Getting Back to Personal Holiness

Introduction:


Letting God Deal with My Sin

  1. You can be Refined. (Mal 3:1-4)

  2. Review: 2 Corinthians 5:21 | Ephesians 4:30 | 1 Thessalonians 5:19


  3. ...or you can be Judged. (Mal 3:5)

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    Big stuff this morning as we turn to God's Word.

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    Open up with me to the book of Malachi, in chapter 2.

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    While you're turning there, the Bible says to give honor to who honor is due.

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    And when I came in here this morning, I saw that we have two special guests with us all the way from Kentucky.

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    And these are two people that had a huge impact on my life and on my walk with the Lord.

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    So Frank and Susanna, would you stand up, please?

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    I didn't tell them ahead of time, but you guys, it is so good to see you.

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    It is so good to see you guys, and thanks for being with us today, and thank you for everything that you've done.

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    The Lord has used you guys so huge in my life, and I thank God for you.

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    All right, Malachi chapter two, are you there?

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    You're still turning there.

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    the last book before the New Testament.

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    You know, about a month ago, our family was going to Kohl's.

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    Now, I don't know if you know this, but Kohl's does this thing where they give you Kohl's cash.

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    How many people are aware of the Kohl's cash?

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    Oh, okay, like most of you.

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    I don't know how this program works, but they basically send you money and say, "Come and spend this at our store." And my wife's like, "It's gonna expire, "so we gotta go spend it." And I'm always like, why doesn't Taco Bell have a program like that for me?

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    One can hope.

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    Anyways, I dropped Aaron off at Kohl's and I took the kids to Five Below because we like to -- you know what Five Below is, the dollar store for rich people.

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    So we ran around Five Below and we'd throw the footballs and play with all the stuff until we'd get thrown out.

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    So then we went to pick up Aaron, and as I was walking in with our two boys -- and if you don't know, our boys are 12 and 11, and my younger son, K, as we're walking in, he just, we get into Cole's and he just takes off.

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    And I thought to myself, here's a teachable moment.

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    So I just ducked behind one of the clothes racks because I wanted him to get far enough ahead that he had one of those like holy cow moments where his dad, to teach him that he should stick a little closer to his father.

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    And we had that moment, I was watching him, he's just running off by himself, and all of a sudden I could see him stop, and I saw this, he was like, "Dad? Dad?" And then the panic set in his face.

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    And I let that rest for a little bit, okay?

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    Like I let him panic, and then I stepped out, and I'm like, "Here I am." And he did not enjoy that at all, but he's like, "Why are you telling us this horrible parenting story.

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    Because the truth is, a lot of us in our walk with the Lord, a lot of us are like Kate.

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    We know that we're supposed to stick close to the Father, right?

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    We know with the Father is the safe place and the place we need to be.

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    But sometimes we just sort of aren't paying attention.

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    Or we allow sin a place in our lives, or whatever the case.

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    But we find ourselves drifting.

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    And all of a sudden, we're like, wait a minute.

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    I don't want to be here. I want to be close to my father.

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    I need to get back on track, right?

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    I need to... and see, like in that story, the father never took his eyes off of the son.

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    I was with him the whole time.

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    He was the one that was drifting.

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    And I was the one that's like, "Hey, I'm right here. I'm right here." That's why the series we're going through in Malachi is called "Getting Back on Track." because we're studying a period in the history of Israel where the nation had gotten way off track again.

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    And God sends Malachi to get them back on track.

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    That's what the Bible calls repentance.

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    Remember, we've been talking about that.

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    Repentance is a change of mind that leads to a change in conduct.

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    We saw, first of all, Malachi, to get back on track, you need to get back to real worship.

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    Remember what real worship is?

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    It's you breathe in God's love, right?

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    And you breathe out reverence for God.

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    That's worship, living in his love and breathing out that reverence for him.

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    Last week we saw getting back on track means married people, you need to get back to your marriage commitment because God made it crystal clear.

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    If you're not being faithful in your marriage, you're not being faithful to him.

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    We saw that very clearly in the text last week.

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    Faithless in marriage is faithless to God.

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    Look at verse 17 in chapter 2. Are you there?

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    Verse 17 says, "You have wearied the Lord with your words." Let's just stop right there and try to wrap our brains around the magnitude of that statement.

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    Do you know the Bible says that God is the only person that doesn't get tired?

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    My son asked me, "Dad, why do we have to sleep?" I said because that's our daily reminder that we are not God Because the Bible says only God never gets tired but here in this passage God's like I'm you've worn me out and Literally what God is saying in this passages I am out of patience with you I am completely worn out with you parents any parents ever said that to your kids. I'm worn out with you. Oh Just me just me Just okay. Griah, okay You're like, "No, Pastor Jeff, we want to hear more stories about what a horrible parent you are." Sorry, well maybe you can use this information to share with other bad parents that you might know.

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    But God says, "You have worn me out!" And you say, "How have we wearied him?" By saying, "Everyone who does evil is good in the sight of the Lord, and he delights in them." Or by asking, "Where is the God of justice?" God says, "I'm tired of hearing these accusations." He says, "Your words have worn me out." What words?

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    Well, you saw the questions here.

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    Check out these questions because these sort of set the stage for everything that follows.

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    God says, "I'm worn out with this constant accusation.

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    who does evil is good in the sight of the Lord and he delights in them." You realize what a horrific statement that is. Saying God loves sin. He must love it.

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    God must love watching people sin. And then the question, "Where is the God of justice?" Understand this isn't honest seeking. Okay, God's all about honest seeking. If you're like, "God, I don't understand what you're doing and I want know you and I want to I want to understand this isn't honest seeking this is what we would call jerky questioning where's the God of justice Oh God's a God of justice okay where is he where is he God cares so much about justice doesn't he where is he I don't see it I'll be honest I don't see it I don't see it God loves sin here's the summary statement of what the accusation God must love sin because He's not doing anything about it.

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    That's basically what they're saying.

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    He must love it.

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    God must delight in sin because He's not doing anything about it.

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    Do you think that thought ever crosses the minds of people today?

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    Every ISIS attack.

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    We live in a day that you can watch them online.

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    Why isn't God doing something about them?

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    every abortion. Why isn't God doing something about that? He must not mind, he must not mind the murder of infants because he's not doing anything about it.

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    Maybe he likes it. This debacle in Charlottesville last week, you've been following this in the news? The wickedness of racism, the hatred. God must enjoy watching black people and white people tear each other apart because he certainly didn't do anything about it. He must enjoy watching that because he's doing nothing. And when you start to doubt God's love, when you start to doubt God's love, it's easy to just fall into your own favorite sin because you rationalize it like this, "Well God's not doing anything about sin, so what the I'll just do what I want to do. I'm not going to ask for a show of hands like how many people have ever thought that because I guarantee you every one of us have been tempted in that way. Say, God must not care so I don't care either.

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    You see God gave us his word. God gave us his word as the standard to distinguish reality from illusion.

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    And I'm going to blow the cover on the biggest illusion that exists in the world today.

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    And here's the biggest illusion. Are you ready?

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    The biggest illusion is this, sin has no consequences.

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    That's the biggest illusion.

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    Sin has no consequences.

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    Do you think Israel was under this illusion when Malachi was speaking these words?

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    Absolutely, they are. You'd think the United States of America is under this illusion in our day.

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    Sin has no consequences. Sin has no consequences in my personal conduct, my personal walk with the Lord, my personal holiness we're going to talk about today. Those things are all irrelevant.

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    That's the illusion, because the truth is when it comes to your personal walk with the Lord, it matters greatly to God, and it should matter greatly to you.

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    So on your outline, personal holiness, letting God deal with my sin, I'm going to give you the whole outline right now, okay?

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    Because really, when it comes to God dealing with your sin, you have two choices. We're going to see it in the text. There's two choices, Because first of all, we have to establish all of us by nature are sinners.

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    By nature.

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    We've all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, the Bible says.

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    And if you are wanting to dispute that, I don't think I can help you.

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    It's clear that we all have a sin problem by nature.

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    So here's your two choices, letting God deal with my sin.

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    You can be refined or you can be judged. You have the choice.

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    You can be refined or you can be judged.

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    But first of all, number one, let's talk about this.

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    You can be refined.

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    Number one.

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    Now we're going to do a little Bible study here.

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    You ready?

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    Now, sometimes, let's be honest, sometimes it's hard to understand some Old Testament prophecy.

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    And I'm going to explain to you why.

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    Because the Old Testament prophets, They saw the coming of the Messiah as one event.

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    And because of where we live in history, looking back in history, and also looking ahead because of prophecy, we understand that the coming of the Messiah is actually two events.

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    But understand in the Old Testament, they never saw that.

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    Here's what they saw. The Messiah comes, the Messiah suffers, the Messiah reigns.

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    Every prophecy in the Old Testament, the Messiah comes, the Messiah suffers, the Messiah reigns over all the earth.

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    The Messiah comes, the Messiah suffers, the Messiah reigns.

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    There's a couple thousand years between the coming and suffering of the Messiah and the reigning of the Messiah.

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    But they didn't see that.

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    There's not one verse in the Old Testament about the church. Not one.

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    They had no idea about this church age that we live in. They didn't see it.

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    And Jesus said in Matthew 13 that the church age is a mystery, meaning it was not revealed before, but Jesus said, "I'm revealing it to you now." In the parables of Matthew 13, Jesus talked about the church age.

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    So, when we go through the Old Testament prophecies about the Messiah, some are about his first coming, and some are about his second coming.

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    Okay, does that make sense?

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    They just saw it as one event, but we know it's two, for sure.

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    You're like, "Well, how do I know the difference?" It's easy.

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    When I read Old Testament prophecy about the Messiah, I just ask myself this question, did Jesus do that the first time he came?

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    If the answer is yes, I'm like, okay, that prophecy is about his first coming.

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    If I'm reading a prophecy and I say, did Jesus do that the first time he came?

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    And the answer is no.

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    Okay, well, then that applies to a second coming.

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    Pretty easy, right?

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    It gets tricky reading it though, because sometimes we'll see here, be like in the same verse covering both advents of the Messiah. Okay, chapter 3 look at the verse 1. Now understand this is God's response to the question. Now this chapter and verse breaks, you know, those aren't the inspired part. Those were added later for convenience so it's not like Israel asked this question, "Where's the God of justice?" And God's like, "Okay, chapter 3 on to the next thing." "We never We're answered our question. This is the answer to the question Check out God's answer God says behold I send my messenger and he will prepare the way before me Now this messenger refers to John the Baptist Scripture makes that crystal clear Matthew 3 Matthew 11 Matthew 17 John the Baptist came in the spirit and power of Elijah We're going to see it again in Malachi 4-5 when we get there.

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    Luke 1-17.

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    God says, "I'm sending this messenger to prepare the way before me." Like, what's going on there?

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    Well, understand, back in biblical times, when a king was traveling, he would send somebody ahead of him to clear the way, make sure there are no potholes or danger or trees down in the road.

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    He would go ahead so that the king could just have a smooth path right along the way.

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    He prepared the way for the King to come.

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    John the Baptist fulfilled that, interestingly.

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    How did John the Baptist prepare the way for Jesus Christ to come?

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    See, God's like, "I'm going to show up on the earth personally in the form of a man, and somebody's going to go ahead of me." How did John the Baptist prepare the way?

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    He prepared the way by preaching what?

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    What was John the Baptist's sermon?

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    Repentance, right?

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    John the Baptist shows up, he goes, "Hey, the Messiah is coming. You better..." What's this sermon series? "Get back on track. Repent." Right?

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    "You better get back on track. You better repent.

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    You better change your mind about some things, because about 15 minutes behind me, the King is coming." Look on here with me. Chapter 3, verse 1.

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    It says, "And the Lord whom you seek will suddenly come to his temple.

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    And the messenger of the covenant in whom you delight, behold, he is coming," It says, "The Lord of hosts." Okay, this is obviously from the context, he's talking about a different messenger.

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    This messenger here is Jesus Christ himself, the messenger of the new covenants.

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    Verse 2, "But who can endure the day of his coming?

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    And who can stand when he appears?

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    For he is like a refiner's fire and like fuller's soap.

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    He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver, and He will purify the sons of Levi, and refine them like gold and silver.

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    And they will bring offerings and righteousness to the Lord.

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    Then the offerings of Judah and Jerusalem will be pleasing to the Lord, as in the days of old, and as in former years." Okay, so this purifying of the nation of Israel, and once again offering righteous sacrifices before the Lord, has that happened yet?

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    No, so that's future, right?

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    God promises there's going to be a nationwide restoration of the nation of Israel.

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    So God's answer to their question, "Where is the God of justice?" He's on His way.

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    He's on His way.

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    And He might not be who you're expecting, because He is a refiner and He's a purifier.

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    Now, this is a show of hands question.

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    How many people here need refined?

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    Who needs refined?

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    I do. Both hands up. I do.

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    I need refined, because we all have this sin problem.

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    And the point of God's answer here is, He has a plan to purify His people, and the plan is a person.

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    Jesus Christ.

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    See, Jesus Christ, listen, if you're sitting here today, you don't know Him as your Lord and Savior.

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    He wants you to come as you are.

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    He will take you as you are, but He loves you too much to leave you that way.

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    And that's what the Lord is pointing out here, like, "Look, my people that I'm taking, I'm going to refine them.

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    I'm going to purify them. I'm going to cleanse them." That's why we're talking about holiness today.

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    Now, when we talk about holiness, I think some people think of stained glass and pipe organs.

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    Holiness means morally blameless.

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    It means totally separated from sin.

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    God Himself is inherently holy, meaning that God always knows what is right, and God always does what is right, Because that is always consistent with his character But the tough pill for us to swallow As God commands us to be holy did you know that Old Testament and new Leviticus 1144 first Peter 116 God says you shall be holy For I am holy You say well that sounds pretty serious oh Oh, it gets more serious.

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    Hebrews 12, 14 says, "Without holiness, no one will see the Lord." If you are not holy, if you are not holy, you will never see the Lord.

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    So do you see the problem?

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    The problem with holiness is God requires it.

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    We don't have it, and we can't get it.

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    So what shot do we have?

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    God gives it to us.

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    That's where it comes from.

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    And you see, that's the definition of grace.

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    What is grace?

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    Grace is God giving to you what he requires from you.

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    God says, "I require you to be holy and righteous." You're like, "Well, I sure don't have that." And God in His grace says, "Well, I'm going to give you holiness.

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    I'm going to give you righteousness because I require it from you.

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    That's grace.

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    Like, wow, that's pretty amazing.

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    How holy does God make me?

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    Holy is my grandma because she was pretty holy.

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    Holier than your grandma.

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    You're like, well, do you mean like as holy as the preacher from my old church?

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    Because that guy was no holier than that.

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    How holy does God make us?

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    in His gift. This is one of my favorite verses in the whole Bible, 2nd Corinthians 5 21.

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    For our sake, He, that's God the Father, made Him, that's God the Son, sin will replace those pronouns, for our sake, God made Jesus to be sin.

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    Who knew no sin? So that in Him, we might become the righteousness of God.

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    And understand, this is the only option you have of obtaining holiness.

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    Jesus Christ says, "I will make you a trade." And this is the wildest trade in history.

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    Jesus says, "Here's the trade. You give me all your sin, all your guilt, all your shame. I'll take that." That's why it says, "God made Jesus to be sin." Okay, so I want you to picture in your mind's eye Jesus Christ on the cross.

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    When He was hanging there, God was punishing Him.

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    God the Father was punishing Him for every sin you've ever committed, every sin I've ever committed, every thoughtless, irresponsible, wicked, rebellious thought, action, attitude.

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    God was pouring out His wrath on Jesus Christ.

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    That's what was agonizing Christ about going to the cross.

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    wasn't the physical pain Jesus knew he was going to be bearing the wrath of God for my sin notice it says he made him to be sent who knew no sin it's important to understand Jesus never sinned because if Jesus sinned if Jesus sinned and he was on the cross you're like well he got what was coming to him he was sinless and that is what made him uniquely qualified to take our sin he was paying that he didn't know!

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    Because we owed a penalty that we couldn't pay.

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    On the cross, Jesus took my sin and your sin, He took that on Himself.

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    And look at the trade here.

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    So that in Him, we might become the righteousness of God.

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    So how righteous does God make you when you receive Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior?

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    How righteous does He make you?

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    The answer biblically is God sees you as righteous as Himself.

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    And I've shared this with you before.

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    This is the most mind-blowing concept in the entire Bible to me.

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    That God would look at me and say, "You are completely righteous." I've never struggled with creation or the Trinity or any of those things.

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    Like, "Okay, that's what the Bible says." But this thing here just blows my mind.

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    that God would pronounce you as righteous as Himself, because of His gift of grace, His gift of holiness.

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    We're going to pause right now, because I want the reality and the magnitude of this to set in.

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    Darren, if you come up here, and if our ushers would come forward, we're going to receive the Lord's Supper.

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    You're right in the middle of the message.

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    And we're going to receive this.

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    I want you to hold on to the elements as they're passed out.

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    We're going to receive this together.

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    But this is our opportunity.

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    We're going to pause.

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    You see, taking this doesn't make us holy.

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    The reason we do this is this is a reminder.

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    This is a reminder of who made us holy.

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    And this is a reminder of how he made us holy.

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    The freshers would pass out the elements, hold on.

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    We'll receive the Lord's Supper together.

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    This is a reminder that holiness, right standing before God, righteousness, forgiveness, we couldn't get that ourselves.

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    But Jesus Christ said, "This is my body, which is given for you.

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    Eat this in remembrance of me." And this messenger of the covenant we saw here in Malachi 3, Jesus said, "Here's the covenant. This is the new covenant in my blood, which is poured out for the forgiveness of sin.

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    Drink this in remembrance of me." Amen.

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    Holiness, you can be refined.

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    I mentioned this briefly last week, but holiness is a reality and a process.

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    It's a reality and a process.

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    Remember last week we talked about that.

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    If I went and enlisted in the army today, soon as I signed my name on the documents, you could say, "Okay, you're a soldier now." Then why in the world am I going to bootcamp?

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    Because we're going to make you a soldier.

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    It's a reality and a process at the same time.

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    So it is with marriage, right?

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    God pronounces you one.

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    You're no longer two, but one.

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    And your married life together as husbands and wives is the two of you becoming one.

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    It's a reality and it's a process.

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    Holiness is the same way.

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    It's a reality.

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    When you believe in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, God pronounces you holy.

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    And the rest of your life on earth is becoming that which God has already pronounced you.

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    You say, but if this is a work of God, what can I do about it?

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    How can I have a part in this?

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    Why am I listening to this message?

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    Is this just FYI?

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    Well, first of all, you have to be born again.

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    Okay, if you don't know Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, if you're not born again, any of these things that we talk about today are just going to be exercises in futility.

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    You don't have the power, you don't have the resources, you're not going to be able to pull it off.

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    It starts with saying, "God, I realize that I'm a sinner, and I can't save myself, and I am crying out to you for the mercy that you've shown us in Jesus Christ.

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    I want to receive him, Father, as my Lord and Savior.

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    When you do that, the Bible says, God's spirit lives within you.

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    So your part of growing in holiness is learning to walk by the spirit.

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    Like, well, how does that happen?

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    It starts with knowing the word of God.

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    That's how it starts. Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of Christ.

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    Your growth in the Lord starts with knowing the Word of God, and it's cooperating with the Holy Spirit within you.

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    Somehow the Holy Spirit works with the Word to empower you to make choices of obedience to live out your identity in Jesus Christ.

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    I'm going to say that again, because this is what it means to grow in holiness.

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    The Holy Spirit works with the Word of God to empower you to make choices of obedience, to live out your identity in Christ.

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    Like, well, how does that look day to day?

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    Walking in the Spirit, a lot of times, is about saying yes and no.

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    I'm going to give you two scriptures. I want you to write these down.

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    I want you to meditate on these.

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    Ephesians 4.30 says, "And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption." Holy Spirit, He is God. He is God living inside you.

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    And the Bible says that you can grieve Him.

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    Like, well, how do you grieve him?

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    You grieve the Holy Spirit when he tells you not to do something and you do it anyways.

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    And the Holy Spirit says, "Don't, don't lose your temper.

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    Don't lose your temper.

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    Why don't you stop and pray? Don't lose your temper." And you're like, "Heck with it. I'm losing my temper.

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    I'm blowing up at that person." You've just said no to the Holy Spirit. That grieves the Holy Spirit.

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    That's why I understand this. That's why Christians feel guilty sometimes.

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    You're not guilty in the sense of now you are condemned for your sin again.

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    you feel guilty, that's the spirit within you grieving.

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    Like I very clearly told you not to do that and you chose to do it anyways. You're grieving the spirit.

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    When the Holy Spirit says you shouldn't be looking at that garbage on your computer, men, you say, "Well, one more time." Or, "Well, I'm not sure it's really, is this really necessarily sinful looking at this stuff?" And you try to justify it and question God's Word, which never got anywhere good. The Holy Spirit says don't do that. You do it anyways you are grieving the Holy Spirit. That's why you feel that, that's why you feel that sense of self-disgust as a Christian when you sin because you're grieving God's Holy Spirit within you. So when the Holy Spirit says don't and you do it anyways you're grieving the Spirit. 1 Thessalonians 5.19 says do not quench the Spirit. What does that mean? Well that's sort of the other side of the That's when the Holy Spirit is telling you to do something and you don't do it.

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    Like when the Holy Spirit is saying, "You know, you need to get involved in ministry down at that church.

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    You know, they've been talking about this outreach at Tomorrow's Home for Youth and you need to get involved in that." And you're like, "No, no, no.

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    Excuse, excuse, excuse." You're quenching the Spirit.

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    The Spirit's trying to fire you up and you're just taking a big bucket of water, dumping it on, dumping it on, when you say no to the Holy Spirit.

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    the Holy Spirit says, "You know what? You need to reconcile with that person.

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    You have an unforgiving spirit towards that person and you need to go to them and you need to reconcile." Say, "No, no, no. When they come to me first and I'm not ready for that, I'm going to..." You're quenching the Spirit.

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    So as you learn to walk in the Spirit, you're going to see God refining you.

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    Finally for today, Here's the other option.

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    You can be refined, or you can be judged.

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    And I think it's necessary to discuss this, because there might be somebody sitting here saying, "What if I'm not interested in being refined?

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    What if I'm not interested in all this holiness stuff you're talking about?

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    What if I don't want to be made holy? What if I...

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    Hey, look, what if I want to live life by my own terms?

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    What if I want to do what I want to do, instead of having God tell me what to do?" If that's your choice, I got good news and bad news for you.

