Unified and Purified

Why is Idolatry So Dangerous?

Introduction:

Matthew 6:24No one can serve two masters... You cannot serve God and money.

Ephesians 5:5 - For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.

Philippians 3:19their god is their belly...

1 Samuel 15:23 - For rebellion is as the sin of divination, and presumption is as iniquity and idolatry.

3 Reasons to Run from Idolatry: (1 Corinthians 10:14-22)

  1. Because of WHO YOU ARE. (1 Cor 10:16-18)

  2. Because It's DEMONIC. (1 Cor 10:19-21)

    Deuteronomy 32:17They sacrificed to demons that were not God...

    Psalm 106:37They served their idols, which became a snare to them. They sacrificed their sons and their daughters to the demons...

    Ephesians 6:12 - For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.

  3. Because God is JEALOUS For You. (1 Cor 10:22)

    Exodus 34:14for you shall worship no other god, for the Lord, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God…

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    Open up those Bibles to 1 Corinthians 10 and take a moment to please just pray for me to communicate God's Word clearly as I should, and I will pray for you to have a heart open to receive what it is the Lord wants to teach us today. All right? So let's just take a moment and pray. Father, we trust Your Word and Your Spirit to do a work in our hearts.

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    As only you can, Father. That's why we're here. Father, open our hearts and minds up to receive what it is that you've told us in your word. We sing, I exalt thee, but Father, I pray that we would live that, a lifestyle that exalts you. We pray in Jesus' name.

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    Amen. 1 Corinthians 10.

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    Many years ago at a church picnic, we did the pie the pastor thing.

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    Now I know we've done it more recently. We did it like with VBS.

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    This is years ago when we had a lot less kids.

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    And I couldn't remember what it was, but Mandy Maul was our children's director at the time.

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    And she reminded me, it was like those big five-gallon jugs.

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    was if the kids could fill it with change, they went to some mission or ministry, but if the kids could fill it with change, some of the kids would be able to pie me at the church picnic.

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    So when I say pie, not like an apple pie, you know, the old whipped cream, the whipped cream pies, right?

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    So it started with, can some of the kids pie you at the picnic?

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    I was like, okay.

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    Well, that turned into, can all the kids pie you? And I said, multiple times, each as hard as they can. You would be surprised how hard some of these little guys can hit you in the nose with a whipped cream pie. I had to go into like concussion protocol. So they're like, can all the kids hit you in the pie, hit you in the face with a pie as hard as they can? I was like, okay. Then somebody, not one of the kids, somebody had this brilliant idea.

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    How about we pie Pastor Jeff, but instead of whipped cream, they brought a squeeze bottle of mayonnaise. A squeeze bottle of mayonnaise. And they're like, let's pie him with a mayonnaise pie. Mayonnaise pie, excuse me. And I said, too far. That was too far. Absolutely under no circumstances.

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    But you see, they just took it too far. They just took it too far. It was all fun and games until they brought out the Hellmanns. Too far. You went too far. And it's that idea of going too far that takes us to this next section. Because you see, the Corinthians that Paul was writing to lived in a pagan culture.

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    Right? Paganism was everywhere. And some of the people in the church obviously came to Christ out of the pagan culture, and they realized, hey, I am free in Christ. And an idol? An idol is nothing. And Paul's like, you're right, an idol is nothing. Well, meat that was sacrificed to idols? I can eat that. I'm free to eat that. And Paul's like, yes, you are free to Eat that meat. Yes. But not if it offends a weaker Christian. Then you lay down your freedom. Say like, well, I'm free also to go to the pagan festivals. Go to these pagan parties. I'm free to do that. And Paul said, too far. You've taken it too far. Yes, we are free in Christ, but going to the pagan festivals, That's too far. Look at verse 14. He says, Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry.

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    That word beloved, that is such a term of just deep affection.

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    Paul's like, look, I love you, church. I love you.

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    And it's because I love you, church, that I have to tell you something that's really important.

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    A lot of you are still getting involved in the paganism around you. You've got to run from that. You've got to flee. Get away from that whole scene. Idolatry. So let me ask you, are you in danger of idolatry? You. Are you in danger of idolatry?

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    We would agree that idolatry is an issue for a lot of people in the world. Right? We would agree with that. As many of you know, we are the stateside support. We have 23 churches in northern Thailand. Mountain, jungle, tribal, places that don't see white people.

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    We support 23 churches, 4 children's homes, a Bible institute. We have a thriving ministry there. And I've been to Thailand several times. And when you go to Thailand and you land in the airport, there is a sign at the airport that says there is a severe penalty.

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    for stealing the head of a Buddha statue. And I thought, well, that's random that you land. It's like, welcome to our country. By the way, we will arrest you if you steal the head of a statue. So I asked our missionary Barnabas, like, what is up with that? What's up with that sign? He said, well, people realize they can't steal the whole statue.

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    So people come and they just try to steal the head. And to them, that is so sacrilegious. That is a horrible thing. And he said they come down hard on people that do that. So we look at that and we're like, yes, idolatry. Or we go up into the mountain jungles of Thailand. When you get away from the city where there's a lot of Buddhism, But when you get to some of these tribal areas, it's not Buddhism as much as it's spiritism and animism. And they have these spirit altars in their homes where they burn things to appease the evil spirits. And when they become Christians, when they receive Christ, one of the first things they do is rip that spirit altar out and take it outside their village and burn it as their way of saying, I am done with this.

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    And we hear those stories and we see the ashes and we say, yeah, they have a problem with idolatry. But we don't think idolatry is an issue for us. But here's the thing, church. We don't have less idols. We have infinitely more.

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    I've never bowed down to a rock. I understand the Bible's definition of idolatry is much greater than just that. For example, the Bible says money can be an idol. Money and stuff. Jesus said, Matthew 6.24, you cannot serve God and money. Money and stuff can be an idol. How about covetousness? The Bible says covetousness is an idol. Ephesians 5.5, it says, that is an idolater has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God.

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    Covetousness.

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    That's when instead of being thankful for what God has given to you, you wish that you had what God gave to someone else.

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    That's coveting.

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    And God says when you covet, you're an idolater.

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    The Bible says your belly can be an idol, Philippians 3.19.

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    In that passage, Paul talks about people who are ruled by their appetites. That's what drives them. Whatever they are hungry for, that's their idol. Or how about this one? Rebellion. 1 Samuel 15 talks about that. Rebellion is as the sin of divination and presumption is as iniquity and idolatry.

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    You see, when God tells you to do something, and you're like, I'm not going to do that, and you're rebelling against God, God says, in my mind, that has become an idol to you, your rebellion. Ezekiel 14 talks about taking idols into your heart. You know, I was thinking about that a lot this week. Idols are kind of a funny thing. In that, You realize literally anything, literally anything on this earth can become an idol. Do you ever think about that? Anything. I mean, an object, whether it's a rock or your car or something, an object can become an idol. Another person can become an idol. Your spouse, your kids, your Whatever. Celebrity. A person can become an idol. Some activity. Some hobby. Even a good thing. Consumes you. It becomes the thing that you worship. An activity can become an idol. Or a position. Right? I've got to get this job. I'm not going to be content until I reach this level. And that becomes an idol. You realize an idea can become an idol.

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    An idea can become an idol. Like, I didn't think my life was going to turn out like this. And we sort of have this idea of, this is how I thought my life was going to be at this point. This is how I thought my kids were going to be. I thought I'd be in a much different place at this point in my life. And we sort of have this idealized utopia of how we think our lives should be. And that becomes an idol for us.

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    Literally anything can become an idol. But here's something else that's funny about idolatry. Idolatry is completely individualized. And it's completely subjective. Here's what I mean. Like, when I've been to Thailand, one of the times I went, I said to Barnabas, I said, hey, can I see one of these Buddhist temples? Because there was one right down the street from his house. And I said, would they object to like somebody like me just going in there. He goes, oh no, they're fine with that. He says, you want to see it? I'll show you. He took me down. There was nobody in there. We just walked right in. He goes, oh, they don't care. But I got to tell you, did nothing for me. It was interesting, but it did nothing for me like religiously. But you know, there are a lot of other people that go in there and that is where they worship and that is everything. You see how it's subjective.

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    The same thing means everything to one person but meant nothing to me. Or I could take one of these Thai people here to America and maybe I've turned my kids into an idol and to the Thai person, my kids mean nothing to them. So you see how idolatry is so individualized and it's so specific and subjective to us, to each of us, that there is something in your life that you are tempted to turn into an idol. Unless it has already become an idol. You're like, well, what is it? What is it for me? It's that thing in your life that's more important than Jesus. That's an idol. It's the thing that keeps you from obeying Jesus as you should. That's an idol. If I said to you, what is the thing in your life that you know if this thing wasn't in the way, you would have a closer walk. You would feel like you are nearer to God. What is that thing? That thing would be your idol. The thing that's more important than coming to worship. The thing that's more important than your personal time with the Lord. That's an idol. The thing you devote your time and money and attention over Jesus.

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    That's an idol. So I'll ask you again, are you in danger of idolatry? Because when we consider the biblical definition of idolatry, I think the answer is yes, we all are. Every single one of us are in danger of idolatry. So verse 15, he says, I speak as to sensible people. Judge for yourselves what I say. Do we have any sensible people here this morning? No? This is going to be the longest sermon you've ever heard if you're not sensible. But that's what Paul's saying.

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    in your head, listen to what I'm saying. Listen, this is something you need to think about. Something you really need to stop. And what's he saying? I got to think about that. All right? So here's what Paul's saying in this passage we're going to look at. Paul says, run from idolatry.

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    Okay, why, Paul? Paul says, because of the Lord's Supper. You're like, what? What do you mean? You've got to be sensible, sensible people. Let's talk about the Lord's Supper. Matthew 26, Mark 14, Luke 22. Jesus celebrated the Passover meal with his disciples before Jesus' death. And Jesus, in this celebration, changed the meaning of the Passover meal from remembering the Exodus to remembering Him. It became a regular observance in the church. And here's what Paul's saying in this passage. If you're a believer in Jesus Christ, if you are a sincere, born-again believer in Jesus Christ, if you are someone, who comes and takes the Lord's Supper, then you don't want anything to do with idolatry. So let's explain what he means by that, sensible people. On your outline, three reasons to run from idolatry. Number one, because of who you are. Why should I run from idolatry? Because of who I am. You should run because of who you are.

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    Look at verse 16.

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    Because we've got to talk about this one for a couple of minutes.

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    Paul says, sensible people flee from idolatry. Why, Paul?

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    Look at verse 16. The cup of blessing that we bless, is it not a participation in the blood of Christ?

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    The bread that we break, is it not a participation in the body of Christ?

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    The cup of blessing. What's the cup of blessing? That's the third cup in the Passover meal. That's probably when Jesus instituted the Lord's Supper. Jesus blessed it. And Paul says, when we get together and take the Lord's Supper, we bless it. What does that mean? It means that we are regarding this as a sacred thing. Right? When we have the Lord's Supper together, it's a sacred thing.

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    And we're not having the Lord's Supper today. In hindsight, we probably should have. We're going to have it in a couple weeks because he talks more about the Lord's Supper. But understand, church, when we take the Lord's Supper together, it is more than just a religious ritual. The cup and the bread are way more than just symbols.

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    What are they? He says it four times in this passage we're looking at today. The word that you've got to understand this to understand his whole point. The word is participation. Participation. He says the cup is participation in the blood of Christ. The bread is participation in the body of Christ. What does that mean?

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    And I really like the analogy, so I'm going to use it. But he compared it to if you've ever had somebody that you love very much who passed away, but you have a photograph of them. When you look at that photograph, that awakens something in you, doesn't it? A photograph isn't just a piece of paper with an image on it to you.

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    that picture of that one who you love who had passed away, when you see that person is sort of actualized in your mind, the person sort of becomes alive in your mind. You know that feeling. You see that old picture and you just feel something in your spirit. You feel your emotions. That something really stirs in you when you look at that picture.

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    The Lord's Supper is sort of like that, but it's more than that. When we take the Lord's Supper, it's not just a reminder. Like, why am I here again? Oh, yeah. Yeah, Jesus. Now, what did he do? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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    Yeah, he died. Right, right, right. No, no, no, no. It's much more than that. When we take the Lord's Supper, we are engulfed in who he is and what he has done. This is what Paul's saying here specifically. Sensible people, sensible. Look, you promised me you were sensible. So let's keep going here, all right? The cup is a participation in the blood of Christ.

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    What does that mean? The blood of Christ is not about the red fluid that pumped through his veins. Blood of Christ is a figure of speech regarding his death. Right? So here's the thing. When we take the Lord's Supper, we are participating in Christ's death. When we take that cup, we're identifying ourselves in the benefits of his death.

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    Jesus' death means something. And when I receive the cup, I'm participating in that. That this isn't just about a man who died for me. This is about God in the flesh who bought my salvation with his death. And I'm participating in that. This means something to me right now. That's what happens when we take communion. The bread, that's the body.

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    Paul tells us here, but it's more than just the suffering of Christ. It's that, but it's more than that. It's everything that the incarnation means. See, when we take that bread, we're reminded of the body of Christ. We're reminded the invisible God made himself visible. He became a man. God was here. God was here as Jesus, and he showed me what God is like. And ultimately, yes, He came to die as only a man can die. So when we take that bread, we're participating in Christ's life. We're identifying ourselves with His righteousness, with His example. We're saying, this is the manifestation of God. This is who He is conforming me to be like. That's what we are saying together, church, when we are taking the Lord's Supper. We are participating.

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    So the cup and the bread, they're more than symbols. All that Christ is, all that Christ means is life, his grace, his humility, his love, his death. We are participators in all of that. So the Lord's Supper isn't just about reminding ourselves of an event that happened long ago. But the Lord's Supper is, hey, this is our life right now.

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    Because of what he did, this is who I am today. But it goes deeper than that, believe it or not. Look at verse 17. He says, because there is one bread, we who are many are one body, for we all partake of the one bread. You see, in the Lord's Supper, we are joined with Christ and we're joined with each other. See, that bread all came from the same loaf.

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    and we're all eating a piece of bread from the same loaf. We're saying that the Lord's Supper unites us in a profound way. When we take the Lord's Supper, it unites us in a profound way. Look, whatever else we may agree on. Best sports team, favorite brand of ketchup, what political, what side of the political aisle you're on, whatever else, we may disagree on. When we take the Lord's Supper as a church, do you know what we're doing together? We're uniting. We're saying, this. This is our God. This is what unites us. We have been saved through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. We all identify this is our God. We are together on this. This is what we share.

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    Look at verse 18. Paul's making the same point. Flashback to Israel. He says, Consider the people of Israel. Are not those who eat the sacrifices? Participants in the altar? Same point. And Israel's worship, when somebody offered a sacrifice, like, well, who got that? Everybody. God, the priest, and the worshiper were all participators in the sacrifice.

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    Isn't that terribly fascinating? You're like, yes, but what's the point? I thought we were talking about idolatry. What is the point of all this? Here's the point. You ready? Sensible people, are you ready? Here's the point. When you are in a religious service, You are participating with what you are worshiping and the other worshipers.

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    So Paul's point here is this.

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    How can you come here and participate with Christ and Christ people and then turn around and go to a different religious service where we are participating with idols and idolaters. When we take the Lord's Supper, we're saying, church, we're saying, this is who I am. I'm in Christ. I identify with these people here who are also taking from this loaf. Now, I can't just turn around after participating here with these people. I can't just turn around and participate with another group entirely.

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    Does that make sense? Because if you're so a little fuzzy on it, think about it this way. It's Stanley Cup playoffs, right? Did you watch that game last night? I did, but I think it was like this the whole time. But just imagine, A person goes down to PPG Paints Arena, Pens versus Flyers. They go down and they're wearing their Sidney Crosby number 87 jersey and they're down there like, Sid! Go Sid! Greatest player in the world! Go Sid! Let's go Pens! Let's go Pens! Let's go Pens! Right? And then that same person goes, hey, when?

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    Like, when's the next game? And they're like, oh, the next game's in Philly. So that person gets in their car and drives to Philadelphia and wears a Flyers jersey. And during the game, Sid, you stink! Sid's the worst! And they're like cheering for the Flyers the whole time. What would you think of someone who did that?

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    you be like how can you thank you Justin like how can you how can you be participating with the penguins and now you're participating with the flyers how can you do that that's Paul's point right here how can you participate with the living God and then participate with an idol because when you go to church When you go to church, it's about participation. Listen, this is why many Christians miss this concept, because you look at church as an event. For some people, that's all church is, it's an event. What's on my calendar this week? Well, I got this appointment of work, I got a Oh yeah, Sunday morning, 11 o'clock, church. Yeah, it's an event on the calendar. Just one more thing on the schedule. You just see church as an event. And listen, when you see church as an event, then skipping church because I'm sleepy, that's okay. It's just an event. Or church hopping, that's okay. It's all the same.

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    This church, that church, whatever. We just hop from church to church. It's okay. Or not getting involved. You warm a seat, usually, but I'm not going to get involved. That's okay. Listen, beloved, none of those things are okay. Because church is not an event. Church is participation with Jesus and people who identify with Jesus.

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    And when you finally get to the place where you are settled in your heart and mind and say, I participate with Jesus, I participate with the people of Jesus, when you fully grasp and understand and embrace what it means to participate with Jesus, then you will be able to face the things that can become idols for you and say, no, that's not who I am.

