Is Christ Enough?

Introduction:


The Path to Significance: Three Questions to Answer With Christ. (Philippians 3:7-16):

  1. What's important to me? Knowing Christ. (Phil 3:7-8)
  2. Who am I? Righteous in Christ. (Phil 3:9-11)
  3. What's my purpose in life? Becoming Like Christ. (Phil 3:12-16)
  4. John 17:17 - Sanctify them in the truth; your word is truth.

    Romans 15:16 - ...sanctified by the Holy Spirit.

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    Open up your Bibles with me please. We're going to be in Philippians today, chapter 3. The title of today's message is "Christ Enough." Have you found Jesus Christ to be enough.

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    Now while you're turning there, I don't mean to brag, but we got our podcast analytics in, you know, the number of downloads of sermons.

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    Like I said, I don't wanna sound like I'm bragging, but I was the third most downloaded speaker in 2017.

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    And Andrew Rupe said, "Oh, you mean like Olive Harvest?" "No, this church." I was the third most downloaded speaker at this church.

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    I was really fishing for applause instead of laughter, but...

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    "No, no, no, no, no, no, don't you dare, that ship has sailed." Number one was Jeremiah Canfield, he's the pastor of Harvest Bible Chapel, Pittsburgh East.

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    I bring that punk in for one guest spot.

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    And he had the most downloaded sermons.

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    Number two is Mark Ortt, actually.

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    How could you treat a brother like that, Mark?

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    Number two, and actually in my bragging, I guess I sort of exaggerated a little bit because I wasn't actually third place.

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    I was actually tied for third place with Alex Gianetti.

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    (audience laughing)

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    Go bronze!

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    It was a bit of a humbling moment for me when Ben Murphy sent me the analytics and I realized that I'm not even the most popular speaker at my own church.

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    But it was a gentle reminder for me of the struggle that we all face from time to time.

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    True or false, we all want to feel significant don't we?

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    True or false?

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    We all want to feel important right?

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    That's our word today, I want to talk about significance.

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    As we ask, "Is Christ enough?" What we're talking about is, "Is Christ enough for me, for my sense of personal significance?" We all want to feel like we matter.

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    We all want to feel like we have a purpose.

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    I mean something.

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    I make a difference. We all want that, right?

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    We all want that.

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    And listen, there is nothing wrong with wanting that.

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    In fact, you were made, you were created to want, to feel significant.

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    God created that in you.

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    The problem is, we look for significance, We look for satisfaction, we look for fulfillment in the wrong places.

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    That's the problem.

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    You see, God designed you to find your worth in Him.

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    Specifically, in who Jesus Christ is, and what Jesus Christ has done for you.

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    Is Christ enough?

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    And as Dan spoke last week, from the Garden of Eden, Eve was basically told, "God isn't enough. You can have more.

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    You can have significance apart from God. Think about that." Here's Eve, literally the only woman on the planet, possessor of everything, and the enemy comes alongside and says, "You can have more.

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    This isn't enough. You can have more." That sin tendency, that wanting more than God, it becomes the experience of us all.

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    You can trace this through Scripture, right?

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    Remember Jesus in John 4?

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    He sat down with that woman at the well, and He pointed out to her the thing that she was looking for significance in.

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    What was it? It was in men.

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    She was on man number six, and Jesus pointed that out.

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    You're looking for fulfillment there.

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    And he pointed out their fulfillment is found in him.

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    In drinking from the water that he gives.

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    Jesus told the story in Luke 15, the prodigal son, he had everything and it wasn't enough.

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    Fast forward to today, it still happens, right?

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    People have midlife crisis.

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    I've got to do something, I've got to have something to make me feel significant.

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    You have people having affairs.

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    "My spouse isn't making me feel significant." But this other person is.

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    And that's where affairs come from.

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    Church, the reason I'm sharing this with you is we, even as a church, we can be guilty of looking for significance, personal fulfillment, personal satisfaction.

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    We can be guilty of looking for these things apart from Jesus Christ.

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    We can be guilty of looking for fulfillment in worldly things.

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    And Jesus Christ says, "All who are thirsty, come to Me." And somehow people who claim Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior are still thirsty for more of something else.

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    That certainly isn't Jesus' fault.

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    Because you could say in a sense that we are standing in the Garden of Eden alongside Eve and if we are honest a lot of times we are saying, "Yeah, I need more than God's offered me.

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    I haven't found God to be enough." Is Christ enough for you?

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    The question is how can I let Jesus be enough?

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    I hear what you are saying Pastor Jeff, but I've struggled with this and I know I should to be content in who I am in Christ, and I leave here and I just feel like I want more than that.

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    So how can I get to the place where Jesus Christ is my satisfaction?

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    I feel the significance in Him.

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    That's where we're going today on your outline, the path to significance.

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    Here's three questions to answer, to find your answer in Jesus Christ.

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    These three questions that we're looking at today will determine what you think gives you significance.

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    There's the three questions.

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    The first one is what's important to me?

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    Ask yourself that.

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    What is important to me?

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    What is the thing in my life that I value more than anything?

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    You find how you answer that question, you'll find where you place your significance, what you're looking for for significance, right?

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    The second question is who am I?

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    What's your identity?

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    You find how you answer that, you find what your significance is based on.

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    The third question is what's my purpose?

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    What's your goal in life?

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    Here's my ambition, this is what I'm striving for in life.

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    You identify that goal, you identify that in which you find your significance.

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    So here's the first question I want you to ask yourself, what's important to me?

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    The answer biblically, to find your significance in Christ, The answer, what's important to me?

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    Jot this down, knowing Christ.

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    You have to get to this place where the most important thing in your life is knowing Jesus Christ.

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    You have to get there.

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    What is it for you?

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    What is valuable to you?

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    What is important to you?

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    In our drive to feel significant, we tend to define ourselves by past achievements.

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    We all do it.

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    We want to define ourselves by the things that we've done.

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    Well, I went to school here.

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    I used to work here.

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    I did these things.

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    I accomplished these things.

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    Look at Philippians 3.4.

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    Paul was giving his list of the things that he could have boasted about, put his confidence in.

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    Philippians 3.4, he says, "Though I myself have reason for confidence "in the flesh also." If anyone else thinks he has reason for confidence in the flesh, I have more.

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    I was like, "Check this out. You want to brag? I got some things I can brag about." "Circumcised on the eighth day of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews, as to the law, a Pharisee, as to zeal, a persecutor of the church, as to righteousness under the law, blameless." His heritage, his education, his training, his being good.

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    Now that resume might not fire you up, but you have to understand something.

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    To the first century Jew who would have been hearing this, they would have been like, "Dude, that is a five-star resume right there." You don't get more Jewish than Paul. I mean, you just don't.

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    I mean, look at this resume. Paul's like, "I'm like extra Jewish." And that was something, again, if you can sort of think of it in terms of America, you know, we wave the flag and we sing that Lee Greenwood song, I'm proud to be an American and that's never going to end up in our worship set, by the way.

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    But that sense of patriotism, I mean, the Jews had that times a thousand.

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    I'm proud of my heritage.

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    And Paul says, "Yeah, I have some things that I can be proud of concerning my heritage." But I want you to see on how Paul reflects on everything that he's accomplished.

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    Look at verses 7 through 8.

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    Paul with his five-star resume, awesome track record.

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    Look at what he says in verse 7.

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    "But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ." Indeed, I count everything as loss because, look at this, of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord.

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    For His sake, I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ." Stop there.

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    Paul, reflecting on every single thing he's accomplished, He says, "You know, when I look at my resume, do you know what I see?

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    My Bible translates it 'rubbish'." And I'm going to be honest with you, the word "rubbish" is sort of the translator's attempt at being tactful.

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    You know, who uses the word "rubbish"?

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    Does anybody here use that word? Anybody?

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    Anybody? Show of hands, anybody?

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    Nobody in this church uses the word "rubbish"?

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    True, nobody uses that word.

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    When I hear the word rubbish, I think of some British butler.

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    "I'm going to dispose of your rubbish!" Who uses that word?

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    Well, that's sort of the sugarcoating what the word actually is, because if you look in the Greek, the word can literally be translated "manure".

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    And I think even the commentaries that I was reading this week that translated "manure", I think they were trying to soften the blow a little bit too.

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    and I'm not trying to be crass for the sake of being crass, but what Paul is saying is, "Look, I have this impeccable resume, but compared to knowing Christ, it's crap." That's what he's saying.

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    I know we don't like to use that word in church, and some of you are looking at me like I shouldn't have.

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    I don't think Paul wrote this, "My resume is rubbish!" He says, "Everything that I used to value, everything that I clung to to make myself feel so important, to make myself feel so significant, He said it's nothing but..." What?

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    Oh, you said it too.

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    That's what He said.

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    Do you want to experience the fulfillment, the significance that Jesus Christ offers?

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    Here's the first step, you've got to do this first.

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    ditch your resume.

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    All the things that you're like, here's the reason that I'm so awesome, here's all the awesome things I did, here's all the awesome things about me, you need to take that resume and crumple it up and throw it in the garbage.

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    You say, well how can I ditch everything in my life that gives me meaning?

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    It's easy.

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    It's easy.

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    Take your resume, you take all of those things, and you put them next to knowing Jesus.

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    And all of a sudden this doesn't look so great.

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    What's your resume next to knowing Jesus?

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    Have you ever known somebody that has to top every story that is told?

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    You know what I'm talking about the guy that no matter what anybody says, he's got a story that his was just a lot better.

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    You know anybody like that?

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    I used to work with this guy.

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    It didn't matter what you said.

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    His experience made yours look so lame.

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    You can have a casual conversation with the guy.

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    He'd be like, "Oh, I'm tired today." He'd say, "Oh, you think you're tired?

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    "I haven't slept since October." And what do you say?

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    You're just, "Oh, okay, you win." What do you say there?

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    So you just, I would learn to try to ignore that.

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    And I'd be like, well, I guess the reason I'm tired is because I've been working a lot.

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    Oh, you think you've been working a lot?

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    I logged 200 hours last week.

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    I'm like, do you even math?

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    And I'm like, well, the reason I've had to work, the reason I've had to work so much and get so many hours is I'm just, I'm really strapped for cash.

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    Oh, you think you're broke?

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    Let me guess.

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    You're a broker.

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    Well, knowing Jesus, in the positive sense, knowing Jesus, that's the ultimate story topper, isn't it?

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    Somebody can come to you and say, "Hey, I have a huge house." You can say, "Jesus Christ is building me a house right now." Right?

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    Or somebody comes to you and says, "I went to Harvard." You say, you know, the one who possesses all wisdom in the universe lives inside of me.

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    Or somebody says to you, and this is the most disgusting to me.

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    Somebody says to you, I ran nine miles today.

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    Almost like, what'd you do, huh?

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    Puffing her chest out.

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    What'd you do?

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    I ran nine miles today.

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    I say, yeah, Jesus is going to give me an eternal and indestructible body.

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    You'll see me run then.

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    (audience laughing)

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    And not until, or somebody says, "Do you know who my father is?" I'm like, "Do you know who my father is?" The surpassing worth of knowing Christ.

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    Ditch your resume, that's what Paul did.

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    Everything I thought made me so awesome next to Jesus, it's a pile of rubbish.

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    Because the reality is you can't be full of God if you're full of yourself, right?

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    You can't be full of God if you're full of yourself.

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    Ditch your resume.

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    Jesus Christ is, He's still the treasure that's hidden in the field.

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    That when discovered, you find He's more valuable than anything you know.

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    And He's still the pearl of great price, right?

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    Matthew 13, that when discovered, He's more valuable than anything you've ever seen.

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    Ditch your resume.

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    Second question is, who am I?

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    You want to find significance?

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    You want to be able to say, Jesus Christ is enough for me, who am I?

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    You have to get to the place where your identity is, I am righteous in Christ.

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    Jot that down, righteous in Christ.

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    Your idea of self-worth Your idea of significance has always wrapped up in your identity.

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    And you know what your identity is when somebody says to you, oh, hello, Matt, who are you?

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    And the thing you want to answer with, this is who I am.

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    That's your identity.

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    The thing you want to talk about yourself, that's your identity.

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    For a lot of people, honestly, it's their job, right?

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    Like, who are you?

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    "I'm pastor, I'm drummer, I'm accountant, I'm physical therapist, I'm designer, I'm mechanic." That's their identity.

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    For some people, their identity is another human, like we said, the woman at the well.

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    Some people, they find their identity so wrapped up in another person.

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    For somebody else, they find their identity, they find their identity in their struggles.

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    Some people want that to be their identity.

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    I want people to know me as this person that has these struggles.

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    You know, tell me a little bit about yourself.

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    Like, well, I was bullied when I was in kindergarten.

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    Like, you're 60 now.

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    Has nothing of significance happened in the last 55 years of your life?

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    Some people, again, this is a sore spot for me, so I'm working through some things too, okay?

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    But some people, their identity is their physical appearance for their health, like those nine mile runner people.

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    For some people, that's it.

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    Check out my six pack.

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    Check out this kale and arugula salad shake that I drank for breakfast.

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    Look, I'm having fun here.

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    There's nothing wrong with any of those things, right?

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    There's nothing wrong with having a job.

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    There's nothing wrong with having a person in your life.

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    There's nothing wrong with dealing with struggles.

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    There's nothing wrong with being a health conscious person.

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    There's nothing wrong with any of those things.

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    But you cannot let those things become your identity.

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    You can't let them become your identity.

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    Like, well, why not?

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    I'll tell you why not.

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    If your identity is your job, I have some bad news for you.

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    You could lose that job.

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    Do you know how many people are crushed because their job becomes their identity and then they get laid off or whatever and they're just like lost.

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    Like, what do I do?

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    I don't know who I am.

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    My whole life has been defined by this job.

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    You can't let that job define you.

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    If your identity is another human being, that's bad news because people come and go.

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    Even your children, if your identity is being a parent, kids grow up and move out.

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    You can't let your identity be in another human being.

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    If your identity is your struggles, I got some bad news for you, things might get better.

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    Wait.

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    Yeah, I got some bad news for you, things might get better.

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    That is what my notes said.

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    If your identity is being wrapped up in the physical health conscious thing, I got some bad news for you, gravity always wins.

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    No matter what kind of surgery or supplements or spa you're using, you're getting old.

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    So much of our identity is wrapped up in these things, but look at the text, verse nine.

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    Paul says he wants to gain Christ, end of verse eight, look at this, and be found in him.

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    Paul, what's your identity, Paul?

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    You gave your resume, what's the thing you wanna be known as, known for?

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    What is it that gives you significance?

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    It's in three words right there.

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    "Found in Him." I want to be found in Jesus Christ.

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    He clarifies a little further.

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    He says, "Not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ." The righteousness from God that depends on faith.

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    that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection, and may share His sufferings, becoming like Him in His death, that by any means possible, I may attain the resurrection from the dead." Found in Him. That's your identity.

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    Christ is in me, and I am in Christ.

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    Is Christ enough for you?

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    The reality is nothing else matters.