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    The good news is you can do that.

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    You totally have that option.

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    You can do that.

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    The bad news is it's not going to end well for you.

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    Look at verse five.

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    The Lord says, "Then I will draw near to you for judgment." Again, this is talking about end times, restoration of Israel.

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    God says, "I'm coming to refine, but I'm also coming to what?

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    To judge.

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    Then I will draw near to you for judgment.

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    I will be a swift witness against the sorcerers, against the adulterers, against those who swear falsely, against those who oppress the hired worker in his wages, the widow and the fatherless, meaning oppressing those people too, against those who thrust aside the Sojourner and do not fear me, says the Lord of hosts.

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    Quickly, we could do a sermon on each one of these going to, but he gives five representative sins. Sorcerers, first of all. Sorcerers.

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    The Septuagint, the Greek translation of the Old Testament, translates this word pharmacos, which is where we get the word, any guesses? Pharmacy. And that was very common to use drugs for occultic purposes. Like, oh, Pastor Jeff, that's so first century. People don't do that anymore. You are dead wrong. I know somebody that came out of that. And she said, "Yeah, that's what we would do. The drugs would open our minds to the spirit realm." She said it was extremely occultic.

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    Adulterers. Adulterers. Sexuality expressed however I feel like it.

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    No rules, right? No rules.

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    Boy, there's a word for our culture today.

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    Those who swear falsely, you're a liar, you don't keep your word.

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    God says, "Judgment's coming. I'm coming near to you, too." Next up, taking advantage, we'll just say taking advantage of the helpless.

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    You know, you see this list of people that you should be helping.

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    Instead, you use them for your own advantage.

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    God notices that. Turn aside the sojourner. No compassion. There it is again, no compassion for those in need. Best of luck to you kid, you're on your own. No compassion. Then the last phrase really is the summary statement, right? Do not fear me. People that don't fear God, that just sums it up, doesn't it?

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    It takes us back to reverence we talked about a couple of weeks ago. You see, just Just as the refiner's fire separates the metal from the impurities, and just as the soap separates the garment from the dirt, God is ultimately going to cleanse His people by separating them from sin/sinners.

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    So your choice is this.

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    You can know God as a refiner, or you can know God as a judge.

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    Refining can be a painful process, but it has a great result.

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    Judging is painful for eternity.

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    As we wrap up here, you know, life, let's just be honest, life is hard.

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    And sometimes, as I said at the beginning of this message, I've been tempted to ask the same questions that Israel was asking in verse 17.

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    Why isn't God doing something?

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    Have I tried to follow God for nothing?

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    Does it even matter what I do?

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    Because you know, honestly, wicked people seem better off than me.

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    You ever thought that?

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    My neighbor doesn't give a rip about God.

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    It's just like that guy wins the lottery like three times a day.

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    Does God even care?

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    I'd like you to go back, look at verse 3.

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    God's Word is so specific.

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    Look at verse 3.

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    It says, "He will sit as a refiner and purifier of..." what?

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    Silver.

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    So I did a little studying this week on how silver is refined and purified.

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    I'm not going to give you the whole chemical process, okay?

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    But I do want to give you the overview.

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    The silver ore is placed in intense heat.

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    And the intense heat burns off the dross.

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    What is dross?

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    Well, dross is basically the scum on molten metal.

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    And as that refiner, as that purifier of the silver is sitting and burning the silver, The question is, how does he know when he's done?

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    How does he know when that silver is purified?

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    And the answer to that question completely blew my mind as it's going to blow yours.

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    The refiner knows that he's done and the silver is purified when he can see his reflection in the silver.

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    And I want to encourage you today, church, whatever hardships you're facing, And I know some of you are facing some very severe hardships right now.

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    The hardships that you are facing are like fire.

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    Because God is using them to refine you.

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    And God sees the refining is working on you when He sees His reflection in you.

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    God's goal for you is to make you more and more like Jesus Christ.

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    every moment, every day, every step, more and more like his son.

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    So with his hand on the thermostat, God is refining you one degree at a time, one hardship at a time, one day at a time, until he sees his reflection in you.

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    So let God make you into what he's already pronounced you to be.

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    And that's holy.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, we thank you for the pronouncement of holiness.

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    But honestly, God, sometimes it's hard to say thank you for the refining process because it hurts.

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    It is painful and it always seems to last too long.

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    But remind us today, God, that you are the one with your hand on the thermostat.

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    You are the one looking at us, looking for your reflection in the silver, so to speak.

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    But while the trials are unpleasant, might we find a renewed sense of joy in the purposes you are going to accomplish through them.

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    God, I pray today that we would be a people who would embrace you as a refiner.

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    I pray, Father, we would be horrified at the thought of having to face you as a judge.

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    And if there's somebody here who doesn't know you, I pray that you wouldn't give them a minute's rest until they embrace the grace that you've poured out in Jesus Christ, so that they will never have to experience you as a judge.

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    Father, we thank you for your faithfulness to us. We see it in Israel. We see it in our day.

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    That's why we're going through this text. We are by nature, we are wayward people, yet you continue to pursue us. You continue to refine us. You are faithful. You are committed even when we are not. Turn our hearts to you, Father. We pray in Jesus' name. Amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read Malachi 2:17-3:5

  1. In your own words, summarize the problems stated in Mal 2:17. How do you see these same problems in our culture?

  2. How would you summarize God’s answer (Mal 3:1-5) to the questions in Mal 2:17?

  3. What does it mean that God is a refiner (Mal 3:2-3)? How does God refine His people? How will God ultimately refine all His people (Mal 3:3-4)?

Breakout Questions:

What areas need "burned" off of you to make you more like Christ?
Go around, state the area needing refined, and pray over these things. 

Getting Back to Marriage Commitment

Introduction:


Faithless in Marriage is Faithless to God

Review: Matthew 5:23 | 1 Timothy 3:4-5 | 1 Timothy 5:8


  1. Because you made a Covenant before God. (Mal 2:10-12)


  2. Because you are being Joined Together by God. (Mal 2:13-15a)

  3. Matthew 19:6 - So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.


  4. Because you have a Purpose for God. (Mal 2:15b-16)

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    Turn in your Bibles to the book of Malachi 2.

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    It's the last book of the Old Testament.

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    While you're turning there, you know, I heard this story of this man who was looking for a job.

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    And the only job he could find, which he took because he needed the money, but the only job he could find was painting the yellow lines on the road.

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    You're like, "That doesn't sound too bad." They didn't have any machinery for him.

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    So when he showed up for work the first day, they gave him a giant bucket of yellow paint and a paintbrush.

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    And they said, "Get to work." And he said, "Well, I'm just glad to have a job and earn some money." So he went to work and he showed up to his boss the first day, at the end of the day.

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    His boss said, "How much did you get done?" The guy said, "I got about six miles painted today." The boss said, "Six miles? That's incredible!

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    "That is fantastic! We'll see you tomorrow." So the man shows up the next day at work and goes right to work.

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    He shows up at the end of the day and his boss says, "Well, how many miles did you paint today?" And the guy says, "I got four miles painted today." And the boss says, "Huh, that's still pretty good.

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    I mean, it's quite a bit less than yesterday, but that's still pretty good." Well, on the third day, the man shows up to work again at the end of the day.

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    He shows up to his boss and his boss says, "Well, how much did you get painted today?" And the man said, "I got about 500 feet painted today." And the boss says, "I'm sorry, but that's just not gonna cut it.

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    And I don't understand.

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    I don't understand how on the first day you set a record, we're three days into the job and you put out a lousy performance.

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    Why in the world is your job performance getting worse and worse and worse every day?" And the guy says, "You know what? I really don't know either.

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    I guess it's just because I keep getting further and further away from the bucket." And as a joke, that's mildly funny, but as a metaphor, I think about that often.

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    That when we feel distant from God, it's not that God moved, it's that we, by our own choices, are getting ourselves further and further away, and our walks with Him.

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    And as we turn to Malachi, we see that Israel had gotten off track again.

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    And God called this preacher Malachi to get them back on track.

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    That's what we call repentance.

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    Repentance literally is a change in your mind that results in a change in your conduct.

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    You say, "I was doing this, and God says it's wrong.

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    I need to think about it the way God does.

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    So if this is wrong, then I need to change my behavior." That's repentance.

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    God is saying to Israel through Malachi and to us through His Word today, you need to get back on track.

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    Some of us here are not on track with the Lord right now.

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    Once upon a time, you had a vibrant and exciting walk with God.

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    You saw God at work.

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    You loved praying. You loved reading God's Word.

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    You loved coming to church.

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    And now you just give it a big "meh." I'm just not really on track right now in my life.

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    It's time to get back on track.

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    How do I do that?

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    Well, last week we saw in chapter 1, you've got to get back to real worship.

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    We saw that worship is really just as easy as breathing, isn't it?

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    It's breathing in God's love and breathing out reverence for God.

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    We talked about that last week.

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    Giving God your best.

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    Not just going through the motions.

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    And you get through chapter 1 and you're like, That's a really convicting word of Scripture.

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    And we get to chapter 2 and God says, "I'm not finished." Look at chapter 2, verses 1 and 2.

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    "And now, O priest, this command is for you.

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    If you will not listen, if you will not take it to heart, to give honor to My name, says the Lord of hosts, then I will send a curse upon you, and I will curse your blessings.

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    Indeed, I have already cursed them because you do not lay it to heart." You see, it was the priest's job to bless people, and God says, "I'm about to make your job completely irrelevant, because the blessings that you're giving, I'm going to turn them into curses." Look at verse 3.

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    God says, "Behold, I will rebuke your offspring, and spread dung on your faces." "The dung of your offerings and you shall be taken away with it." How many of you have heard a sermon before on Malachi 2.3?

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    Not very often, right?

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    So, honestly, this is why we do expository preaching.

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    We go through verse by verse because normally I wouldn't...

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    pardon the expression, I wouldn't touch this with a ten-foot pole.

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    But there it is in God's Word and you're like, It looks like what God's saying is, it looks like what He's saying is, He's going to spread dung on the faces of the priests.

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    That's exactly what it's saying.

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    You see, in Exodus 29:14, there was a procedure when you offered a sacrifice.

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    And part of the procedure was, when you killed the animal, you were to take the - were a dung, insert whatever word you're most comfortable with there.

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    So when you offered the sacrifice and you took the entrails out, you were to take the dung of the animals outside.

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    So understand that this wasn't just God treating Israel like a puppy that was supposed to be housebroken, but had a mess in the house, like, "I'm going to rub your nose in it." It's a picture of those Old Testament sacrifices is to say you're unclean and you're acting filthy, and you don't deserve to be in the sanctuary.

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    In fact, you deserve, like the crap, to be taken outside.

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    Right? Is that what it says?

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    Unfortunately, that's probably the only thing some people are going to remember from this sermon.

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    It's a gross thought.

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    But what is this telling us about God?

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    He is pretty fired up right now, isn't he?

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    He's like, "You're making a mockery of what is supposed to be worship." Look at verses 4-8.

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    "So shall you know that I have sent this command to you, that My covenant with Levi may stand, says the Lord of hosts.

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    My covenant with him was one of life and peace, and I gave them to him.

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    It was a covenant of fear, and he feared Me.

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    He stood in awe of My name.

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    "If true instruction was in his mouth, then no wrong was found on his lips.

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    He walked with me in peace and uprightness, and he turned many from iniquity.

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    For the lips of a priest should guard knowledge, and people should seek instruction from his mouth, for he is a messenger of the Lord of hosts." Now, when he's talking about Levi, he's not just talking about one person.

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    I think it's pretty obvious from the context.

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    He's talking about the priesthood as a whole back in the early days.

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    came from the tribe of Levi.

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    So he's sort of personifying the whole priesthood by identifying them with the man that they came from.

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    God's basically saying here, "This was the old school mentality of the priests.

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    This was the right mentality.

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    This is how they were back in the beginning." Look at verse 8, "But you have turned aside from the way.

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    You have caused many to stumble by your instruction.

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    "You have corrupted the covenant of Levi," says the Lord of hosts.

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    Pause there.

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    There's just a whole comparison here.

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    You see, God says, "Levi was reverent," verse 5.

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    "Levi walked with God," verse 6.

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    And "Levi turned people from sin," verse 6.

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    Malachi, the priests in your day are all the opposite.

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    "Instead of revering Me, they've corrupted the covenant," verse 8.

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    Instead of walking with God, they have turned aside, verse 8.

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    And instead of turning people from sin, they turn people to stumble, causing many people to stumble, again, verse 8.

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    So you see the problem.

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    God's like, "Priests, you are way, way, way, way off track." Verse 9, "And so I make you despised and abased before all the people, and as much as you do not keep My ways, but show partiality in your instruction." God says, "This is why people don't respect you, priests." God's like, "I'm causing that. Do you know why people don't respect you?

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    Do you know why people don't look up to you?" You're making a mockery of it.

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    So at this point, you're like, "Yeah, we got it. We got it. We got it." Getting back on track means getting back to real worship.

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    Anything else?

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    But here's the message today.

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    If you are married, I'm going to give you a statement that you have to take to heart.

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    This statement summarizes the entire rest of this passage.

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    The statement is this, it's on your outline.

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    "Faithless in marriage is faithless to God." If you are married, "Faithless in marriage is faithless to God." You're like, "Well, what do you mean by that?" Here's what I mean.

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    If you are married and you are being faithless in your marriage, God equates that to being faithless to Him Himself.

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    Why is it phrased this way?

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    Why use the word "faithless"? Because this is the word God uses.

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    We're going to go through this passage, and you're going to see five times in this passage, God uses this word "faithless." Now, your job is to circle the word "faithless" every time you see it.

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    Some translations say "dealt treacherously." The Hebrew word is "begot," which means "to act deceitfully" or "to betray." It carries the idea - and this is so important - this Hebrew word carries the idea of being a traitor.

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    So when we talk about being faithless, we're not talking about, "Yeah, he's just not quite the husband that he should be. I mean, he's okay, but..." Or, "She's just kind of half-committed to the marriage, and overall I think it's decent." And being faithless, God doesn't view it as a little thing.

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    God views it as, "You're a traitor." Somebody trusts you, and you stab them in the back, deceitfully and intentionally.

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    That's what the word faithless means.

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    God says you're being faithless in your marriage, and I take that personally.

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    I take that as being faithless to me.

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    You're going to see it in the passage again five times.

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    See if you can find them all, all right?

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    It's like church version of Pokemon.

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    Find somebody that's laughing and have them explain that reference to you if you don't get it.

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    So for sure, to get back on track, you're going to get vertical, for sure.

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    But, listen church, one of the clearest, most often ignored, consistent teachings in the Bible is this.

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    God says if you are off track in your horizontal relationships, that's the person-to-person relationships, if you're off track in your horizontal relationships, you are off track in your vertical relationship.

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    In other words, God says if you are serious about this, the vertical relationship, then you have to be serious about this.

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    Here's how Jesus said it.

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    Matthew 5, verse 23, Jesus said, "So if you are offering your gift at the altar," worshipping, "and there remember that your brother has something against you, Leave your gift there before the altar and go.

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    First be reconciled to your brother and then come and offer your gift." Jesus said you can be going to worship if you realize, you know what, things aren't right between Me and a friend of Mine, a family member. Things aren't right.

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    Jesus said you need to go fix that before you worship.

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    See, this horizontal stuff matters greatly to God.

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    And no horizontal relationship is more important one with your spouse. So here's the point today, you're going to see it very clearly in the text. If you're not on track, married people, listen, it'd be easy for somebody to tune out right now and say, "Well, I'm not married." You plan on getting married someday? Then you really need to listen to this. Do you know people who are married? Are you praying for a marriage right now? You need to You listen to this.

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    But especially if you are married right now, seriously tune in.

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    Because if you are not on track in your marriage, you are not on track with God.

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    To get back on track with God, you better get back on track in your marriage.

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    You see, you could be sitting here saying, "You know what?

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    To be honest with you, things are terrible at home.

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    ministry's rocking!" God is not impressed. He's not. Like, you know, my wife and I just don't get along. Haven't gotten along in years, but I'll tell you, you know, you know something that's good in my life though is I spend, I spend 80 hours a week down at the soup kitchen. God doesn't care. Why? Because if you're not You're not on track in your marriage.

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    God says you're off track in your relationship with Him.

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    Look at what Paul told Timothy.

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    1 Timothy 3 - this pertains in particular to elders, leaders in the church, but you're going to see a principle here that really applies to everyone.

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    It says, "He must manage his own household well with all dignity, keeping his children submissive.

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    But look at this.

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    "For if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church?" Okay, pop quiz. This is real easy. You've got two choices.

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    According to God, which one takes first priority?

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    Your work in the church or your work in the home?

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    Shout it out.

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    Home, right? Do you see that?

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    You see, you would think, "Well, he's a good leader in the church, so that means he's probably a good leader in the home." what that says? No. It says you have to have it figured out at home in order to even qualify to be able to be a leader in the church. Again 1st Timothy 5 8, "But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, especially for members of his own household..." Look at this phrase. This is as serious as the dung in the face He has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

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    Do you see that?

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    God says if you don't take care of your own house, now do you think spouse is included in this?

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    I would say especially if you're not taking care of your spouse.

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    Men, if you are not taking care of your house, not taking care of your wives, God says, "You have denied the faith." And God says, look at this phrase, "You are worse than an unbeliever." God's like, "There's the people that know Me and love Me, and there's the people that don't know Me at all, don't love Me." God's like, "And then there's you, somewhere down here." So in Malachi, getting back on track with God means getting back on track in your marriage.

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    Faithless in marriage is faithless to God.

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    And somebody right now is like, "Hey, I'm really not convinced that that's a true statement." Well, I'm going to show you why this is a true statement.

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    Three things on your outline.

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    Why is this true?

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    Number one, because you made a covenant before God.

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    Look at verses 10 through 12.

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    Remember, we're looking for... what's the word we're looking for?

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    Faithless. And what does that word mean?

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    Traitor. Traitor! Backstabber! Deceitful!

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    Okay? See if you can find it.

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    Verses 10 through 12.

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    "Have we not all one Father? Has not one God created us?

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    Why then are we faithless to one another, profaning the covenant of our fathers?

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    Judah has been faithless.

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    An abomination has been committed in Israel and in Jerusalem.

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    For Judah has profaned the sanctuary of the Lord, which he loves, and has married the daughter of a foreign god.

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    May the Lord cut off from the tents of Jacob any descendants of the man who does this, who brings an offering to the Lord of hosts.

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    See the first problem here.

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    The reason faithless in marriage is faithless to God, number one, is because you made a covenant before God in your marriage.

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    Here's the issue here, you're going to see it in the rest of the passage.

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    But this is the particular issue that we're addressing.

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    Israel was guilty of breaking the covenant with their wives, divorcing them, and marrying these pagan foreign women.

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    Do you see why this is a doubly bad thing?

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    See, Israel returning from exile, and these men who were married, these Jewish men were checking out these gorgeous, exotic foreign women, Thinking I'd like to have her Yeah, yeah, but what about your what about your wife?

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    Like all the thing with her stale we just haven't been getting along since the exile. I mean, it's just been a Just haven't been getting along But dude this woman that you're checking out she's a pagan she worships like statues So she's hot and they were divorcing their wives And they were marrying pagan women Remember last week. I told you that Malachi was a contemporary of Nehemiah and I have to share this Nehemiah 1325 is one of my favorite verses in the Old Testament Because Nehemiah was dealing with the same thing Jewish men abandoning their wives marrying these foreign Pagan women be my 1325. We're gonna turn there, but I want you to write that down. Nehemiah says that he now imagine as he Confronted them cursed them beat them pulled out their hair and made them take an oath You're like why is that your favorite because it just makes me wish that I was an Old Testament preacher I Do I wish that I lived in Old Testament times. Could you imagine?

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    Somebody shows up to church, and we're like, "Joe, heard you haven't been faithful to your wife this week." And then I'd be like, "Darren, why don't you take Joe here out to the parking lot and show him how we feel about that?" And then Joe comes in missing a few teeth, bruised, his clothes all torn up.

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    He comes limping back in like, "What happened to you?" He's like, "You were loved." But that's how serious this was.

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    Nehemiah was like, "I had to stomp a mud hole in some people." Now understand, when we talk about these marriages, we're not talking about interracial marriage, okay?

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    There's only one race. There's a human race.

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    That's not the issue.

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    The issue is interfaith marriage, which 2 Corinthians 6, the Apostle Paul gives a huge warning.

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    You should not consider marriage with someone who doesn't love Jesus Christ.

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    A believer should not marry an unbeliever.

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    This passage is not condemning everyone who is divorced.

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    The Bible certainly makes allowances for that in special circumstances, but it's never commanded.

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    But here's what we are condemning.

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    People who are abandoning their promise, "in the name of love," or more accurately, I put down in my notes, "in the name of lust." Does that still happen today?

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    I mean, I don't know. You tell me, does that still happen today?

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    The people abandon their marriage because somebody else catches their eye, and now all of a sudden, their mindset is, "I'm going to trade in the old model for the new model," which is disgusting mentality.

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    Does that happen today?

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    See, this is what Malachi was condemning, and that's what Nehemiah was beating people up over, and this is what we're condemning today, if you're married.

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    Let me ask you this, whatever happened to just, I don't know, keeping your word?

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    Sounds so foreign, doesn't it? Keeping your word.

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    I mean, we kind of grew up with that, didn't we, Darren?

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    But the next generation it seems like you need to keep your word like what's that supposed to be?

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    We live in a day It just it just sounds so weird it's it's so foreign to our way of thinking You know the commercial on TV that drives me insane You know the commercial that drives me So I'm gonna tell you the commercial absolutely drives me insane the commercials that are directed at people who are buried in credit card debt Have you seen these commercials where they say call us and get those nasty credit card companies off your back?

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    How many people have seen those commercials just call us and we'll get those nasty credit card companies off of your back And I was thinking about that, you know Those credit card companies weren't so nasty When they allowed me to obtain something that I didn't have the money to pay for they weren't so nasty then How many people here have used a credit card before When you use a credit card, and I've used one Alex, I'm sorry but when you use a credit card your that piece of paper comes out and and Then you sign the you signed a little slip right you know what that thing is that you're signing What's that thing that you're signing?

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    Basically what you're saying is I promise to pay this back You're saying I'm agreeing to the terms of the cardholder But it's just basically saying yeah I don't have the money for this now But the credit company is gonna cover me and I promise I promise I'm gonna pay this back I'm good for it Now all of a sudden when I've buried myself in debt Now the credit card company they're the nasty people And we need somebody to help get those nasty credit card companies off of our back because we made the irresponsible choices You see when we sign that piece of paper at Kmart or whatever fine store you shop at. When we signed that paper, we meant it when we signed it, didn't we? Now down the road, we didn't even remember what it was that we bought. We're sort of like, "I really don't want to keep my word anymore.