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    You see? Maybe money and stuff has been your idol. Maybe that's the thing that's tempted you. When you realize who you are in Christ, you're a participator in Christ. You're like, oh, that's just stuff. That's not important to me. No. Jesus is who I participate with. Or maybe it's addiction. Maybe you've been battling the idol of addiction.

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    And you realize, no, my identity is with Jesus. I'm done with that addiction because I'm not participating with Jesus and with the addiction at the same time. It just doesn't work that way. And for some, it's the idol of lust and all of the ways that that idol is worshipped. That you have to get to the place in your life, like, that's not who I am. That's just not me. I'm a participator in Jesus.

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    Christ. I belong to him. Not that. I'm done with that. That's what Paul's saying here. You've got to get the participation thing. You're not attending a church event. You are a participator in the life of Christ. All right? It's a matter of identity. Run from idolatry because of who you are. Number two, write this down. Three reasons to run from idolatry. Number two, because it's demonic.

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    Look at verse 19.

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    Paul says, what do I imply then?

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    That food offered to idols is anything?

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    Or that an idol is anything?

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    Paul's like, so what am I saying?

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    Am I saying that an idol itself is anything?

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    Am I saying that?

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    No, he's not saying that.

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    He just said that in chapter 8, verse 4.

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    Like, we just answered that question.

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    Look at verse 20. He goes, no. I imply that what pagans sacrifice, they offer to demons and not to God. I do not want you to be participants with demons. Listen to what Paul's saying. Listen very close. He says, I'm not saying that there is a real God in the idol, but there is a real participation still taking place. Participation with who? He says right here. With demons. Church, demons are at work in idolatry. And if a person buys into an idol, any kind of idol, here, Thailand, wherever. When a person buys into an idol, demons will be at work to keep the person hooked into worshiping that idol. That's just the way it is. The first time we were talking about Thailand earlier, the first time I went to Thailand, I was 20 years old. I was a brand new Christian. Boy, that was an eye opener.

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    Like I said, I went to places that pockets of civilization that have never seen a different race of people at all. Well, this one village that we visited, there was a man there. I've never seen a human that looked like him. His whole head looked like, it was like a flesh-colored cue ball. There was no hair, and it It was perfectly round and smooth. And there were just like tiny little like slits where they're like for the nose. There was no nose. It's just these little slits. And the same with the eyes peering behind these really tiny little slits. And he had he had a trach. And it was very strange. Like I've never seen a human that looked like this. And I asked our missionary Barnabas.

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    I said, Barnabas, that man that we saw, I said, does he have a disease or was there some genetic thing? Like, what's the matter with this man? Barnabas said, oh, he goes, this fellow, he used to look just like everybody else, all the other Thai people. He said he looked just like everybody else.

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    gave his life to Christ. He received Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior. And he said, soon after he received Christ, an evil spirit in the form of a bear ripped his face off. And you might say, I don't believe that. Okay, well then you tell me what happened to this man. Because the guy on this earth that is my hero that I look up to in the faith more than anybody, That's the story that he told me. You tell me then. That this man was so into idolatry that the evil... That was a demon's way of saying, you're not leaving us. You're not aligning yourself with Christ. And he was physically attacked. There are demons behind idolatry. Deuteronomy 32.17 says they sacrificed the demons.

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    that were not God. Psalm 106, verse 37, they served their idols, which became a snare to them. They sacrificed their sons and their daughters to the... You see that? It's all through the Old Testament. Demons are behind idolatry. Verse 21, he says, you cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons. You cannot partake of the table of the Lord.

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    of demons. It's the same point. You can't do both. You can't. You can't participate with Christ and participate with demons. And understand, in idolatry, there's a lot more going on than bad theology. It's demonic. And Paul says, I don't want you to participate with demons. Like, why would you mess with that? And if you're like, oh, you know, So, Pastor Jeff, I believe that if you're truly born again, if you truly have God's Spirit, you can't be possessed by a demon. You just can't. A demon can't possess a true believer. And I agree with you. I believe that. I believe that 100% that a demon cannot possess a true believer. But why would you mess with that anyways? Really? You know, demons are powerful. And demons are evil.

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    Why would you mess with that? It's like keeping a pet cobra. Like, why would you do that? Earlier we talked about the idol of addiction. We did a whole sermon series on this one time. Addiction is a worship disorder. Addiction, ultimately, at its very foundation, is idolatry. I want you to think about addiction. What is it that keeps someone so hooked on the thing they're addicted to?

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    You think it's just physical? Really? Just physical? You mean a guy is willing to lose his wife because it's just a physical addiction? You think a guy's willing to lose his family? A guy losing everything he spent his life building up. He's willing to watch it be destroyed. You think it's only physical? It's demonic. That's why Paul reminds us, Ephesians 6.12, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over the present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Paul says run from idolatry. Why? Well, it's a matter of spiritual affliction. Run from idolatry because it's demonic. One more sensible people. Number three, because God is jealous for you.

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    Why do I run from idolatry? Because God is jealous for you. Last one. Look at verse 22. He says, shall we provoke the Lord to jealousy? Shall we provoke the Lord to jealousy? Are we stronger than he? Look, if you are in Christ, if you have believed in Jesus, his death, his resurrection, if you are in Christ, you belong to God. And if you belong to God, understand he is jealous.

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    for you.

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    Exodus 34.14 says, For you shall worship no other god, for the Lord whose name is jealous is a jealous god.

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    I thought jealousy was bad. Isn't jealousy bad?

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    Isn't jealousy a bad thing?

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    Not in this context.

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    Not when jealousy is about right to ownership. Not when jealousy is about you belong to me and something is threatening that. That is appropriate jealousy. God himself says he's jealous. Like 28 times in the Old Testament I think it was. Years ago to former ministry I had this young couple come in for marriage counseling.

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    You can kind of get a feel for where it's going when they come in and they're not sitting beside each other. They're sitting on opposite ends of the table. Like, oh, I see where this is going. And the wife came in. She looked like she was ready for a fight. And the husband just sat down, had his arms folded and his head down the whole time. And I'm like, so, what seems to be the problem? And she goes, he's jealous.

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    He's jealous because I'm always going to Ghost Riders with this guy friend of mine dancing all night and my husband's jealous oh you know what Ghost Riders is it's up in Butler I don't know if it's still there it's on like Route 8 North there's a honky tonk where they do line dancing you know the line dance where they're like You know what I'm talking about? Ghost riders. Okay, thank you, Jillian. That's not still a thing, Sharon. Did it close down? Okay. What was the thing back then? It was a big thing. Well, anyways, she goes, he's jealous that I go with my guy friend to dance.

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    She goes, he's jealous. And I said, he should be. She went through the roof. Like, what are you talking about? He should be. I said, he is your husband. You belong to him. And when something is threatening the marriage covenant like that, jealousy is appropriate. She's like, jealousy is wrong. I'm like, jealousy is not wrong. She goes, Jealousy is always wrong. I said, but you know the Bible says that God is jealous. She goes, the Bible does not say that. I'm like, here we go. And I walked her through all these verses where God says He is jealous. I'm like, see, we belong to God. He doesn't want us messing with something else. And it's the same principle in marriage. She goes, jealousy is wrong. I'm like, you're wrong.

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    Well, the counseling session did not end well, as you probably surmised. But then, like, for months after that, I would get phone calls from her. Like, I'd be in my office, and be like, Pastor Jeff, so-and-so on line one. I'm like, yeah, jealousy is always wrong. I'm like, oh, please lose my number.

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    But that's Paul's point here is, look, if you're in Christ, you belong to God, and God takes it seriously when you flirt with something else. When that ownership is threatened, God takes that very seriously. You belong to Him. Oh, by the way, we were talking about demons earlier. Demons, evil, powerful demons. Do you know the only thing worse than messing with a demon?

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    provoking God. Way worse. Infinitely worse. Provoking God. Why would you do something that you know provokes God? Why would you do that? Like, well, what will he do? Well, the Bible is full of God's reaction to idolatry. Read Deuteronomy. Read the Psalms. Read the prophets.

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    They're like, yeah, that is so Old Testament. Yeah, it is Old Testament. But this here that we're studying today is so New Testament. The Bible says it's still a bad idea to provoke God to jealousy. Are you stronger than he? No, we should just do what he says, right? So it's a matter of the fear of the Lord. Run from idolatry.

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    I just like you to bow your heads for a moment I want to ask you the question that I asked you earlier are you in danger of idolatry considering that idolatry is a heart issue considering that we can turn anything into an idol The answer is yes, we are all in danger of idolatry. And I just want to ask you today, what idol do you need to flee from? What is it today that if you were going to be completely honest, I would draw near to God if this thing wasn't in the way. What is that thing that's keeping you from drawing closer to God? What is that? The Bible says that's an idol. If you belong to Jesus, you don't need to crack a door open for a demon. You certainly don't need to provoke God.

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    Father in Heaven, we bow ourselves before You as Your church. God, we realize that idolatry is just as much a temptation for us today as it was to the people that Paul wrote to. As it was in Old Testament times. Father, You are greatly glorified when idols are torn down. We see that throughout.

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    Your Word when a king who did what was right in the eyes of the Lord, that was usually accompanied by him tearing down idols. And I just pray that for this church today, Father, that You would, by Your Spirit, by Your Word, You would give us the wisdom to identify the idols, and You would give us the faith to cast them down. Whatever that needs to be, however that needs to look, Father, let today be the day that idols are destroyed.

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    in our lives. We pray in Jesus' name. Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read
1 Corinthians 10:14-22

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. In light of 1 Cor 10:16-17: How would you explain the Lord's Supper (the “participation” concept) to a new believer?

  3. How can believers be guilty of idolatry today, in our culture?

  4. How does idolatry make a believer participate with demons (1 Cor 10:20)?

  5. What does it mean that God is jealous (1 Cor 10:22)? How exactly do you think He will respond when He's provoked to jealousy?

Breakout

Pray for one another.

How Do I Humble Myself?

Introduction:

That Can Happen to Me: Reality Check About God's People and Disqualification. (1 Corinthians 10:1-13)

  1. Taking God's BLESSINGS for Granted: That Can Happen to Me. (1 Cor 10:1-6)

  2. Falling into SIN: That Can Happen to Me. (1 Cor 10:7-10)

    1. IDOLATRY. (1 Cor 10:7)

    2. IMMORALITY. (1 Cor 10:8)

    3. TESTING God. (1 Cor 10:9)

    4. COMPLAINING. (1 Cor 10:10)

  3. Claiming God's PROMISES When Tempted: That Must Happen By Me. (1 Cor 10:11-13)

    God's Promises When You're Tempted (1 Cor 10:13)

    1. COMMON. (1 Cor 10:13a)

    2. BEARABLE. (1 Cor 10:13b)

    3. AVOIDABLE. (1 Cor 10:13c)

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    Open up your Bibles with me, please, to the book of 1 Corinthians 10.

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    While you're turning there, let's just pause.

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    Please pray for me to be faithful to communicate God's Word clearly and accurately.

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    I will pray for you to have a heart open to receive what the Lord is teaching.

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    Because as usual, There's something here for each of us.

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    Let's pray.

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    When all of God's people said, "Amen, we'll try next week." "That won't happen to me." Did you ever say that?

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    Did you ever say that?

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    "That won't happen to me." Do you know who says that?

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    Well, I think everybody, but do you know who most often says that?

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    in their teenage years and in their 20s.

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    That won't happen to me.

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    Right?

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    You're out somewhere and you see some little kid disrespecting their parents, and you're like, "When I have kids, that won't happen to me." And then you have kids.

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    Or, you see kids all glued to their screens, their iPads and their iPhones and all that, and you're like, "Look at that.

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    Those parents have their kid addicted to screens.

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    That won't happen to me." And then you have kids, and you're like, "Can't you just go play the iPad for a few hours?" "That won't happen to me." I think we've all said that in considering maybe some of the things that our parents have said.

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    I think back to when I was a teenager, hearing some of the things my dad would say, I'm like, "That won't happen to me." And now I find myself, even just the other day, "Who left the lights on?

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    "I don't work for Wes Penn." That won't happen to me.

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    You know what the biggest one though was for me?

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    I know this might sound dumb, but, As a much younger man, I see these people get married and have kids and then they get the minivan.

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    And I'm like, "That won't happen to me.

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    We've had too many vans.

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    That won't happen to me." You ever said that?

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    Have you ever said that?

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    "That won't happen to me." Well, before we look at this passage, just back up a verse.

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    Chapter 9, verse 27, Paul's given this sports athlete analogy, and he says, "But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified." What's he talking about?

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    This whole section that we've been in these past few weeks, this Q&A section, the issue is should a Christian eat meat sacrificed to an idol?

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    And that turned into a whole discussion about your witness.

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    Like I don't want to offend.

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    And then he started talking about disciplining yourself so that you don't get disqualified.

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    He's talking about his witness.

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    Like I want to reach lost people, and if I'm disqualified, if there is sin in my life, I've shot my testimony.

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    He's not talking about losing your salvation.

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    He's talking about losing the opportunity to be used by God.

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    That's what he's talking about.

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    He's talking about your witness, your testimony.

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    And he says, "Last, after preaching to others, I myself should be disqualified." And of course, people can read that in the Corinthians day and in our day and say things like, "Well, maybe you have something to worry about." But that won't happen to me.

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    That won't happen to me.

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    A lot of Christians have said that.

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    They see the sin of others and think, "That won't happen to me." And it did, right?

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    How many Christians have we seen who have ruined their testimony, maybe because it's been found out that they are guilty of some kind of abuse toward a spouse, toward a child, or it comes out that there's some kind of addiction that they've been keeping hidden for years.

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    That won't happen to me.

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    How about pastors?

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    How many pastors have we seen disqualified?

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    No longer usable.

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    They've ruined their testimony.

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    How many times have we seen that with affairs, with embezzlement?

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    That won't happen to me.

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    Well this section that we're looking at today is a warning to God's people.

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    And here's the warning.

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    Being blessed by God can make you think that you're above failing.

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    When you know God, when you're walking with God, when you're experiencing the blessing knowing God, the danger is you can get to the point where you say, "That won't happen to me." And the key to all of this is verse 12. Jump down there for a second. Chapter 10 verse 12, he says, "Therefore, let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed, lest he fall.

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    So are you telling me that you think that people who have been so blessed by God, who have been so used by God in such powerful ways, you think they couldn't possibly fail?

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    You think God's people, even God's people, you think there's no way that they could be disqualified from being usable to God.

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    Well, let me tell you about Israel.

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    That's where Paul goes.

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    If you're jotting things down in your outline, the heading, "That can't happen to me." So this is a reality check, church.

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    This is a reality check about God's people and disqualification.

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    That can't happen to me.

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    Number one, right, just taking God's blessings for granted, that can happen to me.

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    Now Paul here is going into this illustration from Israel from Old Testament times.

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    And he's talking about Israel when they were going from Egypt to Canaan.

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    And if you're familiar with that story at all, you know that they were blessed incredibly.

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    They saw God's hand at work in their lives, in their nation, every step of the way.

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    Right?

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    They were so blessed.

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    Like, how?

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    Well, look at chapter 10, verse 1.

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    Paul says, "For I want you to know, brothers, that our fathers were all under the cloud." Stop there.

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    That's the first blessing that they experienced.

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    They were led by God.

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    This cloud - we're not going to look up all these passages.

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    We'll be here until Thanksgiving.

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    But Paul here is giving sort of a paraphrase of the history.

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    But you can jot them down.

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    You can look them up later.

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    What's the cloud? Exodus 13.

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    The Bible says this is how they were led.

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    By day, it was a pillar of cloud.

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    By night, it was a pillar of fire.

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    That's how Israel was led.

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    You realize, not one of the Israelites could have ever said they never saw God.

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    He was right in front of them every single step of the way, right?

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    So they were led by God.

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    Secondly, Paul says they were delivered by God.

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    Look at the rest of verse 1.

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    He says, "And all passed through the sea." You probably could guess what that is, right?

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    Exodus 14, God basically led Israel to a dead end.

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    He led them to a dead end.

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    And now there's the sea.

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    Here comes the Egyptians after them.

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    They're like, "We are doomed." Do you remember what happened?

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    God parted the waters, so they walked through.

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    The Egyptians followed them.

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    God closed the waters, drowned the entire army.

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    That's what He's talking about here.

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    So not only could none of them say, "Well, I never saw God." They did.

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    Not one of them could say they never experienced God's power to save.

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    They were all delivered by God.

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    Thirdly, they were given a great leader by God.

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    Look at verse 2.

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    He says, "And all were baptized into Moses in the cloud and in the sea." Baptized into Moses - that's just talking about their identification with Moses as a leader.

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    I mean, you think you have a great leader.

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    Well, they had, who is in my opinion, the greatest human in the Old Testament, Moses.

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    I don't think there's anybody greater than Moses.

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    He was their pastor.

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    Awesome.

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    Given to them by God.

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    All right, they were also provided for by God.

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    Look at verses 3 and 4.

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    It says, "And all ate the same spiritual food, and all drank the same spiritual drink, for they drank from the spiritual rock that followed them, and the rock was Christ." They were provided for by God.

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    How did they eat?

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    Manna.