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    Paul says, "I don't have a righteousness of my own." We have a righteousness that comes by faith in Christ.

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    I've shared with you before, that's the most mind-blowing thing about the Bible to me by far.

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    More than anything, I don't really struggle at all with creation, election, the Trinity, Sovereignty of God, free will, I don't struggle with those things at all.

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    The thing in the Bible that blows my mind more than anything is that through Jesus Christ, God makes me righteous.

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    God pronounces me as righteous as Himself.

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    Not because of anything that I've done, that's why He says it's not a righteousness from the law.

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    It's not like I've been a good boy and God says, "Jeff, you're a good boy." I'm not.

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    But when you believe in Jesus Christ, when you receive Christ as your Lord and Savior, when you receive him, God pronounces you totally righteous, perfect, as righteous as himself.

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    Can you think of an identity that you could embrace that would be greater than that?

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    So who am I?

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    Embrace the identity that God gives you.

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    Because at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what the world thinks of me.

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    It doesn't matter what I sometimes may think of myself.

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    I embrace the surpassing worth of Christ because of how He has changed.

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    Paul says, "I just want to know Him. I want to be found in Him, and I want to know Him." That's why your journey with Christ and your journey for significance doesn't end with getting saved.

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    It goes beyond that.

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    Number three, what's my purpose in life?

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    What's my purpose in life?

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    Here it is, becoming like Christ.

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    Is Christ enough?

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    Well, examine in your life what your purpose is, what's your goal, what's your life's ambition.

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    And if it's anything other than becoming like Jesus Christ, you're going to feel empty.

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    You just are.

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    Striving for some golden ring that looks kind of plastic when you finally get it.

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    Compared to becoming like Christ. Look at verses 12-14.

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    Paul says, "Not that I've already obtained this, or I'm already perfect." He's talking about Christ like this.

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    He goes, "I'm not perfect.

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    "I haven't obtained this perfection, "this spiritual elite perfect status.

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    "I'm not exactly like Christ in every way yet." That's what he's talking about.

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    "Not that I've already obtained this "or I'm already perfect, "but I press on to make it my own "because Christ Jesus has made me his own." Reemphasizes it, verse 13.

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    He says, "Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own, but one thing I do, forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus." Stop there for a second.

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    Paul says, "I haven't obtained this.

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    I haven't obtained perfection.

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    I haven't obtained perfect Christ-likeness, But I am pressing on, I'm straining forward after this.

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    Why?

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    Paul says, I wanna achieve this.

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    I wanna go after this with every cell in my body.

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    I'm going after Christlikeness.

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    Why?

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    He says, because that's what Christ is after for me.

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    Do you see that?

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    He says, Jesus has this goal for me.

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    So that is my goal for me.

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    And it's to be like him.

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    It's to be conformed into his image, Romans 8.29.

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    Paul uses running terminology in this passage, and you can tell that it's not casually go for a jog running terminology, right?

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    This is running like a competitive athlete terminology, which is emphasizing the urgency and the passion in which we are to go after this.

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    We leave the past behind us, and we move forward, And we never stop going after Christ.

    27:24-27:40

    Years ago, a certain local school that I, and some of us may or may not have attended in high school, a certain school had this cross country team that came off of an undefeated season.

    27:42-27:48

    I'm ignorant, I don't really know what that means, but they had an undefeated season the previous year.

    27:48-27:58

    So they go to this school and they were interviewing some of the cross country athletes and they're like, you know, what's ahead for you in the next, you know, in the next cross country season?

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    And I saved this quote because it just makes me giggle and giggle.

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    And I hope it does you too.

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    But this quote from one of the athletes, he said, I expect us...

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    Keep in mind, they're coming off of a winning season, right? Undefeated.

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    One of the athletes said this, "I expect us to be above 500.

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    Cranberry is strong, and North Clarion is strong.

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    I think it will be us and Monatah to battle for third place." Like, battle for third place?

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    Is that the bar? Are we sending our Olympic athletes to Korea? Like, okay guys, bronze, just like me and Alex, bronze! Battle for third place? Talk about setting your sights low. Is that the athlete you want on your team? Okay guys, at least third. You know, what did that huddle look like before the cross-country meets? Okay everybody, bring Bring it in on three, mediocrity.

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    You ready?

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    One, two, three, mediocrity.

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    All right, let's go be average.

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    Who battles for third place?

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    But see, that's exactly the kind of passive indifference that Paul was teaching against here.

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    He's like, I'm not just trotting in my Christian walk, like it's okay if I come in third.

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    He's like, no, I'm going after this like I'm going after the gold.

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    and I'm gonna keep going, and I'm gonna keep going, and I'm gonna keep going.

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    And if I get knocked down, that's not gonna stop me.

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    I'm going for gold.

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    That's the attitude that Paul is calling us to.

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    Everyone has a goal for their life.

    29:54-29:58

    Is the goal for your life the same goal that Jesus Christ has for your life?

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    And that is to make you more like him.

    30:01-30:02

    Is Christ enough for you?

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    And maybe you haven't felt the significance that Christ gives because you haven't been pursuing Him and His purposes for you.

    30:12-30:21

    Maybe you just haven't felt this fulfillment in Christ because you're one of these okay to settle for third place trotting along type Christians.

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    And Paul says, "No, I am straining forward.

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    "I am pressing on." Early in 1 Corinthians, I don't box like somebody beating the air, right?

    30:35-30:36

    So I'm going in for the knockout.

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    This Christ likeness that he calls us to violently pursue, it's called sanctification.

    30:47-30:55

    All right, that's growing and maturing in the Lord, the sanctification, and understand church, sanctification comes from God, it's like righteousness.

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    You can't make yourself grow, okay?

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    You can't say, "Oh, you know what?

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    "I hear what you're saying, Pastor.

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    "I'm really gonna make myself grow." You cannot make yourself grow, but it's like a plant.

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    You can't make a plant grow, can you?

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    You can't make a plant grow.

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    You set a plant down and, "Oh, I really want this thing to grow "and I want it to get big and I'm going to send it," what's that stupid phrase?

    31:23-31:26

    "I'm going to send it good thoughts." I hate when people say that.

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    "Hey, I'm having a hard day.

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    "Send good thoughts my way." No, send prayers to God.

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    Good thoughts.

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    I'm gonna send good thoughts towards this plant, make it grow.

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    Is that gonna make the plant grow?

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    There's nothing you can do to make the plant grow.

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    But you can put that plant in a position to maximize its potential to grow.

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    And that's the same with your walk with Christ.

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    You can't make yourself grow.

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    Sanctification, like justification, comes from God, but you can put yourself in a position to maximize your potential to grow in Christ.

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    How?

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    Well, what does the Bible say?

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    Sanctification comes two ways.

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    First of all, it comes by the word of God.

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    John 17, 17, Jesus said, "Sanctify them in the truth, your word is truth." Sanctification comes from the word of God.

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    And secondly, sanctification comes from God's Holy Spirit.

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    Romans 15, 16, "Sanctified by the Holy Spirit." You can't make yourself grow, but you can put yourself in a better position where God can grow you.

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    You want that plant to grow, what are you gonna do?

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    You're gonna give it water, you're gonna give it sunlight, and you're gonna trust that the growth is going to happen.

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    Same with you.

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    It's like, yeah, I really wanna grow in Christ, but I really don't read the Bible.

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    Well, then you're not really gonna grow because that's how it comes.

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    Sanctification by the word of God.

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    Faith comes by hearing, hearing by the word of Christ.

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    Like, yeah, I really wanna grow in Christ, but I really don't have much of a prayer life, then you're not gonna grow.

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    I really don't seek the Holy Spirit's guidance in my day-to-day life, then you're not going to grow.

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    So the question for you, church, and the question I have to reflect back on myself is how hard are you running after Christ right now?

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    How is your prayer life right now?

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    Are you praying privately, secretly?

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    Are you praying like you're going for a gold medal in prayer?

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    Are you praying like you're battling for third?

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    How's your personal Bible study?

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    Are you seeking God in His Word and reading His Word?

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    Like you're going for the gold?

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    Or like you're going to settle for the bronze?

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    Look at verse 15.

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    He says, "Let those of us who are mature think this way.

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    And if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal that also to you." Concerning growing in Christ like this, there's an immature attitude, there's a mature attitude. The immature attitude is making excuses for your sin. "I'm a lousy sinner. Why bother pursuing Christ if I'm never going to achieve perfection?" That's how some people look at a Christian life. "I'm not going to be perfect in this life. I'm just a lousy sinner and that's why I sin." And there's no striving. That's immature. Paul says this is the mature attitude right here. I know I will never be perfect in this life, but I'm going to grow and I'm going to become better and I'm never going to stop pursuing Christ. That's the mature attitude. Verse 16, I love this. He says, "Only let us hold true to what we have attained." Hold true. I love this because there's nothing new. "Okay, okay, Jeff, what's the secret?" There isn't one.

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    He says, "Hold true to what you've attained." Keep doing the things you know that God is going to use to grow you to be more like Christ.

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    And when you become more like Christ, you're going to be settled, you're going to be satisfied, you're going to feel the significance that only He gives.

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    There's no secret, no fad.

    35:12-35:13

    Here it is, get alone with God.

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    Talk to Him.

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    Cry out to Him.

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    Ask Him to let your heart embrace the glorious promises of His Word.

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    Get into a small group.

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    Stay connected with people who pour into you and allow you to pour into them.

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    You're like, "Man, you've been telling us that for years." Yeah, there's nothing new.

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    There's nothing new.

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    Just hold true to what you've attained.

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    You know what to do.

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    Let's go after it.

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    Right?

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    So maybe you're not standing next to Eve by the tree in the Garden of Eden.

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    But in a sense this morning we are standing at the cross.

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    And the same temptation is put before you.

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    Do you need more than God is offering?

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    In order to feel important?

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    In order to feel satisfied?

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    In order to feel significant?

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    Or is Christ enough?

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    When you find your answers in Christ to these questions, "What's really important to me?" What's really important?

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    What's important to me is Jesus Christ, knowing Him.

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    Who am I?

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    I was a lost person that's been found and saved.

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    I am found in Christ.

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    That's who I am.

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    I am pronounced righteous in Christ.

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    What's my goal in life?

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    My goal is to continue to pursue Christ like this, to grow in all of the ways God's Holy Spirit wants me to grow.

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    When Christ is the answer to these questions, it doesn't matter who you are.

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    It doesn't matter what you do.

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    You're going to discover that Jesus Christ is enough.

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    Can you bow your heads and pray with me, please?

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    Father in heaven, we look at your Word today.

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    I pray that your Holy Spirit would bring great conviction on all of us.

    37:17-37:27

    Because our reality is, Father, we confess to you that we have sought to fulfill our appetites with junk food.

    37:28-37:46

    Father, we've sought to to fill this hole in our hearts with all of these things that really don't mean anything, things that don't last, things that in the long run aren't going to make much of a difference.

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    Father, I pray today that as we reflect on your Word and we reflect on our personal walk, Father, we'd stop being people that are content to just trot. Stop being people that are content content to take a leisurely stroll, but that we would be people who would press on, that our hearts hunger and desire and passion is to know Christ, to be found in Him, to gain Christ and to count everything else, everything else that we could hang our significance and sense of identity and fulfillment, let us count them as rubbish.

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    Father, let us find our significance in Christ today.

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    Father, by your Spirit, by the power of your Word, working within us, let each one of us today, leaving here more determined than ever, to say, "Christ is enough." Christ is enough.

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    In His name we pray, Amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read Philippians 3

  1. Honesty time: for you, what would you naturally want to find your significance (sense of self-worth) in?
    How does that compare with knowing Christ, according to Paul (Phil 3:8)?

  2. According to Phil 3:15 (and previous the 3 verses Phil 3:11-14), what is "mature thinking" regarding pursuing Christ-likeness? What specifically would be "immature thinking"?

  3. You can't make yourself grow, but you can do things to put yourself in a position to maximize your growth. What are the things you can do to help your growth?

Breakout Questions:

Pray for one another to be full of God, not full of ourselves. 

Grace in the Garden

Introduction / Context:


Romans 1:21-22 - "For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Claiming to be wise, they became fools..."

Ephesians 5:25 - "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her..."

5 Examples of Grace Displayed at the Fall (Genesis 3):

  1. Grace is Exclusively for Humans. (Gen 3:14)
  2. Grace promises Ultimate Victory. (Gen 3:15)
  3. 1 Corinthians 15:57 - "But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ."

  4. Grace permits Continued Creation. (Gen 3:16)
  5. Grace leaves us Frustratingly Fallen. (Gen 3:17-19)
  6. Grace gives Accessible Life. (Gen 3:22-24)
  7. 2 Corinthians 5:17 - "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come."

    Revelation 22:14 - "Blessed are those who wash their robes, so that they may have the right to the tree of life and that they may enter the city by the gates."

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  • 00:42-00:43

    I did, yeah, it's awesome.

    01:19-01:21

    (applause)

    01:26-01:31

    So thank you Pastor Jeff, and thank you to the elders for giving me the opportunity to speak today.

    01:32-01:36

    I'll tell you, I was a little intimidated today, all this announcements and all this heavy stuff.

    01:37-01:38

    But let's go to the Word.

    01:38-01:42

    Let's go to God and see what He can teach us today.

    01:42-01:42

    So let's pray.

    01:43-01:46

    Heavenly Father, God, You are awesome.

    01:46-01:54

    And God, even in the midst of hearing about really heavy sin, really dark things in the world, that's inside of us even, God.

    01:56-01:57

    Lord, I know that Your Word has power.

    01:58-02:05

    And as much as You have already won the victory, God, You can win the victory today in us through the power of Your Word, Lord.

    02:05-02:19

    And I pray that You would speak through me, God, that these would be Your words, that My failures, My miscommunication, God, that that would get out of the way, God, and it would be Your Word that is clearly proclaimed in this building, God, as it is every week, Lord.

    02:19-02:25

    And I pray that You would just open our hearts but to learn from your word and to change our lives.

    02:25-02:26

    In your name we pray, amen.

    02:28-02:33

    Well, for those of you that don't know me at all, by education, I'm a mechanical engineer.

    02:34-02:37

    By profession, I work for a Navy contractor.

    02:37-02:39

    I'm a manager currently of an IT group.

    02:40-02:44

    And by hobby, I'm a video gamer, among other things.

    02:44-02:50

    But there's one common theme that is thread through all of those areas of my life, and it's that I hate failure.

    02:50-02:55

    The engineer in me sees failure as imperfection or as inefficiency.

    02:55-02:59

    The manager in me sees failure as wasted time or extra cost.

    03:00-03:06

    And the video gamer in me sees failure as frustration that will just cause me to throw a controller or something like that.

    03:06-03:14

    And I'm definitely not here to be one of those motivational posters that says failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor or some garbage like that.

    03:15-03:17

    No, I hate failure.

    03:17-03:19

    And most people don't like failure.

    03:19-03:21

    I hate failure.

    03:21-03:28

    And I can remember a time in my freshman year of college when I faced the weed-out professor of Grove City's engineering program.