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    I need somebody to help get me out from under these nasty credit card companies." And yeah, that's the same thing that happens in our marriages.

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    Honestly, we meant it at the time.

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    In sickness and in health, till death do we part, forsaking all others.

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    We meant it at the time, and believe me, I have done so many weddings and I've seen, you know, the bride and the groom and the look in their eyes when they're like, "I'm promising myself to you forever." Yeah, they mean it.

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    They mean it.

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    Like the credit card, it's like, "Well, I meant it at the time, but I really don't want to keep my word anymore." And do you know what God calls that?

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    He calls that being faithless.

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    He calls that being a traitor.

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    And if you're sitting here today and you're like, "You know, I really do, deep down, I really do want to be faithful to God." Well, do you think that you can be faithful to God without being faithful to the covenant that you made before God?

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    Faithless in marriage is what?

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    Faithless to God.

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    Number two, because you are being joined together by God.

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    Look at verses 13-15.

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    And this second thing you do, you cover the Lord's altar with tears and weeping and groaning because He no longer regards the offering or accepts it with favor from your hand.

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    But you say, "Why does He not?" Because the Lord was witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless.

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    Though she is your companion and your wife by covenant, did He not make them one with a portion of the Spirit in their union?

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    Number two, because you are being joined together by God.

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    You see that, the tears, "Why doesn't God accept my worship?" What's the answer?

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    Because you've been faithless to your wife, that's why.

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    That gets back to the whole, let's not talk about the vertical thing if you have no interest in the horizontal thing.

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    That's what's going on here.

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    Marriage is not a business partnership.

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    Marriage is not a buddy to hang out with or someone to keep you awake on road trips.

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    Look at verse 15 again.

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    Did he not make them one?

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    The husband and wife are two becoming one.

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    They belong to each other.

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    And that's why it says, with a portion of the spirit in their union.

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    It means they not only belong to each other, they belong to God.

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    The verse means, you know, the marriage is more than paperwork.

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    It's more than just an agreement between two people.

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    Marriage is a God thing.

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    It's a spiritual thing.

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    It's literally two people becoming one person, which is a reality and a process at the same time.

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    It's a reality and a process at the same time, this two becoming one.

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    Like, well, how can something be a reality and a process?

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    Think about it this way.

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    If I decided tomorrow that I was going to sign up for the army, enlist, we're pretending, right?

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    If I enlisted for the army, when I signed my enlistment papers, You could say, "Well, you're a soldier now, right?

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    You're GI, you're a soldier." I'm like, "Great." They're like, "Now you have to go to bootcamp." And I'm like, "Why do I have to go to bootcamp?

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    You just said I was a soldier.

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    So why do I go to bootcamp?

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    Because they're going to make me a soldier, right?

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    So do you see how I am something and they're making me something at the same time?" It's like that with holiness.

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    In Jesus Christ, God pronounces you holy.

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    So what is the whole process of sanctification in the Christian life?

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    It's God making you what he's already pronounced you to be.

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    You see, marriage is like that too.

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    God says you're one.

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    You two are now one.

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    And your married lives together is the process of the two becoming one.

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    That's why Genesis 2.24 says, "Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother "and shall cleave or hold fast to his wife, "and the two shall become one flesh." And this reality is found in no other relationship you have on the earth.

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    That's why this is so important to God.

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    You are not one with your parents.

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    You are not one with your friends.

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    You are not one with your kids and you're not one with your dog.

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    The only relationship that the Bible says results in two people becoming one person is the relationship with your spouse.

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    That's why Jesus said in Matthew 19, 6, "So they are no longer two, but one flesh.

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    But therefore God has joined together, let not man separate." Your marriage is a God project.

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    So if you're sitting here today and you're saying, "God, I just want you to do something in my life." The question is, are you being faithless towards your spouse?

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    Then God's response is, "You know, I am trying to do something in your life right now, and you're working against the very thing that I'm trying to do.

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    Because faithless in marriage is faithless to God.

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    You made a covenant.

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    You're being joined together by God, and finally for today, because you have a purpose for God.

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    Look at the rest of verse 15 and then 16.

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    And what was the one God seeking?

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    Godly offspring.

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    So guard yourselves in your spirit and let none of you be faithless to the wife of your youth.

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    For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her, says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts.

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    So guard yourselves in your spirit and do not be faithless." You made a covenant before God, you're being joined together by God, and you have a purpose for God.

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    God does want to do something in your marriage, but He also wants to do something through your marriage.

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    And as important as marriage itself is, do you realize God's design is about much more than even your marriage?

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    What's God after?

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    Verse 15, what's God after? Shout it out.

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    Godly offspring, right?

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    Now we're not saying that a married couple without kids is on a lesser plan.

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    We're not saying that.

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    I'm like, "Well, then what are you saying?" Here's what I'm saying.

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    Let's pretend for a second that you're God.

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    Okay?

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    We're just pretending for a second that you're God.

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    And you're looking down on this earth you created, and the people that you created, and you want to make sure that every generation knows about your love.

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    You want to make sure that every generation knows that you are a merciful and gracious God, that while you hate sin, you are quick to pardon, and you love to restore lost and broken people.

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    You want every generation to know that.

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    How would you make that happen?

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    Every child that's born, you would want that child to be in a stable home with loving parents, parents who are committed to God and who are committed to each other.

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    Does that sound like a good plan?

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    That would work, wouldn't it?

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    That's what God's after.

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    We pretended that we were God for a second, and now let's pretend you're the devil.

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    If you were the devil, how would you disrupt God's plan?

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    Divorce, affairs, abandonment, bitterness in the home towards one another, and have those kids, have these kids grow up confused and hurt and angry.

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    You think that would disrupt the plan?

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    So husbands, husbands here today, I'm speaking specifically to fathers.

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    The best thing that you can do for your children is to love your wife.

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    That's the best thing you can do for your kids.

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    Wives, moms, do you wanna be a good mom?

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    Do you wanna be a good mom?

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    You know the best thing you can do for your kids, the best way you can be a mother is to love your husband.

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    You saw it twice, verses 15 and 16.

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    God says it twice.

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    He says, "Guard yourself.

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    Do not be faithless." Guard yourself.

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    Stop thinking negatively towards your spouse.

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    Stop speaking negatively towards your spouse.

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    Stop considering how to get out of the marriage.

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    Stop entertaining an affair.

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    Love is a choice.

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    And you need to make the choice to love, because faithless in marriage is faithless to God.

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    You made a covenant.

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    God's joining you together, and God wants to do some things through you.

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    Let's pray.

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    Father in heaven, I'm sure there are people here that are looking to get back on track walk with you but their marriages are miserable. They haven't been on the same page, they've been fighting, they've been distant, they've been avoiding each other.

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    God I pray, I pray that today is the day of repentance for some homes where this has been happening. I'm sure there are some men in this room right now that are entertaining flirtatious relationships that have no business doing. They find themselves just like these Israelites abandoning their commitment that they made abandoning the the oneness that you are trying to form abandoning the purpose of raising godly children because someone else has caught their attention I pray today's the day of repentance God God we we live in a day that I guess I'd be arrested if I did what Nehemiah did.

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    But I pray that Your Holy Spirit would grab every heart in this room, every married couple, everyone in here that's about to get married, I pray that Your Holy Spirit would grab them and shake them to this reality, that if they're being faithless in their marriage, You consider that being faithless towards you yourself.

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    So God, I pray that there's much restoration that happens.

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    I pray that tomorrow is a brand new day, because some hard conversations happen today, some apologies and seeking forgiveness and much prayer happens today.

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    Get us back to a marriage commitment that glorifies Your name.

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    We pray these things, Father, in the glorious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read Malachi 2:1-16

  1.  What were the issues God was calling out the priests on in Malachi 2:8? What does this say about people in (any) ministry today?

  2. Why is it you need to be faithful in your horizontal relationships in order to be faithful in your vertical relationship with God? See Matthew 5:23 & 1 John 4:20.

  3. What are some specific modern day examples of people not keeping their word? Why do you think people don’t keep their word today?

  4. How is oneness in marriage a reality and a process at the same time (Mal 2:15)? See Genesis 2:24.

  5. What are some ways, if you are married, you can "guard yourself" (Mal 2:15-16)? Be specific.

Breakout Questions:
Married people: How are you making your marriage a priority?

Getting Back to Worship

Introduction:


How to Get Back to Real Worship

  1. Breathe In the Love of God. (Mal 1:1-5)


  2. Breathe out Reverence for God. (Mal 1:6-14)

Am I a Worshiper or a Faker?

  1. Do I offer God my Best? (Mal 1:6-9)


  2. Do I just go through the Motions? (Mal 1:10-14)

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    Well, I am so excited to be back speaking.

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    And somebody right now just thought, "Oh, you were gone?" Well, being a preacher, I talk to other preachers and hear stories about what happens with other preachers.

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    And I heard this story about this couple that had come to this pastor for marriage counseling.

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    I could sort of relate to the story because the pastor had said that when the couple would come in, it was obvious from the posture, the wife was sitting listening to what the pastor had to say, and she had her Bible with her, and she's like, "I need help. We need help." And she was really just tuned in.

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    I've seen this so many times.

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    But the husband was just kind of slouched down in his chair, not really paying attention the whole time.

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    The pastor's trying to share this with what the Bible says.

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    Here's what God's called you to be as a husband.

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    And here's what God's called you to be as a wife.

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    And the pastor's talking, and the guy's just sitting there with his head down.

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    But the pastor's like, he is totally just not even listening to me at all.

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    And he's thinking to himself, what am I going to do to get this guy's attention?

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    So the pastor just has this moment of just craziness where he gets up and walks around the table, He takes the young lady by the hand and he stands her up.

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    And he puts his hand on the back of the lady's head and dips her over and kisses her.

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    And puts her back in the seat and she's just like, "Whew!" The pastor turns to her husband and he said, "That's what she needs!

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    At least twice a week!" and her husband goes, "I can bring her in here on Tuesday and Thursday if that works for you." The truth is where there's a relationship, there's going to be times of feeling close, and there's going to be times of feeling distant, right?

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    And if you are a Christian, this can happen in your relationship with God.

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    That there are times in your walk with the Lord You feel very close, right?

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    And there are times in your walk with the Lord that you feel very distant, and you feel very detached.

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    And if that's how you're feeling today, if you're sitting here today and you say, "Pastor Jeff, I feel detached." God didn't move.

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    You did.

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    When I feel distant from the Lord, that's on me.

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    And there's some people here that once upon a time had a growing You were on an exciting walk with Jesus Christ.

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    Love to pray, you love to read the Bible, you were excited to witness, you were excited to worship, and there was a time that you just saw God at work in your life.

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    And it was so vibrant and so exciting, and right now you're saying, "Yeah, you know, not so much." You might be saying, "You know, I need to get back on track." How do we get there? How do we get off track?

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    Well, for some people, it's trials.

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    I'm not going to ask you to raise your hand, but for some people right here, you've gone through a trial in your life that has discouraged you.

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    And you've lost heart.

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    I don't really feel like it.

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    You know, this trial's been going on so long, I'm just discouraged.

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    For some people, maybe it's not a trial.

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    Maybe you're just too busy.

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    That somehow Jesus Christ and your walk with Him and the priority of being a disciple of Christ has sort of dropped down on your priority list.

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    For some here, maybe it's sin.

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    I'm like, you know what, I know what I need to do, but I've been involved in sin, and that has really just severely hindered my walk with the Lord, as it does and as it always will.

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    We want to get back on track.

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    And even hearing this now, I know there are some people right now you're hearing this, "I want to get back on track with God." You're hearing this and you're like, "You know what, Pastor Jeff, I would love that!

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    You don't know how to do that.

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    Well, I have some good news for you.

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    God's Word tells us exactly how to do that.

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    So, if right now you're feeling like, "You're right, I need to get back on track." You cannot miss any part of this series.

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    I want you to turn your Bibles to the book of Malachi.

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    It's the last book of the Old Testament.

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    It's actually the last word from God in the Old Testament.

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    It was written about 430 B.C.

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    And if you're trying to put this in a timeline on your mind, Malachi would have been a contemporary of Nehemiah.

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    And what was happening in Israel at the time?

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    Well, Israel was returning to their land from exile.

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    Remember, God disciplined Israel for persistent sin by sending the Assyrians and the Babylonians to conquer and scatter the people.

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    And under the Persian rule, the Lord allowed the Israelites to come back into their land to rebuild and to restore, specifically the city of Jerusalem and particularly the temple.

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    And when Israel got back into the land, as you could imagine, they were so zealous for the Lord.

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    And we're like, "The Lord restored us!" And we thought we were done as a people and the Lord restored us!

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    And let's build the walls in Jerusalem!

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    And let's build the temple!

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    And they were so fired up!

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    So excited! So zealous!

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    Can you believe just 90 years later when Malachi was giving this message, Israel was worse than before they went into exile.

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    Back to their old ways.

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    And that's why we're turning to the book of Malachi because this is what the book of Malachi is about.

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    Malachi is about God saying, "Hey, hey, hey!

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    Get back on track!

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    You see, you were so zealous and then you just kind of veered off and God's like, "No, no, no, we're going to get back on track." And they're like, "Well, how in the world are we going to get back on track?" And God says, "Here are some areas that you need to focus on to get back on track." So if there's anyone here right now that needs to get back on track, here's where it starts on your outline.

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    It starts with real worship.

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    So the message today is how to get back to real worship.

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    It has to start here.

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    What is worship?

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    Worship defined is showing reverence and adoration.

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    That's worship.

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    You know, worship is actually an abbreviated word.

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    It really comes from "worth-ship." They just sort of shortened that, made it easier to say, which I'm glad, because when we sing "Here I am to worship," it'd get real awkward, you know, "Here I am to worth-ship." Sound like Sylvester the Cat.

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    But that's worship, it's worth-ship, it's ascribing worth to God.

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    Now when we talk about music, I know there's so many people here probably right now that are thinking, "Oh, I know what worship is.

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    That's the singing part of church.

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    Worship is just the music." Well, music is part of worship.

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    But worship is so much more than just music.

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    You see, it would be like if I brought in the wheel of a car today and held it up, and I said, "This is a car." And you would say, "No, that is not a car.

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    That is a very important part of the car." Right, Ben?

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    That is a very important part of the car, but that is not the car.

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    That's what some people do with music.

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    This is worship. No, no, no, no.

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    Music is an important part, but music is not the totality of worship.

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    Okay?

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    So, in the Old Testament, worship centered primarily around offering sacrifices in the temple, and we're going to see that here in Malachi.

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    But if you're thinking, "Pastor Jeff, I've read the Bible, I know a little theology, and I know that Jesus Christ offered the final sacrifice, and we don't offer sacrifices anymore.

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    So, for us to be talking about Malachi and talking about sacrifices, we're sort of detached from that, because the truth, Pastor Jeff, is we don't offer sacrifices anymore." And I want to tell you that's not true.

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    We absolutely do still offer sacrifices.

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    Look at Romans 12.

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    Romans 12.1 says, and this is New Testament, "Present your bodies as a..." What's that say?

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    "A living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your..." What's the next two words?

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    Spiritual worship.

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    What is your spiritual worship?

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    By offering yourself as a sacrifice.

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    When that animal was killed on the altar, dead, wholly committed to God, God says, "That's you. You're the sacrifice, but you get down off the altar and you live.

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    But every step you take is as a living sacrifice." So the question is, do we still offer sacrifice today? Yes or no?

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    Yes. And guess where the sacrifice is?

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    It's you. You are the sacrifice.

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    Another example, Hebrews 13, verses 15-16.

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    We still offer sacrifices. Look at this.

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    The Hebrew writer says, "Through Him, through Jesus, then let us continually offer up a sacrifice." There it is again.

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    "A sacrifice of praise to God, that is the fruit of lips that acknowledge His name.

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    Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have for such..." Is that a word?

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    Sacrifices are pleasing to God.

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    So the question is, do we still sacrifice under the new covenant?

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    Yeah, we do.

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    And here are the sacrifices.

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    Sacrifice of praise.

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    Yeah, that music, part of that.

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    Also, the fruit of lips that acknowledge His name.

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    Every time you witness for Christ, you're offering a sacrifice to God.

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    Every time you give testimony on how awesome God has been to you, You are giving God a sacrifice.

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    Every time it says to do good, every time you do good in the name of Jesus, you are offering a sacrifice to God.

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    Every time you share what you have, you are offering a sacrifice to God.

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    Now this is not a sacrifice to have your sin forgiven.

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    Don't think, "Well, I have to worship and I have to do good, and then God will forgive my sin." No, no, no.

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    offered himself as a once-and-for-all sacrifice for sin. There are no more sacrifices to be made for sin. This is talking about a sacrifice of praise, okay?

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    It's a sacrifice of praise, not a sacrifice for sin. Everybody with me on that? So how do I get back on track with worship? We're gonna go to the text for your outline. I'm gonna make it real easy. Here is how you get back on track with we're going to breathe. Oh, Pastor Jeff got new age while he was gone. Breathe. Go ahead, breathe. In. Out. What are we breathing? Number one, jot this down.

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    Here's how you get back on track with worship. You have to breathe in the love I love God.

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    I'm not making this up.

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    I want you to look at the text with me.

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    The oracle of the word of the Lord to Israel by Malachi.

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    "I have loved you," says the Lord.

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    But you say, "How have you loved us?" "Is not Esau Jacob's brother?" declares the Lord.

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    "Yet I have loved Jacob, but Esau I have hated.

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    I have laid waste his hill country left his heritage to jackals of the deserts.

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    If Edom says, "We are shattered, but we will rebuild the ruins," the Lord of Hosts says, "They may build, but I will tear down, and they will be called the wicked country, and the people with whom the Lord is angry forever.

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    Your own eyes shall see this, and you shall say, Great is the Lord beyond the border of Israel.

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    Now what's this talk about Jacob and Esau?

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    Now understand here, Malachi, he's not talking about individuals.

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    He's talking about people groups.

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    How do you know that?

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    Well, look at verse 4 again with me.

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    God says, "If Edom says..." Wait, wait, wait. Who's Edom?

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    Those were the descendants of Esau.

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    You see, Jacob represented Israel, and Esau represented the Edomites.

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    And this language is used in the Bible that Jacob representing Israel, Esau representing Edom, or people that ended up becoming severe enemies of God.

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    It's used other places in the Bible.

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    Obadiah - that little teeny tiny book in the Old Testament?

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    Same thing.

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    And Romans 9 - same thing.

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    What's the point?

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    The point - God is starting this whole prophecy, This whole "get back on track," this whole message from Malachi.

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    Here's God's point. God says, "Listen, I chose you, and I have loved you." Israel doubted God's love because they weren't as prosperous as they thought they should be.

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    Does that sound familiar to anyone else?

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    doubt God's love because He's not cashing in the way that we think He should.

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    Anybody else, has that been your experience?

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    I think we've all been there if we're honest.

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    Does God really love me?

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    Why is this happening?

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    Why is God allowing this?

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    If God really loved me, He'd do something about this.

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    And Israel was at a place in their history that they're starting to doubt a little bit.

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    So when God calls them back on track, It's not about legalism.

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    God's not saying, "Israel, you're just not jumping through the right hoops for Me." It's not about religion.

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    It's not about religion.

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    It's not God saying, "Okay, Israel, here's your checklist of rules you have to keep in order to make Me happy." Do you see right off the bat - this is Old Testament - but do you see right off the bat God says this is about a love relationship.

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    I love you.

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    The only way anyone is motivated to really worship God is to know God's love.

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    I can't motivate you to worship by trying to make you feel guilty.

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    You know, Ryan, shame on you as a leader in the church, and I didn't see you really belting it out during worship time. Shame on you.

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    that's not going to motivate... I wasn't watching Ryan during worship, okay?

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    That's not going to motivate you to worship, is it? No. I can't motivate you to worship through obligation. Like, "Come on, Kerry, you know what the Bible says about worship, so why aren't you doing it?" "Well, you're right, Pastor Jeff, I should, so I guess I'll worship." That's not the motivator. What is the motivator to To worship!

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    Breathing in God's love.

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    That's the motivator.

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    And only that.

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    When I came to Christ, back in 1995, it was a period of my life where I was involved in a lot of sin.

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    A lot of sin.

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    to list them for you, okay, but I was involved in a lot of sin in my life at the time.

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    But for the first time in my life, somebody had shared the gospel with me in a way that I understood it, and that was because God was turning the lights on, right?

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    And I understood the gospel, and I wish I could stand here and tell you, I just wholeheartedly jumped in. I heard the gospel, and I'm like, "Woohoo! Off to Bible college!" That wasn't the story.

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    to my shame, during this season of understanding the gospel, but still living this sinful lifestyle.

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    I remember saying, "I'm not sure what I want to do.

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    I think I'm just going to go back to my old way of living." At this crossroads, I was considering walking away from what I now understood about the cross of Jesus Christ embrace the lifestyle that I'd been used to.

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    But this was the sentence that changed my life.

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    Do you want to hear it?

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    This sentence changed my life.

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    As I was confessing this, like, hey, thinking about going back to my sin lifestyle, someone said to me, "Do you have any idea "how much God loves you?" And I walked away, and I thought to myself, "What?

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    A wicked idiot I am!

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    That God would give His Son for me.

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    Jesus would die for me in my place on that cross.

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    That God would so lavish and demonstrate His love on me.

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    And I would choose instead to live in the sewer.

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    How could I be so foolish?

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    And I was crushed by the weight of my own sinfulness.

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    How can I turn my back on a God like this?

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    And it changed my life.

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    Do you have any idea how much God loves you?

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    Maybe that's why Paul in Romans 2, verse 4, says it is God's kindness that leads us to repentance. So how do I get back on track with worship? You have to breathe in the love of God. You have to breathe in the love of God. If you're not taking in God's love, if you're not understanding and meditating upon and reveling in the love of God in Jesus If you don't have a place to worship Jesus Christ we don't use that word anymore. I think we need to bring it back.

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    What is reverence? You know what reverence is? It is deep respect.

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    Not just like props. Reverence is deep respect. And some people have the audacity to have that as a title. Pastors, right? I'm Reverend Miller.

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    Please don't ever call me that.

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    I hate that title.

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    You know what, if pastors out there that use that title, hey, I'm not judging them.

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    I'm just saying that only God is to be revered.