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    It was food that God just put on the ground.

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    They gathered it up every day, except the Sabbath, but God just put this perfect food for them on the ground.

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    And He gave them water from a rock.

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    God handed them everything they needed.

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    By the way, when it says, "The rock was Christ that followed them around," Paul is telling is that somehow, these provisions that Israel received literally came through Jesus.

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    Paul is saying Jesus Christ was literally with them every step of the way.

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    But you notice in these first four verses the word "all." He says it five times.

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    All.

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    All.

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    All.

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    Five times.

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    Every single Israelite experienced God's presence and His provision.

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    Alright?

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    He says in verse 5, "Nevertheless, with most of them, God was not pleased, for they were overthrown in the wilderness." With most of them, God was not pleased.

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    Most scholars estimate there was about two million Israelites in the Exodus.

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    Most of them God was not pleased.

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    There were, do you know how many there were that God was pleased with?

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    Two, Joshua and Caleb.

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    I did the math on that.

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    Two people out of two million, do you know what that is?

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    That's 0.00001% of the people God was pleased with.

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    All the rest.

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    The rest, Paul would say most of them.

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    They were disqualified.

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    God's like, "You're not usable to Me because you refuse to be faithful." They were disqualified to death.

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    So Paul's point here in these first five verses is just simply this, Old Testament Israel, They saw all they saw.

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    They experienced all they experienced, and they got disqualified.

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    So what's the point?

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    That was like thousands of years ago.

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    Why are you telling us this?

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    Verse 6, he says, "Now these things took place as examples for us that we might not desire evil as they did." So this is an example for who?

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    It's an example for who?

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    It's an example for us, because those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it, right?

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    made everything they saw. Everything they saw. Like, what was the problem? It tells us right here what the problem is. They desired evil. That's the problem. They desired evil.

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    See, the problem was God was with them, but their hearts weren't with God. And Paul says Hey, He's talking to us, church.

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    Their story is our story.

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    You know those provisions we just listed?

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    Can we say the same?

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    I would argue we can say God's provision for us has been greater than God's provision for Old Testament Israel.

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    Here's what I mean.

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    We just said they were led by God, right?

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    Are we led by God?

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    Much greater than a cloud and fire, as awesome as that was.

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    You realize how God leads us?

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    He put His Spirit in us, and He put His wisdom down in this book so that we can have guidance directly from God Himself.

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    Wow.

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    Have we been delivered by God?

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    If you know Jesus Christ, you have.

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    And again, as awesome as the Red Sea had to have been, do you realize your deliverance was so much greater?

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    That because of your sin, you were heading to hell, and God sent His Son to die in your place to bear the wrath of God on Himself while He suffered on the cross, and then to raise from the dead so that we can have eternal life.

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    We have been delivered.

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    We've been given great leaders.

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    I couldn't possibly overstate the greatness of the elders that lead this church.

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    We have been blessed with great leaders in this church.

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    All of our needs have been met.

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    So much more than manna and water from a rock.

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    You have so much more than any of these Israelites ever had.

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    Right?

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    We have the same problem, don't we?

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    We have the same problem.

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    We - what do you say?

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    desire evil.

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    Even as redeemed people, those of you who know Christ, even the redeemed, we live in in this fallen flesh.

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    And this fallen flesh still hungers for sin.

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    That's why we've been talking about self-control.

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    And I remember as a young Christian, I prayed so often that God would remove any desire from me for sin.

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    I prayed that so many times as a young Christian.

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    And then as I grew in my faith, I realized that's just not how it works.

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    Because as long as you live in the flesh, you're gonna have a desire for sin.

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    Instead, what I needed to pray for and what I continue to pray for until today is self-control.

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    That is a fruit of the Spirit.

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    That's how God works.

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    That's what he's commanded us to.

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    So Israel failed to get their hearts devoted to God.

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    That's the moral of that story.

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    "How are you doing? How are we doing, church?" You're like, "Well, how did Israel fail?" Well, let's get specific, shall we?

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    That takes us to number two, "I'm falling into sin.

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    That can happen to me." First, they took God's blessings for granted, as we do.

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    Secondly, falling into sin, that can happen to me.

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    Sin hasn't changed, you know that.

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    And these blessed people under Moses fell into the same sins that we can fall into.

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    It's the same.

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    Specifically, jot these down.

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    We're gonna go through these quickly.

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    Pastor Taylor's gonna be unpacking some of these on the series in July.

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    Letter A, idolatry.

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    The sins they fell into that we can fall into.

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    Idolatry, look at verse seven.

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    He says, "Do not be idolaters as some of them were.

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    "As it is written, "if people sat down to eat and drink and rose up to play." Idolatry.

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    We've talked about this.

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    It was a big issue in Corinth, wasn't it?

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    And it was a big issue in Israel.

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    Now here he's speaking specifically of the golden calf incident.

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    Are you familiar with that?

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    If not, just jot down Exodus 32.

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    You can go back and read this later.

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    But what was happening was Moses was up talking to God.

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    Moses was in like the ultimate business meeting with God.

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    God was giving Moses the 10 commandments.

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    And what were the people doing while Moses was talking to God?

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    praying for Moses, fasting, excitedly seeking the Lord, you know, wondering what is God going to do for Moses?

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    You read your Bibles, what you see is instead, Israel just got tired of waiting.

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    We don't know what happened to Moses.

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    So they go to his brother Aaron, and they're like, "Can you make us like a God that'll go before us?" Golden calf.

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    And the point is this, idolatry, you're going to worship something.

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    And if it's not the living God, if you're not worshipping the living God, if Jesus Christ is not everything to you, something else is going to get your attention and your affection.

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    Idolatry, look, that can happen to me.

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    That can happen to me.

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    I can take my eyes off of Christ, and all of a sudden, something much lesser is so much more important.

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    That can happen to me.

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    By the way, it says they sat down to eat and drink, and they rose up to play.

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    To play, that doesn't mean shoots and ladders, okay?

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    That leads us actually to letter B.

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    Write this down, immorality.

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    Immorality.

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    Sexual immorality bleeds right into this.

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    He says, "We must not indulge in sexual immorality as some of them did, and 23,000 fell in a single day." That's Numbers 25.

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    You can read that.

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    Israel saw the daughters of Moab and went hubba hubba.

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    God sent a plague that killed 23,000 people.

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    Israel disqualifies from usefulness, disqualified to death.

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    And we've talked so much these past few weeks about sexual immorality, but here it is again, it comes up again.

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    Look, it's gonna disqualify you.

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    If you choose to engage in sexual immorality, unrepentant, you're gonna be disqualified.

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    That can happen to me.

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    That can happen to me.

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    Idolatry can happen to me.

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    Immorality, that can happen to me.

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    Letter C, testing God.

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    Testing God, look at verse nine.

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    He says, "We must not put Christ to the test as some of them did and were destroyed by serpents." Testing God, right down on Numbers 21.

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    Numbers 21, Israel spoke against God and Moses, the Bible says, "You brought us here to die." Right, was that your plan, Moses?

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    You brought us out of Egypt to die.

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    Moses is like, "Yeah, that was my plan.

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    You caught me." Sarcasm.

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    They said, "You brought us out here to die, Moses.

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    You brought us out here." They said, "There's no food.

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    There's no drink.

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    All we have is this worthless manna." They said that.

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    Can we just pause for a second and acknowledge how horrific that statement is?

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    Worthless manna?

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    Worthless manna?

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    Do you mean the supernatural food that God provided for you every day?

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    That worthless manna?

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    Do you mean the stuff that all you have to do is bend over and pick it up and stick it in your mouth?

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    You mean that worthless manna?

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    Oh, and by the way, manna was the perfect food.

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    It was absolutely perfect.

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    How do you know?

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    Did you have any?

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    No, I didn't have any.

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    Not today.

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    But you know, in the Old Testament it talks about how their clothes did not wear out and their feet did not swell.

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    You ever see that in there?

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    Like, "Well, their feet didn't swell, what's that mean?" There's a disease called beriberi that's a result of malnutrition, and it makes your feet swell.

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    And what the Bible's telling us is this food was perfectly nutritious, so they were not malnourished.

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    Banana was perfect food.

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    And Israel gets in God's face and says, "All we got is this worthless stuff that you gave us." Well, God sent serpents, serpents that bit many of the people died, and that's when God told Moses to make the bronze serpent on the pole look to this, "You will live." Jesus said that was a picture of Himself lifted up when you look to Him.

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    You'll be saved.

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    Testing God though, testing God.

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    What's it mean to test God?

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    It's when you have this hard attitude towards God where you say, "God, why did you do this?

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    Why did you do this, God?

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    God, you don't love me because God, if you loved me, this wouldn't be happening to me.

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    God, what have you done for me lately?

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    Or God, you need to prove yourself to me." testing God. That can happen to me. That can happen to me. How much irreverence do you think God tolerates? How much? I would say, let's not find out. But I imagine it's not Not too much.

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    When your attitude is constantly accusing God, testing God, he says don't do that.

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    Letter D - complaining.

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    Complaining.

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    Verse 10, he says, "Nor grumble as some of them did and were destroyed by the destroyer." Complaining.

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    Literally, it's expressing unwarranted dissatisfaction.

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    expressing unwarranted dissatisfaction.

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    That's what complaining is.

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    That's what this literally is talking about in this passage.

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    You're like, when did the Israelites complain?

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    When did they ever complain?

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    If you're looking for some examples, numbers 11, numbers 14, numbers 16.

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    Complaining though, you're like, complaining really?

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    How did that make the list?

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    I mean, everyone does it.

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    Right?

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    I mean, everybody complains now and then.

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    I mean, is complaining really that big of a deal?

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    Well, apparently to God, it is.

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    Because the Bible says were destroyed by the destroyer.

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    Look up those passages.

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    Read the book of Numbers.

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    You'll see so often when there was complaining, do you know how God responded?

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    Fire, swallowing people by the earth, sending plagues.

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    God is not a fan of complaining at all.

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    He takes complaining very seriously.

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    You're like, "What's the big deal?" Well, just imagine you take your kid to Disney World.

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    If you don't have a kid, just imagine you've got a niece or a nephew, or you take a kid to Disney World.

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    And you're like, "You know what?

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    You can have whatever you want.

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    You get them the Fast Pass, they ride all the rides, they get the mouse ears, right?

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    and everything they want.

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    And then partway through the day, as you've provided everything, you just kind of lean down and you say, "So how do you like Disney World?" And they say, "Disney World stinks!" Like, what's the matter?

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    They're like, "I wanted curly fries, They were straight fries.

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    How would you react to that?

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    Not good.

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    Are you kidding me?

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    And see, that was Israel's story.

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    God was handing them everything, and they're like, "We don't like man anymore." We can point the finger, but that is so me, and that is so you, that God showers millions of blessings on us every day, and we have the audacity to complain about the two or three things in our lives that we don't prefer.

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    That can happen to me.

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    So idolatry, sexual immorality, testing God, complaining.

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    Well, sin hasn't changed.

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    People haven't either, right?

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    Can happen to me.

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    Can happen to me.

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    It's a reality check about God's people and disqualification.

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    Taking God's blessings for granted, that can happen to me.

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    Falling into sin, that can happen to me.

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    Let's change gears, all right?

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    Number three, claiming God's promises when tempted, that must happen by me.

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    That must happen by me.

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    Claiming God's promises when tempted.

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    Look at verse 11.

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    He says, "Now these things happened to them as an example, "but they were written down for our instruction "on whom the end of the ages has come." End of the ages, he just means we live in the last days.

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    That's all that means.

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    "Ever since Christ ascended, until He returns, we're living in the last days." That's an example for the Corinthian church, and we're in the same days as them.

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    But notice again, this is an example.

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    He said it in verse 6.

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    This is an example to instruct us.

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    Okay, verse 12, the key verse in all of this.

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    He says, "Therefore, let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed, lest he fall." It's a warning.

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    This whole passage is a warning against pride.

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    You think you stand.

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    You think you stand.

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    You think sin is something that affects other people.

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    You think getting disqualified from ministry and being usable by God, that only happens to others.

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    That won't happen to me.

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    And Paul says, "You better humble yourself here.

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    think you stand, you think you're on a different level, you better humble yourself because it absolutely can happen to you. It can. It is a scary thing, church, but do you realize you are, each of you, each of you are one bad decision away from ruining your life. Do you know that? You are one bad decision from wrecking your family. You are one bad day away from destroying your testimony. Do you realize that? You're like, "Well, I don't want to be disqualified." Great, because here's the encouragement. This is where Paul lands. It doesn't have to happen to you. It doesn't have to. Because look at verse 13. He says, "No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability.

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    But with the temptation, He will also provide the way of escape that you may be able to to endure it.

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    We pray as our Lord taught us, rightly we pray, lead us not into temptation, but there will be times temptation shows up at your door.

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    So here's God's promises when you're tempted.

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    Alright?

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    I was going to give you like the ABCs of it, after studying through this, it's CBA. It's CBA. That's just how it is, right?

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    CBA. Remember God's promises when you're tempted. The first one, "C" is for common.

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    Common. Did you see that? Look at verse 13 again. He says, "No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man." That's the first promise from God. Look, When you're struggling in a sin, any kind of sin, whatever it is, whether it is sexual, whether it's with your mouth, whether it's coarse joking or gossip or fits of rage or whatever sin you struggle with, Satan loves to come along and lie to you and convince you you're the only one. You know this problem you have? You know in the history of mankind you're the only person ever had that problem.

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    And you're like, "I am a sin freak.

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    I'm doing something that nobody in the history of mankind has ever done." That is a lie.

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    The thing that you're dealing with has been dealt with by countless other people.

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    You are not the only one.

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    You're not the only one.

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    And you're like, "Well, why is this happening to me?" Do you know why it's happening to you?

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    It's just your turn.

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    It's common.

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    You have never, you will never face anything that hasn't been faced by countless others before you.

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    And that's encouraging.

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    That's encouraging.

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    That when you're faced with temptation, you can say, "Oh, this temptation, it's nothing new.

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    "Others have resisted, I can too." Right?

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    So it's common.

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    I'll let it be as forbearable.

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    Be as forbearable.

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    Look at the middle part of verse 13, he says, "God is faithful and He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability." By the way, this is the most misquoted verse in the Bible, I think.

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    How many times you're going through struggling of some kind, you're suffering, you're going through some kind of trial, the storms, you're going through the storms of life and somebody comes along and says, "Well, you know, the Bible says God won't give you any more than you can handle." And that's just not at all what this says.

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    It's just not.

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    Actually, I think God will give you way more than you can handle so that you learn to depend on His strength and not your own.

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    But this verse, three times in this one verse, He says temptation.

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    He's talking about temptation.

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    He's not talking about suffering and trials and storms and all that.

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    He's talking about temptation.

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    And the reality is, church, God does not tempt, James 1.13, God does not tempt, but nothing happens to you without God's permission.

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    There is nothing that's coming into your life.

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    No temptation is coming to you that God doesn't okay first.

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    And God has promised that He's not going to allow you to face more than you can handle.

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    And this is individualized, by the way.

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    He knows.

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    God knows.

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    No one can say, "You know what?

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    I sinned.

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    Yes, okay.

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    I sinned.

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    I'm guilty of sin.

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    But you don't understand.

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    I sinned because I couldn't help it.

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    It was just too much for me.

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    God makes sure that it's never too much for you.

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    That's the promise.

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    He makes sure.

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    And this might be a tough pill to swallow, but according to this verse, maybe it's why you don't have more money.

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    For some of you, you're like, "You know, I've tried and I've tried.

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    Financially, I just can't seem to get ahead.

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    Why do I not have more money?" Because God knows that more money would be too much temptation for you.

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    I was like, "I don't want him to go there.

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    I'm going to make sure that he doesn't." For some of you, you're like, "I don't understand.

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    I applied for this job.

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    I was a perfect candidate.

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    It would have been the perfect job.

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    Why didn't I get the job?" I'll tell you why you didn't get the job.

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    God knew something was going to happen at that job that was going to be too much temptation for you.

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    Whatever that is, God's like, "No, they're not going to be able to handle that, so I'm I'm not going to let them have that job." Maybe for some it's a relationship.

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    You're like, "Man, I was so into this person and we just kind of started dating and I really thought it was going to be a long-term thing that worked out.

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    Why did it not work out with this person?" Because God knew that there was going to be too much temptation for you there.

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    He says, "I'm just...I'm not going to allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear.

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    I'm not going to do it." And you know, that's encouraging, church, because God knows me better than I do.

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    And He's not going to put me in a hopeless situation.

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    All right?

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    So the CBA is here of temptation, God's promises.

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    It's common, it's bearable.

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    And letter A, it's avoidable.

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    It's avoidable.

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    Look at the end of verse 13. He says, "But with the temptation He will also provide the way of escape that you may be able to endure it." God promises that when temptation comes, He's always going to provide a way out. You know, for the person that says, "I had no choice but to sin." I had no choice but to sin. That's that's not actually how we say it. You know how we say it? It's an addiction. And look, I'm not denying that addiction is a real thing. I know addiction absolutely is a real thing, but I think a lot of Christians have just slapped the addiction label on any sin propensity, and all of a sudden now it's not my fault. I can't help it, I have an addiction." Well, maybe the problem isn't you have an addiction, maybe the problem is you chose not to look for the way out that God provided.