    03:28-03:30

    This guy was ridiculous.

    03:31-03:36

    We would have questions on the test that had nothing to do with anything he spoke or anything that was in the book.

    03:37-03:43

    I remember randomly being graded on my ability to draw a wheelchair in an engineering class.

    03:44-03:45

    What does it have to do with anything?

    03:46-03:49

    So I remember my first exam that I got back from him.

    03:49-03:52

    I came back with a big red 37 on it.

    03:52-03:53

    37?

    03:53-03:54

    Out of what?

    03:54-03:55

    Is that a percent?

    03:56-03:57

    I literally had no idea.

    03:58-03:59

    I didn't know what he graded.

    03:59-04:01

    There were just minuses everywhere on the page.

    04:03-04:07

    I came to find out later that he ended up grading on a curve that I couldn't explain to you today.

    04:07-04:09

    And a 37 ended up being somewhere in the middle of the pack.

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    But then nonetheless, a 37 is a failure.

    04:12-04:14

    I don't care what standard you're grading by.

    04:15-04:18

    And I've faced failures in my life.

    04:18-04:20

    I'll continue to face failures in my life.

    04:20-04:23

    But that never lessens my hate for failure.

    04:24-04:32

    So that's the reason that I think God has called me to give you this message about failure and about how God responds to it, because it's a lot different than how we respond to failure.

    04:33-04:35

    So if you haven't already, open up to Genesis 3.

    04:35-04:36

    We're gonna be talking about that.

    04:36-04:39

    But let me give you some of the context of our text.

    04:39-04:45

    I am a Bible teacher, so I have to give you the context before we can just dig into a passage.

    04:46-04:54

    And it's kind of funny, Pastor Jeff, a couple of weeks ago was talking about when we go at Harvest Bible Chapel, we preach through a book verse by verse at a time.

    04:55-04:57

    I intend to do that, but I only get one week.

    04:57-05:02

    And so Jeff even talked about, if I got to pick anything, man, I'd pick grace.

    05:02-05:04

    Well, that's what I did, I picked to talk about grace.

    05:05-05:10

    So Genesis three though, actually records the single greatest failure in all of human history.

    05:11-05:20

    This is when we went from the peak of our existence to the downward spiral that we know today, leading to things as horrible as what the Acervo project is fighting.

    05:21-05:23

    God created everything from nothing.

    05:24-05:25

    He created light from darkness.

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    He created order from chaos and fullness from emptiness.

    05:31-05:36

    From the largest galaxy to the smallest atom, God had built and designed a universe of perfection.

    05:38-05:43

    And although it was of no celestial significance, God placed his watchful focus on the earth.

    05:43-05:50

    And although it's not as big as the sky or the sea, God put his special attention on the land.

    05:51-05:58

    And although we're not the biggest or the fastest or the strongest, God showed his extreme favor toward mankind.

    05:59-06:05

    God made the first man, Adam, out of this earth, and he uniquely breathed his own breath into him to give him life.

    06:06-06:11

    God even built on this already perfect earth, a perfect home for Adam.

    06:12-06:12

    That's Eden.

    06:13-06:19

    In the Garden of Eden, the Bible says that it was full of every tree that is pleasant to the sight and good for food.

    06:20-06:23

    And God gave Adam one job and one rule.

    06:24-06:27

    Work and keep the garden, just don't eat from one tree.

    06:28-06:36

    But even with this complete purpose and this categorical perfection, God saw and knew that it was not good for man to be alone.

    06:37-06:38

    But God needed Adam to know that too.

    06:39-06:44

    So what God did was he paraded every single animal on the planet in front of Adam so that Adam could name them.

    06:45-06:47

    And through this process, Adam learned two things.

    06:47-06:51

    One, everything on earth has a pair, and two, he did not.

    06:52-06:57

    And so God solved this need of Adam's by creating Adam's match.

    06:57-07:03

    In an even more unique way than the way he created Adam, he created Eve out of Adam's side.

    07:04-07:12

    And it was with the creation of Eve and the marriage of Adam and Eve that caused God to say for the first time, it was very good.

    07:12-07:14

    Every other day of creation, God said it was good.

    07:15-07:19

    But after this, after God had created this perfect marriage, He said it was very good.

    07:20-07:24

    He concluded His magnificent creation and He even took a rest.

    07:25-07:27

    So that's where we pick up in our text.

    07:28-07:31

    So, let's read the first 13 verses of chapter 3.

    07:32-07:36

    "Now the serpent was more cunning than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made.

    07:36-07:59

    And he said to the woman, 'Has God indeed said, "You shall not eat of every tree of the garden?" And the woman said to the serpent, "We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden, but of the fruit which is in the midst of the garden, God said, "You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die." Then the serpent said to the woman, "You will not surely die, For God knows that the day you eat of it, your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.

    08:00-08:09

    So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate.

    08:09-08:12

    She also gave to her husband, who was with her, and he ate.

    08:12-08:15

    Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked.

    08:15-08:19

    And they sowed fig leaves together, and made themselves coverings.

    08:19-08:22

    And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day.

    08:22-08:26

    And Adam and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden.

    08:27-08:56

    Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, "Where are you?" And he said, "I heard your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked, and I hid myself." And he said, "Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree which I commanded you that you should not eat?" And the man said, "The woman whom you gave to me, she gave me the tree, and I ate." And the Lord God said to the woman, "What is this that you have done?" The woman said, 'The serpent deceived me, and I ate.'" So there's a lot of things to teach on here.

    08:57-09:01

    And I'm going to focus on the second half of this chapter, but I did want to point out some things.

    09:01-09:09

    And I hope, as I think is always the case at Harvest Bible Chapel, that the Word of God is your authority in your life.

    09:09-09:18

    And if you could understand the reality of Genesis here just in this chapter alone, it would change the way that you view the world around us.

    09:18-09:20

    It would change the way that you view marriage.

    09:20-09:25

    It would change the way you view sin and temptation and all these things that are talked about in here.

    09:26-09:28

    But I did want to talk about a couple of things.

    09:28-09:38

    There's a concept that we've all heard that's called "original sin." It's the idea that mankind suffers from a disease called sin that we've inherited from our parents as a result of the first sin here.

    09:39-09:53

    That's part of the fulfillment of what God said, "You will surely die." Or actually better translated, "Dying, you will die." Life we know is a perpetual existence of brokenness where we experience failure over and over again throughout our entire life.

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    But our actual failure began before the first bite into the fruit.

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    So what is sin?

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    Well, sin is doing anything God forbids or failing to do anything that God demands.

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    So while eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil was strictly forbidden by God, Adam and Eve were already omitting to do two things that God demands.

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    And my experience has been that when I fail to do the things I'm supposed to do, I'm pretty sure I'm going to guarantee that I'm going to do something I'm not supposed to do.

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    Can you see that in the story?

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    Look back at verse 6.

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    So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food and that it was pleasant to the eyes, wait a second, didn't God already fill the garden with every kind of tree that already was that way?

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    So why is it that Eve wanted this one?

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    Well I can understand my own sinful bent that says, If you put up a sign that says "don't," I'm going to do.

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    But Eve doesn't have that sinful bent yet.

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    Eve doesn't have that sinful desire.

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    So what is it that caused her to still want this?

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    Well, Romans 1, 21-22 says, "For although they knew God, they did not honor Him as God or give thanks to Him.

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    But they became futile in their thinking and their foolish hearts were darkened.

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    Claiming to be wise, they became fools." Well, this passage isn't talking about Adam and Eve, it's talking about us.

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    what actually happens is Eve failed to overtly give God thanks and therefore she became susceptible to foolishness. If she was content with all of the perfection that God gave her, she would never want the one tree that she couldn't eat from. And she saw that it was a desire to be wise and so she ended up claiming to be wise, she became a fool. This is the first step in the sin process, failing to give gratitude to God. And unfortunately gratitude naturally dissipates. It's not something that we just automatically have. We have to actually work with intentional effort. That's the first one.

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    The second sin of omission is Adam's alone. See the last part of verse 6, "And she gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate." There's nothing more pathetic or more convicting to me than a husband too passive to protect his wife.

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    Ephesians 5 25 says, "Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." Adam stood by and let his wife eat the fruit of the tree that would cause her to surely die. That's inexcusable. And even if Adam had the moral fortitude not to eat the fruit himself, he would certainly have to answer to God for how could you let your wife make a choice that would have such mortal consequences. I should point out that God gave the rule to Adam alone before Eve was created. We don't know did God again come back and tell Eve what the rule was but either way it was Adam's job to protect his wife even to the point of giving himself up for her and he failed to do this. The failures of Adam and Eve have had dramatic consequences. They're everything that we know and experience today down even to the molecular level that cause us to get old and cause us to die. But there are four immediate effects of sin that I'd like to talk about and it's we've all experienced this we've all seen this pretty typical pattern. The first one is separation. Look at verses 7 and 8.

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    It says, "Then the eyes of them were opened and they knew that they were naked and they sewed fig leaves together and they made coverings. Then they heard the sound of the Lord God walking and they hid themselves. If nakedness is the greatest expression of openness and intimacy. They sure lost that real quick. First they were separated from each other by making these ridiculous leaf clothes and then they were separated from God by hiding. After separation comes shame and shame is actually the motivation that leads to separation. The first part of verse 7 says, "They knew that they were naked for all of their existence up until that point." They've been naked and they never thought anything about it and they never hid from God. They never hid from each other. But now as a result of this sin and now they're ashamed.

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    Shame is the motivation for our separation.

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    When we sin, we know we've done wrong, and so our natural response is to be ashamed.

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    Except if as a culture or as a person, you continue to persist in that, then you don't even feel shame anymore.

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    After shame comes fear.

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    They were afraid of God.

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    Sin always makes us afraid.

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    We're afraid of getting caught.

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    We're afraid of retaliation.

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    We're afraid of losing our reputation.

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    And so we try to cover it up.

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    They made makeshift coverings that never work, and they literally tried to hide from God who created everything, which is an impossibility.

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    Lastly, after separation, after shame, after fear, if all else fails and you're called to the carpet, what do we do?

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    We blame.

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    Look at verses 12 and 13.

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    "Then man said, 'The woman who you gave to be with me, "she gave me the tree, and I ate.'" When we sin and we're called to the carpet, We don't want to take the blame.

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    So we're going to do whatever we can to play the blame game and blame anybody else.

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    That's our society of, I'm a victim, and let's blame everybody else.

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    It's not my fault, it was my parents' fault.

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    It's not my fault, it's the postman delivered the mail on the wrong day.

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    Whatever it is, we don't want to take the blame.

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    Adam literally blamed everybody on the planet for his sin.

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    Eve, for giving him the fruit, God for giving him Eve. That's the extent of which our blame will go. So these things are always part of our response to sin. This is what we do when we fail.

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    Right? We try to hide it. We try to run from it. But God's response is a lot different and that's where I'd like to focus today. So let's read the second half of the chapter, picking up on verse 14. So the Lord God said to the serpent, "Because you have done this, you are cursed more than all cattle and more than every beast of the field, on your belly you shall go, and you shall eat dust all the days of your life. I will put enmity between you and the woman, between your seed and her seed. He shall bruise your head and you shall bruise his heel, or crush his head and you shall bruise his heel. To the woman he said, I will greatly multiply your pain in childbirth. In pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be for your husband and he shall rule over you. To Adam he said, because you have heeded the voice of your wife and have eaten of the tree which I commanded you, saying, 'You shall not eat of it.

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    Cursed is the ground for your sake.

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    In toil you shall eat of it all the days of your life.

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    Both thorns and thistles it shall bring forth for you, and you shall eat the herb of the field.

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    In the sweat of your face you shall eat bread till you return to the ground.

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    For out of it you were taken.

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    For dust you are, and to dust you shall return.' And Adam called his wife's name Eve, because she was the mother of all the living.

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    And for Adam and his wife, the Lord God made tunics of skin and clothed them.

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    And the Lord God said, 'Behold, man has become like one of us, to know good and evil.

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    Now, lest he put out his hand and take also of the tree of life, and eat and live forever.' Therefore God sent him out of the garden of Eden, to till the ground from which he was taken.

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    So he drove man out, and he placed a cherubim at the east of the garden of Eden, and a flaming sword, which turned every way to guard the way of the tree of life." So I think most of us refer to this as the curse, right?

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    It's a pretty negative situation.

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    And I'm going to ask you to look at it from a different angle today.

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    To see at our hugest moment of failure, God pouring out grace, displayed for His children that He loves.

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    So, what is grace?

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    Well, grace is God giving to us, as Pastor Jeff says, grace is God giving to us what He demands of us.

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    Or, more generally, grace is God giving us something that we don't deserve.

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    We don't deserve to see God's examples of kindness here.

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    But let's look at five examples of God's grace displayed at the fall.

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    The first one, grace is exclusively for humans.

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    Exclusively for humans.

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    Look at verse 14 again.

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    God curses the serpent here, and I'll refer to him as Satan, because we know from other passages of the Bible that this is talking about Satan.

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    This isn't some snake that just magically can talk.

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    This is the devil.

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    This is God's lead rebel that has thrown a third of the angels of God's own creation and turned them against him.

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    And now he's trying to turn God's creation of mankind against him as well.

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    And I think a lot of us take grace for granted because if you've spent any amount of time in the church, you've heard about grace, you've sung about grace, you've talked about grace, we've experienced grace.

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    So we take it for granted.

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    But if you notice, Satan doesn't get a second chance.

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    He doesn't get another opportunity.

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    That's something that is exclusive for people.

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    We are God's creation that alone gets an opportunity for a second chance.

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    The angels don't get that.

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    Psalm 8:4 says, "What is man that you are mindful of him?

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    The son of man that you care for him.

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    Yet you have made him a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned him with honor and glory." That verse says that we are actually lower than angels.

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    Angels are a higher order of creation than we are.

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    And yet we are unique in creation in that God gives us the opportunity to receive grace when we fail.

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    We expect it now, but we don't deserve it.

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    We have to always remember that.

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    Number two, God promises ultimate victory.

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    Let me reread verse 15.

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    "I will put enmity between you and the woman, between your seed and her seed.

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    He shall bruise your head and you shall bruise his heel." These aren't in order of importance, and this is certainly the most important one of these five points.

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    And you may have heard that all of history is His story.

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    Christ is the central theme of every book of the Bible.

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    And Genesis 3.15 is the first reference to Christ in all of the Bible.

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    The seed of the woman.

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    It's interesting to note that it's not the seed of Adam.

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    It's the seed of the woman because Christ is born of a virgin.

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    It is amazing that God took a risk with creation.

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    How did He take a risk?

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    He's God. He's in control of everything.

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    Well, He took a risk with creation because we have the opportunity to choose.

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    We could choose for God, or we could choose against God.

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    And in this case, we chose against God.

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    But God didn't take that risk without a plan to win in the end.