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    My skin crawls when I hear a man want to take that title on himself.

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    Call me reverend.

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    God deserves reverence.

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    Look at verse 6.

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    The Lord says a son honors his father, and a servant his master.

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    If then I am a father, where is my honor?

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    And if I am a master, where is my fear?

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    Says the Lord of hosts to you, O priests, who despise my name.

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    Jump down to verse 14.

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    God says, for I am a great king, says the Lord of hosts, and my name will be feared among the nations.

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    Do you see that?

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    Father, master, king.

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    Some people want to identify God as like, "Grandpa, Santa Claus, the big man upstairs." Wrong, wrong, wrong.

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    He is a father, he is a master, and he is a king, and that means he is to be revered.

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    And that is so lost on the church today, this idea of reverence.

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    This idea that we honor God, we fear God, we have this holy awe of God.

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    We are just too happy to familiarize God.

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    Speaking of things that make my skin crawl, the expression "the big man upstairs," I just hate hearing that.

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    It just shows a complete lack of reverence for God.

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    He's not big.

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    He's infinite.

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    He makes big look small.

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    He's not a man. He's God.

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    He's not upstairs.

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    Heaven is His throne The earth is His ottoman.

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    It's time to get back, church.

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    It's time to get back to revering God.

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    Because when we breathe in His love, and we breathe out reverence for God, that's worship.

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    That's worship.

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    So how am I doing regarding reverence?

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    you need to ask yourself.

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    So in your outline, two questions I want to leave you with today.

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    As you examine, you're going to see it straight from the text.

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    Two questions you have to ask yourself.

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    Am I a worshiper or a faker?

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    Am I a worshiper or a faker?

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    Here's two questions where you can evaluate for yourself.

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    Are you genuinely worshipping God?

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    Are you genuinely breathing in His love and breathing out reverence?

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    Are you doing that, or are you faking?

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    Like, "How do I know?" Here you go. First of all, letter A.

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    "Do I offer God my best?" Pick up in the text, God says that the priests despise His name.

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    But you say, "How have we despised Your name?" "By offering polluted food upon My altar." But you say, "How have we polluted You?" by saying that the Lord's table may be despised.

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    The Lord's table here refers to the altar.

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    Okay, this is before Jesus instituted the Lord's Supper.

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    You're saying that the Lord's table or the altar may be despised.

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    Look at verse 8.

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    "When you offer blind animals in sacrifice, is that not evil?

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    And when you offer those that are lame or sick, is that not evil?

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    Present that to your governor.

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    Will He accept you or show you favor?" says the Lord of hosts.

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    "And now, entreat the favor of God, that He may be gracious to us.

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    With such a gift from your hand, will He show favor to any of you?" says the Lord of hosts.

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    Do I offer God my best?

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    A lack of reverence always shows up in your conduct.

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    You will not offer God your best.

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    You see, in the Old Testament times, during the times of this temple, when you were to go sacrifice to God, you were to take the absolute best from your flock.

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    Okay? You were to go out to your herd or your flock, and you were to pick the unblemished, the very best.

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    "I'm going to give back to God the very best that He's given to me." But do you see what happened by the time you get to Malachi's day?

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    It says they took the blind, they took the lame, they took the sick, They'd go out to their flock and they'd see some animal on its deathbed, and they would say, "Well, this one doesn't have long to live.

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    Let's offer it to God before it dies." Like, "Oh, yeah, I get the sacrifice thing, Pastor Jeff, but again, that doesn't really apply today." If you're thinking that, that these principles don't apply, honestly, what you're saying is because of Jesus, God is okay with lame worship now.

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    Would you say that?

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    Because Jesus came and completed His messianic mission, God is just fine with lame worship now.

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    Compare us in our day to the people Malachi was addressing in his day.

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    Us versus them. Let me ask you.

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    Should we be more fired up or less than them?

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    What do you think?

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    Should we be more fired up about God or less fired up about God?

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    Not sure?

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    Well, consider this.

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    We live under the new covenant.

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    The Messiah, from our perspective, and in our timeline in history, the Messiah has come.

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    and the Messiah saves us from our sins by dying in our place.

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    Jesus Christ rose from the dead to give us eternal life and the promise of heaven.

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    The Holy Spirit has come and indwells all believers, empowering, comforting, and guiding.

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    So should we be more fired up or less fired up for worship than the Old Testament saints?

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    We should be more, right?

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    We should be more.

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    But church, when we roll in here, not ready to worship, When it's our turn to teach the kids and harvest kids and we don't prepare ourselves.

    28:49-28:52

    When we lead a small group and we just phone it in.

    28:53-28:56

    When the offering comes around and we just give God a tip.

    28:58-29:02

    You know, somehow the waitress gets 15% and God gets 10.

    29:03-29:04

    Doesn't seem right.

    29:06-29:10

    When all those things happen, you're not giving God your best.

    29:12-29:22

    Look at verse eight again, where the Lord is condemning them for their half-dead sacrifices they were making.

    29:23-29:26

    But middle of verse eight, you see that God says, "Present that to your governor.

    29:26-29:31

    "Will he accept you or show you favor?" Try paying your taxes like that.

    29:32-29:33

    Could you imagine next tax season?

    29:33-29:34

    Could you imagine?

    29:35-29:38

    Next tax season, you're like, "You know what I'm gonna do?

    29:39-29:41

    "I've been thinking about this.

    29:41-29:42

    I'm going to pay what I want to pay.

    29:43-29:44

    And they're going to have to be fine with it.

    29:46-29:47

    Is that going to work?

    29:49-29:51

    That is not going to work.

    29:52-29:53

    And so do you see God's point?

    29:53-30:00

    If that's not going to work in paying your taxes, why do you think it's going to work for the king of the universe?

    30:02-30:04

    But that's exactly what people do.

    30:04-30:05

    The offering comes around.

    30:05-30:08

    It's like, I'm going to give God what I think, and it'll be good enough.

    30:08-30:13

    Whatever I give God will just be good enough, because I live under the new covenant, I don't have to tithe, right?

    30:13-30:15

    So whatever I give God is going to be good enough.

    30:16-30:20

    Lame! Lame! And you don't understand worship.

    30:22-30:26

    Because you're not breathing into love, and that certainly is not breathing out reverence.

    30:28-30:31

    You should prepare yourself for worship.

    30:33-30:37

    I talked to a dear couple in our church this past week, and they were just chit-chatting, right?

    30:37-30:45

    They were saying that one of the things they like to do is they find out the songs that we're going to be singing in church and they listen to them in the car on the way to church.

    30:46-30:46

    Isn't that awesome?

    30:48-30:57

    So it's not like, "Let's get in here to worship." They're like, "Our worship starts in our driveway." So they're worshiping as a couple on the way in, and then they come to church.

    30:57-30:58

    Do you think they're ready to worship?

    30:59-31:01

    Yeah, they are.

    31:02-31:08

    Talked to one of the leaders of our church this morning, who said, "Yeah, I knew we were going through Malachi, so you know what I did?

    31:08-31:18

    I have the Bible audio, and I've been listening to it when I go to bed." Do you think that guy came into church ready to hear what the Lord has to say through Malachi?

    31:20-31:23

    So you have to ask yourself, "Am I offering God my best?

    31:24-31:36

    Or am I just willing to phone it in? It's good enough." Last question. Do I just go through the motions?

    31:38-31:39

    Do I just go through the motions?

    31:41-31:42

    Look at verses 10-14.

    31:44-31:55

    The Lord says, "Oh, that there were one among you who would shut the doors, that you might not kindle fire on my altar in vain.

    31:55-32:00

    I have no pleasure in you," says the Lord of hosts, And I will not accept an offering from your hand.

    32:03-32:13

    For from the rising of the sun to its setting, my name will be great among the nations, and in every place incense will be offered to my name, and a pure offering.

    32:14-32:19

    For my name," here it is again, "for my name will be great among the nations," says the Lord of hosts.

    32:21-32:29

    But you profane it when you say that the Lord's table is polluted and its fruit, that is, its food may be despised.

    32:30-32:37

    But you say, 'What a weariness this is!' And you snort at it, says the Lord of hosts.

    32:37-32:45

    You bring what has been taken by violence or is lame or sick, and this you bring as your offering.

    32:46-32:48

    Shall I accept that from your hand? says the Lord.

    32:49-32:57

    Cursed be the cheat who has a male in his flock and vows it, And yet, sacrifices to the Lord what is blemished.

    32:59-33:03

    For I am a great king, says the Lord of hosts, and my name will be feared among the nations.

    33:04-33:05

    So are you a worshiper or a faker?

    33:05-33:07

    Well, do you offer God your best?

    33:07-33:11

    Secondly, ask yourself, do I just go through the motions?

    33:13-33:14

    Do you see that in verse 13?

    33:16-33:18

    Jump back to verse 13.

    33:18-33:22

    But you say, "What a weariness this is," and you snort at it.

    33:25-33:37

    "What a weariness. I'm kind of tired of this. I'm just so tired of this church stuff. Boring!" What a pain to go to worship.

    33:40-33:43

    You want to go to church this morning? "I don't know. It's a lot of work.

    33:43-33:51

    We're gonna dress the kids, and I'm gonna have to get a bath and probably brush my teeth.

    33:51-33:54

    Oh, what a pain.

    33:57-34:11

    When it becomes a burden to get here to worship, we find ourselves in this passage where the Lord says, "Your belly aching about what a weariness this is." He says, "You snort at it." Go ahead.

    34:11-34:12

    What do you think that sounds like?

    34:12-34:13

    Go ahead.

    34:15-34:15

    That wasn't bad.

    34:17-34:18

    You snored at it. Time to worship.

    34:21-34:22

    You snored at it.

    34:24-34:25

    Jump up to verse 10.

    34:27-34:28

    Look at this again.

    34:30-34:43

    God says, "Oh, that there are one among you who would shut the doors." God would rather you stop worshipping than go through the motions without your heart being in it.

    34:45-34:45

    I'm going to say that again.

    34:46-34:52

    God would rather you stop worshipping than pretending to worship.

    34:53-35:35

    God says, "I wish there was somebody down at the temple that would just shut and lock the doors, so the hypocrites don't come in and put on their little half-hearted show." You know, when I was preparing for this message, I was looking up articles online. I looked up, "What do I do when I don't feel like worshipping?" There were so many articles about that, and I went through and I read a few. Do you know one thing that was on all the articles? One thing was on all the articles. It says, "If you don't feel like worshipping, you should do it anyways." Every article said that. Here's a list. Ten things you should do when you don't feel like worshipping. Seven things you should do when you don't feel like worshipping. Here's the top 26 things you should do when you don't feel like worshipping. Every list. "You should worship anyways." "You should worship You should worship anyways.

    35:35-35:45

    And in the Bible, God's like, "You don't feel like worshiping? Don't!" "Shut and lock the door and stay home." So hear me.

    35:46-35:49

    If you're like, "You know what, Pastor Jeff, I want to get back on track.

    35:49-35:51

    That's where my heart is, and I've just been struggling with stuff.

    35:53-35:59

    And I'm really seeking the Lord to bring revival in my heart." Then absolutely, you should come.

    36:00-36:02

    And you should worship if that's your heart.

    36:02-36:15

    But if you're just coming in here, and you're like, "I don't want to stay, I don't want to go to the king." Like, "No effort, I don't care, when do we leave?

    36:16-36:21

    How much longer is this going on?" You should just stay home, honestly.

    36:21-36:23

    You should. Just stay home.

    36:26-36:27

    Because that does nothing for God.

    36:30-36:42

    Mary Zacharias said, "When a man is bored with God, even heaven doesn't have a better alternative." So how about you?

    36:42-36:44

    Are you going through the motions?

    36:45-36:46

    Are you bored?

    36:47-36:48

    Can't wait to get out of here?

    36:50-36:54

    If that's you, this is your wake-up call from the Lord.

    36:55-36:58

    It's time to get back on track.

    37:00-37:03

    It has to start with worship.

    37:06-37:07

    I'd like you to bow your heads.

    37:07-37:11

    I'm not going to ask you to raise your hand or stand up or come forward or anything.

    37:11-37:12

    I'm not going to ask you to do that.

    37:12-37:22

    I just want you to bow your heads, but I want to ask you with your head bowed, is there someone here this morning that says, "You know what, Pastor Jeff, I have not been giving God my best.

    37:22-37:23

    I haven't been.

    37:26-37:30

    I've been content to just go through the motions.

    37:32-37:39

    Quite honestly, it's not very exciting right now, my walk with Christ.

    37:40-37:42

    Does that apply to you today?

    37:43-37:46

    Like, I know I need to get back on track, but right now I'm just not feeling it.

    37:48-37:50

    With your head bowed, I want to remind you that it's time to breathe again.

    37:53-37:54

    You need to breathe in God's love.

    37:56-38:03

    You need reminded that your heavenly Father loves you so much that He sent His Son to die in your place.

    38:05-38:15

    Your heavenly Father loves you so much that He has chosen to make His holy habitation your very heart, with the presence of His Holy Spirit in you.

    38:17-38:19

    You need to breathe in His love again.

    38:21-38:23

    You need to breathe out reverence.

    38:26-38:29

    Yes, He is my Savior, but He is also my King.

    38:32-38:38

    And I haven't been treating the Lord God like a king whom I should revere, honor, and obey.

    38:40-38:42

    And it's time to breathe out reverence again.

    38:45-38:55

    Our Father in Heaven, again, I pray for myself for my brothers and sisters here, that we would stop phoning it in.

    38:57-39:09

    We would stop making a half-hearted effort in serving You and saying, "Well, that's good enough." Father, I pray that You would restore in us a heart of worship.

    39:11-39:16

    That, Father, we would breathe in Your love in a fresh way.

    39:18-39:25

    that we would breathe in this love that was willing to pay the ultimate price so that I could be free.

    39:27-39:33

    The love that can never be lost, because it's love that was never earned.

    39:35-39:51

    You have chosen to love us in Jesus Christ, and I pray Father you would hit us Again, hit me again the way you did when I first understood that message.

    39:53-39:58

    Father, I pray that we would show you the reverence that you deserve.

    39:59-40:03

    As you said so clearly in your word, you are a father, you're a master, you're a king.

    40:05-40:21

    Let our conduct, let our attitudes in the home, at our workplace, in the church, wherever we find ourselves, let them reflect that we are subservient to the king who loves us.

    40:24-40:36

    Get us back on track, God, by giving us a fresh start today in being true worshipers of you.

    40:37-40:41

    Pray these things in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read Malachi 1:1-14

  1. Malachi 1:2-3 talks about God's love: What exactly is God saying? How does this prove His love?

  2. Why is love the motivator for worship (see also Romans 2:4)?

  3. Have you ever doubted God's love because things weren't happening the way you expected? Share the experience with the group.

  4. Define reverence: Why do you think this is a lost concept in our culture today?

  5. How would you reply to this statement: "This stuff in Malachi doesn't apply to us today. We don't offer sacrifices anymore!"

  6. What are ways, today, that you can "breathe out" reverence for God?

Breakout Questions:
Complete transparency: How are you doing with sincerely worshiping God? What changes do you need to make to be able to "breathe" (in God's love / out reverence for God)?

Homosexuality

The Bible and My Response

- (Genesis 2:24-25)

Intro:


What is marriage in the eyes of God?

  1. A Covenant relationship between a man and a woman.

  2. A Picture of Christ and the Church.

  3. A married couple enjoying a God Designed sexual expression.

Jeremiah Canfield - Pastor Harvest Bible Chapel Pittsburgh East

Review: Leviticus 18:22; 20:13 | Romans 1:18-33


What do we do?

  1. Stop Avoiding them.

  2. Give them the Gospel first.

  3. Love them, but not Accepting what they do.

  4. Guide them as part of the body of Christ.

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  • Mark Ort:

    00:21-00:21

    Good morning, guys.

    Mark Ort:

    00:22-00:28

    If you're new around here, usually Jeff Miller's going to be standing here right about now.

    Mark Ort:

    00:29-00:35

    And he is over at our sister church in Pittsburgh East, near Monroeville.

    Mark Ort:

    00:36-00:39

    And Jeremiah Canfield from Pittsburgh East is here this morning.

    Mark Ort:

    00:39-00:40

    We did kind of like a pastor swap.

    Mark Ort:

    00:41-00:50

    So Jeff usually studies and takes the month of July to prepare for the next calendar year of preaching.

    Mark Ort:

    00:50-00:53

    And so we have guest speakers lined up for the month of July usually.

    Mark Ort:

    00:54-01:01

    And today is our last guest speaker, and it's Jeremiah Canfield, again from Pittsburgh East.

    Mark Ort:

    01:01-01:03

    And just a couple of things about Jeremiah.

    Mark Ort:

    01:03-01:11

    I first heard Jeremiah speak at Harvest University two years ago on the very topic that he's going to be speaking about today.

    Mark Ort:

    01:11-01:19

    And it really changed my view of other people who may not be like us.

    Mark Ort:

    01:20-01:22

    And I was very convicted about that.

    Mark Ort:

    01:23-01:25

    And it really changed the way I think.

    Mark Ort:

    01:26-01:27

    And so you'll be challenged with that today.

    Mark Ort:

    01:28-01:33

    I didn't meet Jeremiah until last year at a pirate game.

    Mark Ort:

    01:34-01:36

    We met at a pirate game and that was pretty cool.

    Mark Ort:

    01:37-01:39

    I don't even remember if the pirates won that game or not.

    Mark Ort:

    01:40-01:50

    And then we spent some time together, Jeremiah and his church's leadership and our church's leadership spent some time together in January in Pittsburgh.

    Mark Ort:

    01:51-01:54

    And I really kind of got a feel for who he was.

    Mark Ort:

    01:55-01:58

    He's a warm and engaging individual.

    Mark Ort:

    01:58-02:01

    And you could tell that he loves the Lord.

    Mark Ort:

    02:01-02:03

    And he loves God's people.

    Mark Ort:

    02:04-02:05

    He loves the church.

    Mark Ort:

    02:05-02:13

    And we have some things that we want to do Pittsburgh East in the coming years, and we're looking forward to that.

    Mark Ort:

    02:13-02:27

    Jeremiah has a Bachelor of Arts degree in Biblical Studies from Northland University, and he has a Master's of Arts in Religion from Liberty University, and he's been serving at Harvest Pittsburgh East since 2013, right?

    Mark Ort:

    02:28-02:29

    He is married.

    Mark Ort:

    02:29-02:31

    His wife and kids aren't here today.

    Mark Ort:

    02:32-02:41

    They're over at their church, his wife Stephanie, and they have five kids, two sons, Titus and and three daughters, Eliana, Selah, and Charis.

    Mark Ort:

    02:42-02:46

    And so maybe we can give a warm Pittsburgh North welcome to Jeremiah.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    02:54-02:54

    Well, good morning.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    02:56-02:57

    It is a privilege and an honor to be here.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    02:58-03:00

    So grateful for your pastor.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:01-03:04

    Jeff is a good friend and a godly man.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:04-03:08

    And if this is your first time here, then please come back because you need to hear Jeff speak.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:09-03:11

    So don't judge the church by how I speak, okay?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:11-03:15

    But I know Jeff is gonna do a great job.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:15-03:16

    Look forward to him bringing the word at my church.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:17-03:35

    And it's just a privilege to be 45 minutes from each other and not have to worry about fighting, but able to say, "Hey, we're here for one goal, "and that is to see the gospel proclaimed in Pittsburgh "and to be able to come together and to do things like this "and look forward to doing it more in the future "and just how that we can be a greater force." Two's better than one, right?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:35-03:40

    And Lord willing, we're gonna have three and four and five and more churches planned here in this area.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:41-03:43

    And we look forward to seeing what God's gonna do in Pittsburgh.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:44-03:47

    And so I thank you for the privilege to come and to preach.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:48-03:55

    If you have your Bibles, you can go to the book of Genesis, Genesis chapter two, Genesis chapter two.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    03:55-04:01

    Now, I can't say that the topic today is probably the easiest one to speak on.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    04:02-04:04

    To be honest, I don't even like to.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    04:04-04:08

    when Jeff asked me to speak, it's always an honor to preach at someone's church.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    04:09-04:17

    But then when he said he wants me to speak on this topic, I can't say I got truly excited about it, but I do believe it's an important one.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    04:18-04:34

    And if you've looked at your bulletin and seen what we're gonna talk on homosexuality today, I believe it is in our culture today and where we are at and what is taking place in our culture and what is being pushed in our culture, I believe it's important that we understand what the Bible truly says.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    04:35-04:49

    And so I hope what we get across today as we walk through some things is to understand truly what the Bible says about homosexuality, but also what is our response as the Christians, what are we supposed to be doing?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    04:49-04:53

    Because I'll be honest, I believe the church is not doing a very good job at that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    04:54-05:02

    And I believe we've almost been blindsided over the last probably five to six, maybe seven years that this has kind of become more predominant.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:02-05:05

    And I believe the church has been behind, has not responded properly.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:06-05:09

    And so I wanna share some things as we look at God's Word today.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:10-05:18

    And if you would, let me just pray real quickly as we dive in, because I can't do this without God's strength, and I don't think you can listen to it without God's strength.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:18-05:19

    And so let's pray.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:20-05:20

    God, we need you.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:21-05:24

    As we sang today, Lord, you are our only hope.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:25-05:32

    God, I pray, Lord, as we look at this topic, Lord, I pray that we would see clearly what the Word of God says.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:33-05:35

    Lord, You know every heart here.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:35-05:40

    You know if they're struggling with this issue, if they know somebody who's struggling with this issue.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:40-05:46

    So God, I pray that You would show them truly what Your Word says on this issue and how to move forward.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:46-05:48

    Lord, for Your glory, we ask these things.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:48-05:49

    In the name of Jesus, I do pray.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:51-05:51

    Amen.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    05:52-06:38

    Oprah asked a former pastor, Rob Bell, a question - Rob Bell is no longer a pastor, but is a speaker and does many other things - him this question says, "Well, when is the church going to get it?" Speaking of this topic of homosexuality, when is the church going to understand it? When is the church really going to start to embrace it? And here's what Mr. Bell said. He said, "Well, moments away. I think culture is already there and the church will continue to be more irrelevant when it quotes letters from 2,000 years ago as their best defense. When you have in front of you flesh and blood people who are your brothers and sisters and aunts and uncles and co-workers and neighbors and they love each other and just want to go through life with someone.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    06:39-06:54

    I believe that Mr. Bell is right. Many churches have started to go irrelevant today, but the reason it is not because they are holding to a book that is written 2,000 years ago, it's because they have neglected a book that was written 2,000 years ago.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    06:55-07:02