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    Because if you're like, "Well, I was forced to sin, there was no option, I was just forced to sin," well then you're basically calling God a liar because He's promised that there's there's always going to be a way out.

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    He's going to make sure that you're not cornered into some "I must sin" situation.

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    There's no excuses.

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    There's no one to blame but myself when I sin.

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    And I will remind you that temptation isn't sin.

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    Jesus was tempted.

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    But it is on you to find the way of escape that God has provided so that you can avoid in to the temptation. And that's encouraging. That means I'm never forced to sin. God always provides the way out. "Oh, that won't happen to me. That won't happen to me." Remember blessed, tempted to sin, not exempt from disqualification. And we are just like Israel, but today we have an opportunity to make different choices than many of them did. I just have to ask you, is your reputation worth it? Is your testimony worth it? Is Jesus Christ worth it? Will you bow your heads with me, please?

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    Father, we just want to pause and we want to thank you.

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    Sometimes we idealize Old Testament Israel, but your word here reminds us that we're just like them.

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    Father, I pray for my brothers and sisters here, that we would make better choices, is that we would not lean into the craving for evil that we have, but instead, Father, I pray that we would claim and live the promises that You have given us regarding temptation.

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    Father, we thank You that we know there's nothing that we're going to face today that hasn't been faced by countless people before us.

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    That's encouraging to us, Father.

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    Thank you.

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    Father, we thank you that you're making sure that we're not suffocated by temptation, that we're in some kind of a hopeless situation.

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    Your word is clear, God, that you have promised that you are not going to allow us to be tempted beyond our ability.

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    Thank you, Father, for that individual care that you give for every one of your people.

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    God, I thank you that you provide the way of escape.

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    I just ask, Father, you give us eyes to see it.

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    Yes, we need to avoid situations where we might be tempted, but when we get in those situations, Father, show us very clearly the way out.

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    Father, above all, give us humility today, because I'm sure there's gonna be people walking out the door still thinking that it can't possibly happen to them when your word so clearly says otherwise.

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    Humble us, Father.

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    Give us the faith to humble ourselves.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, amen.

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Small Group Discussion
Read
1 Corinthians 10:1-13

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. In what ways has the church been blessed as Old Testament Israel was? How can these blessings make us feel exempt from being disqualified (i.e. no longer useable by God)?

  3. What does it mean to “test the Lord”? How can people do that today (1 Cor 10:9)?

  4. Why is complaining (1 Cor 10:10) such a serious sin in the ears of God?

  5. Many people, talking about trials, wrongly quote 1 Cor 10:13 by saying, “God doesn't give you any more than you can handle.” Explain why this statement is wrong when it comes to suffering. What is 1 Cor 10:13 actually saying?

Breakout

Pray for one another.

How Do I Control Myself?

Introduction:

How to Get Self-Controlled: (1 Corinthians 9:24-27)

  1. You Must Give Maximum EFFORT. (1 Cor 9:24)

    2 Peter 1:5-6 - For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control...

  2. You Must Be Motivated By the PRIZE. (1 Cor 9:25)

  3. You Must Have a PLAN. (1 Cor 9:26)

    The Plan for Self-Control:

    1. AVOID Situations Where You'll Be Tempted.

    2. ACCOUNTABILITY.

    3. Put OFF / Put ON.

  4. You Must Have a Healthy Fear of Being DISQUALIFIED. (1 Cor 9:27)

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  • 00:36-00:41

    Open up those Bibles to the book of 1 Corinthians, in chapter 9.

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    After a little break from 1 Corinthians to go through our Easter series about the offices of Jesus, Prophet, Priest, and King, we are back in 1 Corinthians.

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    Let's get caught up, let's review, for those of us who have been part of it, and for those of you who are visiting with us, of 1 Corinthians so far.

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    The first four chapters are about the church being united.

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    Paul's like, "You guys have to get it together.

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    You've got to stop the faction, stop your little clique, stop the divisiveness.

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    You guys have got to get it together." And then, chapters 5 and 6, he talks about the church purified, dealing with sexual sin in the church.

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    you guys got to get it together.

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    All right, and then when you get to chapter seven and beyond, 1 Corinthians sort of turns into a Q&A session.

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    Paul's like, okay, you had some questions for me and I'm gonna answer them.

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    And the first issue was about marriage and the issues that go with that singleness, intimacy, all of those things.

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    And then this last stretch we've been on before our little break was the issue of Should Christians eat the meat that was sacrificed to idols?

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    And that turned into a whole discussion where Paul says the mature believer is willing to lay down his rights or her rights for the sake of winning the lost.

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    And that takes us to chapter nine, verse 24, picking up where we left off last time.

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    So, I'd like you to just bow your heads and just take a moment and please pray for me.

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    To be faithful to clearly communicate the word of God, I'll pray for you to have a heart open to receive what it is.

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    The Lord has something for each of us in this passage today, all right?

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, as we turn to your word today, it's such an ironic concept because we think we're in control.

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    But when we insist on doing things our way, we actually aren't in control at all.

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    You've commanded us, Father.

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    You've empowered us to be self-controlled people.

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    And I pray for every single one of us in this room, everyone who's watching the stream, everyone who's going to be downloading the podcast later, everyone who encounters this teaching from your word, Father, every single one of us, please, by the wisdom of your word, by the power of your Spirit, make us different than the world.

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    Make us kingdom people who are self-controlled. To your glory and honor, We pray in Jesus' name.

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    And all of God's people said, "Amen." Amen.

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    When you drive home today, just be careful.

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    I'm not sure legally if I'm allowed to say anything, but I have a pastor friend who, driving home from Easter, was crashed into by a door dash driver.

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    And I was so confused when he told me.

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    I'm like, "I thought they just brought the food to your house." Like, "Ah." But there's a lot of maniacs on the road.

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    You're like, "Yeah, I'm one of them." But several years ago, Aaron bought me a tire cover for the back of my Jeep that says, "To God be the glory." And at first I thought, that's just a nice little witnessing tool or something, right?

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    but I found that it's had a much different effect than I was expecting.

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    That thing has given me a lot of self-control. Aaron's always reminding me in traffic, "Remember what the back of your Jeep says, remember what the back of your Jeep says, do not give that driver a thumbs down, remember what the back of your Jeep says." And the reality is we all need help with self-control, don't we? We You and I, we have an enemy.

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    And if you're not careful, this enemy is going to destroy you.

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    And your enemy is not some spiteful coworker, not some other student in your school, not some slanderous church member.

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    And I'm not even talking about the devil himself.

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    Your biggest enemy is you.

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    And if we're going to be honest with ourselves, which we certainly encourage, many of your problems ultimately find their root in a lack of self-control.

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    I mean, just think about the problems a person can have.

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    Think about the problems that you have.

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    How much of it comes from just a complete lack of self-control, right?

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    People dealing with issues of lust.

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    It's a lack of self-control.

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    People dealing with anger issues, fits of rage.

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    What do they say?

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    "I just lost control." Right.

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    People dealing with addiction issues.

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    Zero self-control, whether it's a chemical or a drink or food.

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    Lack of self-control.

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    For some people, it's spending.

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    They just spend out of control.

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    There's no budget, there's no discipline, there's no self-control.

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    For some of you, it's your words.

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    Like, man, I just, I say things and I joke about things, I'm determined I'm not gonna do that, and then I just kinda go with it and I don't have any self-control.

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    But church, God's word is absolutely clear on this.

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    Your walk with Christ is to be on a path of self-control.

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    Self-control is going to affect every single area of your life.

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    Do you want to feel like you're walking in victory with Christ?

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    It's a path of self-control.

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    Lack of self-control can affect your physical health.

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    Lack of self-control can affect your mental health.

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    How many people dealing with depression, at the very base of it is, they lack self-control.

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    Lack of self-control can affect your witness for Christ.

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    So in this passage we're looking at today, Paul is going to show us how to grow in spiritual self-control.

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    And Paul says you need to learn principles from an athlete.

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    And they tell you, you know, when you're in preaching class, you don't always want to go to a sports illustration in your sermon.

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    And Paul didn't get the memo about no sports illustrations because that's where he went.

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    So this illustration we're going to look at is a familiar analogy to the Corinthians.

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    They were a sports-dominated culture.

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    Sound familiar?

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    They had the It's Me In Games.

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    It was every two or three years, depending on who you read.

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    But they were like the Olympics.

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    And I found this fascinating.

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    The athletes in these games had to take an oath that they were going to train for ten months, including abstaining from eating anything unhealthy.

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    Okay?

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    Funyuns for 10 months. These people were dedicated. But it was even harder than that because the last 30 days before the event, they were required to be in the gym every single day. And the winner of the event got a pine wreath. Alright, with that as a background, let's look at what Paul says, we're going to read all of it and then go back, pick up some principles.

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    That is a background.

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    They knew what he was talking about here.

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    He says in verse 24, "Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize?

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    So run that you may obtain it.

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    Every athlete exercises self-control in all things.

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    They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we, an imperishable.

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    So I do not run aimlessly.

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    I do not box as one beating the air, but I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others, I myself should be disqualified.

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    It's obvious Paul's point here, right?

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    He says our life is like a race.

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    And we need to run our race in such a way that we are useful to God.

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    And to do that, Paul makes it very clear, we must be self-controlled.

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    We have to be willing to give up anything that's going to hinder our race.

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    So using this race metaphor, God gives us principles for self-control.

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    So if you're taking notes on your outline, I certainly encourage you to do that.

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    Just very simply, here's the point.

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    This is how to get self-controlled.

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    Number one, you must give maximum effort.

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    You must give maximum effort.

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    Look at verse 24 again.

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    He says, "Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize?" Here it is.

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    run, that you may obtain it." Now their race only had one winner. But this prize he's talking about in this passage is open to everyone because it's your own race. Listen, in this race you're not competing with anyone but yourselves. You're like, "What's this prize he's talking about? Only one receives a prize. I knew what it was for the athletes, but how How does this analogy translate spiritually?

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    What prize is he talking about here?

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    You know, when you read the Bible, you have to read it in context.

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    You know, too many people just pull a passage out and kind of run with it, but he's keeping the same train of thought going throughout this whole section.

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    What is the prize?

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    Well, in the previous section, he talked about being all things to all people.

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    Why? Why, Paul?

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    If you recall, he said he wants to win people.

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    Win people.

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    He said it five times.

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    Verse 19, verse 20, verse 21, verse 22.

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    Paul's like the Jews, those under the law, those outside the law, the weak.

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    I want to win lost people.

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    That's the prize in view here.

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    You see, the prize he's not talking specifically here about salvation, or heaven, or some believers' heavenly rewards specifically.

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    All of those are prizes for sure.

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    But specifically in this context, he's talking about people.

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    Specifically here, he's talking about winning lost people with the gospel.

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    You see, this flows from the thought of the previous passage where he says, "Holding on to your rights can make you lose your opportunity to share the gospel and win people.

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    So what's his point here with this analogy, with this illustration?

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    This is the whole point.

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    If you're concerned about winning the lost, listen, church, you have lost your audience.

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    You have ruined your opportunity to share.

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    You have shot yourself in the foot when you're trying to win someone to Christ, but they don't see Christ in you.

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    You see, if somebody looks at your life, somebody that you're trying to win to Christ, they look at your life and they see sin.

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    They see hypocrisy.

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    And you're telling them that they need Jesus like you need Jesus.

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    They're thinking, well, Jesus didn't seem do you any good.

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    You know, all your church, and all your Bible studies, and all your Sunday school didn't seem to help you at all.

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    So why would I be interested in that?

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    That's why Paul says, "Run that you may obtain the prize." Run that you may obtain the prize.

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    You're like, well, that's obvious, right?

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    I mean, you run like you're trying to win.

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    He's talking about putting forth the effort.

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    Isn't this kind of a no-brainer?

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    I mean, what athlete would show up and not try to win?

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    Who shows up to the event and puts no effort into it?

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    a lot of people.

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    Here's what I mean.

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    For example, Christian men say, "I'm struggling with looking at things on the computer that I shouldn't look at." And I've dealt with a lot of this over the years where men come to me and they're like, "I'm struggling with that!" And I'm like, "Okay, well, tell me about your struggle." Well, I do it every day.

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    Like, that's not a struggle.

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    You know what struggle implies?

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    Struggle implies that there is some effort going on to deal with it.

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    But to just sort of roll over and give yourself to some besetting sin, and be like, well, it's a struggle.

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    You're not struggling.

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    Just doing it in no way suggests there's any effort for self-control with any besetting sin.

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    Not just that one.

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    And that's what Paul's saying here.

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    This is where it has to start.

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    Look, church, you've got to make the effort.

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    You can't just go to bed and hope the self-control fairy shows up.

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    You have to make the effort.

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    You have to get to the place where you're like, look, I am in a race, okay?

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    And maybe I haven't been putting the effort in, but that changes today.

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    I'm gonna win.

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    Look, you're gonna get to the place in your life where you say, I'm not okay with living in defeat.

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    I'm not okay with that anymore.

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    This ends right now.

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    You gotta put forth the effort.

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    How are you doing there?

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    As you know, I coach my son's deck hockey.

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    We, I've done it for years.

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    And several years ago, at the time, actually, the GOAT was coaching with me, we had a couple players on our team.

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    Don't say their name.

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    We had a couple, they're gonna be watching this, we're like, "Hey!" We had a couple players on the team a few years ago, extremely high-skilled players.

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    And during the game, we noticed - Sean and I did - we noticed that these two players in particular, any time we had a line change, they'd go out on the deck.

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    It was somewhere between a walk and a trot.

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    And I'm like, "Sean, what's going on there?" And he's like, "What are they doing?" we called them over like next line change and we're like what's going on out there why are you guys are like barely moving out there everybody else like running and they're just like and they said well we got a we got a big important game with another league this weekend we don't want to risk getting hurt so Sean and I were like hey that's great we'll help you with that you can and just sit the rest of the game.

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    Because we're not putting players out there that aren't putting forth any effort.

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    We're not going to do that.

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    You're embarrassing yourselves and you're embarrassing the team.

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    But you know, those two young men had everything they needed to win.

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    They had their equipment on.

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    They had a great knowledge of the game.

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    They had a lot of experience.

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    what they didn't have that day? Effort. So you see, it doesn't matter what else they had. When there was no effort, it was game over before it started. It's like, why did you guys even show up? Why did you put your gear on and go on the deck if you don't want You don't have to make any effort.

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    And I think that describes a lot of Christians in their walk with Christ.

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    I mean, you come to church, you go to small group, you go to the men's conference, you go to the women's conference, and you show up.

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    You have everything you need to succeed, but there's just zero effort in the area of self-control.

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    It's a problem.

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    It's a problem.

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    Look what 2 Peter 1:5-6.

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    Same thing.

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    Look, "For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with..." Oh, oh, there it is again.

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    Self-control.

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    Yes, listen, I know.

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    Before you send me a text or an email, I know that self-control is a fruit of the Spirit.

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    I know that the only way that happens is if the Lord empowers you to do that.

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    I know that. Yes.

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    That is 100% true, and that is also another sermon entirely.

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    This is telling us right here.

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    This passage is telling us here, you and I are commanded to make every effort.

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    Are you doing that?

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    You must give maximum effort.

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    If you're not willing to do that, none of the rest of this sermon is going to apply.

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    But if you are willing to do that, if you're willing to say, "I'm done.

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    I'm done living in defeat." If that's you, great, let's keep going.

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    Number two, you must be motivated by the prize.

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    You must be motivated by the prize.

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    Look at verse 25 again.

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    Bless you.

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    "Every athlete exercises self-control in all things.

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    They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable." First of all, note, "every athlete." This isn't a passage for preachers and missionaries alone.

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    This is for you too.

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    And then notice he says self-control in all things.

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    All things.

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    Every area.

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    You have an area of your life right now where you're like, you know what, I think overall I'm doing good in my walk with Christ, but I do have this area where I'm not self-controlled.

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    Do you have that?

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    You need to stay motivated.

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    You've got to keep your eyes on the prize.

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    I like Paul's point here.

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    The comparison of the prizes.

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    Paul says here that these Greek athletes, all that training, right?

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    Ten months, 30 days, all that training.

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    And what do they win?

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    What do they win?

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    A Christmas decoration put on their head.

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    Hip, hip.

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    No.

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    No, not even close.

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    That's Paul's point, right?

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    He says, "They do all that for a lame prize." Talk about lame prizes.

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    In these past Olympics, didn't those medals like fall apart or something?

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    Wasn't there a whole thing like, "Hey, I've traded my whole life for this medal." Oh, and a stuffed animal, yay.

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    (audience laughing)

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    He goes, "It's a lame prize." It's like, you know, that's like several years ago, a bunch of guys from church, we went to, do you ever see those indoor places where you can throw the ax at the wood,

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    (imitates ax thudding)

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    when you're into the bulls eye,

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    (imitates ax thudding)

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    do you ever see these?

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    What's it called, the lumber jacks or something, or you know what I'm talking about?

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    The old ax throwing thing?

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    Well, a bunch of us went there, And there might've been some ladies there too, I don't remember, but here's what I do remember.

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    I won.

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    I won.

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    Yeah, thank you, the one person that's proud of me.

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    No, Tristan, just Tristan, just Tristan.

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    The rest of you, too late, thank you, Tristan.