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    1 Corinthians 15.57 says, "But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ." amazing that God even tells us here at the beginning that there is a cost to solving the sin problem. In verse 15 it says, "He shall bruise your head," meaning Christ shall bruise the head of Satan, "but you shall bruise his heel." So death by crucifixion doesn't quite sound like a bruised heel. I've had a bruised heel before. I'm sure it compares nothing to crucifixion. But the point is, is that whatever Satan's best attack is, sending him to the cross, so Satan thought he was doing, that best attack would not be able to defeat Christ. In the end, Christ would defeat Satan. He would crush the serpent's head. But the point is that grace never comes for free. It always comes with a cost. When you extend grace to somebody because they accidentally drove into your car and you choose not to make them pay for it, who's got to pay for it? You do. So grace always comes with cost, but God is always willing to pay that cost to give us grace. The third point, grace permits continued creation. This goes back to verse 16, "I will greatly multiply your pain in childbirth." We tend to focus on increased pain in childbirth, I think rightly so. My beautiful wife is preparing to face her third delivery and she can attest to the fact that pain is right at the forefront of that event. But you know the interesting thing here is that it actually says increased pain in childbirth which means that pain would have been there in the perfect garden. That's kind of an interesting thought.

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    Pain is not a result of sin. It's increased pain that's a result of sin.

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    But maybe even more significant here is that God shows unimaginable grace to Adam and Eve and that he doesn't give up on them. It's not three or four chapters later where God is going to wipe out the entire planet, 99% of all living things as a result of sin. Sin that was generated from this moment here. But God doesn't give up on Adam and Eve. He sticks with his children at the lowest point of their failure. And even more than that, he allows Eve to continue to be a creator like God is. He could have taken that right away and continued to make people out of dirt, or continued to put people to sleep and pull them out of the side. But yet, God makes Eve a creator like He is. And she gets to have that purpose, a purpose that most women get to experience. Most women get to be a part of that creation. We get to raise children, whether it's your actual children or whether it's people that you're ministering to. Women are molding and shaping people in a way that Only God does.

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    So, it's a pretty amazing reality that God doesn't give up on us in our sin.

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    And even further, He has a great purpose for us even when we fail.

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    The fourth point.

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    Grace leaves us frustratingly fallen.

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    If you look at all the stuff that's said to Adam, Adam was given charge of the earth.

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    He was supposed to rule over it.

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    But when he rebelled against God, rebelled against him. Things were not going to listen to him. And this is the the life that we know where things get hard, right? Work frustrates, sickness attacks, and death seems to always win. We're constantly left thinking, "This is not how it should be." So you ask, "Where's the grace in that?" It's right there. This is not how it should be. We are constantly reminded that God did not intend for us to experience life this way. God did not intend for people to die.

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    God did not intend for people to get sick. It's not good for man to be alone, right? Isn't that what God said? It's also true of our life without God. It is not good for man to be without God. And we feel that when we are without God we experience frustration. When we are in this earth and its brokenness we experience frustration. That's grace. Could you imagine if we were completely content with our sinful fallen life? We'd literally be smiling on the way to hell.

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    What a terrible tragedy that would be. We don't always love it, but in reality, frustration is an amazing gift from God. It points us back to our need for Him and His redemption. It points us to the fact that this is not the way it should be. So I wonder how that thought will affect our next complaining session, which I am guilty of more than maybe anybody. Grace leaves us frustratingly fallen. The last point is that grace gives accessible life. Look at verses 22 through 24. "Then Lord God said, 'Behold man has become like one of us to know good and evil and now lest he put out his hand and take also of the tree of life and eat and live forever.' Therefore the Lord God sent him out of the garden." You know I always used to think that that God kicked Adam and Eve out of the garden because of their disobedience. You don't want to do it my way? Fine. You're Maybe that's because that's how I would respond if somebody disappointed me so much.

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    But that's not what happened at all.

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    He says in verse 22, "lest ye reach out his hand and take of the tree of life and eat and live forever." God doesn't want us to eat from the tree of life.

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    Why?

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    Because we're broken, because we're sinful.

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    God knows that if we eat from the tree of life, we will now forever and perpetually be in this broken state and he doesn't want that for us.

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    So he blocks us from that state.

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    If we were to eat from the tree now, we would spend eternity broken, dying without end.

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    That's the definition of hell.

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    So God goes out of his way to remove man from the garden, to put up barriers so man cannot have access to that tree of life.

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    Because he's got to carry out his plan for redemption, to rescue us through his Son.

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    We must have the ability to die to ourselves so that we can be born again as a new creation.

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    2 Corinthians 5.17 says, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation.

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    The old has passed away; behold, the new has come." It's only through Christ that we can have access to the tree of life.

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    Because of God's plan for redemption, we will again have access to the tree of life.

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    If you move from the beginning of the story in Genesis to the end of the story in Revelation, in Revelation 22.14 it says, "Blessed are those who wash their robes so that they may have the right to the tree of life, and that they may enter the city by the gates.

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    God gives us new life that is free from the stain of our sins because of the righteousness of Christ.

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    This new life and Christ's righteousness will bring us to eat from the tree of life in the final days of time and spend eternity with Him.

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    That's a pretty amazing thing.

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    Praise the name of our great God.

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    So while all these examples of grace are interesting and I think individually encouraging.

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    The real application is what are you going to do with this?

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    God's response to the sin of his children is to extend grace.

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    But our response is to run away.

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    When we sin, we want to get as far away from God as possible.

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    We want to try to do things our way.

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    We want to try to cover it up.

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    We want to try to make a way to fix the problem.

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    When we want to run away, God remains willing to run to us when we turn away from our sins.

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    It's all throughout the Bible.

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    If you think of the story of the prodigal son, as soon as the prodigal son comes back, what does the father do?

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    He sees him off in the distance and runs towards him.

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    That's the heart that God has.

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    He wants us to come back to him.

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    He's willing to run to us to do that.

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    We need to learn this principle.

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    Our response is to run, but God's response is to welcome us with grace.

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    So the question is, What failures are keeping you distant from God?

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    What barriers are you trying to hide behind?

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    The real question is, is any of that actually working?

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    Are you just laughably like Adam and Eve, putting leaves up and hiding behind trees that God invented out of nothing?

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    Is life actually operating the way you think it's supposed to be?

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    Do you find yourself saying, this is not how it should be?

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    God extends grace now, that God's grace won't be extended forever.

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    We only have this life.

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    Now you might think that life, oh, I got all kinds of years in front of me, but you don't know that.

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    Life is not intended to operate the way you think it is.

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    Life is intended to operate the way God has outlined a timeline.

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    So we don't have forever with this grace.

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    At some point in time, we will become the seed of the serpent when we reject God in the end days, and he's gonna crush our head.

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    and we will not have that offer of grace anymore.

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    So my appeal to you is that you embrace God's gift of grace now while it is available to you, while your hearts are still open to it, and while you still have breath in your lungs.

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    Turn away from your sin and run back to God, whether that's for the first time, whether that's you've known God forever and you just sinned this morning and you feel distant from Him, whatever the case may be, our life is always better.

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    Our life is always more the way that God intended it to be when we are running back to him and not running away from him when we sin.

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    We're going to continue to fail.

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    We are.

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    That is the reality of the state that we live in.

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    We don't have the capacity within us to be perfect anymore.

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    We failed when our representatives were perfect.

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    So how much better do you think you're going to do now when you're in a broken state?

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    So embrace God and run back to him.

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    And then by doing so, we will all up eating from the tree of life to face eternity. Let's pray. Heavenly Father, God, you have done an amazing thing through your son. God, you have given us grace upon grace. You have extended to us mercy upon mercy. And we thank you that you never give up on us, Lord, and that you're always waiting for us to run back to you. You will embrace us with open arms. God, I pray that we would get Get our pride out of the way.

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    Get our desire to be fixed ourselves out of the way, Lord, so that we can receive Your grace and embrace a relationship with You that is better than anything we've experienced on this life, Lord.

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    I thank You for Your Word, for a passage that's so simple and basic that we've all probably heard before, but yet there's new depth there.

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    There's new reality, God.

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    When we look at You who is infinite, There's always more that we can understand.

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    So I pray that, God, that we would grasp on to the things that we've learned today and that it would change us, that it wouldn't just be more information for our head, but it would be more motivation to follow after you.

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    I thank you for this opportunity and I pray that you would go forth from here through us and change us forever.

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    In your name we pray, amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read Genesis 3

  1. The Fall is possibly one of the most basic and well known stories in the Bible, and yet there's so much depth here. Discuss some of the complex concepts you've learned from this story.

  2. It has been said before that most people suffer from two problems: failing to see how big their sin is and failing to see how big God's grace is. Do you believe this? Why or why not?

  3. Describe a time where you have experienced God's grace in your failures.

Breakout Questions:

What is causing you to be distant from God right now? How are you going to respond to His grace?

Harvest DNA – Part 4: Unafraid Witness.

Review / Introduction:


Your walk with Christ determines your witness for Christ!

Matthew 5:16 - In the same way, let your light shine before others so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.

1 Peter 3:15 - but in your hearts, regard Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you.

Proverbs 28:1 - ...the righteous are bold as a lion.

Three Things You Need to Know to Be a Bold Witness (1 Peter 2:11-12):

  1. Know what you are: Alien. (1 Peter 2:11a)
  2. Philippians 3:20 - But our citizenship is in heaven...

  3. Know what to fight: Your Sin. (1 Peter 2:11b)
  4. Know how to act: Honorable. (1 Peter 2:12)

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    Open up your Bibles with me, please, to the book of 1 Peter.

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    We're going to be in chapter 2.

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    We are on the tail end of a four-week series called Harvest DNA.

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    And we're basically just answering one question, and the question is, "What kind of church is this?" Well, we are a church that sits on four pillars.

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    And the first pillar is proclaiming the authority of God's Word without apology.

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    We believe that God wrote this book.

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    So when I, or next week Dan Thompson is going to be bringing the message, when we stand up, we are proclaiming the Word of God.

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    So much as we communicate what God said in His Word.

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    We do that without apology.

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    The second pillar is lifting high the name of Jesus in worship.

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    There's something special to our Lord about worship.

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    The biggest book in your Bible is Psalms.

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    And that's corporate worship, right?

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    And Jesus told the woman at the well that the Father is seeking people to worship Him in spirit and in truth.

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    That's our second pillar.

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    "Lifting high the name of Jesus through worship." Our third pillar we talked about last week is "believing firmly in the power of prayer." We saw that last week, didn't we?

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    Jesus said, "Ask and you will receive.

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    Seek and you will find.

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    Knock and it will be opened to you." Our fourth pillar.

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    of a church is this, our fourth pillar is sharing the good news of Jesus with boldness.

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    Many many years ago when Aaron and I were first married, she was actually getting ready to go to work and she was just about to go out the door and somebody showed up at our door and it was this guy selling meat out of the back of a truck.

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    So Erin's on her way to work and this guy's like, "Hey, you know, he probably had a better sales pitch than I'm selling meat off the back of a truck." But anyways, Erin's like, "Hey, Jeff, just, she goes, could you talk to this guy?

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    I gotta go." So Erin jumps in and she's like, "Just, I'm like, what do you want me to do?" She is, Erin goes, "Just do whatever you think.

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    I gotta go." You can tell this was, Matt and Lexi, this was early on in our marriage because she trusted me to just do what I think.

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    She's learned.

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    But anyways, you can just do what you think.

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    So this guy, he pulls out this chest, this giant white chest, and he starts showing me all this meat that he had.

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    He goes, "Hey, I got some T-bones here." He had something called a rump roast.

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    And he's like, "I got soup bones here." And then he pulls out this pack.

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    He goes, "This is Delmonica right here.

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    "It's a Cadillac of the cow." And I'm just standing there like, "Whoa." And, well, long story short, I ended up, I'm ashamed I have to confess this, but I ended up buying about $500 worth of meat off this guy out of the back of his truck.

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    And she stayed with me.

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    But anyways, later on that day, she, okay, and you guys that are married, you know, the husbands, you know what's coming next, right?

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    Because now I, it seemed like such a good idea at the time.

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    But then when Aaron called all of a sudden, I'm like, maybe that wasn't such a good idea.

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    But Aaron's like, "Hey, what happened with that meat guy?" And I'm like, "I bought some." She's like, "How much did you buy?" And I'm like, "About $500 worth." She goes, "What?" And I'm like, "But it was the Cadillac of the cow." But I was just persuaded by that guy because he was compelling.

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    And he was talking about a frozen dead cow.

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    But you know, I think about that guy because we too, true or false, we too have a job of persuading people, don't we?

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    We have a job of compelling people, of boldly sharing with people the difference that Jesus Christ makes in your life.

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    I'll be honest with you, when the elders had asked me to preach through the four pillars of the church, Thinking about this one, I was like, well, how many sermons have we had about witnessing in the past three years?

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    We've been going through the book of Acts for three years, right?

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    And we're almost done.

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    But how many sermons about witnessing?

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    And we spend so much time talking about things like having the right message.

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    You know, having the right message, that's important.

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    But there's something else that comes first.

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    We've talked about having the right attitude.

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    And that's important.

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    But there's something else that has to come first.

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    We've talked about dealing with haters.

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    And that's important.

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    But there's something else that has to come first.

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    We've talked about prayer.

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    Hey, prayer is important, but there's something else that has to come first.

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    There's something so foundational to your witness for Christ that none of us have the right attitude to do.

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    None of these things are going to happen.

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    Or, on the off chance that they do, they will not be affected.

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    So one main point today, and the point is this.

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    Your walk with Christ determines your witness for Christ.

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    That would be a great sentence to write down.

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    Your walk with Christ determines your witness for Christ.

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    Every true believer wants to be a better witness, right?

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    Here's where it has to start.

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    It has to start with your walk with Christ.

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    Your walk with Christ determines your witness for Christ, and I know we've got some skeptics right here that are going to say, "You're going to have to prove that to me, and I'll be glad to." Here's a few verses I want you to consider.

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    Think of Jesus in Matthew 5, Sermon on the Mount.

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    Jesus said, "In the same way, let your light shine before others that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven." So you see, Jesus said in order for your light to shine, what has to happen first?

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    God has to be shining His light in you, right?

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    You don't have any light of your own.

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    You're like the moon.

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    All you can do is reflect light.

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    And Jesus said the way people are going to glorify God is when they see the light of the Lord shining through you.

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    Actually, 1 Peter 3.15, a lot of people probably have this verse memorized.

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    The second part of the verse that we're familiar with says, "Always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you." Can't have a sermon about witnessing without that verse, right?

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    We all know that verse.

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    But do you know what the first part of that verse says?

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    Put that up.

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    "But in your hearts regard Christ the Lord as holy." Do you see? It has to start in here.

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    It has to start in here before it goes out here.

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    Proverbs 28 verse 1, this is our theme verse of the year.

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    The second half says, "The righteous are bold as a lion." As we're talking about sharing the good news of Jesus with boldness, who's bold according to Proverbs 28.1?

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    Who's bold?

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    The well-informed are bold as a lion?

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    No, it doesn't say that.

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    Does it say the Bible student is bold as a lion?