    And I believe the Word of God is very clear and what we need to stand and how we need to stand on this issue.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    07:02-07:04

    So what does the Bible say?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    07:04-07:10

    In issues that we thought, you know, 10, 15 years ago, we never even thought we'd have to even have this conversation really.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    07:11-07:17

    It was almost in many of our minds, black and white, of what needed to happen in the whole area of homosexuality.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    07:18-07:22

    But because of kind of where our culture has gone, it is an issue that we have to address.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    07:23-07:29

    Now, here's, you know, there's a lot of messages that you preach, and when you preach a message out of your head, it's because you know it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    07:30-07:34

    You preach a message out of your heart because you feel it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    07:34-07:39

    But you preach a message out of your life because you've walked through it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    07:39-07:56

    The reason why this topic hits close to home, and I'm gonna try not to cry through this whole message, so bear with me if I start, is because my younger brother, my younger brother about 15 years ago came to me and told me that he had a same-sex attraction.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    07:57-08:02

    And actually, when he told me that for the first time, I can't say I responded the greatest.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    08:02-08:13

    I just came out of Bible college, and I gave him all, "Hey, this is not biblical, "and you need to change this, "and this is not natural, and you need to do this." And I look back now, and I realize I did not respond correctly.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    08:14-08:23

    About four years ago, about a month before we planted a church down in Pittsburgh East, my little brother sent an email to my family.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    08:23-08:43

    four brothers and a sister. My dad's been in ministry for 40 years. All three of my other brothers are in ministry. My brother Josh is in New York City. He's an actor there, actually on Broadway right now, performs with Josh Groban, and been very successful in what he does. He was on Survivor about three years ago.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    08:45-10:10

    And about four years ago, a month before we were about to launch the church, he sent an email and told us that he believed that it was biblical and that God had made him a homosexual and that this is the lifestyle that he was now going to embrace. And I can still remember sitting in my--I was sitting in McDonald's actually in Monroeville, I was talking to my worship guy and I just kind of stopped me and said I had to go. And I remember going home and crying with my wife and Josh was my best man at my wedding and I have a good relationship with him and I'll tell you it hurt. It hurt a lot and it made me have to go to the scriptures and I told Josh, I said, "Josh, listen, with all I have, go to the scriptures and with no presuppositions look at this topic again and study it out and see what does the Bible truly say." And he gave me a book that he wanted me to read and I said I'd read it and I said I will go and over the next months I read books I read articles I listened to people talk on both sides and what I share with you today is really where that point has brought me and yes it's a continual thing and it's a continual action of learning and growing but the journey that I've on it took time it It took tears and a lot of prayer.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:11-10:14

    And do we really have ground to stand on?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:15-10:21

    What we have believed and what church history has believed for over 2000 years really, do we have ground to stand on?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:21-10:25

    And what does the Bible really say about this?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:25-10:27

    And what does the church do now?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:28-10:31

    You may sit here and say, Jeremiah, the Bible, it seems so clear.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:31-10:33

    How did they get around it?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:33-10:36

    I mean, there are verses that we've kind of held up for so many years.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:36-10:37

    How do we get around these verses?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:38-10:40

    Well, some don't even care what the Bible say.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:41-10:49

    Some, you know, look at it and say, well, Jesus made me this way, and if he made me this way, then I'm gonna embrace this, and I'm gonna walk through this, and not really giving any thought to what the word of God says.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    10:50-11:07

    And then some, including my brother, have changed the new, have put a new hermeneutic, or a new interpretation to the verses that we would usually go to and say, these are the verses that talk about homosexuality and why we believe it's wrong, and that they put a new hermeneutic to it, a new interpretation to it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    11:08-11:19

    And they say that most of those verses, as it talks about homosexuality, are talking about proactive or adulterous or fleshly acts, you know, like a gang rape, like you would see in Sodom and Gomorrah.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    11:20-11:26

    They say it's not talking, Jeremiah, about a covenant relationship between one man and one man or one woman and one woman.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    11:27-11:44

    So it is. It's hard to debate somebody because when they change the hermeneutic of the scripture to say what they wanted to, And let me just say, it's very dangerous when you start to take the Word of God and start to change interpretation that the church really has held for for over 2,000 years.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    11:45-12:00

    And so what I want to do this morning is I want to help you understand homosexuality and understand biblically what the Word of God says, and hope that you see that's coming from a heart that has walked through a tough journey over the last years.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    12:01-13:26

    You know, I'd say that most of the books that I read that were for homosexuality, most of the pastors that have kind of gone over and accepted it now, it's because they usually start their argument like this, "I know somebody who's a homosexual, and I know how much they love that person, how much they love God, so it has to be right." And so they say, "Okay, because of that presupposition, "Now I'm gonna go to God's Word." And listen church, that's not how we go to God's Word. We go to God's Word as the foundation of what we believe. And as hard as it was, as I studied and I journeyed through this, as hard as it was to set aside my love for my brother and my love to want to see him be happy, I have to go with this book right here, and I have to stand on what God's Word says. So I want to give you a couple things and I think if you're gonna understand why biblically homosexuality is wrong, I think you have to understand what marriage is in the eyes of God. Look at Genesis chapter 2, number one, it's a covenant relationship between a man and a woman. You say, "Jeremiah, where do you see that? Where do you see that's between a man or woman?" I think we start at the beginning at Genesis chapter 2 verse 18. It says, "And the Lord God said, 'It is not good than a man should be alone. And I will make him a helper fit for him.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    13:26-13:52

    Skip down to verse 21. And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon this man Adam. And while he slept he took one his ribs and closed up his the place of his flesh. And the rib that the Lord had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. And the man said this at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. And she shall be called woman because she was taken out of the man, and look at verse 24 right here.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    13:53-14:07

    "Therefore, man shall leave his father and mother "and hold fast to his wife, "and they shall become one flesh." Listen, that verse right there, verse 24, I believe is a definition of what marriage is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    14:08-14:11

    You say, Jeremiah, why do you think that verse 24 is the definition of marriage?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    14:11-14:16

    Why is it not just really connected with this whole story of what is taking place there?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    14:17-14:25

    Because I believe that God is setting a precedence right there at the beginning in creation of saying, hey, listen, this is what marriage will be for all.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    14:25-14:25

    Why?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    14:26-14:30

    Because you look at verse 24, did Adam and Eve have a father or a mother?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    14:31-14:35

    No, they were the first two adults on the earth.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    14:35-14:42

    And so he can't be talking about Adam and Eve because they didn't have to leave their father, they didn't have to leave their mother and cling together.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    14:42-15:54

    No, Jesus was setting a precedent, a creation principle and saying, listen, this is what marriage would be from all time. It would be when a man shall leave his father and mother, because from here on out everybody's gonna have a father and mother. And so yes, they're the first one, they didn't, but here a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. You know, they'll try to sit there and they'll say, Jeremiah, in the books that kind of promote homosexuality, will take this passage and say, "No, that was, this is just for Adam and Eve and this is kind of how the world started, this is what took place, but it's not a principle that has to be cleared through the whole scriptures and through all time and I believe that's not understanding what the Word of God is saying here. God is setting up precedence. This is what marriage is. It's between a man and a woman when they leave their family and they cling to each other and they become one flesh. And then you start walking through the scriptures. You walk through the scriptures, there's no story or even a picture of a same-sex marriage ordained by God. In the Word we always see marriage pictured and defined as a relationship between a man and a woman.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    15:55-16:15

    And I've read the articles and a lot of times will say well homosexuality was not a big emphasis during that time, during that time frame it wasn't known and that's just not understanding history. You go back and you study history you can even look at Wikipedia online and they put homosexuality all all the way back at the start of what they would know history to be.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    16:15-16:41

    So my thing is, if homosexuality was a big part of the culture, even back in that time frame, then why do we go through the whole scriptures and we don't see God ordain one homosexual act, we don't see God bless one couple, if it was prominent then, if it was known, why does every marriage that we see take place in the word of God between a man and a woman.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    16:42-16:48

    Because God was setting a pattern, this is what marriage is, this is what takes place.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    16:48-16:49

    You say, well, that's just the Old Testament.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    16:50-16:52

    You can flip and you have to turn there.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    16:52-16:54

    But in Matthew, Jesus starts to talk about it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    16:54-16:58

    They come to Jesus in Matthew 19, they say Jesus, asking him about divorce.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    16:59-17:03

    And before Jesus talks about divorce, first he says, listen, let me define marriage.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    17:03-17:05

    And how does he define marriage?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    17:05-17:12

    He goes back to Genesis chapter two and says, Listen, this is how God defined it in Genesis chapter two, so let me tell you.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    17:12-17:17

    He says, "Have you not read that he who created them "from the beginning made male and female?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    17:18-17:33

    "And he said, 'Therefore a man shall leave his father "'and mother and hold fast to his wife, "'and the two shall become one flesh.' "So they are no longer two but one, "therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." So Jesus goes back and says, listen, before we even talk about divorce, let me tell you what marriage is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    17:34-17:38

    It's between a man and a woman, They become one and let that not separate.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    17:38-17:41

    They say, Jesus, that's really insensitive.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    17:42-17:50

    Why didn't Jesus just say, therefore a person shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to each other and the two shall become one flesh?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    17:51-18:00

    Listen, don't you think Jesus knew that the people he was talking to, the people standing in that crowd, that there were some there probably with the same sex attraction, the people who would have heard that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:01-18:08

    Why did he make it so clear when he said, This is between a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:10-18:13

    Because Jesus was defining again what marriage was.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:15-18:22

    We can flip a little bit later in the epistles, Ephesians chapter five, the apostle Paul is talking on marriage.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:22-18:28

    And at the end of his talk on marriage, he quotes the same verse in Genesis chapter two.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:29-18:31

    He said, "Listen, this is what marriage is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:32-18:38

    It's when a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:38-18:40

    Listen, he was talking to the church at Ephesus.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:41-18:46

    Ephesus would have been full of, yes, of idolatry and people who would have had that same sex attraction.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:48-18:55

    So why wasn't Paul more sensitive unless he was communicating truly with the word of God says, this is what marriage is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:56-18:57

    You see, listen to me, church.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    18:57-19:05

    If God defines marriage as between a man or woman Genesis 2. And Jesus defines marriage between a man and a woman in Matthew 19.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    19:06-19:58

    And the Apostle Paul defines marriage between a man and a woman in Ephesians chapter 5. Listen, I'd have to say that's pretty good company to be able to sit there and say between God, Jesus, and the Apostle Paul, I'm saying this is what marriage is. This is what it looks like. I think God would have known. I think God's not connected to time so he would have known that this would have been an issue today and as prevadent as it is that he would have put one verse or one illustration or one of something saying this is what marriage is. You see if you read in the books that are for homosexuality what they do is they go to the scriptures and they try to say well that's not really what the author was intended and but when you ask him okay we're in the Word of God does it is it for homosexuality, there isn't anything.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    19:59-20:03

    Their whole argument is on silence because there isn't anything.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    20:03-20:10

    Yes, you can change the hermeneutics to something and you can say that's not what it was, but the bottom line, that there's nothing that is for it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    20:10-20:35

    I've looked and as I've counseled and talked to people with same-sex attraction, I've told them, listen, if I get to heaven and what it is for you to have a homosexual relationship was ordained by God and God is for that, then listen, I'm gonna be mad at God Because I know the pain, I know the hurt that I have as I've counseled those people, I've talked with my brother, that the desire they wish they did not have.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    20:36-20:39

    Why was God give us just one instance on it?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    20:41-20:56

    And that's why I have to go back and say, God was totally clear from the beginning, and even when Jesus walked in there, started the church with the Apostle Paul of what marriage should be, is a covenant relationship between a man and a woman.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    20:57-21:03

    There's another reason I'd give you, and that is this, is that marriage is a picture of Christ in the church.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:04-21:06

    Marriage is a picture of Christ in the church.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:06-21:08

    Ephesians chapter five is what it talks about.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:08-21:12

    This is one of the big reasons why I believe homosexuality is wrong.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:13-21:20

    The illustration that we see in Ephesians chapter five is between Christ and the church and how the husband represents Christ and how the wife represents the church.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:20-21:27

    and how the wife submits under the husband just as Christ, and as the church submits under Christ.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:27-21:28

    It's an illustration that is given.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:29-21:34

    And this can't be an illustration just for that church or for that time frame.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:34-21:39

    No, he goes back again and pulls the creation principle from Genesis chapter two.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:39-21:47

    I believe that according to this passage, that one of the reasons why marriage is set up is to picture Christ and the church, it's two opposites uniting as one.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:49-21:53

    We have roles that are played out so clearly, what the man is supposed to do and what the woman is supposed to do.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:53-21:56

    And in the same sex relationship, how does that play out?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    21:58-22:03

    If they say, well, it's just one of them should do it, well then in a heterosexual relationship, you should be able to say the same thing.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    22:04-22:20

    If we tear down that picture and say, well, it doesn't matter if it's the man that's the leader or the woman that submits or this woman that submits or the man's leader, it doesn't really matter what it is, then we've torn down really the picture of what the family is and how God designed the family to be.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    22:21-22:33

    And then I'll give you one more quickly here is we won't take a long time to look at it and I promise I'll keep it PG rated, but it's a married couple enjoying a God-designed sexual expression.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    22:34-22:36

    It must be a married couple or it is sin.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    22:37-22:43

    I believe there's one way that God designed sex to take place and that is between a man and a woman.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    22:43-22:49

    Sex is not just a union, it is a reunion of the two difference becoming one.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    22:50-22:54

    And only in a heterosexual relationship will that take place.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    22:55-23:00

    And so understanding in the eyes of God this is what marriage truly is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    23:01-23:04

    And that we can stand on God's word of what marriage is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    23:05-23:10

    Now you say, "Jemar, are there other passages in God's word that talk about it?" Yes, I'll quickly just kind of give you a couple.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    23:11-23:41

    Leviticus chapter 20, chapter 18 and chapter 20, both talk about it and just I'll go to Leviticus 20 for a second here. It says in Leviticus 20 verse 13, "If a man lies with a man as with a woman, both of them have committed abomination and they shall surely be put to death. Their blood is upon them." Jeremiah, that seems so clear. How do they take this? Well, they'd say this is Levitical law and they'd say if you're gonna follow this then you have to follow all Leviticus, right? Well, understand what the Levitical law is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    23:41-24:09

    They sit there and say that God has done away with the law, Jesus did away with the law, and that's not true. You see in the New Testament that Jesus Christ came to fulfill the law. There's a difference of fulfilling the law and doing away with the law. A very important difference. They say, "Why, Pastor, then do you practice some of the things in Leviticus and not other ones? You don't still sacrifice, you don't still do that, so why?" Well, again, you have to go to the New Testament understand this, that when Christ came, he came to fulfill the law.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    24:09-26:44

    So all foods that were declared unclean in Leviticus, we see in the book of Mark and in Acts, that Jesus says these foods are now clean. You can eat what you want. Also we see all the holy days and all the things that they kept with the Sabbath and things they couldn't do and they couldn't walk this far. And what took place, we see in Romans chapter 14 that Jesus said, "Listen, you don't have to do that anymore. Fulfill those things." And then the whole sacrificial system that has written Leviticus. We see in Hebrews chapter 7 that Christ was the last sacrifice, but lying with another man is a purity issue, and there's a difference. That this is the purity law as you walk through Leviticus, that God is calling his people to holiness, and so the things that God talks about and the issues of purity are still supposed to be followed today. It's interesting in this verse here, it's the only time, actually there's one other time, and that's in Leviticus 18.22 when he's talking about homosexuality, that God uses the word "abomination" as Moses goes through and writes Leviticus. He is saying that this is an abomination to him. Now, you say, "Jeremiah, how can they pull this verse out?" And what they say is that, you know, this is talking about, you know, a more of a gang rape or someone who is you know raping someone but that's not what the word is talking because they both it says shall be killed if they practice this. Now again, the punishment was fulfilled at the cross so we don't fulfill the same punishment that took place at that time but what God said is still supposed to happen. Look at the verses around it. It talks about committing adultery, it talks about the man lies with his father's wife, it talks about if a man lies with his daughter-in-law. It talks about in verse 15 if men lies with an animal. What we still all say today that those are wrong so why would we not say that the Homosexuality Act is also wrong? Again we can't just take one verse and pull it out we have to look at what it communicates there. And so here it is talking about and it is wrong. I'll look at one more chapter here and then I want to get you some practical things. Romans chapter 1. Romans chapter 1 verses 18 through 23. Let me read some of this with It says, "For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness oppress the truth. For what we can be known by God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. For this is his invisible attributes, namely, his internal power and divine nature, has been clearly perceived ever since the creation of the world, the things have been made.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    26:44-26:50

    So they are without excuse. For though they knew God, they did not honor as God or give thanks to Him.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    26:50-26:58

    "for they became futile in their thinking, "and their foolish hearts were darkened." So he's talking about a generation that is not seeking after him, that is seeking after their own thing.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    26:59-27:02

    "Claiming to be wise, they become fools." He says this in verse 24.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:02-27:10

    "Therefore God gave them up." You know, I'll tell you, one of the worst things to do is receive the passive wrath of God.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:11-27:16

    That when God says, listen, my discipline, I'm not even gonna put in more, I'm just gonna give you up and step back.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:16-27:19

    It's the passive wrath of God that you don't wanna walk down.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:20-27:29

    He says, "I gave them up in the lust of their hearts to impurity, the dishonor of their bodies among themselves, because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:30-27:34

    And they worship and serve the creature rather than the creator, who is blessed forever.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:34-27:35

    Amen.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:35-27:39

    For this reason, God gave them up." What did he give them up to?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:39-27:41

    "To dishonorable passions.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:42-27:46

    For the woman exchanged their natural relations for those that are contrary to nature.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    27:47-30:45

    And the men, likewise, gave up natural relations with women consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty of their error." You say, "Jeremiah, how did they get around that?" Well, during that time frame, there was an emperor who would basically bring kids in and adults in and have sex with them. And so they would say, as Apostle Paul wrote this, that they would have been thinking of that emperor, they've been thinking what was taking place in that time. The problem that again as these are says there they were consumed with passion for one another these are two people consenting to have a relationship with each other that goes against what God designed it to be and because of that it is wrong and that God gave us this dishonorable passions listen if there's one thing that I want you to make sure you walk out today is understanding that we can stand strong on God's Word. You know as you walk through, as you read through articles and you see articles on Facebook and you see pastors slowly just falling in this area of saying, "This is fine, this is biblical, they're allowed to practice these things." And yes, it can make you start to doubt and go, "How is this happening? What is taking place?" Please understand that God's Word is very clear on it. That we don't have to waver, we don't have to doubt. We don't have to sit there and say is what they're saying true? No, you go to the scriptures and God's Word is clear and we can hold on the same hermeneutic that we've held to for 2,000 years and we don't have to change on that. That God's Word is clear on what it says. Now let me give you just a couple street-level objectives before I give you what you could do, because here's what some people will say as you walk the streets, you talk with someone, you have a friend, or you have a sibling, or a parent, or somebody who's in walking down this this problem, this is what they'll say, "Jesus did not say anything about homosexuality, so we don't need to take a stand on it." And I've heard pastors say that. You know, "Jesus really didn't say anything about it, so I don't need to take on a stand on it either." Well listen, Jesus didn't say anything about incest or idolatry either, at least that we have recorded, and we still believe both of those are wrong. Jesus was an actual person, lived a specific time, and yes, as the Apostles wrote what he said, they didn't write down everything he said. He could have said something about it, and they just didn't write it down, maybe because it was so clear in their minds and so clear of what was taking place that they didn't have to write anything about it, because it wasn't an issue as this right or wrong back then. They knew it was wrong. I think also Jesus did as marriages where he looked at Matthew 19 that he did talk about it because he said this is what marriage is and so if he said this is what marriage is then what he also is saying this is what marriage is not. So this is what it is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    30:45-31:55

    He also in Mark chapter 7 used the word sexual immorality. It's the word pornia and there's a broad word that is used for any sexual sin and that would be idolatry, fornication, or homosexuality. Listen, just because we don't see Jesus giving specific instructions saying homosexuality is wrong does not mean that Jesus didn't talk about it. Also, if we believe these are all God's words, then everything in this book, not just what is in red. So I don't believe that that objective stands for anything. Another objective that I've heard is this, is some animals have same-sex relations, it must be natural. They try to go to the animals and say, "Well, some of those animals, they have sex and they're man and man, a woman and woman, so that must be fine." Well listen, the female black-widowed spider after mating with a male eats the husband. I don't see anybody promoting cannibalism today. Also the hippo after the mom gives birth, the male hippo tries to eat the child because it doesn't want the child to take over the dominance of the herd. So listen, just because nature does it does not mean it's right. Listen, nature is under the same curse that we are under.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    31:55-31:58

    And so not everything out there is perfect.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    31:59-32:08

    And so there are still some things because of the curse, just because an animal does it, nature does not make it natural in what it should be.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    32:09-32:13

    Someday creation will be freed from the same curse of sin that we will be freed from.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    32:14-32:21

    The other objective that you sometimes hear is this, is the church used to think slavery was right, and they were changed on this topic also.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    32:22-32:28

    They try to compare it a lot to slavery and say this is what happened, you know, with slavery, and so the church is gonna come around, they're gonna get it also.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    32:29-32:37

    Listen, the church has changed numerous times throughout history on their stance on things, and slavery always being the biggest one of what they say.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    32:37-32:42

    But first, we don't decide what we do because of the church, we stand on what we believe because of God's word.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    32:43-32:46

    And so just because the church does, it doesn't mean that it's right.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    32:46-32:52

    And we've gotten a problem when we start to declare the church as the authority and not God's word.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    32:52-33:01

    Now, when we talk about slavery, we think of people being beaten and treated harshly, unjustly, and listen, the Bible was never for that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    33:02-33:06

    And that's why conservative Christians throughout history have fought against that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    33:07-33:10

    William Wilberforce being one trying to abolish slavery.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    33:11-33:17

    You read through and study through the Bible what it talks about slavery and understand slavery in that culture.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    33:17-33:19

    Slavery back at this time was like a job.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    33:20-33:28

    People would put themselves into slavery, as slaves you could become a doctor, you could become a lawyer, you could move up because you don't go work at McDonald's or Lowe's, what do you do?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    33:29-34:10