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    I won.

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    Do you know what I won?

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    A sticker.

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    (Laughter)

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    I'm not even joking.

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    It's on my wastebasket in my office, the sticker.

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    That's what I want. And that's Paul's point here.

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    He goes, "They did all that training, all that competing, and all they got was a stupid wreath for their head." Paul's point here is, shouldn't we be more motivated?

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    Because our prize is winning people to Jesus.

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    We're talking about eternity, and we're talking about lost people who are going to suffer apart from the presence of God forever, and we have the opportunity to change that.

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    And look, if you've ever won someone to Christ, you know the humble joy that that brings.

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    And if you haven't, go do it.

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    And if you have, go do it again.

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    It's about winning people to Christ.

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    That's the prize.

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    That's the prize.

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    I know there are some people that are hearing this, and they're like, "Oh, that's the prize." Yet people aren't excited about the gospel because they aren't doing what makes the gospel exciting.

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    That's the problem in the church.

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    They're not living it, and they're not sharing it.

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    That's what makes the gospel exciting.

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    That's the prize.

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    I promise you, someday, someday, Christian, when you stand before the Lord, you're going to realize it was worth it.

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    You're going to stand before the Lord, you're going to say, "Jesus, You were worth it." You're going to say, "Jesus, every time I used the self-control you gave Me by the power of Your Spirit for the sake of imitating You, it was all worth it.

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    Every person that you reached, Jesus, through Me, that is now beholding Your glory and worshiping You for all of eternity, it's worth it.

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    There's a glorious victory celebration that's coming soon.

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    And Paul reminds us, keep your eyes on the prize.

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    Not some stupid wreath.

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    Perfecting eternity.

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    So keep control of yourself.

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    How to get self-control.

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    Maximum efforts.

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    Motivated by the prize.

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    Number three, you must have a plan.

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    You must have a plan.

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    Luke 26.

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    Paul says, "So, I do not run aimlessly.

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    I do not box as one beating the air.

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    I do not run aimlessly.

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    Track and field people, you know this, right?

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    When you show up for a meet, when you show up for a race, there has to be a track and a finish line, right?

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    You don't show up to the event, you're like, "I'm ready to run." They're just like, "Run wherever you want." Well, how do I know if I win?

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    That's his point.

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    I don't run aimlessly.

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    You got to stay on track.

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    You don't show up at the track meet and you just start running through the bleachers, running by the concession stand.

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    Well, this is my race.

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    No, no, no.

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    No track.

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    No finish line.

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    Likely, no effort.

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    Definitely no victory.

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    You have to have a plan to win.

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    Please hear me.

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    This is why many of you struggle with self-control.

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    Many of you struggle with self-control because you do not have a plan.

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    Here's what I mean.

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    You'll walk out of church today, and this is your big takeaway.

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    You'll say, "You know what?

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    He's right.

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    From now on I'm going to have self-control.

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    And you're going to leave it that vague, you're going to leave it that non-specific, and you're going to fail again.

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    Because you don't have a plan.

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    You're not being intentional.

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    You're running in a concession stand.

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    You have to have a plan.

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    So very quickly here, you're like, "Well, I don't know what the plan is." tells you what the plan is.

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    I'm going to give you the plan for self-control.

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    Start here, okay?

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    Three things, again, quickly.

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    We could spend a whole lot of time on these, but if you want to dig deeper, come and meet with one of our pastors.

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    We will be glad to walk through this with you.

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    But letter A, the plan for self-control.

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    Avoid situations where you'll be tempted.

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    We just talked about this recently in a message.

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    You know, I'd like to remind you, as I do often, I've never ever ever lost a fight to Mike Tyson.

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    Not once ever.

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    I have a perfect record against Mike Tyson.

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    Zero losses, thank you, thank you Tristan.

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    Tristan is the only person in this church that's proud of me.

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    I've never lost a fight to Mike Tyson, why?

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    Because I've never showed up.

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    Right, you have to avoid situations where you'll be tempted because I guarantee you if I would have showed up to fight Mike Tyson, my teeth would have been in the fourth row, okay?

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    you won't lose the fight if you don't show up.

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    So avoid situations where you'll be tempted.

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    Put up fences for yourself.

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    You're like, "Well, that sounds like legalism." Listen, it's okay to be a personal legalist.

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    It's okay.

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    Legalism is a problem when I start enforcing my convictions on you.

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    That's when it's a problem.

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    But when I have convictions and fences that I enforce on myself, that is healthy.

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    That is self-control.

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    You can be a personal legalist.

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    It's okay.

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    But avoid situations where you'll be tempted.

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    Letter B, how about accountability?

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    Accountability.

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    You should be in a small group.

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    You should have a trusted brother or sister in Christ.

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    Somebody that you can be open with.

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    Somebody that you can share your heart.

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    Where you're really struggling.

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    Where you really need prayer.

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    Where you really need them to check up on you.

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    You should have a two-way street with someone that way.

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    Someone that's not going to judge you or look down on you or be harsh with you, but somebody who's going to love you through it and encourage you.

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    And you do that for them.

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    Accountability.

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    The third plan for self-control.

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    Put off, put on.

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    Put off, put on.

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    This is all through the Bible, by the way.

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    This is a key piece in your personal discipleship.

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    This is a key piece in your walk with Christ.

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    Here's the short version.

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    The Bible doesn't tell you to just stop sinning.

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    The Bible tells us that you need to replace sinning with something good.

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    That's over and over and over in Scripture.

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    It's like, "Okay, stop sinning." No, no, no. Don't stop sinning.

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    Replace sinning.

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    Take the sin off and then replace it with something else.

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    If you've ever come to one of us for counseling, especially if you're dealing with a besetting sin, this is what we do, because this is what the Bible commands.

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    That besetting sin, okay, here's what we're going to do.

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    We're going to look at it the way God looks at it, and we're going to replace that sin with something else, with something that honors and glorifies God.

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    It's like the old story.

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    I've shared this with you before.

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    I didn't make this up.

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    This is ancient, but I love it because it's effective and I like dogs.

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    But this guy had two dogs.

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    He had a white dog and a gray dog.

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    And every time he let him off the leash to eat, that old gray dog, he just beat that white dog up and the gray dog got all the food. So over time the gray dog was getting stronger and stronger and the white dog not getting to eat was getting weaker and weaker and the guy's like this isn't working. So here's what he did he he leashed both dogs and for a season he gave the white dog all the best most Awesome dog food kibbles and bits and bits and bits and and the gray dog He barely gave enough food to keep it alive. It's just an illustration. It's made up. Do not call PETA But the guy says no for a season I'm only feeding the white dog So, you know what happened the white dog got bigger and stronger in the gray dog at that And that season got weaker and weaker. So when he let him off the leash guess which dog was stronger, right?

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    The point of the story is this, the dog that you feed is going to be the stronger dog.

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    And if you find in your life that you're constantly feeding your sin, whatever your sin, your besetting sin is, your sin tendency, if you're constantly feeding that, it's a lot harder if you don't want to do the right thing when you're constantly feeding doing the sinful thing.

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    Self-control is feeding the white dog.

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    I'm only going after the things that honor the Lord.

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    That's what I'm going after.

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    I'm not feeding my sin.

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    I'm feeding righteousness, so to speak.

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    That's the plan.

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    I want to remind you that self-control has to happen before you encounter temptation.

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    Self-control isn't, well, I hope if I encounter a temptation today, I hope I stand strong.

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    It's usually too late by then.

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    The work has to be done beforehand.

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    Decisions have to be made beforehand.

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    That's why Paul here says in the second part of the verse, "I do not box as one beating the air." Same principle, right?

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    Paul says I have a plan.

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    I stick to the plan.

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    I stay focused on the plan.

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    Like wait, wait, wait, wait.

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    Boxing? I thought we were talking about racing.

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    I thought we were talking about running.

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    boxing thing. You know that'd be a great new sport. Wouldn't that make the Olympics so much more interesting if the people that were running were also allowed to punch each other? Wouldn't that be awesome? You know, because you, right, as one person pointed out, you would have one guy that's like really fast and like he's not getting punched and he's probably gonna win but I think that everybody faster. And I think it would really make those middle-of-the-pack people... I think we need to get on this. So what's he talking about here? Well, Paul says, "Yeah, I'm still talking about racing, but while I'm running my race, I have an opponent who wants to knock me off track. I have this opponent that I I have to knock him out.

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    Like, who is that opponent, Paul?

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    And he's like, it's me.

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    I'm the biggest problem in my race.

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    My flesh is my biggest enemy.

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    Which is why number four leads us to this, you must have a healthy fear of being disqualified.

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    You must have a healthy fear of being disqualified.

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    Look at verse 27.

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    He says, "But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others, I myself should be disqualified." I was like, hey, hey, I control my body, not vice versa.

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    My body doesn't control me.

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    I tell my body what we're doing.

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    Paul, why are you so adamant about that?

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    Why are you coming in hot about self-control here?

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    What's your issue, Paul?" He tells us right here, he says, "Because I don't want to be disqualified." That's why.

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    You know, it's interesting, in these It's Me and Games, their Olympic Games, the whole The whole thing began with a herald.

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    They would have a guy who got up, he announced the contest.

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    He announced the games.

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    He announced the rules.

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    He announced the contestants.

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    And anyone who broke the rules was disqualified.

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    You're out.

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    We don't tolerate that.

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    And here's the point, church.

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    Paul here is telling us that the Christian is the herald and an athlete in the race at the same time.

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    Do you see why that's such an important point to make?

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    Paul is saying here, how embarrassing would it be You stood up and told everybody the rules, and then you got disqualified because you broke the rules.

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    How embarrassing would that be?

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    Oh, it's worse than embarrassing.

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    Because a ruined testimony discredits the gospel in the eyes of the unsaved.

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    It's Paul's point here.

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    He goes, "Look, you're no longer effective.

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    You're worthless when it comes to witnessing.

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    You've discredited yourself.

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    It's happened to too many.

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    It's happened to too many Christians.

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    It's happened to too many preachers.

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    You stand up and announce, and then you break the rules yourself.

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    Like, dude, shouldn't you have known more than anyone?

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    So you need another motivation for self-control?

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    You should have a healthy fear of failure.

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    And please, let's be clear, he is not, when he's talking about disqualification, he's not talking about your salvation.

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    Understand that.

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    You cannot lose your salvation.

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    If you are truly born again, I mean, if you are truly born again, you believe in Christ, you receive Christ, you believe in His death on the cross to take away your sins, If you believe He rose from the dead, He gave you the promise of eternal life, if you truly believe that, you are an adopted child of God.

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    You are sealed in the Holy Spirit and nothing can change that.

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    There is not a force in the universe that can change that.

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    And I see no language in the Bible that talks about being unadopted.

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    That talks about the seal of the Spirit being removed from you.

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    I don't see any language in the Bible about that.

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    He is not talking about losing your salvation.

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    You can't.

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    But, you can lose your ministry.

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    And if you're a believer, you know, that's one of the greatest losses that you can experience in this life.

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    Any ministry, however you serve God, Whatever you're doing for the king, you lose that.

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    You're like, "You know, I was partnering with the living God.

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    I was doing things that matter for eternity and it's over.

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    And I have no one to blame but myself because I just couldn't control myself.

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    And I got myself disqualified." on the outside looking in.

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    Watching other people do what used to give you so much purpose and joy.

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    You're disqualified.

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    You ruined your testimony.

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    You shattered people's trust in you.

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    You're no longer useful for ministry.

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    You're disqualified.

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    You should have a healthy fear of that.

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    You should always have it in the back of your mind what's at stake if you fail to be self-controlled.

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    If our worship team would come back up, I'd like you to just bow your heads, please.

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    I just want us to take a couple of moments.

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    I want us to take a couple of moments for prayer, self-evaluation.

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    You know, sometimes we get together and go to little groups and pray.

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    That's wonderful, but we're not doing that today.

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    Today, this is between you and the Lord.

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    Just you and the Lord.

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    Right now.

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    Is there any area of your life right now where you are not exercising self-control?

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    We talked about this not too long ago.

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    Confession.

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    Agreeing with God.

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    Do you need to do that today?

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    Agree with God.

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    Yeah, God, you know what?

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    This is an area, Father, where I have completely neglected to exercise any kind of self-control.

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    I just want to ask you today - your head's bowed - how much effort are you putting into this?

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    Can you honestly say you've been struggling with sin?

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    Or have you just been sort of letting sin walk all over you?

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    Are you putting forth any effort?

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    Do you realize the prize?

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    Oh, there are so many prizes.

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    Eternal life in the presence of our Lord, the rewards that come through faithful service, all of that, but specifically again, here he's talking about winning the lost in this whole section. He's talking about winning the lost. That's the prize. Changing eternity for people, winning people to Christ, should motivate us to repent of our hypocrisy. So Again, my friends, you don't want to walk out of here with some generic, "I'm going to try to be self-controlled." It's just not going to work.

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    You've got to have a plan.

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    Are you willing to put up fences for yourself to stay out of places where you know you're going to lose that fight if you walk in there?

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    Are you willing to get accountability?

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    Are you willing to replace that sin, that time, that energy, that effort you're putting into sin, will you put that into something that honors the Lord instead?

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    You're going to start feeding the white dog and stop feeding the gray dog.

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    What's your plan?

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    Remember what's at stake.

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    Oh yes, there's always shame and embarrassment in being found out that you've been living in some kind of unrepentant, besetting sin.

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    There's also forfeiting your ministry, disqualifying yourself, being completely ineffective for the kingdom because you were so unwilling to get with God.

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    Today's the day to put the flag in the ground, draw the line in the sand, whatever other metaphor you want to use, but today's the day.

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    We're changing things today.

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    Father in heaven, I pray for every single one of us who are called by Your name.

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    Father, we all have areas of our lives where we just have let it go.

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    We've made excuses.

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    We've not exercised any control.

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    Today, Father, let us be done with the excuses.

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    Give us a reality check on what's at stake.

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    The main thing, Father, is Your glory and honor.

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    So I pray today, Father, that we leave here recommitted that the light of Your Word, the and the light that comes from Your Holy Spirit would shine in all of the dark places in our hearts and minds and show us where we are not honoring You.

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    Father, let today be a day of confession and repentance.

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    Let us be people who actually show up to the race to win.

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    We thank You, Father, for the power that You give us to do that through Your Holy Spirit.

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    Give us the want to by that same power.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, Amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read
1 Corinthians 9:24-27

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. What strategies have you found effective to be self-controlled?

  3. Why do you think many Christians put little (or no) effort in self-control?

  4. The “prize” in this context is winning lost people. How is that a motivation to self-control?

  5. NO NAMES! – but do you know someone who disqualified themselves from ministry due to lack of self-control? How did you react to that news? How does this make an unbeliever think about the Gospel?

Breakout

Pray for one another. In what area are you struggling with self-control? What is your plan for change?

Why Should I Deny Myself?

Introduction:

Are You Committed to Winning People with the Gospel? (1 Corinthians 9:15-23)

  1. SACRIFICE: Do You Give Up Your Rights in Order to WIN People?

  2. STEWARD: Do You See Yourself as ENTRUSTED with the Gospel?

    2 Corinthians 5:19 - that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation.

  3. SHARER: Do You Know the Joy of Sharing the Blessings of the Gospel?

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    Open up those Bibles to 1 Corinthians 9.

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    While you're turning there, let's just take a moment.

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    I'm going to ask that you would please pray for me to proclaim the Word of God as I should.

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    And I will pray for you to have a heart open to receive what it is the Lord wants to teach us today.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father, we understand that what is about to happen is supernatural.

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    This isn't giving some TED Talk.

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    This is the proclamation of your eternal word that somehow your Holy Spirit works with your word.

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    to conform us into the image of your Son.

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    Father, I pray that you would do a mighty work in all of us this morning.

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    Thank you, Father, in advance for the work that you're going to do.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, Amen.

    01:22-01:24

    1 Corinthians 9, are you there?

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    Before we start this, Doug, did Taylor get paid this week?

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    He did not.

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    We don't usually do this publicly, but would you pay Taylor?

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    (congregation laughing)

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    You gotta keep the pastor humble, thank you, Doug.

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    You gotta keep the pastor humble.

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    Don't expect anything else for like a month.

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    You're gonna have to stretch it.

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    You got him the king-size Kit Kat, right?

    02:03-02:06

    Okay, then I don't wanna hear nothing about no second service.

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    You got plenty.

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    Don't be a hog.

    02:14-02:33

    When Erin and I were first married, we lived in town and we had a neighbor up the street that would often walk his dog right by our house and he would often stop in our front yard and let his dog do what dogs do on walks.

    02:35-02:37

    And there was no cleanup, by the way.

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    But this went on for some time and one day he was walking the dog up the street on the sidewalk in front of our house and Erin was outside and she said, "Hey, I'm buying you a shovel for Christmas." He got a little smile on his face and he goes, "So, you think I'd look pretty good with a shovel?" I think he thought that Erin was flirting with him.

    03:10-03:15

    And if so, that is a really weird pickup line to use.

    03:17-03:19

    Hey baby, you look good with a shovel.

    03:22-03:23

    It's pretty easy to miss the point, isn't it?

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    At least it was for him.

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    It was easy to miss the point.

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    And as we get to this next section in 1 Corinthians, I think that's what's going on here is I think Paul wanted to make sure that none of the Corinthians missed his point.