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    No, it doesn't say that either.

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    How about the longest tenured Christian is bold as a lion?

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    It doesn't say that either.

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    It says the righteous are bold as a lion.

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    Who's a bold witness?

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    The person that has the righteousness of Christ that God gives to those who receive Him.

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    So if you wanna be a bold witness, here's three things you need to know.

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    And we're gonna take these from 1 Peter 2.

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    We're gonna look just at two verses today.

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    Verses 11 and 12.

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    Three things you need to know to be a bold witness.

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    We're gonna kind of work through these verses together.

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    Number one, jot this down.

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    Know what you are.

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    You wanna be a bold witness?

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    First of all, you need to know what you are.

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    You are an alien.

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    Now when I say the word alien, what do you think of?

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    Well, it depends on how old you are, right?

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    For some people, you might have thought of Mork from "Ork".

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    How many people know Mork from "Ork"?

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    Okay, more than I figured.

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    For some of you, you might have thought of Alf.

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    Remember Alf?

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    Some of you might have thought of E.T.

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    Who thought of E.T. as soon as I said alien?

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    Okay, I thought I heard some people say that.

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    Some of you may have thought of the predator.

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    Would you like to hear my imitation of the predator?

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    All right, you ready?

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    (imitating predator)

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    Like, what do you do all week, Pastor Jeff?

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    (congregation laughing)

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    Working on my predator imitation.

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    Some of you might've thought of Superman.

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    Or some of you might've thought of that, remember that movie "Alien" and then there were aliens and more aliens and a big scorpion looking thing with the head and the thing that comes out of its mouth, you know what I'm talking about?

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    Some of you may have thought about that.

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    Actually, look at 1 Peter 2.11, it says, "Beloved, I urge you as sojourners in exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh." Let's stop there.

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    He says, first of all, here's your identity, church.

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    You're a sojourner and an exile.

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    Now these words in the Greek, they're interesting words.

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    Sojourner in the Greek literally means, I dwell near people not of my kind.

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    That's what a sojourner is in the Greek.

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    I dwell near people not of my kind.

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    And an exile, that's a compound word in the Greek that literally translates to nearby stranger.

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    So biblically, when we talk about aliens, biblically, we are the aliens.

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    Despite all the stuff you hear in the news about whatever, building walls or whatever to keep aliens out, here's the reality.

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    If you're a born again believer in Jesus Christ, you are the alien.

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    Meaning you're not of this place, you are living here temporarily beside people who aren't of your kind, worldly people.

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    That's why Philippians 3.20, Paul says, "But our citizenship is in heaven." That's why you are an alien if you're a follower of Christ.

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    You're a citizen of heaven.

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    In March, Russ House from our church is going to India and you're going to be helping to build a training center for pastors, correct?

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    Now I'm gonna go way out on a limb, I'm gonna assume there's some things you're not going to do while you're in India.

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    And correct me if I'm wrong.

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    I'm going to assume that you're not gonna buy a house.

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    I'm going to assume that you're not going to buy furniture for this house you're not going to buy.

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    You're not going to decorate around the furniture that you're not buying for the house you're not going to buy and I'm going to assume that you're not going to landscape.

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    Those are all correct.

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    Do you know how I knew that?

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    And we didn't talk about this beforehand.

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    The reason, Russ wouldn't go over there and buy a house and furniture and all this stuff, why?

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    Because he's not staying there, right?

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    It would be really dumb.

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    Could you imagine Missy, like Russ was like, "Hey, I bought a house in India." Her reaction would be like Aaron when I bought the 500 pounds of truck meat.

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    But you see, he's not staying there.

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    He's only going to be there for a short amount of time.

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    So because of that mindset, you're gonna be packing as light as possible, correct?

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    Because you know, I'm just a passing through.

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    And do you realize that same principle applies to us for our lives on this earth.

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    And sometimes, Gildi, we act like we're going to be here forever.

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    And we're just a passing through.

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    So let me ask you this morning, are you a sojourner?

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    Are you an earth dweller?

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    Are you living for here and now?

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    Are you living for then and there?

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    Because if you're living for here and now, that's a bad idea because no one has ever stayed here permanently.

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    The reality is we're to hold lightly to the earth and we're to hold tightly to our faith and somehow we get that backwards.

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    And then when it comes to witnessing, church, church, when it comes to witnessing, we have a tendency to compromise and go with the world.

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    We embrace the world's values.

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    We want to imitate the world even in the church.

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    And we think, we think in the church, if we imitate the world, we're going to draw the world.

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    Here's what ends up happening.

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    We tell the world, "Hey, I'm just like you." And their response is, "Well, then what do you have to offer me?" Because the appeal of the gospel is that Jesus followers are not the same as everyone else.

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    We are citizens of heaven passing through, holding different values and purposes.

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    So first of all, you're gonna start here, know what you are, you're an alien.

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    Number two, know what to fight, your sin.

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    You gotta fight your sin.

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    Look at the second part of verse 11.

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    He says, "As sojourners and exiles, "abstain from the passions of the flesh," look at this, "which wage war against your soul." Our war isn't with the world.

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    And in our hotly contested political climate, sometimes we act that way, right?

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    Our war is with the world.

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    Our war is not with the world.

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    Our war is with our sin.

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    That's why Peter calls it the passions.

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    The passions.

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    We have this - if you're a born again believer in Christ, do you realize what you are?

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    You have this new nature.

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    You are born again.

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    You have the Holy Spirit living inside you, but what the Holy Spirit is living inside is this old, decaying, corrupted body.

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    It's what the Bible calls the flesh.

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    And this flesh is corrupt and still wants to sin.

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    My body still wants to sin.

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    My body still has these fallen, corrupt passions in them that this new nature that I have in Christ Fighting!

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    That's why Paul says in Galatians 5, he says these two things are at war so you don't do the things that you want to do, right?

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    Romans 7, same thing.

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    That's why there's a war going on.

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    You need to wage war against the passions of the flesh because they're waging war against you.

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    What is it in your life that you want to keep from God?

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    What is it in your life that you've got to have now?

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    What is your favorite sin?

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    What if we just passed the microphone around?

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    What's your favorite sin?

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    You know what it is.

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    Is it sexual in nature?

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    That's for a lot of people.

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    Is it hatred?

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    Is it addiction of some kind to some substance?

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    Is it complaining?

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    I understand that sin is the real enemy here.

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    Specifically, my sin is my real enemy.

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    My sin seeks to distract me.

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    My sin seeks to discourage me.

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    My sin seeks to enslave me.

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    In Christ it can't condemn me.

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    But if I ignore the war that it is trying to wage against my soul, if I make excuses for my sin, tolerate my sin instead of turning from my sin, it's going to render me spiritually weak and ineffective.

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    It's going to leave me wondering where the abundant life is that Christ promised.

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    Oh, it's there.

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    I'm just unwilling to deal with my sinful passions that are waging war on my soul, and embrace what Christ freely offers instead.

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    To paraphrase D.L. Moody, "The person that I have the most problems with in this world is Jeff Miller." Now, D.L. Moody didn't say that he had the most problems with me.

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    His quote was, he was his biggest problem.

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    And I read that this week and I thought I can identify with that.

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    I think of the past 20, however many years of ministry I've been involved in, by far my biggest adversary, my biggest problem person in any church I've ever been to, is this guy right here.

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    There's a war being waged.

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    I kind of like to hear that because he doesn't say battle.

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    He doesn't say battle, and that's encouraging for me because you may lose some battles along the way, right?

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    But victory's already been won.

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    That's the good news of Jesus Christ.

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    want. So I want to encourage you today, maybe somebody sitting here today is fresh off of a loss. I want to encourage you to get back at it. You know what a boxer loses a round? Okay, well you just come out swinging harder the next round.

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    Or maybe a mom with all these kids has a really rough day. Okay, we're gonna put a We're gonna plan together and we're gonna come out tomorrow and do better.

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    Did you lose your round with your sin?

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    Well let's change the strategy.

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    Come out more determined to win.

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    I want you to see here, please don't miss this.

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    If you miss everything else I say today except one thing, please catch this.

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    This is the strategy that you must employ in your war on sin.

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    Please hear me.

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    It's right here in the text.

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    I'm not making this up.

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    He says, "To abstain from the passions of the flesh which wage war against your soul." Here's your strategy for battle.

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    Are you ready?

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    It's abstaining.

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    You know what that word literally means?

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    It means put distance between.

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    That is how you battle your sin.

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    You put distance between it.

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    between you and your sin.

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    Okay, so if we have a guy here today saying, "You know, Pastor Jeff, you're right, I need to battle this drinking problem that I have, so I'm going to be taking my Bible to the bar from now on." Bad idea.

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    Or the person that says, "You know, I've really been struggling with lust in my life, so I'm going to be asking my small group to meet with me at the Gentleman's Club." It sounds foolish. It is.

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    Maybe somebody here is thinking, "You know what? You're right about this battling the sin thing.

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    I'm going to be going on a retreat to Rivers Casino to seek the Lord about my gambling problem." Don't try to fight your sin head on because listen, you will lose every single time you try to fight your sin head on.

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    Not me, yes you.

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    You mean to tell me Adam and Eve, who didn't even have a sin nature when they were tempted, they fell into sin.

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    They couldn't stand up to the temptation.

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    And you think you, living in a fallen, corrupt, sinful body, you think you're gonna face temptation head on and you're gonna come out stellar?

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    You think you're just gonna walk right into temptation?

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    And it's not gonna affect me.

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    You are foolish if you think that.

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    That's why Peter says, here's the strategy, abstain, get away from it, put some distance between you and your sin so you're not even in the same zip code.

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    What did Jesus teach us to pray about this?

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    Remember the Lord's prayer?

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    Father, art in heaven, hallowed be thy name.

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    Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

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    Give us this day our daily bread.

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    Give us this day our daily bread.

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    What's the part about lead us?

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    How's that go?

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    Lead us not, what?

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    Oh, do you think this is what Jesus was talking about?

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    Notice Jesus didn't say lead us not into sin.

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    It's like taking an even wider path.

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    I don't even wanna be in the place where I might be tempted with sin.

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    So here's a surefire way to not lose your fight against sin.

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    You ready for this?

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    Here's a surefire way to not lose the fight.

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    Determine the place where sin could tempt you.

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    Determine the circumstance where sin wants to fight you and don't show up.

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    You will never lose every fight you refuse to show up to.

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    That's why Peter says to abstain.

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    What do you need to do today?

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    What do you need to do today to put some distance between you and your sin?

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    Put filters on your computer?

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    Put your computer in the garbage?

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    Is there a place that you need to stop going?

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    Do you need to track down Ryan and Sarah so you have some small group accountability?

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    Some people who love you?

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    Who are going to help you make sure that you're keeping your distance?

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    Like, "Wait a minute, I thought we were talking about, I thought we were talking about witnessing today." Well, this is the point.

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    Your walk with Christ determines your witness for Christ.

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    Because look at verse 12, as we wind down here.

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    Verse 12, "Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable." So you see, all this inward stuff is going to be flowing out, right?

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    "Keep your conduct among the Gentiles." When he says Gentiles, that's just a euphemism for unbelievers, right?

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    I think we all get that.

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    "Your conduct among the Gentiles is honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds, and glorify God on the day of visitation." Speak against you.

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    The world, the Gentiles, they love to misrepresent followers of Christ, to the point of calling us "evildoers." More and more and more and more.

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    Christian, you are going to be branded as an evildoer just because you say, "I believe the Bible is the Word of God." That is happening more and more.

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    So I'm just - spoiler alert - it's going to happen.

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    If you say, "Well, I believe the Bible says that life begins in conception.

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    That's why I am pro-life.

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    That's why the Bible would lead me to believe pro-life.

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    People are gonna say, "You're a rotten person for saying a woman shouldn't have a choice in what she does with her own body.

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    What a evil, wicked person you are that would take that right away from the woman.

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    What about the right of the baby?" You can say, "Well, I believe what the Bible says about marriage.

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    One man, one woman, one lifetime.

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    and that's what I believe, you're gonna be branded as an evildoer for just saying, I just, I believe.

    25:23-25:26

    Notice there was no, I'm condemning anybody else in that statement.

    25:26-25:28

    Remember that happened with Chick-fil-A a few years ago, right?

    25:28-25:32

    Like the head guy was like, I believe in biblical traditional marriage or whatever.

    25:33-25:38

    And everybody was like, boo, your sandwiches taste like hate and racism.

    25:38-25:39

    And like, what?

    25:39-25:44

    He didn't say anything about, all he said was, I believe this.

    25:46-25:48

    That's exactly what Peter's talking about here.

    25:50-25:58

    The world is looking for reasons to reject the gospel, and they want to use you as the focal point of their rejection.

    26:03-26:37

    But when you are sincerely walking with the Lord, and He is doing stuff in you, and He is doing stuff through you, and you are blessing the people who are cursing you, when you are encouraging the people who are insulting you, when you are doing good to those who would do you harm, when they see that you're always looking to do, as Peter says, the honorable thing, the day is going to come when God shows up in their lives. And that day, according to Peter, is called the day of visitation.

    26:39-26:40

    The day of visitation.

    26:42-26:44

    I dropped this cross reference down, Luke 19.44.

    26:45-26:46

    What is the day of visitation?

    26:46-26:48

    That's kind of a weird term. What does that mean?

    26:48-26:52

    That just means the day God shows up to save them.

    26:53-26:58

    That's the day the lights come on in their lives.

    26:58-27:02

    That's the day that they realize their sin has brought them nothing but misery.

    27:02-27:08

    The day that God's Holy Spirit is speaking to them, calling them to receive Christ.

    27:09-27:11

    Peter says they're going to remember your good deeds.

    27:11-27:13

    They're going to remember your conduct.

    27:14-27:16

    And that is going to lead them to glorify God.

    27:16-27:19

    In other words, that's going to lead them to receive Jesus Christ.

    27:21-27:28

    So now do you see why your walk with Christ determines your witness for Christ.

    27:29-27:31

    So know how to act honorable.

    27:32-27:33

    Honorable.

    27:35-27:36

    Let Christ change you.

    27:37-27:41

    Let the world see the changes that Christ made in you, and you will be a bold witness.

    27:43-27:56

    Every Christ follower wants to lead others to follow Christ, but you can't lead anyone to a place that you're not in.

    27:58-27:59

    So do you want to be a bold witness?

    28:00-28:01

    Know what you are. You are an alien.

    28:03-28:04

    Secondly, know what to fight.

    28:06-28:12

    Your sin, it's waging war against you, and you're going to fight by not showing up, right?

    28:13-28:15

    Thirdly, know how to act honorable.

    28:16-28:33

    Honorable, so that when the Lord shows up, they're going to remember, "Ah, I see how Christ was at work in those people's lives." Your walk with Christ determines your witness for Christ.

    28:34-28:34

    Let's pray.

    28:35-28:42

    Father in heaven, You have called us to be witnesses, but before even that, You have called us to be holy.