    You go find somebody who has a lot of money and you work under them. And the Bible is clear that you treat them nicely. If you do something to them, you deserve it back. So what we think of slavery of being beaten and tortured, the Bible was never for that and was against that, and there are clear laws in the Bible of how you're supposed to treat someone like that. But understand, we're looking at in our 21st century mindset and we look back at the Civil War and what took place there, that was not what slavery was back in the Old Testament, at least what God said it could be. It was a job that people had in what took place. And so homosexuality is different when it comes to that issue.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    34:11-35:13

    So slavery and homosexuality I do not believe can be compared. Let's close by this. Let me give you a couple things. What do we do? Say, "Jeremiah, the Bible's what do we do? Here's the first one I would say is stop avoiding them. Listen, please stop avoiding them. That they don't have the plague. Stop making fun of people. Remember in college people making fun of someone who is homosexual or are talking in the girl's voice or whatever it may be. These are real people with hurts and feelings so please stop it. No wonder they have run from the church. Most same-sex desire as having this unforgivable sin. Listen, that is not the case. I've seen damage the church has done, and many of them, they don't want to have anything to do with the church because they've run. They don't want the desire. You know how many times my brother have told me and talked to me and said, "Listen, I don't want this." He wants it to go away.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    35:15-35:19

    Listen, they're not less because they feel like that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    35:20-35:22

    We all have problems, we all have sins.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    35:23-35:25

    We don't push them aside because of that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    35:26-35:28

    Will most of them ever get rid of that desire?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    35:29-35:31

    No, but can they be used for the glory of God?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    35:31-35:32

    Yes.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    35:33-35:34

    Yes, and yes.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    35:35-36:22

    I actually wonder if my brother would still be where he should be according to the scriptures and how he was raised if the church would have treated him a little bit better. You see, we didn't know five, ten years ago really how to handle it. It was just kind of, "Oh, if you have that, you have to change, and you know, this needs to be done, and just, you know, be finished with it." And I think a lot of that, that's why a lot of these homosexuals have run to these bigger cities where they've found a community of people that they can get around. They just want to be accepted in it. And listen, if there's any place that we should be accepted, it is here, we should be loving them. But listen, here's what I want you to know, here's number two is this, is give them the gospel first. Give them the gospel first.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    36:22-36:56

    You're not trying to fix them. Listen, they need the gospel. Don't rush into this specific sin problem when first they just need Jesus Christ. And we so quick want to try to fix this and fix this when they just need the gospel. They need a Savior. They need to know that He loves them and He cares for them. So when you talk with them and you look at them, see them through Christ's eyes, give them the gospel first. Because listen, the gospel changes everything. And don't so quickly point their sin and say, "Listen, you got to stop this." No, give them the gospel.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    36:58-37:06

    I did not say the gospel will free them from the desire of same-sex attraction, but it will free them from the change of the same-sex attraction.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:07-37:11

    It might not be the desire, but the change, yes, the gospel can free them from.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:11-37:24

    You say, "Jeremiah, what do you do with someone who believes they're sexed?" Like my brother. Listen, let me tell you, if you talk with my brother, and you didn't know he had a same-sex attraction, you would think he's a Christian sold out on fire for God.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:25-37:29

    Gets up and reads his Bible probably more consistently than most people in our churches today.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:29-37:30

    He goes to church.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:31-37:34

    But you have a conversation with him, I guarantee you he'll bring Christ into it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:36-37:37

    So what do you do with that?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:38-37:40

    To be honest, I wish it wasn't.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:40-37:41

    I wish you would just kind of renounce the faith.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:42-37:43

    It'd be so much easier.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:43-37:43

    But what do you do?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:44-37:49

    Here's the third thing I would say, is love them, but not accepting what they do.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:50-37:52

    Love them, but not accepting what they do.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:53-37:55

    Listen, I will embrace them, but not the sin.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    37:56-38:01

    But the person I will embrace, I will love my brother, I will continue to love him.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:01-38:06

    I will show him, I will let him know I love him, but listen, I cannot accept what he does.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:07-38:08

    And he knows that also.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:09-38:18

    Jean Lloyd, who is a former lesbian, she said this, "Continue to love me, but remember that you cannot "be more merciful than God.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:18-38:21

    "It isn't mercy to affirm a same-sex acts as good.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:22-38:23

    "Don't compromise truth.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:24-38:31

    "Help me to live in harmony with it." Listen, we know what the truth of God says, so we have to stand on that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:32-38:39

    But we don't have to say, listen, we accept what they're doing, but we push them away when we say stupid things, when we don't say anything at all.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:39-38:43

    And really, that's where the church has been for so many years, is we never even talk about it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:44-38:50

    I wonder how many times you've ever heard a message on homosexuality, we don't talk about it, we've kind of just kind of pushed that aside.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:50-38:57

    And because of that, those who are struggling with that same sex attraction think that there's something less, and that they should just kind of be pushed aside.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    38:57-38:58

    And that is not the case.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:00-39:01

    Listen, we love them.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:01-39:03

    Yes, we cannot embrace that lifestyle.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:03-39:09

    And someone who is fighting against that lifestyle, then we should put our arms around them quicker than anything.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:10-39:19

    I remember as I spoke this in my church, afterwards there was a couple that I talked with or that was talking in their small groups and just like, I don't know about that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:19-39:21

    I've just really embraced them into our church.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:22-39:23

    Listen, that's wrong.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:24-39:30

    Yes, I'm not going to say that what they're doing is right, but I'm going to love them, and I'm going to show them love.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:31-39:39

    There was an article by a man named Garrett Kell who wrote, do you remember some years ago, a boy named Josh Alcorn, who committed suicide.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:40-39:42

    He believed he was a girl trapped in a boy's body.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:43-39:48

    And in this article by Garrett Kell, he said this is what he would have said to this young man.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    39:49-40:06

    And I really wish I would have known this about 15 years ago when my brother first came to me and told me a same-sex attraction. In the article it says this, he said, "This is what Jesus would say to you today. Jesus would say you are made in my image and I love you.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:07-40:23

    Jesus would say you are broken just like everyone else. Jesus would say you have a unique struggle and I will use it. Jesus would say I came to rescue people like you so trust in me. Jesus would say the journey is hard but it's worth it and I I will help you.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:25-40:28

    Jesus would say, your parents aren't perfect, but they love you.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:28-40:30

    Jesus would say, go to my people.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:30-40:33

    They will walk with you in grace and truth.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:33-40:35

    Listen, will we do that, church?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:36-40:39

    Will we walk with those people in grace and truth?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:40-40:43

    Jesus would say, don't give up your life.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:43-40:44

    I make life worth living.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:46-40:50

    Jesus would say, remember, I'm coming back to make all things new.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    40:51-41:00

    Listen, if you're here today and you struggle with the same sex attraction, then please understand that you're not anything less than the person sitting next to you.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    41:01-41:07

    God has made you in a unique way and He's gonna use that for His glory and for His praise and for His honor.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    41:08-41:13

    And also, I sit there with your family and you have someone like I have as a brother.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    41:14-41:19

    If you have a son or a daughter, I know there are many couples in my church who have kids that we pray for.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    41:20-41:26

    I pray for my brothers, we pray for them, and we ask God to do what only God can do.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    41:26-41:27

    Listen, those families, they need encouragement.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    41:28-41:36

    I have wept with some of those families in my church who are walking through the same thing, and I've wept with my parents.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    41:37-42:06

    As my dad has been in ministry for 40 years, I remember about three years ago, my dad sent an email to my brothers and I, and it was right before I went to bed, And I woke up that morning, or actually it was about three or four o'clock in the morning, and just went out because I wanted to respond back to my dad because my dad was at that place where he was like, Jim, I don't just want to quit.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    42:07-42:14

    As, yes, he's walked through ministry for so many years, seeing his son walk down this road was tough on my family.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    42:15-42:51

    And I remember sending an email to my dad, I'll read this to you because if there's someone here who If you have a child or you have someone that you know Then then listen don't don't give up and that's what I told my dad. I said this you can't quit dad because I'm watching I've been watching what you're doing and say and how you're going to respond You've been my role model for 34 years, and I'm still watching you can't quit that. I need you to stay strong I need you to see how to finish strong when the hardest battles of your life comes at the end of the race.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    42:52-42:58

    I need to see your passion for Christ and love for the gospel grow as you walk this road. Dad, you can't quit. I'm watching.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    42:59-43:04

    Dad, you can't quit. My kids are watching you. I need you to show my kids how to live for Jesus.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:05-43:09

    They love their Papa and I want them to know the greatest thing in your life is Christ.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:09-43:14

    Someday they will fully understand the story and I need them to see Christ all through it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:15-43:19

    You are giving my kids a legacy and I need you to paint it clearly for Christ.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:19-43:24

    You can't quit dad, my kids are watching. You can't quit dad, the gospel is on display.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:25-43:31

    It's being destroyed and misused on one front, so you must show it more clearly.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:31-43:42

    You must love when it's hard to love. You must stand for truth when lies take the form of truth. You must show how the gospel sustains us in the hard times, how to proclaim mercy and grace in our deepest struggles.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:43-43:49

    You must show how when you feel unworthy and weak, the gospel gives you hope and peace and reason to keep fighting.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:49-43:54

    You must paint the picture of the gospel more clear than those who are blurring its beauty.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:54-43:56

    You must continue to preach and to minister.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:56-43:58

    God is not finished with you.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    43:59-44:00

    You can't quit, Dad.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:00-44:01

    The gospel is on display.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:02-44:04

    You can't quit, Dad, 'cause we're all watching.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:05-44:08

    You are the patriarch, and you have this charge for this family.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:08-44:12

    You have a wife, five kids, four daughter-in-laws, and 14 grandchildren that are following you.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:13-44:16

    We are behind you and we will help you as you walk through this valley.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:16-44:20

    We will stand together as a family for that is how you have taught us.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:20-44:22

    We look to Christ and he will sustain us.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:23-44:27

    He will use this valley to encourage others who are walking through the same valley.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:27-44:29

    He will use this valley to proclaim Christ.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:30-44:31

    You can't quit, we are watching, Dad.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:32-44:33

    I need you to finish strong.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:33-44:36

    You can't quit, there's too much at stake.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:37-44:39

    I love you and we all love you and don't ever forget that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:39-44:42

    You can't quit 'cause that's not an option, so stop saying it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:43-44:47

    We're in a battle and this is the war, it's one of the toughest our family has faced.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:47-44:51

    We need you to lead us and to show us how to follow Christ while in it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:52-44:54

    Dad, I hope to see that you can't quit.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:55-44:56

    Don't ever forget, Dad, that I mean every word of it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    44:57-44:59

    I write this in tears because I feel your pain.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:00-45:01

    We're all with you, we love you.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:01-45:03

    We're a family, we're staying together as we keep our eyes on Christ.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:03-45:04

    We live for his glory.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:07-45:17

    Listen, if you know somebody, you've walked down that road before, listen, it is more clearly and more important today that we stand truthfully on the gospel.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:18-45:24

    And we stand strong in a world that is pushing something the wrong way, that we stand for what is true.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:25-45:28

    And then here would be the last one, guide them as part of the body of Christ.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:29-45:32

    Listen, guide them as part of the body of Christ.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:33-45:35

    Help them learn how to walk in the Spirit.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:35-45:38

    Help them put to death the deeds of the flesh.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:39-45:44

    We are learning to put to death the deeds of the flesh in our sin, so let's help them.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:45-45:49

    Listen, they should be able to come into a small group and share with their struggle and not be judged.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:51-45:55

    Guide them, help them, pray for them, because listen, church, if you don't, the world will get there.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    45:56-46:03

    And listen, if you sit here today and you struggle with the same sex attraction, then I pray that you will find these here.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    46:03-46:21

    I've said numerous times that I pray that someday, that when my brother does get the blinders off his eyes and see the truth, I hope he comes back and starts a ministry in my church, the LGBT movement, because I wanna show those people that gospel changes things, and I wanna help them.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    46:22-46:32

    And as hard as it is to see what my brother's walking through, and yes, it's a story I never would choose, I never would sign up for, to have a life story like this.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    46:34-46:57

    But it's where God has me, and it's where God has our family. And so yes, it has made me study the scriptures and know I can stand strong on the scriptures, but it's also given me a love for those people who have a same-sex attraction because they're struggling. And just like I struggle with sin and I have difficulties, they do too. So we don't treat them any differently.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    46:57-47:15

    we love them, we embrace them, and we help them walk and see the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ. And it's been a joy as I have, as hard as it is for me to share this message, to have people email me and write me after and say that they have a same-sex attraction and they just want to know how do they keep walking.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    47:16-47:28

    And it breaks my heart, the emails that I get from people who struggle with it, who are walking down this road and thinking that they're alone and they don't have anybody, listen, that's what the church is there for.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    47:29-47:31

    And that's why as you as a church are here.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    47:32-47:55

    It's not something to push aside, but something to embrace. Listen, as a body we need to help them. As if you're a critical judge and you're casting judge on these people, then listen, stop. If you're a hurting family, then I say there is hope. And if you're someone here today with the same sex attraction, then know that God has a plan for you to trust and rest in Him.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    47:56-48:29

    Listen, to be honest, some of this stuff I don't say with happiness. I wish I could tell my brother that he could act out what he's doing, and that's by God. So I don't say it with happiness, but I say it with confidence because I know it's what God's Word is, and I know I can stand on that. And I pray that you will see that also, and no matter if you have someone who is a same-sex attraction to yourself, that you would understand truly how God sees them. They're made in His image and and made for His glory, and made to be used for His glory. Let's pray to God.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    48:31-48:58

    Father, as come before you, God, Lord I thank you that your word is clear. Lord I thank you we can stand strong on your word. God I thank you for every person that is here, Lord I pray for those who do have that struggle with the same sex attraction, Lord you might never take it away from them, but God I pray that that they would see clearly what you have for them, that you have plans for them, you have desires for them, that you're gonna use them for your glory in incredible and magnificent ways.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    48:59-49:01

    Just like I wanna see you use my brother someday.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:02-49:09

    And God, I pray for those who have maybe a son or a daughter or a grandchild or a friend, Lord, who struggles with it.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:09-49:15

    God, will you help them to see how to love, but to still stand strong on the truth of what your word says.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:17-49:24

    And God, will you raise up a church here in Pittsburgh North that, yes, welcomes without judgment.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:25-49:30

    Yes, we don't accept sin, but we welcome and we love and we show them the gospel and the truth.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:31-49:34

    God, will you please do what only you can do here.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:35-49:36

    And God, we give you praise.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:37-49:38

    We give you glory.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:38-49:39

    We give you honor.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:40-49:41

    In the name of Jesus, I do pray.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    49:42-49:42

    Amen.

    Mark Ort:

    49:43-49:44

    Thank you, Jeremiah.

    Mark Ort:

    49:45-49:51

    Before you step down, is it all right if we open it up to the people to ask a couple of questions?

    Mark Ort:

    49:51-49:53

    We have time for maybe three or four questions.

    Mark Ort:

    49:54-50:00

    I know it's a hot cultural topic right now, and Jeremiah is willing to answer some questions if you have any.

    Mark Ort:

    50:00-50:02

    And Corinne will walk around with the microphone.

    Mark Ort:

    50:03-50:05

    Anybody have a question that I can try to answer

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    50:05-50:06

    for you?

    Audience Question 1:

    50:07-50:08

    Thank you, Jeremiah.

    Audience Question 1:

    50:09-50:13

    You could see it in the media over the last 30 years.

    Audience Question 1:

    50:13-50:19

    It started with cohabitation, that's okay now. They went to homosexuality, that's okay now.

    Audience Question 1:

    50:21-50:37

    And now it's heading towards transgenderism. That's something that they're pushing for being okay now. So what are you doing to teach your children the truths so that they can battle through this onslaught of media?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    50:39-50:44

    Yeah I have five kids and my kids don't know the whole story about Josh.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    50:44-50:47

    One reason why my family's not here is because they don't.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    50:47-50:52

    My oldest son's 12 and we've started to have conversations with some of that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    50:53-50:54

    He knows what homosexuality is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    50:54-50:56

    I said I haven't wanted to link that to my brother yet.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    50:58-51:16

    You know, what we have tried to do is, my wife and I, I've tried to do is teach them this is the difference between a male and a female, and make it very clear and had a nice set of conversations the other day that your DNA, 'cause he was watching something and it came on, transgenders came on, he was like, "I don't understand that." And I explained to him, I wasn't trying to hide anything, that's the way it is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    51:16-51:22

    Some people think that they're this, but you gotta understand, when God made somebody, your DNA shows that you're a male or a female.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    51:22-51:30

    And you can say whatever you want and your mind can say this or that, but scientifically, you go back to the DNA and it shows that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    51:30-51:36

    So try to bring them back, God created the human body and created it in a great way, and it's incredible.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    51:36-51:43

    And so to go back and help them see this is clearly what is, and we have as they have grown is trying to, the difference between a male and a female.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    51:43-51:50

    I can't promise that my kids won't have a same-sex attraction, they could, but they are still going to know the difference between a male and a female.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    51:51-51:59

    And that God designed, God didn't make it, hey now you can decide as now we're seeing, and some of the laws that are being passed in Canada right now are amazing.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    52:00-52:04

    You know, you could take, your child could be taken away from you if you don't let them choose what sex they want to be.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    52:06-52:55

    I'm going to teach my children this is different a male is different a female and to be honest because the culture we live in I've been pushed that even harder to a place what this is the difference We are different and to go back to science and to show them that I'm not a scientist So if you're a scientist and you know more of that stuff and help them see that that as they read those things Just you know, you don't when you point those people out and say hey, listen, they see something TV So those people are just confused I don't want to give them a perspective where they hate those people or say how stupid I don't make them think those people are stupid because that's what the church has done for so many years Then they have this mindset No They're just confused and they understand how God really loved them and God made them this way and they're just confused They need the gospel and so point them back to the gospel of the truth But help them understand the difference between a male and a female. So it's a good question anybody else

    Mark Ort:

    52:56-52:58

    So what do you do when you get invited to a same-sex wedding?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    53:00-54:06

    What do you do when you get invited to a same-sex marriage if you didn't hear that and that's one that I get asked a lot. My brother was dating someone, they were very close, they actually were engaged, and if you saw Survivor about three or four years ago, he was on there with his partner, and they broke up, so he's not dating anybody right now. I would say I would never be able to go to his wedding, and I can't. You know, a wedding is, when you sit in a wedding, what you're saying is, "I approve of what's taking place." And they used to ask the question, "Does anybody disapprove of this?" Well, they don't ask that anymore, because everybody sitting there, they said they approved of this. And so I could never sit in a wedding. I could never do that. If my brother got married, yes, I couldn't go to that because I don't approve what's taking place. And I think your presence there shows that. And so I don't see how if I stand truly what I believe a marriage is, to be able to go and sit in a marriage of the same sex, and I would show him my love. I love you, I wish, but I don't approve of it. After they were married, would I love the spouse that he's— yes, I would. But they still would know I don't approve of what's going to take place in that. Good question.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    54:07-54:08

    Anybody else? Yeah, right over here.

    Audience Question 2:

    54:08-54:28

    Okay, and so piggybacking on that, if you have a family member who did get married or have a relationship with somebody and you had a family get-together, how would you handle that as far as in front of your children and them showing public affection in front of your children or something like that?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    54:29-55:24

    You know, that's been a tough one for my family from the beginning, especially when Josh started to like this guy and they started to date. What is that? And I would say this, I think every family, there's no clear verses on that. I think you need to go as a family and look at that. I think a family is different than a church, okay? You know, as a church, if someone's living in that sin of homosexuality, yes, you love them, if they're members of the church, then church discipline's there, because that shouldn't take place, and happen. But as a family, yes, he's still my brother and so I'm gonna still love him. What we have kind of, I would let Josh come. I would not let them sleep in the same room because under my house I would say, "Hey, there's no physical contact and there's no, you're not sleeping in the same room," because I don't believe it's right. But I would still let him and his partner come. I just not, and that's what kind of when my parents have landed, they always said.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:26-55:30

    I would not let them with my kids, I'd ask Josh not to.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:30-55:35

    I think it's different if you have younger kids to if you have older kids and no kids and what that is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:35-55:37

    And again, that's where as the spouse you got to go.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:38-55:42

    Right now with younger kids, I would not let them display any affection.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:42-55:43

    I would say I don't even want that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:43-55:44

    I don't want that communicated.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:44-55:48

    I want to talk about it because I don't agree with it and I don't want to mess with my kids minds already.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:48-55:49

    We're trying to raise them one way.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:50-55:54

    If you have older kids, then it might just be, "Hey, we're not, you can't stay together." And I don't want that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:54-55:56

    So I think that's something you have to decide.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    55:56-56:08

    to think you have to let them know though, this in this home we don't agree with it and it's out of love, it's not coming out of anger, it's not yelling at them, please don't do that because you're you're the run from that so quickly.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    56:09-56:40

    But just say hey will you honor me because yes I want to show I love you, I want to show you that I care for you, but this is not and even though the state may say you're legally married, in my eyes and in God's eyes I don't believe you are, and so we're not going to stay in the same room, and that's not going to happen. And so that's kind of where we've landed as a family, but again I do think that's every family has to go and pray and ask God, "What does that look like?" I think you love them, but you still have got to help them see that they don't approve of what your lifestyle is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    56:42-56:43

    One more in the back.

    Audience Question 3:

    56:44-57:30

    So I used to live in Boston, very liberal city, you know, they painted rainbow crosswalks on the streets and stuff during June and whatnot, and they have the parades and stuff like that. So, and also being in the music industry, and you know, my sister's in musical theater, which is even, you know, further, I guess my question would be how do you exist in, or is there anything you can say to how to exist in kind of an environment where it's so celebrated? Because, you know, if you don't to agree with it, you're automatically labeled a bigot, which that's not true. I mean, I guess for some people maybe it is, but I guess, is there anything you can say to speak to that, just like sort of existing there, but trying to... does that make sense?