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    All right?

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    This is the Q&A section.

    03:44-04:03

    In this section in particular, they had asked him about eating meat that was used in pagan worship and they're like, "Well, it's just meat, but it bothers some of the weaker Christians that are, you know, just kind of fresh coming out of paganism." So what do we do about that, Paul?

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    Paul says, "You are free." But love says, "I will lay down my rights so that I don't offend a weaker brother." And then Paul, led by example, that's what we saw last week.

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    Paul goes, "Look, I'm showing you an example from my own life.

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    I have every right to be paid to preach." And he went through all the reasons it is legitimate for the pastor to get paid.

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    He gave us five very compelling reasons.

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    "Yes, the pastor should be paid." He said, "That's a right that I have.

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    That's a freedom that I have, but I'm laying it down for the sake of the gospel." And I think when you get to this point in chapter 9, Paul knew that some of the Corinthians were going to miss the point, and Paul's talking about paying the pastor, paying the pastor, while you pay the past year's while and they're like, "Ah, um. Yeah, Paul, we asked about meat. That was what we asked about. It's a bigger issue. It's not about the meat." "Oh, not about the meat. Oh, oh, this is about getting paid to preach. No, no, no, it's not about the money. That's like saying the fall of man. That's like saying Adam's sin in the Garden of Eden is a story about fruit trees. You missed the point.

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    The bigger issue is this, examining how does what I do affect somebody else?

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    That is the issue.

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    It's about not letting anything be an obstacle to not only loving a weaker brother, but winning people to Christ.

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    people to Christ. How high of a priority is that for you? I mean, can we just take an honest assessment today? How often do you think about winning somebody to Christ. How committed are you to personal evangelism? I thought so much about this this past week. And I want you to hear what I'm saying here because this isn't pack your bags we're going on a guilt trip. This is deeply convicting to me. And I'm right here with you, church. Please hear me, corporately and individually, corporately and individually, church, we are distracted and we are insulated.

    07:29-07:36

    We are, first of all, distracted. We're distracted. We are so distracted. Winning people to Christ, What are you talking about?

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    Oh yeah, I guess that is a thing.

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    I've been so distracted, distracted with good things.

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    Work and sports and home projects.

    07:48-07:53

    There is so much that demands our attention.

    07:56-08:00

    I think especially in a church like ours, we're insulated.

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    How much of our lives revolve around going to church, going to small group, going to event at the church.

    08:11-08:20

    And then when we're not at Harvest Bible Chapel, we are sending our kids to Christian school, or we volunteer at a Christian school.

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    And all of that is great stuff, obviously.

    08:26-08:31

    But I have to ask, how often are we even interacting with lost people?

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    I think we're insulated.

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    Look, there's so much.

    08:42-08:48

    There's so much that this church does so well when it comes to discipleship.

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    We have an excellent small group ministry.

    08:55-09:02

    We just had two excellent conferences, one for the men last month, one for the women yesterday.

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    Excellent.

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    Our giving to missions, I've never seen a church like this one.

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    Whether it's the Vision Appalachia or Thailand or somebody taking a short-term trip, our Forgiving to missions is excellent.

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    But when we get to this passage, we have to ask ourselves, "When was the last time that you led somebody to Christ?

    09:37-09:39

    When was the last time that happened?

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    When was the last time that you even shared the gospel with someone?

    09:45-09:51

    When was the last time that you even invited somebody to come to church to hear the gospel here?

    09:56-09:58

    Are you committed to personal evangelism?

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    Not just talking about the church at large, obviously that is a concern for me.

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    I'm talking about you as an individual.

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    Are you committed to that?

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    Look down at verse 23 here in chapter 9.

    10:16-10:27

    Paul says, "I do it all for the sake of the gospel." Paul says, "Everything in my life revolves around the gospel.

    10:27-10:41

    Everything in my life revolves around winning people to Christ." And this verse has a very special place in my heart because our missionary in Thailand, This is His verse.

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    This is the verse that fuels everything that He does.

    10:46-10:55

    Several years ago, He was at our house and He was talking to Erin and I about how this verse fuels everything in His ministry.

    10:55-10:58

    "I do all things for the sake of the gospel." He kept going back to that.

    10:58-11:04

    "I do all things for the sake of the gospel." Twenty-three churches, four children's homes, a Bible institute.

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    I do all things for the sake of the gospel." That's how that mission started, by the way.

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    Do you know how that started?

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    It was Barnabas, this Burmese man going through the northern mountain jungles of Thailand looking for villages.

    11:22-11:30

    Looking, looking for lost people in the middle of the jungle and finding a village and walking in and just sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ with them.

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    That's how that started.

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    All things for the sake of the gospel.

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    He is like spiritually hilarious to talk to.

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    He was telling me recently about a telemarketer that was calling to try to sell him on some kind of goofy energy pills or something.

    11:50-11:52

    And do you know what he told her?

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    The gospel!

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    He told her the gospel.

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    He also told me, this was just a couple weeks ago.

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    He had a couple guys show up to pump their septic tank.

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    And do you know what he told them?

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    The gospel, yeah.

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    One of my favorite stories, he had to get some sound equipment.

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    They do this big outdoor Christmas program as an outreach.

    12:20-12:25

    It's kind of like open air preaching and the Lisu tribe, they're dancers and there's this whole thing, right?

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    But he had to get like this PA system.

    12:28-12:35

    So he goes into the store, the electronics store, where they sell these things, and he wants to buy one.

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    He goes, "I wanna try it out." Remember this, Justin?

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    He goes, "I wanna try this out." And they're like, "Okay, you can try it out." He's like, "I wanna make sure it works." So they fire up this PA system, and he gets on the microphone, and do you know what he says?

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    "He proclaimed the gospel to the whole store!" I'm gonna give you the short version of the story, I don't have time to get into all of it, but he told me about a village across the border that was guarded by four armies that needed fish.

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    And he took them fish, and I said, "How did you keep the fish from spoiling?" He's like, "What are you talking about?

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    "What do you mean spoil?" I'm like, "Well, he said it took him 10 days "to walk through the jungle with these fish." I'm like, "Fish is gonna get bad after a while." He goes, "No, no, no, no, no, no, live fish." I'm like, "How did you take live fish?" And then it hit me.

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    I said, "Hang on, hang on.

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    "Did you carry bags of water full of fish "through the jungle for 10 days "to take fish to a village?" And as a matter of fact, he just says, "Yeah, they needed fish." You carried an aquarium through the jungle for 10 days.

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    He's like, "They needed fish." Why would somebody do something like that?

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    What would possess a man to do something like that?

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    I'll tell you what possesses a man.

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    He does all things for the sake of the gospel.

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    He says, "The reason I'm taking these fish to them is it's going to open the door for me to share the gospel with them." Who does something like that?

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    A person who wants to win people to Christ, that's who.

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    So what about you?

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    Do you love lost people?

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    You're like, "Man, I guess I don't love lost people like that." Now, this section here in 1 Corinthians shows us what the heart of an evangelist looks like.

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    I think there's something here for all of us.

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    I just want to go through the text, and then I want to go back and pick up some of the key principles that motivated Paul here, but let's pick up in verse 15.

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    Paul says, "But I have made no use of any of these rights." He didn't use his right to get paid to preach.

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    That's what he's talking about.

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    Like, why didn't you do that?

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    Well we talked about that.

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    Paul didn't want anybody to think that he was using some new religion to try to get rich.

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    He didn't want people to assume that he had bad motives.

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    Time out here for a second.

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    They're like, "Well, if Paul had this conviction, why didn't the other apostles have this conviction?" I mean, it makes sense, but why didn't the others have this conviction?

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    And the answer is very simple.

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    Paul was the apostle to the Gentiles.

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    He was reaching pagan people.

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    That Peter and the rest that were going to the Jews, the Jews already had this system in place about paying the spiritual leaders.

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    That wasn't a weird concept to them.

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    Paul going to the Gentiles, it was a different ball game.

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    All right, look, keep going to verse 15.

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    He says, "Nor am I writing these things "to secure any such provision." Paul's like, "I'm not writing this to you "to secure provision." Like, what's he mean by that?

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    Paul's saying, "To be clear, "I'm not trying to use reverse psychology here "to make you pay me." All right?

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    Paul's like, "I'm not trying to be like, "Well, you know, I'm just out here preaching for free." And then you're like, "Oh, poor Paul, preaching for free.

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    "We should pay him.

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    "He shouldn't have to do that.

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    "We should pay him." Paul's like, "I'm not trying to reverse psychology you, okay?

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    "This isn't, I'm not throwing this out there "so that you're convicted to pay me." He goes, "That's not it at all." All right, go on.

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    He says, "For I would rather die than have anyone deprive me of my ground for boasting." Wow.

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    Paul says, "I would rather die than somebody accuse me of using the gospel to rip people off." But what's this boasting thing?

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    You see that?

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    He says, "Deprive me of my ground for boasting." So that word for boasting literally is rejoicing.

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    Usually when we hear boasting we have a bad connotation with that.

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    The word literally is rejoicing.

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    Okay?

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    And boasting is really not a bad thing, it just depends on what you're boasting in.

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    Because we're called to boast in the Lord, right?

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    But the question is, what is Paul's ground for boasting?

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    What is it?

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    What's he boasting about?

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    What about this is occasion for boasting?

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    Well, first he tells us what it's not.

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    Look at verse 16, he says, "For if I preach the gospel, that gives me no ground for boasting.

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    For necessity is laid upon me.

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    Woe to me if I do not preach the gospel.

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    If I do this of my own will, I have a reward, but if not of my own will, I am still entrusted with a stewardship." He says, first of all, the boasting is not about preaching the gospel.

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    Let's get that off the table.

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    That's not...because that's not in the actual preaching the gospel itself.

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    I'm not like boasting in the opportunity to preach, because you realize, church, the gospel leaves no room for boasting, right?

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    You can't earn your salvation not by what you do, not by who you are, not by who you You know, you cannot do a thing to earn your salvation.

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    You can't do a thing to make God happy with you because you are a guilty, rebellious sinner before the eyes of your holy creator.

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    That's reality.

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    There is not a thing that we can do.

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    We are guilty of sin.

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    But God, because of His great love, He's given us grace.

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    God says, "Because I love you, I am providing salvation, not through what you do, but through what my son did on your behalf." It is a gift, and when you receive a gift, there is no room for boasting.

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    So okay, so what is the reward?

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    What is it?

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    Well, he tells us, look at verse 18.

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    He says, "What then is my reward?

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    That in my preaching I may present the gospel free of charge, so as not to make full use of my right in the gospel." See, Paul says, "You know what thrills me?

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    Do you know what I'm really like fired up about?

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    It's this.

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    There's this one thing, this one thing that I can choose to do, and that is to preach the gospel for free." In other words, Paul is saying, "God's not making me do this.

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    God's not making me lay down my right to be paid." Paul goes, "I chose that.

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    That is my contribution.

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    That is Paul's contribution to the kingdom.

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    I choose to do it for free." He's so excited in this passage.

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    He's so excited to forfeit his rights so he can preach.

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    Paul's like, it is such a joy for me that I have the ability to love people in a unique way.

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    That I can give to them and not get a thing in return from them.

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    That is such a joy for me!

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    Right now, somebody's like, look good with a shovel.

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    I don't get it. I don't get it.

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    Who gets joy from denying themselves something that they are rightfully entitled to?

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    Who does that?

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    The person who wants to win people to Christ, that's who.

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    Verse 19, he goes on, "For though I am free from all, "I have made myself a servant to all "that I might win more of them." He's like, I'm free, I'm a child of God.

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    My salvation is not based on my performance, but I made myself a servant for the sake of winning people.

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    Paul is always about winning people.

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    And Paul would do anything to win someone to Christ.

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    He found so much joy that he could give up his rights to win people to Christ.

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    So what does that look like, to lay down your rights in order to share the gospel?

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    What does that look like, to lay down your rights for the sake of evangelism?

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    Well, he tells us what it looks like.

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    Look at verse 20.

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    He says, "To the Jews, I became as a Jew in order to win Jews.

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    To those under the law, I became as one under the law, though not being myself under the law, that I might win those under the law." So Paul says, let me tell you what that's like.

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    When I'm with the Jews, I'm not going to violate the law in front of them.

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    Paul saying, "I'm not going to walk into the synagogue eating a ham sandwich in front of them.

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    That would really offend them.

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    Like, "Look, I'm free in Christ.

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    I can eat a ham sandwich." Like, he goes, "I would never do something like that." I mean this is all through the book of Acts.

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    All throughout, you see in Acts chapter 15 with the Jerusalem council, that's what that whole thing was about.

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    You see it in Acts chapter 16, that was an interesting story.

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    Paul had Timothy circumcised.

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    Like why?

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    So Timothy can get saved?

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    No, no, no, that has nothing to do with that.

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    Paul had Timothy circumcised so that they didn't offend the Jews that they were trying to win.

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    Boy, that had to have been an awkward exchange, don't you think?

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    Did you imagine?

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    Paul's like, "I will do whatever it takes to win people!" And Timothy's like, "Yeah!" And Paul's like, "Make any sacrifice for the gospel!" And Timothy's like, "Yeah!" And Paul's like, "Circumcise Timothy!" And Timothy's like, "What?" Paul's like, "Are you committed or not?" That's the point, though.

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    Anything.

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    What's it going to take?

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    What's it going to take?

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    He goes on, verse 21, he says, "To those outside the law, I became as one outside the law," being outside the law of God, but under the law of Christ, clarifying. We'll talk about that more in a minute. He says that I might win those outside the law. You see, you also see that in Acts, right? When Paul was with the Gentiles, he acted like the Gentiles.

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    Not in a sinful way, but he assimilated with them. You see it in, what is it, Acts 17.

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    Paul quoted one of their poets.

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    It was a bridge.

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    He goes, "You know what one of your poets says?

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    Ah, he was on to something." And he uses that as a bridge, but he assimilated with them.

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    That's what he's talking about.

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    Verse 22, he says, "To the weak I became weak that I might win the weak.

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    I have become all things to all people that by all means I might save some." The weak.

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    We've been talking about the weak.

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    These are the baby Christians.

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    These are the people that are coming out of paganism.

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    It's just so hard to let go of things that we were so used to.

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    And that's what really the whole meat issue was about, right?

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    And Paul goes, "Oh, if eating meat is a problem for them, I will be a vegan." And then we land on verse 23.

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    Here it is.

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    I do it all for the sake of the gospel that I may share with them in its blessings." That's the thesis.

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    That's the thesis of the passage.

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    That's the thesis of Paul's whole life.

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    Everything I do is for the gospel.

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    Is that the thesis of your life?

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    You see the passion for winning lost people in the past?

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    Did you see it?

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    Don't miss it.

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    You think I'd look good with a shovel, don't miss it.

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    It's passion for the lost.

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    So on your outline, I just want you to draw some things down here.

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    You see, three big ingredients, three things that motivated Paul that I have to ask myself and you have to ask yourself.

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    Are you committed to winning people with the gospel?

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    Are you?

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    Are you?

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    Are you committed to winning people with the gospel?

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    The first ingredient, it's the most obvious one, right?

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    It's sacrifice.

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    Sacrifice, do you give up your rights in order to win people?

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    Do you give up your rights in order to win people?

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    Again, Paul found laying down a freedom for the sake of the gospel to be an absolute joy.

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    He goes, "I will go along with whoever I'm with.

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    Gray areas, I'll give up anything that might cause an offense." You're like, "Wait, wait, so you're saying that you win people by accommodating them?" No, that's not what we're saying at all.

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    You accommodate yourself so that you have the right to speak to people.

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    That's what he's saying.

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    If you offend somebody because you insist on your freedom, you lost the audience.

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    They're not going to hear you.

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    That's what he's talking about, removing anything that would offend.

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    What does that look like today?

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    Here's a few examples today of what that could look like.

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    Let's say you have some Catholic friends that you've been witnessing to, and you know that they're faithful Catholics, but you're not sure if they truly know Christ.

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    And it's Lent season, and you invite them over to your house for dinner on a Friday.

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    You're not serving hamburgers.

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    You see?

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    You're gonna offend them right out the gate, and they're not gonna hear you.

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    Let's say you have some Muslim neighbors, and it's summertime, and you're like, "I wanna reach them with the gospel.

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    "I wanna have an opportunity to share Jesus with them." You invite them over to your house for a barbecue.

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    You're not having pork at your barbecue.

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    You offend them, you've lost your audience.

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    Let's talk about the big one.

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    Is there any issue in our day that really quickly brings offense?

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    Can you think of anything?

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    Say anything at all.

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    Anything at all that you could mention that people would immediately get offended.

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    Politics, right?

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    Let's say that you have a neighbor that is a true blue Democrat and you are of the MAGA persuasion.

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    This isn't a political statement, okay?

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    This is an illustration.

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    But if you're inviting your hardcore Democrat friend to your house, you're putting away the MAGA stuff, okay?

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    You're not wearing your little red ball cap to the dinner table.

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    Why would you want to offend them over something you don't need to offend them over?

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    It works the other way too, by the way.

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    If you're a Democrat and you have a Republican friend over, take down your Bernie Sanders banner.

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    By the way, it's 2026.

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    You've needed to take that down anyways.