    28:44-28:52

    Father, there's not a single one of us in this room, there's not a single one of us on this planet that have the capability of being holy ourselves.

    28:54-28:59

    Your Word tells us that You have given us Your holiness, You have given us Your righteousness through Jesus Christ.

    28:59-29:10

    And You have empowered us by Your Spirit to continue to grow and mature and develop to be more and more practically holy.

    29:12-29:17

    Father, today I pray that we would be people who are determined that we're going to cooperate with You.

    29:17-29:20

    We'd stop clinging so tightly to the things of the earth.

    29:23-29:34

    Father, today I pray that You would be very specific with us Father, show us our point of temptation and show us how we can not show up to even fight it.

    29:36-29:37

    Show us how to abstain.

    29:38-29:46

    Father, show us how we can love the lost people around us in such a way that the day's going to come, the lights are going to come on, God.

    29:47-29:49

    You're on a seeking mission.

    29:51-29:56

    And they're going to remember the witness of Christians put in their lives, Father.

    29:57-29:58

    This is all to Your glory and honor.

    30:00-30:02

    Make us bold witnesses, Father.

    30:03-30:09

    Let us start with a sincere, authentic, growing, personal walk with Christ.

    30:11-30:13

    In whose name we pray, Amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read 1 Peter 2:11-12

  1. What is the connection between your walk with Christ and your witness for Christ? Why?

  2. How do passions wage war on your soul? Even though a believer cannot lose their salvation, how is sin still harmful to the soul?

  3. How would you instruct someone wanting to fight their "besetting" sin? 
     

Breakout Questions:

How, specifically / personally, do you need to "put distance" between you and your sin? Pray for each other to apply wisdom in this war on sin. 

Harvest DNA – Part 3: Unceasing Prayer.

Review / Introduction:


James 4:2-3 - You do not have because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.


Three Powerless Prayers:

  1. The "pray it Safe" prayer.
  2. The "Santa Claus" prayer.
  3. The "public Performance" prayer.

How to Have Your Prayers Answered, Every Time (Matthew 7:7-11):

  1. Pray in Humility. (Matt 7:7-8)
    1. I need your Provision.
    2. I need your Wisdom.
    3. Proverbs 2:4 - if you seek it like silver and search for it as hidden treasure

      James 1:5 - If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.

    4. I need to Serve you.
    5. Acts 14:7 - ...they declared all that God had done with them, and how he had opened a door of faith to the Gentiles.

      1 Corinthians 16:9 - ...for a wide door for effective work has opened to me...

  2. Receive like a Child. (Matt 7:9-11)
  3. Psalm 62:11-12 - Once God has spoken; twice have I heard this: that power belongs to God, and that to you, O Lord, belongs steadfast love. For you will render to a man according to his work.

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  • Pastor Jeff:

    00:35-00:39

    Grab your Bibles with me, please, and open up to Matthew 7.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:40-00:49

    Matthew 7, this month we're going through a series called "Harvest DNA." The question is, what kind of a church is this?

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:50-00:52

    What kind of a church is this?

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:52-00:53

    Well, our mission is to make disciples.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:54-00:59

    We want to glorify God through the fulfillment of the Great Commission in the spirit of the Great Commandment.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:59-01:00

    That's our mission.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:01-01:02

    We want to make disciples.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:02-01:04

    That was given to us by Jesus, by the way.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:04-01:05

    We didn't make that up.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:05-01:09

    Our elders didn't sit down and decide what do you think the church should do?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:09-01:11

    Jesus told us what the church is supposed to do.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:11-01:12

    We're to make disciples, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:13-01:17

    And we spent the first two weeks looking at what kind of a church is this?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:17-01:21

    We talked about pillar number one, which is proclaiming the authority of God's Word without apology.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:21-01:30

    We believe that God wrote a book, and God's Holy Spirit somehow works with His book to bring about life transformation.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:31-01:35

    That second pillar we discussed last week Jesus said worship.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:36-01:40

    That worship is the way that we can engage the Lord.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:40-01:42

    We can love the Lord.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:42-01:45

    We can have that relationship with the Lord with our very emotion.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:48-01:53

    And Jesus said that the Father is looking for worshippers, people to worship Him in spirit and in truth.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:53-01:55

    And we want to grow as worshippers.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:56-02:00

    Today, we're going to talk about prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:02-02:05

    And prayer is somehow the easiest

    02:05-02:09

    and the hardest thing to get down, when you think about it.

    02:11-02:18

    In James 4, verses 2 and 3, James says this very bluntly regarding prayer.

    02:18-02:31

    He said, "You do not have, because you do not ask." How many blessings in your life do you think you might have forfeited, Just because you haven't asked God.

    02:34-02:34

    Then he goes

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:34-02:39

    on, he says, "You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:40-02:50

    Suspend it on your passions." So he says, the problem is when you do ask, when you do pray, you don't get what you want because you're asking wrongly.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:50-02:55

    So the bottom line is, we really only have two problems when it comes to prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:56-02:58

    We either don't ask or we ask wrongly.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:01-03:02

    So how do we ask wrongly?

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:02-03:03

    I want you to jot this down in your outline.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:03-03:04

    How do we ask wrongly?

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:05-03:06

    Here are three powerless prayers.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:08-03:10

    These are prayers that have no power.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:12-03:18

    But these are prayers that every one of us, including myself, we have all been and are guilty of saying.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:19-03:26

    These are three powerless prayers, and my hope is that by calling them out, we are more able to recognize them and be done with them.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:27-03:30

    But the first powerless prayer is the "Pray it safe" prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:31-03:32

    That's the "Pray it safe" prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:34-03:40

    Meaning, when we pray, we don't want to pray too big or too specific because we don't want to get our hopes up.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:40-03:41

    We don't want to get disappointed.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:42-03:43

    So we are all guilty.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:43-03:48

    I have caught myself doing this, listen church, I've caught myself doing this while I was praying.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:48-03:51

    And literally, I've apologized to God in prayer for doing this.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:52-03:54

    Like, I'm sorry, what was that prayer?

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:54-03:55

    That was a dumb prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    03:56-04:00

    We pray dumb things because we're afraid to get our hopes up.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:00-04:01

    So we pray vague.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:02-04:03

    What do you mean dumb things?

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:03-04:05

    We pray some dumb things.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:07-04:12

    For example, we often pray, "God be with me today." That's a dumb thing to pray.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:13-04:14

    You know why that's a dumb thing to pray?

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:15-04:17

    He's already promised that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:17-04:19

    Do you realize God said He'll be with you to the end of the age?

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:19-04:35

    He said, "I will never leave you or forsake you." And we're like, "God, will you be with me today?" "Yes! I already told you that." It's like, "God, will you make the waters blue today?" "Yeah, they're blue, all right? I already done that." But we pray that all the time.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:37-04:41

    And I think we do that because we're afraid of being disappointed.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:41-04:43

    What if I pray really specifically and God doesn't do it?

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:45-04:46

    We're going to talk about that today.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:47-04:48

    God be with me.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:50-04:52

    Here's another pray and save prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:54-04:55

    How about this one?

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:55-04:58

    "God bless grandma," or insert person of choice.

    Pastor Jeff:

    04:58-05:03

    "God, I just prayed that you would bless grandma today." What is that? That is so vague.

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:03-05:04

    Bless grandma with what?

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:05-05:08

    Like, bless her with what?

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:10-05:11

    Does grandma need healing?

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:13-05:20

    What if grandma gets coupons for Wendy's in the mail?

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:20-05:22

    Is that how grandma's blessed?

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:22-05:24

    Is that an answer to the God bless grandma?

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:24-05:25

    What does that mean?

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:25-05:32

    Why can't we get specific to say, God, here's what she is dealing with, and God, here's what I'm asking you to do for her.

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:34-05:35

    But you see that we don't do that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:35-05:36

    We pray it safe.

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:36-05:37

    We pray it safe.

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:38-05:43

    That way, if we say, God bless grandma, anything that happens in her life, we can just say that must have been God blessing grandma.

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:45-05:51

    Or if you really wanna be lame, just pray, God, I'm asking that you be with and bless grandma today.

    Pastor Jeff:

    05:53-05:58

    And then if you listen real close, you could probably hear the head slaps happening in heaven.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:00-06:02

    Number two, the Santa Claus prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:03-06:04

    The Santa Claus prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:05-06:10

    We're so guilty of this, we treat God like he's Santa Claus Or we treat God like our aforementioned grandma.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:11-06:13

    Or we treat God like a vending machine.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:16-06:17

    Does anybody have this book?

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:18-06:19

    Mike, can you put that book up?

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:20-06:20

    Here's a book.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:20-06:22

    This was sent to me by a pastor friend.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:22-06:24

    He asked what I was preaching on.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:24-06:28

    I said, "I'm preaching on prayer." He goes, "You need to read this book." He said it jokingly.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:29-06:49

    It's "May I have your order, please?" Subtitle here is "How to Get What You Want from God." And I don't have a picture of the back cover, but the back cover says this, "Praying is like ordering off a menu and God is our waiter." I almost didn't wanna say that for fear of lightning bolts coming down on my head.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:50-06:57

    But prayer is like, it's like we're in the restaurant and we're like, "Chop, chop, more bread, more bread.

    Pastor Jeff:

    06:57-07:00

    I asked for no ice in my diet Coke.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:00-07:03

    Come on, God, what's the matter with you?" Like treating God like our waiter.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:03-07:05

    How many people think that's a horrible idea?

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:06-07:08

    Okay, good, good.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:08-07:10

    Get that garbage off the screen.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:12-07:14

    God is not our waiter, he is our God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:14-07:17

    All right, we better get some things straight here, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:19-07:21

    Number three, the public performance prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:21-07:24

    This is a prayer specifically that Jesus warned us against.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:25-07:29

    The public performance prayer is this, the only time you pray is in small group or church.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:30-07:30

    The only time.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:31-07:39

    The only time you pray is when you're in small group or when you're in church or when you're around other Christians or whatever, but you don't really have a private prayer life.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:39-07:41

    You really don't have a secret prayer life.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:42-07:46

    And when you only pray in church or in small group, the prayer is just for show.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:46-07:48

    That's not my opinion, that's God's opinion.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:49-07:51

    If you don't have a secret prayer life, then your prayer is just for show.

    Pastor Jeff:

    07:54-08:15

    Because Jesus said in Matthew 6:6, when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your father who is in secret and your Father who sees in secret will reward you." Jesus said, "Reward from prayer comes from praying in secret." And if you don't have secret prayer, you don't have a prayer line.

    Pastor Jeff:

    08:19-08:23

    You know it's real, you know it's not just for show when it's just you and God together.

    Pastor Jeff:

    08:24-08:25

    That's real prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    08:26-08:32

    We often set ourselves up for discouragement When we pray wrongly.

    Pastor Jeff:

    08:34-08:37

    James 4.3 we saw that it's praying selfishly.

    Pastor Jeff:

    08:39-08:42

    We don't ask, we talked about this last week.

    Pastor Jeff:

    08:43-08:45

    We have unbiblical expectations when we pray.

    Pastor Jeff:

    08:49-08:54

    So, all of that said, we get to this passage we're going to look at, Matthew 7.

    Pastor Jeff:

    08:55-08:59

    And our experience doesn't match up with what the Bible says, if we're honest.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:02-09:12

    "How do we reconcile what we seem to have seen in our lives and what Jesus said?" But I want you by faith to receive the Word of God for what it is.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:12-09:14

    These aren't my words, these are God's words.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:16-09:21

    And I'm not going to sugarcoat this or lessen the impact of what our Lord has said.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:22-09:25

    I'm not going to try to explain around it, I just want to explain what He said.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:26-09:29

    So if you're sitting here today and you're like, "I need an overhaul in my prayer life.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:30-09:34

    Your prayer life has been weak for a very long time.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:34-09:36

    I want to see God move when I pray.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:36-09:37

    Well, Jesus tells us how.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:37-09:47

    Matthew 7, verses 7-11, and the title of this part on your outline, "How to Have Your Prayers Answered Every Time." Again, not my opinion. This is what Jesus said.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:47-09:49

    How to have your prayers answered every time.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:50-09:51

    Look at what Jesus said.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:52-09:55

    He said, "Ask, and it will be given to you.

    Pastor Jeff:

    09:57-09:59

    "Seek and you will find.

    Pastor Jeff:

    10:02-10:12

    Knock and it will be open to you." Now I imagine, just at this point, I imagine there were some people while he was speaking kind of turned to each other and they were like, "Did he really say that?" Because look at the next verse.

    Pastor Jeff:

    10:13-10:18

    The next verse, "For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds.

    Pastor Jeff:

    10:19-10:26

    And to the one who knocks, it will be open." Jesus is like, "Yes, I said it, and I'm doubling down on it.

    Pastor Jeff:

    10:27-10:33

    Because not only is this true, this is true for everyone, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    10:35-10:41

    And then he illustrates it in verse 9, "Which one of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone?

    Pastor Jeff:

    10:42-10:44

    If he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent?

    Pastor Jeff:

    10:45-11:01

    If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more Will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who..." Say it.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:03-11:08

    "Ask Him." Now, ask, seek, knock.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:08-11:11

    Let's talk about this trifecta here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:12-11:17

    Actually, some of you probably know this and studying this in the past time, but this is in the present imperative.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:19-11:23

    What Jesus was saying was keep asking, keep seeking, keep knocking.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:26-11:27

    But here's something that I learned this week.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:28-11:33

    You see, I used to think that these three things were just synonyms.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:35-11:37

    Like Jesus was just being poetic.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:38-11:44

    Instead of just saying, hey, when you pray God answers, instead of saying that, Jesus was getting real poetic with us.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:44-11:46

    And he's like, oh, ask and seek and knock.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:46-11:50

    And I did a lot of study on this this week.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:50-11:55

    While you were doing what you were doing this week, my face was buried in this.

    Pastor Jeff:

    11:56-12:08

    And I have to tell you, I am convinced that there is a much, much, much, much deeper truth here than I thought there ever was.

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:09-12:15

    See, what Jesus is talking about here, we're not talking about three synonyms for prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:15-12:17

    We're talking about three levels of prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:18-12:20

    Of increasing maturity.

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:21-12:26

    These are three types of prayer of increasing intensity.

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:26-12:32

    Now, I want you to understand as we go through this, that these are not stages that you go through.

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:36-12:41

    Meaning, as a young Christian you ask, and then as an older Christian you seek, and then as a mature Christian you knock.

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:41-12:42

    I'm not saying that at all.

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:42-12:44

    Yes, these are increasing maturity.

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:44-12:59

    these are increasing intensity, but these aren't stages that you go through as in, "Well, now that I'm done seeking, I'm done asking." I want you to think of these in terms of...

    Pastor Jeff:

    12:59-13:05

    Ask, seek, knock. I want you to think of these three things in terms of communication with an earthly friend of yours.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:08-13:10

    There are three different types of communication.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:10-13:12

    There's probably more, but we're going to say three.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:13-13:18

    There are three types of communication that you can have with an earthly friend of yours.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:19-13:21

    And one of them is texting.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:23-13:25

    Do you know Mark Ord is texting me right now?