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    57:31-58:02

    To be honest, it's because of the church that it's harder for those people to do it. You should have seen some of the texts and emails and stuff, tweets that my brother got when he was just from church people and church pastors, I mean he had whole churches that were just told to just lamb blast him and just tell him he's going to hell and da da da. It's because of that, that's why most of the people in the musical theater issue just have pushed away the church so much. Do we need people who understand the truth, the gospel, who understand light to be in that atmosphere? Yes. Is it a tough one? Yes.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    58:03-58:39

    And so yes, for those who are, I would say what? I'd say show them love, but you've got to stand on the truth, but show them how to love in truth, and that's not because they don't think that, they don't see that. I don't think you come in with, you know, the big sign on your shirt that says, "I don't agree with this." You come in and show them love and understand who you are, and you say, "No, this is what I stand for." I don't think you hide—it's not like you hide your Christianity. I think we live out the gospel, we live out the truth. I mean, Christ, he was with the tax collectors and the sinners, and he was with all those people, but he still stood for what he believed. We have to be able to penetrate this world, but still have the light of the gospel on us.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    58:39-58:43

    And so for those who are in there, I would say, make sure you're grounded in God's word.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    58:43-58:44

    I think that'd be the biggest thing.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    58:44-58:49

    I'd probably challenge anybody who's in that atmosphere that God's called you to into that atmosphere.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    58:49-58:57

    Make sure God's called you, 'cause it is a tough one, but we need lights in there, but be grounded in God's word, because this is what our foundation is.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    58:57-59:00

    When the world's starting to sway back and forth, we have to stand on this.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    59:01-59:24

    And so make sure you're grounded in this book right here, and then also make sure you have people that are keeping you accountable and that you aren't just becoming like them. So I'm just kind of, I think it's so easy for them, eventually I'll get to whether they've been there for two, three years, they never share the gospel with anybody. I think that's a problem. God's called you in there, he wants you to be a light. And yes, are they gonna persecute you at times? Yes, and the Bible says that.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    59:24-01:00:07

    When they persecute a Christ, they put them on a cross. So be grounded in God's Word, make sure you know this. If you don't know this, then I'd be challenging not to, because it'd be hard to go into that atmosphere because it's just like the sand, it's just waves back and forth, and we have to have the rock, and we have to be grounded in this. So, and listen, that's for those who—and that's for all of us— that says the culture goes where it's going, and the direction it is, if we're not solid on this book right here. That's why it's important that you come to a church that preaches God's Word, and I know Jeff does that, because you have to know what this book says, or are we going to shift back and forth? And we have to be grounded in God's Word so we know how to stand and continue to live out the gospel. Okay, if you have other questions though, I'd be more than happy to answer.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    01:00:08-01:00:11

    I'll be up here, but thank you so much for allowing me to share.

    Pastor Jeremiah:

    01:00:13-01:00:14

    [APPLAUSE]

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read Genesis 2:24-25

  1. What overall thoughts do you have from the message and what where some take-a-ways and "nuggets".

  2. What other "street level" objectives have you heard. If so, talk about them and come up with an answer for them.

  3. How do we show love and give the gay community the Gospel in today culture?

Breakout Questions:
Spend time praying for those in the your small group who know someone that is struggling with this issue. Pray for God to free them of their bondage. 

Seeking God

Lessons from the Life of King Asa

- (2 Chronicles 14-16)

Intro:


Romans 15:4 - For whatever was written in earlier times was written for our instruction, so that through perseverance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.


A Person Who Truly Seeks God is One Who:


  1. Is Serious about it. (2 Chron 14:2-7)

  2. Makes it Personal. (2 Chron 14:11)

  3. Perseveres in their seeking. (2 Chron 15:7)

  4. Is Serious about it. (2 Chron 15:8-16)

  5. Is not without Flaws. (2 Chron 16:1-12)

HBCPN Elder - Mark Ort

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  • Pastor Jeff:

    00:22-00:27

    Our guest speaker this morning, also no stranger, Mark Ort, if you would come up here.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:28-00:31

    I first met Mark Ort in prison.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:32-00:33

    That is a true story.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:34-00:36

    And I love telling that story just for the look on people's faces.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:37-00:38

    Well, you would be surprised.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:38-00:44

    In prison, if you needed somebody roughed up, if you gave this man a pack of smokes, he would break some knees.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:45-00:47

    That's what I... We were cellies for a while.

    Pastor Jeff:

    00:47-01:19

    And I just thought I love saying we met in prison because you always get that reaction of like You guys you guys were in jail and we were how many times were we in jail mark literally like a hundred literally hundreds of times we've been in jail and doing Bible study We went every week for like two or three hours, but that's how I met mark I was involved at North Street Christian Church, and there was a guy in our church that was involved in prison ministry and I'm like, "Hey, I'd really like to get involved in that." And you were at First Baptist at the time, and you were, right?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:19-01:20

    Weren't you at First Baptist?

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:21-01:25

    Okay, whatever, but anyways, you weren't at, that's where we had met.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:26-01:27

    And here there was a connection.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:28-01:38

    Mark is actually married to Kristen, who my wife and I went to high school with, and three absolutely beautiful children, Jack, Jessie, and Livvy.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:39-01:46

    No stranger around here, but if you're visiting with us, maybe this is something you don't know about Mark, but something I really appreciate about Mark.

    Pastor Jeff:

    01:46-02:04

    He loves God, he loves God's word, he loves his family, and every time Mark gets up to bring the word, you should have your Bible, you should have your sheet for your notes, and you should have your pencil ready, and you should be ready to write down a lot, because Mark always has a lot to say.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:05-02:08

    So let's welcome him, and let's get ready to get into God's word with him.

    Pastor Jeff:

    02:08-02:09

    Mark Ort, thank you, brother.

    Mark Ort:

    02:10-02:10

    Thank you.

    Mark Ort:

    02:13-02:16

    Thank you for the kind words, Jeff, I appreciate that.

    Mark Ort:

    02:17-02:19

    Why don't we just take a second and pray.

    Mark Ort:

    02:21-02:25

    Lord God, we are about to open up your Word.

    Mark Ort:

    02:27-02:28

    That's no small thing.

    Mark Ort:

    02:29-02:32

    You're going to show us things from your Word.

    Mark Ort:

    02:32-02:40

    It's just an amazing thing to be able to go into this book that you've given us and learn from it.

    Mark Ort:

    02:41-02:52

    And Lord, it's impossible for a mere man to understand your word apart from your Holy Spirit, and infinitely more so to try to teach it.

    Mark Ort:

    02:52-03:00

    And so God, I pray you'd give me just the wherewithal through your spirit to communicate the things that I've learned in your scripture.

    Mark Ort:

    03:01-03:04

    Thank you, Lord, for what you're doing in our church.

    Mark Ort:

    03:05-03:09

    I thank you for all these smiling faces out here that I call my friends.

    Mark Ort:

    03:10-03:16

    And so God, we look to you now and ask that you would do amazing things through your word.

    Mark Ort:

    03:16-03:18

    In Jesus' name, amen.

    Mark Ort:

    03:20-03:29

    If you would turn in your Bibles to 2 Chronicles 14, I like to spend a little bit of time in the Old Testament.

    Mark Ort:

    03:31-03:36

    And I've been asking myself recently, why do you spend time in the Old Testament?

    Mark Ort:

    03:36-03:38

    Like, aren't we under the new covenant now?

    Mark Ort:

    03:39-03:40

    And we are, of course.

    Mark Ort:

    03:41-03:44

    And so I spend time in a New Testament, you guys do too, hopefully.

    Mark Ort:

    03:45-03:46

    Why would we go to the Old Testament?

    Mark Ort:

    03:48-03:51

    Paul in the New Testament actually says why we do that.

    Mark Ort:

    03:52-03:57

    And I have a scripture up here from Romans 15.

    Mark Ort:

    03:58-04:09

    And the apostle Paul says, "For whatever was written in earlier times was written for our instruction, so that through perseverance and the encouragement of the scriptures, we might have hope.

    Mark Ort:

    04:10-04:14

    And so Paul says, and he's talking about the Old Testament here.

    Mark Ort:

    04:15-04:18

    This stuff was written in earlier times and what was it written for?

    Mark Ort:

    04:18-04:19

    It was for our instruction.

    Mark Ort:

    04:20-04:31

    It wasn't written so that we could leaf through the Old Testament and win some kind of Bible Bee contest or something in Sunday school.

    Mark Ort:

    04:32-04:40

    It wasn't written so we could look great in a living room with our parents, like watching Jeopardy or something in a Bible category.

    Mark Ort:

    04:41-04:43

    I mean, it's nice to have some facts, right?

    Mark Ort:

    04:45-04:49

    But the Old Testament here, Paul's saying it was written for our instruction.

    Mark Ort:

    04:49-04:50

    And what's instruction?

    Mark Ort:

    04:51-04:58

    You know, when you send your kids off to school to get instruction, they're not just filling their brains up with facts and mathematical equations and things like that.

    Mark Ort:

    04:59-05:04

    They're doing that so that they can learn and do something with it, right?

    Mark Ort:

    05:04-05:09

    Eventually they're going to maybe go to college a job and be fruitful.

    Mark Ort:

    05:10-05:11

    That's what this word is here.

    Mark Ort:

    05:12-05:13

    It's for your benefit.

    Mark Ort:

    05:13-05:15

    You're going to do something with it.

    Mark Ort:

    05:15-05:16

    It's not just facts.

    Mark Ort:

    05:17-05:21

    And so Paul says, this is why we go to the Old Testament.

    Mark Ort:

    05:21-05:22

    And that's good enough for me.

    Mark Ort:

    05:23-05:29

    I wanna go to the Old Testament and I wanna not just get trivial facts.

    Mark Ort:

    05:29-05:33

    I wanna get something and learn from it and use it.

    Mark Ort:

    05:34-05:38

    Now, when we go to the Old Testament, we have things in there that are complicated.

    Mark Ort:

    05:38-05:45

    There's prophecy, there's genealogies, there's measurements of the temple and things like that.

    Mark Ort:

    05:45-05:47

    And there's a lot of narratives in there.

    Mark Ort:

    05:48-05:59

    And one thing we need to be careful of, and this is just a quick warning before we dive into our passage, is that there's a tendency for some people to do what's called spiritualizing of passages.

    Mark Ort:

    06:00-06:00

    And what does that mean?

    Mark Ort:

    06:01-06:13

    Spiritualizing of a passage is kind of like allegorizing it to fit something that is maybe going on in your life, a circumstance or something.

    Mark Ort:

    06:13-06:20

    And there's a more technical definition of that, but I might be able to explain it better through a couple of examples.

    Mark Ort:

    06:21-06:22

    And tell me if you've ever heard this kind of thing.

    Mark Ort:

    06:24-06:27

    The story of like David and Goliath, for instance.

    Mark Ort:

    06:28-06:36

    David was a small kid, he picks up a small stone, he wings it at Goliath and hits him in the forehead and he kills him, he slays him.

    Mark Ort:

    06:36-06:44

    So when you're a Christian, maybe even a baby Christian will say, you're gonna have giants in your life.

    Mark Ort:

    06:45-06:53

    And the little things that you do, staying in the Word and going to church and things like that, you can slay the giant.

    Mark Ort:

    06:53-06:55

    You can slay the giants in your life.

    Mark Ort:

    06:56-06:59

    That would be an example of spiritualizing the passage.

    Mark Ort:

    06:59-07:03

    That's not what that passage is getting at at all.

    Mark Ort:

    07:04-07:07

    And similarly, how about the Jericho walls?

    Mark Ort:

    07:07-07:11

    And I've heard this, the Israelites, they march around the Jericho walls, you know that story?

    Mark Ort:

    07:12-07:17

    And they blow the trumpets and they yell and stuff, and the walls go crumbling down flat.

    Mark Ort:

    07:18-07:37

    And people in books and on the internet and pastors will say things like, "We need to tear down the walls in our life." "just like the Jericho walls, we need to tear no walls." And I'm looking at that passage and I'm like, "I don't get that at all out of that passage." That's not what these passages are saying at all.

    Mark Ort:

    07:37-07:40

    These passages are talking about how great God is.

    Mark Ort:

    07:41-07:49

    And so when we go to the Old Testament, we don't wanna do stuff like that, but we do wanna get principles from the Old Testament.

    Mark Ort:

    07:49-07:54

    There's principles that we can glean out of the Old Testament that we can apply directly to our lives.

    Mark Ort:

    07:55-08:10

    And that's kind of what we're going after this morning is we're gonna go through this narrative of King Asa, and we're gonna pull out some principles that were characteristic of his life and say, is this something that maybe I could employ in my life?

    Mark Ort:

    08:11-08:12

    Would this work in my life?

    Mark Ort:

    08:13-08:16

    And so let's take a look at the life of King Asa.

    Mark Ort:

    08:17-08:21

    Now, before we get into the scripture, we need to have a little historical background.

    Mark Ort:

    08:22-08:23

    Who in the world was Asa?

    Mark Ort:

    08:23-08:26

    And where does he fit in with history?

    Mark Ort:

    08:27-08:28

    Where does he fit in?

    Mark Ort:

    08:28-08:33

    So this is a lot of stuff on here, but I just want you to get the gist of this, okay?

    Mark Ort:

    08:33-08:39

    If you go back in your Old Testament and learn about Saul, Saul was the first king of Israel, right?

    Mark Ort:

    08:40-08:41

    You know, Israel wanted a king.

    Mark Ort:

    08:42-08:43

    And so they clamored for a king.

    Mark Ort:

    08:43-08:44

    They wanted to be like everybody else.

    Mark Ort:

    08:45-08:48

    And so they get a king and his name's Saul.

    Mark Ort:

    08:48-08:49

    And right after Saul was David.

    Mark Ort:

    08:50-08:51

    And right after David was his son Solomon.

    Mark Ort:

    08:52-08:54

    That was what they called the United Kingdom.

    Mark Ort:

    08:56-09:03

    And right at the end of Solomon's life, there was a split and you can read about this in 1 Kings.

    Mark Ort:

    09:04-09:09

    You can read about what happened with Jeroboam up at the top there and Rehoboam.

    Mark Ort:

    09:09-09:15

    And you can see in the light colors here, you have Israel on the top and Judah on the bottom.

    Mark Ort:

    09:16-09:19

    And the kingdom split at that time.

    Mark Ort:

    09:19-09:28

    And if you read through these historical narratives of the kings and you don't understand about how the kingdom split like that, it can be very confusing.

    Mark Ort:

    09:29-09:39

    I remember a time in my life I'd be reading and I'd be like, you know, they're talking about King Basha and Asa, he's the king too, like, why is there two kings?

    Mark Ort:

    09:39-09:41

    I thought, you know, why are there two kings?

    Mark Ort:

    09:41-09:43

    But this is the reason why.

    Mark Ort:

    09:43-09:48

    You had Israel, they were to the north on your map and Judah was on the south.

    Mark Ort:

    09:49-09:58

    And you can see in the orange there, I have a couple of prophets kind of by date, and it goes through Elisha.

    Mark Ort:

    09:58-10:02

    Now there's more kings after that, I just didn't have room to put them on the screen.

    Mark Ort:

    10:02-10:07

    And you can read all about these kings as you go through 1 and 2 Kings and 1 and 2 Chronicles.

    Mark Ort:

    10:09-10:16

    And 1 and 2 Kings and 1 and 2 Chronicles, I chose 2 Chronicles because the account is a little more in depth.

    Mark Ort:

    10:17-10:19

    There's four chapters spent on Asa.

    Mark Ort:

    10:19-10:22

    and I think there's like a half a chapter in 1 Kings.

    Mark Ort:

    10:22-10:24

    It's a little more detailed account here in Chronicles.

    Mark Ort:

    10:25-10:32

    So you can see in Judah on the bottom, you had Rehoboam, Ahijah, and then Asa.

    Mark Ort:

    10:33-10:36

    And that's about 9, 10 BC, somewhere around that timeframe.

    Mark Ort:

    10:37-10:46

    Now, Asa is pretty important because if you look in Matthew chapter one and look at the genealogy of Jesus, who shows up in that genealogy?

    Mark Ort:

    10:46-10:47

    There's a bunch of kings in there, right?

    Mark Ort:

    10:48-10:49

    And Asa is one of them.

    Mark Ort:

    10:50-10:52

    So Asa has a pretty important place in history.

    Mark Ort:

    10:52-10:58

    He's like the 21st, if I counted right, he's like the 21st great-grandfather of Jesus.

    Mark Ort:

    11:00-11:01

    So kind of an important guy.

    Mark Ort:

    11:02-11:08

    So that's the historical landscape of this guy, Asa.

    Mark Ort:

    11:09-11:12

    And what about the spiritual condition of Israel at the time?

    Mark Ort:

    11:12-11:15

    What was going on spiritually back at this time?

    Mark Ort:

    11:16-11:23

    Well, the children of Israel always had issues with immorality and idolatry.

    Mark Ort:

    11:23-11:25

    That was nothing new to them.

    Mark Ort:

    11:26-11:27

    They always had issues with that.

    Mark Ort:

    11:27-11:29

    And this was no exception.

    Mark Ort:

    11:30-11:35

    Rehoboam, his grandfather, and Abijah, they were wicked guys, Ahijah.

    Mark Ort:

    11:36-11:39

    Different versions of the Bible will say Ahijah or Abijah.

    Mark Ort:

    11:39-11:40

    It's the same guy.

    Mark Ort:

    11:42-11:43

    They were wicked people.

    Mark Ort:

    11:43-11:48

    In fact, all the kings on the north up there were referred to as being wicked.

    Mark Ort:

    11:48-11:57

    We had some good kings on the bottom, like when you get to Josiah, there were some good kings, the people who wanted to honor the Lord.

    Mark Ort:

    11:58-12:00

    And Asa was one of those guys.

    Mark Ort:

    12:01-12:04

    He was one of the guys that wanted to honor the Lord.

    Mark Ort:

    12:04-12:07

    So historically, that's what's going on.

    Mark Ort:

    12:07-12:14

    Spiritually, you had apostasy, you had immorality, rampant, ideology, rampant.

    Mark Ort:

    12:16-12:24

    Now, the focus of this passage, when I went through this, I noticed there was some repeating words in here.

    Mark Ort:

    12:25-12:33

    And when you're trying to interpret scripture, one of the things, if you see repeating words, that's probably something that you ought to take note of.

    Mark Ort:

    12:33-12:44

    And if you go through these four chapters, 14, 15, 16, I'm sorry, just three chapters, nine times, at least nine times, some form of the word seek appears or sought.

    Mark Ort:

    12:45-12:47

    And so I thought, that must be pretty important.

    Mark Ort:

    12:48-12:50

    They're getting to something here by repeating that word.

    Mark Ort:

    12:50-12:57

    So the focus of this passage for when I studied it, appears to be seeking God.

    Mark Ort:

    12:57-13:02

    Now, I don't know if I really need to define seeking, but I'm going to.

    Mark Ort:

    13:03-13:04

    We kind of know what seeking is.

    Mark Ort:

    13:05-13:08

    When I looked it up, it's, we're gonna search intently.

    Mark Ort:

    13:08-13:10

    We're gonna investigate thoroughly.

    Mark Ort:

    13:10-13:14

    Diligently going to great lengths to find in order to obtain.

    Mark Ort:

    13:15-13:21

    I mean, there's no real need to define that any further, is there?

    Mark Ort:

    13:21-13:22

    I mean, you guys know what seeking is.

    Mark Ort:

    13:23-13:25

    Has anybody been on Google this morning?

    Mark Ort:

    13:26-13:27

    Have you been on Google this morning?

    Mark Ort:

    13:27-13:28

    Yeah, some of you guys have been on Google.

    Mark Ort:

    13:29-13:29

    How about this past week?

    Mark Ort:

    13:30-13:33

    Everybody goes to Google when you're searching for stuff, right?

    Mark Ort:

    13:33-13:34

    You know how to seek.

    Mark Ort:

    13:34-13:36

    You know how to look for things.

    Mark Ort:

    13:36-13:38

    And what do we look for?

    Mark Ort:

    13:38-13:42

    We're a culture that's like really intent on information.

    Mark Ort:

    13:42-13:43

    We love information.

    Mark Ort:

    13:43-13:46

    And so we have Google and we go there and we search for stuff.

    Mark Ort:

    13:46-13:49

    You know, last week we weren't here because we were on a little bit of a vacation.

    Mark Ort:

    13:50-13:53

    And I spent hours prepping for this thing.

    Mark Ort:

    13:53-13:53

    Where?

    Mark Ort:

    13:54-13:54

    On Google.

    Mark Ort:

    13:54-13:55

    I was searching.

    Mark Ort:

    13:55-13:58

    I was hunting for the perfect place to stay.

    Mark Ort:

    13:58-14:03

    You know, I'm reading reviews and I'm looking at websites and I'm searching.

    Mark Ort:

    14:03-14:05

    I'm hunting for something in order to obtain.

    Mark Ort:

    14:06-14:10

    And, you know, we do that in other ways like clothing, for example.

    Mark Ort:

    14:10-14:14

    You're going to go to a store and you're looking through all the racks to find the perfect thing.

    Mark Ort:

    14:15-14:17

    You're going from store to store.

    Mark Ort:

    14:17-14:20

    You're trying to find the perfect thing, school shopping or whatever.

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    In fact, we've done that.

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    I've actually gone to Kohl's.

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    I've gone to three different Kohl's department stores in the same day looking for a specific shirt.

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    Has anybody else done that?

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    Am I the only one that's done that?

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    We know what seeking is.

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    You lose your keys or something.

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    It's like, "Oh, okay, I don't really need my keys." Well, you're gonna search, you're gonna turn your house upside down, right?

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    So this is not a foreign concept about seeking or searching.

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    And so let's get into this passage here and kind of discover what's happening with Asa.

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    And let me just give you like Reader's Digest version of this account because it's three chapters long.

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    Typically, like Jeff has said every Sunday is, we do expository preaching here.

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    we go verse by verse.

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    And if you want me to do that, I can, but we're gonna be here a really long time today.

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    So what I decided to do was kind of give you like the Reader's Digest version and hit the high points, and then we'll go back through and fill in the blanks.

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    So Asa, he's the next king in line here after a Bajah or a Hajah.

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    And it says here at the beginning of chapter 14 that Asa did good and right in the sight of the Lord his God.

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    So the writer, inspired by the scripture, said that because he was doing things that were good and right.

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    He was tearing down altars.

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    He's like, "Hey, we're gonna have a reform.

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    We're gonna get rid of this bad stuff." And so he starts ripping down all these altars and then they have a time of peace.

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    And so he says, "Well, I'm gonna fortify the cities now.

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    I'm doing some kind of action here.

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    I'm gonna fortify these cities in case we ever do have a time where there's not peace.

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    We have a little bit of strength behind us.

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    So he's fortifying cities.

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    You got this guy from Ethiopia.

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    He comes against Judah, and he has a million people with him.

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    And Judah, it says, if you total up the numbers, it's like 580,000 or something like that.

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    So there's a little discrepancy in the number of people.

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    Now, is it exactly a million?

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    The scripture does this sometimes, and we do this too.

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    Like, I have a collection of baseball cards that I was trying to get rid of.

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    And I would tell somebody, I have a million baseball cards.

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    Well, I didn't sit there and count them, you know, 999,000, you know, I didn't count them.

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    I just looked at them, I said, I have a million of them.