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    And I think one of the biggest places where we're so quick to offend people is in social media.

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    Look, if you're one of these social media people, yes, post your Bible verses, sure.

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    Post your excerpts from the devotional.

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    But can I tell you this just lovingly?

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    Stop posting all the political garbage, because you know what you're doing?

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    You're losing half your audience.

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    And someday you're going to want to tell them about the gospel.

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    Someday you're going to have an opportunity, and they're not going to want to hear it because they know that you're on the other side of the political aisle, and we know that automatically makes you a demon.

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    Either way, all things to all people.

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    Not compromising the gospel.

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    We have to be clear about that.

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    Not compromising the gospel.

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    Church, this is a call for discernment.

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    You have to discern what is optional and what is not.

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    Some things are not optional, right?

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    Some things are not optional, like the truth, like Jesus, like the gospel, like God's command to repent, God's command to believe, not optional.

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    Truth is not optional.

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    You know what else is not optional?

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    walk." Meaning, in no way is Paul saying, he made this very clear, that you should sin to fit in. Right? You think, "Oh, I'm gonna win them. I'm gonna be just like them.

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    We're gonna get into the crude anatomy jokes so he'll know I'm one of the boys." No. No. Gossip. Well, they're all gossiping. I jump in the gossip with them. No.

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    Getting drunk. No. We're not compromising our walk. That's not optional. But there are some things that are optional. Like we've said, food, music played. Maybe you know they have a big issue with tattoos, and you go to tattoo, you wear long sleeves and cover it up, so you don't offend them.

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    Nothing at the expense of the gospel, nothing at the expense of being an ambassador of Christ, but if it's a gray area that might offend, I'll always seek to take the high road, because committed to winning people means committed to giving up your rights. So that's the first S and these are all alliterated. I get paid more when that happens. The second S is steward. What are the ingredients? What are the ingredients of somebody that's committed to people with the gospel? The second one is steward. Do you see yourself as entrusted with the gospel? Do you see yourself as entrusted with the gospel. Look at verse 17 again. The very last phrase, he says, "I am still entrusted with a stewardship." God is trusting you to give this out. He's trusting you. You got a Bible on your lap? He's trusting you with that, to give it out. You're entrusted. Like, "Well, yeah, that's good for Paul. I mean, he obviously was. What about the rest of us? He ropes us all in." Look at 2 Corinthians 5.19. Look, that is, "In Christ, God was reconciling the world to Himself, not counting their trespasses against them, thanks to Jesus.

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    Look at this last phrase, "and entrusting to us, us, the message of reconciliation." Do you realize how awesome that is?

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    That the God of the universe, your Creator and your Savior said, "Here, here, here is the message that's going to forgive sin.

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    Here is the message that's going to transform people.

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    Here is the message that's going to save people from hell.

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    Here it is.

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    Here it is.

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    And I'm giving it to you.

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    Do you know the gospel?

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    You know it?

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    If you do, that means that God's entrusting you to make sure that people hear it.

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    He's trusting you with it.

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    You know, last week, Bob Brown and Jesse Boggs went down to deliver some boxes that were packed.

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    Our small groups donated boxes for the needy that were given out through the ministry Vision Appalachia.

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    And to nobody's surprise, they packed way more boxes than our target goal, right?

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    How many boxes were sent, Bob?

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    250.

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    How many were asked, like, we were shooting for like 25 or something from this church, right?

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    And didn't we get like, we got 30.

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    All right.

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    Nobody's shocked, Bob.

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    Nobody's shocked.

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    Again, you guys are so generous.

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    But Bob and Jesse took the boxes down.

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    Let me ask you, they had the U-Haul trailer right out here.

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    Bob, want you another van we had out here?" With all these boxes with the donations for Vision Appalachia, let me ask you this.

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    Did Bob and Jesse have a choice in what happened with those boxes?

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    Did they have a choice what would happen with them?

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    No.

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    No.

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    Not convinced of that?

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    Okay.

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    What if Bob would have drove that U-Haul back to his house and him and Jesse threw the mother of all block parties with those supplies.

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    Would you have been like, "Good for you, Bob.

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    Live it up." Is that what you would have said?

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    You would have been like, "What are you doing?

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    That was given to you to give to them.

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    What are you doing?" We trusted that stuff to them, and they are faithful stewards.

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    They got it where it needed to go.

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    principle here, church.

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    God is trusting you with His message.

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    You don't have a choice.

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    Like, I don't really feel like a steward.

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    You are a steward.

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    God did not give you the option to keep it to yourself.

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    He didn't give you that option.

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    And somehow we get saved and down the road we forget and we get all self-focused and all we care about is our walk with Christ.

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    I'm going to tell you, it's so convicting to me, you know, you plant a church because you want to win lost people for Christ.

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    You want to win lost people, and then you get down the road, you know what we end up doing?

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    We end up swapping complaining sheep with other churches.

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    That's what we end up doing.

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    The guy complaining about his last church is now here, and the person leaving this church complaining about this one is going there, and we call that doing gospel ministry.

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    You know, we're talking about putting up this new building, an opportunity to win more people to Christ, but are we winning people to Christ here and now?

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    If we're not passionate for the gospel and reaching lost people here and now, what makes us think that we're going to get this new building and all of a sudden we're going to be magically converted into evangelists.

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    Committed to winning people means you've got to see yourself as entrusted with the gospel.

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    You're a steward.

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    The third S, number three, is shareer.

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    a word. You know how I know it's a word? Is my computer didn't give me a red squiggly line underneath it when I typed it. And in my world, that's a word. Share.

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    Do you know the joy of sharing the blessings of the gospel? Look, there is there is nothing more exciting than leading someone to Christ. Have you ever done that? If you have, you know, right? If you have, you know. There is nothing more exciting than that, seeing them baptized and knowing that God used you to reach somebody for eternity. There is nothing in the world greater than that.

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    Look at verse 23 again. This is the verse, "I do it all for the sake of the gospel," look, "that I may share with them in its pleasures," in its blessings, excuse me, "share with them and its blessings.

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    Think of everything you've experienced as a follower of Jesus.

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    Everything you experienced, think of it.

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    If you're a Christian, you get it.

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    You know the forgiveness of sin.

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    God will never hold your sins against you.

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    You know the joy that comes, the peace that you have no matter how horrible things get, The comfort God gives you in the tragedies of life, the fellowship of the church, oh and the hope of heaven that our best days are ahead of us.

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    Everything you experience as a Christian, to go to somebody that doesn't have that and say you can have all of that too.

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    Sharing the blessings, that should be a natural inclination, you know?

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    You know?

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    It's like, imagine this scenario.

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    Imagine Erin and I are at a restaurant and we order different dishes, something neither of us have ever had before, but we got different things.

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    And I take a bite and I'm like, this is the best thing I've ever tasted.

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    I gotta be sure.

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    And I take another bite.

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    I'm like, yeah, verified.

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    This is the best thing I've ever tasted in my life.

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    What's the next part of that story?

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    Oh, oh, Erin goes, "Can I try it?" I'm like, "No, eat your own." That's not how the story goes, is it?

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    That's not how it goes.

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    The story goes like this.

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    This is the best thing I ever had in my life.

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    Erin, you have got to try this.

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    You have got to try this.

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    And she's like, "I don't want to try it." You're trying it.

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    That's actually happened, hasn't it?

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    Both ways.

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    I'm like, she's like, this is so, I don't wanna try that.

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    Erin's like, you know, next thing you know, she's like, the fork can go in your mouth or in your forehead, pick one.

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    You gotta try this.

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    See, when you have something, when you experience something so glorious, so beautiful, there's something in you that wants to share that.

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    God put that in us.

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    That's how it is with the gospel, by the way, to that lost person.

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    Like, bro, you have got to get in on this.

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    You have got to get in on all of the blessings that comes in the gospel, knowing Jesus, the fellowship of the church, serving Him locally and in international missions, worshiping Him together, oh, and heaven, we'll get to share that one for all of eternity.

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    One of your greatest joys in life should be winning people to Jesus and sharing in the blessings of knowing Him.

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    Because committed to winning people means sharing in the blessings of the gospel.

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    Our worship team would make their way back up front.

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    Next week, our Easter series begins.

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    I don't really like the word Easter.

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    It doesn't mean anything to me.

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    I call it Resurrection Day, but you know what I mean.

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    Our Easter series begins next week, and it's a season where talking about Jesus and inviting someone to church is going to be much more natural. God is entrusting you to share the blessings of the gospel. Will you do whatever it takes to win someone? Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, I confess before you in front of my brothers and sisters here that this passage tears me up because we look at the life of Paul and we look at the life of like Barnabas today, we look at people like that and we see Father Such passion to win lost people and we look inwardly and don't see that in ourselves sometimes, a lot of times. Father we come to you because you're the God who changes us, you're the God who transforms us, and I pray Father, I just pray simply this, that you would stir in the hearts of all of your people here to have the same mindset of Paul, an attitude of sacrifice, an attitude of being a steward, and the joy that comes in sharing the blessings of Christ.

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    Stir that spirit in us, Father, so that evangelism isn't some mechanical, obligatory thing that we think we have to do, but it's just so natural for us to to share the glorious gospel of Jesus Christ.

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    It's in his name that we pray, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read
1 Corinthians 9:15-23

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. How would you respond to someone who says, “I don't really share the Gospel with anyone. I don't know what to say.”?

  3. Reread 1 Cor 9:17. What does Paul mean that he was “entrusted with a stewardship.”? Is that true of all Christians? See 2 Corinthians 5:19.

  4. What are the “blessings to be shared” when you win someone to Christ (1 Cor 9:23)?

Breakout

When was the last time you shared the Gospel with someone or invited them to church? What happened? 

Who has God put on your heart to win with the Gospel? What are you doing about it?

Pray for one another.

Should Pastors Be Paid?

Introduction:

5 Reasons Pastors Should Be Paid: (1 Corinthians 9:1-14)

  1. It's COMMON Sense. (1 Cor 9:7)

  2. It's a CONCERN in the Law. (1 Cor 9:8-11)

    1 Timothy 5:17-18 - Let the elders who rule well be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching. For the Scripture says, “You shall not muzzle an ox when it treads out the grain,” and, “The laborer deserves his wages.”

  3. It's CLAIMED By Others. (1 Cor 9:12)

  4. It's a CUSTOM from the Old Testament. (1 Cor 9:13)

  5. It's COMMANDED By Jesus. (1 Cor 9:14)

    Luke 10:7for the laborer deserves his wages.

    Matthew 10:10 - the laborer deserves his food.

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    Open up those Bibles to 1 Corinthians 9.

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    The title of today's message is, "Should Pastors Be Paid?" Yeah.

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    I'd like to invite the worship team to come back up as we close.

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    If you want to worship through giving, the offering.

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    You're like, "You better earn that pay." Fair, fair.

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    You know, I was associate pastor for 11 years.

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    And one of the things that I did was run the Wednesday night program.

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    It was pioneer clubs like Awana's.

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    But I'll never forget one girl who was lifelong member of the church from forever.

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    She the one little girl came up.

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    She goes, "Pastor Jeff, where do you work?" And I'm not gonna say her name 'cause she's an adult now and might be watching this, but I said, "Well, you know where I work.

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    "I'm one of the pastors here at the church." She just rolled her eyes.

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    She goes, "I know that, but I mean, where do you work?

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    "Like, what's your job?

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    "Like, what do you do to get paid?" I'm like, "You know, just when you start "to feel pretty good about yourself." Along comes some kid to bring you right back down to earth, right?

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    Where do you work?

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    Many people hold that opinion, right?

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    I mean, being a pastor isn't really work.

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    You know, my favorite, you only work for one hour a week.

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    And you know what?

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    I've heard that so many times.

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    I'm quick to correct people on that.

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    I'm like, "No.

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    I don't work the whole hour.

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    My part's only like 35 minutes.

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    I work 35 minutes a week." So should pastors be paid?

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    When you bring it up, people get weird.

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    People get weird.

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    Everybody's evaluating the pastor's car.

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    Everybody's evaluating the pastor's house.

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    Everybody's evaluating the pastor's clothes.

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    How much is he making?

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    You know nobody does that for other professions, right?

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    Like for example, if somebody here is a nurse and you pull up to church driving a Boxter, what are people gonna say?

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    "Good for her, good for her.

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    Wow, I am so happy for her.

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    If I drove up driving a Porsche, what are people gonna say?

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    How much is he making?

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    I've heard a lot of things over the years, statements people have made, their little evaluations on how pastors should be paid.

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    I just want to share a couple with you.

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    Just this is, these amuse me.

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    But one person told me this regarding how a pastor should be paid.

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    He said, "A pastor shouldn't make more "than the lowest paid congregant." So we should find out who in the church makes the least and that should determine the pastor's salary.

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    Because after all, the pastor shouldn't make more than anybody else in the church.

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    I had one guy tell me this.

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    He goes, "I have a real problem "with preachers getting paid by the church." And I said, "What's the issue with that?" He goes, "Think about it this way.

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    "You teach tithing, right?

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    "10%." I'm like, "I'm following you." He goes, "Okay, so if 10 people give 10%, "now automatically the pastor's making "more than everybody in the church." And I'm like, you're gonna have to back up here 'cause you lost me somewhere on that math.

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    I mean, does that math work out?

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    Should pastors be paid?

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    Awkward.

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    Right, it's an awkward subject.

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    Can we just get that under, it's an awkward subject to stand up and preach about.

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    You're like, well then why are you?

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    Because we're going through the book of 1 Corinthians and guess what the subject is of this next section that we are going in?

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    "Should pastors be paid?" Yeah, it's going to be awkward to talk about, but you don't be more awkward than that, skipping it.

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    Right?

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    Because didn't God put it in His Word for a reason?

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    And we don't skip anything here.

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    So we're going after it.

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    We're just going to go after it.

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    Should pastors be paid?

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    The Bible is clear, yes.

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    But some ministers, you know, they live lavishly, and they demand that the church pay for the their extravagant lifestyle, and that is wrong.

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    But we can't just disregard what the Bible says just because some people have abused the privilege.

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    This section here, we're in 1 Corinthians, it's about liberty.

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    You're like, "Well, what is liberty?" It's this, you know, to be saved means that you have to turn from your sin and receive Jesus Christ.

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    And when you receive Him, you believe that Jesus died for your sin, when you believe that Jesus resurrected from the dead, when you believe that, the Bible says you are adopted as a child of God.

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    And nothing can change that.

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    Nothing can separate you from the love of God in Jesus Christ.

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    Nothing.

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    When you are saved, you are saved as a gift of God's grace.

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    Nothing can change that.

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    So understand your salvation is not performance-based.

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    So that means there's nothing you can do.

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    If you're saved, there's nothing you can do that would disqualify you from being a child of God.

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    It's not performance-based.

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    So the extreme view of that is, well, if it's not performance-based, I'm free to do whatever I want.

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    And that's what we're looking at in this section.

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    Am I free to do whatever I want?

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    Their particular issue, we talked about this last week, was they were, some of the more mature Christians were eating meat that was sacrificed to idols, and they were like, "A burger's a burger." But it bothered some of the weaker Christians who came out of the pagan background and said, You don't want to touch meat that was used in pagan worship.

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    And Paul says, "Love says, 'I will give up my rights if it keeps a brother from stumbling.'" I'll give up my rights.

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    So understand here in this section that we're looking at today, Paul is saying, "Corinthians, I'm not asking you to do anything that I'm not willing to do.

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    Paul is saying here in this section we're looking at, I am laying down a freedom that I have.

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    I have the freedom to get paid by the church.

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    And Paul says, I laid that freedom down.

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    We're going to talk more about that part of it next week, but why would Paul lay that freedom down?

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    He knew it would bring offense.

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    You see, he knew that there were going to be some people that thought, "Oh, look at this guy.

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    There's this new religion and he's using it to cash in.

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    He's using it just to make money.

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    He's trying to rip you off." So Paul got a job making tents.

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    So he's like, "I'm not going to be a financial burden to anybody because I don't want anybody to think that I have an ulterior motive in preaching the gospel." So chapter 9, the section we're looking at today illustrates this whole giving up my liberty issue. I have the freedom to not use my freedom.

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    All right, let's bow. I'm going to ask you to pray for me to be faithful to communicate God's Word, and I will pray for you to have a heart open to receive it, and then we'll go right after it. Let's just take a moment and pray.

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    by your name and your word, Father.

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    We ask you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior forever.

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    And all of God's people said, amen.

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    All right, so the Corinthians are like, hey, we are free in Christ to do what we want.

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    Look at chapter nine, verse one.

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    Paul says, am I not free?

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    Am I not an apostle?

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    Paul's like, "I'm free.

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    "I'm free to, you know about your freedom?

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    "I'm free too." And Paul says, "By the way, I'm not just a pew sitter." Okay, he's like, "I'm an apostle." And as always, when the issue comes up, you're going to have a group of people that were like, "Are you, Paul?

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    "Are you really an apostle?

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    "Are you really?" Oh, look at what he says.

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    "Have I not seen Jesus our Lord?

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    "Are not you my workmanship in the Lord?" Paul was always defending himself.

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    And right here he goes, "Yeah, I am an apostle.

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    "I'll give you two proofs.

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    "One is the big one.

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    "To be an apostle, you had to have seen "the resurrected Jesus Christ." And Paul's like, "I've seen him." Like, did Paul see Jesus?