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:26-13:29

    Kristen, will you please tell him that I'm working and I'll get back to him?

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:29-13:35

    He texted me right before service and said he's praying for us, and it wasn't literally right this minute.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:35-13:39

    But texting is one form of communication, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:42-13:44

    But there's other forms of communication with your friends.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:44-13:46

    Sometimes a text isn't appropriate.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:47-13:48

    Sometimes you get a call, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:49-13:50

    Sometimes you actually have to call.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:51-13:53

    But sometimes that's not enough either.

    Pastor Jeff:

    13:54-13:58

    Sometimes you need to put the phone away and you need to show up at the person's house.

    Pastor Jeff:

    14:00-14:01

    And so hear me on this.

    Pastor Jeff:

    14:03-14:12

    The situation determines which avenue you're going to use and communicate it.

    Pastor Jeff:

    14:13-14:15

    The situation determines which avenue you use in communication.

    Pastor Jeff:

    14:16-14:21

    For a lot of things, a text will do, but sometimes you actually need to talk to the person.

    Pastor Jeff:

    14:23-14:27

    And some things have to be discussed in person.

    Pastor Jeff:

    14:28-14:29

    Right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    14:29-14:44

    For example, I wouldn't show up at my brother's house at 3 in the morning, and he answers the door like, "Yeah?" "Hey, did you see that new show on Netflix?" He'd be up, but he wouldn't appreciate.

    Pastor Jeff:

    14:45-15:08

    Like, "Dude, why didn't you just text me that?" Like, "Oh yeah, that was an inappropriate way of communicating, wasn't it?" Or it would also be inappropriate if I texted my brother and said, "Oh, by the way, I know you didn't know, but it was my job to inform you that mom died.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:09-15:10

    Is that something that you text?

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:11-15:13

    No, that's not something you text.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:16-15:20

    So you see different situations call for different types of communication.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:21-15:24

    And I believe that's exactly what Jesus is talking about here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:24-15:31

    As he's increasing maturity and intensity, the situation dictates the type of communication.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:33-15:35

    So we're asking ourselves today, What are we talking about?

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:35-15:37

    How do I pray and receive answers?

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:39-15:40

    Well, it's two things today, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:41-15:42

    And the first has some sub-points.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:43-15:44

    Two things today.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:44-15:45

    We're going to pray in humility, first of all.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:45-15:46

    Pray in humility.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:48-15:49

    Pray in humility.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:49-15:52

    How do I pray and see my prayers answered every time?

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:53-15:55

    Well, we're going to pray for the things that God's already promised to answer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    15:56-16:05

    I promise you, if you guarantee yourself that, "Hey, I'm going to pray for these things that Jesus told me to pray about," because He's already promised to answer, He's going to answer those prayers.

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:05-16:10

    He's already told us ahead of time, "Yeah, you pray like this, you're going to get answers." So we can unpack this a little bit, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:12-16:12

    Pray in humility.

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:13-16:17

    First of all, letter A, what kind of prayers are prayers of humility?

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:17-16:21

    We say, "I need your provision." I need your provision, that's asking.

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:22-16:23

    That's the asking part.

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:24-16:31

    Asking is pleading, but asking by its very nature, asking by its very nature is humility.

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:33-16:36

    Like you have that friend that refuses to ask for help.

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:36-16:37

    Why? Because they're proud.

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:39-16:49

    They won't ask for help. "I don't want any help." Humility says, "I need help." Humility says, "Look, I really need you." That's humility.

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:50-16:53

    And that's the attitude that has to start your prayer life.

    Pastor Jeff:

    16:54-16:59

    To say, "God, I need you." Jesus illustrated this in Luke 18.9. I'm going to paraphrase.

    Pastor Jeff:

    17:01-17:17

    Luke 18, verse 9, Jesus told this story about this Pharisee was praying, and the tax collector was praying, and the Pharisee was like, "God, I thank you that I'm not like other people, and I give and I tithe and I'm awesome." And Jesus said he was just standing and talking to himself.

    Pastor Jeff:

    17:18-17:21

    Then the tax collector wouldn't even look up to heaven.

    Pastor Jeff:

    17:21-17:26

    He says, "God, have mercy on me because I'm just a sinner, God, and I'm miserable.

    Pastor Jeff:

    17:26-17:35

    God, please have mercy on me." Jesus said, "That man went home justified." Because everyone who exalts himself is going to be humbled.

    Pastor Jeff:

    17:35-17:39

    Whoever humbles himself is going to be exalted.

    Pastor Jeff:

    17:39-17:47

    And the difference between the Pharisee and the tax collector, the Pharisee saw no need, there was no desperation, there was no urgency, and the tax collector had all of that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    17:49-17:57

    He's like, "I have the need, I have the desperation, I have the urgency." So ask. Ask. Ask.

    Pastor Jeff:

    17:57-18:03

    Jesus said to ask. He says it like three times just in these couple verses that we look at today.

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:03-18:04

    So what's keeping you from asking?

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:06-18:06

    Ask Him!

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:07-18:08

    Ask Him!

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:10-18:12

    Ask how? Well, here's two words I wrote down.

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:13-18:15

    Ask specific and ask big.

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:16-18:18

    Ask specific and ask big.

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:19-18:27

    And I can tell you as a parent, I get so frustrated when my 11-year-old is asking me for something, but he wants to be vague and beat around the bush.

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:27-18:41

    "Dan, what do you want, Cade? What would you like to do?" "I was kind of hoping..." "Just spit it out, man! Just tell me what you want!" "I can't help you unless you're specific." God wants us to be specific.

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:43-18:47

    How do I know I'm giving my son what he wants unless he's specific in what he's asking for?

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:49-18:49

    Ask specific.

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:50-18:54

    How do you know that God's answering your prayers unless you're specific?

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:54-18:55

    Can I say ask big?

    Pastor Jeff:

    18:56-19:07

    Do you think you're gonna ask God for something that God's like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, slow down." That's a little steep, don't you think?

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:07-19:19

    To be asking the owner of everything who creates things by speaking it into existence, whoa, you might have to let me get some stuff together here, maybe call in some help and maybe I can get back to you and help.

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:20-19:22

    Do you think you're going to overwhelm God with a request?

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:23-19:23

    Do you think?

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:24-19:27

    God's like, you know, you want me to heal him of what?

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:28-19:29

    I don't know how to do that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:31-19:33

    Ask specific and ask big.

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:34-19:36

    You're like, but I don't have the faith to do that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:39-19:41

    You don't need a lot of faith.

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:43-19:48

    Like to remind you, quick analogy, I've shared this before, but it's so important and so appropriate here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:51-19:53

    and very applicable now considering our weather.

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:53-19:57

    But the story goes of the kid who wanted to ice skate and the pond near his house froze.

    Pastor Jeff:

    19:58-20:05

    So he put his skates on, he runs down and he jumps on, but the ice was only like an inch deep because it hadn't frozen very long, he fell right through.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:06-20:09

    Dad saw what happened, dad rescues him, kids traumatized.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:11-20:15

    Well, the next week, ice freezes again, deeper freeze.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:17-20:20

    The ice was two feet thick.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:21-20:22

    Plenty strong enough to hold the kid.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:24-20:25

    Well, this time the kid puts his skates on.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:26-20:28

    He doesn't run and jump on the ice all boldly this time.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:28-20:29

    This time he does it very hesitantly.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:30-20:39

    He kind of goes out and very slowly, very deliberately, takes his time and then he starts skating.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:40-20:41

    What's the point of the story?

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:41-20:42

    The point of the story is this.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:43-20:44

    The first time he went out, his faith was strong.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:45-20:48

    But what he had faith in was weak. Right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:48-20:54

    The second time, his faith was weak, but what he had faith in was strong, and it held him.

    Pastor Jeff:

    20:55-21:01

    And that's why people think, "Oh, you've got to have a lot of faith." No, you don't. Jesus said you need to have faith like a mustard seed.

    Pastor Jeff:

    21:02-21:09

    If you just have a little bit of faith to step out onto that ice, that's all you need.

    Pastor Jeff:

    21:10-21:14

    It's not about the size of your faith, it's about the size of your God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    21:15-21:20

    So pray in humility, "God, I need your provision." Letter B, "I need your wisdom." That's what we're praying.

    Pastor Jeff:

    21:20-21:30

    "I need your wisdom." But Jesus said, "Ask." Jesus says, "To seek." That's even more mature. Seeking that single-minded desire.

    Pastor Jeff:

    21:32-21:40

    "God, there's a truth that I need to know here." What He's talking about here specifically is seeking wisdom.

    Pastor Jeff:

    21:40-21:43

    Do you know how many verses there are in the Bible talking about seeking wisdom?

    Pastor Jeff:

    21:44-21:52

    Proverbs 2.4 says, "If you seek it like silver and search for it as hidden treasure." That's how we're to search for the wisdom of God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    21:55-22:02

    If you discover a treasure map that you're sure, if you follow this treasure map, it'll take you to a treasure worth millions of dollars.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:03-22:05

    You're absolutely sure of that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:05-22:07

    But there's one problem, the map is written in Spanish.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:08-22:10

    Would you learn Spanish? I would.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:11-22:13

    I'd be watching Dora the Explorer on loop.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:15-22:17

    Right? I'd learn Spanish.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:17-22:24

    It would be my life's mission to learn Spanish so that I could use this map to find this treasure.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:25-22:28

    The Bible says that's how we need to diligently go after seeking God's wisdom.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:29-22:31

    That's how diligent we need to be.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:32-22:33

    That's the urgency that we need to have.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:33-22:37

    Seeking to know and apply and understand the things of God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:38-22:39

    That's a prayer God always answers.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:40-22:42

    How can I be a better spouse, God?

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:42-22:44

    Give me wisdom to be a better husband to my wife.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:44-22:46

    God, give me the wisdom to be a better parent.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:47-22:49

    God, how should I deal with this conflict at work?

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:49-22:52

    Give me wisdom on how to represent You here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:52-22:54

    God, how can I resist this temptation?

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:54-22:57

    God always answers those prayers every single time.

    Pastor Jeff:

    22:59-23:00

    But you have to be willing to seek.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:02-23:09

    Right? Jesus said, "If you seek, you're going to find." So what are we praying for? We're praying in humility.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:09-23:11

    I need your provision. I need your wisdom.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:12-23:13

    Thirdly, I need to serve you.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:14-23:15

    I need to serve you.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:17-23:27

    So Jesus says, "Ask and it will be given. Seek and you will find." Look at the third one, "Knock and it will be opened to you." Three types of prayers - increasing maturity, increasing intensity, like communicating with a friend. Everybody with me?

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:28-23:30

    The third one is, "I need to serve you." This is even more mature.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:30-23:39

    This is more than just, "God, I'm asking You for something." This is more than just, "God, I'm seeking You for something." This is banging on the door.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:40-23:41

    Diligence. Diligence.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:41-23:43

    "Hey, hey, I'm here. Let me in.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:43-23:48

    I'm not leaving until you let me in. Let me in." Like, but what door?

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:50-23:52

    What door are we banging on?

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:53-23:58

    The door that we're banging on is the door to God's kingdom.

    Pastor Jeff:

    23:59-24:04

    Like, well, wait a minute, didn't I enter God's kingdom when I received Jesus? Absolutely. Yes.

    Pastor Jeff:

    24:04-24:06

    And that's just one application here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    24:07-24:12

    But there's more application here actually, because this is beyond salvation here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    24:13-24:26

    This is, "God, I want to be a part of what You are doing." Opening doors is a common phrase for God granting access to serve Him in a particular venue.

    Pastor Jeff:

    24:28-24:30

    You know, believe me, here's a couple of verses.

    Pastor Jeff:

    24:30-24:31

    Remember this from Acts 14?

    Pastor Jeff:

    24:32-24:40

    They declared all that God had done with him and how he had opened a door of faith to the Gentiles.

    Pastor Jeff:

    24:41-24:59

    Again, 1 Corinthians 16.9, Paul says, "For a wide door for effective work has opened to me." So when the Bible talks about opening doors, and when Jesus here is talking about knocking on the door, He's talking about serving God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    25:02-25:05

    And I've met a lot of Christians in my life, and this is absolutely true.

    Pastor Jeff:

    25:05-25:10

    Every single sincere, honest, born again follower of Jesus Christ, this is absolutely true.

    Pastor Jeff:

    25:10-25:12

    They desperately want to serve Him.

    Pastor Jeff:

    25:13-25:14

    Every one of them.

    Pastor Jeff:

    25:15-25:29

    Whether it's making videos, or discipling kids, or leading a small group, or running the AV, or whatever.

    Pastor Jeff:

    25:30-25:46

    Every sincere Christian that I've met desperately has something in them that says, "I just want to serve God with the talents He's given me." If you're diligently seeking for Hal to be a part of His work, Jesus said He always answers that prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    25:47-25:51

    When you're knocking, the door is always going to be open for you.

    Pastor Jeff:

    25:53-25:55

    He's going to open doors for you to glorify Him.

    Pastor Jeff:

    25:56-26:04

    I'm sure you notice these three things - asking, seeking, knocking - maturity, but they also increase in your participation with God in the prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:04-26:05

    Did you see that?

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:07-26:11

    In every one of these three things, your participation increases.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:13-26:14

    Like asking, anybody can ask.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:14-26:19

    A child can ask, "Hey, can I have, can I please have, give me..." Anybody can ask.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:19-26:23

    Seeking requires more participation though, because now you're the one looking.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:24-26:28

    requires even more participation because you're banging on the door.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:31-26:36

    This involvement is about a greater participation in prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:37-26:39

    And that's about a deeper relationship with God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:41-26:44

    Like how many people here would say, "Yeah, I want a deeper relationship with God." Anyone?

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:44-26:46

    "A deeper relationship with God, that's what I want.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:46-26:48

    I want a deeper relationship with God." Well, how does that happen?

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:51-26:57

    happens when you are participating in the prayers with God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    26:59-27:00

    Like, what do you mean by that?

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:01-27:02

    Let me give you a couple of examples.

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:03-27:06

    If your prayer has been, "God, I want you to save my co-worker.

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:06-27:08

    I have this co-worker that doesn't know you and God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:08-27:12

    I'm praying that you would save him." How do you think God wants you involved in that prayer?

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:14-27:14

    Any thoughts?

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:16-27:20

    Maybe God wants to use you to witness to that co-worker.

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:20-27:22

    God wants you to invite that co-worker to church.

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:22-27:37

    So as you're praying, "God, I want this person saved," and then you're like, "Hey, I want you to come to my church," and they come to church, and they hear the gospel, and receive Christ, and get baptized, and all of that, you were participating in that prayer with God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:39-27:49

    And you're just like, "Wow, God, look what you did." Another example is you could say, "God, help my financial situation." God, help my financial situation." Well, how are you involved in that?

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:51-27:54

    Maybe you need to go to Financial Peace University.