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    And scripture will do this too.

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    And I don't know if that's what's happening here or not, but it says that this guy from Ethiopia had a million soldiers.

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    Hey, so he's outnumbered.

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    And so immediately he goes to prayer.

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    He prays to his God, and it's a great prayer, and we're gonna look at it in detail.

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    He prays, bam, God answers.

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    He defeats the Ethiopians.

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    And the next chapter, you have this prophet named Azariah.

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    It looks like he's warning him a little bit, like, "Hey, you just had a really big victory here.

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    "So don't get too prideful here, "but you need to stay the course.

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    "You need to do what you're doing.

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    "Be careful, be strong.

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    "Don't lose heart, don't lose courage." And so Asa, he's all pumped up.

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    He's like, yeah, I'm gonna go, I'm gonna take more.

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    We're gonna search the country and we're gonna take more idols down.

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    We're gonna do this right.

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    And so he has the people, he wants them to swear that they're gonna seek the Lord with all their heart and soul.

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    He does some other things with these idols.

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    He throws them, he burns them and throws them into this body of water.

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    And then later on, Asa doesn't, it appears like he's not seeking the Lord.

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    It almost looks like it's a tragic end to his life where this Basha guy wants to come down to Judah and war against him.

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    And so he's like, "Well, how can I finagle this?

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    I'm gonna bribe some people." And he works out this bribery scheme with an alliance of the guy from the North.

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    And he's doing it all on his own power.

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    And then he gets sick and gets a disease in his leg.

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    And you know, when we get sick, Hopefully we're praying to the Lord and saying, "Lord, I have this illness, I have this sickness, "will you please help me?" And Asa doesn't do that.

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    He doesn't consider the Lord and he dies with this disease in his feet.

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    It's like, man, that's kind of a tragic ending.

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    So what do we wanna do with this passage here?

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    Well, on your outline, I don't have any secrets to you about seeking.

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    Like I said, we know what that is.

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    I don't have any tips or advice about, you know, well, if you do this or do that, but I wanna tell you about the person who's seeking God and that person's characteristics, all right?

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    So on your outline, the first one, the person who truly seeks God is one who is serious about it.

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    We gotta be serious about this if we're gonna seek God, right?

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    I'm just gonna read a couple of verses here at the beginning.

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    Asa did what is good and right in the sight of the Lord as God.

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    And he removed the foreign altars and the high places and tore down the sacred pillars, cut down the Asherim, and commanded Judah to seek the Lord God of their fathers and to observe the law and the commandment.

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    He also removed the high places and the incense altars from the cities of Judah, and the kingdom was undisturbed under him.

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    And then there were a couple of passages about when he's fortifying the land, but I'm just gonna focus on tearing these altars down.

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    This was a big deal, tearing these altars down.

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    It was a huge deal.

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    If you think about who the Asherah is, or the Asherim, Asherim is just a plural word for Asherah.

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    And Asherah was the goddess of fertility, the false goddess, of course.

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    She was the false goddess of fertility, and she was depicted on statues.

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    Now, the Bible doesn't say how she was depicted, but we have archaeological evidence of these Asherah.

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    And those findings, it shows that Asherah is depicted as a naked, pregnant woman.

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    And this was kind of like their good luck charm, I guess.

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    You know, like we have this goddess of fertility.

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    Look, she's pregnant, she must be fertile.

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    So we can't part with her.

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    Well, Asa comes in and he's like, you know, he tears this stuff down.

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    high places, you know, there were mountains that they would put these poles on and try to get them higher. And this picture, you know, this statue of Asherah was on the top of this thing, and they would look to that as their good luck charm. So he's tearing this stuff down. So he's acting in a way that's serious. It's like he's serious about this.

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    We're not leaving this stuff here. We're getting rid of it. They're steeped in this idolatry.

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    and his grandfather and all the cultural things going on, and he's like, "We're doing away with it.

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    "We're tearing it down." So he's demonstrating his seriousness about it.

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    The people were commanded to seek God.

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    He commanded Judah to seek the Lord God of their fathers.

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    Did you know seeking God was actually a command?

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    It's commanded throughout scripture.

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    And you can write a couple of these references down, one from the Old Testament, one from the New, and you might be familiar with these.

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    Isaiah 55, six says, "Seek the Lord while he may be found.

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    Call upon him while he is near." So he's not suggesting you seek him, he's telling you to seek him, he's commanding you to.

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    And to not do that is disobedience.

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    In Matthew 7, seven, it's the famous ask, seek and knock passage.

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    And you guys can look that up.

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    You can go on Google and do a search, right?

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    And look for seek.

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    And you'll find it's all through the scriptures.

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    So to be serious about seeking God would mean that we're rushing to be obedient in that.

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    It would mean, if we're seeking God, it would mean that there's no half-heartedness in this.

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    It's a careful and diligent search.

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    There's no half-heartedness about this at all.

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    So first thing is we're serious about it.

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    The second point is a person who truly seeks God it personal. When Asa prayed in verse 11, listen to this prayer, this is this is a great prayer. In fact it might be one that's worthy of memorizing I think. Asa called to the Lord his God and said, "Lord, there is no one beside you to help in the battle between the powerful and those who have no strength." And he's like getting ready to get bombarded by these people from Ethiopia. And so So it's almost like he doesn't have a chance.

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    He's outnumbered almost by double.

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    So he says, "So help us, O Lord, our God, "for we trust in you, and in your name "have come against this multitude, O Lord.

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    "You are our God.

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    "Let not man prevail against you." So do you see the personal effects here?

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    First of all, he's going to God.

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    So he sees him as his father.

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    But look at the personal pronouns in here.

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    We have His God, our God, our God, repeated, help us.

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    It's this relationship that He has.

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    And you think about like your husband or your wife.

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    You know, when I talk about Kristen at work or whatever, I talk about my wife, she belongs to me, we're in relationship together.

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    my daughter, my son, my other son.

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    That's how we talk, right?

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    We're in relationship with these people, so they're ours, they belong to us.

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    We're in this vital relationship together.

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    That's what Asa's doing here.

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    He didn't like refer to God as like, oh, the big guy upstairs, you know, the big man.

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    That drives me crazy when I hear people talk like that.

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    It's like, he's not the big man upstairs, okay?

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    He's Father God, and He's my Father.

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    This really could be a model prayer here, I think.

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    Help us.

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    He's like, help us, oh Lord, our God.

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    We trust in you.

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    He's seeking God here, right?

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    He's making it personal.

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    So not only is he serious about it, but he's making it personal.

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    And the third blank on your outline, A person who truly seeks God perseveres in their seeking.

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    And you'll see that in chapter 15.

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    This prophet, Azariah, was coming to warn Asa.

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    You know, he just had this great victory over this Ethiopian.

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    God heard the prayer.

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    He answers the prayer and routs the Ethiopians, destroys them.

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    And it's like, wow, God showed up.

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    You know, all these people, and these million people, and you had this other army of 500 and some thousand people, and God showed up and destroyed it.

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    It says in verse 14, "They destroyed all the cities.

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    "They struck down those who own livestock." I mean, this was a route, and it was from God.

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    He answered this personal prayer.

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    And so, Azariah comes and says, "Now the Spirit of God came to Azariah, the son of Odette, and he went out to meet Asa and said to him, "Listen to me, Asa and Judah and Benjamin.

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    The Lord is with you when you are with him.

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    And if you seek him, he will let you find him.

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    But if you forsake him, he will forsake you." In their distress, in verse four, they turned to the Lord God of Israel and they sought him and he let them find him.

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    And right after that, in verse seven, Azariah says to Asa, "But you be strong and do not lose courage for there is reward in your work.

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    And he's telling them, okay, you just need to keep doing what, don't lose heart.

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    He's on a high right now.

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    It's probably not like he's not gonna lose heart, but you know how it is.

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    There's ebbs and flows.

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    We're on a high point.

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    We get down the hill and rollercoaster ride kind of thing.

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    And he says to him, I want you to be strong.

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    Do not lose courage.

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    There's reward for your work.

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    And so Asa encourages him, one, against possible pride, and two, he gives him a charge to keep up his reforms and keep seeking the Lord.

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    So as Christians, things come along and bring us down.

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    Like, what are we gonna do, give up?

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    Are you serious?

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    Like, we're not giving up.

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    We have God on our side, right?

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    We're not giving up.

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    And that's what he's telling him here.

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    You need to persevere because be strong, do not lose courage, why?

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    Because there is a reward for your work.

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    You're gonna be rewarded for that perseverance.

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    And keep that word reward in your mind just for a second, because we're gonna come back to that toward the end here.

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    The person who seeks God is, he's serious about it.

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    He makes it personal, he perseveres in it, right?

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    Now, the fourth thing is, he's serious about it.

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    Am I allowed to put two series in here, Jeff?

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    Okay, no more series after this, right?

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    Are you serious about that?

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    I think this is in here for us because the writer wants to emphasize that this is serious, this is serious business, okay?

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    So Asa, he takes courage, he takes encouragement with this, and he's like, you know what?

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    We're gonna go take some more idols down.

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    We're gonna go throughout the country.

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    And you see that happening here in verse eight.

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    He took courage and removed the abominable idols from the land of Judah and Benjamin and from the cities which he had captured in the hill country of Ephraim.

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    He restored the altar of the Lord.

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    Let's keep going down here.

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    He sacrificed to the Lord.

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    So that's something serious.

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    God requires certain sacrifice or whatever in Old Testament accounts here, that he's sacrificing 700 oxen and 7,000 sheep.

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    That's a lot.

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    I mean, he's serious about this, right?

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    Now, here's the thing that really struck me when I read through this part is, if you get on to verse 16, it says, "He also removed Maahka, the mother of King Asa," which actually is his grandmother.

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    Sometimes the Old Testament uses language like that.

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    We'll talk about their fathers, but it wasn't actually their father, it was like their ancestors.

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    This was his grandmother, actually.

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    She was the queen mother.

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    She was removed from her post as queen mother because she had made a horrid image as an Asherah.

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    And Asa cut down the horrid image and crushed it and burned it in the Brook Kidron.

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    This would be the equivalent of Kate and William, the prince and the princess, taking down Queen Elizabeth.

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    Do you realize what a big deal that would be?

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    I mean, the whole world would be in an uproar.

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    You can't do that.

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    She's the queen.

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    She's the queen.

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    And so he's taken her down because she made a horrid image of Asherah, and he cut this thing down and he crushed it and he burned it in the Brook Kidron.

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    Now, we can pass over that passage really quickly and think, oh, it's the brook.

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    This is really cool.

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    You need to do a study on the Kidron Valley.

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    'Cause the Kidron Valley is, it's a ravine outside of Jerusalem.

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    And you can go there right now and walk through the Kidron Valley.

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    It's still there.

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    The river's still there.

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    But back then, it was such a steep ravine that the bottom of that ravine would never see the sunlight.

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    the Sun wouldn't get there because the ravine was so was so so steep. You've probably been in places like that it's like man this place never gets Sun. Well this this is what that place was like and so what people did was whenever their relatives died or if a criminal would die they would take their relatives and they would take them down there and they would bury them there and they would take criminals in some places and just throw them down there and that's land and people had like this eerie feeling about that, about that place.

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    It was like, I don't want to go there.

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    It's like, they actually called it the valley of death.

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    And some of the theologians that I read believe that whenever David was writing Psalm 23, and he said, "Yea, though I walk through the valley "of the shadow of death," that he could have been referring to that place.

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    Like, when you walk through there, it's not the most fun place to walk through.

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    There's hints of dead things, and things that are in there are like cast off forever.

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    And so it was kind of spooky.

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    And so, you know, David, when he wrote that, was he referring to this valley?

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    Likely.

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    Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for thou art with me.

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    Why do I say all that?

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    Because when he threw that stuff, the idol that was burned up and he threw that in there, what he was saying was to everybody around him, like, "This stuff is dead to me.

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    I'm done with it.

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    We're getting rid of it.

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    It's down here where nobody wants to go and we're done with it." It would be a good visual for the people to see.

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    So he was serious about it.

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    And when you're serious about going after God, You do whatever it takes.

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    Do you think that you're gonna experience the fullness of God if you're only half in?

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    Do you think that?

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    I mean, hardly.

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    There's no way that we can experience God's fullness if we're only in this part way.

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    We gotta be serious about it.

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    A.W. Tozer said this, "How tragic that we in this dark day have had our seeking done by our teachers." I mean, are we content with letting other people do your seeking for you?

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    Seeking is not just for me, it's not just for your pastor, it's not just for the guy on Word FM, the preacher, it's just not for them.

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    Seeking is a commandment for all of us and we need to be seeking Him and be serious about it, 100%.

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    Just like Asa, getting rid of his idols, that's what we need to be doing.

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    We don't have Asherahs in our homes, I don't think, We have other idols in our life, right?

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    We need to be like Asa and throw them away, get rid of them.

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    They're dead to us, they're gone.

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    And this last point here, a person who truly seeks God is one who is not without flaws.

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    To me, this was like the most encouraging thought from the whole passage.

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    Here you have a guy where I read a lot of stuff about Asa, And I think Asa gets a bad rap, because at the end of his life, he bribes this ally of Bashar, Ben-Hadad, the king of Aram.

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    He has an alliance with the king up north.

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    And so Asa comes in and he says, you know what?

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    I'm going to bribe you, and you're going to break your alliance with him.

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    And it worked.

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    I mean, he defeated-- he carried away things and was able to have some victory here, but he did it without God.

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    He did it in his own power. He did it without the Lord and he didn't seek God here. And so, you know, the things that I read, people were crushing him about that.

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    And you can see here where this, this seer, Hanani, the seer came to Asa, and this is is in 16, verse 7.

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    The seer came to Asa, king of Judah, and said to him, "Because you have relied on the king of Aram and not relied on the Lord your God, therefore the army of the king of Aram has escaped out of your hand.

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    Were not the Ethiopians and Lubam an immense army?" He's referring back to this big victory that happened.

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    "Because you have relied on the Lord, he delivered them into your hand." So you relied on the Lord back then, but now you didn't.

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    "For the eyes of the Lord," in verse nine, "move to and fro throughout the earth, "that he may strongly support "those whose heart is completely his.

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    "You have acted foolishly in this.

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    "Indeed, you from now on will surely have wars." Asa was angry with this and he put the guy in prison.

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    And if you go on to the last verse, I believe it is, two verses up from the end.

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    "The 39th year of his reign, Asa became diseased in his feet.

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    His disease was severe, and yet in his disease, he did not seek the Lord, but the physicians." And I'm looking at that, and I'm like, this was a hard passage for me.

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    And there's some other hard things in here that you guys need to go home, and I'm giving you homework.

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    You can read this and study it.

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    There's a couple of things we need to wrestle with in this passage that we don't have time for today.

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    But here's Asa, he doesn't seek the Lord.

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    He does this bribery thing.

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    He doesn't seek the Lord in his illness, and he died with his feet disease.

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    And I had a problem with that.

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    I thought Asa was seeking God, and now he isn't.

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    So who does Asa remind me of?

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    He reminds me of me.

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    He reminds me of us.

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    We do this, right?

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    We're seeking God, we're on fire, we're doing our disciplines, we're praying, we're studying, we're doing the things.

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    And then all of a sudden it's like, we do something and it looks like, oh, I thought you were seeking God.

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    Like, what are you doing?

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    It's the flaws that we have, it's the faults that we have.

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    And I'm not excusing that, but I'm saying that we're just like this guy.

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    And so for somebody to come along and say, well, Asa abandoned God and Asa, He really wasn't sincere, he wasn't serious.

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    I think they may be wrong with that, because Asa is just like us.

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    And the reason I can say that is just not because of what I think.

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    But take a look at a couple of verses, alright?

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    If you take a look at 2 Chronicles 15, 17, it says, The high places were not removed from Israel.

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    We got a problem there, right?

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    Because I thought they removed the high places.

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    Well, he did remove the high places in Judah, but Israel was to the north, remember?

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    So I don't think he had jurisdiction over that.

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    And so I don't have a problem with that.

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    It's like he didn't remove those places because he wasn't up there.

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    But it says, "Nevertheless, Asa's heart was blameless all his days." And there's a similar verse in 1 Kings 15, 14, you can just write that down.

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    It says that he was wholly devoted all his days.

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    Now, how can he be wholly devoted and blameless in his heart all his days?

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    And then at the end of his life, he's not.

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    That appears to be a contradiction, but it's not.

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    And let me tell you why.

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    This Hanani guy, it says that he was a seer.

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    I don't know much about Hanani.

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    Now, I don't know, was he a...

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    It doesn't say much about him in here.

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    Is he a self-proclaimed seer?

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    What is he?

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    And what's a seer?

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    Is it really a prophet of God?

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    We don't know a lot about Hanani, but I can tell you one thing, Hanani doesn't see one thing.

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    He doesn't see Ace's heart.

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    The writer of this passage, by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, God sees the heart, right?

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    And God, I believe God, it says here that he was blameless all his days.

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    Now, blamelessness isn't perfection, right?

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    We can't be perfect.

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    Blamelessness is a characteristic of our, it's our character, right?

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    We live a blameless life, but we're not perfect.

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    The writer of Scripture here, the author of this passage, says that his heart was blameless all his days.

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    That gives me hope because when I screw up, when I mess up, yes, I'm seeking God, but I messed up in a certain situation.

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    That doesn't make me a non-Christian.

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    That doesn't make me going to hell.

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    It makes me flawed, right?

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    I'm a flawed human being.

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    And that gives me hope because if there's hope for somebody like an Asa, God saw his heart, there's hope for us, right?

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    There's hope for us flawed people, how?

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    By faith.

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    Now, remember when I asked you to remember that thing about the reward?

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    Here's where that comes into play.

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    And we're gonna wrap this up with this.

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    In Hebrews 11, verse six, By faith, we're able to please God, it says.

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    In 11.6 in Hebrews, it says, "Without faith, it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him." Well, what's the reward?

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    It's God Himself.

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    When we seek God, there's a lot of benefits to seeking God.

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    I mean, if you think about what we get when we seek God by faith, and what is that?

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    I mean, if you're here and you're like, "What's he talking about faith?" You know, we're sinners, we're sinners and we're on our way to hell, and God intervened.

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    He sent Jesus Christ to be the substitute.

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    There had to be a penalty for our sin, right?

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    And so Jesus Christ came and died on the cross to bear the burden, to pay the penalty for our sin.

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    And we have to choose to accept that.

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    We accept it by faith.

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    And this is what's pleasing to God.

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    We put our faith, our hope, our trust in Christ alone, only Him, not in the church, not in our tradition, not in our family, not in some creed.

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    We put our faith alone in Jesus Christ.

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    And by that faith, we're able to please God.

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    And He rewards us with Himself.

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    We get other things.

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    I mean, we get rewards like, we get Jesus Christ, we get heaven, we get a fellowship of believers that care about us and love us and the salvation of our souls, eternal life, a place.

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    I mean, all the beautiful things God gives us, but primarily the reward is God himself.

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    So I ask you a couple of these questions here.

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    Is everything going okay for you?

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    I mean, are you in a point of your life where you're having victory?

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    And we have those, right?

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    And that's great.

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    That doesn't exempt you from seeking God.

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    You still need to seek Him.

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    But I know that there's a lot of people in my circles and in this church that struggle with different things.

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    Is there a relationship problem?

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    We need to seek God in that.

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    It sounds pat, it sounds trite.

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    You need to get serious about it.

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    We talked about that, right?

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    If you're having a relationship problem, seek God in it and see what he has to say about it.

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    What about a health issue?

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    You got a health issue?

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    You got some relatives?

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    I have relatives that have health issues.

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    Are we trying to do that on our own?

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    Or are we seeking God in it?

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    We need to get our face buried in the scripture, looking for God in here.

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    And we need to be praying regularly, heartfelt prayers.

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    You know, when I said I don't have any secrets to seeking God, I mean, that is what we do.

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    We seek God through the reading and the study of his scripture, pouring over it and going to him in prayer.

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    He's right there.

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    He's waiting for us to talk to him.

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    So we need to seek him in that.

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    Jobs or financial issues, pursue the Lord, go after him 100%, not 50%, not 70%, not even 99%.

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    We need to seek Him in that.

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    What about a spiritual battle?

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    A wayward child or something like that.

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    We need to go hard after God and His strength.

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    If we seek God, what do you think we're gonna get?

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    We're gonna get God.

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    So in your victory and in your disappointments, God will let you find Him if you seek Him.

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    Why don't we bow our heads and pray?

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    Heavenly Father, Lord, there is no possible way that I could do this passage justice in 40 minutes.

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    And Lord, as we take the things that we've learned this morning, just about Asa and his seriousness about seeking you and his perseverance, or at least his encouragement to persevere, making it personal, Lord, we wanna come to you and make this seeking a personal thing.

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    God, help us with those things.

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    We're weak.

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    We have our flaws as we discovered.

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    Lord, if Asa could seek you, despite his flaws, certainly we can attempt to seek you.

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    And Lord, I pray that we would be all in with the seeking, that we would put aside everything that distracts us, that we would throw away the things that dishonor you and that drag us down and that push us away from you and push us in another direction.

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    Lord, I pray that today would be the day that we do away with these things, that we would set our gaze upon you and seek you with all of our hearts because you promised us that if we seek you With our whole heart, you will be found by us.

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    And we thank you for that, Lord.

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    Lord, I wanna thank you for the blood of Jesus Christ that cleanses us from our unrighteousness.

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    Lord, he's the reason why we're even breathing and the reason why we exist.

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    So Lord, we thank you for him.

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    Lord, forgive us of our sins and our trespasses, Lord.

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    Lord, we're weak and we need you every hour.

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    Thank you, Lord, for loving us.

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    Lord, I thank you for the opportunity to share from your word.

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    And I thank you for this church that I love very much.

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    And Lord, I thank you for them.

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    Bless them, Lord.

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    Lord, as we sing our last song, I pray that we would sing it with all of our hearts, that we would bring you glory through our voices and through our attitudes.

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    Thank you, thank you so much, Lord, for what you're doing in our lives.

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    In Jesus' name, amen.

Small Group Questions (Whole Group):
Read 2 Chronicles 14-16

  1. Christians live under the New Covenant. So why is it important to study the Old Testament?

  2. Describe what 'seeking God' really means?

  3. What obstacles are in your way that prevent you from a serious pursuit of God? What kind of plan will you put into place to change that?

  4. How can other believers help you in your quest to seek the Lord? In what ways will you help them in their quest?

Breakout Questions:
Pray for one another to act on their plan to intentionally seek God this week. Hold each other accountable in this plan.