

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    Please consider how your sin has offended God, how it has hurt others, and how it has damaged your own soul.

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    But also find hope in the fact that you can lay those sinful burdens down at the foot of the cross and receive forgiveness today.

Small Group Discussion
Read
Psalm 51

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Why is sin such a big deal in the life of the Christian and why must it be confessed? What happens if you don’t confess sin but keep it hidden?

  3. What often keeps you from confessing your sin to God? What often keeps you from confessing your sin to other believers?

Breakout
Separate by gender and confess your sin to one another. Encourage and pray for one another.