    Pastor Jeff:

    27:54-27:58

    Maybe you need to get another, maybe a part-time job or whatever.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:00-28:05

    "God, help my financial situation." Participating with God in prayer deepens your relationship.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:07-28:12

    This happened to me several years ago, many years ago, when our kids were babies.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:14-28:17

    We needed diapers, but we were completely out of money.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:17-28:19

    We just were completely out of money.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:19-28:22

    We had like 38 cents in the checkbook, I think.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:23-28:34

    And we needed diapers, and Aaron was like, "What do you want to do?" And I'm like, "Let's just trust that God's going to provide." I had no idea. I was just...

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:34-28:36

    Maybe that was faith, maybe I was just blowing smoke, I don't know.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:36-28:38

    But I wasn't in a good place.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:38-28:40

    I was just like, "I don't know. I don't know what we're going to do.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:40-28:42

    We're just going to...

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:42-28:45

    I guess God's going to provide, I don't know how though.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:47-28:49

    I think that was faith, I don't know.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:50-28:54

    But regardless, what are we going to do? We're out of diapers.

    Pastor Jeff:

    28:55-29:13

    Wouldn't you know, by some strange coincidence, that week my brother calls me and says, "Hey, we're setting up this studio, taking pictures of this hospital equipment." It's like a one-day gig, pays really well, do you want to go do it?

    Pastor Jeff:

    29:13-29:32

    And I'm like, "Yeah." So I hung out with my brother all day, we went to the studio, we built this, it was like an MRI machine or something, and he's like, "Hey, that was fun, you can have my share of the money too." And I went from having nothing to having way more than enough.

    Pastor Jeff:

    29:34-29:35

    And that was how God provided.

    Pastor Jeff:

    29:38-29:54

    So when we ask, when we seek, when we knock, you see, prayer isn't just, "I'm going to throw this prayer up here and hope that God does something." There's a participation that takes place, especially when we seek and when we knock.

    Pastor Jeff:

    29:56-30:11

    And the promise is that if you come with the right attitude, which is humility and dependence, and you pray for the things that God would want for you, which is provision, wisdom, serving, your prayers are going to be answered every time according to Jesus.

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:12-30:21

    Because in verse 8, He says, "For everyone who asks receives." Everyone who seeks finds, everyone who knocks, the door will be opened.

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:22-30:25

    Obviously, everyone implied for all of those.

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:26-30:30

    So as we close here, how are we seeing our prayers answered?

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:30-30:31

    Well, we're going to pray in humility.

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:33-30:35

    But secondly, we can't leave this out because Jesus sure didn't.

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:35-30:36

    we're going to receive like a child.

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:38-30:39

    We're going to receive like a child.

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:40-30:42

    I'd like to remind you of the illustration Jesus used.

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:42-30:46

    Jesus said, "Which one of you, if a son asks him for bread, will give him a stone?

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:48-30:55

    Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent?" Jesus drives the point home with a relatable illustration.

    Pastor Jeff:

    30:56-31:04

    He says in verse 11, "If you then who are evil know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven and give good things to those who ask Him.

    Pastor Jeff:

    31:07-31:08

    Receive like a child.

    Pastor Jeff:

    31:09-31:10

    Jesus said, "You know what?

    Pastor Jeff:

    31:10-31:27

    By nature you're an evil person, but even you being a wicked, evil person, even you know how to take care of your kids." So how much do you think a perfect father who's perfectly loving, who's all wise, and has all resources is going to take care of his kids?

    Pastor Jeff:

    31:29-31:34

    Because no decent parent is going to deceive their child.

    Pastor Jeff:

    31:34-31:36

    That's the purpose of this bread and stone thing, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    31:37-31:39

    That's the issue with the fish and the serpent.

    Pastor Jeff:

    31:40-31:48

    See these things look alike, but one is good for you, and one is harmful.

    Pastor Jeff:

    31:50-31:57

    You know, a piece of bread, you know, Jesus' listeners wouldn't have thought of a big loaf of like wonder bread.

    Pastor Jeff:

    31:57-32:01

    they would have thought of like a little roll, a little biscuit, which would have looked like a rock.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:02-32:07

    If your kid asks you for bread, you're gonna give him a rock, break his teeth on it.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:07-32:09

    No, you're not gonna do that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:10-32:12

    You're an evil person and you wouldn't do that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:13-32:17

    If your kid asks for a fish, you're gonna trick him and give him a snake.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:17-32:19

    No, you wouldn't do that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:19-32:24

    You're not gonna deceive him and you're not gonna give him something that would hurt him.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:25-32:28

    You know, through the week, thinking about how to illustrate this stuff.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:28-32:31

    And sometimes meatballs just land on my lap.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:32-32:37

    But this week I went to Five Below, you know, the dollar store for rich people.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:40-32:44

    And I had to get an iPad charger for Owen or something.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:44-32:46

    And it was Cage was with me.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:46-32:52

    And as we're walking through, Cage is like, "The Bean Boozled Challenge, the Bean Boozled Challenge." He starts like freaking out.

    Pastor Jeff:

    32:52-33:00

    And I'm like, "What is the Bean Boozled Challenge?" He's like, "I watch videos for this on YouTube." I'm like, "What is it?" He's like, "Dad, we gotta do the Bean Boozled Challenge.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:00-33:09

    We gotta do a video of the Bean Boozled Challenge." And I'm like, "Okay." For as excited as he is, I knew the most I was gonna spend on it was $5.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:10-33:17

    So yeah, I'm like, "All right, we'll do the Bean Boozled Challenge." So, can we have a couple of volunteers to do the Bean Boozled Challenge right now?

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:19-33:19

    Anybody?

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:20-33:21

    You can't do it?

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:21-33:22

    You know what it is.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:23-33:24

    Yeah, you know what it is.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:24-33:25

    That's why you don't want to do it.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:25-33:25

    Anybody?

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:27-33:28

    Ryan will do it.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:28-33:29

    Yes!

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:30-33:31

    Come on up here, Ryan.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:33-33:35

    Darren, did you say you'd do it too?

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:35-33:36

    All right.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:37-33:39

    Now here's the BeanBoozled Challenge.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:39-33:40

    No, it's too late.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:41-33:41

    It's too late.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:42-33:43

    Set a good example for the flock.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:44-33:52

    Now in the BeanBoozled Challenge, these jelly beans are colored, but each color has one of two flavors.

    Pastor Jeff:

    33:53-33:56

    For example, the white ones either taste like coconut or spoiled milk.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:00-34:07

    The ones that are like peach colored with the little flecks in it, they either taste like peach or they taste like barf.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:10-34:13

    Look, I did this with my 11 year old, okay?

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:14-34:15

    This was the worst.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:17-34:20

    It's either strawberry banana smoothie or dead fish.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:22-34:25

    The brown ones were either chocolate pudding or canned dog food.

    34:27-34:27

    [LAUGHTER]

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:30-34:32

    Oh, all right.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:33-34:34

    So we're going to get you guys the same color here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:35-34:36

    What do you think?

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:36-34:37

    Do you want to do the barf ones?

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:38-34:39

    OK.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:39-34:40

    All right.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:41-34:43

    So these ones here, you can take those-- Which ones?

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:44-34:45

    That one or that one?

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:45-34:45

    Take one.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:46-34:47

    Don't worry about that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:47-34:47

    Take that one.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:49-34:50

    Just take that color.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:50-34:50

    Yeah.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:50-34:51

    I'll eat this one?

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:51-34:53

    Yeah, same color, same color.

    Pastor Jeff:

    34:55-34:56

    Because I'm the pastor.

    34:58-34:58

    (congregation laughing)

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:01-35:02

    Right, Mike?

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:03-35:05

    I didn't think I had to spell that out for you, Ryan.

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:06-35:10

    All right, so it's either peach or barf.

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:10-35:10

    Who wants to go first?

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:12-35:13

    Same time?

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:13-35:13

    All right, everybody.

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:14-35:16

    One, two, three.

    Ryan:

    35:19-35:19

    Both.

    35:20-35:21

    (audience laughing)

    Ryan:

    35:23-35:23

    This is peach.

    35:25-35:25

    (audience laughing)

    Ryan:

    35:30-35:31

    I hate this.

    Ryan:

    35:31-35:33

    I'm never coming home to this guy.

    Ryan:

    35:34-35:35

    It was Sarah's fault.

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:35-35:37

    All right, give him a hand.

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:37-35:38

    Give him a hand.

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:44-35:46

    You're like, what was the purpose of that illustration?

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:48-35:49

    Jesus was saying God doesn't do that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:52-35:54

    Like Pastor Jeff might, but God doesn't.

    Pastor Jeff:

    35:55-35:58

    Look, listen, I have been telling you for years that I'm not God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:00-36:01

    He is God and I am not.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:02-36:03

    God wouldn't do that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:03-36:04

    You see, and that's the point.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:04-36:06

    One of those - was that really bad, Ryan?

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:08-36:08

    Was it pretty bad?

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:11-36:15

    Well, it's pretty rough.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:16-36:16

    It's pretty rough.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:17-36:21

    The point of that is just simply this, God isn't like that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:22-36:25

    God, to use this illustration, God only gives peach.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:26-36:27

    That's all God gives.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:28-36:30

    God's not gonna give you a bar flavored jelly bean.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:30-36:31

    I want you to tweet that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:33-36:34

    You don't have to put my name on that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:36-36:37

    He only gives peach.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:38-36:52

    But maybe someone here is saying, you know, Jeff, I hear all you're saying, yeah, yeah, yeah, I see, knock, yeah, yeah, I see all you're saying, but listen, Pastor Jeff, I have sincerely asked from the Lord, unselfishly, and He hasn't answered my prayers.

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:53-36:54

    So what's up with that?

    Pastor Jeff:

    36:56-36:58

    I have prayed, and He hasn't answered.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:00-37:02

    Well, we can certainly see the parent side of the illustration.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:04-37:07

    But can we look at the kid side of the illustration for a second?

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:10-37:19

    For those of you that have kids of various ages, Parents, I want to ask you, do your kids always know what's good for them?

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:24-37:26

    We have a little dispute up here, Stacy.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:27-37:28

    Do your kids always know what's good for them?

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:30-37:33

    They think, oh, oh, oh, now we're onto something here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:33-37:36

    Look, I love you boys, but look, I'm a parent too.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:36-37:38

    I gotta tell you, Alex is right.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:39-37:41

    Kids think they know what's best for them, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:43-37:45

    but do kids always know what's best for them?

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:46-37:51

    I was thinking about this this week, I'm like, seldom they know what's good for them.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:51-37:53

    And I thought a little bit more about my kids.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:53-37:54

    I'm like, no, never.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:54-37:56

    My kids never know what's good for them.

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:57-37:58

    If you ask my kids, what do you want?

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:58-37:59

    Do you know what it would be?

    Pastor Jeff:

    37:59-38:07

    It would be Pepsi and like cookies for breakfast, lunch, and supper, and lay on the couch and watch cartoons and play video games.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:07-38:08

    They think this is what I want.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:09-38:11

    Now, as a parent, am I gonna give my kids what they want?

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:12-38:15

    No, like, look, that's not good for you.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:16-38:18

    That's not good for you, have some jelly beans.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:18-38:19

    That's not good for you.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:20-38:22

    It's not good for you.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:24-38:30

    Because here's the thing, parents, parents know better.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:32-38:32

    Parents know better.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:34-38:36

    And we are the kids in this equation here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:37-38:40

    And like Alex says, we think we know what's good for us.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:41-38:48

    And we wrongly think that answered prayer, answered prayer means that God did what we told him to do.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:50-38:52

    That's what we think answered prayer means.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:52-38:54

    God did what we told him to do.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:54-38:55

    Well, God is not your waiter.

    Pastor Jeff:

    38:57-39:03

    Maybe his answer in his perfect wisdom as a perfect parent is no.

    Pastor Jeff:

    39:05-39:11

    Maybe the equivalent of what you're asking God for is can I drink nothing but Pepsi all day?

    Pastor Jeff:

    39:11-39:40

    now. I'm not giving you that. Because I love you. Maybe the answer to God's prayer is not yet. Yeah, I hear what you're asking for and that's a good thing, but now's not the time. You know what, I have a date circled on the calendar of when I'm going to give that to you, but I'm not going to give that to you right now. You see, when God says no or when God says not yet, that is the good answer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    39:43-39:45

    Because no can ultimately be good news.

    Pastor Jeff:

    39:47-39:54

    God gives us what is good, or He withholds what we want because it might be bad.

    Pastor Jeff:

    39:56-39:58

    Even if I don't recognize that.

    Pastor Jeff:

    39:59-40:03

    Psalm 62, verses 11-12, I love these verses.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:03-40:05

    You should commit these to your heart.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:06-40:10

    If you commit these to your heart, this will revolutionize your prayer life right here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:10-40:27

    "Once God has spoken, twice I have heard this, "that power belongs to God, "and to the you, O Lord, belongs steadfast love, "for you will render to a man according to his work." Powerful prayer is backed by two things.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:27-40:32

    It's this, God will move because He is able and because He loves me.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:35-40:36

    That's what the psalmist said.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:36-40:38

    God has the power and God has the love.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:38-40:42

    And that is why God will move when we pray.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:43-40:43

    So pray.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:44-40:47

    Don't just say your prayers, get alone with God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:49-40:55

    Get on your face and ask Him specifically for His provision and it's going to be given to you.

    Pastor Jeff:

    40:56-41:01

    Seek His wisdom and you're going to find it.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:02-41:11

    Knock on the door to enter God's work I'm happy to be open for you, because if you pray in humility and receive like a child, you're going to have a powerful prayer.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:12-41:13

    Let's pray.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:14-41:21

    Father in heaven, I pray that you would change us today into people who say our prayers, into people who pray.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:22-41:33

    Into people who, instead of just praying, Father, we would be people who learn what it means to ask, learn what it means to seek, and learn what it means to knock.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:35-41:37

    God, You are the perfect parent.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:37-41:41

    So ultimately, God, we pray according to Your will.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:42-41:46

    Sometimes, Father, I'm like that foolish kid that thinks I know better.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:46-41:47

    I know what God should do for me.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:48-41:50

    I know what is good for me.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:51-41:52

    And I sure don't.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:53-41:54

    You do, God.

    Pastor Jeff:

    41:55-41:59

    So let my prayers be, yes, big and specific, but also according to You.

    Pastor Jeff:

    42:01-42:08

    believing firmly in the power of prayer, always be a pillar of this church that we go after consistently.

    Pastor Jeff:

    42:11-42:14

    Share yourself mighty, we pray in Jesus' name, Amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read Matthew 7:7-11

  1. Why do you think prayer is such a struggle for many sincere Christians?

  2. How would you respond to someone who says, "I tried praying, and it didn't work."

  3. State Jesus' teaching in Matt 7:7-8 in your own words, regarding "asking... seeking...  knocking".

  4. How does Jesus' parent / child illustration help you understand prayer in a better way (Matt 7:9-11)?

Breakout Questions:

Pray for each other, using Jesus' instructions here!