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    Yeah, at least three times.

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    Oh, by the way, one of those times was actually in Corinth.

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    What's that, Acts chapter 18?

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    Paul says, "I have another proof." He goes, "You want another proof of my apostleship?" He goes, "You, you are my proof." What do you mean by that?

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    Look at verses two and three.

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    He says, "If to others I am not an apostle, "at least I am to you, "for you are the seal of my apostleship in the Lord.

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    "This is my defense to those who would examine me." Paul says, "Some might not believe that I'm apostle, but you cannot deny the way that the Lord has worked through me to you." He says, "You're my seal." See, in those days, if somebody wanted to authenticate a letter, they would put a wax seal with the signet ring.

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    That was to say, "This is genuine.

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    This is real." Paul goes, "You want to know that I'm real?

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    Do you want to know that I'm authentic?" He goes, "You're my proof, because God has ministered the gospel through me to you." These are the evidences that I'm an apostle.

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    So, verse 4, do we not have the right to eat and drink?

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    That's obviously sarcasm.

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    I was like, "Yeah, I'm an apostle and God has used me, so I'm not allowed to eat?" Is that what you're saying?

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    I've been faithful to your souls, I've been faithful to the Lord, but I don't get to eat?

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    He's saying, "I don't get to… are you saying that I don't get to earn a living from the work that I do in the Lord?" Look at verse 5.

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    He says, "Do we not have the right to take along a believing wife, as do the other apostles and the brothers of the Lord and Cephas?

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    Or is it only Barnabas and I who have no right to refrain from working for a living?

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    Paul's like, "Other ministers are supported." So much so that other ministers actually take their wives along with them.

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    So you support them.

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    What about me?

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    Do I have the right to be supported by the church?

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    See what Paul's doing here.

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    in this little introduction, he's setting this all up.

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    He goes, "This freedom that I am laying down, is it actually a freedom that I have?" As we look at verses 7-14, Paul here is establishing that this is a right.

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    This is legitimate.

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    Ministers have the right to be supported by the church.

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    He's proving that in this section.

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    And in Paul's day, as in ours, there are people that are going to doubt the premise.

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    Like, really, should ministers be paid?

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    Really?

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    Not sure about that.

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    Should they, is it really work?

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    35 minutes, rather, 35 minutes a week, is that really work?

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    Should we be paying you for that?

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    Well, Paul gives five reasons why you should pay the pastor.

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    All right?

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    "Jot these down.

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    By the way, you're paying me overtime this week 'cause I spent some extra time making sure these were alliterated.

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    I don't always do that, but when I do, I charge extra.

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    And I charge by the word, that's why the sermons are so long." So five reasons a pastor should be paid.

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    Number one, I love this.

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    He just knocks this one right out.

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    It's common sense.

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    It's common sense.

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    Look at verse 7.

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    Paul says, "Who serves as a soldier at his own expense?

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    Who plants a vineyard without eating any of its fruit?

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    Or who tends a flock without getting some of the milk?" Obvious point, right?

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    A man earns his living by his work.

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    And he gives three examples.

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    A soldier, a farmer, and a shepherd.

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    Imagine as Paul calls us to here, imagine doing those jobs at your own expense.

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    Imagine that.

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    That's ludicrous, right?

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    Like what do you do?

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    I work at Target.

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    Why do you work at Target?

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    "Well, just trying to pay the bills so in my free time I can be in the army." Like what?

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    Paul's like, "Who does that?

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    That's called a hobby if you're doing it without being compensated.

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    Their families are fed from the work that they do." So it should be true for pastors.

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    It's common sense.

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    should earn from the work that they do.

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    And I have to add, church, that this is also extremely practical when you think about it.

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    The church benefits from a focused pastor.

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    You're going to get your best work from the pastor if he's not distracted.

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    I mean, think about it.

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    If the pastor has to provide for his family by working another job, how much gas is left tank to be a pastor. And you're like, "Eh, doesn't look that hard." Well, I want you to think about your job, whatever you do. You're nine to five, whether you work in a bank, work in HVAC, community, you know, some kind of like social service function, think Think of what you do.

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    When your shift ends, do you feel like you would be able to effectively pastor a church on top of that?

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    Again, I don't care if you're with the police, a computer programmer.

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    Imagine working all day doing that, and then you get home and now you've got to write a sermon.

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    Oh, and you have two counseling appointments.

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    And make sure you squeeze time in.

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    you've got to follow up with these new people at church, oh, and then you have a ministry team meeting on top of that.

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    Are you really going to do all of that on top of your nine to five?

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    It's common sense.

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    You see, if a pastor has to work another job, it's easy for him to phone it in when it comes to the church work, right?

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    Well, I've got to work at Target so that I can pay my bills.

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    the church stuff is just going to have to wait.

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    I sure hope they're not expecting a decent sermon this week.

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    It's just common sense.

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    People should get wages.

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    People should benefit from their workplace.

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    That's where he starts.

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    It's common sense.

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    Number two, five reasons pastors should be paid.

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    Five reasons Paul says this is a right for pastors to be paid.

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    Number two is it's a concern in the law.

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    It's a concern in the law.

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    Like, what do you mean?

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    Well, look at verse eight.

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    Paul says, "Do I say these things on human authority?" Like, you think I'm making this up?

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    He says, "Does not the law say the same?

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    "For it is written in the law of Moses, "you shall not muzzle an ox when it treads out the grain." That's Deuteronomy 25 verse 4.

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    Like, what do you mean an ox treading out the grain?

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    It was actually an Egyptian trick that Israel adopted.

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    They would tie a big round flat stone to an ox, and they would have the ox drag the stone over the wheat to crush it to remove the husk.

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    Okay, so you have this ox helping you prepare food, doing this hard work of dragging a stone.

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    Now how cruel would it be to put a muzzle on the ox while he's doing that?

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    Like you have to drag the stone, but you're not allowed to eat.

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    Oh, you're going to stand on top of food all day, but you're not allowed to take a bite.

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    That's inhumane.

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    That's the point.

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    Look at verse 9, second part.

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    He says, "Is it for oxen that God is concerned?" Does He not speak entirely for our sake?

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    It was written for our sake, because the plowman should plow in hope, and the thresher thresh in hope of sharing in the crop." See Paul's point, you know, the whole don't muzzle an ox while it's treading out the grain.

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    Paul's like, "You think God's concerned about the ox?" Look, I don't think God has anything against ox, oxen, oxes, oxen, oxen.

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    Thank you, Randy.

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    Oxen.

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    I don't think God's against oxen.

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    He created them.

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    I think God loves oxen.

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    Paul's like, "Do you think he wrote that in the law for the oxen who are going to be reading the law?" Like, "Hey, wait a second.

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    You're not supposed to muzzle me while I'm working." I think he didn't write that for the oxen.

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    But don't do it now.

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    You can do it later.

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    You get some time, turn back to that reference in Deuteronomy.

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    And you're going to see that section of Deuteronomy has nothing to do with animals.

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    Nothing to do with how to treat the livestock.

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    It has nothing to do with that.

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    It has everything to do with people.

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    And how you treat people.

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    You see, it's a figure of speech.

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    We use animals in figures of speech all the time, don't we?

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    Don't look a gift horse in the mouth, two birds with one stone, all of that.

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    It was a figure of speech.

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    And Paul reminds us here, look, when God wrote that through Moses, He wasn't really concerned about the oxen, He was concerned about man.

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    And the point of that expression is the worker deserves to benefit from his work, obviously, right?

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    Luke 11, he says, "If we have sown spiritual things among you, is it too much if we reap material things from you?" Sown spiritual things.

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    That's all I'm trying to do for this church.

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    There are many people in this church that I have led to Christ.

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    There's many people in this church that I've not only taught the Bible, but I've taught how to teach the Bible.

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    There are people in this church that I have counseled out of disaster, comforted you and your family at funerals.

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    I married a lot of people here.

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    I've come along leaders to try to encourage them in their particular ministries.

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    None of this is meant to be boastful or "Hey, look at me." I'm just saying objectively, this is what I'm striving to do among you.

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    So is it out of line to support me in doing those things?

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    Am I asking too much?

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    Or do you see no value in anything that I do?

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    Now look, I am so thankful.

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    This church has always supported me and my family.

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    And I am so thankful to God for you and your support.

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    It would absolutely grieve me though if you thought that I wasn't worth it.

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    Like, yeah, we'll support him, but I mean, does he really bring something to the table?

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    Some churches, well, they do justify no pay or meager pay for the pastors.

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    Some churches justify that.

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    You can't pay the pastor very much.

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    Why?

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    Gotta keep 'em humble, right Pastor Taylor?

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    Gotta keep 'em humble.

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    Pastor Taylor gets paid two Kit Kats a week, that's all he gets from the church.

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    Because we're gonna keep 'em humble.

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    We don't want 'em to get swollen head.

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    So we gotta keep 'em humble.

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    Listen, that is an unbiblical mindset, completely backwards to what the Bible says about the way you treat your pastor.

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    Right?

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    1 Timothy 5, look what Paul told Timothy.

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    He says, "Let the elders who rule well be considered worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in preaching and teaching." You know what he means by double honor?

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    He doesn't mean like, thank you, thank you.

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    Great job, great job.

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    That's not what he means at all.

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    You look at the context, he's talking about pay.

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    He's saying you should double my pay.

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    You get the point there, right?

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    Not keep them humble.

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    He's like, those who preach the word of God deserve double honor.

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    He says, for the scripture says, you shall not muzzle an ox when it treads out the grain.

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    and the laborer deserves his wages.

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    And right now some Bible scholar is like, oh, okay, don't muzzle the ox.

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    Okay, Pastor Jeff, that's Old Testament.

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    We don't live under the Old Testament.

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    Well, we abide under the principles of the law, especially when they're repeated in the New Testament.

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    All right?

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    The five reasons pastors should be paid.

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    Paul says it's common sense.

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    It's a concern in the law.

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    Number three, write this down, it's claimed by others.

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    It's claimed by others.

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    Verse 12, he says, "If others share this rightful claim on you, do not we even more?" Paul's like, "Oh, by the way, it's not weird or unusual.

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    In fact, there's precedent for it.

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    Right?

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    Many of you do support others.

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    And you should, but there's many people here that you're like, I support certain missionaries or I support world vision, or I support Samaritan's Purse.

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    I support all these people.

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    And Paul here is just simply saying, hey, what about the shepherd who has devoted his life to caring for you?

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    What about that guy?

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    Should he be paid?

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    Should he be supported?

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    And my whole life revolves around caring for you, praying for you, discipling you.

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    And some people are like, "Well, you know, I listen to such and such preacher on the Facebooks or the YouTubes or whatever.

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    I listen to Jack Hibbs, so my tithe goes to Jack Hibbs." Okay.

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    But when you need counseling, do you think Jack Hibbs is going to come and counsel you?

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    You know, if you have a tragedy, do you think Jack Hibbs is going to be at your house to pray for you, pray with you?

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    Does Jack Hibbs even know who you are?

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    That's Paul's point here.

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    Paul's like, "Others share the rightful claim.

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    "You support others." Paul's like, "How can you not support the one who loves you?" He goes on in verse 12, he goes, "Nevertheless, we have not made use of this right, "but we endure anything rather than put an obstacle "in the way of the gospel of Christ." That's the whole point of broaching the subject.

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    We have the freedom to get paid, but Paul says, "I laid that freedom down." Just as I'm telling you to do about eating the meat sacrifice to the idols, it's okay.

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    It's okay to lay your freedom down sometimes.

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    We're going to get into that more next week.

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    This week though, he's giving us five reasons a preacher should be paid.

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    And here's number four, it's a custom from the Old Testament.

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    It's common sense, it's a concern in the law, it's claimed by others, and it's a custom from the Old Testament.

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    Look at verse 13.

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    He says, "Do you not know that those who are employed in the temple service get their food from the temple, and those who serve at the altar share in the sacrificial offerings.

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    Do a little study sometime, Old Testament law.

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    In the Old Testament, priests were supported for their work by their work.

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    All of the sacrifices that were given under Old Testament law realized the priest received a portion of what was offered in some way, shape, or form.

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    That's what Paul's talking about here.

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    And I was studying this this week, and I'm like, why did he sort of, he kind of said that in verse seven, right?

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    The same thing.

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    So why did he bring this up again?

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    And then it hit me.

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    Verse seven, he gave secular examples.

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    You know, the soldier, the farmer, the shepherd.

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    He gave secular examples.

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    And there are some in the church that would say, "Okay, Paul, you're using secular reasoning and you're trying to apply it to the spiritual realm." And I think what Paul's doing here is saying, "Look, yes, this principle, you should be supported for the work that you do, by your work." It's true in the secular world and it's true in the sacred world too.

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    So Paul's like, "Don't act like this is a new thing.

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    supporting the spiritual leaders, because it's a custom that goes way back to the Old Testament.

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    Number five, five reasons pastors should be paid.

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    It's common sense, it's a concern in the law, it's claimed by others, it's a custom from the Old Testament.

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    Last and probably most important, I would say, I think that's why it's last, it's commanded by Jesus.

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    It's commanded by Jesus.

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    Look at verse 14, "In the same way, the Lord commanded that those who proclaim the gospel should get their living by the gospel." Wait a minute, when did Jesus say that?

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    Well, He said that a couple of times.

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    In Luke chapter 10, Jesus was sending out the 72 and He was talking about, you can look this up later, the people that believe you should be the ones that feed you.

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    So Jesus in sending them out said, "For the laborer deserves his wages." What's the context of that?

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    And again in Matthew 10, verse 10, Jesus was sending out the twelve, and He says, "The people that believe you should be the people who support you." And that's why He said, "The laborer deserves his food." In both cases, Jesus was saying those who preach the gospel must be supported by those who believe the gospel.

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    In other words, believers, we could say church members, should financially support their leaders.

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    If you're a guest here today, I want you to understand you're under no obligation to give.

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    Don't feel guilty or like, "Well, I probably should." If you're a guest, be our guest.

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    There's zero obligation.

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    is something that we are to share as a church family.

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    All right?

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    But nevertheless, the Lord commanded it.

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    Those who proclaim the gospel should get their living by the gospel.

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    So Paul, in this whole section, is saying as a minister of the gospel, I have every right to expect you to support me, but I laid that right down.

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    I thought it might be an obstacle to the work, so because I love you, I didn't take financial support from you." Paul's like, "I'm trying to show you something, that when you love, you're willing to lay down your rights.

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    When you love, you're willing to lay down your freedoms." Paul is just simply saying, as we'll see next week, "Follow my example." Right now you're like, "Okay, pay the pastor, fine." Well my hope is not that you reluctantly get on board with giving, but I want you to see the bigger picture of why you give.

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    Yes, giving primarily is an act of worship.

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    We've had a whole sermon series about that.

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    Giving is an act of worship.

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    But also I want you to think about the tangible effects of giving.

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    When you give, my family is supported.

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    And that frees me from trying to do ministry on top of a nine to five job.

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    It lets me stay focused on caring for you.

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    Understand that when you give, look at the big picture, you're freeing me up so that I can care for everybody in this church to the best of my ability.

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    Everyone benefits.

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    When you give, other staff are paid.

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    That allows us to worship in excellent music.

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    It helps us disciple your children and young adults to minister on a personal level through the oversight of our entire small group ministry and so many more things that are able to happen that couldn't happen if you weren't financially supporting the leadership of the church.

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    Oh, oh, oh, and when you give, understand that you're supporting a whole network of ministers in Thailand.

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    Do you know in northern Thailand and beyond, we have 23 churches, we have four children's homes, we have a Bible institute, and do you know how many people stateside support them?

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    Just this church.

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    You, when you give, you are allowing the work of evangelism happen all over that area of the world through our network of churches.

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    Disciples are made all over Northern Thailand and beyond.

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    When you give, that is your way of actively partnering with me in advancing the kingdom of Jesus Christ.

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    I'd like you to bow your heads as the worship team makes their way up.

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    Father in heaven, it felt awkward to have to give a message like this, but God, it's your word.

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    We don't skip anything.

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    We just want to go after what you said.

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    Father, I thank you for the way that this church has always sought to support me and my family.

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    Financially sure, but so many other ways this church has sought to bless and protect my family.

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    God, I thank you so much for these people.

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    This is from you, God, and I thank you for that.

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    I just pray, Father, that looking at a passage like this, you would give us sort of a bigger picture of the way your economy works and why you have called us to certain things that you've called us to.

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    God, we believe that all things are yours, and we believe, God, that you have called us to be faithful stewards with everything that you give us.

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    We thank you for the privilege and all the ways that you've called us to partner with you in the work of the ministry.

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    Thank You, Father, for the spirit of generosity that You have stirred among Your people here.

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    And as King David prayed in preparation for the temple, might that spirit always be found in Your people.

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    We pray in Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Discussion
Read
1 Corinthians 9:1-14

  1. What was your big take-away from this passage / message?

  2. Explain why Paul broaches the subject of paying the pastor in the first place. What does that have to do with their question about Christian liberty?

  3. What are some practical benefits that come when a pastor doesn't have to work outside the church?

  4. How would you respond to someone who says, “Pastors should have a job like everyone else! It's not fair that the pastor has money when some people in the congregation are struggling financially.”

Breakout

Pray for one another.